I had a huge realization over the weekend and I can see that it's what you are also trying to get across in this video. Your desires ARE ALREADY YOURS. Once I truly had this realization, I felt this tension in my gut leave me. It was this tension that I never even knew that I had. This is what I believe the living in the end feels like. You just feel calm and you realize that you don't have to do anything in order to get your desire and you don't feel like doing any techniques because it already is yours. Like Missy said, we are so conditioned in thinking that we have to work for things and this is where so many people get stuck in a loop of constantly working for something. You are working for something that is already yours and all you have to do is accept that it is yours, that's all you have to do. You will know when you truly accept that it is yours. Please, do your best to truly understand what this means because this is all you need to understand and you will know when you do.

We are conditioned to think that “giving up” or detaching is failure. Wow. That really made something click for me. Thank you as always Missy!!!

You are so smart and well-spoken ; it is just a pleasure listening to you

When my Sp left our home, I didn’t know how I was going to pay all of the bills alone, and have a place to live. I let it all go in my sadness and said “what happens happens”. I was grieving. Well, I ended up having more money then I knew what to do with out of NOWHERE. I didn’t care about money anymore, and it literally came in through multiple outlets. I have been floating my own boat with “2023” housing prices, by myself for 8 months now. ❤ I’m in a great place, and Now I’m manifesting my sp. This video is a wonderful reminder. Plant the seed, trust, believe, let go. Live in the present, focus on your self concept. Know that what you want is already yours.

Manifestation is our natural state. We humans have been doing it all our lives , so no techniques needed. I become a master manifester when I just stay in a Happy state and have this deep knowing everything I want I already have. That all it is stay in a happy , open and gratitude everyday

I feel like I manifested this video. I GAVE UP on Friday after I saw my SP on a dating app. I was devastated but then these thoughts started coming into my head over the weekend that this was just a purge -- the old story flushing out. Then I went into a panic that I just screwed up my manifestation because I "gave up" so I started affirming again, etc. Then yesterday I stumbled upon a video about detachment and I felt such peace. Then I saw this video. THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing your truth and wisdom. My heart wants my desire so much -- and I FEEL like it's mine, like it's done, so I think I'm going to go with your suggestion in this video because nothing has worked since I started this in October. I planted my desire -- it's done. I KNOW it's done. So, now I just get on with my life and let it happen naturally. THANK YOU!

I have been doing this since January of this year. It's like you said, things are worse. The worst they've ever been and I don't see them ever getting better. Bills are piling up, no money to pay them, facing possible homelessness, etc etc etc. I am throwing in the towel. It got to the point that it was all I was doing 24/7. I am not angry. I am disappointed but I am ok with it. I am just DONE. If it happens, fine. If it doesn't there isn't anything else I can do. Thank you for this video because you helped me to understand that I had to let it go because it isn't in my hands anyway.

Thank you from Brazil. I like the way you express yourself, confident and tender at the same time.

Manifesting is similar to baking a cake. There is a time of involvement and preperation and a time to open the oven door to place the badder inside the oven. You then close the door and leave it alone and forget it. I figured out the whole "give up" mindset. We are co-creators, not the creator.

love your approach to the subject!

This was such a great video thanks Missy ❤

Wow 🧡 thank you for this amazing video. So reassuring and encouraging. Everyone should watch this xx

this was seriously one of the best videos on manifestation I've ever come across omg, and such a perfect timing as well :') thank you so much

I needed this message - the metaphor you used really clicked with me . Thanks !

Oh, wow! I'm so happy I found you today! I have been looking for that "just right" fit of a teacher and your energy is totally my vibe. So excited to learn more from you.

This is exactly where I'm at right now. Perfect timing, thank you ❤

This makes so much sense and thank you for the illustration of the apple seed as desire. 🙏🏼

