Poor woman. Poor wife. Poor child. I hate how cheating has become the norm and even encouraged these days.
@gigglyfitzgirl6 жыл бұрын
Jay A Not just America. I was watching The Doctors and they said in France, 47% of people think there's nothing wrong with cheating.
@TH-eb7ob6 жыл бұрын
gigglyfitzgirl The French are very open, like they are sincerely cool with open relationships.
@carlitosway13306 жыл бұрын
Oh please, cheating has been going on since the dawn of time. It is nothing new. Grow up.
@gigglyfitzgirl6 жыл бұрын
Carlos Salas Are you ok? You seem aggravated for no reason.
@abalitalai25426 жыл бұрын
Carlos Salas it's been going on for a long time but she clearly stated that it has increased and nowadays is even encouraged. Look at the rap scene and now even pop culture that makes it cool to have 'side pieces'.
@thisisdanie6 жыл бұрын
SHADY HOOOOWWW??? Girl.. Not shady at all. That’s not what shade is. His wife needed to know. She was right getting straight to the wife. He definitely could’ve made her look crazy.
@meriem07106 жыл бұрын
Jeannie just wanted to raise her palms lol Gurl still has a long way to go to master slang and attitude
@latoyajohnson86956 жыл бұрын
Danie Lee Exactly,he would’ve spinned the whole story around to make it seem like it didn’t mean anything where in fact he was deceiving both women
@Mh-xe1zh6 жыл бұрын
Everyone knew it wasn’t shade except Jeannie lol
@Mel__215 жыл бұрын
I don't think she understands the concept 😂😂
@sharmorilewis6 жыл бұрын
Wow! That’s a crazy situation but the lady did the right thing by calling the wife. Good for you, Rachel!
@akilrampersad19016 жыл бұрын
I in my room clapping like a fool...great advice!
@arianawilliamson78106 жыл бұрын
Akil Rampersad ur not the only one
@underthemoonandoverthesky6 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is on point 100% with her comments!
@unclederrent.6 жыл бұрын
Pigs must be flying that this is a 6 min video
@unclederrent.6 жыл бұрын
LoveofVelvet yeah instead of just releasing the whole video they break up the video to two part videos
@imcharmed4evr6 жыл бұрын
That's EXACTLY how I handled it A, I called the gf and told her: I apologize, I didn't know, he's all urs, IF u want to keep him, but be aware, we dated for a year and a half (they lived 2gether for five years) and I didn't know becuz I went to ALL the family functions and was there on holidays, plus we were 2gether ALL the time, so I had no reason not to believe him. Shame on his family though, if they knew and let two women be deceived.
@ValerieAbena6 жыл бұрын
imcharmed4evr that’s so horrible on his part
@imcharmed4evr6 жыл бұрын
Akbbba 1 - Oh, I'm great now, that was years ago, could care less. He was SO Good to ME, Complete gentleman, very happy/pleasant, paid for everything, thought I found the perfect man, except the fact that he was living TWO completely different lives! His gf told me he would purposely argue with her so he could leave (I guess so he could be with me) he was physically abusive to her, when she told me that, I was SO ANGRY, I suggested at the time, I come over and we both kick his butt, though she didn't want to see me, so in tears, she declined, which was probably for the best, considering that would be assault. In the end, he and I had one last, in person, conversation and I ended our relationship. One CRAZY thing, when I ended things, I noticed he was missing half his ring finger, NEVER noticed and when I saw it, I was so shocked and said to him, how could I miss that?? He said he purposely hides it by only holding my hand to the right of him and keeps his hand half closed so u don't notice. I told him he shouldn't do that, it's a part of him and it's unique. All in all, at first I was furious, but after I calmed down, is when we had that chat and I forgave him and moved on. He did treat me like a queen & he was always a complete gentleman to me, just couldn't believe he could have two different personalities, but I'm glad he's out of my life for good.
