Practical Frugal Lessons Our Parents Taught Us

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In this video, we share practical, frugal lessons our parents taught us.
Rising inflation and soaring prices have a lot of people questioning we can learn from generations who went through trying times.
Mom and Dad lived through The Great Depression and the rationing of World War II, forever changing the way that they viewed and handled money.
Living frugally is about more than learning to save money. It's about a lifestyle of planning ahead, buying quality (instead of quantity), and being thankful. Mom and Dad not only saved money, they taught us how to care for others in meaningful ways, take care of family, and work hard (and then rest).
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@CreepingThyme 2 жыл бұрын

IPhone 6s, 2013 car, dumb tv and Proud of it because I’M DEBT FREE!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@michelleraney3577 2 жыл бұрын

They lived by the well known saying, "Use it up, Wear it out, Make it do, or do without." My grandmother was born in 1920. She was always extremely frugal. We all thought she had what she needed, but not a lot of extra money. When she died 6 years ago we found out she had almost $200,000 in the bank! I miss her everyday!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

She was one of those special people who made up what Tom Brokaw called, "The Greatest Generation." They were great savers!

@kerryjames4026 2 жыл бұрын

I have a very cheap simple Telstra essential phone unless it's U fixable it stays

@carlenegilstrap2871 2 жыл бұрын

My 2 aunts married 2 brothers too. My parents grew up during the Depression. Fast food growing up was eating out of the boot of the car from a cooler at a roadside park table.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

How about that!?

@janfoster9583 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds as if Mom and Dad were not only frugal, they were environmentalists. Nice how well those two blend together.

@mariandexter7025 2 жыл бұрын

We had double cousins too. Now two of my granddaughters, sisters, married brothers. We all lived frugally. There was no other way. My parents lived below the poverty level until after they only had one child left at home. Scrimping was a way of life.

@traceyobrien8410 2 жыл бұрын

While I have liked many of your videos, this is the one that has been the most thought-provoking for me. Not only were Larry's parents very good about frugality, but they also showed by example such things as priorities and what is truly important in life.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Tracey!

@janefromthecountry1820 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed with Tracey O'Brien comment. Well said! 👍🏻

@zoilacruz1843 Жыл бұрын

Agreed 👏🏼

@LorettaNance 11 ай бұрын

Listening to you speak so lovingly and respectfully of your parents heartwarming.

@sharenp3839 5 ай бұрын

Just watched this again, would love to see more of these❤️

@tamarasmith288 2 жыл бұрын

My mother would re-use butter tubs and any other container that would work for leftovers rather than buy Tupperware etc..

@samanthahardy9903 2 жыл бұрын

I'm in the UK and remember my mother darning all our socks, including my father's as money was tight in our family. She used old panty hose stuffed with over darned old socks that couldn't be worn anymore to use as draught stoppers. My father used to go dumpster diving and found a lot of household items which needed minor repairs to them. Everything from vaccuum cleaners to irons and washing machines. My father was an electrician and my mother called him tight for never buying anything new. However, I always classed my father as frugal. His parents were poor by todays standards and I remember my grandmother having a couple of ducks in her back yard. I stayed with her for a while when I was pregnant with my first child and as nobody was eating the duck eggs I came up with a plan to help my grandmother. I went to the local market and went to the meat stall plus the fruit and veg stall and negotiated a barter to exchange for the duck eggs. As I was heavily pregnant at the time I couldn't carry all the meat and produce back to my grandmother's house and one of the stall holders offered to drive me back. When we got to my grandmother's house and off loaded the items we had batered for my grandmother asked me as a joke if I had started exchanging favors with a soldier. She grew up during WW2 and I got the joke. It was about the only time she ever made a joke about anything. I really miss her and wish I was able to have a couple of ducks in a yard but don't have a yard. I hate throwing out vegetable peelings as they could feed the ducks just like my grandmother used to do. I miss my grandmother and my father but I learned a lot from them. My mother and daughter have, to a certain extent called me tight like my father and grandmother but I consider myself as frugal and don't live beyond my means like I used to. Now if finances are a struggle I think to myself, "What would my father and grandmother do?" My grandmother always went by the principle of, "If you need it, you will save up for it. If you can't save up for it then you don't need it." My father went by the principle of, "If something is broken, then fix it. If you can't fix it, then get another one second hand that does work." My mother's principle is, " If you can make it yourself then make it. If you don't know how to make it, then buy it when you have saved up for it, otherwise you don't need it."

@LizKrause 2 жыл бұрын

The problem with things these days is it’s hard to know what is good quality. Even more costly items don’t last as long as they used to. Things are made to break so you have to buy it again in a couple years

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

That does present a challenge. We buy a lot of old furniture and such. I try and research items before buying to avoid some pitfalls.

