In my country, I've seen hotels that give only a bed and bathroom more expensive! This is incredible!
@peach22102 жыл бұрын
Same! And they're normally nasty:(
@ac94482 жыл бұрын
Exaaaaaactly. Looked soooo nice too.
@stevensumpter2 жыл бұрын
I believe she lies, I mean we pay more for that in the Philippines
@saramaychiarenza87572 жыл бұрын
@@stevensumpter she's talking about south Korea
@toomanymarys73552 жыл бұрын
Check the median income in Korea first....
@jacobwragg7272 жыл бұрын
I’m convinced this channel is just South Korea recruiting people to move there
@miriareu2 жыл бұрын
Money to be made at every opportunity.
@user-sz2ez8tk1y2 жыл бұрын
I dont see why she only compares this stuff to the US
@fievrelysis24702 жыл бұрын
In France nowadays many youtubers and influencers are doing vlogs in S.Korea and it seems like it's made to attract more tourists there. It's not said officially but like everyone is going there at the same time and everyone only says good stuff about S.K.
@fievrelysis24702 жыл бұрын
But yeah this channel is always talking about how good S.K is
@geminicattheinsomniac84082 жыл бұрын
@@user-sz2ez8tk1y right
@smallbeginning22 жыл бұрын
Here in the Netherlands, you're at home, but a lovely doula type person comes to your home every day for 8 hours. They do all the housework. They bring you tea in bed. They tell your visitors it's time to leave if you want. They weigh the baby and check it. They check the baby's bed and car seat. They teach you breast feeding. It's just like if your mum was a lovely baby nurse and came over to look after you everyday. It's the freaking best. Length depends on a lot of things but from 3-14 days and it's ONE HUNDRED PERCENT FREE!
@KaroTaro2 жыл бұрын
If I ever want a baby I'm moving to the Netherlands
@bestcasescenario08042 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a dream!
@B0ersen2 жыл бұрын
Well.. thats if your baby is not born in summertime when there is shortage of the lovely doulatype persons.. than youre lucky if someone is available for 3 hrs a day. And some are not that great 😊
@YeshuaKingMessiah2 жыл бұрын
It’s 100% taken by force from taxpayers Not free
@smallbeginning22 жыл бұрын
@@YeshuaKingMessiah no, we pay quite good money for our insurance . It's free at point of use which is the important thing.
@magicmarie84032 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile my grandma bitched about me to my ex mother-in-law that I wasn’t doing the dishes and folding my laundry. The week I had my twins.I’m happy Korea is all about children and mothers.
@Lucy-fn9rj2 жыл бұрын
i visited a mormon church as part of a program at my sunday school, and during a part where people got up to share in front of the congregation, one woman talked about how sad she felt because while she was recovering from giving birth to twins via an emergency c-section, she wasn’t able to do any housework. it wasn’t the traumatic birth or stress from having two newborns or pain during a difficult recovery that upset her - it was not being able to cook, clean, etc for like a week that moved her to tears. i will never forget that woman sobbing because her husband had to wash his dirty clothes (no mention of him washing her clothes or their other kids’ clothes, just his own!)
@potato10842 жыл бұрын
@@Lucy-fn9rj So sad. Mormons never fail to amaze me with how strange they are.
@kimmiewise10442 жыл бұрын
@@Lucy-fn9rj And that’s how she personality felt about that matter. That deeply disregulated the delicate balance of her home and that deeply upset her. And that’s okay. There are also people in this world who become deeply depressed and offended by not using the correct nickname or neopronoun. They can feel upset about that too. That’s their business. It’s only when they are trying to force you and me do something that we wouldn’t otherwise do to make them feel better is where the line is. But I see nothing wrong with a woman taking pride in house work and feeling depressed when she has to make her husband do it. That’s their relationship and she is a intelligent and self respecting woman. If that is what she believes is her place in the world, that’s her place and we shouldn’t judge her for being depressed about being unable to to house work that she very much wants to do. In the same way no one should judge you for being depressed about being unable to make money and live for yourself. That’s your decision and your life and your beliefs. I hope that everything goes well for you. But if that Mormon mother felt that she was the one responsible for washing her husbands clothes and being a house wife and doing the house work for her husband gives her life meaning and fulfillment, I would hope that she has a speedy recovery so she can wash his clothes and be the happiest her she can be.
@battlesister15592 жыл бұрын
@@kimmiewise1044 not to mention the whole hormonal changes, especially after giving birth to twins. I hope the new mom, her kids and her husband are all happier now and healthy
@kimmiewise1044 Жыл бұрын
@@battlesister1559 Yeah, it seems disrespectful of the woman to disparage her feelings about being unable to do house work and her felling that it’s her place to do house work. She didn’t say it was every woman’s place, just hers and that she wasn’t doing what she believed was her duty and moral mission to be a house wife and do her husbands laundry. Its disrespect to frame that as if her beliefs and lifestyle are some how lesser than or somehow immoral because Lucy personally would not want to live that lifestyle. Instead of suggesting that it was unfortunate that she felt that way, the actual feminist and egalitarian position would to support her and her choices and hope that she could quickly get back to doing her husbands laundry because that’s what makes her happy and fulfilled with life. No one should judge her or any woman for following a traditional path of being subservient to their husbands. If the woman want to be subservient, let her. Respect her choice. Support her choice. Validate it. That’s what feminism is about. Not pushing all women to live one particular life style because it suits the preference of a minority.
@wareforcoin57802 жыл бұрын
In the US we're just like "lmao good luck, now get out"
@annsmith71962 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t wait to go home. I asked to be let out of the hospital early. I just wanted to be at home with my baby and husband.
@Littlekitten_ Жыл бұрын
Psh you’re kidding ? These hospitals want people to stay longer 😂 its a business they get their paycheck each day you stay!
@user-uy5py5ih2t Жыл бұрын
She sets this up like this extra care is part of the hospital stay in SK and it’s not. In the US dads usually get 2-6 weeks paid time off for paternity leave. I’m SK it’s not “socially acceptable” so US still better.
@user-uy5py5ih2t Жыл бұрын
2-3 days in the hospital is plenty. The nurses do an amazing job but who wants to be there for 7 days and have nurses checking on you every hour and waking up the baby and waking you up etc.
