The Truth About My Abuse….

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WAYOFLIFESQ

WAYOFLIFESQ

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The Truth is not easy for people to hear
The Truth is a difficult pill to swallow
but The Truth will also liberate us from the shackles of Shytan.
For anyone who has been through such as abuse, just know Allah allowed it to happen for reasons not understandable to us.
But know that Allah has never forgotten us rather there is a special prize waiting for us due to our patience.
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for watching.
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@ninenine9913
@ninenine9913 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not making fun of you; Im not disgusted by you. I am your brother in Islam. I thank you for sharing this horrible experience as a wake up call to me and the other siblings of the Ummah. May Allah makes us firm and steadfast on our religion and protect us from the evil within us and our surroundigs. take this
@iqtadarhussain5386
@iqtadarhussain5386 2 жыл бұрын
Allah humma aameen ya rabbil ‘alameen
@freePalestinea
@freePalestinea 2 жыл бұрын
ايش الموضوع ما فهمت شي
@mohammadhajeer3649
@mohammadhajeer3649 2 жыл бұрын
@@freePalestinea عم يحكي عن رفقاء السوء اللي كان معن وشو كانو عم يعملو ، وعم ينصحنا وهيك يعني، الله يثبته ويثبتنا يا رب
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your love & support. I appreciate you.
@freePalestinea
@freePalestinea 2 жыл бұрын
@@mohammadhajeer3649 شكرا على الرد
@Hoopfinesse
@Hoopfinesse 2 жыл бұрын
Habibi you’re one strong, gifted and inspirational brother. May Allah use you to help those to be strong and also aware ! 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
@IftekharSahar
@IftekharSahar 7 ай бұрын
Helloz
@sa1ma_mussarat
@sa1ma_mussarat 2 ай бұрын
Bro ur a famous KZfaqr I luv ur vidz
@adityaranjit9564
@adityaranjit9564 2 жыл бұрын
Not a Muslim. I’ve been recommended your channel a couple of times over the years, and I noticed this in my feed today. Other than that, I have no knowledge about your platform. Nevertheless, I just wanted you to know that I think you are incredibly brave for speaking out in this issue. May God bless you and May He ease the pain which you had to go through.
@AliMezz
@AliMezz 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen may god guide us to the straoght path🤲🤲🤲
@someone-uw8fg
@someone-uw8fg 2 жыл бұрын
@@AliMezz Amin!
@K.BT.
@K.BT. 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen🤲🏼
@90nadz
@90nadz Жыл бұрын
@@AliMezz Aameen
@TheRedTiger7
@TheRedTiger7 2 жыл бұрын
It hit home to me when you said “Allah is my therapist” it’s literally what I’ve been saying to people as well. I’m sorry for what you went through and glad that it made you stronger! We all have mistakes and/ir things that we are ashamed of that we wouldn’t dare to say to anyone, but it takes courage to speak to the internet about such things. Forgive your past self for everything as long as your are still seeking Allah’s path he’s the most merciful and the all knowing. May Allah forgive all of our sins and help us make up for all the shortcomings we keep on falling in day after day. 🤲❤️
@alertaidiota6227
@alertaidiota6227 2 жыл бұрын
Amiin ya rabbi al'Alameen
@sk_hoal
@sk_hoal 2 жыл бұрын
I've been watching you since i was 14 or 15, but I'm 17 gonna turn 18 this year. And everytime I've commented just something like I love you or something like that but today i wanna comment something different. Wallahi I'm so proud of you, you are one of the strongest people i've ever came across. You forever my brother, i ain't ever disgusted in you. If anything, i respect you 100x more than I did before, i'll continue to support you forever Inshallah
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you & your kindness. Means a lot to have such a beautiful community. People want this type of love & loyalty but Allah has just blessed me with you. You guys are the true hero!
@The.wakeup_caller
@The.wakeup_caller 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ I love you my brother SQ! Same here I will always support you no matter what because you are so real and you always want the good for us teaching and giving us advices. I don’t have the words to describe the amount of respect and empathy I feel for you! This Video was like a wake up call for me. InshaALlah we’ll meet in Janatul al firdaws and all my Muslim brothers and sisters!
@cmndo2293
@cmndo2293 Жыл бұрын
you are appreciated
@NigerianBaller
@NigerianBaller 2 жыл бұрын
Yooo, this story is insane Subhanallah. This is honestly what terrifies me most about having kids. Especially if I have a daughter. Because if someone violates my child in any way, man or woman, I'm going to jail, maybe even prison. And you can't shelter your kids too much, nor can you let them run loose anyhow, it's a delicate balance. I'm glad my parents did their best to protect me. I used to get mad that I couldn't do certain things other kids could do, even as I got older like stay at certain friends houses, stay out late with the boys, or go to birthday parties and what not. Now I see why, and considering the fact that my parents were immigrants and weren't raised in America, I see now why they were extra cautious of where I was. Now looking back, I realized I ain't miss out on nothing. I still had a great childhood and had good and bad memories just like everyone else. Glad you made it out SQ, and may Allah make the one's who didn't recover from their trauma and make them prosperous. Ameen.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your comment Subhanallah you’re right It’s scary but we don’t feed the fear, we rely on Allah. We know Allah is the one who protects us. So we rely on Him. He will always take care of His servants jazzahkum Allahkhyr for this
@Muslim_Convert_Stories
@Muslim_Convert_Stories 2 жыл бұрын
New Muslims Performing Umrah, Emotional, Tearful kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g8CGrM1ym8XQmmQ.html
@fataizainab5365
@fataizainab5365 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ which country are doing this am interested am in Nigeria
@baab8606
@baab8606 2 жыл бұрын
@@fataizainab5365 pakistan i think
@meowmeowmeow2362
@meowmeowmeow2362 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 bahahahaha
@shel_shel
@shel_shel 2 жыл бұрын
Brother as a sister I respect you for sharing such a traumatic incident. I know how hard this must've been to talk and publish on this platform, especially being an Asian Muslim man. You are a top brother for being so so brave. This is a huge issue within our society, especially in the developing countries and these uncomfortable, horrible issues needs to be addressed and safeguard our children/people from such filth and destruction.
