We Prepare For Birth
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2 жыл бұрын"Let me get my doll and pelvis and we'll get started!"
In this episode of fast forward, Jazzmyne and Lindsay learn the nitty gritty details of labor and deliver; plus follow the birthing and fertility journey of their coworker and her partner.
Fast Forward: On the brink of turning 30, Jazz and Lindsay take on the ultimate challenge: motherhood.
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@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth is such a fun teacher! I loved her “doll and pelvis” session. 😂
@maabmohamed1107 2 жыл бұрын
I’m about halfway through the video and I just want to say they’re so strong, miscarriage can break a lot of people and a lot of relationships. Not to mention most people don’t treat it as an actual loss so you may not even have time to grieve either. So happy and proud of them
@JustCallMeBo1 2 жыл бұрын
*I love all these parenting videos! They're so soothing and I can't explain why lol. Even amongst the chaos Jazz and Lindsay seem like the type to keep each other calm.* ❤
@Bmarie9445 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously! Loved them since buzzfee* so grateful they are making content still and the ogs have as/is 💖💖👑 absolute flawless queens , love you girls!
@sadiewhite1464 2 жыл бұрын
@Am cat. yiiuhyyoyoeoj
@sadiewhite1464 2 жыл бұрын
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@sadiewhite1464 2 жыл бұрын
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@micro5298 2 жыл бұрын
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@tahtyanascruggs5150 2 жыл бұрын
Yael finding out her eggs are "biologically gay" is the funniest thing I have ever heard!!
@hayleygrimes8804 2 жыл бұрын
I know, like stop. I didn't know eggs could be "biologically gay" until I thought about it and remembered that they occasionally do reject sperm.
@UKissMyAsh 2 жыл бұрын
@@hayleygrimes8804 exactly lol they so silly
@gujrajsingh5003 2 жыл бұрын
Down
@gujrajsingh5003 2 жыл бұрын
@@hayleygrimes8804 w
@haleypenner9124 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@weezyzoinks2879 2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry, im so happy for them. I had no idea pregnancy was like this, my mom has had miscarriages when i was a child but she never showed sadness around me, im so grateful for my mom
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
Lindsay: “That’s when the water breaks.” Instructor: “No.” I thought of the same thing for a second though 😂
@ruffridge02 2 жыл бұрын
She said it with so much confidence
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
Molly, sending my condolences and lots of love your way. Yael and you deserve the world.
@Moondragon1821 2 жыл бұрын
Awww, baby came out and the moment she started crying, I started bawling my eyes out. Miracle of birth!!
@slay1363 2 жыл бұрын
I love this best friend relationship. Jazz and Lindsey are amazing!!
@BlueMoon3l3b 2 жыл бұрын
Midwife: “it turns on its own!” Lindsay: “weird” That was exactly my reaction watching my son come out of me. He just magically rotated 😳
@MikkiMagic 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 8 weeks away from my due date. I'm starting to get scared! But I'm so excited to meet my baby! I love the information that comes from these videos and seeing the girl's reactions to this stuff 😂
@R.S.546 2 жыл бұрын
When it happens you’ll just know what to do. No amount of classes can prepare you for the way it really happens and your maternal extinct kicks in and takes over. It’s a trip! Good luck!
@aicilaazlabas934 2 жыл бұрын
Don't be scared girl. It all happens so fast especially if u get the epidural u have nothing to worry about. But if u go natural it will hurt the worst in the world but like I said it's fast. All worth it. Baby is gonna be the best thing.
@Hiislisa 2 жыл бұрын
i'm also 8 weeks away! i'm due Feb 10th
@liveinluv 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to explain how birth is, I had an epidural that helped a lot. Man do you just feel so much love for the little person you created. Prepare for them pushing on your stomach to shrink your Uterus. Congrats!!!!