@Leo42.069 Жыл бұрын
@@user-uy5py5ih2t She literally said that its outta pocket so yes she did say that its not apart of the hospital
@ashleighrose81152 жыл бұрын
I mean $100-$200/night isn't bad for all that included its like a new moms retreat and honestly to have that kinda support and to make moms mental health the #1 priority postpartum is truly worth every penny if you ask me! The US should implement somthing like this the Jobs alone it would create would be so beneficial and I feel like it would truly help those struggling mommas to have that kinda support so soon after child birth, especially first time moms and moms who don't have the support of a partner cause the first few weeks home are BRUTAL, this is such a smart way to combat that.. I'm curious what the postpartum depression statistics I south Korea vs. The US are... somthing tells me they're much lower in south korea!
@ICatheraTashaI2 жыл бұрын
First the US needs to actually give maternal and parental leave, like most first world countries do. The "mothers can't be fired for 6 weeks after giving birth" is not maternity leave, they don't receive any financial support during that time. This kind of after birth care would be great, but not affordable to a good majority of women who give birth in hospitals, even just paying the medical bill seems to be a stretch for people.
@kimmiewise10442 жыл бұрын
@@ICatheraTashaI Well that depends on off the service is privatized. In America, any private business is automatically better than state subsidized due to the competitive nature of private enterprise to incentivize care improvements. That’s how medical equipment manufacturers can pump out so much high tech equipment in the states. The problem is when the state is involved.
@wiktoriagwozdowska54842 жыл бұрын
That's what I did think 1/200is not bad 🤔 considering there could be places like this in US which would charge 500/1000k a night knowing how US loves to Rob people
@Lucy-fn9rj2 жыл бұрын
@@kimmiewise1044 this isn’t true. almost any way you measure it, “the competitive nature of private enterprise” has NOT improved healthcare for the average american. the US spends more on healthcare per person than any other country, yet we rank 68th by health index score. by just about every metric - maternal mortality, life expectancy, infant mortality, doctors per capita, equality of access, etc - we‘re worse off than other industrialized countries (almost all of which have some kind of public healthcare). also, almost every medical advancement in the US is partially funded through grants from the federal government.
@sandraromano89192 жыл бұрын
I was wondering about those stats myself!
@milliesecond1022 жыл бұрын
I SO needed this after my C-section! My baby was a premie and he wouldn't latch. I was so stressed and fatigued from trying and had no help at home bc my husband tool all his allowed time off beforehand bc of my bedrest complications. I always look back on that time with sadness. The U.S. needs MAJOR REFORM and fund maternity (pre and post partum) support services instead of sending weapons of war to other countries!
@carolyne19062 жыл бұрын
Fund maternity leave? That’s something you should’ve figured out
@awilliams77962 жыл бұрын
@@carolyne1906 she said maternity support services…can you read?
@m.s.30412 жыл бұрын
The reason why the USA have the highest baby and mother mortality in the whole western world is probably the lack of good prepartum and postpartum care ... bad care kills people... In Germany you have you gynocologist, your midwife, and your doctor at the hospital... And the midwife helps you before and after the birth... She comes to your home and helping out the first few weeks after the delivery... All covered by the public health insurance.
@thelanktheist26262 жыл бұрын
@@awilliams7796 and maternity leave isn’t even a garaunteed in most places so it’s very dumb to think that “she should’ve figured it out” as if it’s not the job’s… job to care for people.
@Adub7712 жыл бұрын
I had to go on bedrest at 27 weeks and remained there until I gave birth at 36 weeks, I had to go back to work after she was 2 weeks old cause we had spent all the $ we had saved up paying bills while I was off, that was suppose to be for my maternity leave, sometimes it doesn’t work outs like we hope for, I hated leaving her that young but we had bills to pay
@sebastianmemphis2832 жыл бұрын
Despite of this fantastic facility for postpartum care, S.Korea has the world's lowest birth rate.
@bobababy60892 жыл бұрын
Raising a child is expensive hence the low birth rate in japan and sk
@sleeplessstudios76262 жыл бұрын
@@bobababy6089 Actually, from my understanding it seems like Japan's biggest problem with birth rates is the fact that they adamantly refuse to give laboring women any form of pain medication. They will NOT administer painkillers unless the woman is actually on the brink of death.
@ashhcatchemall2 жыл бұрын
@@sleeplessstudios7626 maybe they're afraid women will get hooked on the drug? or the painkillers have negative side effects?
@Natalie-ei3vp2 жыл бұрын
@@ashhcatchemall seems like a combination of both! Wiki has a really great page called childbirth in Japan. Worth the read 👍🏽
@nirvanawayne95032 жыл бұрын
I think the latter is actually the cause for the great care (they wanna make it easier and more inviting to have kids).
@hafsa54422 жыл бұрын
Dang if Australia had that mums would stay there forever 😂 Dang thx for all the likes
@sjjdhwhjw12572 жыл бұрын
It's too expensive 200$ per night
@user-pd8te1vv7r2 жыл бұрын
@@sjjdhwhjw1257 other medical fees such as hospital and birth fees are cheap there. Compared to US . So it cancels out. And there a lot of services provided
@sjjdhwhjw12572 жыл бұрын
@@user-pd8te1vv7r I'm not from US. Birth fees in my country is free when done from government hospitals. For private hospitals maximum you need to pay around 400 dollars for the entire process and stay for 3 to 4days.
@sjjdhwhjw12572 жыл бұрын
@@user-pd8te1vv7r you guys are very rich then😅 staying there for 2weeks would cost me more than my entire salary of 1 month😅
@amelia-jd3vy2 жыл бұрын
@@sjjdhwhjw1257 fr lol
@boujee39302 жыл бұрын
In Sweden, where I’m from, you give birth them go home, basically, (unless you have a c-section or any other problems). Furthermore paid maternity and paternity leave in Sweden are very long, like 16 months per parents.
@CertifiedClapaholic2 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck. So, you could just keep pumping out kids, pump out like 8 of em and not have to work for over 10 years...
@vem95832 жыл бұрын
In Finland many moms give birth in a Sauna. Finland also has long paid maternity and paternity leave
@marwin4362 жыл бұрын
@Noora sweden has some terrible areas, the maternity leave is so long because they have a problem with a shrinking population
@marwin4362 жыл бұрын
@Noora it definetely is if you live in a nice region there
@nenaj12 жыл бұрын
So lucky. Here in the states it’s 3 or 6 months.