@mudpyz 2 жыл бұрын

like toasters - my pet peeve - they last only a couple of years like you said - i have stashed away one of the old toasters with flip down sides and you have to turn the toast - hubby hates it coz it doesnt pop and he burns the toast - he is still learning haha - i would use it every day but you cant get replacement elements anymore so its only used now when the flippin pop up stops working

@kamicrum4408 2 жыл бұрын

Ysh, example my mins first washing machine lasted 17 years longest I've had 1 msybe10 yesrs ! 👎🏽👎🏽😡

@mudpyz 2 жыл бұрын

@@kamicrum4408 haha - ummmm - my washing machine is 20 years old - so far - and as far as i know - its fixable - yayyyyy - double yayyyy if it is fixable

@deandreaford6919 2 жыл бұрын

@@mudpyz k

@sheilafreisthler4421 2 жыл бұрын

My brothers wore hand me downs. Being the only girl, I had more “new” clothes, but they were made by my mom.

@lindagbukvic9441 2 жыл бұрын

Mom would always set the ground rules before we left the house. "Don't ask for anything extra". "We're only getting XYZ today and that's all". "The movie is the treat, we're not buying anything from the food counter." And don't forget, "You break it, you bought it." Otherwise, don't touch!! 🤗

@ayela562 2 жыл бұрын

My grandfather was a WW2 veteran. He became an amputee during the war at 18 years old. Once he recovered he married my grandmother and started a full time career at 20. He never missed one day of work in his entire career. They were frugal and stayed in their first little home their whole married lives. The were hard working and humble and lived very comfortably in their old age because of their hard work. I miss them so 🥲.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful, Ayela.

@bluefoxblitz8416 Жыл бұрын

My Grandmother always saved wrapping paper and so did my mum. I went to a birthday party when I was 6 and ended up in tears because I couldn't take the wrapping paper home. Traumatized for life. When we cleaned out nannas house after she died, her cupboards were stuffed with used wrapping paper.

@sallydunba6012 2 жыл бұрын

When company came over, Dad would say "FHB" which meant "Family Hold Back"! Hold down your helpings to make sure guests had enough to eat! Lol, it worked perfectly! Dad worked 3 jobs at times to cover expenses, he farmed full time and had a factory job and helped a local manufacturer as well. Hard worker who supported 8 kids and an ill wife. Oh how I miss my parents. Great tribute to your parents!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, your father was a busy person! Thank you, Sally.

@kamicrum4408 2 жыл бұрын

My grandmothers always served fresh bread with meals I did too when my chikdren were young.

@StephanieGiese 2 жыл бұрын

My grandmother also did the “FHB” rule for family!

@amandahunter4034 2 жыл бұрын

When we went for a family meal at my grandparents' house my dad would say FHB - family hold back - before we arrived. That was so that we politely declined second helpings, no matter how pushy my grandmother was about it, and my grandparents had leftovers for the next day.

@lindaallen8800 2 жыл бұрын

My mother’s family did that, too!

@andreaarias2085 2 жыл бұрын

My dad used to add eucalyptus leaves, fresh off the tree to simmering water in a large pan on the stove during the fall and winter. Now I do this, my home is fragrant, and the air is easy to breathe and moist in our dry climate.

@angimurphy1139 Жыл бұрын

Love this!! It was like listening about my grandparents to a ‘T’! My dad always says about my Nona that she could ‘squeeze a nickel so hard she’d make the buffalo s&@t’! They taught me SO much and I inherited many items after they passed that help my husband and I continue in some of their frugal ways.

@EvangSuz 2 жыл бұрын

My parents were raised during depression in orphanages and met as my father was shipping out to WWII, she waited for him.They also taught us to garden, fish, hunt, can foods.Sew, and fix what you own..❤Love your videos and humor.

@thereseheidelberger8745 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you are honoring your parents! They sound like wonderful people. Thank you for sharing their stories.

@caroldolan1485 Жыл бұрын

My dad was also born in 1921, mom in 23 so the whole depression and war was a major influence that trickled down to me. Something I will always be thankful for. When I was in high school I wanted a pair of Frye boots for Christmas…they were $150. My mom said she would buy one! I bought the other with babysitting money that I squirreled away! Those boots were so well loved and cared for. My husband I I have 6 children, and having black belt frugal skills served me well!❤

@sophietyrrell3131 2 жыл бұрын

My dad was a awesome DIY. I don't really know how to barter. I give for free never asking anything in exchange. I dont really know how to put a value on things BUT I always find good quality things in carboots or charity shop. I am good at starting things but struggle to finish. My saving grace ? My family was always generous givers on hospitality, help to the poors and homelesses and my kids are very generous too. God says in His word: "give and it shall be given unto..."Throughout the covid lockdown we never struggled and my son carried on working and we could help others.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Living the best way, Sophie! You will always be blessed helping others.

@bridgetmcgrath3964 2 жыл бұрын

Carpenters hand crafted chairs 👌and proper nutrition not thousands on expensive moisturisers

@deniseeppard2169 Жыл бұрын

My mom taught me to write down the money you spent. Shopping at thrift stores and donating things you don't need any more. Garage sales shopping and having them. Dad worked 7 days a week for years and when they laid him off he found jobs to keep money coming. Staycations, library visits and local parks are fun things we did as a family. Making gifts for relatives at Christmas time. Just simple little things. Grandma gave all 84 grand children 1 pair of socks for Christmas every year. It is the thought not the cost of the gift. My Aunt showed me the envelope method for money.

