Payment for mailing computers. Keep $$$. Any other $$ go to police

😂

😂👍🏽🤣

😂

Hahah🤣 yes, and George Clooney has just left his wife for me!

😂😅 send pictures

HAHAHAHAHAHA

😂

Dang! Now you went and did it!😆😆

He is 😏

I’m still going to watch anyway 😂😂

What a Queen. 😂😂

@@GretchenV95don’t call them Queen 😂

Queen 👸

Brilliant!

Linda is a boss lol

I was thinking the same exect thing!

LOl she has horrible teeth!

Sandra is just like my mother. She trusts complete strangers over her own children. If we tell her not to do something for safety reasons she'll immediately do it, because she assumes we don't know what we're talking about. Yet she'll blindly trust a total stranger. This is why my sister disowned her and I am low contact with her. Boomers and hypocrisy are synonymous.

@@WobblesandBeanI’m so sorry that your mother is like that! That can only be… way beyond frustrating. I’m imagining you trying to warn her time and time again … I’m glad that my mother listens to me about online scams and the like. Which in part she does because she’s not afraid or ashamed or too stubborn to admit that I’m simply more tech and internet savvy than she is.

@@WobblesandBean I'm sorry you have a 'mother' like that. Mine is all you just said plus a raging narcissist, so unfortunatly I comletely understand bc I went through it...

I agree!

Well said.

Instead of taking care of herself and her teeth, she sends all her money to the scammer and then smiles coyly about it--like she's a silly teen.

The hair?! She can no longer get a haircut?

And still wants to be with the dude. Lmao

She could have used the money she gave to the scammer to have her teeth fixed!

It’s called narcissism

Yes!! She certainly is and extra over confident​@@gasmith7486

Yeah her demeanor makes me strongly dislike her. I don’t feel bad for her at all. She’s in my top 5 of “yeah, they deserved it…”.

@@Luisa-H208no one deserves it.

She will do it again.

She's so full of herself. 🤮

😂

it's kinda sad , because normally in a world long before us , humans respected each other no matter your physical appearance .

@@ercanbanka5377 if u grow old together, yeah..

Not to be mean but I guess I will be, she ain’t no prize! As my son says, she’d have to sneak up on a glass of water to get a drink.

It's getting on my nerves.....

Well said! I was getting annoyed with how cocky she was being.

Not even a little bit. She is nowhere near as delightful as she thinks she is.

Narcissistic personality disorder

Nor her looks 🤦🏻‍♀️

OMFG I CAUGHT THAT TOO!!!!

Just being old doesn't take away the type of person you're attracted to. You just have to be realistic once you get older.

lol, know your s@xual market value; if you're a toothless old termite riddled shack and a mansion with marble columns wants to be with you, granny, its a scam

Lmaooooo right.

@@ChrisAndCats yeah, except that guy is so far out of her league they could be on different planets

😂😂😂

😂😂😂

😂😂😂

Maybe she like chocolate

You can't choose to date someone who has no interest in you.

The FBI has to watch the video lol

Ignorance of laws has never stopped them from being imposed on us. If that were the case, we’d know of a handful of laws. From which we can only be arrested for? Laws don’t care whether you understand them or agree with them for them to be established and enforced. The myriad of universal laws are immutable therefore unavoidable as well. I agree. Once the feds were pulled in bc she took her mule/laundering money to the police, it was now under federal investigation. Yeah, time to stop a love relationship when international laws are being broken. Ones big enough to earn time away. To me, she lacked enough internet savvy to consider a scam was being perpetrated. Mostly bc of her advanced age. They can’t help it. My mom is close in age. Sometimes she needs help unfiguring out problems. Yeah, weird. Meaning I have to back a problem up several steps to see how/where it went buggy. She’s not an idiot. Just unfamiliar with technology and electronic devices. Luckily she’s not looking for love/companionship.

Exactly. She is officially part of the scam. Book her on fraud charges.

She said its time I ended it.Problem is it never started.

She's belongs in a damn prison or hospital! People like this actually vote and help choose the leaders of our country! It's insane

Absolutely. Until she accepts her part in this and addresses it, she will go back. I’m glad that she is paying her children back. Full restitution is a step forward for them all.

She also referred to herself as innocent at one point. Yes, ignoring the FBI and continuing to help a scammer screams innocence . Women like this are way too coddled their whole lives.

Yea, people in these relationships are like gamblers, they don't see they're throwing money away, they see it as an investment for the future.

Narcissistic drama The drama gives her supply Positive or Negative

You see the projection!

Couldn’t buy a parking spot deed there for less than $10,000 on average.

