Valentina speaks on her dark past (suicidal thoughts, depression, derealization)

Valentina speaks on her dark past (suicidal thoughts, depression, derealization) | CARTALK EP. 1

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@Jenny-dr1xt 2 жыл бұрын

Bring Jose bc I can tell he has a lot of deep thoughts but I feel like he isn’t that comfortable talking like that on his own, I’ve seen that side of him more when he’s having a conversation with one of you guys I’m interested to see him on here

@miaperezz 2 жыл бұрын

YESSSS

@janaaa9309 2 жыл бұрын

yessss

@bell.lecca1 2 жыл бұрын

it’s crazy how everyone has there own story, social media is tricky. like I see Valentina through social media and I would have never thought at one point she would be suicidal. We need to be careful how we treat influencers and to recognize that they’re REAL people. people need to treat them with respect. Imagine being suicidal and then becoming popular on s.m and receiving hella hate in comments. So sorry for your experience Val, thank you for being so open with your experience

@ir4513 2 жыл бұрын

For real. The hate she received and all the videos laughing @ her because she wanted to be with Jayco is insane. I hope people realized they need to stop attacking without knowing. I'm happy she has found happiness and I wish for both to have a positive & beautiful future.

@yulianaa1115 2 жыл бұрын

This is truly a deep topic to talk about and the fact that she feel comfortable enough to talk about this not just in front of jayco but infront of the world basically. This is a very deep topic for anyone and I’m so glad that you are doing better Valentina know that we love you especially Jayco. Thank you God that he saved her and is healthy and better now.

@yoongisperra5454 2 жыл бұрын

When Valentina started talking about how her parents called the cops on her… I feel for her so much, Latino parents always take the aggressive approach when it comes to mental health, definitely been through that as well. Keep your head up pretty girl, every day we fight to be happier and be better. I definitely connected and resonante with your story. 💕

@lilianna3231 2 жыл бұрын

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@moonprevalus8313 2 ай бұрын

I know this is an old video, and I am commenting a whole year later lol, But I relate to this video so much. And I feel like mental health should be talked about everywhere and that there shouldn't be any stigma around it. I have specifically struggled with derealization for as long as I can remember. I started to really realize it and feel as if I wasn't real around the age of 8; I am now 16 now. It's such a horrible feeling, especially when you feel numb and feel as if you can't connect with people. Derealization can be such a scary, and isolating feeling. I went to the doctor, and they prescribed me medication, but I didn't want to take it because I was scared. One thing that I have tried that has really helped me is listening to subliminals and meditations on KZfaq. This has helped me so much. And I recommend it. All you have to do is look up derealization subliminal on KZfaq, and you can listen to it while doing homework, cleaning, etc. It's basically like a meditation with affirmations; it has helped get rid of my derealization tremendously. I know this was a pretty long comment, but don't be afraid to respond if you have any questions.

@Jenny-dr1xt 2 жыл бұрын

Valentina is an influencer that we need I’m so tired of seeing all these picture perfect influencers that have all this surgery, edited pictures and people further perpetuating a unattainable beauty standard. It plays a big role in why so many of us deal with so much insecurities and it is so sad to see people that are already so beautiful get so many things done.

@yulianaa1115 2 жыл бұрын

9:15 this. This is what NO ONE TALKS ABOUT! they can just tell you to “brush it off” or “you don’t know what you’re talking about” these thoughts can make you feel and think that maybe this is the only option. But know that people love you and care for you so much and know that I care for you! I want you here in this world you have so much potential!!

@halieyy 2 жыл бұрын

As do you🤍 Thank you for your comment

@Jenny-dr1xt 2 жыл бұрын

Seeing her posts about her parents I never would have thought she had that type of relationship with her parents in the past, social media is insane

@jackieperez1460 2 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing🥺

@kthdeco 2 жыл бұрын

I literally started crying with Valentina bro…her story broke my heart ugh so glad that she’s doing a lot better. omg I wanna give her the biggest hug rn😭

@bell.lecca1 2 жыл бұрын

Props to Valentina for opening up about such deep and sensitive topics. Thank you for your transparency, these make others not feel alone!

