People are so used to trauma, negativity, and toxicity that when they hear something trauma-free, it's unheard of or unbelievable to them. Continue to ENJOY YOUR EXPERIENCE, UNAPOLOGETICALLY!

Lo please understand that misery loves company. The fact that you have an overall good experience with being a first time mom doesn’t feel realistic to some people. Your experience is your experience

I like how Ricci wants you to put on the same outfit. It’s like he is intentionally helping you with your confidence. So sweet!!

Everybody experience is different so we thank you for giving us yours. Keywords you said, “you prayed and planned” so there you have it. Nobody pregnancy will ever be the same.

She's the perfect mixture of mom and dad🫶🏽

i’m such a negative person and honestly your positivity motivates me to be more positive! don’t ever stop being you lolo, i’ve literally loved you since the OMG days 🥹🤎

You do not have to vocalize your struggles with us baby. Any mother knows how it really is whether you speak on it or not and it’s still different for everybody. It’s refreshing to see your genuine experience with your support system and how you navigate as a mother. Hopefully Rylan is feeling better!

And you and Ricci doing a good job as parents. Keep up the good work

I think it’s healthy to show a healthy community and foundation. You are in a beautiful healthy relationship and people aren’t use to that. They prefer and would rather see your negatives.

Mindset, self awareness, emotional maturity, relationship/friendship/teamwork you and ricci have, planning and praying really does make all the difference. It took me 4 kids to realize that some parents are excited and happy to have kids but not actually happy and excited to be a parent and do what parenting entails...because there is definitely a difference!

You had a great pregnancy and people are upset. Why can't they just be happy for you ? Don't worry about them. Rylan is good, the fam is good and that's all that matter. Stay Blessed 😘

I like your supportive family GMA and dad on deck is everything. Good memories and vibes

Continue to live your life and don’t allow others to make you think of negativity. Be unapologetic! if it’s a good day in your life every day then that’s what it is. That’s your reality. We talk about struggle so much. We need to get a break from struggle. It’s not your fault that other people are going through struggles. keep the positive vibes coming. I share a lot about knowing your rights in real estate and life skill for FREE and still they complain. It’s great to see positive instead of all the time negative.

Absolutely! All of our experiences are different BUT we do our best to shift our perspective! When you don’t shift your perspective, you will find yourself in a cloud of doom & gloom! When you overcome that.. you work your behind off to stay out of that space. I’m moving back to the city my mom lives in &&&& so excited. The grandma will be the baby! 😂

Tell your story how ever you want don’t let no one discourage you n keep praying. I love seeing you and your family. You have a beautiful daughter, keep doing what you’re doing.

Rylan is such a ray of sunshine! 🥰😍 Please don’t respond to negativity. You are so blessed to have such a beautiful, healthy, happy baby! You are so blessed to have support!! 🩷 You and Ricci are doing so well with Baby Rylan! 💖 No need to explain anything! Keep shining! Keep being positive!

Support is the best thing a mom could have, It does make a big difference. Your story isn't everybody's story. When I had my 1st child my mother lived 8 hours away so it wasn't that easy, so it's a blessing to have it & I'm glad you're sharing. Sometime it could be her baby food. I'm all for Dr's but to me holistic way is the best way. Allergies comes from the foods we eat.

I know I cannot tell you how to feel but Lo your body looks Amazing already 😭 and we can see the progress! Give yourself some grace beautiful💕

My sister had me & my mom helping her with my nephew. So you’re lucky to have family helping you with Miss Rylan. I don’t think your mom would have it any other way either. She loves her little baby. Miss Ryan is just a little baby doll too with her sweet self. Love her smiles!!

Lourdes, you are mature, and I love it. Your response to the commenter from the Q&A was the peace that person needed, and they didn't even know it. It is evident that that person is unable to relate to your experience. That is okay. However, everyone's experience is not the same, and you have never challenged other mothers with that. On another note, Rylan is a blessing and surrounded by so much love. It's such a beautiful thing to witness via your vlogs. xo

I'm glad you spoke on that comment so many people choose to lay and stay in negativity as long as you have support everything will be good. I had a great support system as well. I enjoyed every day being a parent and I had 2 kids 10 months apart. I never stopped working I loved my family.I love to see you and your family doing the thang. Keep showing people that it can be done. Some of us just make it look easy. Good content as usual Rylan always makes me smile and keep up the good work Lolo and Reese.❤❤❤

You’ve been 100% authentic with us ! You’re sharing YOUR truth…I think some people project …every story is just different . I’m happy for you ❤ Feel better beautiful Rylan

Rylan is growing up so beautifully

Everybody's experience is different when it comes to motherhood & there's nothing wrong with sharing & spreading positivity. Lourdes we appreciate you for sharing with us & we want you to know that you're doing a wonderful job as a first time mom 🥰❤️🤗

You are such a Virgo! So positive, sweet and transparent. Wishing you the best on your mom journey:)

Lourdessss you looked good in the pink! 🥰 Don't be hard on yourself my love, youre beautiful.

