I think the most precious thing (which also should be the norm) is how Gary absolutely genuinely believes that, in his words, you are “a genius”. You clearly inspire him and amaze him, and i think it’s so beautiful and i wish more men were willing to look at women like that and actually see us as complex human beings that we are, not just as future mothers of their children. He’s your biggest fan.

We all need a Gary!

Makes me laugh how people comment "couple goals" on pictures on instagram of couples who kiss on a pretty beach. Nah people, this is real couple goals. You guys are so mature and yet you can tell you're really in love. xx

Valeria seeing her pictures everywhere in Gary's office... *" Are you not sick of seeing me everywhere? "* *"Me??... If I thought I would've gotten sick of seeing you, I would never have married you."* That's soo sweet COUPLE GOALS😍😍

See guys need to take lessons from him! Don't give up on your girl. He went to visit her every weekend while she was in New York! That's love!

They’re so cute together. My mom and my dad’s age difference is 23 years. My mom is currently 48 and my dad is 71. The big problem with this is when you have children. I’m 16 years old and I’m aware that I won’t spend as much time with my dad as I would want to, I see him getting older, and sometimes I wish my dad would be younger, so I will have more time with him. Anyway, couples with age difference just prove that true love does exist, no matter your age.

I love how Gary understands that women want to marry a man who has achieved something and are able to provide and car for their family. I feel like sometimes it's trivialized and people call women gold diggers or marrying just for money. That is a straw man fallacy. Gary is secure with himself because he's been able to achieve great things in his own and they both compliment each other because they both have ambition to do their own thing. I love how they support, understand, and respect each other.

Age ain’t nothing but a number ☺️💗 Nothing’s guaranteed in life, so when you find your person, love them fiercely.

It's funny, from the outside I can totally see why people would think you're rich man/trophy wife but he's so chill and you're so intelligent, it's clear within about 5 minutes you are total equals.

I was sold when I saw Gary's office literally stuffed with photos of you. AND he thinks you're a genius. :D

I see why you married Gary - he's AWESOME! Never seen a man supporting/loving his wife and kids. I'd love to have a relationship like this one day

"you were a cutie pie, everybody was in love with you that night" awww ❤️❤️❤️

I'm here for GALERIA 😘❤ Love you both!

This was a lovely video! I never thought the age difference between both of you was this big! It surely doesn't seem to affect your relationship. Thanks for sharing! x

“No one fights for a relationship anymore”. Truer words have never been spoken. I lost my last relationship that way but oh well! I have a man who treats me like the only woman in the world so I didn’t “lose” anything

I’m 3 minutes in but has to stop and comment. My husband and I are pretty similar to you and Gary. He’s 11 years older than me, we don’t have a lot of things in common besides being introverts and liking rock music, but the way I felt with him since the beginning was the exact same as you. I felt secure, safe, protected and the support he gives me is out of this world. I met him when I was 22 and got married when I was 24 to 25. Although it seems like it’s a long time, I lived in Brazil and we had most part of our relationship being long distance. Now I’m in sunny Florida married to him!

I was married at 19 had my 3 daughters by the age of 24 and last November we celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary!!! when you know you know! good luck to you both

I WANT MY FUTURE HUSBAND TO BE LIKE THIS

Man's character counts. That's it.

I have never been jealous of any relationships until this. damn.

I love how Gary compliments you, and how he looks at you when you're talking. It shows that there is love, and for that there is no age difference. ❤️

This is the first time i see such a honest video on KZfaq . As much as Gary is lucky to have ,so are you ! You are like a puzzle, you complete each other. Thank you Valeria for being honest ,for opening to us and for letting us in. Thank you for giving us hope about the future and for teaching us that we can achieve whatever we want in life. Thank you for being so positive ,thank you for being genuine, thank you for being you. Thank you for your husband for being such a gentleman and such an amazing man/dad and for letting us believe that men like that still exist. You are a role model. May God bless you and your family and may you alway be the way you are . Love from London . PS: i never leave comment on KZfaq , but i really felt the necessity of letting you know of the amazing job you are doing and how special you are ,even though this comment is one in 10000 and you might not see it.