That 'Go with the flow' is the most powerful and the most efficient way I've ever manifested in my life. I manifested what I needed without working, or lifting a finger with this method twice. The point is you must 'feel fun and amusing' even though you're in the most stressful situation. It sounds impossible but I did it twice without knowing it (maybe that's the right way to do it, you don't feel stressed or worried because you don't even know what you should feel in that situation, you just go with the flow). The flow and the relaxation will bring everything you want to you without you asking or even thinking of it. The second time I manifested with this method was the time I really needed a room of an apartment I rented temporarily. At first I rented (booked) it for a week but after a week I still needed to rent it for another week but the booking was already full. I couldn't find any other apartments better than that one so I really needed it. I kept asking the front desk whether the room was available until the LAST SECOND LITERALLY. By the last second I mean the second I checked out. The front desk even called the customer who booked that room before I walked out the front door and they still confirmed the booking. So I had to walk out with my luggage to the parking lot. That time with 0 chances I still felt no worries at all (I didn't even know why because that wasn't how I usually deal with situations like this). I even hummed a tune with a smile on my face. And the second I put my luggage in the trunk, the front desk shouted out asking me if I still wanted the room because the customer just called and cancelled the booking RIGHT NOW. That sounded so impossible. It was like two minutes ago that they still confirmed the booking. But it was true! You know what I did when I heard that? I just smiled wider and shouted to myself 'SEE? TOLD YA! I KNOW THIS WOULD HAPPEN! I JUST KNOW!' and laughed out loud like a crazy person.

this is something I swear I "know" and have even seen it work for me. I always conviently forget when there's something stressful going on and get roped into 'doing' all over again haha. thank you so much for this beautiful explanation ❤️

Thank you for this video. It makes so much sense and I never realized that before.

This is exactly what I needed, God bless you!!!!

I love the way you explained this

The more I’m in his journey, the more I feel that everyone is so different and techniques should be used based on their current personality and behaviour, after countless techniques only I realised, thank you for this video, it’s what I need

Thank you Missy, I really needed to hear this. ❤

This is such a wonderful video! I loved how you described our desires as gifts…so beautiful and reassuring❤️

Perfectly said ma'am. The best explanation I have come across till today.

Thank you so much, I just found your channel this week and I love how you explain things. I just had this realisation yesterday that I need to give up “trying” and focus on trusting. But you know, I probably wouldn’t have understood this perspective, until I had spent a lot of time trying. Manifesting is quite the journey isn’t it. As I was listening to you explain, it reminds me of my experience as a musician, and when you are performing, it is usually a bad performance if you are ‘trying’ to get it all perfect. You instead need to let go your grip on the music and let it flow through you.

Great video! Thank you!🌼

Thank you so much..its all i needed now... Every video from you is a treasure 🙏

This video has been very helpful, thank you ❤

Fantastic video! So timely for me as I HAD given up. In fact, the very thing you said might happen - things got worse. I am now going to take your advice and relax into the knowing that it is already there. 🥰

Thank you miss Missy🥺 you are always my angel when I feel like giving up 😭

Bravo! .... Words of Wisdom! 💫

I could be listening to this lady the whole day....

So we'll put. Great clip

Thank you for the video ❤️

I just recently found you and have been trying to watch a few videos in the evening after work. I think you are great and explain things very well! I am really interested in working with you but everything is full so I am on a waitlist. I understand what you are saying and I believe what you are saying, but I am having great difficulty with a health issue. It is so challenging to let it go and not focus on it because it is with me 24/7, for 20 months. Throughout all of this I have stayed positive and continued to change my life and grow spiritually and a lot of good things have happened. I have a vestibular issue, a type of vertigo, and I just can't stop noticing it because it is present all the time. Also, when I try to imagine myself healthy with balance, I did realize I can't feel anything. I think it is because this has been such a traumatic event and it has gone on so long that it is almost a PTSD type of situation. I didn't plan on explaining all of this here, but if you, or anyone who reads this, can give me some guidance, I would be really grateful. Thank you!

Loved that you mentioned Wu wei! :)

Hi, Missy, I bought your 1v1 coaching and I am a Chinese! Can’t wait to work with you!

Hey missi, haven't watched in a long time and just wanted to say that I like your new hairstyle

Such Synchronicity... 2 yrs ago My Higher Self Used the same analogies to Explain it to me as to How Manifestation Works.... ❤

Hi, Missy! I’m from China! I’m happy that you talked about this ancient Chinese philosophy 无为! ❤ By the way, I love your videos! Thank you! 😊

