Viet Trap talks about being raised by the devil

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@UnderTheInfluenceClips Жыл бұрын

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@djkjthe3rd185 Жыл бұрын

Discount drink champs 😂

@kiwiblue2519 Жыл бұрын

literally my life too. crazy to hear it from someone else

@hmsp7799 Жыл бұрын

Nobody is asking this lame ahh interview, not everyone can do podcast fr

@kiwiblue2519 Жыл бұрын

@@hmsp7799

@hmsp7799 Жыл бұрын

@@kiwiblue2519 your mum ?

@yo_stephen Жыл бұрын

Respect man. That’s a hard life. Don’t know who he is but I hope he’s doing well.

@mr.stealyogirl4078 Жыл бұрын

cry me a river

@ryanmctear5606 Жыл бұрын

So you left moms there with no one to protect her?

@Pricklynips Жыл бұрын

@@ryanmctear5606 gotta do what you gotta do 🤷🏼‍♂️

@llgooftroopll8853 Жыл бұрын

@@ryanmctear5606 Most moms just want their kids to be safe! His mom probably understands more than anything, because he is ok now!

@po3505 Жыл бұрын

The same happened to me but dad was the nice one

@JustASmallTownGirl85 Жыл бұрын

I remember praying that the neighbors would call the cops, no one ever did. I knew they heard everything, they wouldn't even make eye contact with us the nights after a big fight😢

@ForevaLaTrelle Жыл бұрын

Should’ve called the cops yourself

@Jillberto Жыл бұрын

@@ForevaLaTrelle easier said than done, sadly. Especially if you're a kid you will be scared as hell, especially because you dont know what kind of consequences calling the cops yourself might bring for you.

@Mari_iii Жыл бұрын

@@ForevaLaTrelle so the cops can pull up, talk some shit and leave for you to get beat even worse? Nah

@JustASmallTownGirl85 Жыл бұрын

@@Mari_iii this exactly❤️ My Dad always told us since I could remember, "If you ever call the cops remember, they can't get here faster than I can get to you." I knew he meant it.

@Mari_iii Жыл бұрын

@@JustASmallTownGirl85 I'm so sorry, I hope you're doing better now :) ❤

@SKEILLLL Жыл бұрын

Had an ex that was Vietnamese and the abuse he was subjected to was absolutely appalling

@elic2575 Жыл бұрын

yeah bro vietnamese people defo beat their kids edit: was being sarcastic but the stats indicate this is actually true

@alchemmiee Жыл бұрын

prayers …❤😢

@phatphlat Жыл бұрын

When you've been badly abused like that you should not have kids.

@udontevenwannaknowbruv Жыл бұрын

Is child abuse common in Vietnamese households?..

@SKEILLLL Жыл бұрын

@@udontevenwannaknowbruv from what I’ve heard, very. That’s multiple Vietnamese ppl I know as well

@outlaw451 Жыл бұрын

"Just cuase a house is nice, doesn't mean nice stuff is happening inside it." Johnny Lawrence

@treytaylor5771 2 ай бұрын

Factssss

@vinny5638 Жыл бұрын

Imagining him walking through the rain with his bag telling the cop he feels better than ever is almost artistic. Really beautiful end to a sad story

@taylortownsend9733 Жыл бұрын

anime back story

@BingeworthyContent Жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@liljeepers9502 Жыл бұрын

given all the physical aspects that make it seem like a lot, its a better place than the 4 walls and roof some know

@inessa5923 Жыл бұрын

People love to call things like this artistic because they yearn to find meaning or purpose in suffering. It’s not really beautiful. We just have to accept that lots of kids go through this shit for absolutely no reason.

@Thatdudewiththedogs Жыл бұрын

It’s 🧢

@kallyb1998 Жыл бұрын

The fact he stated he had to grow up more to understand his mom wasn't allowing his dad to be this way, they were both victims of an angry man. My mother and I were in the same boat except we left together.

