I would choose my children over any man any day...I told my ex-husband, please don't ask me to choose because you would loose every time. I never regretted that decision. Best decision I ever made in my life.

Thov qhuas koj kawg li os tus me Niam tsev aw👏👏👏👏. Koj ua yog lawm Kuv tus kheej los kuv yeej xaiv menyuam ib yam li koj thiab os mog! Tus txiv dev thawj thiab kob huam ko siab phem npaum li ntawv nws dag koj xwb nws twb tsis xav hlub koj thiab koj cov menyuam ces cia ntxov muab nws tso li ko ntxov dim txoj kev nyuaj siab os mog!

Your children should always be ur priority. No man should come before them. Glad to know you choose your kids .

You're a good woman, a good mother. Pray you'll continue to support your children and succeed in whatever you do. To your greedy 1st and 2nd husband, may they never find happiness, love or wealth! To all the women, please choose your children over any man! To every men, it is your responsibility to raise your children, so pay your child support!

I'm glad you choose your kids, your kids is your life. Koj ua yog lawm!!!

Tus me niam tsev hauv zaj neej neeg no- kj ua yog lawm os. You can always replace the man in your life but you can never replace the love of your blood line so remember your children can never cut you off but that man can always destroy you when he is out of love for you. Infact he is a stranger to you while your children are your strength!

Kev koj xaiv yog lawm os niam laus. I would chose my kids over some a man. As a mom we love our kids so much. We yell and discipline them but when we love, love so much. Some are bad. You should be proud of your son he's a smart boy and love his siblings and you so much. That's happiness......

Tus siab hee li os ua ca xiv neej siab phem ualuaj 😭😭😭😭

Xaiv yus cov menyuam zoo dua vim yog yus yug niag txiv ntawm nws yog neeg sab nraum Tsi muaj txiv los yeej nyob tau yog tsi xaiv menyuam tshe yuav tu siab tag ib sim neej

Koj txiav txim siab yog lawm nawb tus viv ncaus. Txawm yog kuv los kuv yeej yuav xaiv kuv cov me nyuam ib yam thiab os mog. Koj yog ib leej niam zoo rau koj cov me nyuam Thov vajtswv foomkoob pub koj

Good thinking! 👍👍 I agreed with you, but I wish you didn’t waste your time loving and helping the that 2nd loser!! He will get his karma soon, don’t waste your breath on him anymore. Best wishes to you and your kids. 🙏🙏

Zoo siab koj hlub koj cov menyuam es koj xaiv cov menyuam os. Cov txiv neej es tsis paub hlub peb cov menyuam ces tsis kk lawm. You cov menyuam thiab yog cov tseem ceeb rau you. So proud you picked your kids. Men are plenty but your children is your lifeblood. If we as parents don’t love them, no one else will.

You are a strong mom. Yes love your kids, you can always find love. If he aint for the life that you have now meaning your kids too than you're better off without him.

I would definitely pick my kids over any man!!! Good for you lady. You made the right choice. You can replace any man but not your kids.

You did the right thing. You can always replace your spouse but not your children.

Sister, you made the right decision. If their biological father doesn’t even love them then don’t expect other men to live them. God blesses you and your children.

Koj ua yog lawm thov vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau nej cov niam tub nawb mog

You made the right decision sister. No man should make you choose between him or your children. Your children will be always be your children. Love yourself and your children will be there for you. I’m with you, this guy needs to go!

I’m glad she made the right decision and ditched the bastard! No men ain’t worth choosing over your kids!!!! Your kids will love you unconditionally. Every men’s are replaceable. Your kids aren’t replaceable!!!

You make the right choice to stay with your kids. Im with you 💯 %

U did the right thing sister, I would do the same thing. My children are always 1st, everyone else can wait.

You made the right decision sister. Never choose a man over your kids. Not even their biological dad.

Always pick your kids first!!! ❤❤❤❤

This women did the right thing AT THE END.

Remember, you can always replace your spouse, but never your children. These hmong og’s are so ignorant. You did the right thing.

Tus me viv ncaus, koj ua yog lawm os. Yog kuv Los yeej ua 1 yam thiab. Yus cov me nyuam yog yus txoj sia.

