Keep this up, Pastor. I know you've been doing this long time even before it was popular! Please don't stop. We must change the trajectory.

6 Things A Woman Needs From Her Man 1. Security 2. Communication 3. Patience 4. Leadership 5. Attention 6. Masculine Energy

Love this! My husband prays for me and our family every morning. When I hear him in our prayer closet, I am immediately filled with gratitude and began thanking God that I was wise enough to be open to his choosing of me ❤

I just started dating an Alpha Man and I see a lot of what you said in him already.

I Love this BibleCast. Before my 30s, I never knew having a husband/ significant other who interceeds for me. When I got a sig. other who interceeded for me, it is now a crucial characteristic. I feel so safe & peaceful. I feel loved. And I do my best to treat my sig. other best way I could. That relationship did not work out, but GOD showed me that HIS plan is better than my dreams. Not married yet, but I've learned to wait on GOD & I'm confident it will happen. Isaiah 60:22. Thank U for teaching, Pastor.

I need this in my life. I want to marry again.....been divorced 10 yrs. I'm praying and trusting God hears my prayer 🙏

Most women give way more than what they ask for. She needs a partner, that prays for her, gives her at least a few hours of uninterrupted time every few weeks because she understands what he's doing to love and provide for her and the family, and he has a direction for them. WOW a partner. Oh, how so many of us have be used, abused, and looked over, because he didn't take the time to learn our love language.

I WANT TO FEEL SAFE AND PROTECTED.

I wish more pastors had messages like this.

Love this series my husband sent it to me. I'm greatful that he is willing to listen to another godly man

Excellent job of describing what we women need! In most magazines , documentaries and interviews people only focus on what a woman should do for a man. It’s as though all men need to do is just be present. Men do need to look good , smell good and be well groomed. Men want us that look like a million bucks and they look like ten cents. We should compliment each other. Thanks again Pastor!

Pastor Vernon’s love for his wife is admirable. I can tell where Lady Vernon is sitting by the amount of times he looks to his right side 😂

I will always pray for a husband. Who understands my needs and desires and all 6 of my Children ❤ By God Grace our season will come. I love a praying Man and a man that is for the Lord and his word. I still have hope that God will choose a husband for my children and I one day.

Praise God🙏🏽 I lost my King 15 months ago and it’s rough out here but I’m still trusting the plans he has for me. Thanks for the word😊

The women feel you went light Pas. They also felt Lady Vernon should have had a part in this. Love you Pas!!!

Protect this man! He gets it!!!!

OUTSTANDING. Stay right in this area & keep it going. Just what the world needs now. Love u man.

Finally good to hear a man who addresses BOTH men and women and is not trying to cover for a sorry husband, just because he's a man. Wives/mothers give, give, give, give, serve, serve, serve, serve, do, do, do, do like the Energizer bunny and then some, wearing a plethora of hats while meeting EVERYONE ELSE'S NEEDS. Yes, what are you (husbands) giving your wives, or are you being selfish as can be?! When there is spiritual, physical, and emotional neglect over an extended period...the frustration, resentment, and bitterness mounds. Men protecting their PRIDE and EGO further adds insult to injury. God bless the marriages in which both people are driven by them being givers, truthful, trustworthy, loving, caring, loyal, sacrificial, intimate, communicate openly and regularly, both parent their children, affectionate, forgiving, and function as a team. It's not on your list, but a woman wants to know that her man will PROTECT her and the family (spiritually and physically). God has called husbands to be four p's: priest, prophet, protector, and provider.

This was good. I appreciate the balance of your ministry Pastor Vernon. It’s not just about women and it’s not just about men, it’s about partnership! I love this series!!!

I’m expecting a boaz,someone I can pray for and he pray for me,I loved this message,perfectly said, totally agree, thanks for sharing

I wish I had experienced your ministry 90 years ago, before I married there was so much I didn' t know about marriage, but now I am able to help others who are in the same situation i was at 18 yrs. Old. In His name!!! ,

I’m blessed to have finally met someone who meets ALL of these criteria 🙏🏽❤️. Thank you for your podcast ministry!

