Unpacking Addiction, Finding Yourself and Our Strict Girlfriend rules with

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Thato Rampedi

Thato Rampedi

7 күн бұрын

Another week another thought provoking, thought unpacking, thought digesting episode with Caiah and Mpho. Our guest for today is non other than Malome KZfaq himself Thato Rampedi.
In this episode the girls tell us what their strict girlfriend rules are, and our guest will be rating them on a scale of 1-5 (1 being unreasonable and 5 being reasonable). He also tells us some of his strict boyfriend rules. Don’t be afraid to tell us what are yours.
In today’s game the girls and Thato play a fun game of One must Go, where they decide what would they rather live without amongst the things they love.
On our next segment the topic of discussion is Addiction: Where the girls and Thato share if they have you dealt with addiction ? What is at the root of addiction? How did they overcome their addiction ? Forgiving yourself after relapse.
For our members: We will be delving into the concept of Finding Yourself. If we subscribe to that notion. How we individually define finding ourselves and if we ever will find ourselves.
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@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii
@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii 6 күн бұрын
One thing about Caiah, she is always comfortable and cozy here. What a healthy work environment. Big ups to the big boss Thato🎀
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
Thato is the best boss ever ! I’ve got my feet on his couch and everything 😂😂😂
@Botse_Maaboi
@Botse_Maaboi 6 күн бұрын
Editor please THE PINK SPARKLES 😭
@nkosazanatshabalala2711
@nkosazanatshabalala2711 5 күн бұрын
Broo😭😭
@JachinDitle
@JachinDitle 6 күн бұрын
I agree with Caiah's second strict rule. I don't want anyone to know about our relationship😂I don't want to meet your mom or cousins unless we are engaged. That's valid
@elli-t
@elli-t 5 күн бұрын
liked how Mpho was so appreciative of her healthy relationship and how she is proud to have a partner 👌
@newangotsopeng3926
@newangotsopeng3926 6 күн бұрын
i high high high key miss the pink shining stars when a new topic is introduced😪
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
We’re gonna confront the editor fr fr 😭😭
@lindiwegama412
@lindiwegama412 5 күн бұрын
Well first ( correct me if I'm wrong pls) it is against the bible to have a partner who's not christian when you are Christian.( 2 Corinthians 6:14) It is just not good for your spiritual life and will eventually bleed into all aspects of your life but I'm glad you recognize that Caiah. Also thank you for being a Christian girly who's so real and relatable, it's so refreshing. I agree with Mpho about the example of a Christian who is addicted to pornography correcting other christians on lust because for the fact that you would be aware of their addiction it means they are seeking help and like Paul they are dying to their flesh everyday as long as they are correcting you and not judging you, you can both help each and hold each other accountable. Great episode as always guys. Very knowledgeable and eye opening ❤
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 5 күн бұрын
I'm so glad that Caiah is being honest and transparent about being a Christian and dating a Muslim. I'm not for it but coming from someone who asked the question last week, thank you for answering and addressing the topic and being so transparent about it.
@florencemoyo499
@florencemoyo499 2 күн бұрын
Is the guy knownnn?
@rosemah
@rosemah 6 күн бұрын
Caiah is in the coziest outfit. 🥰😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
Well I tell you I was COMFORTABLE 😭😭😂
@mballynkosi6518
@mballynkosi6518 6 күн бұрын
This channel has beautiful conversations! Thought digest and Seated are beautiful shows. I always learn and reflect almost every episode! Love, love the content Thato!❤️❤️
@kattsomething
@kattsomething 6 күн бұрын
Caiah is just like me. As my partner, I don't want to meet/know your friends or family until we're going to be engaged to marry.
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
Yebboooo💃🏾💃🏾
@dineovalencia
@dineovalencia 6 күн бұрын
I also agree but I had a situation with my bf where he introduced me to his family, I told him that let it be us for now before anybody else because i don't want pressure for either of us but he said he felt the need to in order for me to see that he is serious about me and his parents told him that he should only come with a girl only when he sees a future with them...
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 5 күн бұрын
Caiah Is such a smart girl, she really knows how to speak, her body language, posture, everytime she speaks I immediately want to listen.
