It is definitely hard!

I loved puppy training. My trainer told us that a lot of hard work in year 1 leads to easy street for the rest of your puppy’s life.

Can I borrow your comment. I’m a new breeder and I’d love to put that on my KZfaq channel with the name anonymous of course. Such a true statement!

@@holygoldendoodles sure!

To your point, which is why a lot of people struggle with large breed work dogs(Pyrenees, St. Bernards, Newfies). They are cute on youtube videos but a lot of work in reality. Also, you really need the physical space to accomodate them. Their not stuffed animals!

Completely agree!

I agree too!! I rather for a person to return than to mistreat and harm the puppy

Aww thanks BusyBeTee. We are so thankful for the opportunity to work with so many wonderful families. Some times this happens but they made the right decision even though it was a very hard one to make. Sadie has been so much fun to work with.

@@DoodlesofNC I would much rather someone bring a puppy back to me rather than just feel "stuck' with it. I wouldn't want them to keep a puppy that either the puppy or them were not well-suited to each other.

Yes she’s a good breeder , and that person was responsible but there are millions out there that are not , not including average families having litters upon litters , unfortunately, they will not all have the same outcome!, Feel it’s about being responsible!, people and breeders are making babies over and over again , and a lot end up, abused and abandoned , when we have so many Pets in Shelters begging for a chance for a life and a forever home , a lot get euthanized every min of every day , including kittens and puppies , because we have an over abundance in this world !, I feel we need to encourage people to get their PETS FIXED! It’s super cheap , cheaper than having tons of babies !, let’s help , not add to this severe atrocity . Save pets lives !, ♥️🙏🏾

Beautiful baby

Thanks for your thoughts JC. Raising a puppy is a full time job at times. But the hard work pays off.

Yeah totally! I got my pup pretty late. He was already 14 weeks and even it was an adjustment for him and my family. Its not just a 24 hour care but I was also telling my small daughters that the puppy doesnt know we are "his people" yet. He has spent the majority of his life so far with his mother and the breeder's family raising him and now he is in a new environment. Thats a shock for anyone, on top of not knowing how to communicate, and also not having the wisdom and understanding of an older dogs. You need to have a lot of patience for sure.

So true!

100 percent agree with you!,

4You are just the best people with puppy's great.Tina.

Mo, thanks for sharing your thoughts.

I get cats and puppies young , 4 weeks at some cats , and dogs asap. Best to raise them up !!! If you have the time . Potty train for me is old fashion . Yes pads, instead of news paper ! But watch them , and scoop them up as you see they looking and run them outside ! Of course treat them . I don't think my chiweenie was touched much by humans , last pick of her litter ! She had big feet ! Lol . Soo in love as we brought her home .

I agree, i've always had the breeder hold my pup till almost 12 weeks. I really feel the pups need socialized with the mother and other pups to be well rounded. The pup doesn't seem to be so needy when taken away from it's litter.

@@kathyshipley3385 lol , I like mine needy !!! Mine are needy ! Love it !

@@DoodlesofNC That's very true. Don't you agree as a breeder?

It is a challenge for many! But one of the best!!!

Clearly I don't know what the situation in the household was. However, a person who's never raised a puppy would probably not have any true idea of just how challenging it could be. To accept that they were in over their heads and return the puppy to the breeder was the best thing for the puppy.

Me too!

The separation anxiety was exhausting. My Doodle is 6 months now but weeks 8 -12 she would scream and cry, whenever she wasn't in her crate, and couldn't see me. I just reminded myself that she is a literal baby and alone = death. She would lose her mind even though I work from home and her playpen was not even a foot away from me. We just practiced lots of me stepping out and then back and then one day she didn't care that I left the room to go get something lol.

Poor mother. So many births. She's going to die young if she continues to be impragnated so these people can sell her puppies. It's sad that this is a business for some people. Imagine impregnating women just to sell their infants, and then doing it all over again and again and again. Please find a new business. Thank you.

ONE WEEK? Sounds like there might have been some anxiety issues inthe family.

@@dukheelee7904 well in nature they would be getting pregnant every heat. As long as mother is properly cared for and retired no later than 6 she’ll be fine and go on to live a happy healthy life for years

I got my first puppy ever on my birthday week 2021. My birthday week was NOT pleasant at all. 0-/10 would not recommend.

This happens more than people expect! Its so worth it though once you get through the hard part! Thanks for sharing!

Julie, thanks for sharing. This is so true!

Better to return her than just dump her. We just acquired a black lab puppy because some asshole dumped her.