@ddforever41886 жыл бұрын
imcharmed4evr girl, I have a story like that but it's not about me it's my cousin. Her situation was funny (😂😂 lord forgive me) she saw the man she has been dating on MAURY show getting a DNA test for 2 kids. I swear people are so sloppy with cheating, the sad thing is when she confronted him he said "so?" The asshole told her he never toke her seriously anyway. Well that's 3 years down the drain. All along she was saying something felt wrong whilst dating him and she was right. Your gut will never lie to you, if you feel that something is wrong, it truly is.
@matchapeachcat6 жыл бұрын
What did the wife say when you called?
@imcharmed4evr6 жыл бұрын
D&D Forever - The thing is, I never felt anything was wrong, I was just sittin in the suv, while he was getting gas, he went in to pay for it and I looked down becuz there was a piece of paper on the floor, I looked at it, it was his gym membership, but something told me to put it in my purse, I even argued in my head, but why, maybe God was speaking to me, so my gut said do it and look at it when u get home, so I did. It had a home address listed and a land line phone number, that was about 5 miles from where I lived, so I called it and low and behold HE answered, tried to change his voice and say HE wasn't there, so I hung up, drove down to that address and waited at the gate of the entrance, there he comes full speed ahead, coming to see me and explain, but when he pulls out, there I am, my car facing the entrance, he was caught! I just drove off, that was the end of the relationship.
@mad3inh3ll6 жыл бұрын
Man it’s so hard to date nowadays. Smh. Men do make us crazy. I do respect women who respect other women and don’t mess around with somebody else’s man. For those women u are the real MVP.
@tiffanyc83076 жыл бұрын
Maria Victoria yes girl it's hard dating
@powerparade72626 жыл бұрын
That's why you have to protect yourself and trust your intuition about relationships and don't be too fast/ anxious just to call someone "yours".
@icycici6 жыл бұрын
Pharaoh Qhalid Exactyl!!! Women always question why men are afraid of commitment, yet women dont question why they are so quick to jump into a relationship with someone they barely know!!!
@leavell91436 жыл бұрын
He has NO social media but they met on a dating site? Red flag right there.
@reneemechelle4426 жыл бұрын
Some women don't want to hear that they man out here cheating. Some women tried to Kill the Messenger.
@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely6 жыл бұрын
Renee Anderson I used to be friends with a girl like this. Pictures, voicemails, screenshots.......NOTHING would stand eith her.......She believed ANYTHING that man said out of his mouth.
@jaejae57826 жыл бұрын
All u can do is the right thing for the right reason (respectfully). Everything else is outta your control & not your problem after the fact. I guarantee u that u will come out better in the end.
@brendavargas60985 жыл бұрын
Yup when I found out I was being played and he was back with his ex, I told her how I did not know, I had proof too, but I was made to look like thot(excuse my language) and they are still together😂
@jasminerodriguez42053 жыл бұрын
Girl , same ! I don’t get it .... I would never Some girls don’t have dignity
@adillahamdani23806 жыл бұрын
I find adrienne's fingers so cute..omg..obsessed!
@iggychuck36796 жыл бұрын
This story had me all kinds of shook.
@eboniamoody86616 жыл бұрын
I recently started watching the real and this show makes me so happy everyday and it's super inspiring to see all women of color on a show that talks about real problems and keeps it real!!! I absolutely love this show and I would love to go some day
@Chaptersaudio6 жыл бұрын
I think she did the right thing, however....I hope she provided back up proof to substantiate her claims. I.E. copies of texts, photos, voice messages, etc. etc. Because sadly a lot of women hearing from some anonymous woman out of the blue claiming she was dating her husband could lead her to think she was stalking her man. Provide proof so he can't wiggle out of it. As for the ghosting aspect....hmmmm.....I truly believe in the theory of "Everything happens for a reason" AND "Be thankful for unanswered prayers" I have been attracted to two different men in my life that ghosted me and honestly, in hindsight, it was for the best. Never chase someone that doesn't want to be caught. So if these two men wanted me they would have made it known, the fact that they didn't, is signal enough they weren't interested in me. It's a hard pill to swallow, but it must be done. When they ghost you.....honor their decision and move on to someone that does want you.