@laylal7766
@laylal7766 2 жыл бұрын
Sitting here in tears...May Allah bless you for your bravery in speaking out about this traumatic event in your life. My heart breaks for you and the other children...Stay strong .. you have helped others by making this video. Making lots of dua for u bro
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr my sister for your kindness
@Husssiani
@Husssiani 2 жыл бұрын
What we think of u does not change the slightest bit. U were a kid, vulnerable and innocent. Alhamdulilah for everything
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah May Allah continue to preserve you❤️
@king-kb2ox
@king-kb2ox 2 жыл бұрын
100%
@lambroexe
@lambroexe 2 жыл бұрын
This wallahi brought me into tears because I have experienced something similar and Alhamdulillah, its absolutely amazing how Allah can save us from evil in the most unexpected ways
@nashcomp
@nashcomp 2 жыл бұрын
Yes bro the impact of the child hood traumatize i was experienced again in my college year because im living with the same situation but in the end our family is the savior parents always remind me the importance of praying thats help me alot from going too far.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah you’re absolutely right! Allah indeed is our protector. Perhaps we go through this to help others. We have to champion these issues to prevent future issues.
@jasmineyuusuf3668
@jasmineyuusuf3668 2 жыл бұрын
JaskaAllahu khiren brother for sharing your story with us. As a mother I really appreciate it. And you never think things like this happens in our society, because no one talks about such a thing. It's good to be educated. SubhanaAllah they were spreading evil amongst younger generations. So many things happened and as parents we are unaware of what our kids do. Thanks again.
@aminalokhandwala2747
@aminalokhandwala2747 2 жыл бұрын
Now I understand why my parents didn’t want me to have sleepovers and alhamdulillah for my parents. Every time they were protecting me, I thought of it as unnecessary restrictions. Only Allah knows what Shaitan whispers in whose ears and what it makes the person do.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah absolutely!!!!!! These are the things we think about as parents especially a parent who has been through it
@ammatrahman
@ammatrahman 2 жыл бұрын
God! This is disgusting as hell!!! Alhamdulillah God saved me from any such trauma... But i feel so bad at this moment to be in my bubble and don't even realize what's happening around us!! Thank you for sharing and opening the eyes of people like us that just live in their bubble and don't realise what others have to go through... 💔😭
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
It is disgusting & it was even nastier living with it. May Allah protect us indeed. But these are the realities
@aishax01
@aishax01 2 жыл бұрын
Someone said "Yea what he did was a sin"... he was a kid..there was no sin, it was wrong but he isn't held accountable for that plus he was a victim to his circumstances, some of yall need to chill, WE NEED to have these conversations, we might not get it right cause many of us are just starting but this is very much needed, people are too silent on these things that are so common (sexual abuse, child abuse etc)
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
That’s why abuse continues to happen & people are forced into silence; not be the abusers but by the lack of support from their loved ones
@aishax01
@aishax01 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ may Allah bless you and your family, i hope this will be beneficial for people and start more productive conversations
@khudejabi2050
@khudejabi2050 2 жыл бұрын
I literally can’t believe what I’m listening to. May allah protect our children. I’m so sorry u had to go through this.
@karamhaikhudaka
@karamhaikhudaka 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you had to go through such a traumatic experience. No child deserves to be exposed to such filth and disgust at that age. You weren't in control and it wasn't your fault. May God bless you today and always. ❤️
@jerimelton7676
@jerimelton7676 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. This kind of stuff happens so often and this is a great reminder to so many parents that we need to keep our eyes closer on our children. Even if they are hanging around with other Muslims, kids of the same sex, cousins, every one. You can’t trust your kids with anyone. Mashallah, you are so brave for putting yourself out there like this. It needed to be said, for your sake and for others’. I hope this was healing for you to get this off your chest.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr! I appreciate you seeing the good. Parents do need to be mindful!! It’s important that we realize that we are not angels & we all are prone to shytan a whispers
@cherryBlossomE7
@cherryBlossomE7 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah grant you and all the abused and suffering children in the world complete shifa physically, mentally and otherwise, and grant you all the highest level of jannah. I can't imagine the strength it takes to go through such trauma and talk about it. I'm honestly shocked to my core that things like this happen, thank you for opening my eyes brother. May Allah grant you and your family peace and healing in this time of difficulty, ameen.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly it’s scary but someone right now is dealing with this & perhaps this will help them jazzahkum Allahkhyr
@erectilereptile7383
@erectilereptile7383 2 жыл бұрын
I’ll never begin to understand the trauma you went through, but you’re one resilient man making it through all that. Lot of people off themselves from depression and ptsd after incidents like that and I’m glad to see you kept fighting the good fight.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you
@samrarehman8973
@samrarehman8973 2 жыл бұрын
This literally happens everywhere kudos to you for bringing it up because people actually believe that it is not real it doesn't matter they really can't understand the consequences it brings the psychological disorders that people develop after going through sexual abuse May Allah protect every child Aameen
@Adam-vv2cd
@Adam-vv2cd 2 жыл бұрын
I believe this comment section is focusing and judging sq more on the fact that he has come out and said his story by advising him or telling him that he is "exposing himself and the sins on other" rather than just listening to the actual story and message he is trying to get out to us. Rather than being supportive of the brother so many of the people in this comment section neglect his whole story and the vulnerable position he has put himself into in this video and instead they are telling him to delete the video he has tried to get off his chest for so long. Just please be mindful of others and respectful of their struggles rather than finding ways to judge them just because he is a Muslim sharing his experiences.
