That girl laughing about taking ozempic and saying it's like taking vitamins YIKESSSSSSS how are you pregnant and instead of worrying about having a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby you're worrying about your weight 🤦🏽‍♀

This is why I’m glad I don't have TikTok for this very reason. I prefer vintage fashion over modern fashion because I prefer individuality.

Too many followers in society & not enough leaders.

It's so terrible how BBL's have been normalized and women who naturally are curvy people assume they've gotten their body done and then lie about it. I don't understand why people who aren't in the public eye and just work everyday regular jobs need a bbl like make it make sense

This is why I'm loving the hyper feminine looks of the 90's and 2000's. It completely stands out against the 'quiet luxury" or "clean girl " aesthesis.

I really despise the fact that these celebrities are bragging about ozempic and not telling these women about the serious side effects, how they’re taking away from people who have diabetes and don’t realize how it could effect girls who have overcome and still battling an ED and like you said a lot of it is vanity 😩 Edit: it’s so true about the young girls being obsessed with things that are for adult women, It’s why I shop at Sephora early in the morning because it’s ridiculous how many of them are constantly in Sephora and Ulta

CLOCK THAT TEAAA. i feel like people don't even search beyond pinterest for inspiration either like theres movies books architecture like even just looking at the person next to you can draw inspiration for your next style choice

Re: the last point; gentle parenting is NOT the issue. Gentle parenting means not beating your children and giving them some agency. It doesn't mean they don't have consequences or face no punishment - it just matches their behavior/actions versus just being beaten and told 'that will fix you'. We really need to have classes on parenting before we have children fr.

These Sephora and Stanley cup kids need to be stopped. Someone bring back Limited Too right tf now.

These employees do not get paid enough to deal with people's disrespectful unruly kids, parents really don't want to parent anymore and are too busy letting social media raise their kids to instill good values and morals in them. When Toys R us closed I knew a bigger issue was coming because they were shoving tablets in their faces with no balance

I couldn’t agree more with this title of the video because, sometimes you need too turn these aesthetics into your own. That’s what I do and you will never know which one because I turn into my own. That’s FASHION. Not copying.😭💕

Spending and selling $300 on a cup that was sold for $30-$40 is outrageous! a cup ?! there are so many BETTER cups lol and I refuse to buy from resellers even if it's something I want.. and they were waiting on a line for hoursss for a cup lol chileeee

A balance between trends and your own style is ok. But surgery and procedures do extensive research and thought before even going for a consultation!

That girl crying in her car over tooth pain broke my heart. These micro trends need to be seriously reeled in.

Honestly telling my child no became easy when I saw how much I could hurt them if I only ever said yes

These companies have gotten so greedy and I believe some hype around items are fake, I feel like they have in-house influencers who are only there to push trends onto the public lol. You can go outside and see the same wig 25 times within just 15 minutes and don’t get me started on those “beige moms” who don’t want colors in their home because it doesn’t match the “aesthetic” 🙄

I clicked on this vid SO FAST as soon as I saw the title because it seems that a lot of people aren’t talking about how normalized this is. It’s actually concerning how fast fashion and social media have not only harmed how we see ourselves, (and sometimes others), as people but also the environment.. it’s crazy ):

i blame social medias for establishing the popular belief that an aesthetic is a personal style : you can gravitate towards one but there’s many M A N Y ways to pull up an aesthetic, with a large variety of materials, textiles, jewelry, pieces of clothes…It’s all depending on what YOU like. Whether it’s the dark academia, the whimsigothic, the cottage girl…you just won’t wear it the same as other people bc you naturally chose the pieces you’re the most confortable with. An aesthetic is a static phase honestly, your personal style isn’t, it keeps evolving.