Must have been a dolls house

Yeah, you can maybe get a shed for 5k in Cali😒

Right...that's not even closing costs on house on the east coast, let alone California

@@alg2158 A tent, maybe.

Imagine what her husbands looked like.

​@@sookie4195YES!! Very snippy and arrogant

😅😂😂😂😅

She tried to say it was the actual doctor who scammed her, that doctor don't know her from a can of house paint!!

💯

Yes. She says contradictory things and lies to herself to keep up her self image.

Or somehow she's 'different' and that her scammer has truly fallen in love with her and meant to be together.

🤦‍♀️

Or she's plain stupid. There is that possibility also.

And good looking!😂

Lol i noticed that too🤦🏼‍♀️

Nobody should have to warn you NOT to give your damn banking information to anyone, much less a stranger!

Sandra is just like my mother. She trusts complete strangers over her own children. If we tell her not to do something for safety reasons she'll immediately do it, because she assumes we don't know what we're talking about. Yet, she'll blindly trust a total stranger. This is why my sister disowned her and I am low contact with her. She also refuses to accept culpability for ANYTHING. No matter what, she will deny ever doing anything wrong. Boomers and hypocrisy are synonymous.

​@@WobblesandBeanI used to trick my mother into taking advice. She always thought I was a child, even in my late 30s. For some reason she trusted my sister fully. Any advice or suggestions she took from her. I would contact my sis, get her to contact our mom, tell her the exact thing I recommended to our mom yesterday, and bingo, done and done.

@@grenade8572 Wow! That's got to be super frustrating!!! I can't even imagine that, but it's so ridiculous it's a little funny!

😂

LOL

Omg that’s kind of what bothered me the most out of this whole video!! Like we KNOW you think he’s attractive, he IS attractive. Admit that you’re shallow and that was a big part of her getting so hooked into this. If he was someone in her “league”, no WAY she would have gotten so mentally wrapped up in him to be committing crimes for him.

She actually begins her description of him with “he was average weight” after saying that he was not someone she would usually go for. I can’t believe what I am hearing.

😅😂

LOL 😅😅😅😅. He has teeth. Maybe she wants someone toothless too.

Exactly 💯

Yeah, that’s why I would never take money from my kids never

They don’t just do it through romance scams.

@@rabidrabbitshuggers yeah that’s true I got off Facebook dating it seems that’s all that’s there is stupid scammers

I absolutely agree!

Losing her family just drive her into his virtual arms. She now feels like she has nothing to lose now

Family should help her and be with her

​@@frofrofrofro900They tried. She kept burning them and going back to him. There's a reason why they cut off from her.

I caught that too. Like wtf does that mean?

“Stupidly”is the preferred choice.😂 But isn’t it interesting how she makes sure to frame herself as an innocent victim instead of taking full accountability. Most of these people are narcissistic and manipulative.

She very willingly gave him her personal information. That's what she should've said.

@@Oliviaandtrina I guess she meant something like being innocent or foolish like a child. “Naively” or “foolishly” would probably be a better word

@@maddygs698- That’s still too kind…”Stupidly” would be more accurate.

And the scammer received $3,000 ea, and she didn't ask for anything!🙄

5,000 dollars is a pittance compared to the others we see on here ..

She lost thousands and her home in this ridiculous romance scam. Her family had warned her she was being scammed and they got fed up

@@m-o-lShe’s on Social Security which is peanuts in the US. She’s given him more than she had. They use the ones without money to launder the cash they get from other scams.

Scammy scammy scam scam!

Yep ,id be off down to the gym, skincare,hairdresser.

Right...

@@RedwarfaDENTIS first and foremost!!!

It's a bigger problem than that. The lack of basic hygiene is just a symptom.

Love is cringe, instead of fighting the cringe embrace it. There were names I thought I wouldn't allow myself to be called but I ended up liking them

thats right pooh bear

You're completely right, she wasn't listening at all. She wanted to hear what she wanted to hear

​@@potatowaffle4573so true lol

She's definitely going back...

There's hospitals, the VFW, the library

Just because we get older doesn't mean we're dead. We have needs just like any other human being.... And kids, grandkids and baking cookies just doesn't cut it

@@Mhel2023 Well join a club. My friend likes a drink and could go to a different one each day. I am older and prefer to spend time with my dogs.

​@@Mhel2023Serving your flesh is exactly why people get used and broken.

