Parents - 11 HARSH TRUTHS. | Ankur Warikoo Hindi
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2 жыл бұрынA lot of what we become as human beings is about how we were parented.
If your parents are the ones who made these mistakes, I hope these perspectives help you look at those mistakes objectively, and then make your choices.
If you are a parent, I hope you do not make these mistakes, and make sure your kids do not have to deal with this. This is the best gift we could give to our children, as parents!
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@AabHum24 2 жыл бұрын
Sir can u please make one video on toxic people or toxic family or toxic parents. To understand what r the signs of them ..
@tanyia009 2 жыл бұрын
Sir kindly make video regarding how many children we need that we can lookafter them perfectly and we can also live financialy free according to current situation
@theratracer6937 2 жыл бұрын
M exactly dealing with the 5th point. I feel useless that I can't to anything for my parents .
@paripathak3191 2 жыл бұрын
Sir ,one request , pls make such videos "entirely" in hindi..
@hitenlalwani9174 2 жыл бұрын
ye video humare school k teacher ko dikhana chahiye jo is comparison ko justify krte rehte hai
@akshat3391 2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact - WE DON'T HAVE ENOUGH COURAGE TO SEND THIS TO OUR PARENTS 😅
@hars771 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't even think of sending this 🤣
@juileeshinde8933 2 жыл бұрын
iam gonna watch this along with my parents..😎
@surejreginald 2 жыл бұрын
First thought
@mukulpatil85 2 жыл бұрын
If we did, the further moments will be like, apne baap ko mat sikha🤣🤣
@debanshuprusty7848 2 жыл бұрын
@@juileeshinde8933 If u are able to do this......U don't need to watch this vid😅
@musiclove7107 Жыл бұрын
The fact is always a child changes their mind for Parents, but parents never 😣
@utkrishtchaudhary9657 Жыл бұрын
Bro it's truly pointless to convince or talk to parents sometimes u just have to take the step and never look back 🙁
@musiclove7107 11 ай бұрын
@@utkrishtchaudhary9657 It's sad but parents also need to understand and give up sometimes
@meghakanchan2811 3 ай бұрын
Ye parents kbhi nhi smjhenge
@musiclove7107 3 ай бұрын
@@meghakanchan2811 Chalo hamare generation ke parents ache honge 😌
@RashiSingh-mn6zd 3 ай бұрын
This means none of you guys learnt anything from the video, sad that he tried to make us see pov of both sides but still you guys can't help thinking of your own pov..... They also sacrifice a lot and give up for our happiness we just need the wisdom to see it.
@navedrizv 2 жыл бұрын
Breakdown 1:59 Comparison (Sharma ji ka Beta dekho ...) 3:52 Killing Curiosity (Let the kids ask question .. Curiosity creates geniuses) 5:53 Focusing on Society (Samaj kya kahega) 8:00 Looking at the world through their experiences 9:41 Emotional Blackmail (ROI) 12:00 Dismissing Mental Health (We are what we are, first in our minds isn't it) 14:02 Lack of Trust 16:10 Not discussing about money (beta abhi tum bhaut chote ho ye sab samajhne ke liye) 17:58 Ordering 19:19 Imposing Relations 20:55 Not making us accountable
@sumitprafulljena5697 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for time stamp 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 literally love it
@aishwaryarath6211 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@mrunalpatel211 2 жыл бұрын
Pin it
@archanadwivedi4588 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@shilpapandit4634 2 жыл бұрын
Very nice topic .it will help a lot
@VinitaKumari-sr8hq 2 жыл бұрын
How could you forget these??? 1. Imposing their dreams upon their children or not letting their children follow their dreams. 2. Not letting their children choose their life partners. 3. Not accepting their children's decision to adopt a child, or have child through IVF/surrogacy. 4. Not allowing children to live as one from LGBTQIA+ community if they recognize themselves being from this community. 5. Not getting divorce despite being in abusive married life. 6. Patriarchy, double standards, discrimination between the female child and the male child. 7.Not discussing family problems with children or not involving children in family discussions. 8. Not letting their children make their own mistakes, experiment, explore and allowing them to learn. 9. Not unlearning with time. 10. Not discussing sex education, consent and sexual harassment, good/bad touch, male/female body, body positivity.
@praveenkumar-md8di 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, these are also important aspects which could have been discussed. But then the video could have been longer than one hour, probably that's why he discussed the most important points as per his understanding.
