what happened when i started being authentic

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Күн бұрын

here is where authenticity brought me,
i hope this inspires you to be unapologetically yourself.
visit my website: unapologeticallyourself.com

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@RedC220 Ай бұрын

Imagine understanding this in your 20's. What opportunities lay before you. What a life you're going to lead. I was 54 before I figured all this out. And I'm still healing and yet to start my authentic journey. In my case I achieved the material desires that society expects us to, only to find life completely empty once I hit my "Goals". The upside of this is I now don't need to work or worry about money. The downside is I won't get the time back. Trust me when I tell you the lost time isn't worth the money.

@earthbeanlexi Ай бұрын

in your next life you will most likely figure it out a lot earlier! everything happens exactly when it is supposed to for each individual's life path. I can understand this frustration though. it's just the timing of which the world is waking up & it's all divinely perfect. you are divinely perfect.

@theabbyens Ай бұрын

@@earthbeanlexi i fully agree!

@Spartan-Of-Truth Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing that… that means a lot. I’m the opposite. Few possessions but I value my time and am ‘getting by’. But I’m really filling myself up with experiences I love and enjoy. And I accomplish quite a bit being this way. Much love.

@hummingbird4934 Ай бұрын

I’ve been so lucky. I was fully authentic in my teens and twenties. Now in my thirties not so much! We fluctuate and change throughout our life and that’s fine 😊 it’s hard to ignore the messages that society programmes into us

@shapeoftimes Ай бұрын

I am 54 too and started to figure all this out. For the first time I feel like I am putting myself first and trying to find out who I am and starting to be authentic.

@Divisyon474 Ай бұрын

I just cried after you said “Your hobbies, your passion and your interests, they will lead you to your purpose”. I’m going to be 25 soon, and I’ve realized how much I put myself aside in the past 5 years because I needed to have a degree, I needed to have that white collar job, I needed to have a nice house and car. By pursuing all of these materialist stuff, I lost my self along the way. I just now started my authenticity journey, where I’m coming back to my interest, hobbies and passion. Thank you for this video, my soul needed to hear this.

@carolinapinto4085 22 күн бұрын

Omg this is amazing! I turned 25 last month and also spent several years feeling lost, especially the last five as well, because all my life I was told I needed the have a linear path. But then nothing was sticking, except for my passions that I wasn't allowed to pursue when I was younger, so I didn't even consider them. Today was the first day I started searching for the kind of job I would really like to have. And even though I know it will be tough and there will still be voices in my life telling me I won't be able to do it, I can now see that all the things I did by myself while feeling like a failure and like society was judging me have now become me, and even small things like going to see a movie by yourself cuz you just feel it feels amazing, and you still have other people in your life. But your me time is awesome and you say it proudly cuz you earned it. You pushed through the discomfort. And I'm just so glad that this is slowly happening all around. A life is a life and all should be able to experience all the joy possible, no matter the age (I used to feel like my path was already carved bc some people say it is!). Of course we appreciate it even more after the confusion. It's all part of it 💜

@GennaBradley 21 күн бұрын

I can’t believe I’m not he only one who feels this way🥺 I love that technology has allowed us to learn things like this,

@bparcej6233 26 күн бұрын

Authenticity is about being guided by intuition and not impulses✨

@WillSelfless 24 күн бұрын

It's both. Spontaneity is of high value. Life is rarely either/or and frequently is both/and 🔴

@bparcej6233 23 күн бұрын

@@WillSelfless I think that intuition comes from a deeper source within…impulse tends to be more superficial and may be driven by misguided motives.

@chrismullin8304 21 күн бұрын

I have heard, “thoughts are electric and emotions are magnetic”, and that this information is very important to understand.

@koala2464 Ай бұрын

Fulfilling your purpose is just to live in love, be love and share love.

@ArtwithOlga Ай бұрын

This feeling is so freeing. It's hard to describe. We are so restricted by some expectations of other people and society but when we truly become ourselves, we can truly live. Someone might think we are weird or something but who cares? You will pass this person and they won't give you a second thought. Honestly, we usually care too much but we need to remember we are just background in most people lives and they don't really care that much. It might sound sad but I mean it in a good way. Have a lovely day!

