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Thank you! I couldn't agree more! I'll have to check out your video! Thank you for sharing!

Would you mind linking your video in the comments

@@PregnancyBirthParenting101 Thank for asking ☺️ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qauggbx6s57Wfnk.html

@@PregnancyBirthParenting101 what should be the gap between 2nd and 3rd c section? Plz.reply I lost my second baby

Please I want to ask is primrose oil good for me because I had 4 section I want to try vbac .caster oil is very dangerous for me

Having a supportive provider is so important! Glad you have one and good luck to you!

Hey babe I wanna try for natural after 2 c sections xx

You are so welcome! And congratulations!

Thank you for sharing! 💞 I know how disappointing it is to not have the experience you want, but remember the "true birth experience" is relative. Ultimately, you are the ONLY one who can give birth to your baby no matter how they exit the womb. 😘

Share ur experience

How'd it go

Pls update dear .was it successful?

Same question here your vbac is successful?

@user-mt2bp4dk2z how did it go please am dieing for respond please 🙏 😭😭

@user-mt2bp4dk2z how did it go please am dieing for respond please 🙏 😭😭

Thank you for your kind words and I hope you get the beautiful VBAC you want. Unfortunately those bad apple providers give the rest of them a bad rep. I know many supportive providers who are very encouraging and for those that don't necessarily recommend it, they still support you're decision. Then of course sometimes you have an entire practice of doctors that won't even do a tolac after only one c-section! Which is in direct conflict of what the research says.

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Curious to know what happened ? What kind of delivery did you have in the end?

@ nosaibasfood It was amazing! So, God led me to a doctor that worked at a specific hospital when I was almost 30 weeks pregnant because my week of blood sugar tests showed I had gestational diabetes. This was the only provider willing to take me and 100% understanding of me wanting a VBA2C due to my excessive scaring and anesthesia not working. She was located 2 hours away. Due to my history we expected me to go into labor around 35-37 weeks. I did go into prodromal labor then and stayed in that stage and at 5 cm dilated for 4 weeks. The doctor and I both agreed not to risk forcing anything. I was basically in my second birth’s active labor of contractions every 2-3 minutes that entire time but my entire birth team agreed my body needed proper alignment for anything to work. I saw a chiropractor that specialized in pregnancy every week, a scar tissue and womb specialist that removed all adhesions and allowed my left side to actually expand and broke the scar blockage on my right side that even my husband could feel by touching my stomach, a pelvic floor therapist that did a ton of work vaginally and rectally due to a rotated tailbone and messed up muscles, and my birth doula did my PTSD therapy to release triggers. I had so many people praying for me. Well, my doctor and entire team, except doula, went on Christmas vacation (non of them were expecting me to last 4 weeks in labor). I woke up on December 22, 2022 at 12:30 in a transition, an intensity I have never felt. I was stuck on the toilet for about an hour with contractions every minute emptying myself with only about 30 seconds of rest. I screamed for help with everyone sleeping through it. I finally managed to get my husband and told him to call everyone. He tried to get me back in bed thinking labor would slow or stop like it had done every day that month. Nope, I was literally punching walls. He called the closest family to watch our boys since my aunt wouldn’t be there for 30 minutes. We managed to get me up in the truck when my water broke so hard I was launched into the back seat (I was facing it to keep my belly hanging since 2nd baby flipped face up during the ride to the hospital last time). I got whiplash from the intensity but didn’t realize it until after the adrenaline wore off (my chiropractor easily fixed my neck). As soon as the water broke (which was one big gush and not the repeated trickle I was warned about) the pain went away. The contractions were still one on top of another but not painful. Hubby ran in for towels then hit the gas. He was going so fast because it was a freeze and no cars on the highway he topped out the speedometer trying to keep in front of the ice storm. Well, 5 minutes down the road I yelled for him to stop. He managed to pull off on a tank farm road where the state occasionally parks equipment close to the highway. In the process he some how called 911 at the same time I managed to flip over with my right leg on the seat and left leg on the floor and pull my diaper off (FYI, it cannot hold that much liquid). The baby’s head popped out and then his body slid out onto the seat and into hubby’s arms. He had his left arm up like Superman. He was born at 2:39AM without any pain or help from me. Literally felt like a bubble going through my body. I had prayed for no stitches and I didn’t get any. My swelling was so bad that 4 people missed my small tear from his knuckles but it healed on its own beautiful. It took 20 more minutes for the ambulance to get there due to the ice. Baby was doing great but my FIL had to get on the phone to tell the staff to take me to the hospital of my choice (he trained them). Thankfully, God led us to that hospital because 12 hours later baby needed NICU for breathing issues . Doctors couldn’t figure out what was going on and he still had difficulty when we brought him home on Christmas Day but a friend recommended a homeopathic specialist who had him better in days of treatment. The hospital was also a blessing because they gave me free care since they basically did nothing for me and being cash pay only had to pay a portion of the baby’s hospital fee, except the specialists who we had a discounted payment plan with. The doctor actually made sure we knew to prepare for all this when we first met her so that we could have the benefits cash pay comes with in the 10 day window you get and since she was on vacation, but technically made all choices for my care she didn’t charge me a doctor’s fee. So, everything I prayed for was answered, even the sign of my water breaking at home meaning I would have a vaginal birth, we just weren’t expecting the truck.