@basicvalentina 2 жыл бұрын

❤️🥲

@jenlopez5863 2 жыл бұрын

First of all I literally never comment on anything in social media so I’m a little shy but I felt the NEED to. This is amazing! The fact that you both were so vulnerable and are spreading awareness while putting yourself on the line is huge. Valentina you are amazing girl love your personality you seem so genuine. Also Jayco the fact that you took accountability for what you used to do to your brother speaks volumes . Keep up the good work love this for you guys! Love you two as a couple you compliment eachother so so so well

@jocelyncisneros4801 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I totally agree with you !🙏🏽

@thechemist5782 2 жыл бұрын

LOVE the fact that you actually commented this! And I 100% agree with you.

@laysha5935 2 жыл бұрын

I admire you Valentina for being able to speak on a topics like these especially if it’s so personal I myself don’t like to speak on it bc I feel like it makes me vulnerable to other people but seeing you comfortably talk about definitely makes me feel like shouldn’t feel that way and should comfortably express myself more and talk about it more without fear

@sarinahmartinezz21 2 жыл бұрын

her little giggleee🥺 ah i love her. god please always keep her and jayco safe❤️

@morenamontes9504 2 жыл бұрын

I've been dealing with depression since I was barely starting middle school. My parents always fought physically infront of me it was very traumatizing and I got to experience everything abusive in my household since I'm the oldest. I even got into a relationship that was kind of the same a few years ago and sometimes I find myself getting the courage of telling my mom (who has anxiety) about my depression and she shuts my feelings down by telling me "what are you depressed about? You're so weak. I have anxiety and I had to go through so many stuff to get you here" and I just don't ever want to talk about it again, I'll just get the same response over and over again

@joellara2955 2 жыл бұрын

God gives his toughest soldiers the toughest battles. I’ve learned that over the years and it helps when I go through anxiety, panic attacks, and depression

@Ih8eile 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been dealing with depression since 11, I’ve sh, and had many suicide attempts, I’ve been in mental hospitals since 2019-2021, I have derealization most of the times, makes me feel like I’m stuck in a television and I can’t get out and I can just disappear, and sometimes I see the sky glitch and I feel so small and fake, I see shadows and hear voices at times, I get bad paranoia , I get scared of people and my anxiety attacks me and I feel like I’m going insane at times, I helped myself with my depression this year and ik this year I break the ice and not go back to the psych ward, bc I found God and he’s help me but my derealization and anxiety gets me and it’s so much worse then what I’m used to, it’s so scary to even think of living, and this video just gave me so so much comfort, thank u Val for speaking out🤍

@Hope.flor3 2 жыл бұрын

I’m struggling with every single word you said, and man ITS HARD.

@jett_lalola779 2 жыл бұрын

I haven’t finished the whole video yet, but this is so amazing. Valentina is so good at communicating her thoughts about all these serious topics. I love you guys being unfiltered and so real with your thoughts and experiences. God bless 🙏🏽

@lala-wd1mx 2 жыл бұрын

Her parents doing that was really traumatising for her but i know she’s happy now and I hope she knows we’re happy and proud of her. We love you both

@vanessaolvera8581 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate Valentina for sharing her Mental health, I know that feeling of feeling fake or in a dream, I've dealt with it since I was 14 I am 20 now. It was bad too and when I told people they would say I was crazy.. I feel safe here and know that I am not alone🙏🏻😢❤️

@leslysandoval2542 2 жыл бұрын

me too🥺

@roxannehuerta4990 2 жыл бұрын

Did it ever go away after those 6 years ? Because I’m going through that and it’s been years and I’ve always wonder when it’s gonna go away

@vanessaolvera8581 2 жыл бұрын

@@roxannehuerta4990 honestly it doesn't you just learn how to cope with it, I went to therapy which helped a lot! Try doing the 5 senses method! Look it up and it will help a lot!!

@feliciaortega8001 2 жыл бұрын

Same 🥺 mine started when I was 8 and it was really bad. Now here I am 26.. it’s still here but you learn to live with it.

