UNDERSTANDING, RECOGNISING AND TRANSCENDING THE FATHER WOUND |

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Healing the father wound is key to our personal transformation. This a video to watch all the way through.
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@BelleMaria267
@BelleMaria267 6 ай бұрын
My mother never apologized for keeping me away from my father. All she ever said was that it was the best thing to do. I feel that should have been my choice when I got old enough to make it. Then she also said that he didn’t want to have you; he wanted her to get an abortion. Who tells their daughter that?! And yet, she gets an attitude with me for being upset and not agreeing with her. We haven’t talked in five years and I’m at peace with it. I like what Pastor Blakes said about God letting me go through this so I could help others. I’m beginning to think this is my life’s purpose. I’m studying, reading and researching so much on this subject. Pastor Blakes has been the influence for my pushing myself to understand this part of my life. I’m forever grateful for his teachings and wisdom. God bless you. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
@nedraford5461
@nedraford5461 Ай бұрын
God gave me sooo many substitute fathers that have helped me in this area...Bishop Blakes is one of them!
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 2 жыл бұрын
Abandonment caused me to gling to unavailable men...I always tried to change or control the outcome that never happened just left me more broken... Thank God for revelation🙏🙏🙏 Thank God for wholeness!
@tonimaria2100
@tonimaria2100 2 жыл бұрын
My personal perspective is that we all have a True Almighty Father Creator that has chosen for us a biological father that is like adoptive father.
@ChristManifestee316
@ChristManifestee316 2 жыл бұрын
This really blessed me. It reminded me that God is my Father. From I was with a young girl, I struggled with a lot of things and God always told me that he would take care of me. So when Chengi said God told her “I’ve always been your dad” that really resonated with me.
@nedraford5461
@nedraford5461 Ай бұрын
Bishop Blakes dropped soooo many gems 💎. Thank you Bishop!
@markesabowers1567
@markesabowers1567 2 жыл бұрын
I understand why I've been in toxic whimpy clowns in crowns.lam grateful to understanding my father wound also no longer mad or angry at my daddy because he as well has a father wound so I forgive him an pray for him inviting God to heal our relationship ..🙏❤💜
@kcraig9950
@kcraig9950 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus as a therapist is beautiful
@deas555
@deas555 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree!!!
@the2ndround
@the2ndround Ай бұрын
We are on a mission!
@dtaylor4123
@dtaylor4123 9 ай бұрын
16:11 so spot on!!! Self esteem is not imagery 😭
@ChristManifestee316
@ChristManifestee316 2 жыл бұрын
He said “We tend to try make up for lack of real self-esteem with imagery” THAT PART!!!
@lightworker9517
@lightworker9517 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful for the healing and transcending of the father wound. May all of us turn our focus inward and go to the Heavenly Father to fill all voids 🙏🏾
@loisevora2717
@loisevora2717 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, my father died when I was one year old, so I never had a father influence. I was raised by a single mother. She did the best she could.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear it 🌸
@loisevora2717
@loisevora2717 2 жыл бұрын
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy Thanks, it was a long time ago. I am 61 now.
@giannab7807
@giannab7807 Жыл бұрын
My dad died when I was two. I was raised by a single mother and two older sisters
@thisismystone9658
@thisismystone9658 2 жыл бұрын
Today, I totally understand him.
@beingunique9495
@beingunique9495 2 жыл бұрын
This was just golden
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@cherylalexander6513
@cherylalexander6513 Жыл бұрын
Really. Enjoy pastor Blake very good teaching
@alesiashavis2761
@alesiashavis2761 2 жыл бұрын
Never had the Father and Daughter talk...