@peace4217
@peace4217 2 жыл бұрын
*Yeahhh you're absolutely right... that's what i also wanted to say.... honestly I got to learn a lot from this video and...Now In-Sha-Allah whenever I get married, i'll take extra care of my childrens and keep them safe from all these types of things..I'll pay more attention to their friendship so that they don't fall into the wrong company...And I'll try to build such a relation with my childrens from childhood so that they can share all their thoughts, thinking, talks freely with me and not be shy...Honestly I got to learn a lot from his video.... May Allah bless this brother🤲Ameen...*
@joanlee9726
@joanlee9726 2 жыл бұрын
Brother, he can see a therapist for these sorts of things. I don't think it's advisable to put out a video like this with such explicit description when most of his videos cater to children (e.g. the Islam questions for a free Ipad or airpod videos). Sure there was a warning put out to ask your parents if you can watch it beforehand, but let's be real. Most children are gonna watch it without asking anybody. I understand if it was in good faith, but it's best to keep things like this hidden or recommended to see a Muslim therapist.
@LearnIslam8371
@LearnIslam8371 2 жыл бұрын
I actually listened to the whole story and I understand why he is upset, and I am supportive, but he really shouldn't tell us for 2 reasons *Kids under 13 watch this channel * He is exposing his sins which is also a sin in Islam.
@heem622
@heem622 2 жыл бұрын
sq ??? Ik its him but sq is shortcut of what
@notsure920
@notsure920 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry but this is common is South Asian countries, the men are crazy are for sex, they get married late or too many restrictions around them and they go out of their way to make these sins happen. The Imams rape young kids because they have to go and live work far away from home etc..... it is absolutely disgusting how much common it is there, unfortunately Islam is not preached very well there, you tend to practise Islam becuase that what you were raised into, you don't learn the true beauty of Islam, these countries are just simply nasty when it comes to controlling their sexual desires. Sooo glad you are making this video because the muslims need to take up and KEEP AN EYE ON THE KIDS ALL THE TIME!!! They should ALWAYS know who their kids are with and what they are doing!!! Muslim WOMEN need to STOP spending all their time in the kitchen and pleasing the society, they need to invest their time on making their kids into good muslims, the dads need to STOP going after this world so much and spend time helping the mother!!! Wake up Ummah the muslims youth are committing sins all the time because we are not good parents
@HassanThelander
@HassanThelander 2 жыл бұрын
Growing up my parents never let me stay at peoples houses except a few lifelong friends. The leash wasn’t loosened till I was about 14/15. I used to dislike it but Wallahi I am super grateful. It, as the brother says, takes so little to corrupt. A babysitter, a neighbour, a relative- all it takes is that one encounter to corrupt your child. This is a major major flag to anyone with children- know that these things happen, it’s not about distrusting people around you but it’s about protecting your children from a common evil. The prophet PBUH instructed children to be separated from the age of 7, for them to never share beds, and so on because these things happen. Don’t go by Western Standards, go by Muslim standards - know your mahaarim and the boundaries of socialising in Islam, and don’t let your child move indiscriminately until they can clearly discern and fend for themselves. May Allah bless you SQ and make the situation easy for you. You have made me cry today. Alhamdulillah “Indeed with difficulty comes ease, Then surely with difficulty comes ease” 9:45. Stay strong brother and if you have to take the video down for you and yours - do it or at the advice of people of knowledge also. And May Allah reward you by your intention
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah what a beautiful comment So we’ll written & thoughout. Alhumdullilah you supported it with Quran & SUNNAH What a beautiful reminder. Yes this is prophetic reminders. Parents need to be careful. Alhumdullilah so many people are seeing the wisdom behind their parents strictness. jazzahkum Allahkhyr my bro Love you
@rsodangi528
@rsodangi528 2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry so so much. I could never imagine being able to talk about what’s happened in my life in a 100 years. I have so much more respect for you.you’re an amazing person and .Stay strong for your two beautiful girls. May Allah bless you and keep you happy always Ameen ya rabbil Aalameen. May Allah reunite you with the ones you love in Jannah Ameen
@soum444
@soum444 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing the story Most of us have been through, witnessed, or heard of something similar but could never speak out. Believe me these things happen almost everywhere and in every country even Arab/Muslim ones. I believe especially as Muslim families, we should normalize letting kids tell you everything freely instead of blocking them using reasons such as "respect, Haram, wrong..". befriending your kids is a crucial thing in order for them to come and tell you every single thing they hear or see without being afraid of being blamed or punished, and this in turn will protect them from being harmed or traumatized.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah you’ve made an excellent point For real As parents we need to also start by believing our children
@bonekbianconeri1366
@bonekbianconeri1366 2 жыл бұрын
Keep your spirits SQ.. Respect and support from Indonesia 👍
@bonekbianconeri1366
@bonekbianconeri1366 2 жыл бұрын
Agree with you. Instead of making our children "sterilized" we ought to be able giving them "filter" to distinguish between the two : bad or good. CMIIW
@Muslim_Convert_Stories
@Muslim_Convert_Stories 2 жыл бұрын
@@bonekbianconeri1366 New Muslims Performing Umrah, Emotional, Tearful kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g8CGrM1ym8XQmmQ.html
@ms78c
@ms78c 2 жыл бұрын
Can you sum up the video?
@999wali
@999wali 2 жыл бұрын
My brother, the amount of respect and empathy i have for you is beyond words, regardless of what anyone says or thinks or whomever tries to judge you, the only opinion that matters is Allah’s. I just prayed and made dua for u and inshallah allah eases your pain/trauma and protects all children from such evil. Your dawah and spreading awareness about such events is what is needed to shed light on the harsh reality for some and gives parents a chance to educate and protect their children so that they may never have to experience these horrible things. May allah bless you and guide us all❤️
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Ameeen jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your kindness & sincerity. May Allah bless you
@hnsfamily
@hnsfamily 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t cry ever u didn’t do anything wrong, those older people should be crying that they did this to little kids.
@Muslim_Convert_Stories
@Muslim_Convert_Stories 2 жыл бұрын
@@hnsfamily New Muslims Performing Umrah, Emotional, Tearful kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g8CGrM1ym8XQmmQ.html
@shaattuu
@shaattuu 2 жыл бұрын
I know how it feels when something from the past keeps bothering you that you have to pour it all out. I feel your pain. Even with your past, look at you inspiring thousands of people now. Thank you for sharing this
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for sharing Means a lot May Allah continue to heal you
@khadijalawal9069
@khadijalawal9069 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. U r an inspiration @wayoflifesq. Thank you for sharing and we love you fisabililLah. Allah will continue protecting u. And may He continue gibe u ability to give daawah, Ameen.