@xum0007 Жыл бұрын

Same case with my father and I we were both victims but thankfully I got out of that situation a while back

@rugascombatanalysis4049 Жыл бұрын

Naw she chose him The kid doesn’t choose parents

@Catfish.Knudsen Жыл бұрын

It’s sad I feel like a lot of men leave women & other men scarred for life. Hints just one reason why a lot of women just go gay, cuz they can’t be with a man from the trauma they were put thru from them in the past. Bs. But we’re all just animals in reality. & men r just naturally more…aggressive may b the word.

@COCAEEN98 Жыл бұрын

I am with you there, same my mom and I left together thankfully

@mlg445 Жыл бұрын

nah she shoulda left

@nadinegomez8858 Жыл бұрын

Sadly so many Asian households are toxic & abusive like this. I ran away from abusive Filipino parents too

@lydiayoon3843 Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry, I’m glad you got away and I hope you’re in a good place now

@MrCAppiah Жыл бұрын

I had a childhood precisely like his. From age 6 well into my 20s, I was abused extensively: being punched in the face, verbal abuse, you name it, I got it. Same with my mother and sister. My mother never left, and so we all stayed in that home enduring his treachery. It took me a long time to understand my own worth, even at 32 years old. Now, I am taking care of my mother alone as she undergoes cancer treatment for a 2nd time. I only speak to my father when necessary, and he's still an angry asshole in his 70s. He has taken so much from us, but most importantly, I've also become resilient and have proven to myself that I am enough. More than enough. I honestly want to leave both of them behind and finally live my life, but I'd feel so guilty, especially with my mother's cancer diagnosis.

@pereetete4886 Жыл бұрын

i belive in you and i know things are going to get better. i understand what it feels like to just want to leave it all behind and i would strongly suggest you take some time for yourself so you don't get consumed in all that toxicity

@MrCAppiah Жыл бұрын

@@pereetete4886 Thank you so much ❤

@AaaAaa-mh5ev Жыл бұрын

Verily, after every hardship comes ease. May Allah heal and guide you and your family. Take care of yourself. Be nice to yourself and take care of your mother. I don’t know you but a wish you good and I will pray for you❤

@MrCAppiah Жыл бұрын

@@AaaAaa-mh5ev Thank you for the kind words ❤

@punkroyalbby Жыл бұрын

you think your dad still got hands 🤔

@User_005 Жыл бұрын

“Yeah I feel better than ever”

@itsyaboyjay9862 Жыл бұрын

His mom at home:

@papi7936 Жыл бұрын

@@itsyaboyjay9862 she didn’t build enough courage to leave

@itsyaboyjay9862 Жыл бұрын

@@papi7936 yeah but that doesn't mean he shouldn't care about her

@akwl0l812 Жыл бұрын

@@itsyaboyjay9862 and you made this assumption based on what?

@itsyaboyjay9862 Жыл бұрын

@@akwl0l812 what assumption? I didn't make any

@henloworld514 Жыл бұрын

The white neighborhood thing hits so hard. I grew up in good neighborhoods, yet no one ever called the cops. I was crying every single day yet no one ever cared to check up on me.

@pinkbombshellcasing2672 Жыл бұрын

Don’t worry, they don’t care in ghetto neighborhoods either

@henloworld514 Жыл бұрын

@@pinkbombshellcasing2672 that’s why I specified good neighborhoods lol, you’d think people that live better would be more alert about possible child abuse situations but people don’t really care.

@OH-vh6vi Жыл бұрын

It’s the hardest thing too because it will have me second guessing my worth as a human being. Was I not worthy of being saved? I know this isn’t the case but it feels like it. People who did know also used it against me 💔

@_Gaby_950 7 ай бұрын

@@henloworld514I'm so sorry to hear you suffered so much. It's beautiful that you persevered and are seemingly in a better place now. If nothing else, at least sharing your story can motivate people to take action when they find themselves in similar situations. Still, sending lots of love your way!