I felt that! Nothing wrong with being grateful instead of highlighting the negatives.

I love your demeanor, Lourdes!!!! I know that’s right you have to make it a positive you can’t walk in continuous darkness. There is a light at the end of every tunnel. Just have to find it.❤

Lourdes you don’t look bad at all. You’ve got your mom curves. I hope Rylan feels better soon. Get her a humidifier. It may just be allergies.

Rylan is so freakin precious she's a ray of sunshine❤❤ Lo you looooook good 4 months after giving birth, give yourself some grace pooh and that pink outfit looked so cute on you.

Right... and you're very transparent with us. You have a Great support system and a lot of people don't but that's not a reason for anyone to be jealous. It is what it is ❤

Rylan is growing up, she’s a beautiful princess 💗 I hope she feels better soon. Oh and please preserve your energy, you’ve been very transparent about your motherhood journey and we love it! 🥰

Continue to be beautiful & positive ❤️❤️ ppl aren’t used to genuine happiness so they assume it’s fake. But baby when you are blessed and anointed only few will truly understand. You’ve always had a beautiful light that shines through 💛💛💛

Girl I’m not even a parent and I want you to know it’s okay! Enjoy all your good parenting moments. I always say that if I do have kids, I want to have more joyful experiences than stressful ones. People will only focus and discuss the good parts of their ain’t sh** a** significant others, but get made when people want to do that about parenting? Smh. And lighten up on yourself about your weight. Not only did you just have a baby, but you basically had a surgery (getting cut open) Your body still has to finish healing and the swelling probably needs more time to go down. You’re doing good handling all the new changes!♥️

Kudos to you Mommy! Being a young mom is not easy. However, it’s nice to see such a young mom be so attentive to her baby. Even with family help you’re still hands on. Great job mommy! ❤

Everyone's experience is different and if others hasn't been like yours that's ok, that's their situation. Everyone who has a kid doesn't have to suffer/struggle. You're blessed to have prayed for what you have and most importantly have a tribe. Don't apologize or let someone's negative experience affect you! Keep up the great work and positivity!

Ryland is such a cutie. You can tell she’s a happy & loved baby🥰. I’m sure you already know this, but I’m going to say it. Your choice to share your story with us is a blessing and entertainment. Of course, everyone may not share the same experiences, however you should never feel bad about that. Continue to share positivity and love. I love seeing your happiness! We all deserve that!

Baby continue to walk in your amazing. You and Ricci are great parents. I love your videos. Your baby is so beautiful. You are so real and I love it❤❤

You make me know PERSPECTIVE is everything. Shifting the mindset can change or better your experiences. Keep inspiring us.

It is realistic I love being a mother it’s the best thing ever I love it I onl got one she 12 now

try going on long walks (2-4 miles) or aim for 10k steps a day, eating Whole Foods (no processed/fast food in excess), eating small meals throughout the day and not eating after ab 9 pm, pressed juices, kombucha, and the stair master!!! I’m telling you the weight will start falling off!! I’ve lost 30 pounds applying these lifestyle changes the best I can. You’re doing amazing!! 💜

Rylan is the coolest baby ever lol. So calm and happy. You're an excellent mommy. Keep doing what you're doing💜💜.

I look at your baby and instantly feel happy 😊 Her little smile is everything!

Lourdes.....The "TROLLS" definitely dnt want it with the #GANG🤙..#DELETE..#BLOCK....Perioddddttttt.....WE LOVEEEEEE IT HERE🥰🤗‼️✔🤙💖

Hey LoLo and Ryan The Doll! Yes indeed everyone’s experience with being a new mommy is different but our Very Own. I love how positive and transparent you are you’re so relatable. Beautiful Rylan sounds like she’s got allergies she’s such a sweetheart and a happy babydoll! Just gorgeous! Gmommy ain’t missing a beat with her how adorable!! Chile Ryan pays attention to everything around her lol 😂! I just love her perfect little face she lights up when anyone talks and that beautiful smile just melts my heart! ❤️❤️😍🫠

I get how you said everything in ur q&a Lo. I’m the same way ofc I go through sh!t but I’m not ready let it get to me & bring me down.