@maryamthanzeel3353
@maryamthanzeel3353 2 жыл бұрын
I cant imagine the strength one needs to say this out loud. May Allah protect us and guide all of us. Surely this is going to help alot of us keep eyes on our nephews, nieces, little cousins and future children. Thank you for advising us. Coming across this video and learning about this, definitely Allah has chosen me to be guided and guide the people I can. I feel blessed alhamdulila.May Allah forgive our sins, guide us and keep our hearts close to him and him only.
@rot.7525
@rot.7525 2 жыл бұрын
Alhumduallah Jazahallahkhair ty brother this sickness is out here
@Ashleii
@Ashleii 2 жыл бұрын
This was brave . It’s hard for a woman / girl to talk about the disgusting things that happened to us but it is exceptionally difficult for a man. Brother, May Allah forgive you , have mercy on you and help you feel peace . You are helping now by the work you do InshaAllah
@OGGHOSTCODM
@OGGHOSTCODM 2 жыл бұрын
we all have been through traumatic experiences like you told yours SQ and it’s okay to sometimes confess it to someone but you’re literally brave enough confessing it to the whole public and there are times where we hide these emotions and perhaps they’re bad for the future..... you get depressed, anxiety and all that but you can’t figure out why..... because it’s been bottled inside you and it’s in the past but we’re afraid to dig that out from the graves but it really does get off the burden from our chests.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah you hit it on the head bro Seriously I feel a burden lifted & ready to move on. jazzahkum Allahkhyr
@OGGHOSTCODM
@OGGHOSTCODM 2 жыл бұрын
no one is perfect my brother, this dunya is imperfect, we’re just spiritual human beings having a spiritual experience, allah is the judge, but it’s okay to confess sometimes.... or it can leave a hole within inside.
@kkewsuk
@kkewsuk 2 жыл бұрын
Something similar happened to me as a child. Thank you for sharing your story, it’s definitely something that needs to be addressed but is brushed away. As a child, you think whatever the elders are doing is right so you blindly follow them. To everyone, don’t feel bad or humiliated for something that’s happened in the past which you couldn’t control. Instead, think about the things you can do now and how to improve in future. And although it’s hard, don’t be afraid to speak up. Thank you again for sharing your story, and spreading awareness.
@user-oj9qx3vm5e
@user-oj9qx3vm5e 2 жыл бұрын
Because of this, I am going to be extra vigilant as on older sister to look after my younger brothers. I'm really sorry that this happened to you. Thank you, you have saved others from the same ordeal from the moment you spoke out about it. May Allah make this easy on you.
@byebye6828
@byebye6828 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brother, I was crying while hearing your story. You're VERY strong for being able to put this into words (it must have been the hardest thing) there isn't enough said about these cases even it happens everywhere. Allah knows how hard it is for you, May He relieve your pain and replace it with happiness inshallah❤
@banandababa
@banandababa 2 жыл бұрын
You are so brave for sharing this. SO MANY people have been through this including men..may Allah heal you from your trauma 💙💙💙
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah may Allah bless you
@offline704
@offline704 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so for being vulnerable and sharing your experience. In a world where so many of us have been taken advantage of by those with inhuman intentions, greedy for power- you’d think we’d be working together to heal. But you are that light, SubhanAllah. I pray for your healing, and the same for the millions of us in similar boats as you. We are strong together, vulnerable, and kind. Thank you.
@adamsamad
@adamsamad 2 жыл бұрын
These stories are extremely true. It's widespread in countries like Pakistan, Bangladesh, Afghanistan and I'm sure many more. It happened to my close friend almost exactly the same story in basements in NYC. It affected him greatly. I hope anyone this happens to finds courage and support. You're not alone my brother.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Lots of love my brother Appreciate you
@adamsamad
@adamsamad 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ you got me watching some of your other videos. I'm in Ozone Park and we have a big youth group. I think they can benefit from a talk by you on mental health, Islam, but the biggest issues we have over here is cultural misunderstandings between parents and children (mainly teenagers) if you're up for it, hit me up I would love to setup something at a local hall. I'm 39 but I think the younger kids will gravitate towards your personality.
@haneefrazzack3645
@haneefrazzack3645 2 жыл бұрын
I sincerely thank you for sharing this experience as it helps anyone in the ummah suffering from this and also wakes them up. This undoubtedly caused my respect for you to grow. You forever are my brother and I am always here to support you. The world would be a better place if there were more SQs.
@Mohiz_Ali
@Mohiz_Ali 2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong brother, I'm going to pray for you in my Tahujud after this video 📹 🙏 ❤️ 💙
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr my bro
@sheru5356
@sheru5356 2 жыл бұрын
With this video,you have saved hundreds and thousands of children. Now atleast their parents know it can happen to their children. They will try to protect them. In Shaa Allah. You must be proud of it brother. May Allah be with you me and everyone :) even if parents don't protect them after listening to your video ,still you will get reward as you have taken them out of ignorance atleast. :)
@MezbahRijvee
@MezbahRijvee 2 жыл бұрын
These type of things are very real and it’s been happening for decades and is currently still happening. It’s just no one talks about it because they’re afraid of being judged. I thank you for making this video and bringing this topic to light. Thank you 🙏
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for taking time to watch this & leave a comment.