@TheLovingR2 жыл бұрын
I saw a comment over the Netherlands but it isn't fully explainend. Homebirths are quite common but we are a small country in most occasions you live arround a 10min drive from a hospital if needed. We have good quilified midwifes who assist you during you're pregnancy, birth and postpartum. They do take a step back if you turn medical. But you can always call them for emotional support or questions. In the hospital you get a lot of staff change so you don't have the same trust level as with you're midwife. Even though they are skilled. You can give birth at home, in a birthing hotel or in the hospital all with you're own midwife. When there are no complications you are send home just mere hours after birth. The midwife will visit you in the first week after birth a couple times and a checkup 6 weeks postpartum in between you can always call them if needed. Also it is common to have a caregiver in the house who checks on you and you're baby, teaches how to take care of you're child, helps with breastfeeding, warns you about things like shake a babysyndroom etc, helps around in the householding stuff (laundry, changing sheets, cleaning, cooking) and just make shure mom gets enough rest. As for maturnal leave it's 16 weeks with 6 to 4 weeks prior birth and always at minumum 10 weeks after (if you gave birth past due date). The partner gets a 1 week after birth and then 6 weeks for 70% income. Then there is since august a parental leave for 9 weeks for 70% income. The Netherlands did a lot of good changes over the past 5 years for partner and parental leave. Before that the partner got just 2 days.
@k.a.t.t12622 жыл бұрын
Home births and delivery with a midwife are becoming very common in the US as well not with out Dr's scaring the daylights out of expecting mothers first of course ( our dr get paid for " delivering the baby" even if they come in only for a minute to catch the baby 🥴 while the nurses are the ones guiding the mama or trying to talk het into getting meds or an epidural... dependson who u get stuck with) but women are finally starting to realize you don't need a hospital unless you're at high risk for complications. I wish we had better maternity and paternity leave tho. If you're in a huge company you might get 6 weeks off ( not paid ) to be with your baby or 6 weeks paid if it's a privet company. Paternity leave almost doesn't exist unless you're a teacher.
@rememberme30592 жыл бұрын
Im half korean half maroccain but i dont know anything about korean culture because my mom was arrested when i was young so watching her videos to learn more about my culture is so amazing to me. Thank you
@Death_the_Kid2 жыл бұрын
Why was your mom arrested if you don't mind me asking? :/
@rememberme30592 жыл бұрын
@@Death_the_Kid child abuse. Child neglectstion. Attempted murder and some other things
@honeybunny792 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing better now
@rememberme30592 жыл бұрын
@@honeybunny79 tyty💗
@peaceflowerstudios68332 жыл бұрын
@@Death_the_Kid with that emoji expression and the obvious judgement from it, they're probably not going to answer you
@Delicate_Disaster2 жыл бұрын
And because you don't have to pay the hospital an entire years worth of rent, you can afford to go to these recovery places. Magnificent.
@86aidan312 жыл бұрын
My mom stayed for like 12 hours after she had all her kids. She is a nurse and hates being in the hospital as a patient. We were all a month premature too and I had jaundice but that didn’t stop my parents from dipping ASAP 😅
@sappyice2 жыл бұрын
Sane on like all three accounts (jaundice, one month early, and my mom worked at the hospital) minus my mom had to stay way longer because she had a c-section.
@hmuniz0022 жыл бұрын
Yeah my wife was in the same boat. She can't stand being in the hospital.
@imtired54012 жыл бұрын
Damn how many kids did she have in one sitting ?
@86aidan312 жыл бұрын
@@imtired5401 lmfao, not what I meant. One set of twins I guess but the other 3, one of which is me, were born a few years apart and everything. Not sure if this was a joke or not, if it wasn't, hope this clears it up. :)
@imtired54012 жыл бұрын
@@86aidan31 No it wasn’t a joke lol They way u said “she stayed for 12 hours after she had *all her kids* “ made it seem like she had quintuplets or something lol
@Crazt2 жыл бұрын
Aside from the obvious, having a kid in the US requires taking out a second mortgage the other reason is US hospitals are concerned about antibiotic resistant infections. They want to minimize anyone staying if they can get the same care from home. Personally, I'd like this to come with more home visits by medical professionals but our health care system is a joke so that won't happen
@isolatedalien56962 жыл бұрын
In the US, my insurance covered 3 days after the baby was born. So it didn't matter if you labored for 2 days, those 2 days plus 3 are covered. For my first baby i did stay, but for the second I wanted to be home as soon as possible. I just like being home.
@kimnn88822 жыл бұрын
Same. I stayed 2 days because of risk of hemorage and infection. As soon as they said we could go home we were walking out the door.
@isolatedalien56962 жыл бұрын
@@kimnn8882 I stayed because I had pre-eclampsia and I think they wanted to monitor me for a day or two. But by the time I had #2, I lost a good amount of weight and had a normal pregnancy. I didn't like being stuck there lol
@PumpkinMozie Жыл бұрын
I agree with this as someone who has stayed at one of these facilities in SK. It was not as comfortable as they make it sound and I just wanted to freaking go home!!!!
@victorias12632 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a great way to get started on motherhood and to avoid the scary questions that you have no one to ask also may help with the postpartum depression depression absolutely love it thank you for sharing💙
@cocobear2852 жыл бұрын
Canadian here. I had a c section and I was excited when my surgeon cleared me after 26 hours. My husband got 8 weeks off paid by the government. I didn't want to stay in the hospital. I had a midwife that came to me for all the baby checks she even removed my staples. It was my second c-section so I knew how to take care of myself and my baby. It was wonderful not having to stay in the hospital longer than was necessary.
@toyhappyutube2 жыл бұрын
Canadian as well. For our first child we stayed 2 days (myself as dad included) for 2 days because my wife tore during the vaginal birth plus we’d just had a huge ice storm so there was almost no places with power outside the hospital. I took several months off paid leave as well as my wife. Baby 2 we had planned to have at home but was coming too fast that the midwife wouldn’t make it in time. We met at the hospital half way. From start of contractions to birth was 4 hours. We were home 10 hours after that (which we loved). Both had paid time off again.
