I’m a 75 yr old white man and I have the upmost respect for you and your husband. I think you are a very intelligent and creative person. I also have a small farm in a faraway province in the Philippines. I always look forward to viewing your videos because I have learned a lot from them. I want to thank you for the person you are and for helping so many of your viewers.

What!. Don’t worry, things will work out. Not everyone is happy for you. Your dress today is beautiful. The seam mistress did a wonderful job.

Young Lady, your life is wonderful...with all the peaks and valleys....you are free....Continued Blessings....

Ooh child things are gonna get easier. Ooh child things are gonna get brighter (words from a song). You are strong, beautiful, smart, creative, and wise beyond your years. Keep doing your thing my child.

Your greatest breakthrough comes when you find yourself in the most difficult of times-- keep graciously walking through the storm!

Your dress is so beautiful, time has a way of taking care of everything. You and hubby are in my prayers.

ES, you and Vim Man have built a beautiful life for yourselves and your animal friends. I pray your love will continue to grow sweeter with each given moment; and that you'll continue to live your awesome destinies. Dear ones, thank you both for sharing your journey with us. You make living real life look easy, full of grace, light and beautiful love. Blessings, peace, love and favor to you both always 💖💐

You have created your own paradise on earth, I salute you.

I love that “…filled with possibilities unfolding for everyone.”

I laughed out loud when you said the whole world is a ghetto. I also think so 😄.

i am Sierra Leonean by birth residing in Canada for over 21yrs. My experience is that everything you are saying is true but it is everywhere in the world, I have had bad experiences in my home country even from some family members, I have also had very bad experiences in Canada which sometimes make me pinch myself if am abroad, having travelled extensively, 6 months in Gambia,3 years in Guinea due to the war, Australia and most of Europe as I love travelling to places and mind you I was not with family most time from a young age I was always with different people so as the world is changing to more evil ways , my faith and people I have met and lived with just make me brush evil people off I get offended just for a few days and then I move on as I have vowed to myself that no one will push me or make me run away when am not ready to leave, There are still good people, A Muslim family from Sierra Leone adopted me when we all ran to Guinea during the war, one of the most loved family I have ever met, they loved me, cared and protected me when I couldn't speak the language in Guinea as Sierra Leoneans were being brutalized at the time of staying as refugees ,I was the only Christian in the house, they respected my belief and everyone that I was associated with, My adopted mum kept my bible until I went for holidays after five years in Canada at the time that is how good she is, I am presently on sick leave and my friends are supporting me in every way one is a Nigerian and two are Sierra Leoneans, they take turns to cook, clean, take me for appointments in Canada despite their busy schedules as most of my family are in US, England and Australia, there are friends I helped who did not care but it did not bother me as I had noticed the envy a long time, I still have other friends of thirty years ago when we met in college, three in London and one in US, we try to go for vacation at the same time and we have never quarreled or done anything to each other, My point is please do not let the evil of some people push you as there are still many good people just be sensitive in your spirit of who comes near you , stay strong because they are all over the world and God bless your union forever which is important

ES, I've watched your channel from the very beginning. You are one of the most brave, passionate women I've encountered and the idea that you would thrive in anything but a partnership has always been more than obvious. Keep following your passion and lighting the way for those of us that are still gathering the courage to live our lives out in the open! 🥰❣️🤗

You and Vim man are beautiful. Thanks for sharing your life with us.💕

You keep pushing forward queen. Do not pay attention to anything or anyone. Stay focused on you and your goals. Ase'

Enjoyed watching Monki Du frolicking around ✨️🥰✨️

At 12:29 Monki Du came out of nowhere in the background, which was hilarious.

I have come to the point of my life, where I am practicing to be quite, to not reveal everything. By being too opened I have been misunderstood. Trust me when you are on a different realm it is very hard to express certain things. It's like you start to speak a different language. So learning to keep things to yourself is a must. For your sake and theirs.😊

The environment you’ve both created is totally beautiful and right even the animals are basking in tranquility of it all… Continuous light and blessings to you both!!!