I have my own style I don't follow trends

Veneers have been getting so outta hand now they're so obvious when done badly

The problem with the world is the ridiculous amount of consumerism. I don't have a tiktok or x and I'm barely on Instagram so I've personally never cared about trends. I appreciate history and art, I go thrifting, I know how to sew so I make things last longer or create my own stuff. I'm only 26 and have seen the same trends from when I was a kid come back around. Trends always come and go and repeat, nobody should try to keep up at this point. Just be and take care of yourself and reuse or upcycle!

man I swear i’ve been feeling like this for the longest. it seem like nobody has their own style no more, everybody looks alike.. same hair, clothes, & bodies, like where is the diversity ??

Is it bad I use older Black magazines to help find my aesthetic/style of choice? I love reading magazines from back in the day because to me I think lots of 90s/early 00s fashion still works, like I love the vibrant colors. That’s just me though 🤷🏾‍♀️.

Little girls shopping in Sephora is absurd!

And the way fast fashion clothes doesn't last. So even if you're still into what you bought you can't keep wearing it because it falls apart

35 minutes ?!!! Oh girl let me get my snacks and then come back with my thoughts lol

I do realize I really like fashion and coming into my own personal brand of hyperfeminity within each “aesthetic” because I can’t just choose one but I choose what fits with my personal brand. And it helps with channels like these dissecting the fashion of different style icons. Honestly, it’s really easy to be original nowadays

I love the Barbie and bratz doll style. I love in Ms where that seen as extra as hell. But idc I where what I want.

Omgg I wrote a blog about how we all can learn to truly express ourselves in a world overrun by aesthetic, cause it has gotten ridiculous!!! I just deleted tiktok and I already feel better because it’s just too much to keep up with. They have turned our fashion and style cycles into micro trends that shift every god damn week. And it causes so much overconsumption. I fell susceptible to buying micro trends during 2020-2022 and now I have 3 bags full to the brim of clothes that I barely even wore once that I now need to get rid of. And it sucks cause I can’t resell most of it because it’s fast fashion. But some places will at least take the donations for free.

It rattles my brain when ik someone had plastic surg and still use filters.

The plagues of commercialism

That Stanley cup craze was just absurd just to be apart of the "cool kids" a lot of these people are parents! over some basic cup lol. TikTok has had such a negative influence on people. the amazon hauls, the new trends every week, everyone wanting to be famous, reducing the attention span, people propping up their phones to film any and everywhere and getting upset when someone walks pass in A PUBLIC SPACE it has just gotten out of hand. I'm a fashion lover like you and the constant "trend" changing is ridiculous like those people who were telling others they can't wear skinny jeans as if everyone has the same shape and likes the same thing these people are like zom6i3s now

Couldn't agree more. It's just capitalism, unfortunately. I feel bad for younger people.

In my opinion, i think this is only gonna inspire younger generations to explore different trends and styles they wouldn't have before we had access to this level of tech.

I love that you’re doing a video on this because I can’t stand the new trends going on today with aesthetics like leave it alone 🥺

Did I just see a goldfish vacuumed up on vintage tv?

One day I told myself “f**k an aesthetic,my style is whateva I look good in”. It’s like whenever I open Snapchat or instagram it literally be the same styles with no originality. And don’t get me started on the BBL madness. It’s like nobody wants to be natural or be theirselves anymore

I always loved the 50s aesthetic and the outfits in shows like I Love Lucy. They were so glamorous yet the fabric moved with you. They cinched the waist and could be body hugging or free. The hair styles, the bold lip, the color, the cute matching purses and hats, the gloves, the coats, just everything was so feminine and wonderful. It’s sad that such options are so rare these days. Wonderful video as always and congrats on the growth!