@Patchw0rkx Жыл бұрын

Can relate, ran away at 16. Never looked back. (Now I'm just stressed trying to find a stable job lmao)

@user_gov Жыл бұрын

best of luck my friend

@assassinhawk76 Жыл бұрын

You got this, don’t worry yourself to much

@fullmoonlite Жыл бұрын

Same. It's incredibly hard to have a stable job when you are struggling with mental health and trauma.. wish I didn't have to work, it's too much

@Se0what Жыл бұрын

Think about serving. Always a demand for good servers and its a cash rich business. Great way to transition. Think sushi, busier bistros, breweries

@avintheconqueror Жыл бұрын

@@fullmoonlite I’ve experienced traumatic events but you have to remember only you have control over your own Brian and thoughts

@ENRgy. Жыл бұрын

While this dude sits there in a pink wig💀💀

@GasBabyDee58 Жыл бұрын

Dat portrait behind the other dude of him w the guy wearing the pink wig 😂

@MrSurfsAlot Жыл бұрын

@@GasBabyDee58 lol what am i watching

@tyresejackson8481 Жыл бұрын

I wonder what his dad said

@jjgrealy6340 Жыл бұрын

@@tyresejackson8481 no dad prob

@leopard2a786 Жыл бұрын

You’re completely missing the point of the video, but ok.

@zazilicious Жыл бұрын

The worst thing about toxic parents is that they don’t think they do or say anything wrong because they had the same thing done to them and that’s all they’ve known 😢😢

@Whokare Жыл бұрын

Facts this hit kinda hard

@zazilicious Жыл бұрын

@@Whokare Very sad because you kinda feel sorry for them but at the same time they’re breaking you. I hope we can break these generational curses!

@beatnik6806 Жыл бұрын

This was my parents. Some really bad stuff happened few years ago in our family and it humbled them a lot! Also probably age made them more humble and I'm so glad. I feel like same thing that happened to my parents and changed them now that they are 60, happened to me when I was 20. We are now in good terms.

@zazilicious Жыл бұрын

@@beatnik6806 I’m glad you guys were able to heal! It’s a blessing.

@Locopueblo Жыл бұрын

Exactly and it’s kinda sad too because that’s an unresolved trauma they’ve normalized to the point where they think that’s how you raise a child.

@dattienle37 Жыл бұрын

I feel him. My dad is very abusive and my mom sometimes supports it. I finally just left and never looked back. Left everything with nothing to my name and rebuilding everything back right now but I'm doing so much better in terms of my mental health.

@nothumanjust3catsinatrenchcoat Жыл бұрын

I wish you all the best in life. Take care ❤️

@ilovepeanutbutter111 Жыл бұрын

poor kid, i hope he’s doing good now he’s proof of how thankful we should be for getting good parents

@Locopueblo Жыл бұрын

Relatable. It’s sad when you feel safe “out there” where anything can happen. You’re at peace even because he can’t hurt you if he doesn’t know where you are. And when you’re home, you can’t even sleep out of fear and anxiety of being abused. Glad we’re speaking up about child abuse. So many people normalize it and don’t talk about it because “what happens in my house stays in my house”.

@dynamite_dynamite5954 Жыл бұрын

@Pink Sprite I think you misunderstood the comment my guy😂.

@lemon9171 Жыл бұрын

Yeah and they try to hide it under the disguise of " discipline "

@SamBekn Жыл бұрын

Being in dysfunctional family feels like being in a prison and your only time off is the night when they sleep. I felt it when he said i felt better tha ever

@enno6777 Жыл бұрын

and now you carry hate in ur name... cmon man you can do better then that

@Lilibtstan Жыл бұрын

Not when your parents continue to start fighting in the middle of the night... waking everyone up🤡

@ChucklePottery Жыл бұрын

The fighting that continue in the night and damn my father is the same. Mental abuse since I was a child. My mom finally open her eyes and decide to leave. But we are still in preparation phase for a new house... hope nothing happen in the next 3 years

@shineedablueprint4914 Жыл бұрын

Crazy… for me it was the other way around for some times. Then I never had time off during the day because the abuse was messing with my mind when I was awake

@nicholas6836 Жыл бұрын

I understand the pain which you have been through and I empathise with you, but when you define your KZfaq account around your hatred for a community just trying to survive like the rest of us, you lose my respect. Do better.