@pilisapiliso9647
@pilisapiliso9647 6 күн бұрын
I love Caiah so much, she debunks so many religion norms ! She is ssooo open about how ones real walk with God truly is
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 5 күн бұрын
Ugh man, this walk is so difficult. And I want nothing more than to be an example that God carries us through it ALL. No matter how difficult, confusing or destabilising a season is. I’m so glad you received this❤️
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for joining us this week Thato, thank you for being so open and transparent.
@ethichadebe
@ethichadebe 5 күн бұрын
This is a tough pod to listen to, this is a very uncomfortable but extremely necessary conversation, thank you guys for this
@itsjustmpho5978
@itsjustmpho5978 5 күн бұрын
Caiah, your bravery and openness to talk about real issues and relate them to yours is so inspiring❤.........you go in girl
@Prince_Haremgard
@Prince_Haremgard 6 күн бұрын
I so want a seated with lebo and thato rampedi please thatoooo!!!
@liisaimmanuel
@liisaimmanuel 5 күн бұрын
I love the way Mpho reasons and the way she's such an open minded person, I love it🤍
@lethuvinindwa2597
@lethuvinindwa2597 5 күн бұрын
First-time watcher here. I'm definitely coming for more, very informed and informative convo👌👌
@Rorisang_.
@Rorisang_. 6 күн бұрын
I do think the equally yoked chat wasn’t mentioned when Thato asked the question of dating outside of Christian faith
@RizzMedalion
@RizzMedalion 5 күн бұрын
As a gent that pour a bit too much when I'm with a partner I can relate to where Thato is rn and I'm also on that journey of loving and appreciating myself lately. It's always tough at the beginning because of limerence but it gets easier as you go. Big s/o to you bro and s/o to the ladies dope pod, keep em coming.
@naomimwikali6329
@naomimwikali6329 5 күн бұрын
I love how you've represented Christ without fear or shame, I enjoy listening to your update and progression on your relationship with God. On Caiahs' relationship with a Muslim, I think the bible is clear on being equally yoked and the reason you're finding it difficult to post as usual could be a conviction from the Holy Spirit. Being with a Muslim is difficult since the basis of Christianity is Jesus being the saviour and that's what they don't agree so their faith discredit everything about your faith. Talk to God about it though, He will guide you as always😊
@MoetK21
@MoetK21 2 күн бұрын
We want Lebo with the girls too please🥲🥲🥲
@thotoaneramakhula9140
@thotoaneramakhula9140 6 күн бұрын
I hear the friends chat. But truth be told, seeing your man with his friend reveals a lot about him, I am 50-50 with that one😅
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
Actually🤔🤔
@nnonhle341
@nnonhle341 6 күн бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Also learned a few things. Thanks guys!
@lethabolekalakala6652
@lethabolekalakala6652 6 күн бұрын
this was such a wholesome episode . thank you ladies 💕💕
@natasha.kafumbe
@natasha.kafumbe 4 күн бұрын
Every week I am here. This podcast is everything and more
@kekeletsolicela5961
@kekeletsolicela5961 6 күн бұрын
This was such a good episode !!!! Thato must come back
@lerevofficial4683
@lerevofficial4683 Күн бұрын
Caiah dont switch..i know its easier said than done..praying for you❤
@Lerato_Makgati
@Lerato_Makgati 5 күн бұрын
Your outfits are jelling together guys🔥🔥❤
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 5 күн бұрын
Unplanned too😂😂
@NeoTshoagang-yq1wh
@NeoTshoagang-yq1wh 6 күн бұрын
I love you Caiah and Mpho❤
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
We love you too !!
@LethoMbonane
@LethoMbonane 6 күн бұрын
I thought I was crazy for not wanting to meet family and friends while I’m still a girlfriend 😭😭, there is NO need
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 5 күн бұрын
No need whatsoeverrrrr😭 Then I get super attached unnecessarily
@SibsM93
@SibsM93 6 күн бұрын
Thee best Thought Digest episode ever!!! By far!
