I mean yeah, happened to me once, my date card was declined, and I paid for our meals,then we went to bank, cuz he wanted to pay me back for his half the same day, only to find out that someone tried to log into his bank account through internet, but made too many mistakes and his bank account was frozen (later he found out his lil sis wanted to buy her fav group album with his bank account, thus the many mistakes...)... So...

Cherry Lime that’s not the point of the video. The video was showing the guy in a situation where he didn’t realize he maxed out his card. As in an honest mistake.

@@kaye8924 um does it not all depend if it was an honest error, like if his payment simply had not cleared yet? these things happen, why read so much into it.i think by the time you have gone on a date and spent time talking you can judge if someone is sincere or if they are just a chancer. so whats the problem with paying and him paying you back?also who are you to judge the reasons for someones bank account being empty on a particular day in their life. how on earth can you know? maybe he had once off large expenses that month and carefully budgeted knowing he would receive a lump sum on payday. or he may have other accounts with money. who cares anyway?

To all those who ppl consider him as irresponsible and the girl should not date somone like that. Keeping aside those facts, Don’t u all think she should ve paid the bill and could ve said that she Ll not be seeing him again.

@ cherry lime I pity your partner 😏

ymarrero23 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

They’re sexist

@ymarrero23 "That's what we do" guess every women around you do that. I feel bad for you but NO I DON'T DO THAT. thankyou for joining in

>Man can’t pay his and his date’s bill due to his over spending. >His date offers to cover the bill and he tells her not to. >He then begs strangers to cover his bill. I’d leave to. I wouldn’t stick with a man who’s such a snowflake it hurts his manly feelings that a Woxxn is paying for his bill and has over spending habits.

Wholelotta How are they sexist when they were taught from birth to be sexist? Also, it’s not sexist to ditch a person when they have over spending habits and refuse to let a Woxxn pay for the bill he couldn’t.

@@joerasiah3519 I usually pay for everything. At this point people just take advantage of my heart.

@@joerasiah3519 I'd get asked out by people and offer to pay. The minute I do so they start picking the most expensive things off of the menu. Now I only pay for my meal, if they can't pay for theirs after I might help. But I don't offer to pay anymore, people take advantage of that opportunity.

@@joerasiah3519 I agree, a lot prey on kindness. I only help people who really need it at this point. The homeless, kids, old people. People who would actually appreciate what you're doing and not try to take advantage of you. Seeing them happy makes me happy. I prefer animals over people though. 😂 I get plenty of free hugs from my pets

She could have pay the server by giving him H ead

@@avant-garde2.028 Awww, that not nice of them!! That F×ucked up! Ur so kind and they do that!! ....thats upsetting, they dont deserve the date or hang out!! Smol tip! Try to give it a chance more! But not for ppl like that! Im sure there better friends waiting for someone lovely as u!! And Hope u have a lovely day!! Take care!! Also sorry if I said anything wrong or uncomftable! 🌹🍀

Absolutely!

notice how the presence of a man at their table is absent

idan smart Fr like I would’ve thought she was a bitch

No one help him cause I dont see man on the table. 😂

its because they're boomers...

S Mounir seriously 😒

Orange Juice Seriously to You. S Mounir is Right. Stop acting like you are “Cool” or “Popular” because guess what? You will Never be ANY of those things when you Grow up :3 and, I have remote control so I’m going to “mute” you in case you talk back.

@@grizzthebear228 I think they were saying "seriously" as in agreeing The emoji could've meant they were as equally fed up But again I could be wrong I dunno

Grizz The Bear lmfao wtf I was agreeing with them I can’t believe u got so heated over one word 😂

OmgIt'sBri XD yea I was agreeing

I'm a woman and I am agreeing with u like 100 percent. These ppl disgust me cause I would've helped him out.

Agreed bro, that says a lot about that woman!

I know, they are lying through their teeth

Yeah they were so full of shit

"We WeRe JuSt DiScuSsiNg PaYiNg hIs BilL" gtfoh

If you say one more lie woman i'm gonna smack the false teeth right outta your mouth!!!