@chantal6718 Жыл бұрын

Viet I’m so sorry you had to go through that you’re so strong.

@fullmetalsoldier6511 Жыл бұрын

Story is a mirror to my own, glad to see someone else who survived, lived and is healing/moving forward

@automaticwriting4220 Жыл бұрын

Respect. I’m glad this dude would understand some things for himself as he got older and more mature

@_.momjeans_9219 Жыл бұрын

Didn’t get to watch the full thing yet but when he left did the mom stay?

@VENENOSEASON Жыл бұрын

Fight back nicca😊😊

@Slesaint17 Жыл бұрын

If you have a good father or mother, let them know you appreciate them.

@BigTroubleD Жыл бұрын

Seriously. It’s really difficult when people try to shame or guilt you into constantly putting up with your parents bad behaviors. I love them despite all they did. I do forgive them, but I won’t stay around them as long as they continue to be dismissive, rude and abusive to me.

@henloworld514 Жыл бұрын

I love my parents but they were abusive. I still appreciate them, but I put up boundaries. I’m glad I’m older so that they don’t treat me like a rag doll.

@conservat1vepatr1ot Жыл бұрын

Kids who are able to find the strength to escape those situations are amazing. This young man is a badass.

@AllAmericanBabe Жыл бұрын

You never know what someone is going through

@pboobooz Жыл бұрын

That's why his hearts so big he's transmuted that trauma and loves regardless he's strong for that well done

@JamesTerry. Жыл бұрын

"Yeah! I feel better than ever!" Whoa

@Malcdz Жыл бұрын

@slims-1013 Жыл бұрын

It feels amazing to be free from those shackles. I can relate to what this person is saying and I pray for those individuals going through the same shit. It can be really hard sometimes, but don't ever give up on life.

@francisco6149 Жыл бұрын

As a Mexican, who lived a similar life, we don’t get that attention but I’m glad this guy is doing better

@eve972 Жыл бұрын

Well he was diagnosed with bpd so idk about better

@cosmari245 Жыл бұрын

@@eve972 Being diagnosed with a mental disorder in a way is kind of a good thing, i mean ofc struggling mentally is not good, but what i mean is now that you are diagnosed, u can receive better help to address your issues u know?

@cosmari245 Жыл бұрын

@@eve972 But I still understand your point, and I just hope he is doing better

@fredyuen2489 Жыл бұрын

I know that feeling except my parents weren’t immigrants like his were, my parents were second generation Americans from Hawaii. My dad would beat my ass over the dumbest shit too and I was told that the most I’d ever amount to is being in jail or being on the streets. Of course his experiences were worse than mine but hearing this is something I can relate a little bit.

@user-ec1qi1tc1f Жыл бұрын

My heart breaks for his mom 💔

@reheatedpizza7292 Жыл бұрын

they’re way better off now i followed him for a minute @vietrap

@pinkpixiemoon Жыл бұрын

I feel bad for her being a victim to the abuse as well, - but at the same time, she DID enable the abuse by refusing to leave with her child, or puting the child in a better situation in a safe household.

@user-ec1qi1tc1f Жыл бұрын

@@pinkpixiemoon Yeh but she was probably on the same boat as her son. She was probably so mentally abused by her husband that she couldn't find the will to leave.

@Spider_aaaahhh Жыл бұрын

@@pinkpixiemoon She was Vietnamese.. Unlike an average single mother, she did not understand the language in America, its culture, and access to resources where she could recieve help. The son even said she was with the father at 18 years old. She's also a damn child if you think about it.