@megb9700 Жыл бұрын

What stands out to me is the gratefulness Mom and Dad had for the things in life that they did have! I recently learned some of that gratefulness and feel so much more contentment with obtaining the simple joys of life. The joys of simple food, clothing, shelter, and family are priceless. Be happy with what you have.

@christinecassidy2689 2 жыл бұрын

Proud owner of an iPhone SE! Plus, I still have my parents' first kitchen table they bought when they got married back in 1953. I, too now use it as a laundry table! When my parents passed, I inherited the home (which my father, a bricklayer built himself!) and all the furniture. I downsized a little and bought a new lamp here and there, but otherwise I'm refinishing most of the furniture which they bought in the 50s and the 80s. One of the parlor chairs broke, but I purchased some new straps for the seat and some carpenter's glue and plan on fixing it over the winter. Finally, I drive my father's car, a 2002 Mercury Grand Marquis, which is 19 years old! I have it serviced twice a year and it still runs great! My parents were born in the 1920s and like Larry's parents went through the Great Depression, so they taught me how to make do and mend. I love your channel and always look forward to new videos with frugal tips from the two of you. Thank you! Stay well!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

How special, Christine! That's all amazing. We have some of Mom and Dad's furniture including the bookcase we mentioned in the video. That generation had something special going for it because of the hardships they lived through. Sounds like you are following in the footsteps of your parents - literally! Thank you for your wonderful comment.

@bobandlucas 2 жыл бұрын

Youre very lucky indeed.

@NinaKeilin 2 жыл бұрын

The biggest thing I learned was avoiding debt. Save as much as you can.

@judithscharf6318 2 жыл бұрын

Someone told me that there is no such thing as an unexpected expense. Everything has to be repaired and eventually replaced. With that in mind, I always start saving for those expenses. I agree with taking care of things. I learned the hard way ($68 replacement vacuum cleaner motor head) that motor heads need to be cleaned of hair accumulation.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

I just cleaned the motorized head on our Dyson (that I found thrown out). Yes, they need to be serviced.

@SharaBinghamMills 2 жыл бұрын

They used to build items to last longer than they do now. We have had to replace our refrigerators an awful lot. They keep falling apart. Larry, you were blessed with intelligent parents. Your upbringing sounds like it was idyllic. Most people weren't raised that way and especially not today.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Shara. I really was blessed. I let my parents know that many times after I left the home and got married. They really poured their lives into ours.

@cindymae3656 2 жыл бұрын

My mom and her sister married brothers, we always said our cousins was more like sisters. I miss my parents and some older relatives that visited at least twice a month..to keep up with the younger family😉 I love your channel.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Cindy. We miss them, too. All of the older aunts and uncles are gone now. Only Mom's youngest brother survives.

@elainejude4616 2 жыл бұрын

I love this show! My friends and family think I'm crazy because I save plastic containers and reuse them for years! 🕺

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Elaine. You're not crazy. You're money will always go further.

@marciamoralez8778 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this post. My daddy was born 1910 and mother in 1915. I was also raised by the greatest generation. Every point you made I was thinking yes, we did that. Mother always put a roast on before church so roast on Sunday if we had company it was ground up roast beef/cheese sandwiches in the evening. If we were not entertaining it was roast on Sunday and hash on Monday. I was so lucky to have wonderful role models. I live by the same rules I was raised, and I have a happy and content life. Thank you again for the post.

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 2 жыл бұрын

I love learning about your family. I also like the pictures. I now know why you both are such lovely people.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you so much Centsible Money Mom! Blessings.

@robertburns3014 2 жыл бұрын

I also enjoy it when you share family photos with us!

@fellylasala3372 Жыл бұрын

Good evening Larry snd Hope. I’ve skwYs been watching you frugal tips for almost a year now. This video about Larry’s parents made me teared up. My parents were very poor while we were growing up and raising 8 children. By the grace of God, I’m now in my 70’s and just comfortable a bit in my life. I don’t ask any money from 2 adult children. Just survive by being a bit thrifty sustained me. Thanks s for all you do.

@fredrika8011 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. What a wonderful video. You would of made your parents proud. My Polish grandmother cooked for 7 people on the daily. She had a huge garden, we ate from. She also did laundry in a wringer washer, that went on the clothes line. Her and my grandfather went to bed at 8pm every night. No insomnia for them. I truly miss her dearly.

@cassandrahamilton-smith8430 2 жыл бұрын

My grandfather was born in 1901, put himself through college and was a math teacher. My mother said he never made more than $ 7000/ yr . Granddad bartered his services by tending garden for a wealthy family whose " Summer home " was on the Allegheny River. My grandparents bought a cottage across the river, my grandmother rowed my grandfather across, dropped him off, and rowed back. The payoff.... free food from that garden. This was during WWII. My parents have always dealt with financial problems. My sister was born with kidney issues, I had a congenital heart condition which needed surgery in my childhood. My father made $80]/ mo., and $600 went to Dr bills. If it hadn't been for my grandparents, we would have been up a creek.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Wise people.