@nokhwezikhumalo3970
@nokhwezikhumalo3970 Күн бұрын
Neeeee❤
@pitutie_girl
@pitutie_girl 6 күн бұрын
Finally, yall uploaded on time. I was soo excited when i saw the drop ❤
@Mr_Munene
@Mr_Munene 5 күн бұрын
First time I’ve sat through an entire episode cause I mostly watch seated.. equally an amazing time🤞🏿
@kut-words
@kut-words 2 күн бұрын
This is a great show! 😆I enjoyed this, especially the part when Mammi dearest looked at the camera on the "God and singleness" question part. 😄
@ofentsemorobe
@ofentsemorobe 6 күн бұрын
Very informative and delightful episode❤ got to learn a few things about myself and also I took away quite a lot of things.you guys are an inspiration
@_Montlenyana22
@_Montlenyana22 6 күн бұрын
Beautiful episode guys! 🙏🏻❤️
@Yandie425
@Yandie425 6 күн бұрын
I love the bond 🥺❤️
@neonation6801
@neonation6801 6 күн бұрын
very informative on addiction❣i will definetly FORGIVE myself💓💓💓💓💓💓
@WetsoMogorosi
@WetsoMogorosi 6 күн бұрын
and is like "iyoo"😂😂😂❤i love Thato so much!!
@vukonaanita9879
@vukonaanita9879 6 күн бұрын
“your saying bye to your husband?”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@katlegophiri79
@katlegophiri79 6 күн бұрын
Finally made the time to come watch 😊❤
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 4 күн бұрын
I learn so much from this channel 🥺, i love and appreciate you guys soo much❤
@everybodyknowswhitey
@everybodyknowswhitey 6 күн бұрын
This was such an amazing episode man i loved it ♥🥰
@Thabii_
@Thabii_ 5 күн бұрын
This episode was incredible! I loved it and found it so educational and relatable. Thank you much!
@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii
@Thatohatsiiiiiiiiiii 6 күн бұрын
Caiah with the friends and family chat? She cooked. I don't want to love your family too much, then when it ends I'm attached to your family because I come from a toxic and now you've introduced me to your healthy family. Now I find reason to stay in a toxic relationship. No thank you
@nkosazanatshabalala2711
@nkosazanatshabalala2711 5 күн бұрын
This was super informative as always ofcourse ❤
@pilisapiliso9647
@pilisapiliso9647 6 күн бұрын
the way i was so excited and expectant to see the pink sparkles
@nokhwezikhumalo3970
@nokhwezikhumalo3970 Күн бұрын
This is one of the best episodes touched down 😭♥️
@wakunyambomwalusi6484
@wakunyambomwalusi6484 5 күн бұрын
On the live location part, Caiah and I are literally the same please 😭🤣
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 5 күн бұрын
😭😭we know ourselves. We’ll drive ourselves crazy
@NolwaziSibiya_
@NolwaziSibiya_ Күн бұрын
FIRST THINGS FIRST, YOU GUYS LOOK GOOD AND THE COLOURS ARE COODINATING😍
@Geegee-r1n
@Geegee-r1n 5 күн бұрын
Thato is right, sometimes the opposite company is great even if you not dating.. Guys stop being too hard on yourselves! Sometimes as ladies when we go to clubs then guys just come chill with us we have a good time,part away after ,no messing around!thats how life is!
@Moeti2915
@Moeti2915 6 күн бұрын
When are the gents gonna get Seated with Lebo and Thato though❤🤲?
@siyethembamahaye9144
@siyethembamahaye9144 5 күн бұрын
That addiction topic got me like “Hi, I’m Kevin. I’m an addict.” 😅
@dephneyramphisa6724
@dephneyramphisa6724 3 күн бұрын
Lovely episode
@ItsRauha
@ItsRauha 2 күн бұрын
Appreciate this Episode ❤
@shammahshirinda4280
@shammahshirinda4280 2 күн бұрын
Mr editor sir, please give us our sparkles hle😢
@BRIGHTONMATHEBULA
@BRIGHTONMATHEBULA 6 күн бұрын
Great episode ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@khanyisilekhanyi5428
@khanyisilekhanyi5428 5 күн бұрын
I looove this episode so much! Thato should deffs come back
@rosemah
@rosemah 6 күн бұрын
Still no sparkles 😭
@kabodithabe
@kabodithabe 4 күн бұрын
This was beautiful!!!