@jennyg6681 2 жыл бұрын

omg hi, I had this happen to me the same way as Valentina, after a bad trip. but then it went away and came back a few weeks later when I wasn’t high and that started a constant struggle of me with anxiety/ panic attacks/ depersonalization/ realization. I was so scared that it would happen again because it would come back and go away during the day that I developed an anxiety disorder. Anyways I would tell my closest friends about it and they kept telling me that I was lying and I needed to get over the one “bad trip” I had even though now it was way more than just a bad trip like clearly it had developed into something more serious and scary. I’m basically just kinda venting right now but this really is a safe space so thank you guys for validating what I went through. this happened to me in 2019 so I wish I would’ve seen a video like this sooner. It is such a scary weird feeling, i constantly had a wave of doom overcome me like if I had no soul and I was just a computer in the body of a doll. I don’t know but just thinking about it right now makes me so thankful that I am able to feel real again and alive. For me it went away on its own but I think it’s because I constantly reminded myself that I’m alive, I did not try to think about it , when I would start to panic I would remind myself of my name, where I’m from, that I am stronger than my anxiety, and always try to ground myself by taking in my surroundings like counting how many green things I see, etc. It’s kind of a mental thing, the more scared you are, the more your brain goes into that state of protection that makes you feel trapped. So to anyone going through it right now stay strong! And remember you are stronger than any illnesses you are dealing with.

@cookie-xn3ui 2 жыл бұрын

I also had a bad trip with an edible a while back and fell into a derealization, depersonalization. It honestly is a scary feeling and till this day i sometimes have it but not as much. I wanted to tell my parents back then but i just went through it on my own with God beside me. If anyone is suffering just know it will get better. For me it took almost a year or 2 to slowly go away but that was because i would constantly think about it and not do anything about it. Now it occurs when my anxiety gets high but tbh it did slowly go away. Again if anyone is struggling you will get through it❤️ and thank you Valentina for speaking about your past❤️it makes me feel better to know that what we went through, we weren’t alone. Thank you ❤️

@MCM8312 2 жыл бұрын

Damnnn crazy i have been smoking since like 2017 heavy and in 2019 i had a bad high and well i stayed sober but even tho im sober, i still feel high and ahit and ahit i have been at it for three years i can say it does get better im bot fully 100% better but bearlly 1 month i got closed with god and i swear i have been feeling better, it’s literally feels like a dream, like ur body is here on earth but ur head is somwhere else

@dorismarrivera2198 2 жыл бұрын

God I started tearing up at 28:11 about how Valentina used herself as an example of what her mom went through. I was really touched and inspired by Valentina's story because I relate to it. It just goes to show God's power and the changes he makes in us. And how our past leaves great testimony's within us. God bless you both and thank you for sharing this with us 🙏🤍

@biancaenriquez3271 2 жыл бұрын

I would have never imagined Valentina going through such traumatic things in her life by the way she carries herself and always being so happy and positive in life. It broke my heart seeing her cry and made me cry because she has been through it allll and still keeps her head so high and an amazing young woman. I needed this cause this gives me a strength to keep going and fighting what I’ve been through, love you much Vale! 🤍

@neli97 2 жыл бұрын

Self love is really something we all as humans need to learn how to do.

@kaylafranchesca5344 2 жыл бұрын

These are the type of videos I searched when I first experience su****e thoughts and panic attacks. It is one thing talking to someone about it and another actually listening to someone talk to you about how they can relate to the pain in which you are experiencing bc of your mind. The people that smile the most are usually the ones that need to be looked out for. I loved the video.. thank you for being so open and vulnerable

@jackyflores245 2 жыл бұрын

the way i relate to the edible story and how derealization was such a big part of it. it’s so scary and ever since then it’s always affected me. so so thankful that val had the guts to share these stories. sending love to both of you 🤍🤍

@aliciavaldez3032 2 жыл бұрын

I also had a bad trip it was my first time and I suffered with derealization/ depersonalization and at the time I never knew what it was all I knew is that I regretted what I did and I suffered from it for a while and it comes in goes when I feel overwhelmed or anxious it’s honestly the worst and I hate it so much I’m glad your shining a light on this topic ! And thank you for being open and honest

@noexpressionn 2 жыл бұрын

It’s crazy how much I can relate to in this video every thing she said is what I’m feeling it’s crazy and scary. But also good because now I know I’m not just crazy. Keep up the videos doe

@halieyy 2 жыл бұрын

Wishing the best for you🙏🏼 you got this don’t give up💪🏼

@neomicastellanos4332 2 жыл бұрын

Shout out Val because I’ve felt like this before and it’s so scary to talk about it because reliving or looking back at it really is sad 🙌

