Watch this before you set goals for 2023 ✨

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Watch this before you set goals for 2023!! I hope these tips resonate with you!
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@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

Who's already start thinking about your goals? Let me know if any of this resonated with you today!!! (And if my videos have helped you, please share with a friend!)

@StephanieWhitson Жыл бұрын

I did not follow my plans this quarter at all. I got into a funk and am finally coming out the other side. I am thinking about my goals for 2023 as it is also the year I turn 40. 🎉

@ddlorenzo Жыл бұрын

I've been following you and this channel for over a year now. I've never felt more confident that I will 1) set REASONABLE goals and, 2) that I'm on the right path to achieving them.

@kaymcbride3321 Жыл бұрын

Me❤️

@ImmortalMomentsArt Жыл бұрын

On another channel, I saw a method of goal setting, that reminded me of another thing I had come across and that all gelled in my mind. And it is just another way of saying what you are saying. But, sometimes people learn things in different ways, so I thought I could type it up here, in case it resonates with someone else. First a tiny back story. The previous thing I had come across was "but first..." syndrome (Thanks FlyLady!). Which means that you see something or think of something that needs to be done, but first...you need to do this other thing, but to do that thing, but first you need to do this third thing...And so on, a "not so good" habit, because the first thing never gets done, because of perfectionism. The goal thing was to work backwards from your goal in steps in order to figure out what steps you need to fulfill your goal. Combining the two, it finally clicked for me, that I could use that to break down my goals into ever smaller steps. (I've always just thought of GOAL!, but not how to get there, as you said above). So, my new method: Take a goal - and write it at the top of a sheet of paper, or preferred note taking place. Then under it, write the "but first". you need to finally get that goal Then under it, write the "but first" you need to get to the above step Then under it, write the "but first" you need to get to the previous step And so on, till you get to something that you can start today. A single step you can take right now with no "But first". Then you now know every step you need to do to the goal, it can help you see in a visual manner how long it might take to get there, and with each step on the ladder, you are preparing yourself climbing to the next rung (like you said, start with the person you are today, take each step to get to the new you!). So, that worked for my brain. I hope it helps someone else to "click".

@LeeAnneRMT Жыл бұрын

For me, my mom always told me that no matter how far or fast you run you will always run into yourself. I think it has been healthier to recognize what I am willing to put the effort toward rather than jumping into who I think I should be. I love seeing people that are put together with hair and nail and makeup and accessories all done.... probably never going to be me. But I can start with getting my hair done quarterly.

@HappyYogi711 Жыл бұрын

You did it! 60.3k and one more day to go ❤️ I can relate with sacrificing everything and it not paying off. I am so in debt over working for a college degree as a single mom of two only to reach my childhood dream of being a teacher and not being able to support my family and society telling me (and every other teacher) that we are nothing but complete trash.

@deniserhk Жыл бұрын

I love the fact that you should be realistic about your self, your habits set realistic goals!

@LindaDeeTee Жыл бұрын

Doggone it, I want to be the Pinterest board me right now!! Seriously, though, this was hugely helpful! Thank you for the wonderful reality check and helping to pick my goals for this year.

@LaPrimaRara Жыл бұрын

These are the words of wisdom I needed to hear while planning for 2023. Thank you so much, from the bottom of my heart.

@dippiehippie9211 Жыл бұрын

My favorite part... You reminding us that we set goals because of how we think achieving that goal will make us feel, but that we shouldn't lose track of how we feel along the way. It's such an important thing to remember, and yet, so easy to forget about.

@brookdwyer4554 Жыл бұрын

Slow and steady! I think that is what makes success attainable and sustainable.

@islandbum862 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. This is why I sing your praises. Because I need this and so many other creatives need. You can’t be an artist and not get grace. Again thank you.

@JimmieHammel Жыл бұрын

I've rewatched this a few times since you published it. It's really helpful for me whenever I watch a video on rapid releasing or '50k in 3 days' writathons. I start trying to set insane goals, and I have to tell myself to chill out and 'meet myself where I am.' When I get ahead of myself, I don't just burn my candle at both ends... I toss my candle straight into the fire and melt it into a blob. 😂

@LizzieTimewarp Жыл бұрын

I never set goals that are dependent on other people's actions. I set goals on my own production activities and then results that involve other people just takes care of themselves.