I hope someone helps me. Now that I'm saying it like that, it might sound like "I'm assuming", you can say "u assume so it happens like that", but no u should understand that I'm going to explain it this way to clear things up and get some ideas. I've been in both of these situations. I mean, there were times when I tried everything, "maybe if I did this and that, it could manifest" kinda trying state. But i get rid of that mindset years ago. And here's I also experienced what missy said too (not trying, that knowing/believing). I quit this "trying" mindset 2-3 years ago (I realize now, I didn't count the time at those moment) and lived my life for my development without focusing on the lack of desire. I truly believed it with all my heart, with infinite confidence. I didnt waver, like never. But these days I realized that all this time I still haven't seen birds before land or anything small at all throughout these years to this day. And some ppl always say "u already have it in 4d, why u want that on 3d?? Just assume!" But no? Whats wrong with wanting to experience ur desires in the 3d too?? I also believed i have it in 4d like about 2 years but here i am, I don't know what to believe anymore, these days, everything feels like a lie. No matter how hard I tried (the period when I tried techniques and stuff years ago) it didn't work either, when I let it go (with believing that the period that missy suggested and I've been doing for the last 2 years anyway), still didnt work. I just don't understand. If those desires are gift for me from my higher self/god etc., why can't I open that gift and experience and cherish it anymore? (my desire is not just sp or something, financial stability and getting out of my toxic household to my own home and genuine friends. but it's been 6+ years, I couldn't count anymore so idk)... Idk anymore. Even if i detached about years nothing happens, even if not tho, still, nothing happens either way. I started to think about this whole loa community and coacheas are like scam or smth...

Thank you so much ❤

Thank you. ❤ you just described me with your manifestation…

Thank you so much I learning good from you.

Thanks! You are awesome

Thank you so much missy❤ I decided a few days ago to just trust in God and give it to God…and I was enjoying it and then started thinking I had to do do do again🤣 this video came right on time

Love this vid. But, I’m letting it go NOW!

I think it is a very delicate balance. What I have done that works - and this has been for decades - is to very clearly visualize what I want - and then I let it go and “let God“… I did this when I was acting - I would learn the lines do all my prep and then once I got on stage, I would completely let it go and just allow spirit to take over. And I did it when I was in sales I would visualize and then once I got on the stage, I would completely let it go. This is easier said than done because as you said, we hate the idea of letting go of what we want but it really really Does work. However, as I know, it’s such a delicate balance.

Great video, explains it well. And I'd love to believe it's true and that letting go really works for alot of people. It worked for me for some manifestations too. Mostly ones I had no attachment to, like the ladder technique. I totally dropped that and poof! There was the ladder lol! However, what i struggle with is I was also "taught" we should persist to impress our subconscious. Isnt that whay persisting is about? Because sometimes its somehow conditioned to believe the opposite of what we are affirming or visualizing. So we persist untill our subconsious mind is so saturated that one day we suddenly realize we don't feel the need to affirm or visualize that much or at all anymore, because well, im gonna explain this how I personally felt it: you get a feeling like you've already experienced it anyway. Its an inner knowing, because when I was trying to do my affirmations again, I was like "why am I doing this? I already know this" I'm so done saying things I already know over and over again. It's literally done. So this kind of letting go, is not a forced letting go because someone told you so but a natural process. That's the "feeling" and living in the end what NG speaks about I think. Also, if we are God, manifesting should be effortless, not hard work. BUT! If we could manifest just by getting a desire, imagining only once although being intense en feeling real and then plant the seed and drop it, then why havent all my imaginations/ desires I've had throughout my life manifested? And that, my friends makes me doubt sometimes. I still believe, but in my theory described above. If you have a desire you persist in a technique that you feel good about untill you get that feeling that you're satisfied having experienced it in the 4d. Even though you don't see movement in 3d. Let it go and trust and just drop it and move on with your life whether is happens or not. That's my take on it.

I have a slightly different problem with giving up. I tend to give up when I start seeing manifestations. "Birds over land" thing. I get the SP to text or say beautiful things. Or the job interview. I go from being so focused to satisfied. And I know that SHOULD lead to a positive feedback loop that makes manifest automatic. But it actually sometimes does the opposite with me. I go back into the 3d and because my base isnt solid, I get clobbered there. The SP goes cold or does something I don't like. The job doesnt offer. Etc. I find THAT to be the most challenging. When the 3d is scorched, I'm laser focused. I know how to cure that. My problem is when I start seeing shifts and lose focus.

So been trying so hard and of course it’s draining my soul. So while I believe in it I need to step back and focus on myself more.

Honestly this makes so much sense…when I initially manifested my SP into my life 1. I genuinely didn’t know half the information I know now about manifestation and 2. I just let it go like you said, I didn’t feel the need to “try” because I knew it would eventually find me. Now I’ve been on my journey manifesting that SP back and I’ve been doing the techniques, this and that and I think back to when I first manifested her and I wasn’t doing any of this, I was just trusting and letting it be! And I also didn’t fear my thoughts or negative emotions. I’m so happy I found this video because I’ve been feeling like I’m “doing something wrong” whereas, I might be doing too much. I don’t have to let go of my desire I just have to let go of the need to control, the need to know how, and the need to know when!

