I know of *NO* woman born between 1950 and 1985 who respects her husband or any other man. Including in the church. Feminism tells them to become strong, you can do everything, the most important thing is that you feel good about yourself, and all men are terrible monsters who only want to control you. I have never met any exceptions. I long for the day when women draw near to the Lord in devotion to Him, be filled with His love, and show that love to their husbands.
@sabinebonschab3522 жыл бұрын
I am born 1980 and i saw that my father was dominant and my mother devot . And i 'm a christian since 2006. God changeed me out of rebellion. Now i will obey a men, when Gott send it to me.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Surely a few exist? Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.
@84CORVETTEBILL10 ай бұрын
They’re out there… class of 1977 wife
@spilledit6 ай бұрын
And we are talking about the Christian women.
@jasminesuarez83585 ай бұрын
It's because how mentreated women. women. As objects. Even the greatest men in bible had multiple wives. Women don't respect men because men don't respect women. And after centuries of oppression they r tired.
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
Treat a man the way you want him to be, and he will try
@arwenrosalie3031Ай бұрын
@@gretelhance does this go both ways?
@JJones-nf9ce3 жыл бұрын
To avoid conflict I would stay longer at work and catch up on projects or exercise longer at the gym. The home is supposed to be a sanctuary and refuge from the world where we can relax and regroup and feel loved. When a man is badgered by his spouse who has no intent on solving a disagreement then he begins to ponder ways to achieve a peaceful home with his spouse until he realizes that they idea might not ever become a reality
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
What you should have done was understand that your wife needed to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth of God, anyone who lives in sin willfully and continuously does not know God.
@pickingupthepiecesofme5 жыл бұрын
In the context of a relationship WE need to protect one another... that is a great point. It starts with ME. That respect your husband and love your wife, are God's way of "protecting one another".
@moonman9084 жыл бұрын
I'm on vacation and day 1 I'm ready to go back to work.
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@djcavein20112 жыл бұрын
Divorce bro
@Ivan.A.Churlyuski4 жыл бұрын
This is true, it’s like my life completely especially how my wife constantly disrespects me and denies me fatherhood, the younger, prettier and nicer woman at work recognizes it and has been advancing on me, telling me to leave her and be with her. I thought she was asking me to cheat and I rejected her and she made clear she didn’t want to be with me while I was in a relationship. It all makes me feel terrible... my wife makes me feel terrible about myself and this woman at work makes me feel fantastic and hopeful. I’m mentally cheating on my wife, I get low and think about the offer from someone who at least says they want to be with me and that I’m special then I feel bad for thinking and sometimes dreaming of the woman at work.
@revatherealestateagentandr89644 жыл бұрын
It goes both ways , are you loving your wife by thinking of another woman? And if you think about it that other woman is a snake in disguise, what kind of a woman flirts with a married man? She is needy and will be way worse than the wife you have. Give your wife your attention, your flirty lines, your thoughts. Please the woman you have . Do for her the things you are with holding because you don’t think she deserves it. See her as valuable. What you put your effort into will grow, what you ignore and dismiss and run from will fester and eventually die. Bring life back to your wife and in do doing into your own life. If your wife is not asking you to sin, why not please her? Hugs and best wishes, dear brother.
@Ivan.A.Churlyuski4 жыл бұрын
Just Me? Do you consider abortion a sin? I do, and since she killed my child it’s hard to want to give her anything. Valuable.. I’m trapped with a murderer.
@preciousafolabi81974 жыл бұрын
@@Ivan.A.Churlyuski Am so sorry,why are still with her,my prayer everyday by Gods grace and mercy is to honour ,respect and obey my Husband,treat him like the King he is,please i hope you settle your differences and find a common ground.
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
Ego =edging God out
@virginiarush85412 жыл бұрын
For that woman at work to feel comfortable telling you that, you were crossing lines a long time ago.
@webuysellhousesaptscashoff94534 жыл бұрын
Lord. I am sorry for being so disrespectful. Please forgive me Lord and I pray my husband forgives me. I didn’t mean to be this way. Judging so harshly.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Amen. Amen. the realization is everything. God wanted to show you this. Gods ways are perfect and he is ultimate intelligence. Surely his ways are good for us. God is our Father, he isn't going to give us a stone, in place of bread but his teaching are for our good and gives us life. Not a stone that is useless to us. God is not the author of confusion but of peace. Luke 11:9 And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. 10 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. 11 If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent?