@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

I always set goals that are outside of my control, because I find it a better metric for determining whether my actions are inspiring the right outcome. But that being said, I also don't give myself a hard time if I don't hit the exact goal. It's a mix for me!

@LizzieTimewarp Жыл бұрын

@@HeartBreathings You inspire me so much, by the way. Your videos are what motivate me and keep me focused on my own writing goals. So far, I've written 12 K words this week. Whenever I start to get sidetracked, you motivate me back on track! Thank you so much for all the effort you put into your videos and showing up.

@EllePlowPlow Жыл бұрын

Yessssss!!! My gawd I’ve been struggling with this for the past couple years! Thank you for putting it into words and giving us a solution. I wish I could like this video 1,000 times!

@xxlovetohate534xx Жыл бұрын

I'm watching this Jan 2, and the channel's at over 60K! So yay! You're being extra loud for me in this new year, and I've missed it. I'm excited for 2023 even more than ever now!

@chiheatherlove Жыл бұрын

Something about this struck a chord so strongly for me. Thank you.

@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

So glad to hear this!!

@Avionne_Parris Жыл бұрын

I really wish I could go back and hug my past self who set goals for the year in January and beat myself up when March came and I was already behind. There there, it's okay. "Setting goals is like setting your location on your mental GPS..." I think I heard my brain explode when you said that, Sarra. Plus I can set goals in 90 day increments? Another brain blast. I really needed to hear this right now. And perfect timing for me to join the HB90 as my birthday is next week (it'll be my gift to myself). I also feel excited about 2023. It's gonna be my year! Thanks, Sarra :-)

@bodine219 Жыл бұрын

I can’t wait for December 11th - HB90 Q1 launch day!! If anyone happens to see this comment, you should consider HB90. Next quarter will be my second using the system. I didn’t achieve more this quarter than I would have - quite possibly the opposite. But what I wanted to achieve would have left me massively burned out and wasn’t even aligned with my vision for my life, so in the long run it is much better this way. The self kindness of this system is really something. HB90 takes toxic productivity and flips it on it’s head. I have a feeling next quarter I will get more done than I have in a long time AND it will be in the right direction.

@hopehelstrom4901 Жыл бұрын

I spent the better part of last night trying to set my goals and choose my planners it was like you heard my struggles LOL thanks for your content I appreciate it

@tenamesaric8742 Жыл бұрын

I was just thinking how i should change my goal setting because none of my goals end up making me happy and seem kind of flat. Thank you so much for this amazing video!

@cassie_hart Жыл бұрын

Loved this so much, thank you! In particular 'not at the cost of my mental health'

@knottyneedle Жыл бұрын

Such relevant statements about starting where we actually are and not where we wish we were. But 2023 is for me! I know it in my bones (that or it's the 65 years catching up with me! lol). I am doing things I enjoy and putting less pressure on myself. I know I have to build in more 'down' time. I am also at the age where I can audit 1 class a semester at UNC-Charlotte (your old stomping grounds). And since gardening is a big part of me, I am enrolled, starting in February, to become a Master Gardener in my county. There are several 'new' pulls on my time, while there are old goals which have been hanging around for 20 years now. But I am approaching them much more realistically now. Can't wait!

@TMReese Жыл бұрын

Incremental Steps!! Yes and yes ❤❤❤

@kathleenbandaruk2071 Жыл бұрын

Aaaaaaahhh Sarra, I have so been feeling this! I have been beating myself up this fall, so thank you for giving me permission to be who I am!

@galactic-pirates47 Жыл бұрын

I don’t know what kind of magic you use but somehow you say exactly what I need to hear. Resonate really isn’t a strong enough word. I moved into my own house this past September. I think I had hoped it would fix everything. It did make my life so much better but my mental illness is still with me. I empathised so hard when you said that you got there into the house and then were pissed that you weren’t happy as that is me right now. It’s frustrating and disappointing and I am sad. This is my fresh start and I feel like I am ruining it. But what you said about goals being a compass point, not a thing of themselves is something I need to take to heart. I have still made progress and I need to not dismiss that like I always do. Nothing matters if I don’t meet the target but then I just constantly disappoint myself so like you said negative momentum. Honestly I could quote your whole video. You are so relatable with this. Changing my mental feelings seems impossible but I may just watch this on repeat until it drums into my head 😂 thank you!

