HOW THE INFJ OVERCOMES ADDICTIVE & SELF-DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR

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10 күн бұрын

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Let's talk about overcoming self-destructive and addictive behaviors that are unique to INFJs. Find out how to detox, seek rehab, and break free from harmful patterns for good. Even though society doesn't often highlight these issues, it's crucial for INFJs to tackle their self-sabotaging tendencies. While the impact might mainly affect us, recognizing and addressing these behaviors is essential for our personal growth and well-being.
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@Wenzes 10 күн бұрын

What is helping you overcome addictive unhealthy behavior as an INFJ?

@tallgirlmodel 10 күн бұрын

I’ve explored the hobbies since divorce that I did not allow before. Finding motorcycle riding to be very helpful

@sila8219 10 күн бұрын

My religion islam .work . connection with freinds and family.consuming positive on social media and KZfaq. Growth .and work again.getting things done and getting better on things

@april2702 10 күн бұрын

THERAPY, LEARNING ABOUT MYSELF AND MOVING OUTSIDE OF THE USA.

@nostromois 10 күн бұрын

Logic and spirituality. And growing up.

@hayed2454 10 күн бұрын

Animals and Spiritual Life ❤️‍🔥🪷

@corporaterobotslave400 10 күн бұрын

I find that a sense of "peace" is exactly what I need and want and create and try to maintain in my life. It's not "boring", it's just the opposite. Having spent so many wasted years with drama queens and undisciplined jealous fools sabotaging all my efforts I find that all I want now is to be left alone so I can build my own Empire without any annoying set backs and interference from other people. Men in general desire PEACE in their lives, not constant engagement and excitement ~ that stuff is for those who haven't experienced life enough yet. I've seen just about every band I've ever wanted play live, I've been all over the US and a lot of Europe, I've helped win 2 Academy Awards, and divorced a Hollywood model. So I've been there done all that already. It's now MY turn to take things @ MY speed, develop my talents as I pursue my Empire building. Peace.

@carolwest6095 8 күн бұрын

Interesting

@petervervaene5301 10 күн бұрын

Realizing and accepting boredom has been the greatest start to balance

@larapunk3532 9 күн бұрын

How you did it? I can't accept it

@petervervaene5301 9 күн бұрын

@@larapunk3532 if you can't accept it that means your ego is at play, let you sink to the bottom.

@lindateuling7862 5 күн бұрын

I used to have big time problems with depression (not all INFJs do). However, in my pre Myers-Briggs days, I learned that teaching did wonders for my mood. And now, knowing about Myers Briggs in general and INFJ in particular, I definitely see the dynamics of extroverted feeling and extroverted sensing for focusing outward. My first experience of teaching on a professional level came with giving piano lessons and later in the classroom. Classroom teaching especially helps us practice Se because we're constantly having to make new plans, write them up, submit them and use them. I'm not saying that all INFJs should be teachers, but I do know that it helped me immensely.

@maureensidor3532 3 күн бұрын

As a child, I played "teacher" all the time. In fact, that is what I wanted to be when I grew up. I was 8 at the time I remember "teaching" my "students" everything is vibrating and has a frequency specific to that which is vibrating. Everything is energy and has movement (vibration). I also remember explaining ueven though our human eyes can not see the vibration, it doesn't mean it's not happening. We humans actually have limited eye sight, in comparison to the entire light spectrum. The fact that I remember this like it was yesterday is all the validation needed.

@stephenbesley3177 10 күн бұрын

I am very self destructive. It is the reason why I shut myself off. I don't trust people generally and at 63 I have no idea how to turn things around.

@april2702 10 күн бұрын

❤❤❤FIND A THERAPIST THAT "YOU" VIBE WITH..IT CHANGED MY LIFE SIR. JUST PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP.😢❤ YOU'RE HERE FOR A REASON. EVEN IN YOUR 60s! ONE ❤LOVE INFJ TWIN.

@NorthStarPNW 4 күн бұрын

I agree. As a senior, I have adjusted and accommodated all my life. I'm exhausted and society has changed so much recently that I no longer have the energy or interest in trying to figure it out. I'm retired and quite content - even happy - to move away from neighbors, go into town once or twice a month, and live MY life for me. Frankly, nobody else cared about me anyway, so it's win-win.

@AnneChandreamer 9 күн бұрын

My extroverted pleasures are dancing, singing, cooking, baking and of course, writing. I miss doing these ..