Uh oh… I didn’t think about stuff like that when I asked to talk to you some day. You are so right… Ok well God’s will be done… I’ll just keep enjoying the inspiration. Omg but you keep telling my story… always say there’s not one black person who grew up in America who doesn’t need therapy .. but yes there’s def a crab 🦀 in a barrell issue w/n our culture

The video is not finished as yet, but I started laughing when you related the leadership situation and had to comment now. Let's just say, I am content with your husband's response. 💜

Yes there are some of us that are toxic especially the ones that are meant to help you in the health and social care sector

I’ve been following since your arrival to Ghana .when one sits with themselves and can see themselves and Free to be you can only share and converse with others who have done the same inner work .When I express myself I hear spirit giving me my answers being misunderstood is common when you’re not a follower of the masses. I’ve been to Ghana and married to an African man this journey has helped me reach mastery. Healers heal themselves.

Hi I just listened to your comment about letting husband leads from a viewer. I would just like to add my two cents. Your husband has a great sense of mind and realization that you have a mind also. And realizing you are two individuals doing your own thing and getting together on many other things. The cmmentor obviously has never found a man who thinks that way. No one should be bound in any kind of fashion or form of any kind. But I must say there's been so much going on out in the world that nowadays it's very hard to find a man who is truly giving and honest. A lot of women have been burned and don't carry that loving trust anymore. It's such a sad thing. But it's a long conversation. I love watching your channel. I catch up when I can. Blessings to you both in your adventures. Watching from Houston Texas.

Your life should be a movie. Please, after the book bless us with a beautiful and fascinating movie, where love, patience and faith win. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Yes I felt that when you say the whole world is a ghetto. You are telling nothing but truth. ❤

Thanks for your honesty. There is quality in aloneness for some things ❤ Continue to embrace your amazing family. Leave room for trusted friends 😊

The freedom inside you express your beauty inside out keep it up

What a beautiful compound, and that monkey is living its best life. Very nice everything.

I have to say ...that is a stunning dress!🫶

I’m sorry you had that experience 😢i have had that experuence too with my viewer and they ended up talking bad about me online like they exposed me

I watch even though it seems that you are both going separate ways.😢😢😢😢 I have no idea of why i watch now. I love the animals, the greenery and the entire scene of your location. Thaks for sharing.

Monkey doo appears to be in his element, living his best life, with not a care in this world. I wish I was him right now. I love this channel so much, it transports me, momentarily, to a serene, peaceful and calm space. Your videography, narration and content is on point. Follow your heart, always💜

Thank you for continuing to share your life. You two are amazing and I love seeing the blend of cultures come together, your cooking and The wisdom of Africa coming thru. Your videos make me feel like I am there and Monkey Du is too cute! Continue to prosper!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Gnite blessings,never really comment but u just live ur amazing, awesome and creative lifestyle u r a beautiful woman along with ur handsome husband ppl do get jealous of the life u are living, I’m from South America living in America for 40 years and it takes an Adventurous, Ambitious woman to do what u r doing. Ur contents are great and u r living ur life to the fullest. I vacated in Ghana for 2 months I love that country I could move there if I want to im retired and I love to travel so that’s what I’m doing. So my hats off to u and urs, ignore the narrow minded people. GOD continuous Blessings.

Famously sang by the group Warback in the 70’s the world is a ghetto.

Hello ES & Vim man: First I want to send you both peace and blessings. That dress is stunning. Your light is so bright. Please keep up the good work. Thank you for sharing!

I love the background music. It is so soothing......and what a lovely summer dress.

Sweet nature lady be confident and trust your maker. You are blessed

OMG! People and their assumptions. I Love My African man he really allows me to be in the spirit of me and I do vice versa. I could sooooo relate to what you said❤❤❤❤

SMART AND BEAUTIFUL

Good evening, from one sista married to a West African to another, I understand your plight. Sometimes the cultural and Muslim differences can be trying, or their Concept of romance and affection because they aren't taught this the way the "Western world views it." I came upon your channel about 1 1/2 years ago and have really enjoyed it. My husband watches also, it reminds him of being home in Sierra Leone. Continue to do you and take it one day at a time!