@shalomchild74146 жыл бұрын
Adrienne has the cutest little hands 😊
@Jo_W19884 жыл бұрын
Like a mole
@ChanelleLockhart6 жыл бұрын
YES Let her know!!!! We got to look out for one another!!
@Miyieshia_Yvette6 жыл бұрын
I agree Tamera, Loni, & Adrienne! It's sad how you can't even get in a relationship without being detectives" facts Loni💯 like Tamera said she trusted her gut(which led her to the truth) and she dodged a bullet👏✊ and like Adrienne said as long you approach the wife respectfully and keep it one hunnid than its not shade, its called being a woman🙌👏☝
@waltbaby086 жыл бұрын
Girl the baby mama is in jail and gave up the rights to the child but doesn't like the fact that he uses social media.
@lianet7776 жыл бұрын
Can y’all hire Nyma Tang to do Loni’s makeup?? Loni is WAY too pretty to be looking gray. She’s a brown woman with yellow undertones, NOT gray.... I swear I’m not trying to be a bully or mean y’all, but Loni truly is too beautiful for this gray looking makeup....
@eltina216 жыл бұрын
Nyma never said she wanted to be a makeup artist. You don't need a very dark woman to do Loni's makeup js
@lianet7776 жыл бұрын
eltina21 Nyma Tang is just someone I happen to look up to, and actually, a dark brown woman who’s confident and will wear colors that are bright and stomp on those dumb rumors that black women “can’t wear this or that” is EXACTLY what Loni needs. In this case, a dark brown woman who oozes confidence and honestly can rock anything on her deep skin, is exactly what Loni needs. Loni isn’t as dark as Nyma but Loni could use advice from Nyma
@lianet7776 жыл бұрын
eltina21 we all need someone out there who can push the imaginary boundaries to inspire us. Loni might be under the impression that because of the skin tone that she is, that she can’t use certain makeup techniques, meanwhile home girl Nyma is very dark skinned and wears the same colors any other girl with any other skin color would. When I think of someone who’s black and knows makeup shouldn’t be limiting, my mind ALWAYS goes to Nyma Tang. I’ve met other dark black KZfaq women that do makeup, but Nyma is my favorite. She’s very educational, and I don’t think she even knows it
@eltina216 жыл бұрын
+Lianet Leyva see the main argument is that she's darkskin which is the main "lightskin argument" with makeup. You're exactly the fenty type I mentioned. As a very dark skinned woman myself I follow many dark skinned youtubers and followed nyma before she even blew up. all the things you said about loni are assumptions and the only reason you said nyma was cuz nyma = black, loni= black 😥
@Fartiosa6 жыл бұрын
Im confused as to why she looks ashy. Is it because the makeup is to light? 🤷♀️
@alyssaphillip54656 жыл бұрын
She did the right thing. because these cheaters does do their madness and bring disease home to their spouse
@NiqLT6 жыл бұрын
I actually don't have any social media. Does KZfaq count? lol but I do agree with Loni. The average person does and sometimes women ignore the signs that the man is lying. Good advice ladies.
@BlueSkullX6 жыл бұрын
S Talley KZfaq counts somewhat lol. Everybody has something at least a Google account
@Troy_Johnson6 жыл бұрын
S Talley KZfaq is a form of social media
@tarzzamz20676 жыл бұрын
Some people dont have social media. Other than a youtube account I dont have fb, insta, snapchat etc
@debradiaz36406 жыл бұрын
Tarzz amz me too! Only you tube. Staying drama free and very private.
@𝔼𝕕𝕚𝕥𝕖𝕣_𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕖𝕫56 жыл бұрын
Same here.. I’ve never had social media
@tiffanyc83076 жыл бұрын
Me either it's just to messy especially facebook
@brendavargas60985 жыл бұрын
I have Snapchat and do not really use Instagram, i find that it’s hard when you want to connect with new people and make new friends. For all the people who don’t use social media much or at all either, how do you deal with that? Or do you just have like a close group of friends that you call and text?
@srianna04165 жыл бұрын
Same,people think it's very strange.