@luvmy2pugs1 2 жыл бұрын

I feel very fortunate that my parents passed on a lot of frugal tips. My mom was born in 1926 and my dad was born in 1930. We were taught to use things until they were worn out. We ate leftovers. We repurposed items rather than throw them away. We rarely took vacations. Our vacations were to relatives either in the south or up north. I do wish my parents would have been more open about how they handled finances. It would have helped me on a better financial track earlier in life. My parents were happy with what they had and took care of their things. I wish I would have paid more attention to how my dad fixed things. My mom didn't understand why I would want to do that, you husband will take care of all of that. I am a independent person. I didn't want to rely on someone else taking care of me. Thanks for your great advise. I know my husband and I talk openly to our children/grown children about finances. In hopes they will not make as many mistakes as we did.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds good, Jill. Their examples were so valuable.

@unamary57 2 жыл бұрын

My parents were children during world war II. My family belonged to a camping club too. NCHA (national camping and hiking association). We camped nearly every weekend in the late ‘60’s and early’70’s. So much fun for so little money. We never ate in restaurants on road trips as we always had a picnic lunch. My Mum repaired our clothes and kept them clean and pressed. My Dad repaired most things like replacing tv tubes in the 60’s. Use it up. Wear it out. Make do or do without.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

How fun, Una!

@katherinerichardson1767 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, we have had several years when one crisis hit after another, and I thought we would never see daylight, but praising God for what good things came as a result of the crisis made us more positive about life. One day there seemed to be nothing working correctly, we both looked at each other and said at least we don't have to dust, wash or organize those things any more. After a few minutes of sharing what we didn't have to do with the items, we were in stitches laughing. Supporting each other goes a long way in getting through the tough times. Thanks for sharing.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

What a valuable lesson, Katherine!

@sharongenco3716 2 жыл бұрын

OK, the two of you have now become my new favorite to watch! Just love your mindset. Exactly what I was looking for.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Sharon!

@staceyjones3261 2 жыл бұрын

Hearing these stories makes me really miss my grandparents. I do appreciate the love and wisdom they shared. Everyone is so busy now. There’s little time for relationships. I miss the days of taking turns going to friend’s and family’s homes after church. (I still carry my iPhone 6 also).

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

We are all too busy. We need to take that into consideration....

@mandy3486 7 ай бұрын

Pinochle really brought back memories for me. My family also played that :)

@jahart358 2 жыл бұрын

Great video. Your reminiscing of Larry's parent made me think of my grandparents... same generation. They lived 4 houses down from us and I practically lived there my entire childhood. I remember they always read too. My grandfather added a family room to the house about 1971-72. I was born in 67, but remember the huge project well. 3 of the 4 wall were all built in shelving from the ceiling to floor which held the huge collection of books and records. They read a lot. They had a tv, but was never...never on during the day except occasionally on Sunday for golf. Otherwise the tv was not turned on until the news came on at 6. The only two things they watched consistently was on Saturday. At 6:45 my grandfather would at the stove making popcorn 🍿 to be served up by 7 for Lawrence Well and at 8 for Hee Haw, LoL 😂. I love all of the old ways of their generation of the constant gardening and gathering from the garden every morning. All the ways they saved money. How they reused so many things that have become disposable today. I don't think they threw anything away. How blessed I was to have spent so much time with them. I absolutely treasure all of those wonderful gifts they gave and shared of themselves. Their generation never dreamed of having more. They were rich in family, friends and love.

@robertburns3014 2 жыл бұрын

My wife's parents were very frugal people. They had a "hard pear" tree in their back yard and harvested the fruit for use by the family. The pears were turned into a substance similar to apple sauce and flavored with Kool Aid. My wife said she remembers eating the pear sauce with several different flavors (and colors) of Kool Aid. This went on until the pear tree died! 🙂

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

How about that!? Wonderful, Robert!

@joycegonzales4994 2 жыл бұрын

I learned save all sorts of small things, foil, string, rubber bands, etc. my parents were married during the depression. I still have several books of rationing coupons from the World War II

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome, Joyce!

@jamesjhonson4568 2 жыл бұрын

Avoid convenience stores, pack your own lunch, avoid places like Starbuck's etc. A piece if advice my grandmother once told me, save sonething out of your paycheck every week.

@alicephillips841 2 жыл бұрын

Proudly carrying my iPhione 6 to this day!! I'm a big believer that if you don't care enough to take care of what you have, you don't deserve to have anything more. I have a bedroom set (solid walnut) older than my 49-year-old son. Loved this episode!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Alice!