ES lovely to see you in your radiant beautiful self. Love to you and VinMan 🔥 ❤

Missing Kitty 😺

Blessings ES and and Vim Man ❣️

Oh so cute Monki Du is so happy with you guys God bless you all 💐

The trees and flowers have really mature. Lovely and therapeutic. Your channel is an inspiration. Enjoy your blessings and stay positive.❤🇳🇬 🇬🇧

I know you dont remember me. Been watching you from your old content when you were going through challenges on the ground. Years ago I made a comment not to trust anyone on the ground. Not your neighbors nor inlaws or anyone with a smile around you. Anyone that shows you kindness you must try to pay them right away or next time they will come back asking for a ten fold favor. Everyone seems to have an agenda. Let God be your eyes and ears and your protector to both you. Read PSALM 91 and PSALM 23 in the scriptures daily. The enemy is always within.

Hey sis, I admire you, and love your videos. You always have good points, and support them with your intellect. Keep it up. Love you:) When are we going to cook again?

You are an inspiration, you doing good my sister. Don't let anyone bother you with their negativity..its all good

Btw, your hair looks gorgeous.

ES and Vinman. Praying for you both.

Dear sista greetings to you. Love your hair,skin,smile and that dress. People are jealous when you are flourishing, keep your head high and keep smiling 😊God is love ❤️ I'm enjoying your videos and continue be blessed.

Gratitude to you, always giving me what I need to hear 💜💜

Sounds to me like you've been blessed with Vin Man and your absolutely right, the U.S. is so very toxic, dangerous and lonely. After thinking about it , there's really no place to run to. Stand🙏🏽

Thanks for sharing.

Vin Man's response for the win 🏆. People can miss me on the assumed and linear definition of lead(er), head of the household, submission, etc. #OurRules #OurWay

Life is not easy, especially in these days and times, if only it was. We are challenged incessantly,which weilds us for tougher challenges. You, Vimman, and the videos you produce are inspirational, they’re good for the soul. I know l need not tell you this,but “ this too shall pass”. And you will succeed. You’re in my prayers. You keep praying too.

I'm so happy that you are happy. It's palatable🎉

Your skin is soo clear.

Higher consciousness, you can only be you, don’t let others negativity drag you to a lower vibration & frequency.

You are a beautiful person inside out.

Love you guys very much

🌺🌺get a 2nd back up card to prevent this in the future. have a sweet day.🌺🌺

12:40 I love that!!! Moving forward…together! ❤

Girl you guys are living your best lives. Enjoy 😊 watching your videos.

Hi. I saw your video the first time you bought the property. I cannot believe how beautiful it turned out. That little monkey is so beautiful and playful. Good luck with everything.

Hi ES you look beautiful love the dress

Nice entrance, surely vibrant

What a beautiful vignette and powerful lesson conveyed! A man appreciates that his woman has a brain. Man and wome bring thier capabilities together as nature intended. Thank you for reverberating this into the universe. Peace

QUEEN your looking ever so young your skin is glowing . I was really worried but I think you all are working it out and the land is so beautiful vibrant as usual the rain is ever so peaceful and calming I love 💕 the scenery it’s so nice 👍🏾 I love it lol you guys are blessed 😇 and I don’t know what your cooking scared to say I might be wrong is it jollof rice? lol idk seafood ah a African dish homemade tortillas for tacos lol idk but I know it’s going to look gd and taste gd be blessed 😇 dear sister don’t let no one get you down 😇🙏🌎🇺🇸👍🏾♥️♥️♥️

I’m missing Kitty as well.