@realtalk94046 жыл бұрын
I love what Adrienne & Loni said, tell the wife the truth but be respectful
@bayleefechter44386 жыл бұрын
yep Adrienne thats the right and polite way to do it.
@classicstorm6 жыл бұрын
I actully know someone who was in the same situaion and she contacted the wife and the wife blocked her...she showed recipts and everything but the wife blocked her...
@SXNIAREYNOSO6 жыл бұрын
Tameras story LMAOOOOOO she felt like she really proved a point... he was probably sleeping girl 😂😂😂
@monikaranee6 жыл бұрын
Lol, the way she was looking off to the side like she was really speaking into a phone had me rolling.
@Mh-xe1zh6 жыл бұрын
But he never answered her back
@Abena_Goddess875 жыл бұрын
🤦
@deedidi92056 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeees Adrienne I love everything you said! I totally agree with you. Woman code is important
@keysx35 жыл бұрын
Tamara was passionate on that mans voicemail 😭😭👏🏾
@tianichole82386 жыл бұрын
the comment that Loni made is hilarious because I know so so many people that do not have a social media or anything close so that is not true that "everybody has something" today's society makes me laugh just the assumptions we make 😂😂
@nicolejustiniano95976 жыл бұрын
A six minute clip? 😱 I hope that they keep this up! Love the Real! :)
@RosannaMiller3 жыл бұрын
God bless that beautiful queen!! She was there for a fellow queen! Respect!!
@milcahnd6 жыл бұрын
Yes Loni i agree with you 👏👏👏
@ThePltsweet6 жыл бұрын
Loni!!! Thank you! Some men keep calling some women crazy bitches but they're the ones that make them crazy!
@peanutjelly7276 жыл бұрын
I'm all for telling the other woman what's going on, but I would just make sure she doesn't know where I live or where I work. Some of these women are crazy and may not recognize that you're doing them a favor. Instead they think you're the bad guy and will try to fight you instead of their man!
@roshanaadams87856 жыл бұрын
Yessssssssss girl, you did the right thing
@lulunu91396 жыл бұрын
Not everyone does social media, Loni. It is possible.
@_randomtube6 жыл бұрын
Loni Looking good😍😍
@tiffanyc83076 жыл бұрын
I don't have social media because all of this shady stuff on social media
@lilmakori6 жыл бұрын
Ok if I was this wife, I would team up with this woman and plan to take the husband down.
@Melathegreat6 жыл бұрын
Story of my life. I’ve had 2 men that tried to date me and one was married, the other was engaged with a long distance relationship. Moral of the story is, I understand what signs to look for and no point in telling their significant other. They never leave the guy. 🤷🏻♀️
@miltonmckay33316 жыл бұрын
I think it’s great that she had wanted to tell the wife but um that’s just as risky cause sis might want to fight you now....🤦🏾♂️😂😂
@monease10736 жыл бұрын
Guarantee this wasn't his first affair and probably won't be his last.
@adrianewilliams53196 жыл бұрын
There are some people that don’t have social media
@TheSilentOneSpeaks6 жыл бұрын
Random but I'm loving Tamera's hair!
@godsgirl72016 жыл бұрын
My boo Recently made me go crazy & didn't realize it
@catinaumekowilliamskohn6 жыл бұрын
Good Job 👏🏽I did the Same thing I Felt Horrid to do so. But, now I’m very cautious and enjoying dating me and Celibate for a Reason.
@josephine429016 жыл бұрын
Great job ladies!
@mysilverscreendiary6 жыл бұрын
Integrity and strong moral fiber needs to seriously make a comeback..smh
@Krzrrazrrokr6 жыл бұрын
It's good the wife didn't go off on the woman on the phone talking about some " girl my man would NEVER DO ME THAT WAY "
@britbritnicole92116 жыл бұрын
I kinda disagree with Loni. I know men and women who don’t use social media at all and don’t care to lol
@chelly2816 жыл бұрын
Woooow this situation happened to me!! I was dating this guy for about 6 months and in the end he was married with a child, and lied about his age, name, EVERYTHING!!! I told his wife right after! Good riddance
@keonannam87506 жыл бұрын
Yes A good good advice... wisdom.