@Spartan-Of-Truth Ай бұрын

I’ve been a programmer, carpenter, math-aid… I’ve been a body builder, personal trainer, prison guard, etc. I’ve battled my emotions, my thoughts and my spirit. But now I’m at a place where I realize that, like you said, what **I** am interested in and enjoy doing is probably the most important part of my purpose. Energy. That’s what my emotions, thoughts and spirit is and I’m no longer attaching my identity to any of these things. Just setting goals, planning and then flowing. I tend to imagine a world with just me. And in that world I can accomplish anything. Other people are usually the cause of my downfall so I avoid people and focus on myself and others on my path. Blessings, thank you for the content.

@AbbyNjuguna 19 күн бұрын

All the best to you!! Wow having done all these things is really impressive and am sure you will thrive in your future ventures!!

@Spartan-Of-Truth 19 күн бұрын

@@AbbyNjuguna Thank you. 🤝

@farahamin9670 21 күн бұрын

The amount of great scenery and how you hugged the tree made me really happy , such great places to calm down in and just sit ♡

@mushymystic 18 күн бұрын

You're so highly attuned, I'm glad I have watched you touch on these topics. An irony: Our ego, keeping us safe, self-soothing? Self-sabotage as well, as you pointed out. We need to embrace a growth, healing mindset and trust our inner self; The ego is like an overprotective carer, its craving safety limits our ability to grow, work through "dangerous" feelings. Stop nurturing ego, start trusting expansive you. It's great to see someone your age sharing your knowledge; at your (assumed) age I didn't want to share - My ego was hiding so much from me, to keep me "safe".

@stephaniechabot4806 28 күн бұрын

Great for you to realize this so young. I want my children to hear you say this. I am in my 50’s now and i am just realizing i can be weird, i can be me. I want my children to realize this earlier in their lives so they can enjoy and cherish life. Bless you for doing this and expressing your true self.

@spexi513 27 күн бұрын

I’m 43 and so very happy you arrived here sooner than I did … took me nearly 4 decades 💚

@TC-cr2oy 21 күн бұрын

I am so proud of you. I'm 50 and have just reached the place you are standing. You are a beautiful human and I'm glad to be sharing this world with you.

@TalhaaArt Ай бұрын

I have interest in art and psychology but i am studying English literature and idk what am i doing with my life, but atleast i am trying... Ty for this video.

@romanovinwonderland Ай бұрын

You're doing good - Literature IS art and so often books have so many elements of psychology within them - from the worlds and societies the stories take place in, to the people, the characters and their relationships. I had a similar journey, honours degree in photography/art history. Masters degree in Psychology. Now i'm just a book worm in my alone time. One thing will lead to another, and each thing you take with you will always bring something of value to your next venture. Keep doing what you're doing - TRYING is the most important, you won't have many regrets from giving things your best.

@TalhaaArt Ай бұрын

@@romanovinwonderland You explained it very well, yes i agree with you. I too read books mostly on psychology and have learned a great deal from them and i will be applying for Masters in psychology and will continue Art and reading as a hobby. Thank you, your words are encouraging 🌸

@allnattytran Ай бұрын

I just started my youtube channel, and was feeling so discouraged, but thanks to this video, you helped ground me and feel like I'm not doing this for no reason. Also synchronicity for me since you have 2.22k followers, I married my wife on 2.22.22 and have a 222 tattoo haha. Wish you a joyous and wonderful life ahead. :)

@theabbyens Ай бұрын

just checked one of your videos & the views was at 222 :) love & light to you

@allnattytran Ай бұрын

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@yulia_sarada Ай бұрын

Your style is so sincere and clear. Thank you for being you 🦋

@AdamiIAm Ай бұрын

Authenticity; a highly underrated, yet very much appreciated, Human Quality.......Thank You, Om Shanti Shanti, Adami I Am 🌈🙏🌹💜🙏

@krizcastro6565 Ай бұрын

This video was highly vibrational and inspiring I love it so much, I can’t thank you enough for this useful education 🙏🏼

@amandasymon4363 Ай бұрын

We are the creators of everything in our reality 👊 So Glad I found you 🙏

@ir3561 Ай бұрын

your videography is stunning!!!!