@2late4date2 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile, in the US, your insurance carrier will call you before you leave the hospital to ask how you intend to pay the bills. 🤔🤯
@epicherbalism2 жыл бұрын
We are still in the dark ages when it comes to caring for new moms in the US :( Pretty disgusting since it's the foundational for us - even dogs get more time with their newborns! - it affects the health & mental health of the mom, kid & thus the family & society. Also gyno in general is pretty abusive to women & causes MANY unnecessary C Sections, which is a major surgery!
@gypsyeyes11302 жыл бұрын
After I had my baby I just wanted to be in my own home as soon as possible.
@m.s.30412 жыл бұрын
In Germany a midwife will come to your home and help you out the first few weeks... It is fully funded by the public health insurance... Also tell you the baby 101 and check the vitals of the baby, checking your post birth body and so on
@Littlekitten_ Жыл бұрын
@@m.s.3041 is that mandatory? I know personally I wouldn’t want a stranger in my house after i give birth
@shavedparmesanprosciuttoan43172 жыл бұрын
America would just find a way to make this an extremely expensive mandatory institution that women would be frowned upon and judged if they did not partake In.
@JohnHausser2 жыл бұрын
Life in the 🇺🇸 is great if you have $$$$$$ Cheers from San Diego California
@Littlekitten_ Жыл бұрын
Or if you dont theres so much government aid people forget to mention. Im a product of that and my mom gave birth to 5 girls with no bills 👍🏼 people gotta do their research
@cheesecakepaws2 жыл бұрын
I would have given a lot to have something like this here in my country. This sounds amazing and postpartum is so exhausting and stressful including doing household chores and making food etc., you sometimes just break down and cry. On top of that your body just hurts so much after a c section you can barely move anywhere and aren't allowed to lift more than your own baby.
@Beanz-on-Toast2 жыл бұрын
The culture surrounding the care of mothers after birth is so drastically different. On one side of the world you're shoved into lifelong debt, kicked out on your own and left to deal with whatever youve got going on after that then on the other side there's whole facilities to care for and support mothers reasonably priced for everything you recieve, the attitude and customs centred towards mothers is one of respect and admiration.
@evil1by12 жыл бұрын
Well I mean have you heard how people talk about children and people who have kids in the US? They act like they have been personally victimized because babies exist and you had one.
@sngray112 жыл бұрын
I wish that care for women during pregnancy and postpartum was at the same high standard throughout the world.
@Immortal4everable2 жыл бұрын
I’m 6 months postpartum and I truly believe that I could have avoided the unbelievably difficult PPD if I had something like this. I was alone after 3 weeks and my husband worked 2 hours away from our home. We had just moved to a new home and I had no friends or family. This would have saved me. Thankfully, I’m beginning to come out on the other side. I thought I was going to lose that fight.
@annicerader60212 жыл бұрын
Good luck!! ♥️
@LaJuera252 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you’re going through that! I had a similar issue. Whenever I felt a weird thought I’d start praying right away and that helped me a lot.
@user-uy5py5ih2t Жыл бұрын
In your circumstances yes the extra care she mentioned sounds like it would have been a great help but that’s why it’s an out of pocket expense. The issue is she sets it up like the extra care is part of the hospital stay and it’s not. She doesn’t reveal that until the end and mentions it’s out of pocket expense.
@amieparham76572 жыл бұрын
That's honestly really sad that the men can't be there for their wives and newborns, instead their best option is staying apart from each other.
@frankslefttesticle32472 жыл бұрын
There should definitely be more paternity leave for new fathers.
@mexicotaco0913 Жыл бұрын
ahh, the plight of living in a misogynistic, late stage capitalist society
@jessicacolabewala4724 Жыл бұрын
Thought the same. I’d much rather be home with my baby and husband
@samaraisnt Жыл бұрын
same thought it would be kind of sad being alone...
@user-hw8vy1dy9k Жыл бұрын
I'm korean. The men couldn't stay with his wife because Covid. Now its getting better. My baby is due July, my husband gonna stay with me😉
@Survivingabuse2 жыл бұрын
You’ve convinced me. Not only about how advanced Korea is and how much I’d like to live there for a bit or at least give birth there but also that adorable baby gave me such intense baby fever!!!!! Those little cheekies! The little baby! The small baby! The little baby !!! So small 😭
@CC-uq7cv Жыл бұрын
South Korea has very serious issues as well.
@ebl362 жыл бұрын
This is such a good idea - it prevents mums from overstretching themselves postpartum, plus they aren’t tempted to wash up/tidy up and don’t have to look after everyone else! perfect
@kesamber2 жыл бұрын
That's so cool! The 48 hours goes by like a blur and whatever information good doctor's and nurses provide sometimes is not properly retained because we are so exhausted!
@froge7382 жыл бұрын
Im prone to postpartum depression, as im having depression from my pregnancy already, and i would LOVE if i had an option like that. Being in the US, paternal leave is basically nonexistent unless you get very lucky or have a lot of money, and the thought of having my husband still having to work in that first month our son is here just kills me inside. I have a muscle disorder that affects my legs and back, and being pregnant makes it much much harder to walk than it already was. I depend on him a lot, and i just dont know what ill do when i have to recover without him.
@evil1by12 жыл бұрын
I mean normal people who aren't toxic assholes have this thing called a family..you know the persons who birthed you two and their birthing people, typically also included is siblings, fathers and assorted aunts and uncles. I'm a massive asshole and I had a huge parade of family in and out the whole time helping
@froge7382 жыл бұрын
@@evil1by1 my family abused me 😶
@suzumi1112 ай бұрын
god bless you and i hope you and your baby are healthy ❤!!
@jaheje70792 жыл бұрын
$2,000 for two weeks of care? Dang, that so cheap!
@Sophie3647s2 жыл бұрын
Cheap? I rather just have someone with experience, who close to me like a parent, in law, relative help me. Then again I dont have a child, so maybe these women are very wealthy to be able to produce during expensive times
@jaheje7079 Жыл бұрын
@@Sophie3647s personally I don't have any worries financially now but when I had my first I did. On my side I have no family and my in laws are super intense on religion so it's more work than it's worth for them to help. Husband was/is super hands on though, he the biggest support. It would have been amazing for us to have this opportunity as new parents and in the US it would be much more than $2000 for round the clock help. My part-time nanny (US) makes that much in just over two weeks for about 60 hours of help. It's way cheaper in Korea.