Dear sister, you had made a wise decision, may God help you navigate through life, children are blessings from the Lord, it doesn't take that long before are all grown, and becomes your caregiver,above all they are your flesh and blood. I'm glad to hear that you choose your children.

Kj xaiv yog lawm os mog, cov txiv neej zoo nriav nyuaj, Tab sis cov txiv neej zoo li nws xb muaj coob os

A man like that keep him out he only used you so he has a place to lives. your children need you more but sister you always finds a better man and never take a homeless man home. Sister you did a good job

Txiv neej hmoob meskas maj pheej tiag tiag li os.ntxim ntxub tshaj plawg li os

Koj xaiv me nyuam ces zoo kawg cov me nyuam tseeb ceeb rau yus tshaj. Txiav txim yog kawg lawm

I’m glad she make a good choice for her and her children. Screw everyone else, you have your children.

Aws koj ua yog kawg nkaus lawm mog. Kuv los yeej xav tib yam li ko thiab mog zoo tshaj koj yog ib tug poj niam muaj peev xwm ntawm peb sab poj niam. Xav yog qhov zoo2 rau koj cov menyuam lawm mog tom ntej no koj yuav tau kev hlub ntau2 los ntawm koj cov menyuam nawb mog Tus me niam tais aw...

You made the right decision! So very few hmong women will be strong enough to make this decision! A husband is not worth the tears and suffering of you and your children! I too have not married since my divorce in 2003 because I too made this decision for my child and myself and I love my single life, no headaches, heartaches, no one to criticize my every move and I can do whatever I want when I want. Children should always be priority! Good luck to you.

Koj ua yog lawm os tus niam tsev thov qhuas koj

Mi koj niam aw...koj zaj dab neeg no hais tau yog tshaj plaws li lawm os....

Koj xaiv koj cov menyuam ces yog lawm. Koj tus tub Hlob muaj peev xwm heev. Zoo heev.

Tus mi niam tsev kuv thlv ghuas koj yog tus niam uas muaj kev hlub tiag tiag koj ua yog lawm os . Tu siab koj tau ob niag txiv puav leej phemheev . Tab tab sis peb cov txiv neej tseem tshuav cov zoo uas hlub poj niam me nyuam thiab thiab os ko ma. Ua siab te xaiv nawb koj yov neev zoo geej yuav tau ghov zoo mog

Very strong woman, if you are a mother and not loving your children, no one will...so proud that you choose your children.

Kuv txhawb Koj 100% os tus me viv ncaus, koj ua thiab hais yog kawg, cov txiv selfishness li koj 2 tus no tso mus zoo dua. Thiab txhob tu2 siab heev rau tus ib nta vim tus muab roj ntsha twb tsi hlub nws cov ces tus tsi yog nws cov roj ntsha ces tsi tha hais li. Cov txiv li tus 2 ntawm nws tsis hlub koj tab sis ntshaw koj txoj kev hlub tau nws xwb. Cov no muaj coob, tab sis koj cov me nyuam koj yuav ntshiav tsi tau li. Es txhawb koj lub zog nawb. God bless you and your family.

sister you made the right choice! good job.

Koj ua yog lawm nawb hlub koj cov me nyuag mog niam hluas

Sister I'm so proud of you I'm so happy that you go back to love all your children you made the right decision remember your children's always come first man come in and go always be the best of the best mother love to your children

Koj ua yog lawm kuv los yeej yuav xaiv me nyuam thiab vim me nyuam yog leej niam txoj sia

You are a good mother 👩 ❤

Tus niam tsev Koj uas Yog lawm os. Yog ib tus txiv hlub tsis tau yus thiab yus cov menyuam ces yuav los tsis zoo dabtsi os. Tus txiv hlub yus tiag ma nws yua tau hlub yus cov menyuam thiaj li Yog tus txiv tsev hlub yus tiag thiab thiaj li Yog ib tus txiv tsev zoo tiag. Best wishes to you and your kids. A mother knows best!

Koj xaiv tau txoj hauv kev yog lawm txiv neej yeej siab phem li ntawv yus xaiv yus pab me nyuam xwb zoo dua

Koj ua yog lawm os tus niam tais aw yus cov me nyuam yus yeej hlub tshaj li os mog

Koj yog ib leej niam zoo koj hais thiab ua yog lawm os tus sister aw.. Txiv neej zoo li nov tsis txhob yuav zoo dua...

