you should da do a henna totorial 🤔😋😉😁😆🤩🙃

What does desi mean if you don’t mind me asking?

@@grapeleiva2266 i think it’s like people from pakistan and places around there but i could be wrong

@@grapeleiva2266 desi translates to local and used for people from south asia (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh most of the times)

@@grapeleiva2266 South Asians basically

@@grapeleiva2266 desis are the people from south asians countries like india, bangladesh, pakistan, nepal bhutan, srilanka, maldives

I'm now way overthinking how I said this😅 x

@Natasha Hutt 👀 duly noted. I shall have to learn how to draw it properly 😌 thanks

I once passed by a Desi wedding shop and did a double take. They were so beautiful!

@snufkin 🌲 there have been quite a number of trans women-cis men weddings in India for years. It seems to be accepted. Trans men is relatively a new topic than transwomen in South Asia

@@snufkin9678 from my experience (I live in a country that is very conservative) I doubt that they will fully accept trans and enby ppl. While there are a few openly trans ppl here, many outsiders will always refer to their sex assigned at birth bc they mostly consider transitioning as a mental illness or simply something shameful to the person's family. I have never seen a desi wedding with trans/nb partners but I really hope they become more visible. As a transmasc enby myself, I wish I can have a traditional wedding in the future where I am accepted as the groom (the bride and groom have different wedding rituals to be followed for the few days that the wedding lasts). But personally I fear for my safety. I doubt that my family will accept my coming out, and when your wedding guests don't even understand or accept you, there's hardly a way to create a warm and joyful atmosphere worth celebrating. Priests who officiate the weddings are even more conservative and finding one who isn't transphobic might take a long time. They'd most likely worry about their own reputation in their professional circles if they married trans ppl together(since lgbt+ ppl are largely misunderstood in my country, religious ppl would say their existence itself is immoral, and hence, so is marrying them). While some priests are slightly more open-minded nowadays, it's still near impossible to find lgbt-friendly, specifically trans-friendly, ones. It's also useful to note that the priest's opinion usually tends to override what others think about the bride and groom's union(even the parents of both parties), hence their importance. A priest who backs trans individuals getting married would definitely force other ppl(mainly the families and wedding guests) to tolerate trans and enbies' existence to some extent

Me too, big smiles.

Me too! Congratulations I’m so happy for you both!

Talk a bout a fairytale wedding. I WAS trying to go to sleep early, but I just couldn’t stop watching. Each scene was a new joy. I loved, loved loved that it was the personal, blog version. It felt so real. Just like you two, and your love. 🥂

Congratulations! Thank u for letting us tag along!

So glad I'm not the only one with a FILTHY mind!!😂

I had the same thought 😂

Never heard of this custom. Is it British? Sounds slmost made up so people can laugh at bury the sausage!

@@katefrost8274 Relatable, have a nice day.

@@cheskaarana6097 you too, sweetie! 😘

Is that true tho? Cuz being pre t i cry a lot-

@@plateofspaghetti5029 It depends on the person. Some people find that they cry significantly less, and others cry significantly more, and others are minor changes or no changes. I would guess that it depends on how you are now - is your frequent crying because you have so much that's not how you want it to be that you can't handle much more? Or is it actually because of hormones? I think I cry (I couldn't pre-t) bc I was so focused on living that my emotions were kind of... locked off. Except when they exploded over. But tears weren't something that came from that. I hope that made sense

@@plateofspaghetti5029 I still cry on T, though I go through less distress on T which reduces how often the need to cry comes up.

I cry all the time while listening to music and watching movies/TV shows--I've been on T for 5.75 years and barely cried before T.

@@Tree-House69 this is a great way of explaining it bc yeah i still cry, but just less often in general now because i have less reasons to. not because i can't or think i shouldn't.

Same my friend.

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i'm the other way around. trans girlfriend with a trans boyfriend :D

@@brandiekstrom the best couples are always the trans ones lol

@@alexnoctum2951 at least we're always interesting

RIGHT??? I was listening to a podcast and I got the notification and I was like SCREW THAT IT’S SHAABA AND JAMIE TIME

I'm so glad i found another Mauritian here. I was actually shocked when shaaba mentioned it in her video

omg honestly one of my favourite life moments ever, he did so well! x

Exactly!

Same!

aww thanks for sticking with us, grateful to have you as part of our little online community! x

Thank youuu - I'm the lucky one! x

I'm kinda glaad n happy to find you here hehe

Best Wishes on your Wedding Day. 💐❤🤍

@@westzed23 thank you 🥰

Honestly? Same lol

you're beyond sweet! thanks for your support, so grateful to have you and this peachy community 💛