@lorla85 2 жыл бұрын

I got a iPhone 7 Plus… last month I could upgrade it, and I keep thinking, “why?” It’s working great! I know my sister has android phones, it it barely lasts for the 2 years! 😳

@mudpyz 2 жыл бұрын

i beat you - my bed is 160 years old - a few minor adjustments to it and its still going well - its one of those metal beds with big brass knobs and railings - i love it - as for a phone - whats a cell phone?? of any description - i dont have one and dont want one - haha - thats a big saving for me - just emails and it works fine

@NinaKeilin 2 жыл бұрын

Me too! I got a replacement battery for the phone this year. We have a 15-year-old car.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

@@NinaKeilin - good for you!

@kaelaleedaley 2 жыл бұрын

Both of your Parents sound like wise and generous people! My Granch taught us to "spend a little, save a little and give a little" and that 'he Borrower is servant to the Lender' - Prov. 22:7. He and my Father taught us not to lend money or books to friends we cared to see again and the value of Money. It was reinforced to me SO much as a child that 'The love of money is the root of all evil' - 1 Tim 6:10 xx

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent, KaelaLee.

@leslieboe6379 2 жыл бұрын

I'm with you on repurposing. My TV stand is actually my cedar chest. My folks always had a large garden, so I have liked to plant a few items I eat.

@AK-gh6cp 2 жыл бұрын

Proudly carrying my iPhone 5 here and okay with it. :-D

@jeannettesmith2698 2 жыл бұрын

Hi hope and Larry we used to eat Rag pudding most people who are in the North of England will remember it we also took pop empty bottle s to.the shop and get money for them Jeannette Smith

@barbarawilliams979 2 жыл бұрын

Good morning.

@mimihaines9674 2 жыл бұрын

You two are the cutest. This was a wonderful homage to Larry’s mom and dad. Very sweet. They were also very wise.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Mimi. Blessings.

@amandahunter4034 2 жыл бұрын

As a young woman, I did repairs and maintenance on my first car using the Haynes manual, and also learnt how to do DIY on my first home from books from the Library.

@sandrabryan9106 2 жыл бұрын

I use Iphone 6 and I play a video game Sims2 that came out in 2004, even though newer versions (3, 4 & 5) are out. We had an offgrid cottage (shack) growing up and my grandmother shared hers on the other side of lake with my Aunt & Uncle and 3 cousins. We would put up flags to let the other know we were home. Got together always and had bonfires (corn roasts), swam, canoed and later on water skied...we shared everything. I learned to make jam with my grandmother after we went and picked berries from local farm. We also picked wild raspberries, now I make fig jam and blackberry jam that grow wild here. My grandmother also gathered clothing scrapes and set up quilt frame and when others visited they all sat and stitched the quilt. This year I got over 70 pounds of clothing in excellent condition and not only got myself some clothing but also clothes for my daughter and grand daughter and then donated 50 pounds to a local shelter.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! How nice, Sandra.

@mendyviola 2 жыл бұрын

The “quality over quantity” rings with me. I still have furniture, kitchen ware, small appliances, etc that I’ve had for decades, including some that I inherited from my parents & grandparents who in turn had it for decades. My daily use desk fan is a 1950’s vornado fan, it’s on its 2nd motor.

@sueancell7655 2 жыл бұрын

I also keep things until they are no longer work properly..the only difference is I am a rubbish at DIY! Lol

@lauranason1822 2 жыл бұрын

LOVE!! What a wonderful tribute to your mom and dad!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Laura.

@catedennis41 2 жыл бұрын

This was wonderful! Thank you for sharing. I knew there had to be real parents out there somewhere. One frugal thing I do that I am sure your readers know about is - my husband is a big man, 6'3" and wears a 2X shirt. Walmart carries just about every seasonal/holiday Tee there is (i.e. shirts for St. Patrick's Day, Christmas, New Year"s Day, etc.). A day or two after the holiday, they put these Tees on sale for $1. We try to get a 3X if one is there, if not a 2X. He wears these as sleep shirts. A cheap way to get jammie tops. He also checks garage sales for jammie tops. No one sees them but us so no need to be fashionable.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

There certainly are, Cate. You are so welcome.

@2oldcrowscleaning538 2 жыл бұрын

What a wonderful video! My grandfather was known as the best mechanic in town and he taught all of us kids how to change the oil, top up fluids and change a flat tire before being allowed to drive. At age 57 I’m proud to be on only my third phone is 27 years- an I phone 6!!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Nice! I don't own a cell phone yet, but carry a flip phone from work. Guess I'll have to fork out the money when I retire for one.

@loniivanovskis1239 2 жыл бұрын

I love all those old-fashioned values. Many of them are still important today and we strive to follow them. Especially, how little it takes to be happy with having basic needs met, simple pleasures, and family time. But, some things have changed so much. Being a good, happy employee no longer guarantees being treated fairly. One of my best friends, with the company for 25 years, employee of the year more than once (the only employee at that location to do so) was let go last year. They waited a month and offered her her job back as an "independent" contractor for 2/3 of her pay and no benefits. Savings accounts pay so little, they are not worth it and c.d. rates are tanked as well...so there are no really secure places to grow your savings.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

We do live in challenging times, Loni. We all have to adjust to our specific situation. Agreed that employers today often just look at the bottom line.