@hasanmasood4511
@hasanmasood4511 2 жыл бұрын
Brooo SQ May Allah bless you, I can’t even begin imagine what it feels like to go through what you have been through, i always had the highest respects for you but this video has just increased it more, you truly are a brave man, I will make Dua for you and your family and I truly pray that Allah eases this trauma, and remember that everything that happens to us is by the design of Allah. May Allah make you amongst the people who have the highest ranks in Jannah. Ameen
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Your duas are all I need habeebi I appreciate your love & support But we must unite the ummah & sometimes you need to speak the truth. insha Allah this helps just one person gain victory over their trauma
@hasanmasood4511
@hasanmasood4511 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ insha Allah 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@MoeDollars
@MoeDollars 2 жыл бұрын
Being vulnerable takes a lot of courage and strength. I’ve been watching your videos since you barely had subscribers. I’m so proud of you for your channels growth but most importantly your spiritual growth. You’re really unique and relatable. Thanks for everything you do for the ummah. May ALLAH accept all your efforts and multiple the rewards of your deeds times a trillion. Keep doing your thing bro
@paksallion
@paksallion 2 жыл бұрын
Had something quite similar happen to me in the UK when I was younger. It's crazy how so many traits you've mentioned were similar to them but different at the same time.
@cookiesncream789
@cookiesncream789 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that happened to you 😔🫂.
@lolu411
@lolu411 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking up about it. It finally made me realize that it was never my fault
@getsomehelp8037
@getsomehelp8037 2 жыл бұрын
Me too!! I finally feel relieved 😔
@bintzubeida9207
@bintzubeida9207 2 жыл бұрын
Aslm brother, I am sorry you went through this terrible experience. I learned that so many young kids go through these experiences, the world is sick out there, as a mother, I don't visit family too much, my kids don't do sleep overs, my kids don't play in the street or neighbours house, because kid's get hurt in Al kinds of ways weather we want to hear it or not
@redman1300
@redman1300 2 жыл бұрын
But sister you shouldn't protect your children to a degree where they are scared of the world or afraid to take responsibility this wil lead to other problems when they are adults. Visiting family and playing in the street are normal things depending on what neighbourhood you live.
@Miss.R02
@Miss.R02 2 жыл бұрын
@@redman1300 true but the world isn’t so normal anymore 😭
@sakilahmed6788
@sakilahmed6788 2 жыл бұрын
@@Miss.R02 trust me, all children goes through some kind of abuse when u let them free, verbally or physically. Making children strong should be priority .
@Miss.R02
@Miss.R02 2 жыл бұрын
@@sakilahmed6788 agreed brother. But these physical ones seem to be more traumatic than verbal abuse. It’s best to keep them safe from such people and social gatherings like sleep overs when they are children. Teach them about the no no zones and boundaries wit people. My mom did the same for me growing up so I’m thankful for that. However around the age of 16 is when she let me go a little more, which makes since 14-15 year olds still have that childlike mind set.
@riama587
@riama587 2 жыл бұрын
Brother, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I couldn’t even watch the full video. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. May Allah reward u for ur struggle. Alhamdullah, Allah has allowed u to overcome this and has guided u. May Allah help our youth and keep them away from such things. Hopefully parents will learn from ur experience and protect their kids.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you
@BroSefat06
@BroSefat06 2 жыл бұрын
Man this is next level disturbing, it's a horror movie, may Allah reward you for bringing awareness about these issues though it must've took a lot of confidence
@israa3703
@israa3703 2 жыл бұрын
Brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing this and in spreading awareness. It's truly traumatizing and I can't even imagine the emotion and difficulty of this. May Allah guide this ummah. I'm so sorry you had to go through this and may Allah forgive them all. I'm speechless.
@happyhappiness4241
@happyhappiness4241 2 жыл бұрын
It happened to me too ,when I was 6-7 years old ,so I completely understand what you been through + I tried to tell one of my friends in middle school but she said ( no way ) In way that you’re a liar, so no one knows about it ‘till now but الحمدلله I’m very good now ,Thanks for sharing this hard story to tell , we appreciate it more than you think . Barak allah feek
@saimashahzadibhatti8009
@saimashahzadibhatti8009 2 жыл бұрын
Please keep your head high brother. Do not worry about people judging you rather focus on the minority - if you will. Saving one person is as if you have saved humanity. You are an amazing brother and I salute you for your courage, honesty, and sincerity in educating the public about such a taboo topic. Jazaakallah khayr for sharing such a disgusting reality that parents are so oblivious of due to the "shame" culture we live in, where everything gets hidden under the carpet as if none of it exists. May Allah (SWT) reward you with precious gifts in this world and the next. Keep up the amazing work brother. From your sister in Islam
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
My sister I appreciate your kindness & willingness to send your support my way. Appreciate your time spent watching my story & writing this comment. May Allah bless you
@alyanshaikh1202
@alyanshaikh1202 Жыл бұрын
I've been through something tad similar at a very young age too, I understand you, I feel you. And the part you mention Allah is your therapist, I understand that very deeply, talking to Him makes me feel... I can't even describe how blessed I feel to just raise my hands or even just sitting down, talking to him, conversing with him about things I like what I dont like, telling him random things, even when I feel like someone would think I'm psycho talking to myself when I'm just talking to my Creator, it makes me feel like I'm constantly wrapped around with Him, His mercy, His compassion and protection, it feels RIGHT.
@abdulqaadir6510
@abdulqaadir6510 2 жыл бұрын
This video is SO NECESSARY. May Allah give you more than you ever wished for
@boostbaa2882
@boostbaa2882 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t cry man. Stay strong you’ve done a good job with this video raising awareness 👏
@pandanina
@pandanina 2 жыл бұрын
What‘s the problem with crying?
@lightlight5706
@lightlight5706 2 жыл бұрын
@@pandanina I think it’s the way you read it. It felt to me that he was comforting him.
@RazorStan
@RazorStan 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has experienced something similar, I had tears watching this video. I am so proud of you for making this public because this happens all around us. No one is disgusted by you or is making fun of you. I pray for you brother. I pray that Allah SWT heals your heart and soul. And that he protects our ummah from this. You are so courageous for making this video. I commend you brother.
@nabdul1523
@nabdul1523 2 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah brother. I am very clingy with my sons, and my husband says I’m too paranoid. I make sure they have fun, but I trust no one with their safety or wellbeing. I’m either there, it’s a public place, or with someone I completely trust. Never at a random relative or husbands friends. I heard close friends tell me those type of stories and that scared me too much to allow that to happen in my watch. Allah is the planner, we can only do as much as we can. May Allah protect our youth and our children Amiin thank you for your story, this is so hushed about in our community.