Omg Monkey doo is so cute 😂, where did the kitty go? Love you guys ❤

This dress🔥🔥🔥🔥

Looking beautiful (love that dress, and your hair). I know what you mean about being misunderstood. It is one of the things I most worry over. There's a whole lot of nonsense out there, and a whole lot of people staying still, while others are rising. You, of course, are rising. (I hate the color thing, too). Don't fret. Just come back to base. So many see you, as you, and love you, for you. Your peeps are out there, just spread all around. Sending big HUGS and love to you. 💞💖🥰

You are so beautiful! 🤩❤

Stay beautiful and loving. ❤

I'm watching 'GiGi Beauty' and the hubby there keeps saying "Behave yourself" to his wife, like your hubby. playful fun sayings 😂🤣😂🤣😂 Thank you for sharing your video

Sending you good energy 🌬🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️

Big Sis , I think I have an idea . Just a thought that came through. I think you are going to cook jambalaya dish 🥂🫶🏾💕🙌🏾🕊️that’s my guess . Thank you for the beautiful video. Very much appreciated. Take care ❤

Good es realization

You and your husband are so beautiful together. Keep moving forward in Spirit! You are truly on the right track. Ignorance is ever present. Don't let any of it make you confused. Forward ever Daughter! Respect!

Yaaaaay can’t wait for the next

❤❤❤sending ❤❤❤

more power to you...life is not easy but do what make up happy..do what enables you to get up every morning....u have to love God and your self first...❤❤❤

When you discuss the USA and therapy, it reminded me of an article from the Spring 1993 edition of The Wilson Quarterly entitled “Why Freud Hated America?” - where Sigmund Freud viewed the USA as "a gigantic mistake," a "miscarriage," a "bad experiment conducted by Providence." That alone shows there has been questioning of the mental state of America long before the events of 2016 to the present. 😃 However, I think that Americans who have not traveled abroad and only get their information from American legacy/ mainstream media could most likely have a distortion of the reality around the world. And it sounds like this is the case with the viewer who asked you how come you’re not letting your man lead. Yet, at the same time, I think the West has a distorted view of traditional husband, wife and family roles, which I think has become more distorted thanks to 3rd wave feminism and the manosphere. That’s why I’m glad that you said that you and your husband are a team to where you both bring your own unique talents and abilities into the relationship. A healthy relationship is not this distortion to where one spouse has to be the leader at all time and the other spouse has to the subordinate at all time.

Hi there from San Diego California

Keep your head up, and don't let comments from one who's projecting from childishness bring you down.

I have learned the hard way that you just can't trust everyone. I wish our Black family would look out for each other but that is not the case. I had to learn not to tell my family or people I thought were my friends nothing about my accomplishments because they really aren't happy for you. I love your dress you look so nice. GOD Bless you

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New Subbie! My man is Ghanaian and I am so inspired by your channel. Next year I will be coming to live in Ghana for some time. Is the monkey your pet? He is so taken to you and I Love IT❤❤❤❤❤

Blackberries: use high quality seed starting mix and sow seeds at a depth of 1/4 to 1/2 inch, lightly cover with soil. Maintain a consistent temperature of around 70F (21C) to encourage germination. You can grow raspberries & blueberries the same. Start in a tray or small pot.

The Lord bless your marriage.❤🙏🏿

I'm glad Monki Du is there with you guys. He's not getting him self hung up in the tree. He could climb over the wall and escape if he wanted to, but he's "staying put". Does he ever come inside or does he have a shelter outside? I love that walkway that encompasses the yard. Everything is so classy and clean looking. Do you all have just one season? Care to share one of your cactus recipes? You dresser should put together a fashion show. When I was growing up my grandma had all kinds of trees on her property. She had pecan trees, peach trees, and a persimmon tree. She also grew a garden with vegetables. I think because she grew up hard, she wanted to make sure that she always had something fresh to eat.

Take the seeds from the refrigerator just put them in room temp water

INDEED ❤❤❤

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7:13 the entire planet!!! Wait! All the people on the planet! The planet is perfect. ❤

I'm totally listening to you but see Monki Du cutting up behind you, dragging branches back and forth as you make your presentation ❤

5:50 I love this dress by the way 😍

Ur very cool I love you