INFJ DATING ONLINE - HERE'S HOW TO MAKE ONLINE DATING *REALLY* WORK FOR INFJs

INFJ DATING ONLINE - HERE'S HOW TO MAKE ONLINE DATING REALLY WORK FOR INFJs

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9 ай бұрын

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Discover the truth about online dating as an INFJ. It may seem like the perfect solution, offering the comfort of getting to know someone from the comfort of home. No need to go out or engage with others we don't want to. But, let's face it, reality is often different. However, this doesn't mean that online dating isn't the perfect tool for INFJs to find the right person. It just means we need a unique approach, just like we do in advancing our careers and other areas in our lives.
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@Wenzes 9 ай бұрын

Have you tried online dating? If so, what were your lessons learned?

@OzmaOfOzz 9 ай бұрын

Recently dated an ENFJ, it was interesting, met online, and hit it off immediately.

@MatthewHayes909 9 ай бұрын

Would you still try/do online dating? :)

@sigmainfjbulgaria4478 9 ай бұрын

I haven't, but I think that it's like anything else - start with confidence and leave your emotional and psychologycal baggage behind and act from the position of power which is the other name of confidence. Be clear of what you want and what you don't.

@MegaCyberleader 9 ай бұрын

Nope. Never again. IRL I can barely tolorate Women. No offense I love you, but you help me figure stuff out.

@mirandaalaine 9 ай бұрын

Yes, and as an INFJ, I noticed a pattern, which was that I tend to ONLY match with other intuitive types. The guy I talked the longest with was actually an INFJ too...and also my same enneagram. That said, what is your opinion on two, in this case, extremely similar people in a relationship? Should and INFJ date another INFJ? That's a question I have as someone who's never dated. Thanks for another great video! :)

@marilynherrera3185 9 ай бұрын

As an INFJ female, online dating is extremely exhausting and frustrating. Apart from that, so many fake profiles. I prefer to know people in a traditional way

@raft115 9 ай бұрын

Wishing you good success and the good partner 🙌

@timmorgan492 9 ай бұрын

I've yet to find a real person, they all want money

@marilynherrera3185 9 ай бұрын

@@raft115 Thanks! So kind! My best wishes for you also!

@marilynherrera3185 9 ай бұрын

@@timmorgan492 Yeah! I don't try anymore on apps. I am starting to do new activities like gym or even in my church.

@MegaCyberleader 9 ай бұрын

Wish I could find a nice infj girl, But they are like unicorns, Rare, and mythical.

@TroyPosey 9 ай бұрын

In modern superficial trash society, online dating is all about looks. If you’re normal looking, you’re getting swiped away. Nobody seems to know what love or dating is, nor do they want to learn. They only care about how “hot” the other person is, or how rich they are, or other “things”… Social media has destroyed dating and relationships. It sucks being 37 and single in 2023. 😞

@R.S-1986 9 ай бұрын

"The best people come unexpectedly" is totally true. People can't see what they are not, that's why the infj's intelligence can be completely transparent even irritating to some.

@adverteasing 9 ай бұрын

Hahaahaha, Wenzes thinks INFJs date! Good one.

@raft115 9 ай бұрын

Are you saying she is not infj?

@adverteasing 9 ай бұрын

@@raft115 No. I said, "Hahaahaha, Wenzes thinks INFJs date! Good one."

@raft115 9 ай бұрын

@@adverteasing ok, sorry for the misunderstanding 🙌

@Groovytunes96 9 ай бұрын

Dating is near impossible for the INFJ. I didn't have any luck 😅

@adverteasing 9 ай бұрын

@@Groovytunes96 Too many landmines.

@tiffanyanderson9437 9 ай бұрын

Again, where were you 30 years ago?!? I’m going to try online dating again in a few months & this is the best dating advice I’ve ever heard. It’s so hopeful. Thank you.

@irodirod4679 9 ай бұрын

This video should be the intro to every dating app on the internet. 👏🥂

@user-rc2xs5ti2w 9 ай бұрын

I have been happily married for 25 years through the internet. INFJ

@OzmaOfOzz 9 ай бұрын

So you're not really together ? Just through online? How does that work ?

@__D10S__ 9 ай бұрын

@@OzmaOfOzz I assume they met THROUGH the internet, not that their entire relationship is on the internet

@user-rc2xs5ti2w 9 ай бұрын

@@OzmaOfOzz Yes. We are together.

@Levntna 10 күн бұрын

❤️

@Braden_NTC 9 ай бұрын

Perfect timing for this video

@Levntna 10 күн бұрын

4:30 had me in tears So, I am not alone!