@Sophie3647s Жыл бұрын
@@jaheje7079 I agree 2k more affordable in comparison to the USA. In NY you can someone to pay for 2k. Maybe even 1500, but they won't speak English 😅
@jorgefernandezgarcia-roco4376 Жыл бұрын
In Spain is free
@viktorias63 Жыл бұрын
cheap? hell nah
@user-jb3wg1vn3e2 жыл бұрын
요즘 일부 시.도에는 공공 산후조리원도 생겨서 상대적으로 저렴하게 이용된다더라구요
@secretgiggles84302 жыл бұрын
What about the medical services there...?
@bmo14lax2 жыл бұрын
@@secretgiggles8430 I'd assume it's covered with the cost
@jill66802 жыл бұрын
Back in 1995 in the U.S. , they kicked me to the curb with a 16 hour old baby. I was in the hospital for 23 hrs (shortish labor and spent much of it at home). I asked to stay because I was so anxious and they denied me. Said it was a non complicated birth. My milk hadn't come in and after 5 days home I had a screaming baby that lost a pound because the advice nurse said, "he's getting enough milk". He wasn't. I felt like the worse mom AND I missed our on so much.
@zenluvsfun2 жыл бұрын
In US a lot of women have their mother or other relatives stay for a time to help. This kind of place would be nice for ppl who don’t have family available to help.
@missfortune8553 Жыл бұрын
And a lot of women don’t even have family to reach out to, at all.
@LisetteZ32 жыл бұрын
Here in the Netherlands, you get the first 7 to 10 days a nurse in your house, who helps with the baby while mom recovers and teaches everything about taking care of the baby. Also helps with older children if there are any. And cooks a meal for the evenings you only have to heat up. It’s amazing 😻
@bohemelavie12 жыл бұрын
I love that it's an option for those that want and/or need it. Personally I would want to be in my own home, but the fact that this choice is available is so cool.
@Blessed_SAHM_Of32 жыл бұрын
As an American I'm so very jealous of these other countries policies for post partum care.
@urusledge2 жыл бұрын
You'd just throw a fit that it costs 200 bucks a night and demand yet another free service because everything imaginable is a right that you are entitled to. Nevermind other people have to work for that to happen, you are entitled to it, and your rights are more important than theirs. We are all just slaves to your comfort.
@cherrybombrose35322 жыл бұрын
@@urusledge nothing in America is free, not even our rights. Who hurt you buddy?
@Blessed_SAHM_Of32 жыл бұрын
@@urusledge Quality, affordable healthcare is a human right and should be treated as such... who pissed in your cornflakes my dude? Thank god you decided to share your worthless opinion that you think all Americans(or socialists, cant tell which your trying to troll here tbh) are trash tho, how would i have carried on in my day without it?? rofl ...🤨
@trparnell872 жыл бұрын
@@urusledge this is maidenless behavior my dude.
@azariaasleep76212 жыл бұрын
@@urusledge no bitches?
@caylarose66582 жыл бұрын
This is so cool! I would love to experience this! Wish they had this in the US
@KimandKamJam2 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure you can but it won't cost you $100 - $200 a night
@caylarose66582 жыл бұрын
@@KimandKamJam here it would probably cost the same as a luxury hotel stay 🙄 but this would help so many mothers especially the single moms who no help
@berserkagain79762 жыл бұрын
@@KimandKamJam it costs around $50,000 just for a baby to be born I bet you 100%. It's at least $5,000 a night. And it's probably not even that fancy to be honest it's probably some dark room that looks like a prison cell or something depressing like that.
@euthania57832 жыл бұрын
I had my son in the US and I had an emergency c-section but they let me go home after 2 days probably because of covid and I wouldn't stop getting up and couldn't sleep there anyway. I think they noticed that I told my nurses I'd rather be home when they would do my evaluations 😅 it was less stressful on me to be home. Although I had to go to a different hospital than planned, my hospital offered all of that, even after you leave you get numbers for on-call hospital specialists like nursing specialists, pediatricians, etc. I was not about any of the yoga or classes but they had them too
@jennprescott27572 жыл бұрын
Shame…so sad that societies have just neglected family so much that everything is outsourced. In China families do this for each other for 30 days.
@Berryations2 жыл бұрын
In America it’s usually the family and friends who do this kind of care… bring meals, help with cleaning usually a grandmother or aunt will come and stay or a friend for a few weeks. I’d want to be home not in some hotel with my newborn
@m.s.30412 жыл бұрын
@@Berryations this is the good part of the German system where you mostly deliver you baby in the hospital and after you get home, a midwife will help you out, help you with the baby, your healing body, checking the vitals of the baby and so on... And all covered by the public health insurance... This is one if the many reasons why the USA have the highest baby and mother mortality rate in the whole western world...
@beth8775 Жыл бұрын
Not everybody has family/friends that are able to help so much, if at all.
@sachelahondeng2 жыл бұрын
That 2 week stay is a equivalent of a lower standard 2-3 day stay in hospital in Kenya. Taking notes. 📝
@ksis862 жыл бұрын
Dang i would definitely pay for at least a week in there. I could go into labor any time within the next few weeks and im really not looking forward to navigating postpartum 😭
@sphinx26252 жыл бұрын
Shows how much Murica cares for women 🙄
@berserkagain79762 жыл бұрын
Let's get our children raped and then let's not let them have an abortion!! Then charge them $50,000 to have a baby they will most likely die from! Then let's ignore the health and mental health of new moms! And then when they finally are about to get help let's put them on a year-long waiting list!
@callmewaves11602 жыл бұрын
No more than cattle, producing more workers for industry.
@sphinx26252 жыл бұрын
@@callmewaves1160 Sad
@Littlekitten_ Жыл бұрын
Psh CPS cant even protect abused children. We have too many flaws
@missfortune8553 Жыл бұрын
@@callmewaves1160 Since the birth rate was declining they have now resorted to forcing women to birth new livestock.
@franciswhite72402 жыл бұрын
Maternity center and postpartum care is so so important for moms to recover! It is no secret them at they want to discourage child birth in the US.