@DianeShugart Жыл бұрын

This was maybe the best video I've seen on your channel (and I always enjoy your content )-- and one of those times that make you wish there was a way to hit "Like" twice (or even subscribe twice!). Here's to a stellar 2023!

@sunitasaldhana4491 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I was waiting for this. It reminded me to keep my goals aligned with who I want to be rather than what I want to achieve .Thanks again and God Bless!

@CharmaineWallace Жыл бұрын

I just had to switch this off and come back to it. Holy what the heck. A goal is just a moment in time and it won’t set you up for life. There will always be another goal. I’ve lived this a thousand times why did that hit me right between the eyes …. Thank you for making this NOW before I start another year with too much effort for zero to little reward. 13:18 We plan as if we’re going to show up differently than where we are now. Again - picks jaw up from floor

@atypicalweeks Жыл бұрын

EVERYONE needs to hear this. Gold! 🥇

@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@tanyaatmomssmallvictories9687 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, a lot of this really resonated with me. I have a chronic illness (rheumatoid arthritis) and I’ve been trying to make my work from home dreams come true for 10 years now. My vision of what I want has changed often (following what others say I should do or wanting to be like someone else’s) and I just don’t have the energy some days to show up for myself let alone a community who depends on me. I still struggle with which direction to head in, I have so many ideas. I feel like encouraging other moms with RA is the greatest thing I could do but it is also the hardest because I don’t want to fail at it and it takes a toll on me to share my story. There are plenty of things I’m passionate about (planning and reading among them). I tried your hb90 planner today. It is a cloudy and rainy day so of the 20 blocks I had thought I could do, I only got done 10. I think one of my rewards if I achieve the best level of my goals for q1 is to join the hb90 course for q2. 😊

@ladystef5055 Жыл бұрын

I think I was in the second HB90 class and I still use it it’s principles. I love it. Thank you Sarra for being such an inspiration to so many.

@vancouvervixen4253 Жыл бұрын

I’m watching this first week of January, and you’re over that 60K ❤ congratulations 🍾🎊

@TrishMilburn Жыл бұрын

Great tips. Glad I watched this video before I work on my business plan for 2023 this weekend. Glad your life is happier, more fulfilling and safer now.

@angelalewis6146 Жыл бұрын

I'm going to get there while taking care of myself resonates with me so so much.

@ianbarr4716 Жыл бұрын

Sarra, ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON HERE! Fantastic video for a new year start for all of us. Thank you. Cheers.

@sukiwilliams7071 Жыл бұрын

The way I felt seen watching this video... In a good way most of the time haha. I'm very glad I watched this before starting HB90 bootcamp again on Sunday. This really resonated with me across the board, especially given what I want to focus on for next year. Thank you for such an amazing video and content!

@Darth_Nelo Жыл бұрын

Grats on the 60k! Have a wonderful new year.

@aedynbrooks6900 Жыл бұрын

Great words of wisdom, Sarra! XOXO Jupiter enters Aries on 12/20 and stays there until May. It's a great time for manifesting and achieving our goals.

@Tarotkaartje Жыл бұрын

Wise words by Mz Cannon. HB90 changed my life! Come join us.

@h4r4s4r4 Жыл бұрын

Oh the wisdom you are sharing... Thank you!

@debosorio4676 Жыл бұрын

The journey is the destination

@pastichehaus Жыл бұрын

This insight was helpful because I always struggle with my goals. ❤

@softsoundart7460 Жыл бұрын

Of all your wonderful videos, I think this was my favorite. It was very helpful and helped me clear some cobwebs. Thank you!

@k.6160 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on 60k!!👏👏👏👏🎉. Happy New Year 🎉

@anjukakkar3123 Жыл бұрын

You are simply amazing!

@ivad.1341 Жыл бұрын

I agree with every word you say. Thank you for making this video 💚

@kaymcbride3321 Жыл бұрын

I’m thinking about 2023 goals!

@powerplaypress Жыл бұрын

I love the idea of far reaching goals actually being "goal posts". Like you AIM for that, but you have to cross a lot of grass to get there. PS, I don't even watch football LOL

@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

Haha, yes!!