@MrDetailer-gn9hy2 жыл бұрын
I'm failing to see how it's not the wife's fault if she does not respect her husband. Because of her disrespect, the husband feels the need to go elsewhere. Simple "cause and effect"
@AndreBentrup Жыл бұрын
He had to say that because the church circus is run by emotional women
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Good thing Christ does not do that to us when we sin against him, a marriage is a reflection of Christ t and the Church. The cause of all problems on both ends is disobedience to God words. Those who are saved and have come to the knowledge of the truth, will want to make an effort to do the what the "word" of God says. All stems from disobeying God, and all can be solved by obeying God.
@MrDetailer-gn9hy Жыл бұрын
@bible1st so if the man is doing his part, but the woman is not; the man is supposed to continue being "obedient"? Sounds like she gets to do whatever she wants without consequences.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
@@MrDetailer-gn9hy Well, We are to always try to be obedient to God's word no matter what, We will be held accountable, And nobody ever disobeys Gods word and gets off the hook my friend. Everyone reaps what they sow. If the woman is not doing correctly then she needs to hear the word of God, what God has commanded of her. If she rejects the word of God completely, then you shouldve listen to God command to " Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers" from the beginning. If you want to tell me more, i may can help you.
@jourdantodd98265 жыл бұрын
Some people are just to selfish to respect there partners I’ve gone through this no matter how much I’ve done for them and made them happy they love to call me names say someone else could do what I’ve done but better it’s tiring going through that constantly
@sabinebonschab3522 жыл бұрын
Sorry Sir for that. I know deep into my heart, that God wants woman to be respectfull silence humbl and obey.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
2 choices. You can either pray for and try find a good Christian woman who truly wants to do the word of God, or you must work to bring your wife to the knowledge of the truth of the Lord God.,and somtimes she will not listen to you, bevcause she knows you. No prophet has honor in his own hometown, So maybe invite her to a good church on sundays or wensdays so she can hear the word of God from others and come to the knowledge of the truth.
@barneychan55713 жыл бұрын
Want to feel respected? Don’t get married.
@sabinebonschab3522 жыл бұрын
Sorry Sir for your experience.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Well it has to do with the curse of Genesis 3.... If you want to respected, Follow the commands of God and do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.
@slm8974Ай бұрын
@@sabinebonschab352you seem like a lady who gives her husband respect, honor and love.
@sabinebonschab352Ай бұрын
@@slm8974 thank you ,Sir. That is so truly on my heart. Have a nice day.😊
@slm8974Ай бұрын
@@sabinebonschab352 no problem. You have a nice one too.
@kiera63265 жыл бұрын
If two people can not respect each other within a marriage, then it is going to fail. Period.
@curt22335 жыл бұрын
Thank You finally someone said it its about mutual respect, to be able to discuss things communucate and have respect for thier partners discussion not blow it off as stupid or undeserving of time
@memesfeast76883 жыл бұрын
Curt this is talking about women disrespecting man smh
@kiera63263 жыл бұрын
@Jesus_Saves GOD IS GOOD I see little reason as to why gender must be specified. This is just a general rule that applies to everyone in every relationship, regardless of any sort of category.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Also If two unbelievers are yoked together its going to fail, because no house divided against itself shall stand! This is the word of God. Either both parties must get saved and put God first and come under the word of God the knowledge of the truth and want to obey God or that house is falling. Gods word cannot be broken.
@kiera6326 Жыл бұрын
@@bible1st But if two people have the same belief, then it’s not divided against itself? It’s united. Couples with differing beliefs are much more likely to divorce
@gregorylatta8159Ай бұрын
Spitting facts right out of the gate 💯
@casselliny7 жыл бұрын
Lord help me. I truly want to respect and honor my husband and at times I do really well. But it seems I always fall back to bad habits and carnal ways. I know we all will struggle on this side of heaven but I pray the Lord will truly bring consistency in the way I treat my husband. :)
@casselliny6 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thanks for sharing. I know my husband has his faults and things that he does that hurts me as well. God is the only one who can help us and the fact that we both feel convicted is a sign of His grace.