@katuranix83902 жыл бұрын
I love this for first moms. However, I’d miss my other babies the whole time. That 2 days is the longest break I can handle.
@Biggiecheeze4202 жыл бұрын
America: Imagine supporting mothers after childbirth🤣🤣 that would be $50,000 if you leave the same day!
@AllAboutPurple Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 😫😫😫😫 sad truth….
@that_myth_nerd2 жыл бұрын
I was born at 5 50 pm, and my mom had to be out of the hospital by 8 the next morning. didn't get much sleep, and barely had any food or care until she was home and had my dad to help her out
@juukaart9530 Жыл бұрын
I had a C-section and got out of the hospital the day after it. The hospital was too full and in the end it was way better to go back home and have support from my family than to be just my husband and I alone, since no one could visit during covid.
@dv8574 Жыл бұрын
And if we had that in the US, the cost for one night would be the same as the 2 weeks in Korea
@merelha59302 жыл бұрын
Most people here in the Netherlands give birth at home I think, unless there are complications. I'm not completely sure how it works but they usually get help from a midwife who helps a bit before the birth (like weeks or months) with explaining and preparing and after the birth to take some pressure off of the family and explain things like bathing and keeps an eye on everyone involved
@m.s.30412 жыл бұрын
In Germany it's the same, just the births are mostly in the hospital...
@Korilian132 жыл бұрын
In the Netherlands, a nurse comes to your house to help take of you and your baby (and teach you the basics). I think its better because you get to recover in your own home and the dad can actually be involved in the childcare right from the start.
@agsheuehd2 жыл бұрын
Tbh, it's kind of sad to see sanhoojoriwon getting popular in Korea these days because husbands are unwilling to take care of their wife and babys.
@dawnvega383 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a bargain to me!!! What a way to learn from the best and supportive care takers!
@awesometastic-10172 жыл бұрын
I live in a place where 100 dollars would JUST cover a night in a hotel. For all the other stuff? Forget about it! That’s amazing! I would usually support a few weeks of paternity leave tho as long as it’s used for actual mom care and child bonding.
@Otakutori2 жыл бұрын
In the Netherlands we have ‘Kraamzorg’. A qualified maternity nurse or health care professional, ‘kraamverzorgster’, comes to the home in order to provide care and instruction for the newborn for the initial eight to 10 days immediately after birth. Kraamzorg care is included in standard health insurance packages in the Netherlands; though, depending on specific policy, a small contribution for each hour of care is expected. Also I’m pretty sure that if a mother experienced complications during labor, that the time a kraamverzorgster stays is longer without any extra cost. But not 100% sure about that one.
@SL-gz3dy2 жыл бұрын
When you have twins i think it is longer as well.
@user-uy5py5ih2t Жыл бұрын
Funny she sets this up like this extra care is part of the hospital stay in SK but it’s actually an OUT OF POCKET cost that is NOT part of the hospital stay. In US, dads generally get 2-6 weeks paid time off for paternity leave depending where you work lol. In SK it’s not “socially acceptable”. She does a good job spinning this to make the US sound horrible lol.
@darovirr Жыл бұрын
She is saying that America is horrible
@user-uy5py5ih2t Жыл бұрын
@@darovirr ...yeah that's why I commented about the US having better care lol. Thanks for pointing out what she is obviously saying? lol.
@kristelagarcia7562 Жыл бұрын
I would love to see this series for every country! It’s so interesting !
@cameoburns20652 жыл бұрын
My family has always done ours at home. With my mom, she moved in with her mom (my Gramma), who helped her tremendously! She also helped to raise us (my lil sis & me) while both my parents worked. My Gramma was born (1901) & raised on a farm. Back then, a lot of people still had their babies at home. A mid-wife or a doctor would make a house call. Older siblings were sometimes present for these births. Mother’s, Grandmothers, Sisters, Aunts & female cousins would often help a new mother. This has always been the way it is in my family. I helped to raise my sister’s two kids, & I even babysit my niece’s son! My lil sis helped my niece (her daughter) thru her first times & is still there for her even though her grandson is ten years old. My nephew has a daughter that lives with her Mother, Grandmother, & various other family members. I suppose this is what it means when they say, “It takes a village to raise a child”. I can’t imagine having it any other way.
@alisterblackrhyker84402 жыл бұрын
You had me till the 'let's not men be present parents.' I like having an active part in my child life and want to be there in the beginning.
@Hotcheetos7772 жыл бұрын
It’s not that they don’t let men not be present parents, the men themselves just don’t really do much. The excuse is that they’ve worked all day and are tired. Plus even if there’s maternity leave/ paternity leave, men rarely use it. Korean society is so fast paced that once they come back to work they’re so far behind thats its hard to catch up. That and the boss/company kinda disapprove when men go on paternity leave. It’s worse for the women, they most likely quit their jobs, but it’s changing (slowly) for women here
@alisterblackrhyker84402 жыл бұрын
@@Hotcheetos777 it's like that because people in power bullying and mock men who take an active role in their childs life they also get punished at work with extra stuff or Lossing out on promotion. They literally take children's father's from them. I don't care if their society is fast, it's not right. My morals don't change. Men deserve to be in their child life just as much as the mother. The world is pretty sexist.
@alisterblackrhyker84402 жыл бұрын
@@Hotcheetos777 notonly that but raising a child is comparable to have 2.5 jobs. No mom should have to do everything because the culture forces her too.
@Hotcheetos7772 жыл бұрын
@@alisterblackrhyker8440 Yes exactly. They do deserve to be in their child's life, as long as they actually put in the effort. A lot of the times in Korea, 'putting in the effort = making money' and men think that's enough. They don't bother building relationships with their children (little to no communication) and then wonder why their children don't visit when they're old and gray and complain. And I don't blame the children. I don't think there are many men like you in korea, it's just not in the culture. Sure people are changing, but it's going to take a looooooong time before men actually start to think that housework is their responsibility too, EVEN when they go out to work. Because raising a child you get no breaks imo. I'm 25y/o female in korea and there are so many times where I've been told that the kitchen is a "woman's area", and that men shouldn't be in there by my grandparents. I've fought with them because of this and is now seen as the black sheep lol, and now honestly I've just given up on trying to change their thoughts. I get it, they're old and stuck in their ways. When their generation dies off there will be less sexists in korea I dare say.