@mariannewesten3638 2 жыл бұрын

From the elderly people,we can learn soo much👍. I Work a Lot with elderly people,and I LOVE to Listen to Them. They have so much experience in live. They have so much calmth and solutions for everything. Thanks for all you're Tips and memorys. Loved it so much😘👍

@anjichurch4406 2 жыл бұрын

I have an iPhone SE which was an upgrade from a 5s just last year and I was resistant. I agree that phones are seen as a disposable item. Thanks for all you share!

@hearthandhome2 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this. My parents went through WWII in Europe and certainly taught us frugality after enduring that experience!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

We're they special. All that generation had something very unique.

@learntoday735 2 жыл бұрын

Great video like every other. But this one is extra special. Love the wisdom of our parent’s and grandparent’s generation ❤️

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Learn Today.

@lisacats4531 2 жыл бұрын

Great video.... I reuse everything too... For leftovers to organizing the junk drawer... I save all jars and containers

@Magdalena287 2 жыл бұрын

I still have a tracphone cell phone from 5 years ago from a walmart black friday sale for 100 dollars. Still works just fine, the pictures arent amazing but theyre good

@isabelkassan5244 2 жыл бұрын

I had my first mobile phone for 11 years and only replaced it because they told me it would not work with! their improved equipment ’ I have had this one for 6 years and intend to keep it until it dies

@heathkinn 2 жыл бұрын

Wow great video..reminds me when i was a kid…my grandmother used the same paper table cloth for thanksgiving every year..same holiday decorations year after year on the walls…saved all the christmas bows to be used next year that came off presents…i could go on and on…this just jolted my memory banks to the old days…..

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Yep. They made things last. Thank you, heathkinn.

@jackiec9285 2 жыл бұрын

I just love this video. Thank you for sharing Your parents were wonderful. I cut the cable sometime ago and replaced it with the roku and I do a lot more reading I think by not being bombarded with suggestions to spend money multiple times an hour, I’ve become more frugal. The power of suggestion is great of course the advertisements are what keep the tv in operation and I’m sure I was a tv addict.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Jackie!

@isabelkassan5244 2 жыл бұрын

I adored the story of Mum and Dad! My parents were born in 1901 and 1905! My Dad lost his job over the depression because they put unmarried men off first! They were marvellous gardeners, had numerous fruit trees chooks and ducks! My mum earned money to buy there first car crocheting bed jackets! They reused and wasted nothing! My father tried his hand at everything! Great parents! Helped their neighbours! Often say out loud even now Thank you Dad! Aussie Lady

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Great story! Thank you.

@paulasajjad4549 2 жыл бұрын

My gran used to say its not a bargain if you don't need it, left overs always next days meal snacks were a slice of cake piece of fruit, loved her food,

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

True.

@diannabaker694 2 жыл бұрын

It was nice to hear about mom and dad and how they managed not just finances but family, friends and neighbors. To have those relationships rank high in their life gave them great perspective.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Dianna.

@judithbuchanan9566 2 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful & lovely video. I so enjoyed learning about Mom & Dad Ware & how careful they were with their finances. I enjoyed this video very, very much. I can definitely see why Larry is such a gentleman. Larry had such great role models. So lovely…

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Judith. I really did. Dad always treated Mom with tender love. They did everything together.

@PurePondering 2 жыл бұрын

You've reminded me - Next weekend, I need to clean the fan in our heater.

@sallyk.2124 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent! I try not to fall victim to planned obsolescence. I try to get plain or classic styles and items that are easy to repair myself.

@shirleydenton4747 2 жыл бұрын

I learned so much from my parents. Dad always had more than 1 job, and as a carpenter constantly working on our house. Mom very frugal. Her recipes mostly by memory, but snacks and some food had recipes. She made caramel corn with peanuts every Christmas, and I have her little recipe book with that. It also includes a recipe for cottage cheese made from powdered milk. She would never have bought either. We always lived frugally, but our luxury was going to the drive In theatre in Summer. Kids under 12 free.

@thomasmax9369 2 жыл бұрын

Oh really that's nice of you I really appreciate your comment. Hello 👋how are you doing

@helenbrown6429 2 жыл бұрын

Shirley, any idea how i could get the recipe you referenced for cottage cheese ????

@shirleydenton4747 2 жыл бұрын

@@helenbrown6429 Rural Readiness on KZfaq has How to make cheese from powdered milk. I have not tried it. Mom hadvin her little recipe book, but I would rather trust KZfaq step by step.

@thomasmax9369 2 жыл бұрын

@@shirleydenton4747 that's nice....I hope you are staying safe and how is your family doing?

@shirleydenton4747 2 жыл бұрын

@@thomasmax9369 Thanks to so many good teachings my family continues to do very well.

@sheilabus5475 2 жыл бұрын

As dad said, the wood was free, but you had to work for it. He had grown up in highly wooded upper Midwest.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, they weren't afraid of hard work.