I’m just sitting here, almost crying. The values, morals she likes in Gary is exactly what I’m looking for in a man. I’m quite young, and also attracted to older people. It just represents stability for me. I’m in a quite bad relationship right now, much closer to each other than in the begging but he showed me a few times that he’s able to disrespect me and even to leave me. I just got to a point when I’m sick of it, I want mutual respect, big love and safety... I’m not into partying or stuff like that. I just want to travel, no drama, developing together. I really hope I’ll find me Gary... wish me luck. ❤️

“If you make a girl laugh it’s done, your good” I was dying😂😂

does Gary have a single brother? second cousin? third uncle far removed..

45 MINUTES?? IS THIS SOME BEAUTIFUL DREAM GOING ON HERE???

She’s definitely a catch, and he’s very lucky to have her.

I LOVED this! You can see the love, admiration & respect you guys have for one another xoxo

I got you, Valeria. Me and mine are 17 years apart and sometimes it leads to some awkward questions from people, but we got that figured out pretty quickly. You and Gary are obviously very well matched, congratulations to you two and the family you have created from that love.

Valeria you're totally right, when you make a girl laught you've done!! You're both so sweet and lovely. I wish I'll have a husband and a family amazing as your. (45 min. of video..is this Christmas?🔝😊)

I looooove how he describes what he was thinking when you got together. He is so clearly madly in love with you.

The authenticity is so obvious. LOVE you two. I wish you a lifetime of joy.

So refreshing to see a mature and loving couple on youtube. Those husband tags are almost embarrassing while yours was inspiring. Congrats! My husband is 15 years older than me and I couldn't ask for a better man. We've been happily together for 29 years ;) Wish you the best!

I can see why you married him, he's an a amazing person and age is just a number. I wish I could find someday a man that loves me the way he loves you. Love u😘

every single time I’m having issues with my love life I go back to this video...your relationship is so ideal and I think every woman deserves a man like Gary. The way he looks at you and talks about you is inspiring. Thank you guys for letting us have a little peek into your relationship.

I loved this! It’s so wonderful to see a loving marriage! You are both awesome and I agree with Gary, you are definitely inspiring and adding so much value to people’s lives. Many blessings to the two of you! 💗

I'm usually not the type to watch 45-minute​ videos but I watched the whole thing only because you guys made it so entertaining. You were made for each other, you're soo cute.

You are such a great couple! Watching you, and hearing all about your relationship and how strong it is made me want to have something like this in the future. It is really great that here on KZfaq we have a strong, beautiful and intelligent young but emotionally mature woman like you Valeria, to pass the values to young people like me who are just starting to figure out their lifes. Greetings from Poland!

It’s always good for us to hear “unusual” love stories, because it’s so easy to quickly judge. Thank you!

Cute couple, 18 year old difference, parent asking "what are your intentions with my daughter" but giving their blessing, and later having three kids? That's (some of) the story of my parents. Spoiler alert, 28 years later they are extremely happy together, having kids has kept my dad young (who was older than Gary when he had me, the oldest), the age difference is just a joke and we've never felt weird about it. I wish the best to you and to your family ♥!!!

You are soulmates. Both of you are so lucky.

That was so nice to watch! First, I was like "wow, 45 minutes- I'll have to watch that in multiple sessions!" But then it went by so quickly and I didn't want to stop watching. Oh, funny side note: I'm from Germany and we totally have the saying "being a grey mouse" as well! :D All the best to you

you guys have so much love and respect for each other i can just feel the vibes even from the screen! i really appreciate and admire you both and i wish the best for you two and your family!

“ Mother’s approval” love it! I think mums know about life so much more than we do and we should listen to them more. Mine is my best friend.