@Fairydust74k
@Fairydust74k 2 жыл бұрын
This made my stomach turn. I don't have children, so I can only imagine how parents feel when their children are out in the public or out of their sight. Be close to your kids y'all. May Allah swt protect our children and help parents protect and teach their children.
@metroidzelda1011
@metroidzelda1011 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen!
@Youtubber1980
@Youtubber1980 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU VERY MUCH MY DEAR BROTHER! AS A FATHER OF TWO KIDS (WITH A 3RD ON HIS WAY) I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU TELLING YOUR EXPERIENCES. YOUR ADVICE/ANEKDOTE SERVES AS A REMINDER TO KEEP OUR INNOCENT CHILDEREN CLOSE TO US AND OUR DEEN AND AWAY FROM ALL KINDS OF FILTH THAT EXISTS IN THIS DUNYA. MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU, MAY ALLAH MAKE YOU AN EVEN BIGGER ASSET FOR OUR UMMAH, AND MAY ALLAH GRANT YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY SUCCES IN THIS LIFE AND THE HEREAFTER. AMEEN!!❤
@antoniarose3260
@antoniarose3260 2 жыл бұрын
Just gained a follower. Thank you so much for opening up about this because it happens more often than we may think. So many women and men out there are afraid to speak out but you have set such a brave example. In shaa Allah you will be rewarded abundantly for this. May Allah s.w.t give you peace in this dunya and the hereafter.
@nizarhingary2966
@nizarhingary2966 2 жыл бұрын
This story hit me, seen this crap before. You feel so helpless but with imaan, the strength you get is hamdullah undescribable, I wish you all the best and jazak allah kharain bro. I am not making fun of you, you made me cry with you. You are beautiful human being who deserves the best.
@zainabapparels3616
@zainabapparels3616 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you made this video. Some of us had once been victims of peer pressure and the likes. Plus parents need to let their children know that they had to speak against anything they feel is wrong or better still speak to their parents about it. Allah really loves you. I'm glad you never partake in it.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah you’re right sister May Allah increase you
@5timessquad
@5timessquad 2 жыл бұрын
I just clicked when I saw the title...I am all about being truthful and being transparent...I just read a few comments so I know it is about ABUSE....been through abuse, as a kid and as an adult..not going in details here on what happened to me but....not easy, went through therapy, saw counseling, professionals, group therapy etc...this is a topic very painful for me too...but the truth shall set you free regardless what anyone has to say...share your truth and never wirry about what others will say...I couldn't careless anymore...am 48, 4 kids, I am a SURVIVOR and I owe nobody an apology for speaking up!!! RESPECT for you for speaking up and sharing...YOU ARE BRAVE!!! I am a woman and I respect you for telling your story! #badassmama #stayfocused #slaylikeachamp #yana YANA means You Are Not Alone
@MusicFreak61594
@MusicFreak61594 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so heartbreaking of how common this is across the world, across all cultural and religious backgrounds. I’m sorry for your pain brother. Know that I don’t think less of you
@abdur-raqib220
@abdur-raqib220 2 жыл бұрын
may allah protect our children and give me and everybody the power to stop this ameen. I am glad my brother has spoken about this and inshallah he can lead us to stop this in pakistan and elsewhere.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah it’s sad But it’s more common when we don’t raise awareness about this in our community. We need to talk about this so that we can begin to fix the problem
@smartiesmmm195
@smartiesmmm195 2 жыл бұрын
Allah saved you so you could save others with your story. Even though nothing happened to you, just seeing it and being in that environment changed your whole life. Imagine the people who went through it. We have to teach people that this isn’t just happening now, and in the west. It was taking place years ago in Islamic countries and is only getting worse because no one talks about it. Thanks for sharing. I know I’ve learned never to leave my kids with anyone and talk to them about sexual exploitation. Thank you. May Allah relieve your burdened heart. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah I’m glad you see that perspective. May Allah bless you
@naveedakhtar5723
@naveedakhtar5723 2 жыл бұрын
Ya Allah, what has this world come to? I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Its courageous of you to share it here like this. Thank you so much for raising awareness.
@AdamKhanx
@AdamKhanx 2 жыл бұрын
Wow….your transparency and honesty in this video has made me and many others love and respect you even more for the sake of ALLAH SWT. Your in my duas and I hope Allah increases your sincerity and imaan ❤️. Everything happens for a reason SQ so carry on living your life obeying Allah no matter what you go through. I deeply believe Allah had mercy on you that day by allowing that cigarette to burn you and saving you from being victim. May Allah bless you and your family! Wasalam
@UmmQariah
@UmmQariah 2 жыл бұрын
May Allaah bless you brother, this takes a huge amount of courage! Huge respect
@Peace-hl9ld
@Peace-hl9ld 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you. You can’t blame yourself for any of it, you were just a child that needed to be protected. It is happening and no one is talking about it. I’m proud of you also You worded it perfectly. I’m a mother and I’m always aware but this was a big wake up call. I’m sharing this with my older kids and will talk about this with younger ones. The youth need Guidence and Allah gave you a position to work with him. Your family and friends will know and be more aware for the future of the children. Because of this video… watch how much barakah Allah will give you. May Allah protect you and your family.
@brucewayne8252
@brucewayne8252 2 жыл бұрын
This video made me respect you more actually. You are a tough, religious, honest man who fears nothing but Allah. Lots of love from Palestine ❤🇵🇸
@salahuddin7617
@salahuddin7617 Жыл бұрын
Love you Palestine from Kashmir.
@brucewayne8252
@brucewayne8252 Жыл бұрын
@@salahuddin7617 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ttfennec
@ttfennec Жыл бұрын
🇩🇿❤️🇵🇸
@zantonio1310
@zantonio1310 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 and I feel sorry for what you have experience...none of this is your fault....mashaallah...so many times Allah has saved you...Allahu akbar...I respect you cuz you still think of others who were doing that "activities" even after a long time...mashaallah...may Allah guide us all and may Allah protect us all from this fitnah of the end of times...