@AndreBentrup Жыл бұрын
Maybe you women should stop marrying men who you have no respect for in the first place
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Amen. Well consider that God is ultimate intelligence so when we alighn ourselves with his word then this is the smartest thing we can possibly do as humans.
@paisleypeach445 жыл бұрын
Disagree, some men such as my dad and my husband are workaholics. They feel that providing well for their family is how they show love. And to blow off steam and cope with stress they play golf and in my husbands case he likes to train for triathlons. I therefore have learned to appreciate their way of showing love and allow them to enjoy their down time with out nagging. At least not too much. ☺️
@dmitry922034 жыл бұрын
You are a gem. I would be willing to say that you have 3 or more children and you are also one of several siblings.
@cvhinson18 ай бұрын
Yeah, ok. Thats what the wife in the preachers’s example would say exactly. Oops
@cvhinson18 ай бұрын
@@dmitry92203reel her in dmitry, reel her in….
@survivalsquid7 жыл бұрын
Men and women have two very different concepts of love and respect. Sadly, too many people have a concept of love cut from whole cloth to sell perfume and movie tickets, a Hollywood fantasy, an advertising gimmick. For a husband respect is number one. If you want the man you fell in love with show him he's appreciated, counted on and respected and he will start paying attention to what you want and give it to you. Marriages only work when both parties put the other person first and someone has to innitate. Men can go first, and my interpretation of the bible would seem to say we should; but if that isn't reciprocated then any self respecting man will slam that door in your face and good luck getting back open. And men if you want respect from anyone, you earn it by being respectable and respectful. Reject passivity, take initiative, take action and accept the consequences. Be responsible, honorable and then you can demand a higher reward.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Husbands and wives are a reflection of Christ and the church. Now we know that God moves first " We love him, because he first loved us".... But i also want you to notice that both Peter and Paul, when they address in their scriptures about marriage they ALWAYS start out with Wives first. This is interesting, because with the husbands being the "head" of the wife, you would think they would address the husbands first, but they do not.
@bellareina055 жыл бұрын
How can you respect someone that is not respectable
@kingkatiin26585 жыл бұрын
Why would you get with someone who you deem not worthy of your respect
@meredithr98244 жыл бұрын
Just call it and move on. Its hard, but you'll just regret wasting time with someone who doesn't care about the relationship ship. (Good lord, these replies, wtaf?)
@kingkatiin26584 жыл бұрын
@nazmi nazmi Women just want a man who's gonna lead and dominate. Once you're in a relationship with a weak minded man, whether he was always like that or became like with from you tearing him down, his best choice is to leave before he can change for the better. It's like telling a crackhead to change but still hang around a bunch of crackheads.
@kingkatiin26583 жыл бұрын
@Sandra Lift him up, at the end of the day that's your man. If you're not gonna help him be better don't waste your time. Too many women underestimate the power of p****y. You can literally change a man for the better with just words. Get his self-esteem up and he'll start acting better. There's only so much one person can do. I've seen too many people in toxic relationships tearing eachother down. Where as all you need to say is 'You can do better, I believe in you. If you're as bad as you think you are I would've never got with you.' a good word goes a long way
@jaeisley53243 жыл бұрын
Man if he ain't telling the truth! ✊ I don't know who is
@polariszene85423 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@spilledit6 ай бұрын
It aunt women, they never tell the truth
@jaeisley53243 жыл бұрын
I want the rest of this message on KZfaq immediately
@E5mma_combat Жыл бұрын
Protect this man at all cause
@kerrypatel76326 жыл бұрын
.....then , hide your assets , Divorce & move on. Initially, it looks damaging, but in the long run you will be happy & can save your resources.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Is that the command of God? No, no its not. God hates divorce.
@carlg5086 Жыл бұрын
Of course its her fault.
@yahushuaslight47493 ай бұрын
Please pray for my marriage and family..
@mw43824 жыл бұрын
I'm on that Road, I am in the process of buying a sports Car. I have said I need hobbies over& over. I am working 12 hrs everyday
@Veryniceandveryevil14 күн бұрын
My wife. You know of one now.😢
@piscesgoddessspirtualherbl84504 жыл бұрын
And sometimes Constantly being Disappointed over & over again !!! That can be 1 reason why a wife Can lose Respect for her husband aswell ????