Hi Valeria, I have to admit, that's why I started to watch your videos in a first place. Me and my husband have a 20 years age difference. We are already 10 years together. Somehow I also found part of myself in your behavior, life goals, holistic nutrition and all positive vibes you are giving to the people. Thank you for being such a nice person and inspiration for so many women.Greeting to your family и Привет на твоя мамочка

couple goals 😍😘💕💞💖💜💗

My husband is 19 years older than me and we have the best marriage. He's much smarter than other guys my age and I have so much respect for him. He's my inspiration. And I don't feel our age difference at all. ❤️❤️❤️

best husband tag ever. you guys are such a sincere couple and I love every single answer to every question. thank you for sharing! this is absolutely sweet and the messages are so strong

The picture of you in Gary's office with the floral background at your moms wedding is everything such a beautiful photo

OMG! I can't believe that Gary is 45. You both look younger! And you are 100% marriage goals!❤❤❤ Love from Croatia!

This was so sweet, I enjoyed every minute! ❤️ Lisa

So much wisdom from you two. I've been with my guy for 9 years and he's literally and figuratively the reason why I'm still on this earth. When true love happens you know it and you have to take it even if the time and place isn't always the best.

I didn‘t even notice that the video was 45 minutes long... it was so interesting and inspiring! They are family, relationship and life goals! And i totally agree with Gary she will be “Oprah and Ellen of this generation”. I love to watch the rise of Valeria. You are really the best. Lots of love ❤️

Yay for new video! You and Gary have the kind of relationship that I want, happy, loving and lots of laughs all around :) Btw Gary is hilarious!

Each girl need a Gary in her life. Really !

This video is the sweetest and most interesting thing I’ve watched in a long time. You are both so great! This is an amazing reminder of how empowering relationships should be. I’m so glad I took the time to watch the full video, it helped me see things much more clearly concerning my own relationship.

"You're going to be my wife you just don't know it yet" omg love it Gary is such a sweet guy ! You two deserve your happiness you're both amazing !

“Chances are she had other nice girl friends to introduce me to” 😂👌🏼

In THIS house... we STAN Gary

It's so nice to see a couple speak so highly of each other and have the right priorities in a relationship and family. You guys are awesome!!

My parents have a 17 years age difference and they have been together for more than 30 years! I loved this video as I always do!!!

Another KZfaqr got in an accident while vlogging and driving. Please be careful. Sorry, I hope that doesn’t sound to patronizing

I was waiting for that kiss at the end. 😍 This is so lovely, thank you for this video, I loved it. My boyfriend is 28 years older than me, and I know a lot of people doesn’t get it, but like you said in your video, it just feels right. We don’t feel the age gap, even with our differences in some things, but we just love each other so much despite all the things against us. ❤️

My god this relationship is the most beautiful thing I’ve seen, I love the way he talks about and TO YOU not just to other people about you, I’m literally crying through this video because it just made me so happy.

I feel like there is its own perfect timing for everything. He caught you at the right time. Married you at the right time. When I was 20 I was such a marriage material. I was ready to have kids, ready to get married etc etc. Then it didn't work out with the person I was with and now, at the age of 26 I am so messed up. I now don't trust anybody, I don't believe in "the one", and I think that I will never be that pure person who believes in one partner forever. I am so happy for you guys. You are truly two happy people. Love you loads

Finally!! 🙌🏼 I have been waiting for this video since day 1 ! Love you guys ❤️

Omg, I never thought I would enjoy this video so much! You and Gary are soooo cool! I could feel the love and genuineness the entire time I’m watching the two of you. I’m glad you did this tag. It spreads so much and love and truly gives inspiration to your viewers. ♥️♥️♥️

This video really hit close to home for me, my husband and I are 16 years apart, you and Gary just gave me a mini therapy session and reminded me why we fought so hard to make it work for the past 15 years. I vote YES to the HOOTD's . Love you two together! xo

I thought Gary is way younger 😁

You are both so intelligent! Literally you guys are a power couple! Who cares about the age gap? I love you Valeria!!!

I love how Valeria can keep herself young and still really mature, it teaches me a lot! I really enjoy when Gary appears, I don't like those silly tags other youtubers do, so this one I found very interesting! Thank you!

You guys are so inspiring, not only as a couple but as individuals. The values, the matureness, I am really happy I found this. I really needed to hear some of the stuff you guys talked about. Best wishes from Uruguay 🇺🇾 and lots of love

I’ve been waiting for this for what feels like years!!! I’m so excited!!