@ixion_cyb Жыл бұрын

@@Spider_aaaahhhwhat happened to his mom now

@Kushomatik11 Жыл бұрын

God bless this dude…I wish I could talk to him

@unknown2533 Жыл бұрын

I’m so happy for you dude . Me and my sister went through a similar situation but with our mother she was very abusive and manipulative it got to a point where we had to leave we were very young at the time and so we escaped to live with our father and I cannot feel better . Leaving an abusive environment and not looking back is hands down the best feeling ever it really shapes a person. I’m glad you left before getting real messed up .

@chax142 Жыл бұрын

“Yeah feel better than ever” that shit hit hard

@goldengoddess115 Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry 😞 I lived a similar situation. My mother would remind me if it wasn’t for my father begging not to she would have aborted me that she never wanted me, would beat us older 3 but truly hated me because the love my father showed. Sending you and others who have experienced this extreme pain love 💜

@jereofficial4865 Жыл бұрын

Hope life turned out ok and it’s treating you how it should❤

@tanisgeorgetti7317 Жыл бұрын

My heart breaks for him! That’s so messed up! Such a handsome guy to love his tattoos!😢❤

@bibiworm Жыл бұрын

I had been verbally and physically abused by my mom since I can remember. Luckily, I have a dad who love me, so I pulled through very difficult teenage years. I don’t blame him for not protecting me, cause he was and still is a victim too. I am Chinese.

@muffinduong4715 Жыл бұрын

Yup, growing up Asian, I can relate to this. We had to save ourselves. No one will save us…

@sarahhuerta5704 Жыл бұрын

We all have to save ourselves no one will save any of us unless we do it. That’s for all adult nothing to do with a specific race

@wizenedoak5046 Жыл бұрын

That feeling when you get back at sombody that did nothing but f**k with your life is amazing

@jnieswartz4878 Жыл бұрын

My heart breaks for him. He deserved so much better.

@amandawayne829 Жыл бұрын

That moment you walk away and know for a fact that you're never going back is the most pure and amazing feeling

@slapjacq2131 Жыл бұрын

Left my house when I was 17 due to a very similar situation. Walking to school that day was one of the most tranquil things I’d ever experienced. It was like before all the real world problems kicked in, the ability to not think about what it was gonna be like when you got back home was one of the most freeing experiences I’d ever had

@kevintaylor1823 Жыл бұрын

@s l a p j a c q cant relate more, the MOST free ive ever felt was finally realizing i didnt have to go home to hell on earth anymore even though i was starving and was homeless i felt genuinely happy

@lejamesbron5880 Жыл бұрын

Hope he’s doing alright bro. I’m an East African immigrant and our parents went through a lot with wars and stuff, so it probably pushed them to a dark path which is why many immigrant kids were severely punished. Hope his moms’nem is doing alright too!

@globalSentry Жыл бұрын

Nope. Aholes are always aholes. I know many good people who went throught wars.

@fuse911 Жыл бұрын

I felt this but my pops left when i was 11 and my mom took his place with verbal abuse saying i wont be shit because i didnt have a dad

@gr4ft Жыл бұрын

good to see you pushed through, best of luck to you

@lyd6874 Жыл бұрын

I wish u the best life ever !

@fuse911 Жыл бұрын

@@lyd6874 i appreciate it 🙏🏽

@katbevering Жыл бұрын

I can relate so much with this, but I was the only victim. It's so much of a relief to just leave and save yourself, but also so draining when your family pressures you to forgive and be around your abuser because "oh it couldn't have been that bad"

@katinafrancis7643 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you pulled through it and I'm glad you're here and sharing your story with us God-bless you

@hamzanasser7792 Жыл бұрын

Went through something that destroyed my family like this and also left when I was 17. You keep running, you may be lucky and find a way to make a decent living, but even if you make money one day decades later you look at yourself in the mirror and realise all these things you have accumulated which others would call success. These things are not success they are a way to keep running. One day you will need psychological healing , you will need to face your inner demons and truly free your mind spirit and soul so that the second half of your life will truly be free. Only then will you break the cycle

@cookiegirl891 Жыл бұрын

This is deep !