Easier said than done. My best friends mom is wrapped up in thinking she’s dating Jeremy Renner. Still to this day. Been 2 years and @socialcatfish tried very hard to get her the help and answers she needed but she won’t do it. Now she’s living in her car with no husband and no kids and no grandchildren now. All she says is we will be sorry when they get married and we aren’t invited to her wedding. Delusional and an addiction is what she is and has. I miss my friend for sure. She was so wonderful till this guy.

Only in America

😂n believes him when he tells her she's beautiful 😂😂😂

Some people are very naïve and too weak to acknowledge red flags, but they’re not at fault.

@@ingefriedbianca No, that’s not it. Wisdom comes from experience. A 20-something has an excuse for being foolish but a 70-something has vast life experience, so they closed their eyes, ears and mind to what was bleeding obvious. There is no fool like an old fool!

@@purenkool2011 At 70 yrs old not everybody has the experience of a parepatetician…

If you go from victim to helping a criminal makes you a willing criminal . She is a criminal if she is laundering money.

She is at fault at this point.

Cindy you read my mind!

She looked fine in the old pics they showed of her, but hoo boy! Now, not so much. Yuck.

They might cut their tongues on the snaggleteeth. I mean, really, she spent all that time laundering money, sending computers, etc., when she could have gone to a dentist.

@British_vlog Delusion is a crazy thing!

😂🤣😂🤣😂

The bank ,western union and her family.

​@@katieanderson1040women are delusional, regardless of generation

Ppl like you "deserve" to get a wake up call.

People who are so cold, ruthless and callous to say that a victim “deserves” to be victimized, are people who have suffered extensively all types of humiliations that have completely desensitized them.

​@@ingefriedbiancaOr maybe we are people who are tired of morons who burn bridges and ruin their lives on a obvious scam.

the initial attempt at getting a scam started can happen to anybody, I get those fake fb profile friend requests nearly every day. But of course going any further, only happens to those who ignore the red flags.

@@SueRosalie I agree. But they generally will say anyone can get scammed. To me, getting scammed is not merely someone trying to scam you, but succeeding.

Scammers are clever by using obvious fake profiles and obvious fake language and promises. They target the lower intelligent people.

delusional that a Younger handsome man would deal with her..she needs someone to buy her a mirror! and Glasses

You have to be gullible to think that a vital, good looking man would take an interest in an overweight, much older woman. I can’t believe they believe some guy saying that they are so beautiful when they definitely are not. I’m 67 and overweight and I was reasonably nice looking back in the day. My face is okay now but nobody tells me I’m beautiful. Look in the mirror ladies. 🥴

ahahahha. and looking at the missing tooth without laughing ahahah

Sandra's comment is the most correct one here.

enabler

Yes immediately, the longer they wait the worse it gets!

That can take a lot of money to get into court and it is not illegal to give anyone money.

@@cgee6867 That is true.

Even if they’re angry and don’t thank you later, YOU’LL still thank yourself. Because typically they’ll simply be angry if you tell them they’re being scammed, even if you do nothing to try to stop it. Better they’re angry and still have money at least.

And even if they don’t thank you, at least they won’t wind up out on the street.

Exactly

Why ask why?😂

Age? Few of us will be live so long

@@frofrofrofro900 what ya saying, wise guy? i'm 72 & have teeth. had my top ones all capped . life expecdicy is around 80,eh?

She needs that upper tooth to fit in the void where a lower tooth is missing. That is how she eats.

"just her kids". My kids are everything and irreplaceable.

Just her kids..who pay her rent. Doesn't seem like she knows what love is.

It’s interesting how many women (and men) put even the possibility of a romantic love interest over their concern for their own children and grandchildren.

These people are often surrounded by love of various kinds, and undervalue it. 😢

in truth they're 20 year old Nigerians living in homely shacks, sitting around in their underpants and smoking. Same with the computer scammers in India.

Rebel Lagos Cafe Boy

Sad 😢

lololol

If he's a Nigerian rebel he might have access to what is termed blood diamonds so why does he need the pittance she can provide?

It can also be the other way around, certain kinds of mental illness can make you a perfect scam victim.

She refers to it as a “habit” which, in her case, filled a need or lack in her part. Let’s remember, she married multiple times, and that’s significant. But I don’t equate mental illness with stupidity, and the primary “diagnosis” imo is stupidity.

Should have spent money on dental work

And these people vote. They don’t have enough common sense to take care of themselves.

@@lynnparrish1335 Stupidity means something like she's unintelligent, not that she repeatedly makes the same mistakes. "Stupidity" is way too broad, she's making these mistakes for underlying reasons of personal need for validation, it's not "stupidity".

Huh?

🤢🤢🤮

She sure does. She's eating it up.