​@kristadavis2825 wow congratulations 🎊

Thank you!

Thank you so much!!! 💞💗😘

Ur successful in vbac after ur 2cs?

Yes girl, YOU GOT THIS!!!

I just had a home VBAC after 3 C sections

@@luckyduck2928 really

@Lucky Duck plz share your birth experience. I m in so much depression after my 2nd c section

Thank you for your feedback!

Thank YOU for your comment! If you're able to do some birth processing with your husband and a counselor/therapist before your next labor/delivery that would be very helpful!

wow are we the same person . i didnt see my son either and they gave me meds to fall asleep and i woke up twice and was still being cut. I was shaking so bad

@@alessandriatilley706 I'm so sorry you had to go through that. It sucks. I am still so jealous of people who have normal deliveries, whether it's csection or not. Hopefully you'll get a healing experience someday!

Same here my 1st birth story is so tragic for me I never want to go into depth about it. My 2nd was a planned c Section and the experience was so peaceful but I still feel like I missed out on the vaginal experience so baby#3 I want to try for a vaginal birth.

Any update?

Hi did you have a VBAC?

My son was almost two when I got pregnant again. No pain with the scar one I recovered from surgery/birth.

You can do this Mama!!!!

How far along are you

Any update plz

Had you deliver your baby through vbac

The day before my due date! 39 weeks and 6 days! Thank you! 🥰💞💗😘

Thank YOU!!! It's more about how long it's been since your last C-section. Over two years is good and anything farther out from that is better and better.

Both of mine were too! Definitely I corporate the Dailey essentials video from the spinning babies website! Good luck Mama!!!

I pray 🙏🏾 for the best !!

Did you have vbac or repeat cs?

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@grachy8 hw did he go ?

No limit! And yes girl, yes I did lol.

Cap?

From what I have been told, it's not recommended because you're at higher risk of uterine rupture with a vertical incision. (I'm not an expert, by the way)

God bless you Mama!! Praying for a beautiful and healing birth experience for you! 🙏🏼💞

How was it can you share with me what happened with your vbac

You got this Mama!!! 👍🏼💞😘💗

Do spinning babies during your pregnancy!!! And check out the video for pushing on my channel to show you ways to push that opens your pelvis in different ways. Some women realty have to work hard to help the baby fit, but it is possible!

I had a successful VBA2C. No issues. Textbook delivery. Planning a 2VBA2C in December.

Faith. God has seen me through so much already that I knew no matter what happened that he would see me through it! Not only that, but he would use me to help others with similar experiences. I did not have pressure there, but I also did not put on very much weight and had a belly band when I needed it. But definitely discuss those sensations with your doctor. Best of luck to you!

@@PregnancyBirthParenting101 Thank you for your reply. I wound up having a c section unfortunately. I was crushed!

Talk to your provider, ask lots of questions, look at the risks and benefits of each and then you can decide what is right for you!

It was the day before my due date that I went into labor, but I delivered shortly after midnight, so her birthday is her due date!