@ruthsoto1754 2 жыл бұрын
I know it’s so scary but everything will be ok. Your body knows what to do! Just make sure You learn breathing techniques. Those helped me so much! And when it it comes time to push take a deep breath and give it all you got. Epidurals can be your best friend but that’s up to you. I gave birth 10 days ago and the swelling of the legs was tough for me and walking helped lots. I wish you a fast and safe labor and delivery❤️❤️❤️ you got this mama 👊🏻
@CurlyAndCurvy 2 жыл бұрын
I LOST it when Jazzmyne said "I want twelve." Hope her partner didn't faint when they watched that part! 😆😆😆
@stephaniemurphy2298 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love the transparency of this video especially with Molly and Yael. I have had 2 miscarriages and really do feel like people think of it as taboo to talk about. I luckily have 2 healthy kids that I am so thankful for. Enjoy your little one 💕
@nuyabeez 3 ай бұрын
I also had 2 miscarriages and 2 healthy kids. I love the ones with me and I miss the ones that aren't every day.
@pamelaleannefreeland9025 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to the new moms! After everything they’ve been through especially! Beautiful! And I can’t wait to see what’s in our ladies’ futures! Lol (Jazz totally is gonna become a mom, if this video series is any indication.)
@IMessagePlots 2 жыл бұрын
*“Be honest who else is a few hours late”😂*
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
Each episode is equally chaotic. We Stan that!
@bluemusic14 2 жыл бұрын
Im 37 weeks and 5 days! So glad this video shows so many aspects of birth and I cant wait to meet my little girl! Seeing the newborn baby made me want mine even more hopefully she comes soon and not super past her due date.
@sarahbrough2685 2 жыл бұрын
As a momma of 2 and an angel baby these videos just get me in the feels. I’ve cried with each one because I’ve experienced some aspect of each video. Hats off to you both for amazing content. Sending you both lots of love 💗
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
Yael and Molly’s child has been styled so beautifully. YASSSSSSSSSS!
@jnmellinger 2 жыл бұрын
What a great informational video. I'm 3 weeks postpartum and honestly giving birth was such an amazing experience. Crazy and painful at times, but so beautiful. My epidural wore off an hour into pushing, so I felt everything when I delivered (the ring of fire is real!) but I felt so strong afterwards that my body was able to do it!
@robbie-the-bee 2 жыл бұрын
I am LOVING this series- seriously my favorite one As/Is has done, I think!
@janielleramos3802 Жыл бұрын
Awww Molly is so Happy you tell she so excited when showing us there ready bag 🥹🥹🥹
@KatDJZ 2 жыл бұрын
I was so hoping they were going to do the labor simulations where they put the electrodes or whatever to make your muscles contract like you're in labor.
@Becksterz 2 жыл бұрын
When their baby was born I burst into tears. I can't have anymore kids (I have 3) due to medical issues and I'm almost 40, but this made me want to adopt or get a surrogate one day.
@gloriouschaosakamotherhood2140 2 жыл бұрын
Love this while series! I'm pregnant with my first and this has been so fun to see snapshots of different parts of this journey 💕
@Yasmina-ou 2 жыл бұрын
This was honestly my favorite series ever on this channel💛
@vcubed3047 2 жыл бұрын
Not going to lie I was tearing up when the couple spoke about their miscarriages. I had one before and I wasn’t far nor was I expecting (to be pregnant) it but I know I had one. It’s normal to have one but it really did a number on me because of the biological clock I guess in my body. I’m glad they talked about it because I know if I ever do want to have a child I’m not alone in the process of complications/conceiving.
@hayleygrimes8804 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I am crying. R.I.P. to the beautiful 4 angel children of this wonderful couple. I feel for them and the amount of grief they had is unimaginable.
@ekuriking7143 2 жыл бұрын
I'm here for it I'm here for it can't wait to see how this series progresses it's so helpful and informative to us moms❤️❤️❤️❤️
@emilynenno8862 2 жыл бұрын
I love this video which opens people's eyes to not only the beauty of pregnancy and labor but also the reality of it I just recently lost my 6 week old daughter and I am just devastated but seeing someone else's pure joy really helps me a lot
@witchplease677 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss 💜
@andreamaecaufield4246 2 жыл бұрын
Jazz and Linds....dream team. Every single video I love!!!!
@emiliamodrusan 2 жыл бұрын
This series was super informative for people that are not parents but want to be in the future!
@gabby3363 2 жыл бұрын
congrats molly & yael! your lil girl is so gorgeous 🥺🥰💕
@suzysavage1626 2 жыл бұрын
The giggling over a “birth toilet” took me right back to laboring with my son, about hour 12, when my midwife had me move to the toilet to push for a while.