@nachiketkm5178 2 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment
@happychirpysoul 2 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated!
@thatbunny6383 2 жыл бұрын
Haha Indian parents have so many restrictions, if anyone starts, won't be less than 2/3 hours
@SSCCGL-ph9eb 2 жыл бұрын
This comments seems more relatable to me than the video!!
@rahulupdhy 2 жыл бұрын
But these are the major problems : 1. Looking at the world through their own exp. 2. Focus on society 3. Comparison
@pritamdebnath703 2 жыл бұрын
Also, Order you to live your life according to thier opinion.
@lahari-1509 2 жыл бұрын
And not caring about child's mental health and emotions 🥺
@aarya08247 11 ай бұрын
Correct !!
@anam_mirza7 2 ай бұрын
@@lahari-1509so trueeee🙃💔
@sunilyadav549 2 жыл бұрын
Every Parent in India has to be like this man!!🙏👌👏
@Reginavici1234 Жыл бұрын
Yes every damn parent... Also the one telling you... You can do anything you like we are liberal is actually a facade that will fade over time. They think what they know is the best but it's the worst when you judge others with your lens
@mannatbudhiraja8420 3 ай бұрын
90 % kids that are watching this unable to send this to our parents atleast we'll be supportive parents to our kids
@JitendraSharma-v1b 7 күн бұрын
I am father of two, world has changed now😊
@mannatbudhiraja8420 6 күн бұрын
@@JitendraSharma-v1b happy for your children ! Very less percentage of millenial parents invest themselves in being better for their children, most of them just think they're right and best parents never knowing their child does'nt think so ....
@saibharadwaj4906 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had parents who have the kind of mindset you have, Mr. Warikoo.🙃
@lucifermorningstar1954 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@raksha6474 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Nareshb_97 Жыл бұрын
Mee too brother😢
@minespotgaming3868 7 ай бұрын
Then you need to be born in a diffrent universe
@djtarun5775 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if Indian parents are ready for this video, I'd still require huge courage to share this with parents
@maitrachaitra176 2 жыл бұрын
I literally cried while watching, such keen observation and so well put !! My parents are typically orthodox indian but just accepting it makes me let go of how they are !
@warikoo 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs
@pclearning7974 Жыл бұрын
we can only understand their mistakes but can't share our emotions😔
@Patelakshay007 10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Snehalata236 3 ай бұрын
Exactly right
@anuradhan9637 3 ай бұрын
So true
@apeyafromnortheast Ай бұрын
Yeass that's right... I am watching this video in low volume so that they don't here
@IdealLife1228 13 күн бұрын
😢
@nakshgoyal6589 2 жыл бұрын
Seemed as if my life is basically explained in 25 mins in this video 🙂 Our generation will probably churn out the best parents ever 💥
@daniyal7409 2 жыл бұрын
Lets hope that we won't make these mistakes when its our time. 😊
@pritamdebnath703 2 жыл бұрын
Same sir. But at least we learn that these was the mistakes and we will never apply the same on our future generations
@elamandeep 2 жыл бұрын
You totally roasted Indian parent in intelligent way 🤣🤣
@yasho9959 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@abhishekkumarsinha4067 2 жыл бұрын
Need to send this to my gf, she is getting so much metally affected due to her family. I love her so much but told her to do what her family want but still they are emotionally blackmailing her. I am a strong person and she was even stronger then me but now she is very much fed-up with life. Hope she stays healthy and happy🥰
@musa_m2005 2 ай бұрын
Its been 2 years so whats up with your life now.Did you got married to her or with someone else?
@ishitaagarwal6219 9 ай бұрын
The fact that 90% of the viewers here are teenagers only😂 parents don't even search these things ☹️
@sayanisarkar7450 Ай бұрын
I am a mommy of a 4 years old... 😌
@shrinilkanth7402 Ай бұрын
I am mother of 18 year old
@CoderBoy2004 Ай бұрын
Really😂@@shrinilkanth7402
@mousumimishra9321 29 күн бұрын
M a mother of 16 years boy nd girl
@CoderBoy2004 29 күн бұрын
@@mousumimishra9321 why you are increasing population
@shobhit7844 2 жыл бұрын
Your kids are really really lucky to have a father like you.