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
Rely on God. Let him keep you content.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Your commanded by God to submit and respect your husband. So the only thing you lost was your obeidence to God. If its that bad, just remember who chose him.
@cliveadams76295 жыл бұрын
So porn is _women's_ fault! Who knew?
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
He never finished lesson?
@shakahutchinson5 жыл бұрын
Thats so tru
@bekinditcostsnothing16843 жыл бұрын
I'm not respecting someone who doesn't deserve respect. It is earned. My husband lost mine by treating me like garbage. Then complained I didn't respect him, well abusers do that too. I'm happy to be married to Jesus.
@Sldoficn2 жыл бұрын
Did Jesus not respect those who put him to death? Wishing you well sister 🙏
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Ok, So you are going to willfully live in sin and in disobeidence to God? See the dilemma? Get saved and come to the knowledge of the truth of the living God.
@cliffcarr36324 жыл бұрын
My wife would think this video is garbage.
@TheDE7ANEY4 жыл бұрын
Same here brother lol.
@cliffcarr36324 жыл бұрын
@@TheDE7ANEY lol
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
So your wife thinks the " word" of God is garbage? Then you you should've listened to God where it says "Be not unequally yoked with unbelievers". Now you made a vow, God hates vow breakers, God takes no pleasure in fools. Pay what thou owest.
@baymoulie87128 жыл бұрын
Where can we see the full sermon on this, is any body knows?
@kingrandorrobinson3013 жыл бұрын
Where is the rest of the video i need it asap
@jbarkley41985 жыл бұрын
Where can i get the full version of this video?
@tonyhsloanejr4 жыл бұрын
I just withdrew to the hobby shop. Staying together for the kids. I don't even try anymore what's the point it will just be a big argument and nothing will change anyway.
@revatherealestateagentandr89644 жыл бұрын
Why argue? Why not try and please her? If it is important to her, why not? In your pleasing her I bet she will feel guilty of the the areas she has fallen short and try to please you too. Try it. For at least one week ask for nothing in return. And ....Write down all the things she has asked if you over the years. This might take some time. Now cross out the things that are illegal or truly immoral or unethical. Do what is left. Don’t tell her why...except that if she asks. Then you may tell her because you love her and want to make more of an effort. Oh and start saying thank you every time she does something for you. See what happens and report back if you can. I challenge my self to the same for my husband and will be quiet when he does something I perceive is a gaff. Humility, kindness and love. I want to be and show more of this. Hugs and best blessings to you, dear brother.
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
@@revatherealestateagentandr8964 cannot please some women because THEY don't even know what it would take.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Because you can't change it, but only Gods word can change it, but a true believer and a godly man will instruct his family in the ways of the Lord. No house divided against itself shall stand.
@sudhasudha6522 жыл бұрын
We both r friends actually,6 months senior,I call him by name,I'm not illegal wife to him,just friends
@faisallaiquekhan4 жыл бұрын
Divorce her! No one deserves such kind of women or men
@sabinebonschab3522 жыл бұрын
Me...
@MoFoDaRoad2 ай бұрын
Not his wife’s fault?…..what did you think would happen? When will the church ever wake up and hold women accountable for their stupid choices in marriage and relationships? And don’t give me this crap that men should just love their wives like Christ loved the church. The truth is most men who get married in the first place in fact have that kind of love for their wives. However, every man has a breaking point when they are exposed to unfair and horrible treatment by the women they love. Stop placing super human expectations on mortals simply because they have a Y chromosome.
@mitchaleo8 жыл бұрын
great post
@mdjackhan6 жыл бұрын
It may not be the wife's fault but it is the system's fault.
@biancasaucado6 жыл бұрын
Doesn't matter what a man do, is always one guy out there that don't know what is talking about, you can do all good , respectfully women is just disrespectful period, this guy lift women up no matter what, even if she slept around with lot of guys this dude will blame men, that is his agenda
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
The answer is that sometimes the wife needs to be saved, and come to the knowledge of the truth. Sometimes the husband needs to be saved, the answer is obedience to the word of God, A saved wife is going to place importance on Gods word and seek to do it. Like wise a husband, thus comes order.