Oh don’t try just do right? Just do it right and it will work. I got you, and I like your videos but it is time for me to give up. That might help if I don’t beat myself up for being a failure. Keep doing your thing, you have the right message I’m sure because I have studied this for many years. I’m encouraged that some are having success.

Thanks Missy! I so nedeed this today. I think its the missing piece of the puzzle for me. I just keep vizualizing several times a day, even after I achieve that feeling of satisfaction and relief during my imaginal acts (seed planted). Im like trapped in that loop of noticing the lack and keep imaging. on the other hand, the daily imaginal acts for me its like eating meals: I do it because keeps me satiafied and away fron the lack, but I see now that this might not be the best approach. i will try to detatch and move on. Thanks again ;)

Finding you was a manifestation in and of itself.

You are very wise, thank you for your words

Hi just come across this. Thank you, it makes perfect sense and very well explained. Manifestation is our natural gift from birth, unbeknown to most of us, yet we manifest all the time without realising and most of these times there’s been no attachment or perhaps a little at times ie your first crush for example who you can’t stop thinking about! But other than this it’s a natural process and subconsciously done and therefore it makes sense that we are not to meant meddle and to know the how and when because we never knew about this inner power and therefore no expectancy attached to an outcome. Whereas with conscious manifestation, we are intervening and trying to rush a natural process of nature which you can’t and this then creates more attachment and hope knowing it exists! However, many-many coaches out there state you can manifest anything and everything you desire, even your ex. You’ve to just change your inner self, any old stories you are holding onto and your assumption/beliefs and it will happen. 3d stats show that it’s rare exes get back together. Of course it happens - absolutely, but it’s a lot lower percentage getting back with an ex compared to meeting someone new. So if we are to put ‘conscious’ manifesting aside for a moment, many-many people want their ex back and no doubt will be subconsciously manifesting their ex back by day dreaming of the day they unite etc etc - which is manifesting. Yet a very low percentage of these exes do get back together according to the 3d relationship coaches out there. Therefore does conscious manifesting truly work in getting an ex back through conscious manifesting because the only difference here is we are consciously doing it and not subconsciously so why are so many manifesting coaches stating your will def get your ex back as they’re a mirror. We are one conscious and it’s the law. You change your inner world and they’ve no option but to mirror you back? I’m confused. How can it be such a law and it mirrors back in 4d, but in 3d most exes don’t get back? Sorry but I’m trying to get my head around all of this. I’m trying to manifest my ex back and now I’m having doubts because of the conflicting evidence between the 3d and 4D and what are we doing differently in the 4d for it to work? Hope this makes sense. Just trying to understand the difference? Thanks

I want to give up so bad. I have said "I give up. " or "I'm not doing this anymore " so many times. I even made it 2 days one time, but like a drug addict, i find myself trying again in no time. Its at the point where I say "i give up " and know that's just not true. Probably because what I have given up on often never comes and i really want these things.

I get stressed easy, ocd and being an overthinker, problem solver at work this video is huge sigh of relief, I have been pouring fertiliser onto my seed due to past trauma and hence I keep sabotaging myself

Be still and know that I am a God

If it's already ours then the more we try to make it happen causes more resistance. Just be happy, be confident and knowing that what you want is yours. Stay vibrating at the highest level and everything on them higher frequencies will come to you effortlessly

Ohh no doubt about it . I gave up . I did today after trying to manifest for the past 3 months with a lot of positivity and self love etc and getting the exact opposite results . I’m now more depressed than before and have looked up the easiest way to end it .

Thank you

Thank you for this video. I havw been trying to manfiest my desire for 2 years now to the put I was aging incredibly quick stress out yesterday I was like I can't do this no more. I give up and just stick in my 3d world. You are right I will let go ans let God.

After a rough day like this, I come back to this video hoping that I can say too like you what you say at 13:40 - 14:00.

I gave up on one person last year because I was trying too hard, we rarely saw each other, and she literally had no way of her communicating with me. The current person I see a lot and our connection literally happened out of nowhere so it feels like it's meant to be. I'm able to take a step back and let the process unfold because I know we'll be together.