@prafulsinghdeode1122 6 ай бұрын
Ap bhi vase baniyiye apne bachho ke liye ❤
@Mahi71985 3 ай бұрын
Exactly yrr❤
@jagritipriya21 2 жыл бұрын
i was crying like a baby 😫halfway through the video...i can relate to all your points😭....sir if you as a parent can understand this...then why cant our parents....happiness should be the priority for them...rather than society...comparison...or any such things....because of all these differences...we are drifting away from our parents💔
@nimishar2417 2 жыл бұрын
Don't worry dear..none of us received training to be parents. Best we can do is to not commit these mistakes
@shafirahaman 2 жыл бұрын
True, courage is to face all the ignorance and correct it in the society. That is the only way we grow rich in Mind and Heart.
@laughoutloud99 2 жыл бұрын
Hold on dear
@laughoutloud99 2 жыл бұрын
You are not the one. Every house has the same story
@warikoo 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you. You will be ok.
@savanrupapara 2 ай бұрын
Targeted audience - 💑 real audiance - 🙍
@mrs.solanki7785 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Ankur I would like to highlight rather add one more point which is *Financial Dependency*. Our parents are financially dependent on us (like we are their retirement pension plan). There is nothing wrong with this as they were raised with same mentality where children were considered as parents pension plan due to which they provided us with everything without saving anything for themselves. So this generation or new parents need to understand that we need to work on our future savings so that we are not burden on our children. Simultaneously we should provide for our parents because they have nothing to spend on themselves also please give them money upfront so that they don't shy away from asking for money for their personal expenses. I hope my point is clear and helpful in some or other way. Thanks. ❤️
@pratiksharai8601 2 жыл бұрын
You have such a good knowledge, i appreciate you , this point is literally remarkable! 🙌
@shafirahaman 2 жыл бұрын
I was sure enough to get this understanding on many subjects with my Kids. Teach my kids about. 1. Politics 2. Religion 3. Money 4. Charity 5. Education 5. Business 6. Food & Nutrition 7. Nature Living 8. Freedom to give Knowledge & Help other people 9. Do not Depend on the Fake Media & System 10. Importance of Environmental, Animal and Human rights. I can teach my Kids Courage & Bravery to teach the world what is right.
@CoderBoy2004 Ай бұрын
I prefer no kids 😂
@ayanraj6295 2 жыл бұрын
I can not explain in words, how much value this video has added in my life. I got to realise about my parents mistakes, some of the mistakes that I'd committed towards them and as a elder child, towards my siblings. Also, these pointers help me to become a better parent in future. Thanks a ton from the core of my heart 💓
@user-Vickywins 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss i feel same bro ❤️
@Patelakshay007 10 ай бұрын
You guys are lucky. I wasn't
@84shubhamwale58 2 жыл бұрын
2:07 COMPARISON 3:50 KILLING CURIOSITY 5:50 FOCUSING ON SOCIETY 8:00 LOOKING AT THE WORLD THROUGH THEIR EXPERIENCES 9:40 EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL 11:58 DISMISSING MENTAL HEALTH 14:07 LACK OF TRUST 16:08 NOT DISCUSSING ABOUT MONEY 17:50 ORDERING 19:20 IMPOSING RELATIONS 20:54 NOT MAKING US ACCOUNTABLE ❤️
@bhumikabatra1996 2 жыл бұрын
I got 96%in 10 th boards . My mother was not happy with the result .. She didn't even smile after knowing my result ... This thing has crushed me from within...
@bhumikabatra1996 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know what she was expecting from me...
@aditishukla587 Жыл бұрын
This really soo sad to hear !!! Trust me am sooo proud of you and am rooting for you !!! Please dont let their reactions affect you anymore, 96% is soooooo excellent and i hope you are doing well physically and emotionally!! As Indian kids we always crave for that validation and compliments from our parents but most of us rarely get it !! I got the same treatment multiple time ... But now am saving money to move out and start my healing journey. I hope you u heal soon and achieve tremendous happiness!! ❤️❤️❤️
@jhanvikohli4674 2 жыл бұрын
Yes truly said and besides this the biggest problem I feel personally is “Expectations” - they put a lot and then end up saying- “I expect nothing from you, do whatever u like..”
@swethapavani7185 2 жыл бұрын
🤣 true
@1702deepak 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 😂
@angshumanchakraborty9437 2 жыл бұрын
True
@user-xp5ep6vj1p Ай бұрын
Bang on !!!! "Live ur life.....but get married for our happiness...else what will people say.....baki hum kaha kuch kehte hai!!"
@arjungupta3095 2 жыл бұрын
Blessed to have a dad that taught me to live without caring about what others think of me.