Girl this video was sooo goood! you hit on all of the topics, another thing is how these brands have the nerve to be raising the prices on their products and the quality is declining even with some of the luxury brands you have to really look at the labels in these items and see if it's made of good quality. Spending all of this money just for it to fall apart months later. My fiancé helped me with finding the flaws in the clothing because his mother was a seamstress/designer and you'd be surprised how even high fashion luxury brands like Zimmerman are skimping on quality but hiking up the prices

These parents don't understand that when you don't discipline your children the world will, a lot of them are raising the next generation of bratty Karens who think the world owes them something, that girl talking to that Sephora employee like that was out of pocket and her mother didn't correct it. 2she would've left empty handed and wouldn't have been in Sephora to begin with if it was me. wanting Viktor&Rolf something that is for a grown woman.. absolutely not! Bath and Body works is more age appropriate

Spending money on a BBL just to be a video vixen, bottle girl, etc is crazy 😂 getting a major surgery named after Brazil in places other than Brazil is also crazy 😂 Traveling out of the country for surgery should be a red flag enough

Why do we bring the gym girl phase back? But really work out.

I think alot of people need to detox from sm especially people who are easily influenced. TikTok is one of the worst apps created lmao I don't care what anyone says. I used to love buying magazines (I still purchase them) to cut the pages of the clothes and piece them together with things I would wear, so it was trendy clothes with my personal style and I think people need to start doing that again, buying magazines, watching old shows and movies, traveling and getting to know themselves better when it comes to their style

I don’t understand the appeal of Sephora products over drugstore products. As a pharmacist, I know the real difference comes between over the counter vs prescription grade ingredients. Otherwise, you’re just paying for the name, packaging, and social status.

This is why its important to embrace your authentic style which bring out your personality, which is what we're lacking in this day of age due to certain fashion trends that are pretty tacky on social media.

I love your videos! Before I watch I can already answer the question posed in the title: the ladies themselves bullied originality & personality out of each other. I've been living in reasonably physically safe areas. But they haven't felt safe on an emotional, spiritual, mental level. Must I stay at home in order to fully be myself and not get bullied for being different?

Thank you for this video….such a good reminder to appreciate what you have and not follow the crowds

As a woman, I feel so sorry for these girls who feel the need to make up a new aesthetic everyday, and claim each are different, even though it’s literally the same. They feel the need to show off for validation and attention. That usually shouldn’t be a bad thing, but I’ve noticed the pressure they seem to have to wanting to be the main pioneers of everything and make money off it. Yet, they couldn’t even think outside the box.

I prefer thrifting. I don't shop fast fashion anymore. Some ppl don't have access to thrift stores, or thrift stores don't have their sizes. But I have a bone to pick with influencers who are sent $500+ to spend on shopping sprees & they don't wear anything they bought. Regular ppl don't have access to $500 to spend on clothes. Buying $500+ of prison labor, child labor & labor from countries being taken advantage of by colonialism & after that, large corporations keep having access to cheap labor. My mom has a BBL. Because of her fear of fatness. I think ppl are not taking into consideration how fatness is perceived. You can't love yourself out of ppl hating you just because you are fat. Lizzo is healthy. She works out and is a vegan, but that's not enough. Because ppl still correlates skinniness with health. Even though the reason for doing so is because of the fear of Blackness. If there's ppl who doesn't know what I am talking about, pls read Fearing the Black Body. Ppl are conditioned to fear fatness & the creation of the BMI system made it worse. Because of that perception of science backing up that claim that fatness is unhealthy. The BMI system was created by an Eugenist.

Tik Tok is filled with so many followers it's astounding. they will see a video go viral and will remake the video 20,000 times because they want those same views. like where is your creativity? people just want to go viral and have lost all creativity and being innovative because they want quick success. and yesssssss these people will use our slang and make it beyond corny lol. Vogue had posted a video of Ariana Grande singing at the Met Gala and captioned it "the mic was on" y'all do not talk like that! lol just like the "left no crumbs" "it's the (blank) for me". they will wearrrr something out and it never has the same flavor and sounds like they're trying to hard because most of the time they are idk what's so hard about being yourself

I'm like you I love fashion and shopping but the trends every other day is tiring, I don't care for trends and have developed my own personal style but what's annoying is the younger generation coming after us millennials trying to tell us what's "in" or "out" thinking they're creating something new while stealing the trends and style from the 90s,80s,70s etc. 😂😂 they lack originality and want to be apart of every group and have group think

This is so important!