@babynieve9612 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful comment and advice ❤

@soullooker Жыл бұрын

He’s so beautiful. His eyes are gorgeous. Like you could get lost in them

@malazan6004 Жыл бұрын

What's his name btw?

@soullooker Жыл бұрын

@@malazan6004 I’m not sure.

@soullooker Жыл бұрын

@@malazan6004 “viet trap” is his name

@malazan6004 Жыл бұрын

@@soullooker cheers

@kennethquach7234 Жыл бұрын

I was raised this way too, a lot of Vietnamese are like this.

@calibandigames4925 Жыл бұрын

I need to listen to his full story…feel like it’s one I gotta do in bed so I can cry and sleep for 10 hours

@Kacsious Жыл бұрын

He speaks like x and it's just comforting

@nihartley5265 Жыл бұрын

fr, they have similar cadence

@leftblea7692 Жыл бұрын

rightt

@TheBookofLab Жыл бұрын

having a serious convo with with that picture behind yall is impossible lol

@musicmeister1313 Жыл бұрын

it really is😭

@SRHisntSilent Жыл бұрын

i love how open he is and it's amazing to see how he's progressing and maturing

@kylii.33 Жыл бұрын

Who is he?

@readiimitch6594 Жыл бұрын

Worst feeling in the world bra!!! Still deal with my past till this day… Big 🆙 to you bro ✊🏾🤝🏾

@ashlaraque4135 Жыл бұрын

Sounds exactly what I went through as a kid. A school counselor even told me that it was normal for my parents to hit me. Only time people try to get involved was once when I was five years old, I was a very small five year old and when the neighbor found out that my dad was beating me, she confronted him because obviously I was too small to receive any kind of beating. And a second time when my dad popped The blood vessels in my eye after hitting me really hard. At that point I thought it was normal for your parents to beat you so I was honest with the nurse and they called DCF but still nothing happened. Eventually I just made my own way after age 19, I’ve made a pretty comfortable life for myself so far.

@theeyesbutterfly6089 Жыл бұрын

🦋

@ashley-marie5547 Жыл бұрын

I told a counselor and they laughed at me and I never spoke anyone about what I went through because I thought it was normal until I met my husband and he got me away from my family and I realized who toxic they were

@awesomeness8468 Жыл бұрын

@@peepeepoopoo2749 man’s got hit in the face so hard it popped a blood vessel in his eye yea that’s not a beating bro like I’ve been through stuff too but something like that is not normal that’s straight child abuse

@on33r4jo3 Жыл бұрын

@@peepeepoopoo2749 I understand what you're saying, but I've never gone to the hospital just because of a beating. That's the point where I call it child abuse

@tannie2510 Жыл бұрын

theres a difference between disciplining and child abuse and i wish the line is drawn

@MsMarsBarr Жыл бұрын

I’m glad your ok. Sending love ❤

@BigSmacks Жыл бұрын

Crazy bro your story is just like mine. My parents are refugees from Iraq. Same story, and I ran away when I was 18 , but I’m 25 now and still doin my thing, all the pain and loneliness I been through... it’s all good I realized I don’t need nobody but my self to be happy and the right people and women will come along.... yo I got mad serious respect for my Vietnamese people, as an Iraqi I got nothing but love for y’all because ya go through the same things we go through... and look how we gonna be shining in the new world. Stay up my G you have a lot to be proud of, keep ur head high

@Vnexpress1203 Жыл бұрын

“I don’t need nobody but myself” with this mindset it will serve you well in life . We dictate how we would like the world to treat us. Stay positive! That’s half of the life’s battle.

@TrippyKenpachi Жыл бұрын

I want to hold and hug and baby and soothe and comfort and cuddle Viet so badly. 😭 Every time I see his face, I want to hug him. Now more than ever. 🥺 It takes a lot of courage to talk about surviving abuse. Im a DV survivor. He likely won’t read this, but just in case: Viet, I’m very proud of you. I hope you heal and find happiness and healthy love. You deserve it. ❤❤❤

@onkai_music Жыл бұрын

That is exactly what my mother did, my mom is Vietnamese and grew up in a house hold like this, my grandma was never beaten but she removed herself emotionally from everything. My mom left at 17. She actually has a great relationship with her parents now, they never apologized but she still forgave them

@DouglasLee9 Жыл бұрын

Proud of you.