"This is what so many are missing " Real Talk As Is",. ...Let the Church say AMEN IN BOLD LETTERS,..."TRULY I LOVED ❤ " EVERYTHING THAT WAS SAID..." THANK YOU "PASTOR " V" and "QUEEN V, for helping the "saved and the unsaved...most of all the ones who just didn't know how to love... truly it takes two!" Y'all keep "Loving GOD Style... Sharing to help others who are married ...thinking about marriage...I share this video..."Powerful...Grown Folk Raw Talk 😅...LOVE IT!" Y

Thank you, Pastor🙌🏾... This is GOD sent. I'm about to marry, & we have been listening to the WORD sent from GOD. Be RAW. That's what people need today. AMEN? AMEN!

Treat her as you should so yo prayer life won’t be HENDERED!

Great Delivery! The level of transparency & teaching was unmatched, but thanks!

SIR!!!!! This entire series Is THE BUSINESS!!!!

I love this Biblecast! Keep going steadfast and may God continue to bless & keep you, your wife & family. 11:01...🙌🏾 total shout! Thank you!

Very good advice love the message I've always prayed for a Praying husband and I know that my God will answer my prayers soon.❤

I Love This Biblecast!!!! Thank you Dr. RA Vernon for pouring into us. Can you please do a few episodes on us women Preparing and Positioning ourselves for the man that God has for us?

Yes, I need a man. I'm waiting on God to bring special man across my path.

Your teachings are riveting and relatable!!!

A praying man full of the Word of GOD. A man who takes charge. Love and affection, affirmation. Who helps with chores, cooks and cleans. Helps take care of our children. A sense of humor, and handles the fiances, smart with good sense. He is known in the gates and sits among the elders. A godly man!

Good afternoon, Thank you for always keeping it 100%. Much love and respect to you and your beautiful wife.

Pastor Vernon, I live in the United Kingdom and I woke up this Sunday and this message is what I chose to listen too before church. It has spoken to my heart. I believe God allows us to hear what we need at the right time. This is a game changer. Yes I am married I have shared it to my husband and so many men thank you

I’m a older woman ;things right now in my life aren’t going so well. I’ve always wanted someone in my life. My children are grown , been divorced for a very, very long time. I feel empty inside! I’ve been with Jesus Christ for sometime now , I have walked away from Jesus, Jesus would always bring me back, I’m grateful for that ! I’ve heard men say men do not want older women, I’m past 65! I want a man that love Jesus Christ for real and live it ! (I do want a husband)😊

I love the partnership, now that’s on point. I’m saved by the way! Thank you and God bless yall

Love this message Pastor. My husband said he found his pastor, he listen to you all the time. Finally a real pastor. I thank God for you both.

The number two thing a woman needs from her man is communication. Now, I’m sure you heard it or you seen plenty of jokes told on TV shows and pretty much the woman just want to talk, talk, talk and the man just wanted to be left alone. And in a lot of situations there’s a level of truth to that, but the reality is that and this pours back into security. If she doesn’t feel like she can talk to you there’s going to be a problem. If she doesn’t feel like she can talk to you then how is she going to feel confident that you’re even into her and committed to this relationship? That lack of communication can breed doubt it can cause confusion and once you have confusion then you have chaos, all right. So, you’ve got to be mindful of listen, always keep lines of communication open with your woman. It’s important that she knows that she can feel comfortable talking to you. It’s important that she knows whatever questions she has she is allowed to ask you. And yes, you can establish this even in the dating phase by letting a woman know up front hey, I’m serious about this so anything you want to talk about feel free. Anything you need to ask me don’t be afraid like, literally say that to her because a lot of women hold back in fear of running the man off or you know, overwhelming you. And again, yes, if she’s dealing with the wrong guy then he doesn’t want to talk to her, but are you’re serious about this woman and again, you’re trying to have a healthy loving relationship then you want to make it clear. You should, that the lines of communication are always open and with that, you have to be willing that when she does come and talk to you to listen, all right. As well as express yourself because one of the greatest frustrations from women is the lack of communication from men in expressing themselves how they feeling and what their desires are. Now granted, there are many men who don’t do it because the woman don’t handle it well. That she is a poor communicator, all right. But if that’s the case, let it be known, tell what’s going on. Tell her why you don’t communicate and let’s see if we can correct it and if we cannot correct it why are we wasting time in this relationship? If she is a horrible communicator, if she is bringing too much trauma from her past into this relationship and she cannot have healthy conversation with you, then don’t drag this relationship any further. But you have to make sure you’re doing your part and that is communicate, to be open to it. Be open to listen, be open to expressing yourself, all right. And learning how we and when I say we you and your partner can better communicate with each other specifically because what may work really well for one couple as far as communication may be different from another couple. Quick example, one couple may do very well with verbal communication face to face. Another couple may need to start the conversation off with a letter, all right. It may be easier to express themselves that way and then they’re able to come together sit down and have a talk face to face. So, explore the ways to make it easier for the both of you, but make communication a priority because she needs that from you.