You need to get a life

Fender Tremolo 🤣😂🤣😂yeah ok

Nah he should wash the dishes if he passed a limit he shouldnt take girls on dates

Same here. So gross

Hahaha 😂😂😂 relax

Exactly disgusting 🤮

James Wu Lol exactly, fake af.

They want attention

All these 50 and older woman are living in 60's. Dont say you want to be equal when you dont thing girls should pay there way in the 21st century

Fucking hypocrites, will only help if it's being broadcasted.

And that's how it should be! You're a team after all. Who would take joy in seing someone who was trying their best to give them a great time humiliated in public? I wish you and your husband many more happy years together!

@@spacebound1522 Amen to that! And thank you, you are kind! 💚

@@reesewitherfork6142 Thank you! A little kindness and compassion costs nothing, and you seem to have an abundance of those qualities yourself!

@@spacebound1522 That’s right, it’s free! You have made my day and put a smile on my face!! 🤗

Jesus, I hope that man gives you treats you amazingly.

Yea, that's exactly what she should have done in this overly acted totally made up scenario.

Sometimes cheapskates play these tricks to get girls to pay by pretending they really wanted to but forgot the wallet

100% agree

@@niharikapasricha5346 I think if you decide to go on a first date, you're kind of assuming the risk that it might not go well or that the dude might be a cheapskate. It might happen from time to time. But if many of the people someone dates are taking advantage of them like this, then they might need to work on their judgment of character and be more selective with who they go out with :)

I was so fucking pissed when the elderly told the girl to make it her last meal and ditch him which she obviously got a free meal off him that just fucking sick I'm 17 years old and sure what the dude did was ignorant but it was just a mistake I feel like if the man canr do it at the moment then the female should step up and for her man that's how a relationship works.

Haha lol yeah those two ladies

My face when they said that -> 😒😒😒😒

They were so fake

Kristian Delacruz why do people like you have to bring race into everything?

😂😂😂😂😂

That was a decision she made to pay for your first date, this is a girl who didnt realize she would have to pay for the first date. Dont get me wrong I wouldnt have up and ran; but think if this was a real situation maybe she doesnt have money to pay.

@@desireenorfolk3135why would you not bring money when going out to eat regardless of who’s paying is beyond me 😅

you’re a lucky man to even score a nice woman like that. so many girls are so stuck up and gold diggers!!

"it builds character" haha

they born in 1920's that's why

Whatsup their way of thinking is a bit dated.

cesar boomers 😂

Ok, Boomers.

You gotta pay if you wanna play. Meaning pay for that pussy! I'm old!

People like you exist?

@@parths6865 I'm the same way too. Yes we exist

@@parths6865 Um, many do. The people in the video were fat, middle-aged white women, so they most likely weren’t feminists. Anyways, feminism is gender equality. Meaning, no misogyny, and no toxic masculinity against men. Also, no sexual harassment against men and women, etc. All we want is equality, not women to be superior than men. I also had payed for my boyfriends things many times. I believe the person asking the other out is responsible for paying, but because his card was declined, she should’ve payed. Anyways, in the end, please don’t generalize all women.

@Helicopter Dick Gross

@@parths6865 get outside and meet women, then you’ll see there’s women that pay for guys too

I wish they don't have a son

Now you probably know why there weren’t any men at their table

All women are like that only

they are a product of their own generation, raised by social traditional rules

Especially the one that said it lol

Yes

Ik I can’t with those ugly fat boomerd

Stranger Billie fucking fatasses

Alex McBeth good one

LMAO FELT THAT

This was 2013...

@@sabias3932 No don't bring that shit. All those women were way too fucked up. I mean the guy got his credit card decline if they were real strong women and capable instead of telling the girl to go and make it to be the last date, they would have said" Okay girl you gotta pay for it, because you don't have to wait everything from men" i am sure those type of women exist which understand this things can happen but you aint one of them.