@e.s.3599
@e.s.3599 2 жыл бұрын
Akhy you were a kid. Your character hadn't yet developed. The true wastes were the older men. You're not being judged. You cannot be judged. You keep on doing your videos and being yourself.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for understanding
@e.s.3599
@e.s.3599 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ brother, no need for thanks. Do you, we're all here
@Rida624
@Rida624 2 жыл бұрын
So proud of you for coming out so strong. I hope Allah heals your heart, soul and mind. Trauma is a trauma. No matter what other says
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah you’re right jazzahkum Allahkhyr
@queenofsheba8275
@queenofsheba8275 2 жыл бұрын
This was heartbreaking to listen to. Those poor kids who were abused like that. May Allah protect all the children from such vile people. This is my biggest fear for my children. I make so much duaa that no child ever has to go through this. I experienced something similar at the age of 4 and it has impacted my life ever since. Ya Allah save our innocent children from such filth.
@iqralala6244
@iqralala6244 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah reward you for being vulnerable and sharing this. That’s very powerful & you’re a real man, don’t feel ashamed my brother you are an inspiration. Thank you
@a4j81
@a4j81 2 жыл бұрын
I TOTALLY respect you brother Thanks for talking out Thanks for being brave and show us what our children, friends might be going through Thanks for showing us that we can change because of Allah mercy
@rydhwan
@rydhwan 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, it's especially hard when you were young and there's themes of a lack of control which makes trauma harder. It sounds like you have survivor's guilt, which is common in trauma too. Alhamdulillah you are here alive, away from where it happened, helping people and spreading a positive message by KZfaq. Insh'allah, others get this message out to help others for a force of good to come. It's very brave of you SQ to talk about this and may Allah help others who have suffered and will suffer like this 🙏
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your kindness Perhaps I do May Allah bless the ummah & help us all
@zayedsoudagar1759
@zayedsoudagar1759 2 жыл бұрын
Brother SQ, you truly are inspiring. I can't even imagine how traumatizing that must've been to go through in your life, but look at where you are now and look at the way Allah has guided you to this point thus far. Ma Sha Allah you've grown into a man that we all aspire to be like. Your story is one that I'm sure many Muslims can resonate with, and the fact that you were able to overcome that trying time with the help of Allah gives hope to the people going through anything similar, and may Allah protect our children and make us the ideal leaders of society who will do whatever it takes to prevent this from happening to anyone, Ameen. We're proud of you bro, no one is looking down on you, and no one should shame you. May Allah continue to strengthen you brother, Ameen.
@marwashannan689
@marwashannan689 2 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of how brave you are, thank you for sharing this
@Urbaddd
@Urbaddd 2 жыл бұрын
As one of your students my say dosent matter as much but just know you inspire us everyday and although this is part of a harsh past put it behind you as your a new person today
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Woahhhhhhhhhhh Subhanallah. Much respect.
@majidalbloki5942
@majidalbloki5942 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most bravest thing I have ever heard a man say. I swear many Men call them self's brave but I swear none of them would have the heart to talk about this. I don't know how did u have the strength to talk, but thank u❤
@AbdullahEl2
@AbdullahEl2 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I believe most of us have similar stories that we live with and suffer in silence and don’t get the help we need. JazakAllahuKhairun for always being a role model for us and doing what’s right. None of it is ever our fault. We need to take it more seriously to keep our families close like Allah tells us to
@eshalmahmood5227
@eshalmahmood5227 2 жыл бұрын
I have an immense amount of respect for you. For sharing your story knowing how hard it is.
@pakistanimominamerica1382
@pakistanimominamerica1382 2 жыл бұрын
I love you my brother for the sake of Allah! Thank you for everything you did for the community
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Much love
@peace4217
@peace4217 2 жыл бұрын
*Brother from your vedio I got to learn a lot...Now In-Sha-Allah whenever I get married, i'll take extra care of my childrens and keep them safe from all these types of things..I'll pay more attention to their friendship so that they don't fall into the wrong company...And I'll try to build such a relation with my childrens from childhood so that they can share all their thoughts, thinking, talks freely with me and not be shy...Honestly I got to learn a lot from his video.... May Allah bless this brother🤲Ameen...*
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you
@peace4217
@peace4217 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ May Allah bless u too😊✨
@yaqub_2.0
@yaqub_2.0 2 жыл бұрын
SQ, may Allah bless you. I can tell you have been through a lot and you work hard to overcome your traumas and vices. May Allah reward you much for this jihad and becoming the great man we know today. This story does't make me think any less of you, in fact it makes me admire you more because of how much you've overcome and your courage to share these things for our benefit. May Allah protect all the vulnerable children out there in similar situations. Assalaamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
@akkane7
@akkane7 2 жыл бұрын
Your very brave for talking about it ! Something similar happened to me when I was a child and I can’t still talk about it. May Allah protect you and all of us brothers and sisters ! You’re an example of courage Allah bless you ! This the first thing video of you that I watch and I see nothing but goodness in you and I’m following immediately !
@bolog3465
@bolog3465 2 жыл бұрын
Had me in tears man ❤️. May allah make it easy on us, i wanted to ask a sheikh a out these kinds of stuff but i wasnt brave enough! I have been watching you but without subscribing and now you just gained one
@shahnawazahmed710
@shahnawazahmed710 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder how much time it took for him to actually decide to post this after recording it. I can't believe how much some people go through as a kid. Don't brush off kids like they're innocent and don't need protection from some things. Even if they are innocent, the world is not and the world takes that innocence away from them. It's people like SQ who are so brave and truly want the best for everyone that can help so many people and raise awareness with these sensitive matters, Thank you brother and may Allah help you and save you as you live with this unbearable experience :(
@kingwansaf8
@kingwansaf8 2 жыл бұрын
man I am really proud of you that you came out an share this traumatic experience of yours may Allah bless you
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your love & support.