Change providers if you really want one and they are not being supportive. Their governing body ACOG recommends attempting a Vaginal Birth After Cesarean over a repeat c-section (some exceptions apply).

I pray all went well!

How did your birth go? My experiences are basically same as yours! My twins just turned 1 and now on my 3rd pregnancy.

How did it go

How did it go 🙏🏼

You're experience is the one you're supposed to have, but I had complications during my first labor and delivery where my body was in a hypermetabolic state and metabolizing the medication rapidly, so I frequently had break through pain. Definitely not an experience I would wish in anyone and it's incredibly rare. Also, most anesthesiologists will put you under general anesthesia (put you to sleep) if you're experiencing any problems.

I actually didn't induce labor with my VBA2C. I was in labor, went into the hospital and had my water broken to speed things up.

@@PregnancyBirthParenting101 can I try a VBAC after 4 C-sections? Please reply. Thans

I would speak to your provider about those. They are so incredibly rare that talking about them to pregnant women in general would do more harm than good. I'm trying to inform, not evoke fear about a complication that has the same chance of happening as you winning the mega millions lottery.

@@PregnancyBirthParenting101 is it possible that a baby won't breathe after birth inspite of being normal in every way?

I would call the hospital where you are delivering, ask to speak to the charge nurse then ask her what doctors does she know that are supportive of VBACs. They're the best resource because they work with all the doctors and see the way they practice and provide care for their patients. If they're busy then try calling at another time. Shift change is around 7, so don't call between 6-8. Pm or am.

Current recommendation is minimum two years.

Hypnobabies! I also made a video ally positions in labor to help you have an easier and shorter labor and another video all about pushing! Check them out on my channel. I would definitely consider having a doula who knows the tricks of the trade to help provide comfort and decrease the perception of pain. Best of luck to you!!!

Any update

Any update?

I ended up having to have another c section unfortunately. Baby was low on amniotic fluid and the placenta wasn’t doing very good and during every contraction his heart rate would drop so we decided doing the c section would be safer for everyone

You are so welcome! I used nitrous oxide and got in the tub for a while, but then got the epidural around 7cm. It was the right choice for me. I wanted to enjoy and be present for my birth experience and I found at that point I really wasn’t able to do that and I was really struggling coping with the contractions. I was also utterly exhausted and it allowed me to get a good nap in before time to push. I had them do a low rate, so it took my contraction pain away for the most part, but still allowed me to feel that I was contracting and allllllll the pressure sensations lol.

​@@PregnancyBirthParenting101what was your gap between 2nd c section and VBA2C ,did you feel pain on your scar at the time of birth

I am not, sorry!

A vertical incision carries a significantly higher risk of uterine rupture (where your uterus pops open at the old scar and baby, fluid and blood poor into your abdomen.. this requires an emergency c-section to save both you and your baby). I don’t mean to scare you, but for instance someone with a horizontal incision has less than a 0.5% chance of rupturing their uterus, but someone with a vertical incision has upwards of a 9% chance. That’s statistically significant compared to someone with a transverse (horizontal) incision.

With a history of uterine rupture I can't imagine that any provider would feel safe letting you labor and attempt a vaginal delivery. I'm sorry Mama!!!

How did it happen?

well, you have already proved that you can have a vaginal delivery, so I’ve already got that going for you! It was 2 1/2 years between deliveries.

Absolutely! You just have to make sure that your provider and where you will give birth is supportive of you doing a VBAC.

girl, prayer! Lol JK I followed everything that I needed to do on the spooning babies website. www.spinningbabies.com/alternative-to-induction/ Having the baby in the right position, definitely helps your body to naturally go into labor. I was in labor off and on for over 24 hours during the early part of labor. meaning, I would wake up in the middle of the night and have mild to moderate contractions for a few hours and then they would slow down and go away and I would go back to sleep. When I went to see my midwife again after this, I had dilated more than the week before. ultimately, I was exhausted and went in when I was 4 cm dilated and they broke my water. It was 12 hours until birth after that. 11 of labor 1 of pushing and 8 out of the 12 with a glorious epidural! 😂