Loved this sit down chat toby, and hearing about how you got started . I can’t believe you have been doing this for only a few years, your content and everything about you is just wonderful. Sending you lots of love and congratulations to your sister ❤

Toby, you’re such a light. Keep being you and we’re all here to support and love you in every season you go through. We’re all figuring everything out, too! We’re all in the same boat so know that you’re not alone! Also, please know that those hateful comments are unacceptable no matter who you are. Christians are meant to love and it breaks my heart that you’re being treated that way. Thankful to watch your content, cheer you on and support you! Keep being you!

Loved this "sit down chat", It's so nice to see this side of you. Sometimes one just needs to let it all out.

Hello Toby. I recently came across your channel. I very much enjoy listening to you (and Mikey) and learning about your home decor aesthetics, local excursions, and now the podcast! You exude warmth and kindness. Thank you for sharing yourself. I look forward to more ❣ from me..... Vancouver Island, BC Canada 🍂

I Love your Video's keep them coming. Don't let the hateful people get you down, you seem to me as a very loving caring person and they are just jealous and try to bring you down. I think you would make a great parent.

For me…your channel is like going to see a friend. Your home is beautiful, cozy and full of life. Of course you have a million things on your mind, in the world we live in, that is universal. Your cottage is a refuge for me….I love dropping by…lol. Your styling, your husband, dogs, projects are all a wonderful blend of the life you have created. A work in progress…give yourself time..self-care, gratitude, be in the present and do what you love..the rest will indeed follow. At a time in my life where I seek refuge…(our pup is 16 and quite ill) it’s a gift to listen, absorb, relate, admire, and learn from your channel. Thank you for being you. (Mikey too!) 🌞

Toby your posts and vlogs are so inspiring, it could be talking about your home, cooking, relationships or feelings it always delivered with truth and passion. Know you are always enough ❤

Hi Toby, the banana loaf wow 😯, my mouth was watering 🤤 I love watching baking segments it’s so cosy 😊. I adore you, your family, your channel,everything, you’re very open and genuine which is refreshing to watch on KZfaq ❤. Your content is my favourite cooking, styling, hosting, decluttering, as a home body myself it’s perfect xx

A lovely honest chat that I’m sure so many can relate to. I hate that you have to experience such hate - this is not okay!! X

Toby, share information regarding your stove. Its GORG!!! Your channel is incredible. I would like to say THANK YOU for all yourn time and efforts.

Just wanted to say your videos and content really do give the most comfy cosy vibes! I’m having a little mental health depression blip at the moment but watching your videos makes me feel so warm and safe and I’ve loved watching them I always feel very inspired so thank you! 😊 x

Hi Toby, I'm dragging my feet in leaving a comment. I like to save your videos for when when I feel like treating myself, as I always look forward to seeing you post a new one. You are right, they are like a warm hug and I, like the rest of us love to follow you. I have followed you since you were working in finance and am glad you are still here. Congratulations to your sister Toby, how exciting for you all. Hope you and Mikey are both well

I just came across your channel, and I love it!! You such a lovely human being, you both are. So sorry to hear about hate, but remember, it says more about that person than it says about you. You need to do what’s best for you and your family. Looking forward to follow along your journey.

I just enjoy your channel so much your style is so lovely and warm and the relationship between you and Mikey is so so sweet ( you can see how much you two care for each other ) I'm so happy that I subscribe and I do look forward to each video... and that person doing all the hatred toward you well they are upset because they don't have the warm caring nature you have.

Ignore the haters Toby I know it’s hard but they’re not worth it.its your channel you post what you want to post we will keep watching .love to you and mikey 💖

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I’ve followed your Instagram since Nov 2020 🙋🏻‍♀️ I think you had around or just under 2k followers when I came across your page 🥰 your home taste and style is perfection in my opinion. Getting to see and know more of you through KZfaq has been a big bonus xx

Don’t be so harsh with yourself, you are doing great and you are both such a great inspiration for us. Thanks for sharing, take care ❤

You are quite right, hate is not okay in Christianity. The haters are failures at best. Often they are the opposite of what they claim they are. Sad people really. I know I should feel sorry for them but that is easier said than done! Thank you for the video.