@monicaluketich6913 Жыл бұрын

My parents were born in the early 1920s. My grandfather's were both coal miners and were immigrants from eastern Europe. My father worked 30 yrs in the steel industry as a mechanic. Mom was the money brains. They paid off a new brick home in 6 years because Mom knew they couldn't afford to pay a house payments and my brother's college. Mom knew when all the traditional sales were on and, and we swear, she could smell clearances. I fortunately inherited the same ability. Our fun was to go look at all the Pottery and glass stores ( never bought anything) and get ice cream cones on the way home.

@iag4028 2 жыл бұрын

Uncle Larry and Aunt Hope ( yes im referring to y'all as family😁), all of your videos are valuable, but this video was so touching, inspiring and brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing all this beautiful wisdom. I hope to implement them in my life, God willing. Y'all are truly a blessing.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Leman!

@iag4028 2 жыл бұрын

@@larryware1 You're welcome!

@bonitamaldonado4967 2 жыл бұрын

Awe so cute 🥰 family is who you make it to be. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I'm sure your Uncle Larry and Aunt Hope love and appreciate you too . Blessings .

@iag4028 2 жыл бұрын

@@bonitamaldonado4967 Such a sweet comment! Sending you much love. Thank you and God bless you too.

@carolsmith2969 Жыл бұрын

My grandparents Carroll were the best. I sewed most of my kids clothes or got a thrift store. Always show the ads and watched for mark downs. I did a splurge on new horseshoes. My home only haves base board and floors are always cold. I got a washable lined good and goes up on my ankles. No more cold foot this winter. I have organized my pantry and freezer. I have food to last for quite a while and makes me feel good. I live on a not very big fixed income and always try to spend only what I need. Love you guys keep it up.

@TermiteVideo 2 жыл бұрын

Such familiar ideas! It is amazing how quickly life has changed and in some ways sad that so many people live for acquiring material things. Talking about family gatherings don’t people seem to be more isolated now? Sitting indoors with their electronics and objects, no laughing and sharing. There is also a sort of indolence now; people not being bothered to entertain their family and friends. I don’t believe that is because people work hard and long hours now. Men and women had to work really hard in the last century. My grandparents never had a car so grandma had to walk to the shop for groceries. So few convenient machines in the house meant long strenuous days for most women. But there was a big Sunday dinner every week for everyone who needed one! It is a blessing that some of us (especially viewers to this channel) remember the examples set us by our elders. Yes, life is more abundant and easier now but I don’t want to loose the feeling of community and sharing that went with the old days. My idea of hell is to be holed up in my perfect apartment surrounded by my many consumer goods instead of fun and folks.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

You make some very valid points. We all need to reassess what is really important. Thanks for your comment!

@cherrycain6425 Жыл бұрын

My mom was the same way about going to someone else’s house. You ALWAYS take something with you. There are so many of these things that I grew up doing. I have tried to teach my son the same way. Life was so much better back in the early days.

@mandifields2621 2 жыл бұрын

I wish there was a love button. I love this video! Happy Holidays to you both!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Mandi.

@CharlesAvilaMeasInst 2 жыл бұрын

I’m very appreciative that you both share such rich memories and lessons from your families. I did not have the same opportunities to learn wisdom from my family so am grateful to learn from yours. Thank you!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome, HawkStrong. Blessings.

@kerryjames4026 2 жыл бұрын

My dad was born and n 1925 his perants couldn't afford to send him to medical school he became a qualified accountant but never gave us studying health and meficine

@kerryjames4026 2 жыл бұрын

Dad always told me use both sides of paper look after what you have

@kerryjames4026 2 жыл бұрын

Grow tomatoes

@kerryjames4026 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like my grandma uncles aunties

@MagalyJLerma 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate all the videos y’all make ! I’m a young stay @ home 🏡 mom and I’m learning so much from your videos! God bless

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you, too, Magaly. So nice to have you with us!

@jonnaborosky8836 2 жыл бұрын

Larry's dad sounds almost exactly like my dad. I used to read the dictionary when I was young. Your dad sounds phenomenal! Oh my goodness...if I told what I learned from my parents and grandparents about money and frugality, it would be a book! My grandmother taught us never to leave a found rubber band. She had at least 2-3 around her wrists at every moment I ever saw her. Jelly and pickle jars, etc., can be used for canning. Any bottle top with a rubber or silicone seal can be re-used for canning, as long as the rubber rim is still in good shape. Loved this video! Always delightful yo hear how older generations made do during difficult times. Your parents sound wonderful, Larry! You're fortunate to have had them...but I'm sure you already know that! Mine were wonderful, too, and I'm very fortunate to have had them!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment, Jonna. Yes we were all truly blessed. I'm thankful every day for the way I was raised.

@netamorton4832 2 жыл бұрын

My parents went through the depression too. And I had many a potatoe cake with my dinner the next night after having mashed potatoes! You two are awesome and I enjoy listening to you both so much!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Neta. Yep, we had many servings of "Fried Potatoes."