@alisterblackrhyker84402 жыл бұрын
@@Hotcheetos777 your a strong and amazing women to be dealing with family drama and raising a child. Thank you for educating me. It's so funny that's men's typical response is women belong in the kitchen when world famous male chefs like Gordon Ramsay exist and other talented male chefs. (I hate Ramsey as a person). Your an awesome person again thank you for taking time out of your day to educate me.
@rockyball99772 жыл бұрын
Like damn sounds like a 1400 dollar vacation ive had to deal with helping my sister with 3 babies and i would immediately jump to pay for this program
@mellou042 жыл бұрын
Bless you for helping your sister. I agree. My husband was able to take as much time off as needed and my in-laws took care of my older children while I struggled with PPA after my third birth. I would use an option like this because adding to the anxiety and panic is the guilt that you aren’t ‘bouncing back’ and feeling like you are burdening other people. This would also be a great time for health care professionals to monitor mothers for signs of PPD/PPA and get treatment if needed.
@snowps1 Жыл бұрын
In the US sometimes if you have an easy birth and healthy baby you can go home that same day from the hospital. The faster they can get you out the door the quicker they can charge the next person's insurance to come in. Sadly the number one priority of US healthcare is profit, not health.
@Krishna-mr6ju2 жыл бұрын
I had my first baby 50 years ago. Then it was common to stay in hospital 7 days after birth. This time was really important especially new mums. I left feeling fairly confident with the basics and had gotten into a good routine. Plus learning how to breast feed. Following this there were visits to maternal and child welfare clinics that helped with the next few months stages.
@Hammmmburger2 жыл бұрын
My mom is American and had three kids all c section, my oldest bro had the tube twisted so much he had to have a emergency c section 2 weeks early, my middle bro didn’t want to come out, so 2 weeks later, she had a c section, and me I had to be a c section in the fear of her scar ripping open during birth, 12 hours after her c section she went home
@LeeHanHart2 жыл бұрын
North, Central or South American?
@noname-ni4qi2 жыл бұрын
I seriously don’t know why people are obsessed with America.
@noname-ni4qi2 жыл бұрын
North*
@azariaasleep76212 жыл бұрын
@@noname-ni4qi The USA* but also it's because we suck at pretty much everything except killing other people Edit: and music sometimes I guess
@Littlekitten_ Жыл бұрын
I guess because of Hollywood and N.Y … :/
@isabelleisabelle4896 Жыл бұрын
Because they compare their happy country with the worse one they know. In France we do the same comparing healthcare, college cost and working conditions.
@noname-ni4qi Жыл бұрын
@@isabelleisabelle4896 maybe. I prefer Europe. States are … messy.
@Truaeza2 жыл бұрын
After I had my baby, there was no help, and there was no recovery period. The staff even had me walk 20 minutes after giving birth and I almost fainted.
@N975432 жыл бұрын
I live in the U.S. and the hospital where I had my baby was clean and organized, the staff was friendly, and I had my own room. I still hated it and couldn’t wait to leave. I was bummed when they made me stay for 2 days; I wanted to leave as soon as the 24 hours were up.
@austinfrye33892 жыл бұрын
$100-200 a night for all of that? That’s how much hotels are nowadays that are maybe a 3 Star and you only get breakfast
@sjjdhwhjw12572 жыл бұрын
That's per night. That's a lot
@austinfrye33892 жыл бұрын
@@sjjdhwhjw1257 but with 3 square meals a day plus training on how to take care of your child. I mean in my opinion i think that’s a great deal. A mediocre hotel is $135 a night in Florida with only one meal. I know i shouldn’t compare the two but i think the maternity care/training is a great deal
@sjjdhwhjw12572 жыл бұрын
@@austinfrye3389 true but I think only rich people could afford that much. Stay for 2weeks would cost me 2 months of my salary. My mother or mother in law could help me with child care and I could easily get a helper for a whole month who would do everything for me with just 3days stay worth of that money.
@six96392 жыл бұрын
@@sjjdhwhjw1257 yes, but, it more than evens out because of the low hospital fees to deliver a child. In the US, it can cost not a month, not two months, but sometimes a year salary to deliver. Hospitals in the US even charge extra for you to be able to hold your child. Also, maturity leave can be as little as two weeks. There are many jokes about how Americans would rather die than call an ambulance, because of the high costs. And sometimes, it's not a joke, people would really rather just die.
@kashinimeyo2 жыл бұрын
Hey- I just need to know if I can give birth in Korea as a US citizen since it seems like Korea has significantly more infrastructure to support women and their newborns than the US does
@Lillybrae1 Жыл бұрын
I have really been enjoying the comparisons that you provide. And, this past year I have been enjoying K dramas. I am starting to know and appreciate Korean culture thanks to these things. Thank you for sharing 😊.
@mMU4aCpVq-j Жыл бұрын
Her videos are so helpful to let my fiancé understand the amount of care I would need as a Korean woman.
@mine482 жыл бұрын
yea you have lots of luxury but the bills is.... yea we dont talk about that
@user-ic6nm4ol4r2 жыл бұрын
For 100/200$ for basically 3 meals/2 small ones, parent education and a massage I'd say it's worth
@mine482 жыл бұрын
200$, is there like a by week or by month stay, cuz if it is 200$ only and you can stay for a long time, then that i'd say it is worth it, although im pretty sure the father wont be covered in the pay as well as earlier born kids like at the age of 5 wont be covered in the bill as well, probably just the baby and mother so still not that good, since (this is when the mother already gave birth) the first born child wont have anyone in their house since he cant stay in with the mother since he isnt covered in the bills, the father obviously he is busy for work so not that efficient i'd say, if its just the mother father and baby, the father can visit since i think they allow visitors obviously imagine they dont, yea that's my thoughts
@sjjdhwhjw12572 жыл бұрын
200 dollars per night for one person is lottttttttttttt.
@c457jajsudbe2 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile I cried the entire car ride home because I was in so much pain. I would have loved two weeks because that was the hardest part of recovery but my husband got paternity leave so that wouldn't be worth giving up.
@paigesimpson99262 жыл бұрын
I’m from the US and I went home 44hrs after my c-section. My husband took one week off from work (unpaid had to use his saved vacation time) to stay home with me. I had no help. I still get no help 3.5 years later. What I would do for that level of support and care directly after birth. I couldn’t imagine how much better my postpartum depression and anxiety would have been.