So true!!! I'm still praying in my 2nd marriage of 10 years🙏🏾...the first was 17 years of marriage, after 6 years of dating the "highschool sweetheart". Thank you for sharing your ministry!!

Boom!!! You hit the bull’s eye! Thank God my fiancé prays for me! And knows my love languages! Thank you Jesus!! ❤🙌🏽

Thanks for this biblecast. I will definitely share it with my kids. They need to hear this. As for me, I wish I had this dream, men in my life.

Thanks for sharing, keep it coming.

You hit it on the head pastor. Keep speaking that good word

I just wanted to address this to your wife, you are so blessed. I would hope and pray that my mom or/and myself would meet and have a husband that would pray for us.

😌😌😌 Thank you one million times. Be Immensely Blessed. 🙏🙏🙏 😌😌😌

Thank you very much for this word Man of God... I am a Man... You told me In my 20s I looked like a preacher. I thank God for you. Watching you from ATL

Pastor Vernon Teach!! Us who are in need of tools for next Level in our lives ❤❤🎉

This podcast was a blessings

Awesome. Soo educational for our sisters and brothers.

Love to listen...its a life long partnership. I began on this path, I want to take the rest of it with him. 💓

I love this bible cast! Hallelujah for this word! Me and my husband are approaching 5 years and ever learning. This teaching blessed us both! This teaching is right on time for us.

Love it .I sent to my family! Thank God for being Bible real , and Black real. I’m praying Gods will for me. Thank you.

I love this Bible cast!!!! This is great!!!!

Love, love, love this message. Blessings to you and your family. 🥰🙌🏽

I love this Biblecast!! Pastor and First Lady may God to continue to bless you two and your family. Keep blessing us with the Word. ❤

New subscriber here..your message was so refreshing and factual. 😊

Appreciate all these wisdom nuggets sir! Sharing with family and friends. Bless you and Lady Vernon.

I love this Biblecast ❤❤❤❤thank you The Vernon’s is my inspiration

Love it !! Preaching the truth !❤

Thank You for all the correct words for me. I needed to hear that. Bless you always...

So profound! Very glad I ran across this channel.

I am loving this

Praise God for this topic Pastor. I’m praying for my marriage you just gave me so much hope

What a word tonight Pastor. I’m truly enjoying you as you bring to the table some needed information. Keep doing what you do. The reason marriages and relationships are not surviving during a time such as this is because Pastors don’t keep it real. Also, many of their marriages needs reviving. All of your points were just what needed to be said. Thanks

I love this channel! This content is life changing, I do love the real-ness!!!! Blessings to you and your entire family! ❤️

A true and powerful message 👏 🙌 I love this ..wow.

Man, you have spoken my mind, God bless you and stay blessed

I love my church and my pastor because he just doesn't teaches about God, Jesus and mother Mary he teaches what they have to do with me which is very important.

I admire you as a true man of God, for the love and respect you have for your wife and your family, you treat your wife like the queen she is, you have all the qualities of the way God said a men should treat their wives, my prayer is one day God will bless me with a Man that love me like Christ love the church.

Thanks Pastor I needed to hear this. God is speaking threw you to me. Thank You Lord Jesus!