I know a lady that has two of these dogs like them...they are so badly behaved . Does she think they come fully trained or is she lazy. A man i see every morning has a HUGE dog and he's not a year old.. what a well trained dog he has...he's off the lead when walking....ignores other dogs when out and...he's fantastic...I saw him when they first got him and he did all the usual puppy things...six months later ...he doesn't even have to be told to sit near the curb.....the dog absolutely adores his owner...never seen a dog stare at his owner with such love whilst waiting for his command to cross the road....

You don’t know their circumstances. Don’t judge them. They did the right thing by returning him. They showed a lot of courage to release him. We ALL have gone thru a period of time in our lives when we think is this the right thing to do? I bet they feel badly as well.

Aine, thanks for sharing your experiences. Im so glad you pushed through the hard parts of puppy training. Its not always fun and at times can be defeating. I really appreciate you sharing! Hope you have a great week!

Yep. Honestly puppies have to be cute because they’re so much work.. I’ve had two Labrador puppies, and they are so different from one another. My first one had normal puppy biting ofcourse but man, my second one had absolutely no bite inhibition and it became really upsetting for me at times. My first one never barked either, my second one would stand there yelling at me constantly and then snapping and I genuinely wondered wether she was just gonna be agressive. Anyway, with training training training she’s turned into the absolute sweetest baby. But we’re all in agreement that if she’d gone to a family that didn’t have the time to be so constant with it she’d have been one of those labradors Given up to a shelter for being too crazy and too much for them. It’s amazing ti see how she’s turned out with me, and I am proud of that, but it really was very hard when she was little. Puppy stage is very cute at times, but I definitely prefer them when they’re past that stage and more trained.

I just signed up for this, and I remembered that it's not easy, but I had forgotten the feelings and doubt. Thank you for the reminder, as well as the reminder that it passes and that they are worth it!

It was a hard decision for them but the right one.

If the people had kids that made the puppy wild… I can understand. My boys would just grab the puppy and run an scream. When my kids were little there was no way I could have a puppy.

Cant agree more Pamela!

They wanted their money back...

That is amazing! I'd love to see a photo of her!

I am training my Maltese puppy to be a therapy dog because I work in the healthcare ❤

Agun, this is so true! Thanks for your comment!

@@DoodlesofNC my puppy doesn't like treats how can I still train him

@@BethKnox32 toys, carrots or anything your pup likes will help you to train your puppy.

yay for a summer puppy! potty training is much more tolerable than the cold nights and early mornings!

They had really kind hearts, just couldn't do it!

Routine is key!

I completely agree. Raising a puppy is a full time job! After some time, it’s so rewarding seeing them learn and grow. You’re right, patience is key! Thanks for sharing.

I was the exact same way when I brought home my little boy. I had watched videos on puppy training, read books, researched online, spoken with breeders and trainers -- none of it can prepare you for the real thing. It was so overwhelming and challenging, I cried for several days, and I wanted to contact the breeders to return him. However, I was kind of 'forced' (not by them of course, but through other circumstances) to stick with it. Now, I am so glad I didn't ask them to find a new home for him. He's still only 8 months old, but even in that time he has changed in a lot of ways. Still a lot of puppy behaviour, but he is my little light and joy! It's just the most wonderful feeling every morning to let him out of his room bright and early, and he's so happy to see me, whole body wiggling and rolling over for tummy scratches. (Still. The next time I choose to adopt, I think I might get a senior dog. Haha!)

I had a similar experience with my puppy for the first few months. I have wanted a dog for such a long time (for over 20years, since I was a child, but my parents never let me get a dog). So during my childhood to young adulthood I have researched and researched, read books, watched videos about taking care of dogs/ puppies, and training them, volunteered at helping out with puppy classes a large rehoming organisation, etc. Even with all that knowledge, it did not really prepare me for what having an actual puppy was like, especially within the 1st month. I was very sleep deprived and went through something I found out called "puppy blues"? But I kept going with training, and taking care of her (I swear my puppy was on another level of crazy! lol, apparently she was the naughtiest out of her littermates, the breeder said...) and I have learnt I needed much more patience than I had, and I know I had a lot of patience to begin with, as most people has told me... And I'm so glad I stuck to it, because now, 2yrs and a half later, even though she still makes me mad at times, and not as affectionate a dog as I would like, but she makes me so proud at other times with all the time and effort I have put into training her, and I also wouldn't trade her for anything.