I remember i was told i have no fashion style XD But i took it as a big compliment because it tells me i have my own.

I don’t mind my daughter doing her skincare, wanting perfume, and wanting her nails and toes done. She’s nine, but I’m extremely feminine and girly, so it isn’t a shock my daughter is into these things. HOWEVER, the rudeness is a problem🙄 as a parent, PARENT !! Check them for being rude ! My daughter would never !!! It’d be a cold day in hell😂😂 and a colder one in prison, because that’s where I’d land if my daughter thought she could EVER speak that way.

Good afternoon: This clearly shows you the many insecurities that exist. It's insane that some ppl would go so far to look a certain way. These women talking about the mess up on there BBL & veneer procedures need to realize that's their fault. And stop whining & crying. It's dumb, don't be placing the blame, on someone else. Wtw is with those Stanley cup 🥤 thing. The kids act like they won the lottery or something 🙄🙄..!! I'm a 90's gurl, in the early 2000's & 90's I've barely heard any stories about BBL's & Veneer surgery. It's sad the parents are okay with this. I wish some would just stick to the way they were born. It's wayyy better to be different. This is why I only use natural stuff ( honey,🍌, 🍋) etc. Natural beauty is the best beauty. Parents need to take charge & fast. Great video & have a great day..!!

I love and appreciate your content so much, thank you!!! Keep going 💕

The vanity of women and the need to compare and compete with each other will always keep these fast fashion and cosmetic companies in business.

I believe you just read my mind and took all the words out my mouth...amazing video 💐🤍

This generation is extremly terrible and broken

I have absolutely NO sympathy for people who go to veneer techs and go out of the country for discounts cosmetic surgery. If you play stupid games, you get stupid prizes!

Gentle parenting is teaching your child a lesson in a softer way that still gets your message across. However a lot of parents are opting to not teach ANY lesson because they feel like they can’t compete with the influence of influencers. It’s quite sad actually

this was cool video, and very diverse examples

As long as I maintain my weight, I have my forever wardrobe. All vintage, except for athletic clothing. I love my clothes and my personal style, which is mostly70s.

Love this channel

The illusion of inclusion

When I was a tween, I thought I was hot stuff because I had a bottle of Love's Baby Soft and a Bonne Bell Lip Smacker. Sephora and Ulta didn't exist. I didn't buy my first high end cosmetic (probably a Clinique lipstick) until I was in my twenties, and I had a job to pay for it.

A lot of wounded lost souls 😔

31:51 If I would've said aome mess like my parents would said, "Alright let's go! If you're going to act that we're leaving & tou get nothing!" Hell my dad use to tell me, "Okay we're jist looking but if you ask for anything we're leaving."

I can't lie. I bought into asthetics all this last year but now I'm trying to have my own asthetic.

It seems like back in the day, although celebrities were setting trends, people weren’t dedicating their whole wardrobe to looking like it. It was usually like an outfit or two. I think these online retailers having soooo many options, it takes away from the experience of clicking through the sites and finding what you like just as you do in the mall/physical stores. Shein & fashion nova especially has so much inventory that its so much easier for people to just see a haul or outfit inspo online and go from there. I hate it. I prefer shopping in person for the full experience but because of fast fashion, these malls are closing down. The only malls surviving are the more high-end malls but paying $100 for a cute dress (thats not even timeless) is crazy!!!

I hear BBL leave women who get them have an order 🤭

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You can change the outside, sure you can fix it. But theres no fixing your mind, your perspective of yourself or the way you, see you. Perhaps you can, but people often find that it was easier to fix the outside than it was to fix the inside.

Best to do is ignore these posers and be a total boomer to all this , participate in ur own life

Sad 😔

I rather stay to something’s TRUE and TIMELESS 🤍✨

You can change the outside, sure you can fix it. But theres no fixing your mind, your perspective of yourself or the way you, see you. Perhaps you can, but people often find that it was easier to fix the outside than it was to fix the inside.