@hehefunny4834 2 жыл бұрын
ive been watching this channel for 5 years and i still enjoy every video :]
@chazziegrosshandler 2 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine going through 4 miscarriages, I am so happy they have a baby now!
@wilsonalex4050 2 жыл бұрын
Thank s for restoring my happiness in my darkest days, during those period I invested £1500 and to my greatest surprise I got a return of £15,500 in just 7days him reliable can't be equated Mr Tom
@Sailorgirl1207 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are hoping to be pregnant soon. We've been trying for 3 years with no luck so far. Fortunately we haven't had any miscarriages, but it does still hurt every time I see a negative test.
@madisondavis4341 Жыл бұрын
How’s it been? Have you had any luck yet? wishing you some luck !
@Sailorgirl1207 Жыл бұрын
@@madisondavis4341 we did! It came as a big surprise to us. We still wanted to have a baby and decided to explore our options after we moved, we later found out I was pregnant!
@tylermariejones4392 2 жыл бұрын
I just got done watching this video and let me just say it made me emotional. First off my heart goes out to them , I can not even imagine having four miscarriages. I have experienced one and it is so hard. They are so strong to pull through that many ! Also congratulations on the new baby she is beautiful!! I literally cryed at the end because it made me think of when I had my daughter. I will say my pregnancy/delivery was not your typical experience so I took some of the birth coaches words with a grain of salt because there was no way I was going to be doing any of those positions like I had planned during my pregnancy. Overall though great video. It would be kinda cool to see you guys do one on non typical pregnancies i.e gestational diabetes, preeclampsia , HG ect.
@camilled8234 2 жыл бұрын
I was so scared to give birth, maybe I watched to much movies. I had a baby in June and labor and delivery was amazing and beautiful. Yes it's painful but less than I imagined. I would do it again!
@allie3320 2 жыл бұрын
Loving these pregnancy & parenting videos, as I am 23 weeks pregnant today!
@BucckeyTemple 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 24 💙💙💙💙💙
@allie3320 2 жыл бұрын
@@BucckeyTemple congratulations!!! What’s your due date? I am April 9th♥️
@wg2914 2 жыл бұрын
OMG why am I crying, I'm so happy for them
@aubriestephens4767 2 жыл бұрын
we need more parenting vids so soothing and educational loving itt!!
@laurenschenck5355 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I love these series so much
@vandanayadav11 2 жыл бұрын
I love jazmine and lindsay . They really drove me into parenthood🤣
@weirdxwonderful 2 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one in tears listening to Elizabeth's explanation on giving birth? Watching parenthood series make me reliving my own experience as a new mom. the pain, the happiness and all the hormones, it's all coming back to me
@tashrenee 2 жыл бұрын
That ring of fire is no joke! The moment I had my daughter,I was like “OMG this is the ring of fire they talked about!!” Lol
@Okstatechick 2 жыл бұрын
I look forward to seeing you both have babies. They will be SO adorable!!!
@Kalani_420 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who went all natural you can definitely do it! our bodies are actually so incredible!!
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like like I’m taking tips on fashion, styling and wit when I see Lindsay-JAZZMYNE videos.
@hailieeiceman2316 2 жыл бұрын
Love y’all so much I’ve been watching you going for a while now ❤️🥰
@PDIMERY 2 жыл бұрын
Those birth positions!!! My doctor refused to let me deliver on all fours and I persisted that on my back was not an option. Delivering on my side relieved so much pressure!
@McCelu 2 жыл бұрын
i loved this series!!!!
@scienceisfun4868 2 жыл бұрын
I had the violent shaking during labor also I didn’t believe them when they said it was normal. Glad to see it actually is a normal thing.
@Moondragon1821 2 жыл бұрын
Love how Jasmine described basically a queening chair for giving birth. xDD
@karengerber8390 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I learned *so much*!
@TheCarlScharnberg 2 жыл бұрын
This was actually informative. Good video.
@Scarlitcorpse 2 жыл бұрын
Wow it was ment to be for Molly and her spouse! It was a perfect mix . Bless them .