Sounds like The young lady that left you that certain comment you addressed (PROBABLY) is struggling, hurt and going through it with no support. So seeing your life maybe foreign to her. We just gone pray for her. Lourdes nobody wants to post their down days or struggles like that who is gonna want to get on KZfaq and watch someone being down. God blessed you with a great partner, beautiful baby and y’all have a great family. Keep shining! Keep showing that you can have a baby and stay with the father and just be happy and when you want to tell your struggles share that when you are ready. I Love your vlogs/videos I make sure I stay tuned in. I’ve been a mom for 18 years and I don’t know you personally of course but you are doing an amazing job as a first time mother. I know I’m 5 days early but Happy 1st Mother’s Day to you beautiful ✨🫶🏽💐

Rylan is so beautiful 🤩. She is just a combination of you and Ricci. When I see her with your sister she favor her. Rylan is going to be ok with your mom remember she raised you. I tell my daughter that with my grandson. I tell her I raised her. She’s a real protective mom also. Which I am glad about because I raised her.😊 So keep being the caring mother you are.❤

Heyyy Lourdy, Ricci, & RyRy 🥰🥰🥰 that person must’ve been a new subbie bc this channel has been positive since day dot! I’m happy you cleared that right on up.. cuz some ppl need to see how us chipper people turn bad days into GREAT DAYS 🙌🏾😘💜💜💜

Thank you Lolo been stressed and negative!!!! I needed to hear this.Your baby is beautiful!!!! Enjoy your beautiful family .

I love that you enjoyed your pregnancy and that you're enjoying motherhood. Love that you have support! Wish you gus well love. Your baby's smile is so beautiful ❤ Happy Mother's Day

You are doing a great job! You And Resse PRAYED/PLANNED to have her, so I love that you’re showing how things are going for your family 💜🫶🏾. We Virgos have that mindset about us. Stay positive. Best wishes 😊

Reese was so right, you did look SO good & cute! 😍 -but I totally understand how you feel, my baby girl is now 18 months & I’m just now feeling completely like myself again! 💕

You Vibrate so high Lo; KEEP BEING POSITIVE. don't let nobody take that from you 💕 & feel better baby Girl

Hi hope Rylan feels better I love how happy and silly she is You are beautiful just the way you are and I love how supportive your man mom sister father and everyone is to you Love watching you all because you all are always so positive

Speak on it Lourdes, you chose an amazing partner to be the Father of your child. And can we talk about how supportive your village is! This baby is beyond blessed🙏🏾

Noooo the baby is sick 🤧 hope she’s feeling better now and that her appointment goes well ❤❤

I 🙏Rylan is feeling better. She's such a happy baby and she still smiled a lot even tho she is sick. Lo, Ricci is right, you looked really good in that pink outfit, especially after just having a baby 4 mos ago. Don't be so hard on yourself, you're beautiful.❤

Aww, she is the sweetest and a very happy baby. ❤

Rylan is such a good baby 🥰 I hope she feels better 💕 continue to give yourself some grace. You look good 4 months pp

Hey Lourdes, you so nice because for me if someone said to me they would’ve got ignored. Eveyone experience is different never once you said your labor and delivery was perfect you are just telling it how YOU experience it and that’s just what it is. Rylan truly is adorable a mother knows and feels when their baby isn’t feeling well. I also loved that Ricci was encouraging you to wear that pink outfit your body looks so good i can see that you are working hard to get back to the weight that best suits you ❤

You are so good with your baby, how you learn how to take care of a baby so good......just by the smile on her face can tell , you're doing good

Yesss I love it you are positive and yes you have bad days , and you make it positive, and that real ,I love you as a good person and you love lord , and your family have amazing days

💕 Aww look at Rylan twinning with her daddy such cuteness 💙💙💙💙

Hey Lovely Lo and adorable Rylan she is such a beauty looking like mommie and daddy 💞I love everything you said in this video every mom has different experiences, you’re such a blessing to so many some people just needs to be enlightened they need understanding you’re a great mom 🙌🏽

I hope she feels better. She's getting so chunky. 💛

Rylan looks so cute in her little outfit awww she's growing up so fast and I love this first time experience for you Lourdes😍❤❤

Aww I see Ricci when she smiles but I see you in her little cute face 🥰

She is such a bundle of joy and she loves the camera. The outfit was looking very good you should have gone out😊. Hope Rylan feels much better.

