I think she doesnt meant any crime its about somebody hurting you intentionally or provacating you..healing will be the best solution as she said

@@pavithrarajakumar5215 absolutely!

Yes forgive but do not forget

Forgiveness is for our inner peace. If their mistake is punishable, they should be punished but we shouldn't be affected internally by their mistake.

@@shraddhamanthani1024 there are many cheating cases now a day on relationship .. rape case.. murder case.. are all these forgivable?? It will affect the life and if we fight back then we will peace otherwise whole life is burnt

Pls share recepies for dibetic people

Anger helps if it is compassionate anger.

Forgive but not forget ... please correct if I'm wrong

@@itzmesunita yeah ... Right

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When you don't forgive, it doesn't hold the other person hostage...it holds you, your mind, hostage. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you don't have boundaries, don't speak your mind (clearly, honestly). Forgiveness clears YOUR path to move forward. Otherwise, you trying to hold on (in order to not get hurt again) is a false illusion of control & leads to your own sickness. You have choice.

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Nicely said, this lady gives cringe tips

Yep. But first we have to differentiate if the anger is justified. Is it coming from external sources or internal sources? External meaning, boundaries being crossed after explicitly stating what they are. Or someone disrespecting you. Internal anger comes from past experiences, personal beliefs or biases, past trauma, etc. Ive been trying to practice this as I've found I get angry at every little small, insignificant thing. It's probably coming from within me.

Anger from someone is who's been illtreated is always valid. But it agitates ones nervous system and makes them lose rationality. Try not getting angry and focus on the ways to prevent what happened again and again. For eg. If you're dealing with someone at workplace, who's always getting on your nerves, instead of getting angry think how you can minimise the interactions with them or in the worst case change the job.

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Here comes the western mindset, please understand this always thinking about yourself can put you at the worst place possible. Letting go is better but you must be wise enough to know where it is needed and where it is just going to destroy. She is not asking to suppress your feelings she is asking you to change if there is no anger then what will you suppress?

​@@koraiemon so thinking about yourself is so bad? how is the log kya kahenge mentality working for you?

@@cauliflowerhead2735 I don't care what people will say everyone can have their opinion on me I'm not bothered by that I do listen and give it a thought if its unnecessary I move one and if its making sense then I work on myself. I don't hold any grudges I used to but now I don't and trust me life is much easier now. Giving too much attention to mental health, too much self esteem and words of others actually put me at the worst place but when I learn about how to ignore sadness and negative thoughts or anger or not caring for being respected by people actually worked.. If you are kind and good then people like you will always respect you.

anger is negetive

Right i agree.

Small miatakes can be forgiven but what about big mistakes of others which has affected your life in a very tragic way.

We can't even look at them the way to forgive them 😐

If our peace and happiness is priority for us, we need to take the step of forgiveness from inside. We can't destroy our peace because of toxic people. Because we are responsible for our happiness. We find many people who are toxic around us, we can't waste our precious time always by being affected internally because of them.

Then it's the worst why waste your energy on someone who won't even understand? Better is to let go.

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