@BrittanysMusicUtube6 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with them.
@tiarrajohnson85006 жыл бұрын
Yaaas Tam tam!!! Follow your gut!
@javiruiz44056 жыл бұрын
Tam! Maybe he is sleeping and he stopped talking to you because you seem very needy. He dodged a bullet!!!
@Mh-xe1zh6 жыл бұрын
Javi Ruiz yeah but he didn’t even answer her the next morning...
@5exxiiBitch1016 жыл бұрын
Always look up the person you interested in. It saves you so much time. Simply google their name.
@jaymesigler64026 жыл бұрын
She deserves to know absolutely. I knew my ex's friend was cheating and he wouldn't let me say anything. We had a huge fight because if you are Ok at with your friend doing it, you'd be ok with yourself doing it. Both my relationship and hers were abusive and now, 4 years later, we're both free.
@marren5736 жыл бұрын
She may very well not be the only woman this guy is cheating on his wife with...
@hopeowl27396 жыл бұрын
my name is rachel too and i dated a guy who told me he was renting a place from his ex. there were a lot of red flags but it was a very casual physical relationship and didnt want to put too much thought into it unless the other shoe dropped. until his wife called me. had to stop it right there
@shaynanichelle86216 жыл бұрын
I was in a similar situation with the first girl but he ended up getting with the girl and ditching me, so I told her that I didn’t know anything about him being with her and that I thought him and were still a thing. She was really respectful and it wasn’t an issue and I apologized if I made her upset.
@LiLmSzDiVa3 жыл бұрын
I’d definitely tell the woman because I would want to know if I were in that situation. She definitely handled it well. Ladies ALWAYS make sure you have some sort of proof/receipts to back up your claims.
@mrsmisty35706 жыл бұрын
Great Advice.
@rukhsaar47146 жыл бұрын
I LOVE TAMERAS ATTITUDE!! 😍 got a girl feeling some kind of way 😍🤣
@VanessaTorres-gm7zg6 жыл бұрын
Loni is so right!!!! A guy that refuses to add you on social media is SO SHADY!! my shady ex had me on snapchat only. 🙄
@WetNosesHappyTails6 жыл бұрын
This happened to me. A 29-year old guy (who was my classmate in biology) kept asking me out for about a month. He said he’s: single, never been married, he’s looking for a serious relationship. One night, I was just bored and searched him up on FB, the guy was married and has 2 kids already, he would always post how he loves his wife and all. I blocked him right away.
@kartert.jefferson67596 жыл бұрын
Poor woman. I feel bad for her. And it’s good for her that she told the wife what happened because that husband was the one being shady. And who don’t have some type of social media
@ejvega6 жыл бұрын
I actually don't have any social media at all. I hate it. So I would probably have believed the guy. I'll just have to be careful from now on I guess.
@Troy_Johnson6 жыл бұрын
ihacom1 KZfaq is social media lol
@ejvega6 жыл бұрын
TroytheGamerHD I get what you're saying, but not really though. It's much harder to find a person on KZfaq than it is to follow them on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc. I'm sure you get what I mean.
@trashawn.w5 жыл бұрын
I don't have ANY type of social media Loni. No FACEBOOK, No TWITTER, No INSTAGRAM, No SNAPCHAT, No NOTHING!!! No going off or nothing, just letting you know.
@anewno62406 жыл бұрын
I see both as shady. I had a coworker and she found out her husband was cheating on her because the woman dropped by my coworker's job to tell her that he's cheating. My coworker was already crazy so she went all the way crazy scaring all the employees. When the other woman does stuff like that, she wants the man to be all hers so shady. Poor wife dealing with cheaters
@irisrenoj46516 жыл бұрын
If the baby's mother wasn't in jail before she might be now.