@thinkingaloud7925 2 жыл бұрын
True privilege
@WittyScoop 2 жыл бұрын
Lucky you
@arjungupta3095 2 жыл бұрын
@@WittyScoop Im truly blessed.
@prashantdhotre 2 жыл бұрын
In my Dad’s word” samaj hame khana nahi khilata jo hame accha lagta hai wahi hum karenge” 🙂
@mehakagarwal1542 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@amolpardeshi4519 2 жыл бұрын
Mistakes we do: 1. Comparisons 2. Killing curiosity - stopping to ask question 3. Focusing on society 4. Looking at the world through their experiences 5. Emotional blackmail 6. Dismissing mental health 7. Lack of trust 8. Not discussing about money 9. Ordering 10. Imposing relations 11. Not making us accountable
@user-mi6di7py7t 2 ай бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢
@raghavthinfluencer814 2 жыл бұрын
This is clearly your most thought-out & true-from-heart video ever!! Sadly we can't even share this with our parents. They'll emotionally blackmail us even more! Gonna watch this video again & again!! Thanks team! Thanks AW
@indianparinayam6869 Жыл бұрын
My tears are rolling down while watching this… This is what I am facing in my house. Now I am standing myself to select my choice whatever the situation may be I don’t want to leave my choice. And I am a mother to my 2 year old kid I want to be a toxic free parent to my kid. I have decided this when my child was 6months and Iam following it. Now i am facing this toxic with my parents.. Hope I can win my choice with all the strength. Great words Mr.warikoo Ji. This was the first video Iam watching yours definitely I will watch every video of yours from now. Thank you thank you sooo much for making this video. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Wish you all the best in your life 🤝
@ivinitmittal 2 жыл бұрын
My parents are doing most of it... Nahi pata kya karu.... 🤦♂️ But I have realised ki that their intentions were never wrong..
@veenaj2030 21 күн бұрын
आपने इस विषय को उंठाया साहस किया यह वर्तमान की सबसे बड़ी समस्या है बहुत-बहुत आभार
@kdrama_ocean2118 Жыл бұрын
I wish my parents could understand this
@TanishqMishra_IIT-R 2 жыл бұрын
मां बाप के फैसले गलत हो सकते हैं, पर उनकी नियत कभी गलत नहीं हो सकती! - A dialogue writer
@SavioToms 2 жыл бұрын
True
@ranjanapant9084 2 жыл бұрын
No doubt, par niyat ka hawala dekar galat faisle karna bhi jayaz nahi hai.....
@devnasankhla943 2 жыл бұрын
Sir,thank you so much for this video. As a teenager I really needed this. I was always confused about whom to listen and what to do. This video gave a lot of clarity as u spoke from both the side or perspective. I request you to even make videos for all the teenagers like me who follow you and look forward to u for guidance and a better clarity on such issues which our faced by us. 🙂
@anjusingh5082 2 жыл бұрын
I am a mother of a young professional and what I am noticing that according to this video I have fulfilled all parameters of right parenting. Even discussions on finances too . Feeling elevated really .Me and my son have good compatibility and understanding . We discussed each and every thing under the sun without being judgemental. That is the imp key to keep transparency . My advice for parents are start to believe in your kids , they are more capable than you think .
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@meerabakshi2676 2 жыл бұрын
Is he married, yet? Probably the scenario will change ...99% that is the reality!
@anjusingh5082 2 жыл бұрын
@@meerabakshi2676 Hahahaha, right you are . But here my concern is only parenting . Transparency and discussions are the only key there .
@Money_id Жыл бұрын
Ur child is lucky
@PranetVaishnaviPrabhakaran Жыл бұрын
I wish my parents could understand ma'am. Their first reaction would be their ego overpowering them. "Oh! So you know more than me huh? "
@nandita5909 2 жыл бұрын
This is best, Ankur ! You touched each and every point that a child has to face in India ! i am so grateful to you for this.
@curiouspreetam 2 жыл бұрын
Focusing on the society is a real issue because of which many kids who can't speak up for themselves have to suffer. I have seen that
@sanjaybhatia9 2 жыл бұрын
You missed the biggest mistake - making us invested in FDs/PPF and crappy insurance ulips/endowment plans, without understanding the impact of inflation. Also, for many parents, raising a child is like 'bhudape ka Sahara banega', hence they try to control their children at every point of life, even when they r grown up. And, if they have more than 1 child, they will pick their fav.