@@kuroneko23hikari81 it’s incredible how you can go from wondering what you’ve done and thinking you’ve made the wrong decision to never trading it for the world, i felt the exact same way with my pup. i researched all i could, but dear god nothing prepares you for the real life thing 😂 she’s my partner in crime and it’s hard to imagine i could love anything more than her now.. it’s incredible what it teaches you

@@radasmrr I have a lot of pets, do you want to see them?

You are welcome!

And now she’s at a perfect home

Thanks Annette. Will do!

Great job! Keep training , it gets better with time! Thanks for the support!

If the pup was separated from mum at 8 weeks I understand why. I would encourage anyone to not buy from these "breeders".

Yay! Welcome to the doodle fam!

I love aussies!

Thank you! We love the nursery’s!

She is amazing

The love makes it worth it!

Hey Kamila - I do know certain breeds need that longer time, but these puppies are eager for training and so excited to meet their families at 8 weeks.

Thank you!

Keep working on your training. It will get better! Don't give up! We appreciate your honesty and your support!

Agreed! Thanks for sharing!

We agree. Thanks for the comment!

Couldn't agree more Edna!

I couldn’t agree more. Sadie is doing awesome!

Thank you for those kind words!

Thank you!

Thanks Carolyn. Glad you are enjoying the videos.

So glad this helped you! Thanks so much for subscribing!

Thank you!!! A lot of years in the making!!

Kelvin, glad you are enjoying the videos! Thanks for your support.

Sweet family!

We are too. Sadie is doing great with her new family!

That's awesome! Thanks so much for sharing your progression of puppy parenthood. It is a big commitment but sounds like you're become a pro!

oh my goodness you just made my night! thank you!

Thanks, Janice! We really appreciate your support!

@@DoodlesofNC You’re welcome!! 😉

will do!

I totally agree!

I’m So glad!

Wow, thank you 🤗

Thank You!

Thank you! Sadie is loving life with her new family!

We’re excited too!

Why thank you!

I know. She's doing great now!

Hannah, thanks so much for sharing your story! I completely agree with you!

Bren, this is a great idea for a video. We’ll put on our list to do.

You are so kind! Sadie is doing awesome with here new family!

😍

Aww. Thanks Donald. That means a lot to us!

That is awesome!

I’m so glad! They have a tribe!!

As long as you keep it up you'll be successful.

Breyona, thanks for your comment. Sadie has been homed with a great family.

I think so too!

Yes, I am a little dumbfounded as to what they would have expected with getting a new puppy ?? And after only a week, I duno ... It just seem to always surprise me when ppl don't realize what getting a puppy means. I duno, glad they returned her so she can find a loving home.

I agree. I think a lot of folks have unrealistic expectations!

Jana, you're right. They were overwhelmed and panicked on not knowing what to do. Im glad Sadie came back and she is now with a great family! Thanks for watching!

Erin, we agree!

Janice, you're right. I'm thankful its only happened 3 times in the last 8 years.

Thank you! 😊

Erin, thats awesome! Thats so kind of you to help out with your friends goldendoodle!

Thank you so much!

I hope it’s going well now!

I would love to help you with one!

I agree!

I am sure he will!

Puppies do very silly things !

We agree. They were a great family to work with. Sadie has the best personality! It’s so fun having a puppy her age around but a lot work too. Thanks for the kind words about our girls. Hope you have a great week!

Thank you!! So kind!

me too!

Thank you!

Oh I’m glad for you! It wasn’t until about 2 years ago that people started returning! I think Covid affected a lot of it! What do you breed?

We miss her so much! She’s having a blast though with her new family.

We'd love to see a photo! Did you get them from the same litter?

@@DoodlesofNC Yes. Two boys!

Aww. Thanks! We appreciate you.

Why thank you!

Thanks for sharing. Best of luck to you. Don't give up!

Sadie is fantastic!!! She’s Doing so amazing with crate training, and obedience training

Thank you!

Sadie has a home now with a great family! Thanks for asking about her!

Thanks Fatz. We appreciate your support!

Praveen, thank you. May God bless you too!

Good for you Susan!!! Your amazing!

Some people are not ready.

So true!

You can do it!

Our Bella is 10 also! Thank you!

@@DoodlesofNC I googled Doodles of NC and signed up for emails. Do you have lots of breeders on that page…I’m a bit confused.

Thanks Briana! We appreciate your support.

Agreed!

Great IDEA! Thanks for sharing.

Those are good thoughts, Frafor. Thanks for sharing your experience.

@@DoodlesofNC no problem! I heard loads of negative things about getting a puppy later than 12 weeks - like not being able to bond to them and socialise them etc but it’s just completely rubbish. You seem like the perfect pooch breeder

They have! We checked in today. She's doing great.

Thanks Lillian!