Why don't you guys talk about abuse since you think you have the answers to everything??? Talk about Stan being an abusive and manipulative man. Well not a man because a true man wouldn't abuse women. He chased me with a gun and then put it to my head 2 weeks before delivering our son. Not to mention the several other terrible, violent outbursts I lived through. The last and final time he tried to out me, I was awarded a permanent, not temporary restraining order against him. I'm thankful to God for His grace and mercy because He is why I'm here today. Also, I'm thankful to Cassie for having the confidence to tell the truth. I'm no longer hiding and being led by the Holy Spirit to tell my story!