@ObserverGuy 2 жыл бұрын
Thats why in western countries when parents grow old their kids are not there, bhai India k ethics hi yahi hai budhate m maa baap ka sahara bano, unko apne fun, adventure k liye sacrifice mt kro.
@vinaytambey6954 2 жыл бұрын
True brother 😂😂😀🥲
@ipsitaaparimita1873 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Sanjay.
@subhashreebasa752 2 жыл бұрын
Yess agreed
@pritamdebnath703 2 жыл бұрын
@@ObserverGuy but the real problem is they become fully dependent on their children. I have seen our tenant family where Uncle has his own house, his own investment. His children has jobs and they lives together happily because Uncle never demands a single ruppee from his children, and they lives happily. Stop depending on your children and they will always be your "budhape ki sahara". When you forcefully make them to become this kind, they will never become your "budhape ki sahara".
@pushnaga1378 2 жыл бұрын
I am a father to a 3 months old son. Thank you for the gift. Couldn't have asked for a better gift than this. May the children and the parents watching this video be blessed and have positive impacts on your lives.
@sauravseal3903 2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact:- Everyone is not like warikoo and everyone (even if) they try cannot become like a warikoo😎.. Hats off sir🙂 ...u hv made our visions clear towards our parents....Hopefully, I pray to God that my parents and also all the Indian parents understand this fact and try to work on the same😀😊.We are thankful to God for getting an Entrepreneur, teacher, and Admirer like u....😇😇😇
@studying1459 2 жыл бұрын
Your every point is so true sir. As a teenager i can relate to it. And I will learn from the mistakes of my parents and would give my best to make the future generation better.💜✨
@shashanksharma8056 2 жыл бұрын
You can also add this to list: Between children, there is always a procrastinator and an active doer. The parents keep their hopes on the doer but keep pampering the procrastinator whose used to impulsive self benefiting decisions. The doer feels left out, less loved and the procrastinator never grows up to know the realities and accountability. Ultimately, the procrastinator’s responsibility is on the doer which makes him resentful of the parents and the sibling
@DivineBansuri Жыл бұрын
1.Govt. Job Obsession 2.Inflicting Your Super Old Age Opinions, Ideologies , Thoughts, Ways, Social Conditionings, Old Age Customs - Onto You ; without recognising That 90% of them Doesn't work in current times. 3.Securing Your Child Future To Extreme High Level in Finance 4.The 4th Point in this Video - Extremely right The Child Become the Replica of the Parents in All Levels.....and then Starts the Age of Depression and Frustration in the Child
@paripereira1187 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ankur for highlighting these few points... As a parent, I do recognise our mistakes...we are raised up in a stereotype rigid manner...though I have tried to bring about a change for my child but I guess that is not enough...I do see the areas I need to alter them...hopefully I am able to do so...I will change it for my child... thanks again...take care
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@bebobabu1 2 жыл бұрын
Being a parent I'm listening this and I'm happy I have done less mistakes from the lists.
@avanindrapratapsingh3968 2 жыл бұрын
The '11 harsh truths' are entirely correct,especially when it comes to the accountability part. But I think there are still many parents out there who beat their children, just because they did something which is not acceptable according to them. Maybe this can comprise the 12th harsh truth.
@MyLife-uk3gq 2 ай бұрын
This hurts my parents do everything from this list but they will never change
@draparnasinha9315 2 ай бұрын
Excellent talk Another perspective is that many kids are constantly comparing their parents affordability and assets to their friends parents or neighbours or relatives
@reemasingh7779 2 жыл бұрын
how can i send this to my parents without sending it to them 💀💀
@CulturedBear 2 жыл бұрын
Unke saamne play kardo , lagna chaiye khudh dekh rahe ho Important : Don't make eye contact with them during this and don't laugh during the video especially while looking at them Savdhaan rahe satark rahe
@nonamejustpain4492 2 жыл бұрын
@@CulturedBear champaklal pe try kiya kya vro?
@areaakhil7266 2 жыл бұрын
exactly what i was thinking 😹
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@yasho9959 2 жыл бұрын
@@CulturedBear lag gaye 😀😃🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@shireenghaffar 2 жыл бұрын
You've read minds! I've sent this video to my dad 'cos I lose my sanity sometimes due to his controlling behavior and interfering nature. Neither can we abandon them to fend for themselves at their age nor can we live independently. It's such a stuck up toxic situation!