@visionwise Ай бұрын

very happy I stumbled upon your content, the authenticity is obvious and it's a breath of fresh air

@earthbeanlexi Ай бұрын

YOU'RE AMAZING!! This made me cry

@M-xlz3 Ай бұрын

New subscriber here. Your channel showed up in my feed! I’m excited to explore your channel! It seems like it will deeply resonate with me, especially as a physically disabled man in my mid-30s. There’s a lot in my life I’m very curious about, so I read voraciously. I absolutely love learning about human behavior, even my own. I’ve struggled to live authentically in a few areas of my life; fear holds me back to a certain extent from doing so. Thankfully I’ve begun to find the people who 100% understand a side of me I’m still trying to understand myself, which is absolutely amazing!! Finding these people has immensely helped me feel better about beginning to live authentically. But back to you. You are an amazing human being! Please remember this!!

@LovesonKaliraj Ай бұрын

i am so glad i found this channel, already loving this

@user-hk2hb4yu8q Ай бұрын

Wow, love thisss, thanks so much for share! ✨

@sonjac6 26 күн бұрын

Thank you for reminding me of everything I learned when I was in that hermit mode, like you. This was so beautifully put together! 🙌

@manufacturingmomentum Ай бұрын

Truly a blessing I found your channel…Thank you so much! 🙏🏼❤️

@EmmiIgnatius Ай бұрын

This was the most powerful KZfaq video I have watched in a long, long time. Wise, mature words from someone, who is still young.

@christopherdiazz Ай бұрын

What a beautiful message with stunning visuals! Great job Abby!

@edweenanicolas5786 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I never seen anyone put it in this perspective and it stands out to me. It really helps your authenticity inspires me !

@AndreeaT3003 Ай бұрын

This was so profound. Thank you for sharing. I had goosebumps listening.

@mariaworkman8912 Ай бұрын

the scenery you chose for this was so moving and calming. this feels a bit like a synchronicity for me. I've always wanted to pursue photography but have always been really scared. recently I've been starting to open myself up to it despite the fear. the fact that you talked about it rung such a bell for me, I was like, wow, I really want to do that too, and I can do it if I want too. thank you for making this video and I'm glad I was led to it. also, I love your hair, it's so beautiful!

@helilovee Ай бұрын

A beautiful soul, a beautiful message🤍. Lots of love.

@sharonwilson8369 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much confirmation for me , I love the way you are sharing this ,you have helped me so much with hearing your message today ❤

@fautil Ай бұрын

Beautifully said ! You give me hope for your generation and the next ones to come !! Thanks for sharing !!

@dad102 20 күн бұрын

Good for you. Gorgeous images.

@irondogjourney Ай бұрын

Beautiful message all the way around. Great work. Inspired.

@Avery_4272 Ай бұрын

Abby, you've developed such great wisdom, and thank you for sharing it with so many people here. I've no doubt you'll continue to live authentically and according to your passions. When more people experience the enlightenment that you have, I believe the world will shift in its mass consciousness and will, as you mentioned, live in Divine harmony. I like to think this will occur as soon as within the next 50-100 years. I like to think you will see this magnificent shift in the world in your lifetime. Peace and joy to you.

@user-be3nm5wy8q Ай бұрын

you are an amazing human being!! keep shining your beautiful light

@NikaLunaWrites Ай бұрын

This video is perfection. Thank you!

@bantamgolf 19 күн бұрын

You’re awesome! Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏻

@elliebloomfield11 Ай бұрын

This has got to be the most impactful video I have ever watched!❤️‍🔥 it’s touched me deeply and blown me away ❤️‍🔥 thank you for inspiring me and reminding me 💫 sending you so much love x

@sharanjhaveri6324 Ай бұрын

Im 25 right now, Ive had a similar journey as you. That voice has definitely gotten quieter. Im really happy for you and hope we continue on this journey.

