What is an Alpha Male? 8 Alpha Cues from Jason Momoa,

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Alpha males. What is an alpha male and how can we spot them? Have you ever noticed that every alpha male has similar characteristics? Do you know an alpha male? Do you want to be the alpha male?
In this video, I break down alpha male cues so that you can spot them in action.
This video is based on the research of Darioly & Mast who researched the verbal and nonverbal behaviors of alpha males: hbr.org/2004/05/coaching-the-...
In this video:
0:00 Intro
1:42 Cue #1: Congruent Nodding with Dax Shepard
4:47 Cue #2 Reassuring Touch with Tony Robbins and Tom Cruise
7:35 Cue #3 Claims Space with Samuel Jackson and Hugh Jackman
11:06 Cue #4 Body Openness with Sylvester Stallone and John Wayne
13:52 Cue #5 Invites Others to Participate with Leonardo DiCaprio
17:11 Cue #6 Use a Variable Tone of Voice and Volume with Bruce Lee, Jason Momoa and Brad Pitt
21:40 Cue #7 Gaze More Especially at the End of a Statement with Leo yet again
23:55 Cue #8 More Hand Gestures
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@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Learn more about the alpha male in the full article!: www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-male/

@migiericta 2 жыл бұрын

@Steve A I agree.

@John.Doe-OG 2 жыл бұрын

Cruise is not someone I would consider an alpha, by any stretch of the imagination. He's a very insecure man and does everything he can to hide those insecurities but if you're watching closely, he doesn't do that good of a job. He's made of a career of pretending to be a macho, unstoppable hero. None of which, he is. (Macho, maybe but that is a sign of insecurity). A shining example, his finding "meaning" in the "church" of Scientology.

@johnmarston130 2 жыл бұрын

One on beta males

@nova12332 2 жыл бұрын

1. congruent nodding 2. reassuring touch 3. claim space 4. body openness 5. invites others to participate 6. use a variable tone of voice 7. gaze more especially at the end of a statement 8. more hand gestures

@gymratnoah2259 Жыл бұрын

Or just do it all simultaneously

@givdb5513 Жыл бұрын

That's not alpha That's what you think an alpha looks like

@nova12332 Жыл бұрын

@@givdb5513 ??? Im summarizing the video bro

@marvinjimenez6679 Жыл бұрын

@@givdb5513 i agree 💯

@givdb5513 Жыл бұрын

@@nova12332 Why are you here in the first place summarizing something that you don't believe?🤔

@e2thebarber 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much Vanessa for dedicating your life to learn about the human communication, interactions and teaching us!! you’re literally making a big impact in the world by making us better communicaters 💯

@leilarivera9721 2 жыл бұрын

Your videos are so intriguing! Thank you for this great information

@KJC.91 2 жыл бұрын

An excellent presentation of useful data by a brilliant, bold & beautiful lady; quite helpful & fun to watch as always. Thank You Vanessa, You're the best at what You do!!

@nancyyancy5199 Жыл бұрын

I love that map behind you. Amazing topic content. Thank you!

@HULKITUP 2 жыл бұрын

This was a good one! Thank you

@beatrice-pg1jl 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this

@omara4726 2 жыл бұрын

Really loved the video! I did not know that I did that more than once, and thank God I am not overthinking it lol. Question to you, Vanessa, besides getting better at interpreting cues and communicating effectively, is there any other to learn more about cues? Maybe one day, I'll take your course, and I will add fuel to my overthink fire, lol.

@ligiasommers 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful and fun episode 🙏🏻❤️‍🩹✨🌹

@mohamadharoonabasy4862 2 жыл бұрын

I love your analysis, great work!

@panamakinal 2 жыл бұрын

These videos of analysis are so awesome 👍

@Iam_ramankaur Жыл бұрын

thank you sharing such great cues.

@esmelovesvintage 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this video!! 💯💯

@Othmaun Жыл бұрын

Thank you Vanessa! Loved your dedicated words towards human interactions!

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Thank you for your support!!

@StrategicStripping 2 жыл бұрын

You’re great Vanessa. I love the work you do 🙏🏼 thank you

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here!

@mjdny9871 2 жыл бұрын

Great content 👌 Vanessa

@jamescoleman6510 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE this channel! Vanessa is just awesome. So charismatic and explains things in a way that I can easily remember!

@davidlibutti7957 Жыл бұрын

u are a real discovery! i m just goin through all ur videos and ur content! This is SO MUCH INTERESTING adn awakaning!

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad to know you are loving the content! Enjoy!! -to your success

@ramziha4678 2 жыл бұрын

Wow you are Brilliant Vanesa keep up the good work love ❤ your work

@Curtis.Carpenter Жыл бұрын

Hello!! just found your channel, this has taught me SO much. really appreciate it 👍🏻

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

So glad to hear it! Thank you!

@templemastery 6 ай бұрын

Loved it!

@ScienceOfPeople 6 ай бұрын

Happy to hear that! Thanks for watching ❤️

@davidson1997 11 ай бұрын

Wow thanks a lot for that amazing lesson! 💯 🙌 A follow up on alpha females would be so awesome!