@DearYoungerSelf111 9 күн бұрын

Great list! Learning a new recipe to cook leaves me no choice to be present because of the sheer process (measuring stuff - keeping an eye on the stove - etc.). My thoroughness as an INFJ benefits me in the kitchen and my natural propensity to improve (ie. Perfect a recipe).

@Abulina09 9 күн бұрын

This came at the perfect moment, I just had another blowout with an abusive person who loves emotionally manipulating me and treating me like the emotional garbage can to self regulate and self soothe... I'm so tired of the limerence cycles and overlooking peoples' bad behavior 😔😔😤

@tnt01 9 күн бұрын

Go no contact.

@sunshinesunflowerz1647 10 күн бұрын

I have been trying to create a peaceful environment for myself. I never knew about limerence until this year, in this particular situation; however, I have thought about 2 people who I thought were for me, because they have gaslighted me into thinking such, when it was the opposite. Now, I am all about ME and God; like I wanted years ago. It's all about balance for me. I will complete my schooling, continue to fix my finances, and stay consistent with my eating and exercising habits. I know myself: I am standoffish: keeps me outta negativity amd things that doesn't pertain to me, I ask 'why' questions and tell the truth. I will continuously choose me because I love and respect myself! Always have. I rebuke shame. People will not shame me because they choose to misunderstand me. Thank You, Wenzes! An INFJ southern woman.

@savanna.phoenix 6 күн бұрын

Very true, creating a new path starts off confusing and chaotic until it starts to turn into your new safe place cause even if u Arn’t where u want to be yet, you know you are moving away from illusions / your addictions and that’s all you need to know to know you are going the right way in balancing out your inner functions !

@GeckoCraft13 7 күн бұрын

Seeing utopia in my mind is actually a STRENGTH I have as an INFJ because even if it's something I can't fulfill in MY particular finite life time, I still use it as a beacon of hope when life gets tough which makes the possibility of the utopia coming to life as infinite. As soon as I LOOK for people to validate my utopia, that's when my emotional well-being is bad. I follow my dream of being a cartoon designer and world builder while being tapped into a mindset of infinite intelligence, not boredom. Everything is ON my way, not IN my way! Everything about the world is beautiful just as it is! The fact is, as an INTROVERT, right...as an INTROVERT I don't look for people to validate this perspective I have of reality. I know they will never understand it because most people think that pondering concepts and ideas philosophically is USELESS because it's assumed to have no practical benefits in the real world when actually it gives a big picture perspective of how nature works.

@Wraith_911 10 күн бұрын

😜 10:20 😜 i'm ready for boredom 7+ months - no caffeine or alcohol or 'soft' drinks quietly door slammed the planet grey rocking before creating firewalling weird how solitude becomes healthier than connection

@KimberlyDo 8 күн бұрын

This one came right on time, thank you dear Wenzes ❤

@kencornwell 10 күн бұрын

Wenzes has us going deeper and deeper. I love it. ♥

@mohaCave 9 күн бұрын

Always linked challenging people to growth. But I realized it is extremely selfish and painful, it is yeilding, but you never get to celebrate your successes.

@marandakeith399 10 күн бұрын

damn. this video hit more than any others lol

@southernroots3896 10 күн бұрын

Ditto. Kinda scary how deeply this resonated, time for me to take this issue seriously and make changes ❤

@larapunk3532 9 күн бұрын

I can't understand :"What feels like bordem is actually inner peace" "Healthy infj default state is bordem" HOW!!? PLZ explain this point 😭

@dhairyavyas3698 5 күн бұрын

This is quite good. Thank you for creating this video. Am learning a lot about myself by watching your videos and its making my life better. Thank you Wenzes ☺️

@matthewsolidum3494 9 күн бұрын

I am highly obsessed with this video! This is what I go through as an infj in yearss 😊. I started my personal growth journey since 2022, I've seen the incremental progress I made in the long-term 🖤

@FrisbeeGirl 10 күн бұрын

This is *SO* rich! TYSVM!! INFJ mal-adaptive practices are much different than many others. I love this breakdown sosoSO much!

@janelopez159 10 күн бұрын

So true...I'm actually doing this advice now before I found this video. This is just confirming to me that I'm not changing who I was but evaluating what i need to heal insanity and the introverted addiction. Sample, I was ghosted but still fantasizing about the person. I decided to explore once more continuously while the boundaries are still there. Happiness is within but we have needs and we need to strategize to get what we really want.