This segment is so funny. Time 9:11AM Mon 12/2/19

that's actually so nice

I also work as a server and I never use the word "declined". I say something very similar to what you say: "I'm sorry, for whatever reason, our computer is not taking this card. Do you have another one I could try?"

Mac Hughes 😂😂

“Worsh” the dishes 😂

Bitches

I hate her for that that was rlly mean :D

Did you notice it was the guys who helped the other guy? Moral of the story, dont help strange woman becasuse they wont help you when you need it. Us guys need to stick together.

NGIP and if the woman thinks the man should pay the bill and the man thinks the woman should pay the bill split it! Lord

It's more of a tradition at this point. Nobody is doing it because of sexism. Just like taking the husband's last name.

@Jan Nix Shut up women, before I send you to the kitchen.

Preston Garvey woman*

@Jan Nix your complete garbage!! Along with those ugly fat ass creatures who are sitting there with no man. Go feed your cats!

These women are just trimmers.

I agree. Especially like this where he planned to pay!

Bitch u would have paid if u was with me

IKR!!!!

GG Dondada the fuck are you calling her a bitch for???

Adrianne Michaels because she a fucking sexist Bitch

Cringe

Kimberly Michelle couldn’t explain it better myself. xxx

Agreeee

Can i take you on a date?

Wisely worded

Very

That’s why I hate feminists

Miss Kitty k

@@Aptezo what does this have to do with feminists. These women seem to think the man should always pay, which is the opposite of equality and feminism. I'm a feminist in that I want equal pay for equal work, equal rights, and equal opportunity. If I were the woman in this situation, I'd have pulled out my credit card and paid.

@Dee Anna That’s because all the feminists we have seen do not want equality. Feminists want to man hate and blame men for everything

Preach kookie💜👏👏👏

As a man I am absolutely saddened you feel that way... If you think double standards doesn't exist then you are soo lost... But they exist for a reason though

Thank you

Kpop Stan! Amen! Kookie u spoke the WORDS of the BuNnY

Jeon Jungkook I Am So Offended I am a Girl ;w; I cry Over Bugs death

I would probably offer to pay what he ate and would’ve told the woman to pay her half for being rude lol.

I would 100 percent lend him money

So it’s okay if the guy always pays your meal but if for once a guy needs you to pay you are gonna bitch out?

U can lend the guy money but ask for a refund of course it's he's fault he ask for a girl do date with him but his not ever ready lol omg it's 2019 bring cash bring cash hahahaha 😁😁😁😁

@@pilot4807 the situation is the guy on the first date not the guy who always treat a girl on a date first date no cash

I agree with you. If it were me I would have paid for the meal.

Right like she ate too!

Exact ally and they told the girl to leave him those women were gold diggers they said leave him because he couldn’t pay for a meal it happens to everyone

Ok so if a girl asks me out she pays If I ask a girl out I pay It’s not gender it’s common knowledge If I was in that situation & her card declined I’m out yup

@@benbarry1330 thats dumb to assume that if they ask you out they pay for the meal.

Lol

XD

Omg ur funny 😂

@@levithompson3104 cool we have the same name twinziess

Wow this is the first time that joke's been done on A What Would You Do? video.

Did u pay back tho?

Yeah, you are dumb for sure.

@Hector Aldozar Not true...you only have to watch this program to see men and women helping and sticking up for the opposite and the same sex. If a guy needs help or a girl, I will respond according to their need and my available means.

@Hector Aldozar I should have been more specific...I was referring to the many episodes of this particular show where women and men have stood up for and financially helped members of the opposite sex in multiple situations. This particular episode was awful. I was disgusted by the women who told her to leave the poor guy, and thought the guys who stepped forward to help were stars! I just thought this episode wasnt reflective of people in general. If this happened to me in real life I would have been paying at least for my dinner anyway, and in this scenario, paid the whole bill and made sure the guy got home. I would feel sympathetic at the guys embarassment and appreciative that he had been offering to treat me to dinner, even if it had gone wrong. If he seemed like a nice guy, and he liked me too, I'd be hoping for a second date. If the same thing happened I'd know he was irresponsible or a free loader. If a woman (or man) abandons anyone in this situation they are a very mean, selfish and judgemental person, and if it was me, Id be glad I had seen their true colours before any more dates!