Strong woman. I support her 💯

Koj ua yog lawm nawb. Twb uog koj koj thiaj tseem tos ntev npaum no. Yog kuv mas twb muab nws ncaws tawm puag thaum ntxov lawm. Yus cov mi nyuam yus tsis hlub es leej twg yuav hlub. Niag txiv dev ntawv tsis yog neeg zoo o.

Sister, you made the right choice. Your children always come first.

Koj ua yog lawm, yog kuv los kuv yeej yuav xaiv kuv cov menyuam thiab

Sister, you always choose your children over any man. Your first husband is a selfish bastard. Your second husband is using you for his benefit. He does not love you. You can’t train an old dog new tricks. Just have a companion to go on vacation, eat out, talk with no strings attached. I’m so happy for you. You are a strong woman. God bless your and your children.

Koj ua yog lawm os viv ncaws Aw yus yug ces yus hlub hlub li os

kuv nyiam mloog koj hais ntxhua zaj neej neeg os

Koj yog tshaj plaws li lawm os tu me niam laus aws .qhov koj xaiv yog lawm.

Tus me ntxhais koj ua yog tshaj plaws kuv thoj qhuas koj nawb!!

Txob tu siab rau lub neej poj nrauj os yuav tau niag tsis zoo ces nrauj tsawg tom los yeej tsis txhaum leej twg

You made the right choice sister. I hope u find someone who love u and your kids.

Koj ua yog lawm os tus me niam tsev koj cov roj ntsav zoo tshaj koj niag dev thawj thiab os . Nrog koj zoo siab koj xaiv yog lawm

Tus Niamtsev, koj xaiv yog lawm os. Tus txiv neej no yeej hlub tsis tau koj txog hnub tuag. Nws siv koj ib ntus xwb. Nws yeej yog ib tug neeg liam, nws thiaj nrauj nws tus poj niam tib ib. Koj cov menyuam tseem ceeb duas.

tus niam tsev koj txoj kev xaiv koj cov me nyuam yog lawm nawb,peb yog txiv neej peb tsis phem npaum li koj ob tug txiv hais ncaj rau koj paub,peb tus poj niam yog deev hluas nraug mas peb kawg nrauj ,hos lwm yam peb mam sib kho kom hloov kom nyob taus ua ke ua lub neej,hos me tub me nyuam peb hlub tshaj plaws,nyiaj thiab kub pauv tsis tau,koj ob tug txiv siab nqaim dhau nrauj mus txhob nkuv xim nawb mog

Koj xaiv tau qhov yog lawm os me muam. dua li cov lawv yuam kev tag. You are a mom of love.

Kudos to you!!! I would have done the same, choose my children!

tus viv ncaus aws koj ua yog lawm os mog,kuv twb taug txoj kev koj taug thiab kuv twb xaiv kuv cov me nyuam kuv twb tsis xum yuav tus txiv, cov txiv neej zoo li koj tus thiab kuv tus xwb ces lawv tsuas vam yus thaum lawv tsis muaj kev mus xwb,, koj nco ntsoov tias lawv txiv kiag twb hlub tsis taus lawv es ua cas lwm tus txiv neej yuav ua cas hlub taus yus cov me nyuam nas.kuv xaiv kuv cov me nyuam niam no kuv cov me nyuam twb kawm ntawv tag muaj hauj lwm zoo ua tag, lawv twb hlub kuv kawg ne.koj txhov xav tias nws txom nyem es koj yuav rub nws tes nawb mog,yus pab nws tawm qhov kev tuag los thawm kawg nws tseem yuav tom yus kom tuag os mog.

Kuv yeej xaiv cov me nyuam ib yam thiab...

U did the right things

👏👏👏I’m so happy for you sister. Stay strong for your children.

If my child & husband were drowning, I’d save my child first. Love my husband, but my child comes first.

Koj ua yog lawm nawb tus niam tsev. Neej tsa mas muaj tsawg neej qhau mas muaj coob dua.

Koj yog ib tus poj niam hmoob ua thiaj yog neeg tiag2 kuv thov qhua koj

Tub me muam qhov koj xaiv koj cov me nyuam yog ib qhov yog thiab zoo heev. Koj tus me nus yog ib tug neeg tsis muaj kev kawm thiab xav tsis tawm.