@bekbamf37366 жыл бұрын
And when Tamar said they've all been side chicks Tamera was like i don't know what you're talking about...but now she revealed it...lol
@jazzdaaagreat5936 жыл бұрын
I watch y’all everyday on KZfaq and tv
@melina44085 жыл бұрын
I hope yall keep the same energy for august alsina when it become a topic on the show
@DoneWith-fx2qy6 жыл бұрын
Nope, I’ve told the wife that the husband was trying to slide in the DMs and in the end the one ostracized was me. I knew everyone personally so it’s a bit different but I learned to ignore and block the man, keeping it going. If he’s a cheater he’s going to continue doing it and one way or the other she’ll find out. I just won’t be the one to do the telling.
@amminarose6 жыл бұрын
PREACH LONI!!!
@iMolikaMenThlang6 жыл бұрын
Notification squad!!
@faithfullee96896 жыл бұрын
Oh I’m sure the wife knew. There are many who don’t have social media. If they do, it’s for business. I’m not no weekend girlfriend, or date. Look very closely, my detective is God. He comes through all the time with the truth.
@nikitapardis27394 жыл бұрын
I'vE always noticed that when guys try to jump into things way too quickly ita a red flag that for me has always led to finding out hes already in a relationship. They wanna skip all the bs n build a "relationship" with you so quickly because its just an affair and he only wants the good. Pay attention when a guy is like acting IN LOVE with you after a few days
@SuperMakeupOnABudget6 жыл бұрын
They need to switch up Loni’s undereye concealer and powder situation.
@nadinedhatly24006 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know where to get Tamera's outfit? I need it, it's so lovely! All the ladies look so nice in this clip
@kp72236 жыл бұрын
The beginning of this letter is so familiar. I feel like too many of us women go through this. "#MichaelSmith"
@juliamyron73476 жыл бұрын
I will tell the woman and i will be respectful.
@Buttercupaatea6 жыл бұрын
side note: tam tam's dress reminds me of the sleeves asian pears are wrapped in (no shade..)
@daniellereid1316 жыл бұрын
So would u advise someone to tell the other girl when you realize that they are being cheated on with u? Asking for a friend...
@santanagonsalves64616 жыл бұрын
Tamera's bun is glorious.
@SpanishBarbieWorld6 жыл бұрын
Ok lani makeup artist does her so dirty . The concealer ... I love all the ladies of the real! And how they call people “bitch” 😂🙌🏼
@Allybaba556 жыл бұрын
The midwest is small. Homie was probably right over the border in Michigan chillin lol.
@ObedienceOrSacrifice6 жыл бұрын
I know a lot of ppl who don't have SM pages...
@mystique9076 жыл бұрын
He's on a dating site but has no social media? 😂 yh right!
@classicstorm6 жыл бұрын
Did Loni say the wife may not having nothing to do with it so she should have contacted both of them?...that doesn't even make sense of course the wife doesn't know...
@Xk8rsx6 жыл бұрын
It would be shade if she knew and didn’t do anything. She did it right by calling her and letting that poor girl know what he was up too. It sickens me how in situations like this like instead of doing the right thing and calling the wife or gf and being honest, the women turn on each other rather than the MAN WHO WAS PLAYING BOTH OF THEM! Like...I will never understand that.
@JackGeezy856 жыл бұрын
They freaking call this "shade"? Shade was Tamar dragging Jeanie through the filth on girl chats LOL
@bookbag64326 жыл бұрын
Isn't googling someone the first thing you do or are people jumping in the sheets before talking to them? I have never been with someone who was in a relationship but I also have not been with multiple people as i make sure to get to know someone before sleeping with them.
@brianda57936 жыл бұрын
Even tho some women will still stay with the man, and maybe even start fighting with you "for trying to take her man"
@leaa91656 жыл бұрын
Thats why I don’t entertain a man until I did my research
@deepalin24816 жыл бұрын
amen tam ♥️♥️♥️
@malakali69505 жыл бұрын
Really!! The story seems like a movie story. Strange world.
@renlife23376 жыл бұрын
Everybody does not have Social media.
@indigobeauty16 жыл бұрын
I'm with Adrianne on this one - but to be honest, I have jus disappeared in the past as well after finding out. 🤷🏻♀️