@elizabethfindlay57522 жыл бұрын
I'm in Canada and I had c-sections and was out and comfy in my house less than 24 hrs after my son was born. I had very short stays for both, I was grateful.
@reginaworthey14012 жыл бұрын
Yeah, in the US they throw you out as soon as possible
@sayhello53772 жыл бұрын
Because hospitals aren’t long term care facilities, other mothers need the room after you, and birth is a natural process, not an organ transplant. 😆 For hundreds and thousands of years, women birthed at home. We don’t need 2 week hospital stays for uncomplicated deliveries.
@reginaworthey14012 жыл бұрын
@@sayhello5377 before hospitalization got so expensive, women stayed longer and we're allowed to rest. It's about money.
@tahia37732 жыл бұрын
All this channel does is give me reasons to leave USA and go to live in Korea instead. And my ass lives in Bangladesh 🤡
@malcolmgruber81652 жыл бұрын
Two weeks doing this is still cheaper than the hospital bill here in the US.
@getyoinked39372 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but that shot of the baby in the little star suit thingy was so cute 😭😭😭
@Yo_2352 жыл бұрын
Not related to the topic but somehow i am early to a video
@sebastianmemphis2832 жыл бұрын
congratulation
@Yo_2352 жыл бұрын
@@sebastianmemphis283 thanks
@vihangipereraatstdte92112 жыл бұрын
postpartum recommendation child
@randomclipsmilitary90562 жыл бұрын
“But south Korea” 🤓🤓🤓🤓
@jaydyboo2 жыл бұрын
And in the UK we're encouraged to leave just a few hours later, a day or 2 for c-sections. Crazy! I love this idea, it makes a lot more sense having this kind of support.
@sunday44192 жыл бұрын
In Germany you have to stay home for 8 weeks after birth (fully paid). Then you can go into paternity leave for 1 year with ~60% payment and 2 more years without payment. Your employer has to give you a Job with similar task and payment after those 3 years.
@sunday44192 жыл бұрын
And the paternity leave counts for both, mom and dad. So theoretically both can stay home for 3 years
@william75462 жыл бұрын
Canadian man with two boys, I prefer the 5-7 weeks of paternity leave we get, we can help mom recover early and use the rest to bond with baby a bit. I find it's better for dad to be around and a hubby to be supportive, instead of the gov supporting mom of baby. But it would be nice to have choices because not everybody is like me!
@cherylcarlson33152 жыл бұрын
Definitely few men like you in US. Most can't work appliances and refuse to nurture or allow rest
@frankslefttesticle32472 жыл бұрын
Paternity leave should be way more common, fathers are a very important part of the baby's development. The mother shouldn't be expected to do everything.
@TheBreechie2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! I left the hospital after four hours with all my kids! So many women would love this!!!
@fa1ruz2 жыл бұрын
In Malaysia there's stay-at-home service where postpartum professional come to care for you depending on how long you want them to. Most the service mentioned in this video is included too. My friend just done with her two week postpartum care and I believe it's about RM2.5k. She said it really helped her a lot.
@alittlefallofrainn2 жыл бұрын
In the US here and was discharged 36hrs after my c-section. They're always trying to get you out ASAP
@vincentc67172 жыл бұрын
I gave birth on a Thursday, the Dr asked if I wanted to stay in the hospital until Monday, I didn't have running water at home, so I readily agreed. I was lucky to have a weekend of help.
@darlenekozak89672 жыл бұрын
Idk in the USA my husband took time off to help me and the mom's helped the new mom learn anything they needed. Support comes in different ways for everyone.
@TheVarzoth2 жыл бұрын
wow, that's such a cool service, even just teaching the basics like bathing a baby is super useful.
@cortneydspence2 жыл бұрын
My family has a tradition where the new mom moves in with grandma and grandpa for a month and that way grandma and help and teach the basics of baby care and the new mom can get more rest. I loved when my sister moved in with my new nephew who happened to be born just before Christmas so it was so fun doing a baby’s first Christmas with a newborn.
@thegirltype Жыл бұрын
What an unbelievable great resource. Helps tremendously for mental health. I would save up and splurge for this resource If available in USA
@gemmaparry45102 жыл бұрын
UK here. Delivered at 09:50 and was told I could go home at midday. My first baby!
@katiearcher44752 жыл бұрын
Military family, i gave birth twice in Japan once in a Japanese hospital (if you're in the Sasebo/Hario/Arita area fully recommend Murakami womens clinic) and the 2nd time base hospital up in Yokosuka. Had no choice due to covid the 2nd time. I stayed in the Japanese hospital for a week, was checked out daily, loved the hospital room (my only charged expense at $100 a day) I was in, and my Doctor coordinated a special birthday meal for me since I celebrated my birthday in the hospital. Base hospital? Prime example of standard US Healthcare? Discharged after 24 hours. 72 hours after discharge? Rushed via ambulance to the ER since I was septic and actively dying. If my stay in the hospital had been longer? It would have been found and i wouldnt have then had to spend 4 days readmitted in the hospital i had just left.
@kidsfirst3671 Жыл бұрын
In the US as high risk natural birth I was in hospital 5 days. I moved to California to get 6 months maternity leave ( only 3 months was paid) & then dads can take 6 months so baby can be home with a parent for the first year of life if you can afford it. Grandparents help a lot with childcare and financial costs. I gave birth in Illinois and they provide a doula and 6 months weekly visits for baby at no cost!
@tbbby3263 Жыл бұрын
This made me cry….. I needed this so bad it Hurts.
@staceyk.210 Жыл бұрын
This is definitely something new To Me!! A nice place were you can stay with your Newborn Child and bond with your baby!! It's always a little tough on New Mom's so having something like this to help is incredible!! Great Video 🔥 and Thanks for Sharing!!💯💯💯💯
@tzveeble16792 жыл бұрын
Similar in Austria, but it's 1 week staying in hospital, not 2, but it's fully covered by public health insurance.
@hacky_sackin2 жыл бұрын
Your baby is so cute and beautiful 🥺
@LilmissJ111 Жыл бұрын
This really could help more here especially for new young mothers.