@emkoa6975 Жыл бұрын

I love when kids grow up and speak out!!!! Hats off to you

@sweetxiuga.9829 Жыл бұрын

This can have a lot to do with his bpd diagnosis. Childhood trauma like this causes so many painful issues for us… glad he made it out

@nadinegomez8858 Жыл бұрын

Is BPD always caused by trauma?

@hyororo03 Жыл бұрын

I know a guy with a similar story man hes homeless now and it's literally the happiest and healthiest ive seen him in the 8 years I've known him. Hes getting on his feet and he's doing well

@bee65 Жыл бұрын

When there is one person controlling the house, there is one person controlling the house. I will forgive my mom for being afraid of my dad, but I will never forgive him for making her afraid of him. She did all she knew how to do to protect me from his wrath and faced it herself, refusing him to let me face it head-on. I love her to this day. My dad has tried more, but I still can’t forgive him for how much he scared us when I was younger.

@_lWhite Жыл бұрын

I honestly felt that, growing up in those kinda environments really strengthens and fortifies a person. Ofc inna shitty way but I understand his pain cuz we had almost the same lives with subtle differences

@pluckybellhop66 Жыл бұрын

Man, I feel it. I'm a csa survivor so I know that stuff can be going down in your house that your neighbors might not even know about or perceive how bad it is. Keep your chin up, my guy, it can only get better from here ❤️✌️

@michelleedward8755 Жыл бұрын

I feel his pain! I am sorry man!

@ktnixon81 Жыл бұрын

So many stories like his and I get so sad. Please, if you can, mentor young people. Become a teacher. So many kids need a safe adult. I’ve been a high school teacher for 16 years and his story is more common than you’d care to think. Be there for them if you can. I hope he is doing well. ❤

@lianak.1366 Жыл бұрын

That explains the BPD diagnosis. Makes me reject a lot about how fucked up so many others childhoods are

@megan3568 Жыл бұрын

Aww good for him for getting out of that situation. I hope his mom can too

@robertdepesci3418 Жыл бұрын

As a korean i can relate. Dad will wake me up 3am to beat me. And i gotta go to school in a couple hours.

@barneyyuyy1901 Жыл бұрын

You good?:(

@babynieve9612 Жыл бұрын

Hopefully you good now homie

@DarkDaysInPurple Жыл бұрын

Are you alright now? Do you need help???

@Michael-nd3rs 6 ай бұрын

Were you up at 3 am playing video games

@robertdepesci3418 6 ай бұрын

@@Michael-nd3rs i was sneaking back at 3am from your mom's bedroom and got caught

@seankelly8902 Жыл бұрын

Read the book “ a child called it” it’s sad af reminds of this story

@adeo506 Жыл бұрын

Omg that book is so sad- literally cried reading it

@Justaliljellybean 9 ай бұрын

No joke. I feel like Viet is emotionally maturity is almost transiting the podcast now. He's so much more lighter and brighter now

@HoopinFR Жыл бұрын

“Better than ever” man those words hit hard

@taivo2520 Жыл бұрын

Same shit here, but not the dad. The Mom, humiliated me in public and shit like “I should’ve choked you when you were a baby”, ect…Never show up in any special occasions of my life. Ghost them for nearly 10 years, now feel better than ever.

@courtney2061 Жыл бұрын

My father was like that I couldn't fight back but I ended up moving.

@TonTon-ye8kg Жыл бұрын

It’s crazy how many of us relate to this… for anyone out there going through it, it’s gonna be scary but sometimes you just gotta leave. You’re not required to stay and try to change your parents, they’re grown ass people with fully developed brains.

@cybergr4pe Жыл бұрын

Mad respect. Hope he’s doing well now.

