“You can never say the wrong thing to the right person so just be yourself”-Jeannie Mai 2019🙌🏽

"YOU DONT WACHT THE REAL THATS THE REAL PROBLEM" I love that

Jeannie is one of those brilliant people who can detect when someone immediately asks a question that might throw her off guard, so she takes a few seconds to carefully think about her answer.

Jeanie killed this topic! Comprehensive, mature and highly intelligent. This young women is going places!

“How much money you get from sister sister?” Lmao!

Hmm sounds like Jeanies lowkey talking about jeezy with the 19 questions

There’s gonna be that dude who asks “what’s your favourite position?” 🙄

Jeannie SPITTING FACTS YESS GIRL, I would ask this question too 100% Deep questions are awesome tension breakers even though they don't seem that way

"Do you believe in the Lord?" 😂😂. Yup! That's Tamera alright! Too cute

Jeannie is absolute GOLD of a human being! What a lovely, insightful, intelligent, intellectual, genuine, pleasurable beauty!

That guy that answered 19 questions was 100% jeezy 👀

Jeannie’s lipstick!!!!!! Omg it’s EVERYTHING 😍😍😍

“You can never say the wrong thing to the right person” Preach Jeanie! Love her

Jeannie looks gorgeous 🔥🔥

I love that nod Loni gave at 2:15 like she already knew. They must have talked about it before, I LOVE how close all the ladies are so cute 😊

Do you believe in the Lord. Good question and I'm delighted Tamara does and not in the fanatical sort of way. Like those hate churches that picket funerals and such.

Jeanie is 40 and looks like she’s in her late twenties/early thirties 😍 just stunningly beautiful!

Jeannie is gorgeous and im feeling her 100% this segment.

I used to be afraid to ask questions about their past relationships but that’s super important to know! Not like bombard them with all these questions about their ex but just simple questions

How much money you got? - A lot.

“You can never ask the wrong thing to the right person” That was a WORD!!

Tam sipping out that cup is a wholeee meme

I love Tamara! She is so genuinely real! I love all the girls, but she is my favorite!

I honestly think that specific question ( which is actually interesting to me ) opens the door for a decent conversation and allows BOTH parties to tell each other what they want to ask or are afraid to ask... it allows walls to be put down and barriers to be temporarily off & be able to just ask what they can without ( intentionally ) offending or even worse turning off that person they're on a first date with ! A first date should involve making each other feel comfortable and hopefully after learning about each other , continue into a second , third , fourth & eve tenth date before they realize they want to be in a relationship with that person ! I agree with this

Preach cousin Jeannie preach.😘😘😘😀😀❤️❤️❤️😀😍😘😘

i’m so happy for jeanie she’s really such a positive and energetic spirit

Do you believe in the Lord? haha hallelujah Loni

That harmonizing at the end took me OUT! lmaoo

“Your never gonna be as young as you are right now” Thanks for reminding me😭 for some reason I’m 17 and having a mid-life crisis

On our first date, hubby and I played a fill in the blank game I made up...and we still do it today 🥰

I really want to know this guy Jeannie is dating... I'm really happy she's happy

I appreciate y'all but I'm not about to share my deepest insecurities with a stranger. My trust is SACRED. I WILL however, want to know your VALUES, your GOALS, what you consider RIGHT OR WRONG. You don't have to play games. But I'm not about to open up about trauma to someone I don't know. I'm not SECRETIVE. I'm RESERVED. I'm letting someone in little by little, because my privacy is really important. That doesn't mean I'm being fake or playing games, I'm just being careful in these streets. Lots of men out there will weaponize your fears and use them against you to manipulate you. Women too, but I'm saying, men are the masters of gaslighting. I'm strong, but if I don't know you that well, how will I know you're not a gossipy person? Na-ah. I'm taking a little bit of time.

how much money u got from sister sister

I am early today. Every Lady on the table looks stunning. I am so proud of Loni. She really came a long way with her goals. :)

Okay but. . . Jeannie and Tam look gorgeous!

WHY DONT NONE OF THESE LADIES LOOK THERE AGE THEY LOOK SOOOO YOUNG

I like that....you can never say the wrong thing to the right person.

😂😂😂4:05 when loni says now we getting quite,we aint got 19 answers😂😂😂😂

I really like Jeannie but lately I been like girl just answer the question! 😂😂 That’s my girl she just be taking a long time to answer sometimes. Love you girl 💕😂

When it comes to the topic of dating I wish Tamera would be more open about her experiences because there was a time before Adam and she did date Adam! so I don't want her to dismiss herself when it comes to dating questions because of where she is in her life now. They have people that respect her morals and wonder how they helped her navigate through the dating world.

I would probably ask if the guy has ever cheated in previous relationships.

I love Jeanie!!! That’s bomb most guys are intimidated or overwhelmed by my questions 👏👏👏👏🌹🌹🌹

I kinda did this too😁 I wrote down lots of questions on my phone and whenever there was an awkward moment on a date I casually checked what the questions were. Had interesting conversations and got myself a man that likes to talk deep stuff as well🙌

Adrienne always making jokes🤣🤣🤣 I love that ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Love this hair color on Loni! Gorgeous! They all look so fly today! Gorgeous!

Jeannie's next question should be: Did you answer my questions yourself or did someone help you? It's better someone answers a question in the moment for truth and reality. Not give a date a questionnaire to take away and answer. You can only trust what's in your face/presence not what goes on behind your back. Jeannie you gave that man an opportunity to play you with those answers.😖

I think it is disrespectful as hell to ask what a person makes from their job. I had to check someone recently for being too damn personal too soon.