@Hector Aldozar Honestly, if a person, male or female, is running out of restaurants not paying their bill its theft and they should be arrested! I dont think its anything to do with whether men pay for dinner more and some women expect it. Guys...its simple. On a first date, get the lady to book the restaurant. Be honest up front, that you expect to share the bill. Order modestly. Pay your share of the bill. If you like her, ask her on a second date, offer that it's your treat if you want to, or just leave it as expecting to share the bill. A woman who is interested in your character should respect honesty and boundaries and that you want to build a relationship based on trust. Hopefully, you may meet a lady who offers to treat you to the second date.

yeah exactly

Yup! You’re right!

Facts

TAKKAS DERMAWAN PASARIBU I said ‘first date’ cause all the ladies were saying ‘first date’ but yeah any date nobody should feel obligated to pay 😤😅

Yes exactly, that’s why man and women never be equalized it in this world because of this things

they're called boomers

@@cliffhopkins7101 Yup 👏🏾

*all women are just a damn disgrace

Our country is sad and no respect at all

patricia sloan Yeah, it's crazy 🙄.

@ Patricia Sloan How so? She offered to cover his over spending broke ass and he told her no so he could be strangers.

@Jillian Rockford Ok. First he had his wallet as his card got declined. I'm shocked nobody has shamed the waiter but only his date. Second, it's nobody's responsibility to cover your broke ass. That's his own responsibility and blaming his date just because he treated her is stupid enough. Be a real man and learn some money management.

Damn rolly polees...

Your broke...

@Karina Peters I'm not a feminist

@@MsEliteForever you're

Health&Glitter if the guy and the girl have a good date and are actually interested in each other the first date should be covered by the guy asking her out. It’s like holding open a door for a lady or opening my truck door for her that’s just tradition. I could see if it was a bad date why a guy might maybe not want to pay but he has to suck it up in that instance and take the hit. If he has problems with his card and the girl likes him she would offer to cover it or help out in some way. Lol if she doesn’t like the guy then I can see her getting up and leaving the guy to deal with it himself for sure haha

Health&Glitter even second and third date I myself would be totally fine covering for the girl that I like but that’s just me.

"women" you're not being specific on what kind of woman so I'm assuming you're talking about all women.

@@sarah-ve8ic Given I quoted what was said, and more than one woman said it, yeah its clear enough.

It’s disgusting that they said that in my opinion. As a female and a human being I would have no problem splitting that bill with him.

When they were talking about how it should be the last date too. Like...? Things were going well up to that point. His credit card was declined, that was embarrassing sure but it wasn't like he was rude or violent. I had my card declined once because I didn't notify them I was leaving the country and they froze it for suspected theft, that was so embarrassing. Thankfully I had cash, but like...does that mean something bad about me as a person that it happened? No, it says I forgot to notify them. It hardly says anything about him as a person that this happened. And he seemed surprised (well as surprised as WWYD actors seem) so it wasn't intentionally. If I was there I would have told him he was lucky she left, 'cause her interests seem to be more on money than him.

"Women are the same as men in every way... but the man still always has to pay..." gotta love feminism

I was think the same 😅

You think they aired every single reaction? SMH simpleton

@@fendertremolo9793 no of course not but the general consensus is for man to front the bill....

@@smeagole *I was thinking the same Gosh grammar 🤦‍♂️

Init

It's quite sad

j mula exactly

Pussy privileged..

As a woman I was also extremely disgusted. I have never let a man or anyone for that matter pay for me, thats ridiculous.

damn straight my man

Well said. I have an ex GF that I only dated for a few months. She became an absolute savage in no time flat, and thats what got me running. I'm literally thankful that she showed her true colors so early on, instead of seducing me further into her trap.

@@awakenow7147 well, she still wasted a few months of yours not being honest about her person and pretending to be of more character than she is

@@awakenow7147 don't lie, you never had a gf, virgin

@@fendertremolo9793 How'd you know.