@annad3842 Жыл бұрын

Well said! Good reminder for all of us. I like the new video location and lighting. Your eyes really pop! (it's a good thing :) )

@MyFaceInATube Жыл бұрын

Looks like you hit your subscriber goal! Congrats 💜

@skoopqueen Жыл бұрын

I wasnt financial free until my 40’s and I’m still in my 40’s, bought my second house already, earn on a monthly through passive income and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing is a grand choice I made. Great video! Thanks for sharing! Very inspiring! I love this:

@eadad4371 Жыл бұрын

Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated

@skoopqueen. Жыл бұрын

@@eadad4371 Alright so generally, investing requires higher knowledge. For this reason, It's important to have a solid support structure (financial consultant) to guide you through especially in asset picking. I operate with (REGINA LOUISE COLLARO) an investment advisor who partners with a licensed wealth management firm. For the record, the experience has been the best for my finance. She is quite popular for her services so you might have heard of her. She made me financially stable investing through her help, now I earn on a monthly basis through her passive income strategy...So I’ll advise you do get a good Investment advisor for yourself.

@eadad4371 Жыл бұрын

@@skoopqueen. That’s great , your investment advisor must be really good,I have seen testimonies of people using the help of investment advisors in making them more financial stable. Do you mind sharing more info on this person?

@skoopqueen. Жыл бұрын

@@eadad4371 look her up on the internet and leave her a message she's quite popular for her services as she was recently featured on cnn. She can work with anyone irrespective of where their located

@emeldcentor1474 Жыл бұрын

@@skoopqueen. I have had the intentions of starting investing. But I always thought it was late and I think I need to stop procrastinating. I will definitely 🔍 Regina Louise Collaro and see what she can advise .Thanks a lot . This was of so much help to me .

@jessicaedwards2353 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the gentle reminder!! 💖

@Sonia.F Жыл бұрын

Thank you for these tips. This really resonated with me. Thank you so much.

@junysoukhavong3945 Жыл бұрын

I am a college student and as a college student I agree with you because I have focus to complete the goal I have set and I have become depressed and didn’t felt joy or happy on completing the goal.

@elizalagonia1049 Жыл бұрын

I love these videos. I think the thing that resonated most was "set goals from where you are today, not who you want to be.

@samanthaspenser457 Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for another wonderful video!! You are such an inspiration!

@SusanLBritt Жыл бұрын

I have recently found you by accident!!!! I am now subscribed 😀... i think u r my tribe !!!!

@elmiathewriter Жыл бұрын

Omg perfect timing!! Love your content so much 💕 🥹

@CreativePlanner Жыл бұрын

What a fantastic message, I am so excited to get started!

@agingaudaciously Жыл бұрын

I feel as if you're an angel--not even kidding! I just heard of you this year, got the first 3 books in the Shadow Demon series, bought the fourth, and now am watching ALL your videos! How to write a series, How to plot--here's the thing, these are all things I know--intellectually, but had never assimilated. Now I've got your planner for 1st quarter 2023 AND have set up my Kanban board...I feel like a groupie, except I'm 64 years old! So, this whole video spoke to me. thank you so much Sarra! Here's to 60K followers for you!

@emilysewell6360 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Sarra. These tips are great reminders.

@jessicagentry6379 Жыл бұрын

Your an inspiration!

@lisaw.8078 Жыл бұрын

Love this - so well stated. Thank you.

@bethtanner4481 Жыл бұрын

I needed this today!

@thenomadicteacher6946 Жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this today.

@irop.7663 Жыл бұрын

i always love your videos!🥰 thank you!

@mickaelaamberskinner142 Жыл бұрын

self acceptance and self awareness is key to the first step into setting goals. thanks for sharing this!

@TanyaTFischer Жыл бұрын

Just what we needed to hear ❤️

@kimbare7434 Жыл бұрын

Have blessed day Thanks for all you do, you are appreciated.

@MsMotherWolf Жыл бұрын

I set an alarm at 6 am as the time I'm allowed to get up, otherwise I wake up too early.

@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

Oh wow! I never thought of it being that way since I struggle to wake up, but it's also important to get that rest in when you struggle to sleep!

@fittywrites Жыл бұрын

This was perfect. Thank you.

@courtneywitherspoon8584 Жыл бұрын

This was a word for me. Thank you!

@em_bea Жыл бұрын

Love the idea of breaking the year into quarters. That's definitely going to work best for me as I'm going to be subbing to agents, and obviously have no idea if/when I'll get an acceptance.