@modernmogli5155 2 жыл бұрын
Shireen it's Same issue with many people
@Patelakshay007 10 ай бұрын
I am final year MBBS student, i felt in the emotional blackmailing/crying of my mother, that made me so shocked. (My mother cried alot when i got 60% marks in 9th class)i couldn't see that, so i forced myself to do hardwork, was ready to sacrifice all my goods and did only study. (As any child who care for there parents would do). Today you might say- what is the problem bro, you have cracked NEET and going to be a doctor. But, Today, i am diagnosed with paranoia, and i can't figure out what are my hobbies, what do i like and don't feel like living any more. This is sad😓 Today I even can't blame them and feeling very guilty.
@dilipbhagat9111 3 ай бұрын
Bro please visit Karauli Sankar Mahadev dham atleast one time in your life and do Vedic one day hawan, after doing this you and your family members feel very good and all negatives energy will go out from you and your family members ( this process is called smriti chikitsa) vill- pipar, karauli Uttarpradesh.If you don't believe it first research your own and then go for it . Jai Radha Raman baba ki 🕉️🚩🌺🙏..
@dvlx8453 2 ай бұрын
I feel you bro
@Bounceback-vc1jn Ай бұрын
@sharma17020 yes bro you are right 90s parents always think about society
@FatimaKhan-xd6jx 2 жыл бұрын
You're really like a friend who always support us through your videos I've seen a lot of videos like these but this one was really close to my heart and very relatable as if you're speaking about me only. More power to you sir. Thankyou for making such videos thankyou for understanding us so well.
@gouravmajumder 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ankur & team... Out of all the videos this one stands tall making much sense to change/ mitigate the prospective of generation gap. I am 34, not yet a parent standing in the middle where I can realise both sides of being a parent and a child. This content will run deep in the blood of both parents and children. I thank each of you along with Ankur for adding those eye opening examples. I hope this video will bridge the gap between a parent and a child. I will go and hug my parents after watching this video as now I feel that neither the parents nor the child is wrong, it's just that time flies and change is a constant thing. Kudos to Team Warikoo!
@user-xm1wn7lc2k 2 жыл бұрын
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@curiouspreetam 2 жыл бұрын
(VERY IMPORTANT) To learn a new thing, first we need to accept that we don't know that thing or we lack that thing
@Aishwarya-ew5vi 9 ай бұрын
I am gonna share it in my WhatsApp to only uncles, aunts and moms generation because the noise in my mind is killing me from inside
@theorganicpride4936 2 жыл бұрын
So apt and true. This was perhaps the best video yet.
@NK-kn9tj 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing ankur..can relate to the emotional blackmail point.. seriously it kills.. specially when you are putting so much efforts..almost as if you made this video for me..really thanks..👍
@hemanthmeharkoppada7241 2 жыл бұрын
I was hoping that this video never ends 😥. Worth every second watching it.
@veenaj2030 21 күн бұрын
बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद येबहुत ज़रूरी है आपने रौशनी डाली इस विषय पर आपसेअब रिक्वेस्ट है कि आज के प्यारे अकलमंदजवान बच्चों को आप ज़रूर ज़रूर गाइड करें कि वे भी एसी कठिन परिस्थितियों मेंजीनमें जीनेकी राह पालें पुनः धन्यवाद और हार्दिक नमन
@ankitaasthanaashok2115 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing video !! Thanks a ton for existing!!
@diptimoy1028 2 жыл бұрын
Very nicely curated narration. I wonder how much time and deep thoughts have been put into to create this highly debatable video. Wonderful ways to explain how a parent should look into a problem, and how a child should look at the same problem. My heartiest congratulations to Mr Warikoo and his team for this awesome video.
@drizzlers764 2 ай бұрын
idk why i cried while watching this being a teenager i know how traumatizing it is to be a victim of all these ... i also even dont know how to deal with all this if you have anything for me please go ahead i need a genuine therapy>>>>>>>>
@pravinjadhav8055 2 жыл бұрын
This is your BESTIEST content among all I have come across. Bravo!!! Ton of thanks for putting it all together 👍👍👍
@vijayabarathi2239 2 жыл бұрын
It's a really really needed video of every parent and children.