@dayanagarzonl 2 жыл бұрын

valentina, i can definitely relate. having my wrists with blood dripping from self harming after my thoughts would take control over me. my mom calling the cops and them handcuffing me and saying to my face, “ watch out, don’t get none of your blood on my seats” as if I was disgusting and valued nothing at the age of 12!!! then being taken into a mental behavioral hospital several times.. the hospitals treating us like we meant nothing. they would abuse of us with their words or if someone would lash out then they would hurt us. so much trauma. my mama at first wouldn’t understand why it would happen but after a while she began to understand how my childhood trauma has effected my life so much. thank you for your honesty ❤️ much love

@jocelyntapia9966 2 жыл бұрын

OMG when i saw your first episode introducing this idea i was hoping u would have valentina on here to talk about mental health i am so excited to watch this

@marlyl1957 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy vale shared and brought awareness to this. Thank you!

@leslymontero2233 2 жыл бұрын

As someone thats been in the psych ward too thank you for speaking for us 🙏 shits rough out here

@rosalinda_luv 2 жыл бұрын

This has made me feel comforted and that I’m not alone, knowing someone is or went through what you’re experiencing is really comforting.

@bezaddagne12 2 жыл бұрын

Over here bawling my eyes out 😭 thanks for sharing your story !!! 🤍🤍

@kysativa 2 жыл бұрын

i really appreciate this talk and your guy’s genuine words. sending you both so much love♥️ and to valentina thanks for being so raw, keep loving yourself and advocating for mental health.

@jocelyntapia9966 2 жыл бұрын

I really needed this, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

@lani1133 2 жыл бұрын

what a great video. thank you valentina for opening up. like you guys said, knowing that influencers go through things too like a normal person is comforting because we think every famous person is perfect when in reality they’re not. really loves the no edits on the video too! can’t wait to see more content like this :)

@brianacortez5554 2 жыл бұрын

This was beautiful. Thank you Valentina for sharing and even Jayco for sharing his story also makes me evaluate past things. But this video I saw after getting out of church and praying for a similar situation. God Bless You Guys! 🤍✝️

@jennifermayorga2255 2 жыл бұрын

I really loved this video and I hope there are more of these💗. Hearing other people talk about similar struggles as me is really comforting knowing you are not Alone and things do get better over time.

@krista9852 Жыл бұрын

Omg val! You gained a new subscriber!!!! I have struggled with anxiety/ panic & derealization & man it’s the scariest feeling ever I thought I was going crazy I would look at my family & felt almost as if I didn’t even know who they were & I was scared to share it cause I thought they would’ve thought I was crazy but once you overcome it & realize you’re not it really helps but I wish you nothing but peace & strength & to everyone else out there also struggling you’re not alone ❤

@madi_iiiiii5 2 жыл бұрын

I respect Val for being so open about things like this. It’s important to be open and advocate for things most people are not very knowledgeable about. Thank you Val and Jayco. As someone who suffers from depersonalization & derealization it is something so tormenting and when episodes occur they are a living hell. sending massive love to the both of u ❤️‍🩹

@aris_alexandra 2 жыл бұрын

I just want to say that Val is such a courageous person for sharing her story with us all and that she definitely has motivated me to keep going because I myself have been thru a lot as well and I want to be a inspiration to ppl one day I want to thank you both for being so open with us all - love you guys 💖☺️💙

@dabblysquat1695 2 жыл бұрын

I love how raw and unfiltered this video is!!

@DankLord-tb6uo 2 жыл бұрын

You guys are really helping a lot of people by doing these videos so much things that happen behind close doors that you would never know

@melaniee6552 2 жыл бұрын

i appreciate this video so so so so sooo much. valentina is so so so strong and i never wouldve thought shes been through what she has. she seems like such an amazing person who is still healing and im so grateful for her opening up like that and sharing her experience and letting us know we arent alone. Jayco as well... thank you for opening up more and showing that men/influencers go through stuff as well. Love you guys so much. 🤍

@esmeraldamendez8718 2 жыл бұрын

this was literally the video that was meant for me to see and dam both of yall are my inspiration 🥲🫶🏼

@stephyy_2155 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Vale for opening up and telling the world your story. You are so brave & beautiful! I love this topic of mental health, thank you for shining light on it. It’s such an important topic to talk about. 💗

@jestinemiranda6054 2 жыл бұрын

@santea and @gero next because they got smiles but wanna know what they go thru , daily .