Hi Toby It's so important that you do what makes you happy. Your content is so wholesome & your smile lights up the room. I was working long shifts for the health service throughout the pandemic & I've only just discovered your channel this year. It's so refreshing to see a good balance of homemaking & interior design. I love to unwind after a long, stressful shift & your channel is very inspirational & calming. Thank you for everything you do ❤x

Hey Toby. Sorry I’m a bit late ( bet you can guess where I’ve been). Absolutely brilliant video. That banana bread, what can I say only scrumptious. Chilli & cake what more could you want in Autumn. Wonderful chat I could listen to you all day. Shame on you at Neptune, thank goodness you left. You are much more appreciated on this channel. Have a good week. See ya soon.

Loved this! You did a great job Toby. Im interested in how you got your name out there to people for interior design projects? The haters can go away. Please waste no time on them. The problem is theirs, not yours. Keep on going. Love seeing you and Mikey x Nell.

I’ve been following for along time…🙋🏼‍♀️🫶🏻

Love your vlogs Toby, keep being you and enjoying life. Life is way too short for negative people who don't deserve your energy or thoughts xx. ps what colour have you used on your kitchen walls please and is it the same as your lounge colour, its neutral but still warm without being too creamy yellow in tint.

So sad to hear how you were treated at Neptune - you did the right thing in removing yourself ! Thank you for a warm, candid, real post (and lovely music!). Should you ever wish to consider adoption in future, 'New Family Social' in London are a brilliant resource for same sex couples. xx

Hi, I just found your channel and it’s very refreshing, with that being said, it’s also very sad to see that you’re going through the struggles you are currently with online bullying, job, personal. Take it from someone who is a bit older than you. Your journey is your journey I’m not anyone else’s. Fuck online bully’s, they are insecure and have low self esteem. You are young, and this is when make all mistakes and start over if its doesn’t work. It’s the best part of your journey. I think you have a career in online, you just have to believe and block out all of the noise.. in life they were always be noise. Looking forward to see more of your creativity.

We are 'all alot ' but realistically were actually not ..we're highly strung ..silently and emotonly ...we're constantly searching ..reevauuatng..we can't nor shud apologise for our earnest want to understand life ❤..u certainly address so many issues we all feel ...I see u like my second son the wonderful man I see evolving daily ...trust your own journey my friend ...there is no final moment but curves n sways that lead us to embrace our little ways xxx

Hi thanks for the hug ❤ all I can say we are all doing our best in life and if people need to be cruel we have to forgive them .On that note I do hope you ignore it your better than that X x

Hi Toby 💙 always love your content and especially today on how you started your channel but what I would like to say is this! Never feel you need to explain yourself to anyone! Not ever you are a wonderful caring person plain to see! Let the haters talk amongst themselves don’t even address or pay them lip service honestly not worth the effort and time you do you let them do their own sad failing lives as kind humans as they are clearly not! Some people struggle to see successful people like you stay strong Toby you are truly doing great 👍 xx

Hi Toby Love your channel A follower from Australia Country living in a cottage , but very different from yours Love yours, but think you'd love my bushland setting , a country cottage with a contemporary twist . Hope your life takes a more calm journey ahead , life's hard sometimes . Be happy Toby x😊

Oh, Toby. Please be much kinder to yourself, and I don’t mean that in an “get over yourself way” just to clarify intent. I see a lot of myself in you in my twenties! You’ll be happy to know that by your thirties, you’ll know yourself a lot better, and you let go of a lot of baggage because you’ll just be too busy living life and won’t have the time or room for it. I didn’t believe my cousin when she said that to me in her thirties lol but it’s true! I sound like a total grandma, but I’m only 37! 😂😂 If you decide that you want kids, you’ll know when. Like you said, your friends aren’t there yet either and you’ll definitely need friends and family that do have kiddo’s of a similar age because it really does take a village lol! Get to a place where you feel steady and settled within yourself and the rest will come, promise. It all happens so much faster than you think that it does too!

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I follow several KZfaqrs who use Telehealth for therapy. Would that be an option? You may well have resolved the issue since this vlog in October.

Toby, you and your husband are lovely. Just delete anyone who wastes their energy dropping homophobic comments on your videos--they simply don't count.