@matheen8574
@matheen8574 2 жыл бұрын
It takes tremendous courage to do this. May Allah ease your hardships.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your kindness
@NYPAKI87
@NYPAKI87 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story brother. Parents please keep an eye on your children's no matter what. Don't trust anyone blindly regardless of family, friends and relatives. Try to build a good relationship with your kids so they don't hide anything from you at a young age. May Allah bless all parents and guide all of us on the straight path ameen.
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah what excellent advice
@NYPAKI87
@NYPAKI87 2 жыл бұрын
@@WAYOFLIFESQ JazakAllah Khairun Brother..!!
@badgalcrazii187
@badgalcrazii187 2 жыл бұрын
Damn SQ.. i cried watching this.. 😔 this was NOT your fault.. May Allah continue to ease your pain..i couldn't stop thinking about the other children and the fact that this still goes on..remember them in your duas too.. nobody should judge you your intentions were pure.. it takes real courage to post stuff like this..we all have a past as long as it brings us closer to Allah thats the main thing bro..❤ May Allah continue to guide you and the rest of the unmah in the righteous path and protect us from every evil and forgive our sins..Ameen
@MBeats27
@MBeats27 2 жыл бұрын
Alot of people have been through similar things. May Allah give you relief from the pain and trauma and give you the ability to heal
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@mchowdhury3184
@mchowdhury3184 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this. You are being helpful to all the people out there who have felt like they were alone. I am sorry this happened to you. No kid should experience this. However by sharing this experience you are helping to educate. It is essential to teach kids about sexual boundaries, consent and coercion
@Amy-um3lp
@Amy-um3lp 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for spreading awareness❤.. There was a friend of mine in school but she knew so many bad things and when I asked her from where she gotta know, I never know these things,she told me oh there are some older girls or her cousins who taught her.. I used to share everything to my parents and I share this too and they ask me to stay away from her , but now when I think about the stuff she told me, it was just disgusting and even more disgusting to know that her older cousins were grooming her..astagfirullah
@bearded2830
@bearded2830 2 жыл бұрын
It's absolutely necessary in this age that parents need to be aware and educate there kids about threats like these. Parents need to be more responsible. Protect your kids from bad company
@WAYOFLIFESQ
@WAYOFLIFESQ 2 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah absolutely Bad company doesn’t announce itself. Sometimes it becomes.
@misarose3631
@misarose3631 2 жыл бұрын
That's why my parents never allowed me to go to somebody 's house alhamdullilah, till I was at the age of awareness, which I never been to somebody's house a part from once in my life, when it comes to friends. But for me going to somebody's house has become so uncomfortable, so I try to avoid it.
@amrzahran550
@amrzahran550 2 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability is a strength. Brother u have so much courage and i admire you for this. You would be surprised how many of us have similar experiences and never brought it up or able to express it. These things live with us buried deep inside us because we didn’t understand the effects it has on us or the severity of the moment at that young of an age. May Allah increase you for sharing this story.
@seynabhashi9753
@seynabhashi9753 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this with us, I want you to know that this is not your fault and that you were groomed and molested. I pray to god that you heal from this! Sexual abuse is a huge problem that we have to talk about to fight against it!
@cookiesncream789
@cookiesncream789 2 жыл бұрын
Asalam Walaikum brother. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. I am so sorry you experienced such traumatic sexual abuse in your childhood. This comments section is really disheartening with people victim blaming, and telling you to delete this video because you are "exposing your sin". You were a young child and didn't do anything wrong. It is the elders in the situation who were wrong by getting young boys to sexually abuse each other. In the last few years, I have heard way too many stories of abuse and it is really disturbing. This is a terrible reality and it needs to be talked about, not pushed under the rug. I am also so sorry that Eid, such a beautiful day, was a day that brought back memories of these terrible and traumatic events. Praying for you brother! ❤❤❤
@puppy2484
@puppy2484 2 жыл бұрын
Literally. makes me sick how muslim brothers and sisters can victim blame something that wasn't his fault; he was a child 😐
@feronium7547
@feronium7547 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯
@saifa378
@saifa378 2 жыл бұрын
Assalaamu alaikum Br. SQ and all the brothers and sisters Absolutely!! What was done to him as a child and those other children were criminal behavior. There are so many criminals out there all over the world doing such horrible acts to young people/young children. This is absolutely unacceptable and those criminals need to be exposed and called out, no question about it! I'm so glad Brother SQ brought it to light and was brave enough to share his childhood trauma with us. WE NEED TO RAISE AWARENESS ON THESE TYPES OF ISSUES. Brother SQ, please, please, please, DO NOT DELETE THIS VIDEO OF YOURS. DO NOT TAKE DOWN THIS VIDEO. Again, we need to raise awareness and protect our children and future generations in'sha'Allah.
@jamesbravo7693
@jamesbravo7693 2 жыл бұрын
I bet what hurts him more is that he didn’t help the other children, thats crazy regrets right there
@idkw
@idkw 2 жыл бұрын
The regret of not helping the guilt kills u everyday i wish i could go back in time
@suhanazaheer3299
@suhanazaheer3299 2 жыл бұрын
I salute you for being so strong and courageous to come out in the open and tell your story. If anything this is a warning and a message to us all to be aware and conscious of people out there. I'm really sorry for what you experienced and I pray the other innocents are ok where ever they are. Don't blame yourself for not telling anyone. Like you said it was the qadr of Allah. Your amazing brother. Seeing you change for the better inspires us all. Now that you have taken it off your chest just breathe and move on. No one's judging you. We are all proud of you 👍
@mayuri5928
@mayuri5928 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely heartbreaking. جزاك الله خير اخي الكريم thank you for your bravery, no child should ever endure this torment may Allah protect us all
@prodbyprizma
@prodbyprizma 2 жыл бұрын
Major respect to you brother! I know this isn’t easy to talk about, but it’s good that you did you can help someone out there that went through this. May Allah protect us from evil stuff like this. May Allah protect us from shatyann.
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