@molmollmolley 21 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing this wisdom, it deeply resonates and what an amazing human you are! 🧡✨🛸

@ToddDuren-zm1nt Ай бұрын

Sounds like you are on your right path. Keep going. You rock!

@Magicmindi 15 күн бұрын

Absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing

@niyatidave257 Ай бұрын

Your videos are something I wanted from a very long time.. Thank you so much ❤... Just keep going ✨

@DashShumilova 23 күн бұрын

Thank you for this beautiful message and your vulnerability

@gastronomee_ Ай бұрын

your videos are the epitome of comfort. you inspire me as a new creator.

@viviantsang5904 Ай бұрын

I am so happy to come across your videos❤ they are beautiful!!!

@teganufer Ай бұрын

This video was the most real, honest thing I've seen in a long time. Thank you for being you! It inspires me to do the same 💜 also you're voice is really relaxing.

@graceartsgifts 27 күн бұрын

Beautiful it's so true!! ❤😊 so happy you figured that out so young! God Bless

@dorotaburyskova7508 27 күн бұрын

i love this soo much, thank you for sharing the wisdom

@caitlinguttu7696 Ай бұрын

You are inspiring! I needed this, keep going

@KristineT4525 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the wonderful messages at exactly the perfect time!!

@beverlytessier9830 Ай бұрын

Beautiful Job! You are lovely inside and out and very wise for a young person God Bless you

@oakleyanderson6183 19 күн бұрын

Your energy will never be forgotten

@user-tk2wl6id3r 27 күн бұрын

What an inspiring video!! Very awake young lady you are. Glad you showed up on my page. ❤ thank you 🙏

@soumiabenrochd1396 Ай бұрын

Lovely video and comforting energy! I love when you hug that huge tree. It's a way to connect with nature and through with what truly matters. Thank you.

@mylifesmeditations8802 Ай бұрын

Your words, energy, and presence are so beautiful in this video. I’m so happy I found this. It’s people like you that truly inspire me. Way more than anyone who achieves those “material” accomplishments. Your courage to walk your own path inspires me to do the same. Thank you so much for showing up and sharing your heart. I needed this more than I can explain ❤️

@AveryBalliet 21 күн бұрын

You have a way with delivering a message that lands in the most incredible way. I've come to realize that this only happens when you come from a place of authenticity. Thank you for sharing exactly who you are so others can learn what that looks/feels like!

@JasmineSauser 21 күн бұрын

This is probably my favorite KZfaq video I’ve ever watched. You explained this human journey so beautifully and in a way that was consumable for so many people. The videography aided the message and I am just grateful to have been able to consume your art and authenticity. Thank you! ❤

@TravellingKook Ай бұрын

Abby, this is incredible! Profound wisdom that you are sharing, both storytelling and cinematography are amazing! It inspires me to move in a direction that I have been feeling, thank you for being you and for sharing what resonated so deeply with me, I had goosebumps! All the love to you ❤🙏

@soulofchiara Ай бұрын

Your photography is just Stunning 😍 100% agree with everything you said and it’s wonderful to see your passions impact the world in real time. Your video is evidence of that!❤

@malachypoitras9114 Ай бұрын

That was really good, great message as usual 👍

@user-lv1fv5kt6w 17 күн бұрын

You are brilliant! Keep on this amazing path.

@veralindberg1284 Ай бұрын

So inspirational, shine your light beautiful soul! thank you for this :)

@AIfans999 22 күн бұрын

beautiful! thank you! 🙏❤

@Neurosoma576 Ай бұрын

I can relate to this a lot. You seek truth. Thanks for sharing

@tayamarie7826 18 күн бұрын

This is so inspiring, spread the light! xx The world is a better place when we remember to love and be love.

@sofialeventhal8159 22 күн бұрын

that was amazing. thank you for sharing!