@tinypea
@tinypea 2 ай бұрын
I really appriecait all of you for all kf your advise and love and kniwledge i KNOW this alone has ooenes up many healing that me and soooooooo many mkre need thank u all so much. You all deserve thee biggest blessings for givong us such thank you all❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@yaabrayie
@yaabrayie 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting patiently for the pearls of wisdom to drop. God bless you Bishop and Chengi
@ulricka2131
@ulricka2131 2 жыл бұрын
Healing is possible🙏🏾
@tammyewert1712
@tammyewert1712 Жыл бұрын
Not everyone gets any father type figure that they overlook. At 50, I have not seen that The way I came to God a few years ago shows me that God is real. When I prayed, I could tell somehow that God was a safe place in a way that I had never seen before. It wasn't about what I could say or do to win his approval, it was all about his approval generously given without earning it. It was something new to me. It's true old habits die hard. My default is to fear God will get tired of me and abandon me. I get on that hamster wheel and run myself exhausted trying to keep up with life's demands hoping to please him so he won't tell me I am selfish. It's at those times I burn out that I get disapointed and loose faith.
@kellyamouzou7278
@kellyamouzou7278 Жыл бұрын
My favorite surrogate Father, thank you both so much. Chengi I discovered you on Sir Blakes' channel. I thank you both for answering God's call to help His children heal and create healthy loving families 🙏🏽💝
@panyinvee1508
@panyinvee1508 2 жыл бұрын
This deep and Golden. Thank you Chengi and Bishop 🙏🙏
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 Жыл бұрын
Amen RC Blake's has way with word's and wisdom
@wangui0011
@wangui0011 10 ай бұрын
This is so Priceless!!!
@rhemawilliams4983
@rhemawilliams4983 2 жыл бұрын
Chengi Bishop is so correct. Everything that you both spoke of to indicate that a father wound with a woman is present with the exception of sexual relationships I can definitely identify with it. I still struggle with trust and I suffer from rejection and abandonment. Thank God for both your ministries. Because of them am healing and transforming into who God wants me to be.God's blessings. Thank you!
@ruthkaunda3343
@ruthkaunda3343 6 ай бұрын
Amen
@alesiashavis2761
@alesiashavis2761 2 жыл бұрын
So so very true...thank you Pastor Blakes, just ordered Queenology. Going to order all your books.
@Christines_letters
@Christines_letters 2 жыл бұрын
Chengi I love you and I can't wait to join the black swan community and buy some courses.
@ultimateoptimist5217
@ultimateoptimist5217 2 жыл бұрын
The fantastic duo....love you guys...God bless ✝️🙏❤️🌹
@nursekim6399
@nursekim6399 2 жыл бұрын
I love the intro he gave Chengi and I agree x100!!!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@ldwoods3237
@ldwoods3237 2 жыл бұрын
God knew I needed this 🙏🏽
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️🌸
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 2 жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful mission! Thank you!
@Christines_letters
@Christines_letters 2 жыл бұрын
This gives me so much hope.
@anitranovak2459
@anitranovak2459 2 жыл бұрын
A Totally Soul Blessing🥰🙌🏾❤️
@ayandal4744
@ayandal4744 2 жыл бұрын
This is a blessing 💖
@Dr.J1972
@Dr.J1972 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Bishop Blakes and Chengi.
@irenejag6717
@irenejag6717 2 жыл бұрын
My God! This was fire 🔥! I thank you both very very much.
@jsh3223
@jsh3223 2 жыл бұрын
I’m grateful for you both and this is such help in my healing journey 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@angelawilliams4680
@angelawilliams4680 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Powerful breakthrough. Thank you for the knowledge. Now I undertand the work that needs to be done.
@TheRobinAskew
@TheRobinAskew Жыл бұрын
Lord you spoke on it today Mr. Blakes! Wow!
@coachedwina_blackswan9903
@coachedwina_blackswan9903 2 жыл бұрын
This information was so priceless. Please share around to many 🥰
@primrosethompson605
@primrosethompson605 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. What a conversation!