@dhruvkumar2543 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not even watching this video directly sending to my parents I trust you ankur
@debojotide8663 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for this video...I am so grateful for this lesson...I am literally argues with my parents for their wrong decisions and steps! But from today I never argue with them! I will try to understand them and try to make their understand! You are really a hero..Thanks a lot again sir❤️
@suhasinipatil9877 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you tons for this video. This gives so much clarity on the confusion
@shahzadbachana8679 2 жыл бұрын
Another great video Ankur. Thanks for creating and sharing
@Priya_JR 2 жыл бұрын
Very first point and I'm already realizing the lasting effects of my parents comparing me to everyone else. I'm 25, yet I compare myself to anyone I see, and feel their life is much more colorful and happier compared to mine. Still trying to limit the comparisons to the Me from Yesterday.
@kaizenplayz4632 2 жыл бұрын
This shows how good of a parent Warikoo is I promise if i ever be a parent i would be a good parent😊
@pranavyeole102 2 жыл бұрын
This was an extremely useful video I've saved it as a reminder. Thank you so much!
@warikoo.952 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment.👆Contact the Whatsapp Line above for more info and advice, I've something new to introduce you to,
@ankittiwari7056 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for this beautiful content. This will be a life changing vdo for many of the parents if they seriously understand this... Very nice work.
@ranjanapant9084 2 жыл бұрын
Halfway through the video but already crying.. I have worked really hard in life , when I was falling down i kept on climbing. After 7 attempts i still fought to complete the toughest exam to make them proud... My mother still don't trust me..that I can earn my bread well. They are not happy with my chosen partner who earns better than me only because they think he is not educated enough to marry a CA but a just youtuber and comedian. I cannot share my mental health problems with them..my anxiety and depression and constantly going through emotional blackmail. This hits me toughest...
@_parthivvv Ай бұрын
What happened? Do you get married or not?
@ranjanapant9084 Ай бұрын
@@_parthivvv 😊 Yes recently celebrated 1st wedding anniversary
@soniya3442 2 жыл бұрын
Best video Ankur sir, the best one. Kudos and thank you for sharing this👏👏👏
@prasanna6698 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining emotional blackmail and thereafter, in such an unemotional manner. I have been trying to do the same in multiple ways. Kya baat hai!
@pavanpatel5147 2 жыл бұрын
Now I'm gonna share this video with my parents and I'm sure after watching it they will understand my perspective towards world 🌎. Thank you so Much Ankur Warikoo for making this awesome video 💥📸. Love From Gujarat Ahemdabad ❤️🤩
@aradhayasen1704 2 жыл бұрын
Ghanta smjhney walley h ulta blame karengay 😂
@Ukhandait 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video. I have faced a lot of issues in my childhood but wasn't aware of the parents thinking. Hope this video came out 10-13 years earlier. If I am become a parent I will try my best to understand and support them. Thanks Sir 🙏 @warikoo. You have saved/encouraged/educated so many lives in future.
@nandychess 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video explaining both sides of the coin! A must watch for Indian Parents, Children or any human being in general! ❤️ I have also downloaded it so i can listen to it again and again whenever i feel the need 😊
@rehaanahamed8571 2 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos on KZfaq. Kudos to the content. - Thank you Mr. Warikoo :)
@dipeekathakur7117 2 жыл бұрын
So so glad to have found you..ur videos changed my thought process in very very affirmative manner in so many walks of life..being a working mom of 2 sumtimes makes you commit these mistakes..dis vid made me so aware..plz make more videos on parenting(apart from investing 😅)
@jayashrijadhao5501 Жыл бұрын
ajj puri himmat se khana khate waqt tv pe chala dungi ye or shadi wala point foward krke warna chapal hi padhni he just beacuse i am 18th right now 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
@ca9744 10 ай бұрын
I never thought i have to watch these kind of topics in my life, but i have to accept it... My parents compare me with my high earni g sister, she sends lakhs of money every month, , in my family nobady ecven consider me.. Nobody talks... My mother never ask me anything even if i lovked in room and crying... She don't care... Ulta 10 galiya deke jaati hai... Jis se muje jyada stress hota hai... Why i don't have supporttivr parents... Kya parents k o pesa kamaane wale bacche hi acche lagte hai😢😢😢😢 Sometimes i really feel so lonely.. At the age of 27 , no friends, no family support... , hustling hard for success I hope one day my parents stop comparing me with my siblings😢😢😢
@shilpilohar7072 2 жыл бұрын
Iss vdo ki bahut bahut zarurat thi...... Thanks a lot sir 🙏 🙏
@a_warikoo3326 2 жыл бұрын
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@akshayat6829 2 жыл бұрын
You are so inspiring and great work Ankur, keep doing the same. This video is so relatable, I have been brought up by my grand parents and I am still with them. They are so understanding still being in their 70's. Even though they do few things that you have mentioned in the video but at the end of the day they always think about me❤️ and make me feel happy and make me choose what I always want. I am so grateful and lucky to have them. Always❤️
@tanmayslife434 2 жыл бұрын
Great
@risefromashes5 2 жыл бұрын
Loved every second of the video... I wish and pray that the next generation doesn't face all this issues... Sir I literally lived my entir life in this video... Could relate to each and every point some how... God bless you... Keep making videos like these because we really need it
@kumudaabhyankar356 Жыл бұрын
Sir, great!!! Well presented. It's need of the hour . Once again thank you very much.