@sinaigarcia4258 2 жыл бұрын
like before watching this series im like “yeah totally im gonna have children in the future. like ima make my parents and my in laws grandparents and like my boyfriend/husband a father. like no biggie” but like watching this is like opening my eyes to like “ am i ready to take on such a very important very special job and like give birth to my future children and like have and grow and make a family?”. this series really opened my eyes like a lot. like it made me take back a couple of steps and like figure myself out first and like made me realize that if i don’t want any thats cool and if i do thats also cool.
@crystalc123 2 жыл бұрын
I give birth on the 27th (by induction) or sooner and I’m so nervous ! This really makes me feel better ❤️❤️
@that__girl__876 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud now everytime Jazz answers “Parenthood”
@mayagreenwald293 Жыл бұрын
im having a baby in august and this was so interesting, helpful and also sooo funny. loved it.
@kihwa230 2 жыл бұрын
I had literally pain in my but when I was in labor- that was the thing I was most surprised about
@mariahmccoy3630 2 жыл бұрын
Im about to be giving birth any day now an these videos are so funny .. Kinda just help melt the stress away
@adremsp 2 жыл бұрын
HEYYY!! I LOVE YALLS VIDS
@julnitti 2 жыл бұрын
Due in june 🤩 This was informative! 💪🏼
@ainsleyg123 2 жыл бұрын
“She gets it from my side of the uterus” idk why that phrase filled me with joy
@jessicaalston1989 2 жыл бұрын
I love these videos so much!!!
@kaiceeholloway8830 2 жыл бұрын
What a finale 😢❤
@IKEMENOsakaman 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!! I love it!
@savannahellis8888 2 жыл бұрын
Pregnancy for me was rough. I was sick the entire time. All 41 weeks and 3 days. I literally threw up in labor... lol i took no birthing classes or anything like that and my body just knew what to do. I was induced and it took 32 hours total. I went from 6cm to 10cm in an hour. Then i pushed 3 times and she was out. The worst part of the labor/induction was the waiting.... and the epidural wasnt fun, but it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be. It went in fine (even with me shaking, just like she said in the video. My entire body trembled like i was shivering from being cold but harder and uncontrollably. But the nurse said it was normal from the adrenaline and hormones) and worked great! I didnt feel much. Contractions were pretty rough after the first 14 hours before i got the epidural and they obviously worsened from there but with the epidural i didnt feel them as much. It did eventually wear off but they refilled it right before i pushed her out!!! I tore some, not too bad. They never did tell me how much, what degree or how many stitches i ended up getting tho... but also because i pushed her out so fast, she ended up having a lot of fluid in her nose and mouth so she sneezed and coughed a bunch after she was born. She was 7lbs 8oz and 20.5in. Now shes a year and one month old!!! Shes the absolute light of my life and the best thing ive ever done!!! Shes my tiny best friend and the soul reason i will be grey by the time im 30 (im 26 now) because she's a little hellion lol but i couldnt be happier orore fulfilled in life!!!
@lucyrobinson3063 2 жыл бұрын
This was posted 7 mins ago the quickest I have been
@hailieeiceman2316 2 жыл бұрын
Moms are so amazing
@Max_Loves_you Ай бұрын
Nora Mae is such a cute name! I know im late but i'm so happy for them!!!🎉
@anrach579 2 жыл бұрын
I would like to say a late congratulations to the two mommies, but I also wanted to address the mommy who lost the three babies. I too had 3 miscarriages. My last miscarriage, I was 40, and I decided to not try again. It broke my heart. Fast forward several years, and a little boy who needed a mom, came into my life. And he is the love of my life. I still feel the loss of my three babies, but having my little man in my life has healed me in many ways. I wouldn't presume to know where you are on your journey of healing, but I just wanted to share that you are not alone.
@sammybabi 2 жыл бұрын
Women are amazing ! I look at my 10week old everyday and still can't believe I made her and then pushed her thru my lady part! How!?!?!
@dorarevesz1356 2 жыл бұрын
They should try "labour simulators" 😌💖
@bunnybear9883 2 жыл бұрын
i loved the series
@BucckeyTemple 2 жыл бұрын
My first baby is due March 28th 💙💙💙 I hope he comes April 5th it would be my parents 23rd wedding anniversary. They had 3 girls and he’s a boy 🧸💙
@laurenschenck5355 2 жыл бұрын
You all are so smart and amazing awesome 👏🏻
@emiliamodrusan 2 жыл бұрын
Omg that was such a wild ride with that story of the women's pregnancy journey
@emmapemberley6111 2 жыл бұрын
I have a hunch about these that Lindsay is pregnant- either that or she is just really happy. She has a bit more of a glow in these videos. So I'm wondering if she's prepping herself and Jazz. Also, Jasmine and LIndsay, you would both be fun and wonderful mothers or at least aunties So good with that baby!