@mnoorbhai4 жыл бұрын
Great stuff
@barneychan55716 жыл бұрын
Marriage sucks. Enough said.
@yannolove13355 жыл бұрын
True, it's all about the women with their feelings
@Opbabyyx4 жыл бұрын
@@yannolove1335 stfu
@jennifergratz9052 жыл бұрын
No excuses cuz most women would go out of their way to please a man even when it's uncomfortable for them
@derrickhenderson97043 жыл бұрын
Alot husband work hard in provide for they family and some wife's like for attention from guys that can't do anything for them and they just say you jealous
@travisrodgers1329 жыл бұрын
I agree
@shivanandpatil74144 жыл бұрын
Reffer to OSHO TALKS on marriage
@loveliveandlearn67878 жыл бұрын
thank you
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
My parents married 60 years and still love each other. There is hope (compromise)
@wingnutjacrispy45114 жыл бұрын
I dont need a minute and 41 second video to tell you why... If you dont make the money they "need" then you aint shit.... It's easy to sit on the couch all day long and bring home a measly 200 bucks in two weeks from unemployment pay two bills and the man who is a disabled veteran pay the rest and treat your man like a piece of shit 12 year old because of combat enduced PTSD.... Long story short, pass the buck...place blame on him.. can't live with em, can't kill em.... Al Bundy ALL THE WAY!
@jonerijuseppi30475 жыл бұрын
Well according to the title, she gets a backhand!!! 👍🙏😇💖If she your property(wife/marriage),she must obey from God's words& common sense &respect to her husband!!!
@sabinebonschab3522 жыл бұрын
🙏😊
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
Well The husband is the representive of Christ in the marriage. He is long suffering, with us, patient, and he dwelled with us according to knowledge and definitely honors us as the much weaker vessels. His yoke is easy, and his burden is light, He does not put on us more than we can bare. He loved us and suffered and gave his life for us so that we might be with him.. Just something to consider.
@lindapendleton91763 жыл бұрын
Turnabout is fair play, sonny boy!
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
Game?
@ronch5506 жыл бұрын
My wife is a very disrespectful wife. I kinda think she's also the feminist type. Horrible. If it weren't for our kids I'd cut ties with her already. Get lost, brat.
@yannolove13355 жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself first
@darthrevan83062 жыл бұрын
@@yannolove1335 he's right
@oceanblue90955 жыл бұрын
#Mgtow
@trishanderson74356 жыл бұрын
Women and men cannot live together. I must be respected or I cannot respect him.
@ygoldberg12875 жыл бұрын
The word is honor but unless it is for God's glory neither will look at themselves. He is to love her , she is to obey(respect)him. What will the children learn if there is envy,strife,pride and selfishness between parents?
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
So you cannot obey the word of God? It even tells you that if your husband obeys not the word, that he can even be won over by your behavior and obeidence to the word of God. Your not trusting in the word of God.
@arwenrosalie30316 жыл бұрын
we disrespect becaise we get tired of mothering you men for things you should know how to do and what not to do. ovet and over and ovet again warning you about the consequences. A woman never forgives or forgets no matter how much ah promises she has. we only get filled with anger and resentment. just remember when we werent this way we turned this way because of you.
@treanthony98315 жыл бұрын
Now men are to blame for your behavior right?. It's not your job to be his mother. His mother raised him already. Your job is to be his wife. We all have bad habits the best thing you can do is say your peace ONCE. LET IT GO , BE Quiet and PRAY. You can't change people but God can.
@liam.44544 жыл бұрын
Just let him be, he doesn’t want you nagging and mothering him
@gretelhance3 жыл бұрын
What a cop out. All we control is our response. Hopefully you ask God for godly response.
@bible1st Жыл бұрын
This is exactly the problem right here. This is the curse of Genesis 3 right here, A womans desire shall be contrary to her husband. Your to bring yourself under submission to your husband, thst is your duty as a service to God almighty.
@arwenrosalie3031 Жыл бұрын
@@bible1st I did that, I prayed for him and his family. I was submissive but he gave money away, bought us second hand clothes. His mother bragged about her luxury brand bags and underwear. Some men do not need submission from a woman.
@TheRaven194210 ай бұрын
i need more help then i even know my wife is close to losing me