Vetting Men: How to Spot Red Flags | Jaki Sabourin

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Vetting Men: How to Spot Red Flags | Jaki Sabourin | Engaged at Any Age

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Engaged at Any Age

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@s.v.662 Жыл бұрын

I'm attracting more attention naturally as I learn about relationships from you Jaki❤

@carrie4558 Жыл бұрын

Lovely to see you back Jaki. I trust your advice. Divorced 15 years ago made a bad choice after that spending 6 yrs with a man who drank to excess and gambled, habits alien to me. I ended it. Then watched your videos met a man more my type but didn’t want the same things as me. That was 3 yrs ago. At 63 with 2 sons at home early 20s I’m now ready to meet a new man. Looking to you for help! ❤

@NeilHaeger-mb4mk 9 ай бұрын

Interesting points of view :) Men and women should both vet their perspective partner. First I would say look in the mirror and be the example you wish another to be. Being a 68 year old High Value Man I make sure I would meet the criteria of 99% of women out there. Extremely Fit, Classy, Gentleman, Calm, Intelligent, Worldly, Retired for 23 years, Multi-talented and so forth. :) Good luck ladies!!

@EngagedAtAnyAge 9 ай бұрын

Are you single? I have a lot of high quality women in my community!

@mariaa.5829 6 ай бұрын

“prospective”

@NeilHaeger-mb4mk 6 ай бұрын

@@mariaa.5829 Awe yes! Thank you for the vocabulary lesson :)

@briannyob7799 Жыл бұрын

At 55 years old and happily divorced, I have no interest whatsoever in getting married again. I have built a career that I enjoy and have plenty of activities to keep me busy. At most, I would like someone to spend time with when it suits us.

@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын

And that’s wonderful! It’s so good to have that clarity. Be sure to convey that to the ladies early on 😉

@briannyob7799 Жыл бұрын

@EngagedAtAnyAge I say that upfront. In spite of saying this, I get messages from women who are looking for marriage on dating apps. Then they seem disappointed.

@AH--173 Жыл бұрын

@@briannyob7799 women are naturally suspicious about a man who doesn't want marriage.

@briannyob7799 Жыл бұрын

@araweelo230 there is no reason for me to get married. Why would I want to give up my freedom? And worse, pay someone else's bills.

@AH--173 Жыл бұрын

@@briannyob7799 That's not what marriage is, but each to their own.

@maarieb 5 ай бұрын

Great chat! Could I request you to please silence your phone while on videos? It's very jarring and loud when going off unexpected :)

@EngagedAtAnyAge 5 ай бұрын

I will listen to the video. I wasn’t aware of that. I typically have my phone off. Thanks for the heads up appreciate it!

@RS-ov2st 10 ай бұрын

You CANNOT FIX EMOTIONAL UNINTELLIGENCE AND IMMATURITY. THOSE ARE OFTEN COVERT NARCISSISTS. You have to acknowledge that if a person is an adult, or especially an older adult with emotional immaturity , they have been this way their whole life and are not going to change now, this late in life. It has become who they are.

@EngagedAtAnyAge 10 ай бұрын

I would never presumed to fix any one. And I wholeheartedly disagree with you. People do change if they choose too. It’s typically accompanied by an ascension experience. Like a death, divorce, bankruptcy, a big loss can trigger big change. Call me an optimist but I’ve changed a lot and those that I work with have been successful at making permanent behavior. Never say never.

@Infomatic10 Жыл бұрын

Biggest red flag for me is a guy who is just trying to get women in bed right away, without trying to get to know you and without any commitment first.

@chitaluchila9134 10 ай бұрын

Does this apply if you have been long distance and his now flying to vacation with you and spend time in person do you still not give it up??

@h.g.5141 8 ай бұрын

@@chitaluchila9134for me it still applies, but if that information is shared ahead of time (boundary) then everyone is clear. :)

@spiritual2020 6 ай бұрын

@@chitaluchila9134eh gad, you must be a man saying that kind of comment. Jeez la weez. So you expect a woman to give it up when you meet her bc your long distance? LDR is not ideal when a person wants a REAL relationship.

@spiritual2020 6 ай бұрын

@@chitaluchila9134If you’re a woman, you are NEVER obligated to ‘give it up.’ The fact you asked that question, leads me to believe you have insecurity issues. Men earn that right. It never should be expected in the dating scene. Two people need to communicate and agree to sexual intimacy.

@elinamirauskaite8518 10 ай бұрын

I love lissten to your lecture about relationships .

@EngagedAtAnyAge 10 ай бұрын

I'm glad you ressonated with them! ❤

@MyFrankieee Жыл бұрын

❤ this video jaki thanks 🙏 also your sweet little dog 🐶 is fixated with staring up the stairs X lol

@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын

😂 it’s a virtual background!

@MyFrankieee Жыл бұрын

@@EngagedAtAnyAge looks brilliant I wouldn’t of known 🥰

@ninahill4636 8 ай бұрын

Is a background screen!!

@spiritual2020 6 ай бұрын

@@EngagedAtAnyAgeI like that virtual background. Is that a virtual background from Zoom? I have zoom and haven’t noticed that one.

@spiritual2020 6 ай бұрын

I like the background too. When I zoomed in I noticed the dog didn’t move. lol

@gregmilona2159 3 ай бұрын

Wow,you look better now than 6 years ago 😊

@EngagedAtAnyAge 3 ай бұрын

Wow. Thank you!! 🎉

@debralondon2402 Жыл бұрын

Very helpful video. Thanks

@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Glad you resonated with it!

@Infomatic10 Жыл бұрын

I am looking for the download Jaki provides of dating questions and answers. Does any one know where it is?

@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын

Hi Catherine! Here's the link to the free gift. engagedatanyage.com/scripted-answers-to-common-dating-questions-2/ I'm glad you enjoyed my video!

@smiz4990 Жыл бұрын

I feel maybe I already have seen this video

@smiz4990 Жыл бұрын

@@Mary-lb3lv exactly! You are right

@EngagedAtAnyAge Жыл бұрын

Yes! I feel it’s a valuable training. It’s been edited to remove the offer to join our inner circle because that program is complete so I thought it be a good time to share it again today!

@MicheleLT Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Jaki!

@qesther1241 10 ай бұрын

I think The phone call should be a FaceTime phone call.

@EngagedAtAnyAge 10 ай бұрын

That’s ideal! But a FT they will get your REAL number and can find out your 411. Do a zoom or stay on video chats online until you get him! Stay safe!