@deanlittle6480 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like the more I learn about this process of pregnancy and birth, the less scary it is... But the more repulsive... Like it helps ease my tokophobia, but reinforces my childfree status 😅 also- saying this as a trans guy, I also love how inclusive the language on this series has been!
@paigeh.9208 2 жыл бұрын
I’m the complete opposite 😂 the more I learn, the scarier it becomes… in the words of my developmental biology professor “pregnancy was the scariest thing ever for me, because I know TOO MUCH”
@shannonjohnson3574 2 жыл бұрын
That sound gets me everytime 😭
@tiffanyjeaneau6092 2 жыл бұрын
I had my last child on the bathroom floor😩 I was in labor through the night and didn’t know cuz I wasn’t in pain so when I woke up at about 7-730am shortly after I started having slight pain NOTHING like my first child( with my first child I felt like I was being ripped in half) so I didn’t think I was in labor. My baby was born at 8:30am we didn’t make it to the hospital it happened to fast. By the time I realized what was going on it was too late. My husband delivered her and it was actually beautiful and calming.
@heyhowareyouuuuuu4645 2 жыл бұрын
13:26 the dog is just like “who’s in there”?
@sandyquinn491 2 жыл бұрын
thank you- very educational
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
‘90s Pop, Show Tunes and Beyoncé? WE STAN THIS PLAYLIST!
@BucckeyTemple 2 жыл бұрын
What a great video ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@jdhlima 2 жыл бұрын
Jazz with bleached eyebrows looks so good omg
@codename495 2 жыл бұрын
She looks like a smily emoji with bleached brows.
@dealihemalone6820 2 жыл бұрын
Lindsay: Does this feel good? Jasmine: no!
@dingdongpoopoo7605 2 жыл бұрын
"you're saying that I'm gay on a biological level??" LMFAOOOOOOO
@eeveechuuu 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing video ☺️
@pinkpanda5696 2 жыл бұрын
The birth of my son was no fairytale, lol. I was in labor for hours and hours and hours before the doctor got to the hospital and was finally willing to give me an epidural. Labor pain was AWFUL. After all that, I had to have an emergency c-section due to fetal distress because I have a narrow pelvis (go figure....I'm a big strapping girl at 5'7" with big hands and size 9 1/2 feet). For the c-section, I had to be completely put under. When I woke up and they brought my son to me, it was all worth it. There was a soul bond the moment we locked eyes. He is, and will always be, the best thing I've ever done in my life. ALL births are magical, but some aren't so smooth and pretty.
@codename495 2 жыл бұрын
Your hand and foot size, nor your height has anything to do with the width of your pelvis. 5”7’ is neither big nor strapping and your foot size is half a size above average for the US. I’m a solid 6”, have the same size foot and a wide pelvis and it still hurt so much I would rather die than give birth without drugs again. Either I get the epidural, or a bullet. Never never never again.
@fritchnevaeh5072 2 жыл бұрын
My mom allowed me to be in the room when I was 12. It was a interesting experience, kinda traumatizing but it’s kinda crazy how women can do such amazing things like that.
@thats.so.l.i.l.l.i.e6530 2 жыл бұрын
I love all your baby videos 😀
@lavender1604 2 жыл бұрын
I have two children. First labor was about 16 hours, pitocin induced after water broke, no epidural. Second labor about 4-5 hours, shook, no epidural. Ring of fire is a very real thing My boys are 6 years apart, we had a loss in between, I was coming up on 11 weeks. That day will forever be engraved in me.
@thalso7257 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss
@rebeccaxx 2 жыл бұрын
i love babies but i could NEVER have my own, omg the pain... and im such a crybaby myself.
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
Ok, I thought this was going to extend to old age or something. But still, a lovely series!
@Bb77467 2 жыл бұрын
what is the link to ur bedframe and bedding its so cute?
@melindahall8936 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations she is beautiful. .✨🎊✨💜