Thanks. Thanks. Thanks.❤

Thanks ❤️

Best advice ever

The hardest part is sweating bullets when you NEED things to change like YESTERDAY

I love the wu wei reference. Bruce lee taught wu wei. He would describe it as a key falling off a desk. The moment it falls, it just happens. "It, does it"

You already possess the Three Treasures of Wu Wei, that’s obvious to me. This teaching also brings to mind Matt: 28-30. It frees us really. Life ( the 3D ) can be such an overbearing burden ( remember how it use to be ) until we learn to let go and just trust. Going live tomorrow? If so will be there with bells on and a fully charged battery 😂.

I don't think we need to give up on our dreams, Sammy Ingram explains it well, she basically said that our desires showing up once we "give up" only means they would have been realised anyways if we persist. There is really no need to give up, just persist

Wholly cow! You have changed soooooo much! Wow!

Nothings gonna change

Been told this for 9 months now. This stuff is very dangerous for someone's mental health!I hope all the coaches realize this. Literally spent thousands of dollars and earnestly put forth my best efforts and had coaches and manifesting buddy affirming for me And no im not a hater just don't want anyone else to feel the way i do now. This stuff is literally mentally tortuous.

Some coaches say we should affirm and stay persistent with the affirmations… I really try but sometimes I don’t think about what I want and this feels so much better 😅 what do you say

Another great video--thank you so much! When you mentioned wu wei, I wondered if you had ever read the book entitled "Open Secret," by Wei Wu Wei (aka Terrence Grey). It's an incredible book; and relates great information about our esesntial nature beyond name and form. 🙏🏻

Missy I’m struggling to understand how this fits into the advice to keep returning to the end? If we plant the seed and drop it, we’re not returning to the end scene? Or am I not getting this?

0:02 🚪 Detachment helps manifest desires effectively. 5:00 🔄 Trying too hard can hinder manifestation. 7:02 🏋‍♂ Hard work doesn't guarantee manifestation success. 7:02 😨 Fear of detachment stems from societal conditioning. 8:00 🧘‍♂ Manifestation often occurs unconsciously. 10:01 🌊 Practicing Wu Way leads to successful manifestation. 14:01 🚫 Stop focusing on the lack of desires. 17:00 🙏 Trust the process and surrender to higher power. 18:02 🎨 Explore and play with imagination to manifest desires.

Missy Great haircut 😊🌼

Would it be an apt comparison to say it's like building muscle? My bodybuilding friend says if you work-out every single day your muscles simply wont build, working out tells the muscles they must grow and get stronger/bigger, but they wont get stronger or bigger until they are left alone.

TX very much, Missy! Great analogy about digging up the seed - I am a plant lover! 🪴 💚💚💚

Plz make a video on umbrella affirmations/manifesting multiple things at once by one affirmation for people who affirm instead of visualising

I let go when I go to sleep. The main thing is not to worry about the how

Solution : discipline yourself, follow a middle path and just enjoy both manifesting and life.

I manifested my sp but recently just by 1negative thought, insecure feeling. My 3d became completely opposit. He blocked me, never wanna see me again, want leave. I want give up, but also never want give up.. cus I've been manifested him for 3yrs

Great Video Speaking of your personal successful Manifestation is what we need What or how do we manifest with a DATE & detach I would love to know I respect your opinion❤

Don’t give up on a dream give up on things and people who don’t deliver the dream !

Felt like God guided me to this video, everything resonated on a level of understanding, except doing “more” after detachment (imagination… etc), I’m at detachment and can’t do anymore, it’s tiresome to do more, God I hope carries me the rest of the way ❤

I have tried everything!!! And so ready to give up!!😢 smh

I'm simply not able to believe despite affirmations and visualizations. The rejection is too active in my consciousness. Shudnt my previous sp have manifested when I moved on (detached) to next sp?

Reading the comments and I can tell that some people aren't understanding the message, I remember when that was me, but how do I get or what can I do questions questions questions lol great video, missy ❤ I am trusting the process and know that someway somehow things will work out for me

Have you read and tried the book It Works! by RHJ??

I mean, what is the alternative to positive thoughts.

It is spelled 'Wu Wei' but I liked the way you spelled it....'The Way of the Wu' LOL! The art of effortless effort.

Hi Missy, if I have been manifesting and probably trying to hared and also being double minded. If I let it go is that seed still planted or has it been 'undone' by looking at the facts and the double mindedness? Thank you

Do we keep manifest the same thing, or do it one time and let it go after you do it once??