@rritujain9655 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video.. As a parent this video is a blessing, as we also are doing many of these mistakes.
@umarai8289 2 жыл бұрын
Ankur, thanks for this wonderful video.. My growing up years were terrible. My parents made all these mistakes. But instead of learning something from them, I repeated the same mistakes with my children. How I wish I had seen some thing like this when my kids were small.
@a_warikoo3326 2 жыл бұрын
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@dinklethakkar6371 2 жыл бұрын
How you speak to your children becomes their inner voice! A significant part of our personality and mental health issues have their roots in how we were treated as a child.
@arjunkarkera6322 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said... I will write this down😄
@pritamdebnath703 2 жыл бұрын
Ekdam sahi
@rooma25 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful way of expressing all the minute things that happens to our life Thank you so much Sir it will surely be helpful for many families who actually want to let happiness enter onto it.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@PlantsVilla 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing video Sir, Thank you so much..🙏🙏, please keep putting up with such wonderful, life challenging videos, especially for parents, truly very encouraging...Hats off to you Sir for your speech...🙏👏👏
@lalureangofficial3175 2 жыл бұрын
Such an amazing smile sir Ankur Warikoo has , and it's fascinates me so much that i sometimes forget the pain of my past experience, as I have expected this video is worthy ,in the ends it really does and also has reminded me of the time how bitterly we were dictated by our parent's desires ...This video deserves to be watch by every Indian citizens as quick as possible to create awareness on them 🔥
@davidlochanb 2 жыл бұрын
I cried watching this video 😔 each and every point is relatable 🙂
@a_warikoo3326 2 жыл бұрын
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@binitavyas5134 2 жыл бұрын
Woooow. So well n deeply thought n so simply n powerfully conveyed 👍🏻👍🏻 Totally loved it. Thx a zillion.
@latachatani5099 Жыл бұрын
Most important point , is giving more importance to male children Indians have to start raising their sons to be more emotional available and more responsible
@ltp 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. You covered almost many things. Basically, give them Independence from very beginning of their life, start with letting them choose color of toys, clothes ( give them choices, if they are not able to decide). Start with small things then going to bigger things. Guide them but let them make mistakes don't scold them for every mistake but teach them to let go and forgive and tell them to learn from their mistakes.
@meerabakshi2676 2 жыл бұрын
I am happy that we did what Ankur is suggesting. We never forced our kids to do what we anted them to do. And whenever we differ, we used to tell them that yes, you can do /act what you like but then be ready for whatever the consequncies arise with your action. Of course this discussion was a nice discussion, not a threat! Many a times it happened that after thinking over the matter our sons would do what we had suggested, but it was with their understanding, not taking that as our command! :-D
@aaryantiwari1793 Жыл бұрын
A story I would like to share A couple days ago I got my result of class 8th I scored 85% in it when I told my mother about my marks she told me that these aren't enough and wouldn't even stand in competition to other students who are scoring 98% marks it was heartbreaking for me like I understand she want me to score more marks and I will I am sure but rather than saying my marks rn are pathetic she could maybe encourage me
@Patelakshay007 10 ай бұрын
Be alert. Don't fall in your mother's emotional trap. I fallen. Today it has made be paranoid. Do what make you happy.
@KainatPanjwani 9 ай бұрын
I'm proud of you, Aaryan. You gave your 100% and that's enough. 👏❤
@aayufootball5835 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, MUST needed video; you created. Parent should understand this. Make more on this topic.
@rohank0012 2 жыл бұрын
every point is relateable, I literally had tears at the end of the video.
@VerseZack Жыл бұрын
I will just leave them after i get job 😊
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