I don’t think she really even comprehends that the man in the picture is not the scammer and has nothing to do with it! She’s the type who will fall right back into another scam right after this.

Agreed. She wants the attention and isn't interested in self examination.

@@Maki-00 ikr this happens every time. I don't understand why the Catfished team don't do enough to make it clear to the victims right from the outside, that these handsome profile pics are NOT the person they have been communicating with, and that person is a black Nigerian guy or team of guys in Lagos. And they keep referring to the scammer as "Michael" or whatever, continuing to feed the delusion. In fact why don't they get a picture of one of them and show it to the victims right from the start. There are pictures available, some of these scammers do get arrested and convicted. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n7x4f8yHuZrJlYE.html

@@elipotter369 Self introspection /Self realization.

They are talking to a still photograph.

You’re a better person than me. I don’t feel sorry for any of them.

I'm wondering how they can be married at all and yet at half her age I can't even make friends to keep for longer than a couple of years, the idea of marriage is in a whole other universe right now.

@@Roadent1241 This generation is ridiculous when it comes to dating.

​​@@Roadent1241 because their issues and delusions have nothing to do with your own issues and inability to keep friendships and relationships. It's 2024 it'd be wise for you to stop comparing yourself to people who get scammed for a start....

Damn savage lmao

Can't blame the exes

I THINK SHE IS.

No doubt in my mind. She's talking to him right this moment.

@@Oliviaandtrina Exactly what I think too. Some people just don’t learn. 🤷‍♀️

I do

NO she is just stupid😢

She’s evil.

Indeed

People have to be realistic. A younger, seemingly well put together man is not pursuing a genuine internet relationship with a 77 year old woman with no teeth or social credit.

​@@cheapcraftygirlsweepstakes2338 Evil is mad up to make ourselves feel better. Conartists are able to make a mark out of anyone. It just makes you feel better to label this woman as evil and lable yourself as good. You have to do this to sleep at night. It's a survival mechanism but it's just not true. When I hear people blame religion or good and evil for works of man, all I see and hear is weakness. And that weakness, will enable these scams to continue.

I agree.

I think they actually enjoy the drama. And as long as their friends and family keep bailing them out by paying their bills, they'll never stop.

Hahahahaha 😂

Absolutely. They have no problem giving someone every penny they have in order to perpetuate their fantasy, and the scammers know it all too well.

Yeah they also get "comfort" from the attention they get from the hosts. It all boils down to insecurity and loneliness

Yes

Loser. 😢

It's becoming condescending.

Being called stupid doesn't make anyone feel better or help them make better decisions. At least this woman didn't sit there talking all about how smart and desirable she is.

Not brick head💀🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@everyonelovesmajimashe knew the other men she talked to in the past were scammers and stopped talking with them, so deep down she knows and don’t care, she just wants to be wanted.

@@everyonelovesmajima most of them do, over and over.

A woman always wants a man for security and provision because they are wired that way. So she is missing something very important and that's why the scam worked on her.

But but but, she was getting NONE of that..​@@matchhunter7012

If she cared about her family in the first place, she wouldn’t have burdened them. No surprise that she takes them for granted.

@@matchhunter7012 i am a woman. Was divorced when I was 26 and never remarried or lived with anyone. I got qualifications, worked hard and looked after myself.

​@@matchhunter7012 Not always wired that way. That is too much of a generalization. I'm in my '60s, lost my husband of decades to cancer. I am loving the freedom to do what I want, enjoy my grandkids and family and stay very busy/volunteer/pursue interests.I cannot imagine having time to let a guy into my life to change things. No matter the benefit. Not worth it.

Lol

More truly is to call "queen", than beautiful. 🤦🏻‍♀️

That wasn’t very nice or very helpful…..

I would 💩 my pants if someone even mentioned the FBI. It’s a testament to how coddled and delusional she is that she brushed them off

What I think too & I bet you 100% Why would social catfish be able to get through to her. When The Police, FBI, Banks & her family told her. She is going to continue Just Like Old Jodi & others would.

And wasnt 77 years old....

At best her daughter was online wise and did things correctly. Her daughter has more wisdom and common sense than the mother.

Exactly.

I met my wife online and traveled the world to meet her when it was time to meet her firsthand. It sounds crazy, but no money was agreed upon and we both invested in a non-refundable booking for a hotel. Yes, she was actually real LOL. The difference is this: we are about the same age, talked and video'd a lot, and met up within a couple months. Don't do this if you don't have money my friends.

and the guy the daughter was talking to was the real person in the photos

Agree. Some of them don't stop until they're in a facility with no money and no access to computers, or until they die.