Awwww Rylan growing up so fast trying to hold the camera 😂❤, she looks like her dad but has your skin complexion, yes everyone journey is different & however you explain yours is your business 🙌🏽 don’t feel bad for feeling how you feel about your journey/pregnancy/being a new mother 👏🏽🥰 God tends to BLESS his children & BLESS the ones that’s doing good by themselves & others/ living in a honest way💜 & I’m glad Rylan is feeling way better ☺️🙏🏽

You prayed. That's all that matters. Even though I'm not a mom...yet I appreciate your content.

I can't believe she is 4 months already😭, wow time is flying by, cherish the precious moments 💕 .

Oh my gosh seeing Rylan sleeping on you after you gave her medicine was so adorable 🥰 I hope she starts feeling better as the days go on❤

Keep being positive! It’s so refreshing ❤

Thank you for sharing your journey! It's a special time and we're thankful you decided to show us your journey! Your channel is so inspiring... as a new channel we're getting so many little gems from you. Thank you! 🤍

She is a beauty

I enjoy your vlogs especially because you are genuine. Keep shining your light with the world.

I love your answer!!! Please continue to be positive!!!❤

Ryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! She so cute 🥰 & you’re killing this mom thing!!! She was made for u .

Rylan is the Perfect Baby; she’s so Beautiful, Amazing & Sweet❤ I Enjoy your Vlogs 🙏❤️

Listen stay positive and keep being the best you can be... negativity is not the way to go... Positivity is the way to go... Why would you want to claim negative things when you do that negativity will follow you...

You are doing amazing and one thing I will say is everyone’s experience is not the same. That comment annoyed me a little because your journey of being a new mom with support, a caring and active partner/spouse, strong village and an overall positive experience does not mean it’s not “realistic”. It’s realistic for her. Yes motherhood is challenging but it is not a hard struggle for everyone and it doesn’t need to be. As long as my mom is breathing, it doesn’t matter how old I get, she will always be here to help me with whatever no questions asked and unfortunately not everyone has that same type of support system. I’m quick to say “I can understand but no I can’t relate”. It’s a blessing and some of us have parents or family that have gone through things they don’t want us to go through so they’re always there to help every step of the way. You’re doing exactly what you should be doing Lourdes and with God the good will always outweigh the bad. 🫶🏽🌸💕

People are so used to struggling that they they they think you have to struggle or experience negativity in order for something bad to happen. The reality is that you had a great first experience. I did as well because of God, support. I struggled within myself but when it come to being a mom 10/10 period

She is to cute sorry shes not feeling good. Teething ? Maybe.? Oh she tearing tht paper up ! Lourdes you are real continue to speak your truth ❤❤❤ll take that heat its still cold up here plus i have a lot of beaches and things and that wind i cannot wait til you and Rylan and Ricci go to visit Naebae in LA

Feel better Rylan 💓 get some baby vicks and put it on her feet with socks at bedtime. It will get rid of the cough. It also works for adults 😉

Cousin, I’ve been m.i.a lately but baby. Im so happy that you are having a great experience. I have had someone tell me that my baby’s dad wasn’t going to help(because she had those issues). Baby , enjoy your time and your man!!

The bad part about it is that you’ve mentioned the struggles but didn’t dwell on it in other videos. You’ve mentioned she slept through the night now, so you’re not sleep deprived. You’ve mentioned your mom gets her every weekend, so you and Ricci have time to yall selves to do what you want You mentioned your weight, y’all been in the gym Y’all keep doing what y’all doing ❤😊

Beautiful baby beautiful black family

I love when you’re in mommy mode!! I also love the consistency! Keep going 🥰🥰

It probably wasn’t realistic for her cause she probably didn’t or don’t have dat village you have and dat alone is a blessing…Rylan is soooo pretty a lil princess at heart so you enjoy every moment of her cause they grow up do fast❤

You and Ricci are wonderful first time parents hey TT Ry 🥰 I hope she feels better love y’all 🩷

i love that you're sharing this journey w us fr

You are doing an amazing job and it shows! Continue to give yourself grace!🙏🏾💜🫶🏾

And you are a great beautiful mother!! Blessings to your family. You’re doing a superb job ❤

I understand how u feel about going out when u dont feel your best! I haven't had a baby, but I look about 10 months pregnant lol, you genuinely look good tho but I know you have to feel that for yourself

Next time you go to the doctor ask them if you have diastasis recti it makes your stomach look big no matter what you do…I found wearing a faja helps but usually and repair or tummy tuck makes it go completely away.

My 3 month old is sick as well. Gave her some natural meds, on top of baby Vicks on her chest, feet, and neck. Got the humidifier going. Hate seeing my baby sick. I feel you.

Such a beautiful healthy, happy baby God bless you all😍

get well, baby girl🙏🏾🙏🏾

Ever one needs some one, and family is ever thing. God bless you and your family.