@kabodithabe
@kabodithabe 4 күн бұрын
Thato must visit more often
@Rorisang_.
@Rorisang_. 6 күн бұрын
Ngl and not that my opinion has value because I’m literally a stranger but when I saw Caiah date a Muslim…I found that a bit questionable.
@WetsoMogorosi
@WetsoMogorosi 6 күн бұрын
Mpho's phone addiction is me😫👍🏽
@msrorisang
@msrorisang 2 күн бұрын
When Mpho said “Thank God”😭❤️
@lebontshweng7472
@lebontshweng7472 9 сағат бұрын
Mpho is so smart, I agree with her on the genetics part about substance addiction and one being susceptible to it if let's say a fam member was or is addicted
@phographyandlife9932
@phographyandlife9932 5 күн бұрын
I truly relate to Mpho's addiction, Nd it's something that I need to work on because I'm always on my phone
@KwaneleSikhosana....
@KwaneleSikhosana.... 5 күн бұрын
My addiction is that I am always on my phone form the time I open my eyes till I close them.The reason for that is like I am always on my thoughts which result in getting sleepless nights so I am on my phone till I get tired and also my phone is my bestie cause that's where you will find me laughing and happy cause I can't stay with people for too long
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 4 күн бұрын
Same 😢 and for me it's because I stay alone most of the time. I'm unemployed and depressed and I treat my phone as as escape goat from reality . It's not good but that's just my life 🥺
@KwaneleSikhosana....
@KwaneleSikhosana.... 4 күн бұрын
@loideuuzigo697 I hope you find a job that you will be excited about and also find some podcast or show in KZfaq space that can keep you laughing and help you in a way❤️love and light
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 4 күн бұрын
@@KwaneleSikhosana.... thank you so much ☺️
@delleuniverse2735
@delleuniverse2735 5 күн бұрын
First of all I loooove this podcast and this is constructive criticism coz I love y’all. Mami, I think you interrupt people when they try to get their point across, it used to happen to me a lot when I was talking to my friends and it’s a habit that I’m working on letting go and I think you should too. I get it , sometimes we’re so passionate within a conversation that we wanna add something immediately but I still think it’s good to learn the habit of controlling that❤️❤️
@ananihopes4364
@ananihopes4364 6 күн бұрын
27:55 Thato: ‘A lot of people say, in different places, that I have a lot of female friends’. SPREADING HUMOURS come on here and catch your subbbbb😭
@Botse_Maaboi
@Botse_Maaboi 6 күн бұрын
I was like Chile spreading humors is now 'a lot of places'😂
@thulzzz583
@thulzzz583 2 күн бұрын
I'm not a podcast person but I'm enjoying this❤
@nzamafamily7nzama766
@nzamafamily7nzama766 5 күн бұрын
Editor was like, “I ain’t doing that”😭😭😭
@karabolepheana7657
@karabolepheana7657 10 сағат бұрын
If someone is going to cheat on you they will, it doesn't matter if you have rules, have access to their devices, curfews, etc. Unfortunately a relationship is a risk, can't runaway from that🤷‍♂️ some risks pay off and some don't 😊
@walterwhite7976
@walterwhite7976 6 сағат бұрын
Nah that's enough seated with. I'm a Though Digest broer now 😭 I'm healed.
@apollosmartyn
@apollosmartyn 5 күн бұрын
Great work ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦
@Anomthajaco
@Anomthajaco 5 күн бұрын
"that's a real thing because our alcohol problem is deep" 🤣🤣 Mammi nhe
@user-cj2vc3fc8w
@user-cj2vc3fc8w 3 күн бұрын
I have not watched this in long time and it's like I was in therapy thato must come back more for bros please and bring Lebo also
@SomeoneFirst-ef5op
@SomeoneFirst-ef5op 6 күн бұрын
So vele thato is no longer with kamo , because he didn't mention her 😭
@rosemah
@rosemah 6 күн бұрын
He said he’s rebranding though
@faraichombela2966
@faraichombela2966 6 күн бұрын
I know ryt and I kept hoping for him to confirm they are still together 😢..mara he kept using the past tense 😭
@SibsM93
@SibsM93 6 күн бұрын
That don't mean anything though
@Geegee-r1n
@Geegee-r1n 5 күн бұрын
I think they broke up & im heart broken😢😢😢
@Imvubu.dablack
@Imvubu.dablack 6 күн бұрын
Yoh I also love kissing hle I've dumped a lot of people because of that issue
@vincentmacamo6301
@vincentmacamo6301 5 күн бұрын
13:00 I believe before religion we are Humans and a Principle or base of Human intention should be placed as FIRST to create a family. you can't say I won't leave religion and deprive yourself of creating a family. and this is the mistake alot of people make, its something everyone should learn from our elders when a woman is married by a Man she leaves her church and joins the Mans, you can choose what to submit on and what not to submit on. relationship is not that hence alot fail because people create double standards.