@Christines_letters
@Christines_letters 2 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful
@annywalessa6433
@annywalessa6433 2 жыл бұрын
This was deep! I thank God for both of you. Chengi, I have a similar relationship with my parents ... so much love for my dad but lots of hurt uncovered recently. Thanking God for healing and wisdom through virtual spiritual coaches like both of you 🙏
@yoki1777
@yoki1777 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️✨This was a pleasure to listen to!!! Absolutely beautiful conversation! Please have him back on this channel soon.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
Will do xx
@yoki1777
@yoki1777 2 жыл бұрын
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy yayyy awesome!!! 💗💗💗
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 Жыл бұрын
Amen I love listening to him because he really deep get right to cord of things he has extraordinary gift of healing to do many broken woman's
@dawney5467
@dawney5467 2 жыл бұрын
Omg this is such a beautiful conversation. I'm feeling healing begin just by listening. Praise be to God. Thank you both
@altheathomas4930
@altheathomas4930 2 жыл бұрын
So powerful
@fabiolalimpias394
@fabiolalimpias394 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for both of you 🙏❤
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy Жыл бұрын
You are welcome and loved 🥰
@fabiolatelisma9508
@fabiolatelisma9508 2 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful
@KD-qc5fr
@KD-qc5fr 2 жыл бұрын
Such a great segment
@misguidedpearls7456
@misguidedpearls7456 2 жыл бұрын
Love RC
@barefootmustang777
@barefootmustang777 2 жыл бұрын
I adore both of you.Thank you so much for your program.Just what I needed to hear!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️🌸
@moriah9132
@moriah9132 2 жыл бұрын
This is good. Being unaware of the father wound wreaked havoc in my life. I’m picking up the pieces though by the grace of God. I hope more women find this video.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
🫶🏾🫶🏾
@Rwissam1987
@Rwissam1987 2 жыл бұрын
Very valuable information! Can you link the video where you talked on his chanel. I'm curious to hear more from you on this topic. I know it must have been so insightful as usual! Thank you so much for helping us!
@kimberlysantos5819
@kimberlysantos5819 2 жыл бұрын
You guys. This was amazing. Thank you for your obedience and vulnerability. Thank you for bringing hope to what often feels like a hopeless situation. Gods really worked through this so much.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 🌸
@raquelt5342
@raquelt5342 2 жыл бұрын
Chengi....THIS WAS BEAUTIFUL...I've never cried so much in any video. Every minute of this I so needed. Hearing you say Jehovah, Abba, and Father is so beautiful to hear. I'm saving this video forever. Thank you SO VERY MUCH TO YOU BOTH for this
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome sweetheart. Bless you so much ❤️❤️🌸
@joycerobinson6177
@joycerobinson6177 2 жыл бұрын
this is goid
@joycerobinson6177
@joycerobinson6177 2 жыл бұрын
Gold
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@yaabrayie
@yaabrayie 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Bishop. Truly grateful Chengi. What are the requirements for joining the mentoring group, Bishop?
@thisismystone9658
@thisismystone9658 2 жыл бұрын
I tried listening to RC back then I failed to understand him but watching him here today, I am asking myself why I wasn't understanding.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s just the timing. Your spirit was ready to hear him.
@pileshongwe7827
@pileshongwe7827 7 ай бұрын
I agree it’s timing i also came across the bishops channel years ago but i cudnt understand his teaching but now i fully understand him and can relate with most of his teaching and i’m healing, i’m ready to hear him
@LGCM2024
@LGCM2024 2 жыл бұрын
PROFOUND
@Fathma77
@Fathma77 2 жыл бұрын
This conversation was so insightful; thank you, thank you!! Is the father wound more prevalent than the mother wound? Is one more prevalent in women versus men?
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
@blackswanrelationshipacademy 2 жыл бұрын
It’s very individual to each woman. Often we have both but the mother wound often goes unaddressed because of the goddess status of the mother.
@Kianarevision
@Kianarevision 2 жыл бұрын
Wait! Another one!? What did I do to deserve this?😂💕🙏🏾 Thank you
@Kianarevision
@Kianarevision 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, this was the one I watched on the Bishops page. Lol I love your content Chengi. When you and the Bishop get together it's pure goodness. I get why you call each other twins. Two great people. Thank you for what you are doing.🥰
@cherylalexander6513
@cherylalexander6513 Жыл бұрын
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