That’s just it, I don’t think these people get that the person on the photo has nothing to do with anything.

Yes she's that dumb

I wish the team had located the scammer so she would know it is not the doctor that is scamming her

Too much empahsis is still placed on the victim whose pictures have been stonlen. I'ts beside the point whether he is Turkish, a doctor, or whatever. Hwis pictures have beeen stolen. Instead, we need to see footaage of how the Nigerian scammers party after making a big kill, sit on floors in crowded rooms with laptops and work in shifts with scripts.

@@junemarshall-kingsley566so true!!

Exactly delusional

You forgot several iterations of “and then asks for money” but yeah, other than that spot on! Everyone in her life was trying to help her but she shrugged off all of them. Frustrating!

The desperation of finding love. Love is blind for sure.

@@wigglygiggly776 Yes, you're right. It seems to completely overpower any sense.

It's so unbelievable that I'm starting to think this is all fake & stage.

She's pretty despicable.

@@mamadude505Exactly!!

She’s gonna go right back to it

It’s their business to be nice to these “victims”. Without them there is no social catfish but I know they will never go out of business. New scams are always being invented

@@mamadude505and mean

Yeah, that's the saddest part. But in the US, dental care is insane and there is literally no help for it. She's also super old, and it seems she devoted herself to raising stable children, despite her own problems. I feel bad for her ngl.

I don't understand with all the information about romance scams out there, why are people falling for them so easily. The First thing they need to do is an image reach. These criminals are laughing all the way to the bank with victim's money 😔

​@fatuusdottore Medicare will cover extractions and dentures which is all she needs

@@fatuusdottoreno dental care is not insane. What’s insane is the amount of people who don’t know how to do basic maintenance for their teeth. This looks like a lifetime of bad oral hygiene on her part.

Totally agree with you!!!

Exactly

As soon as I saw that smug ass look on her face, my pity left💯 she likes it

I don't

And the thing is, he wasn’t even nice to her after all that! He scammed her, stole from her and lied to her and she kept giving more! it’s insane!

She means she has no D....that woman don't care for herself or family to be THAT FOOLISH u gotta be selfish and only think of your pleasures

I assume she means friends or a partner. Children can't and shouldn't be giving you every spare moment. They have lives and jobs. It's more to do with the inability to be happy whilst alone and be alone without being lonely. In other words, a happy life without a partner.

​@@ChrisAndCats, you don't need to have a romantic partner to have a full life. Love is love. Feeling incomplete unless you're in a romantic relationship sounds pretty codependent to me.

@AFAskygoddess I agree completely. I've been single through choice since 2014, after a 14yr relationship ended but have work, interesting hobbies and close friends, so don't feel lonely when I'm alone. I don't have the need or inclination to find another partner just to fill a gap. If one came along, so be it but I'm not desperately searching as seems to be the case a lot of times in these videos. I think that's the issue in a lot of these cases though, the people don't have enough going on in their lives to keep them occupied and content.

She's a narcissist.

You said it best 😂

Except she knocked back the straight scammers who just asked her for money. She just worked with this guy accepting the computers because she expected a cut. This isn’t some totally naive elderly woman, she obviously believes some of his lies but she could also pick a scammer. She is deliberately involved in money laundering

What makes it even more crazier was that she didn't keep the $5000 for herself 😂

More like being unbearably lonely

It’s weird how they actually develop an addiction to sending the money. Even after they know it’s a scam, they can’t give up the addiction.

Massive egos are part of it too, imo. The victims think they still look like their 20 year old profile pics 🙈

@@Black_Samurai-fish Lonely? She has 3 children and 3 grandchildren. She's just looking to 'win the Lotto' with a scammer. I'm not buying the 'lonely' excuse. There's a certain element but she's unbearably delusional.

I wonder how much early stage dementia plays in this

This is why I'm glad my mom isn't on the internet. And when my dad reaches a certain age me and/or my brother may have to take his internet away if God forbid he gets sucked into a scam

Im so busy retired I cant even volunteer at the Sr Center yet!

If my mother had not passed away 15 years ago, she would have fallen for a scam like this. She loved attention and had a good amount of money. You’re lucky your mother saw through this scam and reported it. Although Facebook thinks more about money than their subscribers.

@@terryKessler42719 sorry for your loss. Heaven holds the faithful departed!

She is being victimized by a team of scammers and cyber stalkers and these criminals know how to push people to suicide.

And whats worse, he was sending her actual products to essentially launder for money, so if anything she should've been getting a cut of that, but she was just doing it for free! Not only is she bad at relationships, she's a terrible criminal too! XD