@den.ii_se
@den.ii_se 6 күн бұрын
Does this mean we are getting an episode of seated with ?😭😭😭 it's been a month Thato
@phumelelamkhonto2219
@phumelelamkhonto2219 4 күн бұрын
Interesting👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@JoyLutangu
@JoyLutangu 3 күн бұрын
Seated is the top on the list❤❤
@demberamel7197
@demberamel7197 4 күн бұрын
No because watching this came up with some life lessons ❤
@ApheleleButhelezi-n5c
@ApheleleButhelezi-n5c 6 күн бұрын
they must read life of pie 🤣
@masegomatiko636
@masegomatiko636 5 күн бұрын
As a pedi man😂😂😂"your wife or your mum"
@kamogelothamaga5751
@kamogelothamaga5751 5 күн бұрын
Wisdom dropped ❤️ 🥹 sound track title?
@vincentmacamo6301
@vincentmacamo6301 5 күн бұрын
57:00 am glad there's such thing as personal opinion in this life.
@loideuuzigo697
@loideuuzigo697 4 күн бұрын
Let's talk about the video quality 👌 ❤❤
@Kaleyakankwende
@Kaleyakankwende 6 күн бұрын
You know what I find interesting… I stand to be corrected is that Muslim people are actually Ishmael’s descendants right and by virtue of being Abraham’s son, Ishmael received a promise from God that he’s descendants would be a mighty people (Genesis 21:18).. I’m still trying to understand this whole thing… for me that changed everything so I just found that interesting 😂🤔
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
You’re absolutely correct
@NtandokaziPrincess
@NtandokaziPrincess 3 күн бұрын
Loved this one.🌻Could someone please plug me with the name of the song that plays at the end of the videos(chat) here.
@dinelagomutota9240
@dinelagomutota9240 Күн бұрын
Caiah, can we please talk about how you couldn't hold it in about " I always date people who are nonchalant "😭😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 20 сағат бұрын
😂😂I was instantly concerned
@GracefulYvonne
@GracefulYvonne 6 күн бұрын
Haiii Mami😂😂 you shouldn't have the live location...it's tricky for you
@elonicashipalana4153
@elonicashipalana4153 6 күн бұрын
Galatians 3❤
@GRACEMADUMO
@GRACEMADUMO 5 күн бұрын
I love seated with to be honest ...
@Kaleyakankwende
@Kaleyakankwende 6 күн бұрын
I agree cause what do you mean you wanna meet my family as a boyfriend please be serious 😪🙄😂
@CaiahM
@CaiahM 6 күн бұрын
PLLLEEAAASSEE you’ll make my family not take me seriously😭
@AKHONANDLOVU-ic8ey
@AKHONANDLOVU-ic8ey 5 күн бұрын
Nah the ladies schooled Thato proper! See what happens when men listen to women??😅✨
@shashat.w.o7497
@shashat.w.o7497 5 күн бұрын
I can relate with Thato a good kiss feels like heaven
@morwepatoko7481
@morwepatoko7481 3 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@charlottemygal528
@charlottemygal528 3 күн бұрын
I really like caiah
@sindisiwembonambi7486
@sindisiwembonambi7486 6 күн бұрын
Live location chat 🤔what if you wanna be the type of girlfriend/wife that wants to know where he is for the moment god forbid something happens to him so you know something is wrong within minutes because that's how well you know his schedule (I blame movies for this behaviour actually) but ke what if? #just a concerned girl/ wife😢👀👀
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