@Hector Aldozar lol we going after this guy? ight. yo bro ur a simp!

EXACTLY!!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!! Also, it disgusts me that people are using the women being disrespectful to the guy as an excuse to attack feminism and equal rights.

I noticed "frenchie" did not tell the guy "can I have your name and address so when I DO have the money, I would send it back to you for helping me".....I would do this when I would be out of money and a nice person would help bail me out....

Ik that was messed up

you got a good girl bro, hope u guys are doing well

She's a keeper

Keep her

FR those old hags would've heard it from me if I was there.

I feel like it's just that some older people haven't moved with the times. I most certainly have never felt pressured into paying for a dates meal, and in fact it has never even come up after a date - the bill comes around and my date has always pulled out their purse to pay for their own stuff without hesitation, and they didn't seem upset to do so either. In the past it wasn't so nonsensical to have a man paying for the date, women often did not have jobs due to the cultural norms at the time and how would they be able to afford to go on a date? But obviously that is not even close to being the case anymore, and the vast majority of women DO work now and CAN afford their own drinks and meals - I think some people just grew up the man pays and they will die thinking the man should pay without ever thinking critically about why that was the case and why it's no longer the case.

Feminism is also about free food

@@StreakyBaconMan On your first date they have done so if they have you may not have thought they were upset but I promise you they were talking about you like a dirty dog behind your back.

@@vivekgupta6649 with so much fraud going on right now, I wonder how many owners and mang along with people in the rest would sympathize with him this is an old show

This is the first time I legitimately laughed at that joke lol

SYNc ikr

lmaoo

Boomer jokes are getting old😒

@@ken45y this was commented when it was still alive

* an ACTRESS

@@aviva342 or at least say "female actor" ( Even if it is one of those PC things I hate ) specially when it is unusual to say "male actor" and we tend to assume "actor" means male actor

guy did not anticipate it is a non-existent number when it was 555-####

🤣😂

Blueweek what would you do?? Your answer exactly 😂🤣😂😂😂

Let’s not forget it’s not ALL women!😂🤭

k0p why because I’m speaking the truth? Not everyone should get judged as a whole over one persons actions

@@jaredallen1950 anytime someone says "not all men" they get rediculed lmao, so no its all women

Some women

@@detricklez1583 (sorry if I didnt understand your reply right) if you think that all women are like that your completely wrong!

🤣🤣🤣

IKR they’re actually really stubborn

@@v0rcegaming864 sexist pigs

Nutzername92a ikr so annoying

Ikr...they're all pigs

Pig is NOT an insult. It's typical HUMAN behaviour, innocent pigs have nothing to do with it.

That's how women are nowadays lol

Well...they are acting? Its "what would you do" , nothing is real except maybe the customer reaction

@@youtubelurker8120 no no he's talking about the actual situation... despite this being an act, you have to remember that these exact actions were done in numerous situations. Women are just in general toxic when it comes to situations like this. First dates should always be equally split.

Why should she be held responsible to pay anything because he was unprepared for a date he ask her on?

@@detroitalwayz3132 This is Communism we both share the bill

For making people fool.

Ikr

Yeah I want new stuff I was exited lol I will watch it but no upvote lol

except for the "desert's free since it's your first date" thing

I never seen this one before :(.

Yeah. They're not helping the fight for sure.

This makes my blood boil honestly.

I payed for my first date with my boyfriend....and any date after that. Now I'm broke.

Why are you generalizing all women tf?

Equality for HUMAN RIGHTS. Do you men know what the difference is ? I've seen so many comments mentioning the same thing and alerting to the same ignorance. Human rights such as right to food, shelter, safety, education, vote, work etc (in 3rd world countries) and in first world countries it is the fight for the rights mainly of safety, privacy and non-discrimation based on sex. Now to remedy the situation of the first date. The one who asks should pay out of manners. The other person can pitch in but is not necessary. The second date should be split, cause its a joint descision and possibly has the same enthusiasm. Just to clarify, I dont believe the woman should have walked away like that. She should have pitched in seeing that he didnt have any other option but he is also dumb to not have extra cash with himself knowing he is taking her out on a date. Heck I have extra cash on me just going out to the shops or a place I dont know. You never know what will happen.