@zaraaijaz7876 9 ай бұрын

This is amazing advice. Thank you

@raft115 9 ай бұрын

Made to be alone all alone

@KuldeepSingh-gg5kq 9 ай бұрын

Thank you❤🌹

@Amanda-cy5il 9 ай бұрын

I feel this is all good advices.

@ocho8172 9 ай бұрын

This is an excellent presentation on this subject, Wenzes! My compliments! You should offer this in a thumb drive! - Hell, so much if your content as well! Thank you, as always! Stay safe, and be well! Ocho 8

@traceyu6213 9 ай бұрын

What I have a hard time with: I am naturally open and share easily. How do I know how much to share? How do I weed out or what signs do I look for in someone who sees my openness as an opportunity to try and take advantage of my me? ie narcissists

@mridulaism Ай бұрын

Never thought of it like this. Interesting

@jameskeating4719 9 ай бұрын

Listening

@milouschmidt 9 ай бұрын

I love your videos and I think you are an outstanding communicator and a thorough speaker ❤ I would find it even easier to follow all content without using so many acronyms sometimes because we are not all experts of personality types. I do know I am an INFJ-A but I don’t remember all other acronyms and meanings 😅

@Brillotop 9 ай бұрын

I won't give up on magic. Like I told the last woman I loved, "You can't die alone if you're eaten by a shark."

@fionabstudent1780 9 ай бұрын

First time hearing this. Good point 👍

@Brillotop 9 ай бұрын

@@fionabstudent1780 it was an original thought based on the t-shirt I was wearing at the time.

@billbollins 6 ай бұрын

I am an INFP and found my INFJ on a dating site, she is amazing and wonderful but we live over 2000 miles apart 😞I am convinced that if we were in the same area we would have at the very least have met up by now. It is very difficult because we fit well together and are very similar in our outlooks.

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 9 ай бұрын

I NOW EXACTLY WHAT I WANT smile 5:10

@Michel-ov1sv 9 ай бұрын

You are the most eloquent INFJ person who can describe all the intricate nature of an INFJ. I do not know or remember all the things about the INFJ personality or myself. Should I make a list of my personal INFJ traits ) which will take a few weeks)? Please advise. Thank you.

@marinamayer6920 9 ай бұрын

The thing with online dating is that the usual sites are the ones where you find more people, in a small city where I live no one uses the ones that are common in other countries. Also, I discovered something about me using tinder (for more casual relationships), I have to meet the person face to face, we can online chat in the beginning but after 2 hours I'm bored. The guys I kept seeing where the ones that felt like me, like you have to meet in person. And it is not that I'm the most confident, but I cannot text a stranger for weeks! I have a screen in front of me and a stranger on the other side of it. Is it an INFJ thing? I don't know. Anyone feels the same?

@bluecreech 9 ай бұрын

Hmm.

@akferren1 9 ай бұрын

I’ve never been successful at online dating and now trying to find a decent man who hasn’t taken the clot shot makes it more challenging

@akferren1 9 ай бұрын

A friend of mine didn’t take the shot but his wife did and they had sex..he had two strokes and had open heart surgery.. always healthy and took great care of himself

@akferren1 9 ай бұрын

I know 7 who died and 2 stroke survivors..I’m in healthcare but I used an exemption and then changed careers to avoid it

@Mmmmkaaay 8 ай бұрын

Why would you care if someone took the vaccine? It's not your body. 🙄

@MegaCyberleader 9 ай бұрын

Im afraid of being hurt again. They always steal and hurt me.

@Braden_NTC 8 ай бұрын

So whats a good dating app then? I use hinge and its been okay.

@nourfattouh6547 9 ай бұрын

😢

@somai_1 9 ай бұрын

I don't do casual. And I haven't attracted anyone in so many years. Was invisible to men in my teens, 20s and 30s so there's no hope now. I expect to remain alone now. Do you have any videos on how to deal with that?

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 8 ай бұрын

It is not ABOUT escaping 😊❤ ……! 7:02

@rachelhudson4370 9 ай бұрын

Can you tell me what sites there are for us? The only sites I know of are the mainstream ones.

@MissNibs 9 ай бұрын

A lot of good advice, but...what site did you meet your hubby on? What sites would you even recommend? Major disappointment.

@jessicamiller7448 8 ай бұрын

Yes, I want to know this as well!

@suguntoliido1461 9 ай бұрын

Sister I love you real quick 😽🎉 hell no ❤️ I'm oldest dna I'm looking I don't mind first teacher I live all ways Last time I see parents I 2002 I grow up &self o😅.

@rudysdream 9 ай бұрын

this statement has me as confused as a baby at a boobie bar