Your practical teachings are truly a blessing and greatly appreciated!!! I have followed your ministry for years and have gleaned so much from both you and Lady Vernon. May God continue to bless your marriage and your ministry richly🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

YES , LOVE THIS & EACH OF THESE POWERFUL BIBLECAST !!!I ♥️🙏🏽📖👑🎤🎧

This blessed my life thanks pastor and Lady Vernon.

You have been really blessing me with the relationship series. Blessings!

Im here for it. Enjoyed!

Amen Pastor !!! I enjoy your podcast. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

❤HALLELUJAH AMEN ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL A MAN WHO PRAYS👏💪❤💯

Pastor Vernon, this is awesome 👏 You have this on point ; I can’t thank GOD enough for using you to minister this word

women want to be Attracted too! That's right pastor Vernon!

You’re killing it Pastor V.!!!! Keep preaching the truth!!! These topics are very relevant, especially in the church. Thank you and your bride for making yourselves transparent.

I love this Bible cast!! ❤

The next thing, third thing a woman needs from her man is patience. Now listen, I know sometimes that woman might work your nerves okay, lol, and it might be hard to be patient in certain moments with her, but you have to as a man learn how to remain poised and calm and lead by example and implement patience in your relationship. And it’s not just patience in everyday interactions or helping getting her to understand something that you’re trying to express. I feel the need to also mention this, also patience in intimacy, all right. There’s a lot of women that complain about their man trying to rush the process essentially, skipping the foreplay all the time and want to get straight to it. And I understand as a man there might be moments where that is what you want to do, but if you rob her of patience even in intimacy and allowing yourself to more enjoy the process of getting to that ultimate goal that you may desire, then you’re going to diminish the intimacy between you and your partner. You’re going to make it harder for her to want to engage and be receptive to you. So, it is important that yes, you are patient in that process. But again, you talk to your partner as mentioned in number two. You communicate so that you guys can get on the same page as far as how much patience is needed, how to better understand each other and get on the same page, all right. And so that you guys can flow together very nice and seamlessly, but it is important that you learn the skill of patience in your relationship because she’s going to need that from you and not need you to just fly off the handle and just get irritable really fast. That’s not going to be good for the relationship. So, be patient it doesn’t mean, uh…I guess I’m…Well, I’m thinking about it, it doesn’t mean get to a point where you have too much patience. And I don’t know maybe I’m saying that wrong but I guess what’s coming to me is like I don’t want you to become passive in how you handle certain situations because you’re trying so hard to be patient.

This has blessed me! Thank you for keeping it real pastor! As a divorced woman, I can relate to most of the information you were giving out! I love your rawness! Praying for you and your wife! I know this is helping me! I pray that I will my marry my purpose partner the next time around! Amen!🙏🏽🙌🏾

This is so needed!! God bless you and your family🙏🏾🙏🏾

I love this bible class!

I love this Biblecast!

Dr. Vernon this was great, omg how I can go on abt being married twice & divorced twice. I believe I am wife worthy. However, I didn’t choose wisely both marriages were abusive, 1rst marriage physical, mental & emotional, married 9 yrs. 2nd marriage verbal & mental married 6 mons. I’m not sure what kind of vibe of insecurities I gave off to have deserve abuse in my marriages. I’ve been told I was too nice. Well I’m 50 yrs old, I’ve been single for 9 yrs. I do still desire a husband & right now in my life I’ve been working on learning & redefining myself. Never will I compromise myself worth just to say I have a man/ husband. I do desire a saved man that loves the Lord & if he really Loves the Lord than I know he can really love me. Thank you for the teaching God bless you & Lady Vernon 👏🏾🙌🏾

I love this Bible Cast ❤

The Word is always right on time . 😊We don't know how you do it but you always do it !🙏🙏🙏

I love this Bible Podcast ❤

I love it you hit all the good points, I have been saying a lot of that for years.🙏🏽💞

This is awesome!

You are truly a God’s fearing man !

Be-U-T-Ful!! God bless you and First Lady!

I love this biblecast🙏🏾

I LOVE THIS BIBLECAST🙏🏼💕

You are Killing It Pastor!!!!👋🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

You've got to be in it to win it praise him JESUS

This is food for the soul and I'm full. Thank you for keeping this real, holy and natural.... blessings ❤