So impressed with both of you! To be honest, I was thinking Gary musta been one of those guys who just hooks up with attractive young girls and who doesnt think much, but after watching this video I can see that he is such a real, down-to-earth, thoughful and intelligent man who cherishes his life. Wish you lots of happiness guys!!! xxx from Austria

LOVED THIS ! Thank you for sharing. He's right, you will be a huge influential voice for our generation💕🌟

I really love this video, it reminds me of a podcast. I watch this video when I’m bored, and it teaches me a lot of things. -important things. I love you Valeria, your husband, and the content you put out there!❤️

I absolutely loved this video. So raw & real yet not overstepping any personal boundaries. You can totally see the love & strong foundation you and Gary have built. Much love xo

WE WANT MORE HUSBAND TAGS😍😍💘💘

I LOVED this video. Learning about your life together, listening to Gary speak about how proud he is of you and how truly grateful he is to have you was wonderful. Wishing you a lifetime of health and happiness, laughs and love!

I love how you guys are 100% honest ❤ this is literally relationship goals👼

I love your relationship so much! Especially the part about taking time away from kids in order to focus on your relationship so it strengthens your love and letting that pour into your family. Love love love that!!

I loved this, all of it - the format, the topics & questions. I can only dream to get a husband like this in the future! You have quickly become one of my favorite content creators, Valeria! Love, love, looove everything you do and how much value you give!!!

"Tuba is a beautiful name" and then I saw Valeria's face and was like, saaaaame guuuuurl!!😂😂

You go guys!!! From the bottom of my heart, I wish you happiness and all the best!

i dropped everything to watch

I am currently watching this and a boy came over and told me I look like you. Biggest complement ever!!

THAT EXTRA BIT FROM GARY AT THE END IM CRYING 😭 Love you both, thank you for this video, I needed it 💞

I also married at 21 years old. And I also had never thought about marriage before I met my husband. He was 27 at that time. Destiny is like magic. Now we still think each other fabulous.

This was theeeee most interesting, most genuine husband tag, I learned a LOT. Thank you so much. You are absolute relationship goals

45 MIN, YES YES YES

This is the first KZfaq video of yours I’ve ever watched & I am so happy 😃 It was such a joy to hear about your relationship and how you make it work. Gary seems like such a wonderful partner and knows how to treat you so well 🥰

ahhhh I'm on a Valeria video binge right now!! I love you guys!!

Sending all the love from Belarus, Minsk. You can't imagine how much you inspire me, how much you affect my life in a positive way. I follow my dreams in modeling, self-love and relationship with my boyfriend with your support! I wish you, Gary, Ben and Jake the best in this life! You are a legend. THANK YOU SO MUCH!

omg. you answered my question guys... literally happiest day in my year so far! ♥ Relationship goals right there!

I got married at 19 and there’s 9 years between us 6 years later we’re going strong 💪🏼 x

I can NEVER relate to a KZfaq video so much. I really get it, because I feel it, the feelings that you have towards Gary is like “I know I am young, but this man is like everything I need, and I don’t think I would meet a man like him in my age, and also, why would I bother to find someone else if I have found him” that’s what I thought before I married my husband. And almost 7 years go by together, we’re still strong and about to be a family of four. Bless you and your family, Valeria. Those questions about your relationship, what people think of you guys being together didn’t really bother you, cause you and your partner knows exactly what’s going on in your relationship ❤️

“I think, because of watching “Friends”, culturally, we’re the same” 😂

More Gary! Together you are to die for! He is so lucky to have you and the way you look at each other is so lovely.

You guys, this was seriously such a good video! All your advice was solid and I really appreciate the honesty and openness that you both demonstrated in filming this for us. This is advice that lots of people need to hear - caring for your marriage is becoming a lost art and it's so important that the message gets out there that a good marriage takes time and commitment, that you have to nurture it like a tender plant and really work as a team through all life's circumstances, not just expect things to be all cruisey and great because you're in love and then bail as soon as you start feeling flat. Thank you both

This is the best husband tag I’ve ever seen! I really like the lunch part because of the all eye contact, I’ve felt like I am sitting on the 3rd chair and eat with you