Money questions are weird on the first date. Ask me what I do for a living and learn about my love or hate for my job. If I'm struggling, I'll reveal that to you if I feel you're worth that confession. If I'm well off, you can usually already tell. But we can't get into finances this early especially when money is so influential when it comes to people's worth.

Jeannie Mai, you are everything. Thank you for blessing us!

“YOU GOT A STD?!” 🤣 I wouldn’t sleep with them on the first date either way but I wanna know man

I loveeee Jeannie’s answers 😻❤️

I ain't nervous. I'll ask the question if it is there to be asked.

What are you hoping to get out of this date.

You guys should do another “Our ladies’ choice show”😂😻

50 cent: 21 questions 😄"Giiiiiiiiiiirl!! It's easy to love me now"

I love Adrienne's outfit shes so cute

Jeannie brings such a refreshing joyful energy!😍

I really want to know this guy Jeannie is dating... I'm really happy she's happy 😙😚🤗

I’m exactly like Jeannie, I hate small and trivial talk, let’s discuss the mind bending topics. Some guys find that intimidating but those are the guys for me.

The questionnaire is actually the best way to get a man to open up. I was asked 100 questions by someone and it was an amazing thing to open up

I love I know this is about Jeezy now lol

Did y’all hear Adrienne’s little Helen Baylor run at the end. I’m crying 🤣

Adrienne’s little riff at the end 😂

❤ for anyone having a date today. Always brings me memories of when I met the love of my life. I listened to some music before to take the edge off so you should too and listen to some like Delta Parole to relax and get ready. All the best from me xoxo

🤣🤣🤣”Do you believe in the Lord?”🤣🤣🤣

2:35 what munchkin said is the Same thing imma tell My boo 😭 "that's a problem"

Y’all know she was talking about Jeezy ❤️

I think she was talking about Jeezy

Loni looks stunning 😍😍😍well all the ladies do. But I think that is a great question. Because I'm a super direct person. And I feel like it's no reason to waist my time and the other persons time. By not asking a question I wanna know. And Jeannie seems like such a fun person to go on a date with

I never saw the issue with the money question idk why. Like we’re making our own coin idk.

I 💯 agree with Jeannie! Be real and I will determine whether I want to deal with u or not.

Jeannie looks AMAZING👏🏾👏🏾😍

Loni- do you believe in the lord 😂😂😂

i truly adore jeannie

Oh paragraphs! That's my kind of guy!

I agree that it depends on age. I’m 25 and I’m not in a rush to get married so I feel like we will eventually get to know each other. I don’t ask a lot of questions other than the basics but the guys usually ask more questions.

I'm 20 years old and there are some things to get out of the way. Getting married, having kids, religious beliefs etc. No need to waste time.

Tam & Jeannie aré so cute I love your The Real! 🥰🤟🏽 I know you just started dating but I would love to see a minnie Jeannie soon 😩😍

I love Loni's hair like this, hope she keeps it like that for the rest of the season

For me is are you aware of your past traumas and what are you doing to heal from it? before you project that shot on me.

When people ask me “what are your sexual fantasies?” I tense up, because I fear the reaction and I hate explaining myself even more. “I’ll tell you, but you have to promise not judge and keep and open mind.” Is what I usually say before I answer. Often I peak other people’s curiosity and I become so much more of an exotic mystery to people. I also dread the reaction of people trying to put my fantasies down and try to talk me out of it.

I wouldn't say waste of time think of it as an experience and life lessons good or bad.

I'm with Jeannie ask the deep questions, ask the uncomfortable questions because small talk is the worst. Let's get real don't ask how my day was. Ask me about GOT😅

The money question should be saved for the third date (if you get to that point). Because by then you know that person a lot better and can say if you feel comfortable enough to talk about your financial stability. Because in my opinion if you start talking about money on the first date it just sounds like that's all you care about instead of me. First date questions should be like: "Are you a family man", "Do you wish to have kids, and if so how many?", " Are Church person? If not what's your religion, and are you very active when it comes to your religion and beliefs". You know simple personal questions.

Wait a minute Jeanie. You can ask the man 19 questions .... but he can’t ask you 1... how much you make..... if you can ask 19... there’s no limits to how many or what he should be able to ask

She said 40 and i was shook

omg jennie is real intense LOL

Ok y’all. I’m ready to date. Where should I look? Advice?

She's 40! Jesus yes girl👏👏👏

I think it's a mistake to ask someone anything that is generally considered impolite, on a first date. I'm a model and a lot of people ask me how much money I make. I can't fathom what's wrong with their manners. Also, it freaks me out if a guy starts talking about sex in any way on a first date.

Hell yeah, I make just enough to do what I want

The real without Tamera 😭 😭

Pause at 4:02 😭😭 Jeannie SHOOK!!

Awww Tamera , loves Jesus. No wonder she has a sweet spirit

She was talking about JEEZY 🥰

Balance me real quick, why is someone asking you how much you get paid not okay? I also wonder if the ladies know how much each one makes.

I think some questions are rude to ask to someone you barely know. I knew a chick who's date asked her "have you ever been raped?" It caught her really off guard and made her extremely uncomfortable, especially because she had. *SOME* questions are too personal.

Was she talking about jeezy? I wonder

Ha first date with my man I asked him "Do you have any STD's" and "how many women have you been with?" Here we are 3 years later and he still thanks me to this day for being bold.

My question for Jeannie would be what if the same thing happened with your first marriage, like you both are clear on not having/wanting kids and he changes his mind too