@AreluVelardeVideos1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you both both being so vulnerable and be able to share this to help others , it means a lot ❤️ love this new type of videos

@yourfavoriteperson407 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you guys spread this

@monsemartinez2160 2 жыл бұрын

I just wanna say thank you to the both of you. You guys are literally my angels from miles away 🤍🤍🤍 this video helped me feel like I’m not alone in the world. Much love🙏🏻🙏🏻

@mandaa4442 2 жыл бұрын

This series is changing so many lives i hope you know that❤️❤️there is nothing more special than human connection & being vulnerable with one another. It goes a long way. thank you for bringing awareness to so many topics & encouraging others to be more empathetic & kind & forgiving. Love you guys God bless u both❤️

@ugomez147 2 жыл бұрын

Jayco your growth throughout these past couple years has been great to see , proud of you 🙏🏾

@anaalonzo2254 2 жыл бұрын

watching this made me break out into tears, I can relate to this so much. I also tired to committee suicidal at the age of 11 but how y’all said coming from a hispanic background they don’t really care much for mental health they’ll just tell you to brush it off and that’s what I’ve been doing for the past 11 years because that’s all I was taught to do. And just like you Val, my parents didn’t pay any attention to me when I needed it the most. They also thought I was doing it out of attention and I felt the same way towards my parents, I use to disliked them a lot. Mental health is such a strong topic that should be taken serious and not made fun of how my family makes fun of me for trying to hurt myself at such a young age. Thank you for showing me that there is always light.

@dianarivera7638 2 жыл бұрын

This was a really deep topic for which I admire both of you for how genuine you guys are. Valentina for opening up and bringing awareness to things that not many people are comfortable talking about such as depression, struggles growing up in a hispanic household, etc. Valentina has such a big and beautiful testimony. I admire Jayco for bringing up what you said you did and how you recognized it wasn’t the best thing to do. Both of you compliment each other so well.

@kimychannel 2 жыл бұрын

I love how she spoke of this. Yes it may be horrible but we can get through it i struggle with being insecure im barely loving myself again for issues but i thank god every day for allowing me and everyone in this earth to go through it. Honestly thank you for this video

@lupepalacios9117 2 жыл бұрын

Valentina, thank you so much for shining light on these topics. I catch myself having a derealization episode here and there and never knew it had a word. I thought I was just crazy when someone spoke & I felt like I wasn’t in my body or when everything around me felt big, and had trouble recognizing my surroundings. Its very hard to explain and only those who have felt it know what im talking about. I listen & watch all your stories on insta when you post about this, so thank you ❤️‍🩹

@natalyajara1514 2 жыл бұрын

thank you Valentina you don’t understand how much this helped me. God bless you xo

@AndreaBeauty1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Jayco & Vale for this video. It helps a lot hearing you guys speak on something so important. I sat here and just related to Val so much, growing up in a toxic household is one of the most painful things to experience. What touched me the most was hearing Val say her parents asked for forgiveness because I feel like a lot of us would love to hear that from our own parents as well. Sending you guys so much love❤️

@livinlikelexii1186 2 жыл бұрын

you guys are the reason I believe that real love is out there🥺 I love that this video was vulnerable and I admire the fact that you guys are brave enough to vulnerable to so many ppl. I related to so much in this video that I teared up so much, even more so when Valentina started to tear up. Its always important to make sure how we use our words towards others like in the book the Four Agreements it talks about "being impeccable with your word" which basically means to speak "without sin" or that if youre going to say something bad about someone else, to not say anything at all because words are powerful. Love you guys so much thanks for speaking on this ❤❤❤

@ashaleyrubey55 2 жыл бұрын

This conversation was something I needed years ago and it helped me understand a lot of things. Gracias a los dos❤️

@demely7657 2 жыл бұрын

vale opening up had me in tears, praying God protects her always ❤️

@stephrodriguez3744 2 жыл бұрын

This is such a great conversation to speak on, thank you for opening up. God bless you guys 🙏🏼