@valery5659 Ай бұрын

Wow I resonate with what you say so much. I am currently on my journey to authencity in every aspect of life, it`s increadibly hard but also rewarding. Thank you for this video. Your energy and the nature feel familiar for some reason

@rachelbankier Ай бұрын

Thank you so much sir this inspiring video. This is exactly what I need to hear today. I can't wait to watch more of your videos!

@CafeCass Ай бұрын

Thank you for creating this. All love to you

@stevefrench5812 Ай бұрын

this is beautiful

@mandytrathan4857 Ай бұрын

Thank you what a gift you are thank you universe ❤

@sadiejane3969 29 күн бұрын

You’re so inspiring! ❤️

@emilyunfolding Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing! Keep creating! I love your wisdom and your art :)

@skye55555 Ай бұрын

this made me tear up 😢💞 just subbed ;)

@leannalong8856 24 күн бұрын

Beautiful video! Such wisdom at such a young age! Your words are deep truths. Thank you for sharing❤

@nahannilove Ай бұрын

This was such a bright light in my day, what an extraordinary soul you are.. I would say a starseed 🌌 with a modern giant led flashlight. So radiant so true so loving and so powerful. May we all feel the love you are.. I feel blessed to have watched this and heard your wisdom words to love more fully myself today. thank you.

@jimi3060 Ай бұрын

That's beautiful ❤️ such wisdom in someone so young restores my faith in humanity. Thank you and bless you and yours 🪷🙏🕊️🦋

@Elysianwisdom33 26 күн бұрын

Thank you for such a beautiful video and for sharing your experience ❤

@ian.eightyseven 21 күн бұрын

This is an incredible video! Keep going!

@HollyNSwick Ай бұрын

What a wise woman you are! You know so much at such a young age. I have just been learning these things in the last few years and I am almost 50. You are a true blessing to the world!

@kaiasyrbu Ай бұрын

beautiful video! thank you! there are a lot of thing to reflect on

@Simpleconsciousliving 21 күн бұрын

You are a beautiful old soul ❤ Thanks for sharing your journey with us. I just subscribed 🙂

@jamie.miller.inspiring 29 күн бұрын

Its an amazing journey back to being in alignment with our soul isnt it 🙏💖

@witch8610 Ай бұрын

I also hug with trees... Love from Russia

@jenniferdehner2108 14 күн бұрын

Right on chica! Go go go! Woot!

@AchemySoul Ай бұрын

6:55 got me tearing up girl ❤

@shreya18995 19 күн бұрын

Beautiful video❤

@ellasteele01 Ай бұрын

this is so beautiful and honest and raw and perfect, and so are you. Thank you for helping me to reconnect with myself again. please never stop making videos and using your voice. i love you stranger!!

@rainncorbin8291 16 күн бұрын

I embraced my "weird" too. And i started doing things for me. I healed what was broken and started loving myself. I no longer care what people think. That's not my business. I get downloads and i do meditation as well. My purpose is just to live life and do my thing. I started painting after being put in a wheelchair and i dedicated 6 hours a day to teaching myself. I now sell my art. I put not only beauty in paint, but i put energy/frequencies into the painting so it actually changes the energy in the room to more positive. Yes, you must make the inner journey. I am so thankful for who i am and what i have. My reality IS my creation. I manifest anything i need or want. My income on paper looks bleak but the fact is that i have hundreds left over every month. I don't question how, that's not my job. It's my job to call it in, not to figure out how. I was forced into change as well. When i got put in a wheelchair, i could no longet run from myself and i had to face all my demons. Ironic that i didn't get free until i was no longer physically free. I did so much inner work that a 30 year addiction just fell by the wayside without any effort at all. It was the result of healing myself. I have 5 years now and i don't do meetings or avoid going anywhere. I am not the same person who got high. That was someone else. I bought a house, i got divorced and i live alone with my dogs and absolutely love it!! I'm finally free and i wouldn't trade it for anything

@fionalewis3121 26 күн бұрын

Incredible wisdom, that could only ever come from being completely away from external influences, hermit mode as you say. Good for you, to know all that and have your entire life ahead of you.