Kuv txhawb koj nawb tus muam, koj ua tau yog lawmaker.

Lawv e... sim neej no ces txiv neej lub siab mas thiaj nqaim os, tus siab yuav loj taus ces tsuas yog cov me tub uas tau ua nstuag ciaj li koj cov es ntshe thiaj txawj xav xwb os

So proud of you.. i rather choose my kids over my husband..

Yog!!! tej niag txiv dev tshob cuab ko lawb los zoo kawg!!! Kuv mas ntshai rwg tsam raug koj txoj kev lwj siab ntag os..

Pab tu niam tsev noj zoo siab nws xaiv nws cov menyuam os. Kuv los Kuv xaiv Kuv tu mi ntxhais and nrauj Kuv tu txiv thib ob vim tu txiv yeej tsis hlub ib yam. You made the right choice! Good luck rau Koj.

Tus mi niam tsev xaiv koj cov me yuam os Koj ua yog lawm os mog

I'm so proud of u.

The second husband you did the right thing. Care about your children do not care about the homeless.

Kj xaiv yog lawm os tus niam laus yus cov me nyuam yog yus txoj sia yog tus twg g hlub ces xum cia nws mus nws es yus nyob hlub yus tej me nyuam zoo dua

Koj xaiv tau qhov yog lawm os mog yus cov me nyuam yog yus txoj sia ho tus txiv tsuas yog yeeb ncuab rau yus xwb

Niam txaus tog Txiv txaus nta xwb tseem kuv xim thiab tus niam Nkauj txa qaib ej Txiv nraug qus mas thiab khwv xim ho nej Poj niam nas.

Tug namtsev koj xaiv tau qhov yog lawm os! Yug ua nam yug tsis tau tuaj txhob tso tej mivnyuas ua tsuag os mog! Tog puab muaj neej taag maam nrav txiv tsev tseem muaj tug tog yug os mog

Kv pab like 6 koj lawm thiab

me niam tsev aw txawm yog kv los kv yuav kv cov me nyuam xwb os ib sim neej no yus cov me nyuam mas thiaj yog yus nplooj siab os tus niag txiv neej yog tus yuav tua yus ntag os mog

Every mother should be like you. Thank you for setting a good example.

Yog lawm o koj ua yog lawm

Yog lawm xai cov me nyuam

Smh send your new husband back. Hes a big baby! Send that big baby to his relative and go get ur children. You can always find dog like him anywhere. Your husband think hes smart. He can run away and let you suffer alone. But you got him really good!! You're a smart mother and a wise person. God bless you.

Tus me niam tsev kj ua yog lawm cov niav txiv zoo li ko kav tsij muab xa dab mus zoo dua os MOG

This is my personal opinion from experience. I am a divorced person myself and will say NO one in this lifetime can tell me not love my children and support them. 1. When will Hmong women use their independent to empower themselves and their children. It is time to stop waiting for Hmong men hand and foot. 2. Your family members does not love you and could careless about you. 3. This is a teaching moment for you to show your children that your relationship with your husband is not the kind of love and relationship that you would want your children to see it as love for examples. 4. Make sure to stand your ground when your children become successful do not let your 1st husband claim any success involving their life.

Koj ua yog lawm us tu sister

Tus niam tsev koj ua yog lawm kuv zoo siab kawg rau koj. U can replace your husband but you cannot replaced your children. Good you kick his ass out and bring your children home. Koj yog ib leej niam muaj lub siab hlub loj tshaj😘😘😘😘

I would choose my kids too!

Kj xaiv yog lawm os tus niam tsev aws tus txiv siab phem ntawv tsis txhob yuav lawm os mog.

Txiv dev twb tsis tau chaw nyob yus ruam es thiaj mus cawm nws peb cov poj niam siab zoo heev ua li koj yog lawm

Ib leej Niam zoo muaj peev xwm ces yuav tsum xaiv cov miyuam. Yog leej twg tsis tau raus tus viv ncaus no txhais khau ces nws yuav tsis tau taub.

Koj xaiv yog lawm. Tus neeg twb tsis hlub yus cov me nyuam ces nrauj mis zoo dua