@yellowbutterfly1538 2 жыл бұрын

This Video Brung back alot of Bad Memories For Me. I was Not treated bad by others but my Father. He was a very mean person. Mainly Mentally. Thank You Sharing Some of your stories. 💛💛💛

@illeztnana 2 жыл бұрын

Love this 🫶🏼 knowing depersonalization and derealization isn’t a forever thing is really comforting. Sending light and love 🤍

@monicabenitez5215 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you guys realize how much this means to people who are struggling with mental health illness especially those who are going through it alone, bringing awareness to this is SO important and should be talked about more, I admire Valentina so much. she is so strong. coming from someone who went through the same exact thing makes me feel like I'm not alone. thank you and God bless you guys.

@RCyrus94 2 жыл бұрын

This video alone brought so much comfort. Valentina please continue to spread your light and awareness about mental health. Lately, my mental health hasn’t exactly been the best but after watching this video I have hope things will get better. Your strength and your story is inspiring. You’re an angel, I pray that my relationship with god grows stronger after watching this video. God bless you both 🤍

@evelyncenteno6207 2 жыл бұрын

Valenita is the sweetest soul ❤️ Even though the screen you can truly feel how genuine you both are. I love seeing this type of content. 💯

@andrealopez7438 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy I watched this video! Thank y'all both for this. May God bless you always 🙏🏻❤️

@stephriosgtz 2 жыл бұрын

So glad I watched this video. I always loved Valentina and never understood why people hated on her so much but she’s honestly such a great person and the way she was able to help Jayco become a better person really shows how kind she is and what an amazing human being she is. Jayco’s character development has been so inspiring and I’m happy they both found each other bc we live in an evil world so it’s refreshing to see people like you two with a big heart 🤍

@jocelyncisneros4801 2 жыл бұрын

Valentina... literally just wow. You have no idea how inspiring you are, thank you for sharing your story really appreciate the vulnerability that you gave to share your story, you are so strong and amazing !🙏🏽❤️ god bless the both of you.

@vivsfigueroa 2 жыл бұрын

Valentina, you are not alone. I been through so many things growing up as well with the SAME type of parents, at the end of the day, i love them so much. You are amazing. You are loved. We are all proud of you!!

@jackieperez1460 2 жыл бұрын

Aw vale I just want to give you a big hug😭 the way you guys post your parents I would’ve never thought any of this happened🥺

@elisaromero7929 2 жыл бұрын

I truly think you guys have a bigger purpose on this earth and I really admire what you guys are doing!! I love you guys!🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️

@alma5530 2 жыл бұрын

Self-love is the hardest but the most gratifying act we can do for ourselves, but it makes me so happy to see other women find the courage to become better and do better💙

@rosarioxo2764 2 жыл бұрын

Damn my respect for Valentina just skyrocketed I am so impressed with her wisdom and her knowledge on these topics.

@cristallopez3108 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this video! So raw and relatable. The reason why I follow the whole gang (santea, jayco, etc) is because of valentina. One day I came across her video on derealization because I was having the exact same symptoms and ever since it has helped out a lot. It helped me feel at a better place knowing there’s other people that go through the same thing and that I wasn’t going crazy I was going through mental issues. And yes it’s so hard living in a Hispanic home because when I tried going to therapy my mom told me no that I was crazy. But yes loved this segment so much and I hope we get more of this ❤️

@ChristCures99 2 жыл бұрын

This helped me a TON, genuinely. Thank you, Val ❤️ God is using you in such amazing ways

@viannccaa 2 жыл бұрын

i cried watching this. thanks for posting this to give others a different view point and insight to what many people go through these days🤎

@monicaalvarado6359 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your vulnerability Valentina . Thank you Jayco for these conversations

@ayoootuu8749 2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU VALENTINA FOR SHARING YOUR TRUTHS AND EXPERIENCES YOUR WORDS ARE SO MOTIVATIONAL!!!! PLEASE MAKES VIDEOS ABOUT ANXIETY THAT WILL HELP A WHOLE LOT 🤍✨

@Shontae112 2 жыл бұрын

This was so intense , her parents did too much & im proud of her for forgiving them .