Kyle Daniels why

@@oliviaraquel3789 because those are so sexiest bitches !

And u just don’t tell someone to leave. It might be a honest mistake that he had no money. Those lady’s were so wrong for that :(

Surjith Rock sexism is thinking a sex is superior to another, that is not sexism

Cause they sum fatass hoes that prolly can’t catch the eye of any man

😆

I believe the person who invites/asks out should pay. If the girl asks the guy out she should pay ,vice versa . Period!!!

coogie.cookie 💀

I will always split the bill.. I dont like the possibility of owing someone and if Im being cheated, I already have my side paid for and I dont have to chase anyone around for money. I make it clear before a date that I will pay for what I want.... plus.. that way, I can have whatever I want and not have to worry about awkwardly asking if I can have something..

No, they just don’t like men that can’t hold their own

Like she didn't eat too 🙄

well, not really, he is the one that want to pay for the meal (he probably told her he will before hand) If the scenerio was real

@@ObiEdits gingavitus

Yeah the guy shouldn’t have felt obligated to pay that’s such an annoying trope 😤😤

ObiEdits that doesn’t mean she should dip with a frown 🤦‍♂️

@xXIDOLHANDZXx Japan. You can google about the one way ticket 🤭

That's good

I think it can be awkward if one person pays every time. It's nice to take turns or split the bill.

alot its called a foodie call btw wwud did a ep on that too

Fucking true. Can't agree more

I didn't see any woman saying she didn't have a penny.

Gulaid M OMG really?(Sarcasm)

right

I agree, we are preaching about equality but still waiting for free stuff.... yeah GREAT.... sometimes I am ashamed for being a woman in this time of gold diggers, sugar babes etc.... DISGUSTING!!!!

Aleksandra Popovic Ivanovic I mean gold diggers and sugar babies are completely different, A sugar baby knows they’re getting money it’s kinda the whole point, and technically speaking sugar babies don’t always get money as their reward every relationship works differently

Why is e everyone coming down on the woman. Did you not see the part where she was willing to pay, and he waved her off!

if i’m on a first date, i pay half, the other person pays half. that’s my policy when i finally go on my first date

@ MBJH17isbackonlyone Pretty fucked up to invite someone out with you and make them cover themself when you invited them. Like, hell she offered to fit the bill and he told her not to. Honestly, this is why Feminism is still alive to teach Girls never to be dependent on a over spending man who begs from strangers because he can’t handle a Woxxn paying for him.

EX THE FUCKING ATLY

Ever wonder if those aren't the same women saying each thing?

[FrSk] Forsaken feminism exposed

Facts

@@CaptainCocaine You think the ones who expect the guy to pay the whole bill don't also believe they should be treated equally to men? ok bud

V0RCE Gaming he invited HER on the date. Whoever invites is who pays, male or female. Just common courtesy.

Katie M splitting the bill makes sense

Katie M Doesn’t work like that if you ask me. If she ate she needs to pay too

Katie M Exactly. That’s generally the rule. Whoever asked the other out is usually expected to pay. But it’s also expected that you make a big fuss about the other person paying and offer to split the bill. And then you both steal the check from each other a couple times.

Yeah, we do a lot. I’m not saying that men are better, everyone is born equal. But there are lots of feminines. Even some girls at my middle school are feminists.

I’m female and yup, true🙄

Pinja R they are male sexists out there, but I feel we’re more accepting. Therefore, IN MY OPINION, there are a lot of feminists

PhillySportspassion 85 I don’t care if it’s 3019. It’s so unmanly to have a woman pay for you. I understand equal opportunity under the law but I believe some parts of our culture should still be preserved and men should behave as MEN and show women they can provide for them.

huriye kantar fair but women make money too therefore they should help every now and then