@dancingcowgirl85 2 жыл бұрын

iPhone 6 Plus I’ve had it 6 working on 7 years.

@angelray6013 2 жыл бұрын

Watching on an iPhone 6S here 🙋🏻‍♀️.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

How about that? Good for you, Angel.

@lindagarrison8292 8 ай бұрын

A harder but much better, satisfying , and richer way to live!

@lindashaw9034 2 жыл бұрын

Hope and Larry, I am still using my iPhone 6 S that I purchased for $60. It works just fine. Why would I need a new one?

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

So true!

@kathyfelton7602 2 жыл бұрын

Such an excellent video! I noticed the huge smile always on Larry’s Mom’s face! One thing you didn’t mention, but is so obvious, is how they taught the next generation to be frugal and careful! Just as you two teach your own boys your frugal ways. I have a feeling that your parents were also always willing to help family with bigger projects.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

You are so right, Kathy. They gave us $1,000 as a wedding gift and helped us out a couple times - even though we didn't ask. They were so thoughtful.

@betty_boom7854 2 жыл бұрын

I'm the same way. I absolutely LOVE to read, it doesn't matter what it is. I've never liked watching television. Unless, it was something that I really want to see. Which, is a rare occurrence. I like getting up early in the morning, and reading first thing. My parents never allowed us children to watch much television growing up. My mothers philosophy was that there was always too much work to do. I'm glad she never allowed the television be our baby sitter.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

You were raised right, Slayer Stacker! Nice.

@patwagner9308 2 жыл бұрын

Your folks sound like they were fantastic people, Larry. You're fortunate!! It was fun hearing about them. We re-use all sorts of containers. Jam & preserves jars get used constantly ! Left-overs go in containers our soft butter comes in. (just 2 examples of many!) Ron makes his own salad dressing....just a use at a time....he mixes everything up in a jar some preserves came in. He just puts all of the ingredients in, puts the lid on, gives it a shake. We cut the cable this year & so glad we did ! We got an antennae so we get local channels & we have Roku & Hulu. Costs MUCH less than cable did & we're enjoying the shows we didn't get on cable ! Plus both of us love to read. Ron is good at fixing just about anything....so he has saved us a small fortune. He's retiring after the end of this week! But we know we'll be OK. We like to say we're not highfalutin.....we're low falutin ! LOL We are frugal & we're always learning more frugal ways from wonderful people like Hope & Larry.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Pat. Appreciate it.

@gailphillips2032 2 жыл бұрын

My mother (and hers) taught us: only buy something once and buy the very best quality you can afford. Clothes and furniture got passed down. When I started in business, I had three dresses that I alternated, when I got a better job, I got handed down skirted business suits from my mother and two of her sisters. I added to them over the years but I still had them in my wardrobe when I retired. How could I have two weeks worth of expensive business suits, both summer & winter? Hand me downs. When I went on my first cruise, I borrowed clothes from my sisters to fill in blanks in my wardrobe. We all learned to sew, my mother’s oldest sister could Taylor, my mother could design, about her Aunt was a dress model and then a buyer. When I had little money and needed a gown for a dance, an Aunt took me to her favorite fabric manufacturer and we made the most glamours dress of the evening.

@RetiredLovingIt 2 жыл бұрын

Wise parents & wise advice

@camipockets 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for making this information available to anyone looking for it! My parents never taught me any of this. I'm hoping to master all of these ways of being and teach them to our daughter. Keep sharing the light!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, C.

@kellybarrett1561 2 жыл бұрын

This is hands down my FAVORITE VLOG you have done!!! Oh how I Wish I could sit and visit with Larry parents.. My Grandparents were the most influential people in my life and they sound so similar.. Amazing life lessons you were TRULY BLESSED Larry

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Kelly.

@dorawedlock3969 2 жыл бұрын

Still using the bedroom set we bought almost 60 years ago. Other beds were from family. Table and chairs 30 years old, dining room set antique, still have my bookcase my dad made for my 10th birthday. Curtains are made by me. Still using wedding gifts. Clothes are worn until worn out. All because of parents influence, who lived through the depression and ww 2.

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent, Dora!

@emilyswinarski 2 жыл бұрын

These are great tips and remind me of how my parents did things when I was growing up. Larry, your mom was a beauty! Your parents sound like wonderful people!

@larryware1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Emily!

@mariacontreras-cs7zt 2 жыл бұрын

My parents too lived thru the depression ,,and I grew up with all these frugal ways, even reusing containers and inventing ways to use leftovers, specially with 7 kids, All but the two younger ones follow those lessons I taught them.

@truthseeker6370 Жыл бұрын

People today- of All age brackets less than 65, seem to have no sense of delayed gratification. I am 57 and did thankfully learn this, but coworkers older and younger seem to have no clue. I hear regularly, "I deserve this" - which involves a monthly debt payment. If someone doesn't ask my opinion I keep my mouth shut. Then I watch them Struggle to make their payments, and literally cry at their desk because they don't have enough money. Many years ago I was them, but I can't say anything. I am so relieved and grateful to have done the work to be debt free.