@mijkkruythoff2992 Жыл бұрын

Hopefully those hard/harsh experiences is reason you're a better indivisual today my guy✊🏼👈🏽🙏🏽

@madelinesummers5471 Жыл бұрын

I hope he works on heeling himself. He had to deal with that amount of trauma for so long, it’s a difficult task to walk on eggshells.

@th3cheeze496 Жыл бұрын

Felt this shit to the max… hardest trauma I’m still learning to overcome

@alyssavasquez4385 Жыл бұрын

Man I just wanna hug him 😢 respect dude ❤

@AnandTumurtogoo17 Жыл бұрын

Even if you have a kid by mistake, you need to take care of that kid the best possible way you can. Yes, kids can be a pain sometimes but never do shit like that your kid runs away. Sorry viet.

@backwoodbandit Жыл бұрын

“yeah feel better than ever” lol felt

@kaybee2411 Жыл бұрын

Oh wow! Big ups! To you and hope your spirit continue to grow as well as your growth

@zororononoa3419 Жыл бұрын

That Berserk tat on his neck respect 🤝

@seciliafeliz Жыл бұрын

Sounds like his Dad was doing what was done to him as a child, which doesn't make it right. He just never broke the cycle! Good for you for leaving, I'm sorry your Mom didn't have the strength to leave.

@africanredemption15 Жыл бұрын

Rain especially water has such a powerful meaning. He was baptized by the Universe this man most definitely has a purpose. Every scar every word manifested him into who he is today.

@siiiiiuu7 Жыл бұрын

Beautifully said.

@arizonarealty3790 Жыл бұрын

mom could have called CPS 😂🤣😅

@smolmaae7947 Жыл бұрын

Glad you stayed with us bro because as sad as it is, there are so many kids and people just like you and by you being here and showing us that there is a calm after the storm speaks volumes. I hope and pray that the trauma you past caused you can pass and heal and you can grow from it. Some days are hard and others it feels like nothing can stop us. Just know that there are people who love you and believe that you deserve to be here .

@imbored0o Жыл бұрын

Not people victim blaming the mom. Be ashamed of yourself.

@windolite Жыл бұрын

Same thing happend to me. I was punished for playing video games when I was 10 and I had to sleep outside on the stoop, and neighbors asked if I was okay, and then they called the cops and he was arrested. 22 now and haven’t seen him since

@GreenBoy9000 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like he might have gotten the book thrown at him, sent to a prison, and.... Well, I'm sure you're aware of what happens to child abusers in prison.

@sycamoreman9625 Жыл бұрын

I relate. My mom kicked me out at 16 after my ex's mom called cps on her. Ended up in foster care and it wasn't great but it was better. I hope the best to all people who have been in abusive situations

@dhpreadings5686 Жыл бұрын

Wow! This is so difficult and traumatic to deal with! So happy he left! ❤

@lamvunhu4945 Жыл бұрын

Yo i don't know this guy but as a fellow Vietnamese i can relate more than I want to

@kushnastay Жыл бұрын

I grew up in Canada with a Vietnamese father ,I only got beat when I didn’t listen or had bad grades . I was one of the lucky ones, some of my friends with Viet. Or Cambodian parents was just getting beat for existing, One thing that always stuck with me was the time my dad ripped my gold buddah necklace off pushed me back through t the closet door and when I hit the ground he said bring Shame and make our family name Lose face ,I’m weak and don’t deserve to wear buddah …. Honestly I think he hates that I’m half white one only half viet the most , like shit not my fault you slept with a white woman and made me…

@pagethreemodel Жыл бұрын

Your communities are a mess.

@rynnyz1355 Жыл бұрын

I wanna give him a hug

@ebulliently Жыл бұрын

it’s really admirable of him to have been able to understand that his mom was also a victim. a lot of the times ppl find themselves resenting a parent for not protecting them, even when the parent was also being abused. it’s one thing to know it, but it’s another to be able to understand and reconcile that fact in your heart and be ok with it. i’m glad he seems to be doing well now.