@emaradiaga 2 жыл бұрын

Words truly have an everlasting effect. God bless you guys

@LolaLola-kp7yy 6 ай бұрын

Watching this a year later and it STILL helped me. Val we love you thank you for everything you open up about. Jayco I love the way you treat your queen. You guys are meant to be and deserve nothing but the best. I would love to see you do one of these with Valeria!

@esmeraldaaromann 2 жыл бұрын

It’s true I still remember those words that were said to me since 5th grade and by my own “friends”. And ever since then I’ve been more insecure about myself. My insecurity is my nose, my stomach, my smile, my teeth, my acne and my forehead. I’ve been gaining more confidence ever since I met my boyfriend 2 years ago ever since Ive met him he’s always putting me up and helps me build my confidence. I’m so grateful to have him by my side and slowly but surely I’ll start accepting myself and love myself more!! Love you Valentina❤️❤️❤️ you’re literally so beautiful!!😍😍😍

@kayylam Жыл бұрын

i don’t comment on videos much but this one really touched me. i also struggle with dpdr,ptsd,anxiety,and depression just like val. i just want to say that i’m so happy she’s in a better place. you both are beautiful and i can really see the amount of love you have for each other. thank you for being so honest and vulnerable. 🤍🤍 you both are amazing!

@jossilynceleste5549 2 жыл бұрын

keep spreading this love and comfort guys you are amazing 🥲

@jazminnicanor3365 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Valentina for sharing your story Im also going through derealization and it gives me hope that im not the only one who went through it. ♥️ 🦋

@jennivalencia7158 2 жыл бұрын

I love this 💗 everything said was super relatable & im glad you guys are spreading awareness I always wanted to do this bc a lot of kids who go thru these stuff go thru it alone bc they’re scared to get judged even more. I have thick & so much hair & it became the biggest insecurity bc I got called a witch in elementary school I remember when I was younger thinking ima lose all my hair from always putting heat on it everyday I couldn’t go to the store even if it was small for 2 min without my hair getting done. As soon as I got out of high school I stopped & im proud of myself. mental health is sooo important & I hope the people who don’t go through deep mental illness can watch this and understand more.

@ally_m1 2 жыл бұрын

This is something I relate to and it affects my life so much I wish I can tell my parents what I go through but I'm kinda ashamed since I have trouble saying deep thoughts I don't really say anything I just hide my emotions

@wanderlustaesthete4117 2 жыл бұрын

Please take it from someone that was in your shoes and tell your parents. They can help you get help. Sending positive vibes. ✌🏽🫶🏽 you’re not alone

@damarisramirez1002 2 жыл бұрын

Favorite video so far. An eye opener to say the least. So many of us needed. Others more than me and still i needed this. From both sides. Thank you so much

@vamoschamos 2 жыл бұрын

your love is so sweet 🥺 you can really tell how you guys are meant for each other. you guys have quickly turned into my favorite KZfaq couple and I hope you guys never stop making videos. Valentina is so strong ❤️ thank you for speaking on this

@bardiej5055 Жыл бұрын

I really love the content you post, i could tell you guys are genuine people, understanding, very opened, mature and definitely spread so much kindness and share you're experiences with us, it really makes me feel heard in a way and cared for just by listening, you guys will go far with such strong mentalities and god bless you both ❤️

@volume2.035 2 жыл бұрын

You guys are the sweetest, realest. Thank you ❤️

@tiffannylara5063 2 жыл бұрын

Very relived hearing this i went thru a lot of trauma as a child too and it makes me feel alone at times because when I’d tell peers about traumatic situations to vent they’d look at me crazy and it’s enlightening seeing that there’s other girls that grew up in the same town I did that went thru similar trauma experiences it’s terrible but at least we’re alive and getting stronger every day. Thank you listening to your story made me feel like there’s hope In my future for love & happiness.

@Ro-fw6df 2 жыл бұрын

Literally look forward to seeing you guys post, my favorite you tubers ever

@lala-wd1mx 2 жыл бұрын

Valentina is soo strong! We love you both! ❤️

@samanthavillagomez9969 2 жыл бұрын

I was watching your previous video and thought it was funny. Then I saw the title of this and wasn’t intrigued but I thought why not. I ended up absolutely loving this video, I don’t know much about you two but this video was really amazing and I love how Valentina wants to bring more awareness on MH, I feel as if it’s not talked about enough.