@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

OOh, this is wonderful! Congrats to you and wishing you the best and a quick YES from your dream agent!

@jojobuckreads 7 ай бұрын

Great video and tips!! 💙💙💙

@lindawoodfill503 Жыл бұрын

Love 💕 this video . Great information!

@mxsirhc Жыл бұрын

I needed this video. THANK YOU!!

@kphillips2929 Жыл бұрын

This advice is so good❤ Thank you.

@JingerStephenson Жыл бұрын

This was an aha moment...We act like we can "plan for the next year as if we are going to show up differently," what we need to do is, "set goals that allow us to create the habits" needed to become the person we want to be and achieve the goals we want to achieve. Love it--thank you!

@HeartBreathings Жыл бұрын

Yessss!!! So glad it resonated!

@candacehardy100 Жыл бұрын

Loved this video, the insights and tips.😘

@beverlyjdesigns1410 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Sarra. You indeed are a true inspiration♥

@PlanwithLaken Жыл бұрын

Love this so much! Thank you for sharing!!

@sarahwilson214 Жыл бұрын

Great video. Thanks for sharing.

@jessiefaw9127 Жыл бұрын

Such wise words. Thanks for this, really needed to hear this today.

@Samantha_lifecoach4moms Жыл бұрын

Thank you for always being so genuine and authentic and vulnerable. Always sending love your way! 💗

@releko10 Жыл бұрын

I love your pep talks, Sarra! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us ❤ I’m so excited for 2023!

@cate5029 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for these brilliant thoughts and reminders. I am so ready to plan my goals for the new year. I am ready to make my dreams come true.

@mckenziekvalsten Жыл бұрын

This was wonderful! Really amazing advice :)

@patriciacorcoran8532 Жыл бұрын

I am ready for HB90. Thanks for your valuable perspective. You are such a good teacher ❤

@cr34tvenuff91 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your wisdom! It's given me a healthier perspective on goal setting and work habits 💙

@nicholewatson8452 Жыл бұрын

I needed this video and your words. It was like you were reading my mind. I just got 3 planners and was looking at them when your video came through.

@MarieAndreas-ts1sz Жыл бұрын

Great talk! My favorite is start with where you are now :). Thanks!

@sweethoney81 Жыл бұрын

This was so helpful and beautiful. You are so wise, Sarra. Thank you . I just started writing, and I only wish I more years.

@MsTeegal Жыл бұрын

Girl! Girl! You speak truth! Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video. I truly resonate with you in every area. Thank you again. I will go into 2023 a bit more prepared to fight of overwhelm.

@TheEbonyMystique Жыл бұрын

I work towards my goals. But sometimes I find that while working towards it, I don't actually want it as much as I thought.

@jeanshelbybooks4154 Жыл бұрын

I always say I love your pep talks! Thank you! I am going to continue to write in 2023 and hopefully I can add some marketing so I start getting sales. 😃

@Ms.Irod2024 Жыл бұрын

New subscriber Dec 11 , because it's great content ,location on your mental GPS did it for me , I'm rooting for your 60k !!

@normamccafferty3053 Жыл бұрын

Great tips- as always. Thank you! ❤ You’re a smartie. Kiss your brain. 💋 🧠

@michelleschneider6997 Жыл бұрын

I recommended the 12 week year by Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington (they also have a 12 week year for writers that I haven't read but it is on Kindel unlimited)

@alejandragomez499 Жыл бұрын

Discovered your channel just about a month and a half due to Nanowrimo, love all the content!!! Subscribed to help you reach your goals 💕 keep up the great content💪🏽

@gemmamoon9921 Жыл бұрын

This whole video was like the missing key to unlocking my understanding as to why I would get sonfrustrated setting goals!! Everything you said made so much sense and I’m so grateful that you chose to share your process and knowledge with us. ❤ I took so many notes so that I wouldn’t forget a thing. Running over to sign up for HB90 now 🎉 Thank you!!!

@KellysCreativeDreams Жыл бұрын

Hi Sarra. I'm so ready to set up new planners. I think the thing that resonated most is that we have to make the changes incremental - which is where both HB90 and 6m4l come in to play. I have to step into the habits... not try to ride the escalator all the way to the top in one fell swoop. Thanks for the reminder. Creative Blessings!