@ScienceOfPeople 11 ай бұрын

My pleasure! We actually have a whole article on alpha females :) www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/

@aleksimajewski4163 Жыл бұрын

Always a great pleasure to learn from your Video besides reading your new Book - Really Appreciate it Thank You

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

@jude5815 Жыл бұрын

I'm nodding head with a BIG YES at how fantastic and valuable your work is Vanessa. Thanking you so very much. Also I noticed You have map of the world behind you .Your claimin it! Go Girl lol

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Very happy to hear this :)

@jude5815 Жыл бұрын

@@ScienceOfPeople Glad to hear🌞

@MicTheXception Жыл бұрын

Your contact is amazing your delivery is amazing the examples you use -- I want to say amazing I was like OK now I can do better the examples used are really creative appropriate and wonderfully illustrative of your point and your outfit is cute awesome thank you for this information. Happy September🙏🏾

@18bantu Жыл бұрын

absolutely brilliant video I learnt so much

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

We're so glad to hear! Thank you for this feedback. :)

@letsimprove8991 2 жыл бұрын

Incredible video #Vanessa ! I want you and your team to make more videos on the theme of #Alpha Male😉

@johnmarston130 2 жыл бұрын

Awesone video, will buy the book, Thank you Vanessa:D

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I hope you love it =)

@johnmarston130 2 жыл бұрын

@@ScienceOfPeople Yes I'm loving it!! It's incredible how big of an influence body language has on everyday life, I've been using nodding and fronting with clients at my real estate agency and it has worked wonders, everybody is so friendly when your body language is on point. We really are still apes at the end.Thank you Vanessa, all the best!

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

@@johnmarston130 This is so awesome!! I'm happy to hear you've been able to apply cues in real life! How exciting, to your success, John!

@aliciawilliams7626 2 жыл бұрын

Interesting very good research as well.

@quimblyjones9767 2 жыл бұрын

It's actually pretty terrible research because the theory of alpha male was disproved by the guy who came up with it.

@thetaraparker 2 жыл бұрын

Nice video Vanessa. Would you be able to do a video comparing Beta to Alpha? I’d also love to see body language from other animal species as well.

@beepbopboop3221 Жыл бұрын

I think extrovert vs introvert alpha is be more interesting which Vanessa already tackled.

@Underdog_Basketball 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video! And also love that fact that I recently discovered this channel. I've been binging these videos and I'm really excited to put some of this stuff to practice. One question for you re Alpha Males: do you think being an Alpha is something that only comes natural or can it developed. I definitely know that I do some of these things when I'm in a great mood and feeling comfortable but I definitely do the opposite of some of these when I'm not in a good mood or when I'm timid and uncomfortable.

@radhabhaav9217 Жыл бұрын

Anything artificial is not real and long lasting, natural things are always the best

@ricardbuxo Жыл бұрын

I do the same. I think it has to do with how you relate to yourself, that transpires on your interactions with others

@alphabeta8403 4 ай бұрын

5:00 Reassurance touch 11:00 Open body 13:00 Controlling flow of conservation 16:30 Variable tone of voice 19:50 Quiet alpha 21:10 Gaze more 23:30 More hand gestures

@sandy89107 2 жыл бұрын

So many good looking men!! Great video : informative and enjoyable eye candy 😍

@wessameldinzidan7090 Жыл бұрын

I love you Vanessa, you are sending a beautiful positive Cues in every single video, hope to see you in person here in UAE soon. Keep up the good work

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! ️❤️

@JackdawLifts 2 жыл бұрын

Got your book. Excited to read it... but got like few on the go. Way of the wolf, etc, and also in that part where I’m just taking action haha

@jackblack579 2 жыл бұрын

Great job Vanessa

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@GA-sy1gw 2 жыл бұрын

Nice vídeo

@gouledkaapibka9589 Жыл бұрын

Well done

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@skentertainmentplant3390 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Vanessa, I've learned lot about alpha.

@petecalgaro Жыл бұрын

Vanessa, you do these cues… 😉 which is why you are so captivating. ALPHA! 😎I’m reading Cues right now. Thanks for all you do to educate us!

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

It's my pleasure!! I hope you're enjoying Cues so far :)

@petecalgaro Жыл бұрын

I’m noticing sooo much! 😎

@GuidoPerdomo 2 жыл бұрын

hah with the example of variable voice tones I thought of Roger of Cracked's "If ... were hones" series. I just learned why he's so captivating!

@janeavery9491 Жыл бұрын

Great video! Love the examples. I'd love to see a video about female Alphas!

@ihavenoson3384 Жыл бұрын

A submissive, supporting female of an alpha male. The only alpha move women need to make is to pick an alpha man for themselves and learn to keep him.

@RachelLovelaceLive 10 ай бұрын

So interesting, Vanessa!! Maybe you've already made this video, but have you identified any female alphas to run the same analysis on? That would be fascinating! I did my undergrad capstone on the top traits of female leaders and how they affected people's perception of them. These traits set them apart from other women. Since the intensity of most pronounced traits were not traditionally within stereotyped gender roles, people perceived them as less likable and therefore affected how people worked with them. These same traits in men made them highly likable, respected, and seem competent. The second half of the lit review covered behaviors that would balance those stronger leadership traits. Two traits I remember were that women leaders are highly agentic and less communal in nature. Right there, you have a recipe for an unlikable woman if you expect a woman to be agreeable and social. Thoughts?

@ScienceOfPeople 10 ай бұрын

Oh very interesting!! We don't have a video on alpha females yet, but we do have an article on it if you're interested! www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/

@RashiShukla 7 ай бұрын

I had the same question!

@phamhoanganh1 2 жыл бұрын

you're doing very well

@oneminutedaily6394 2 жыл бұрын

Love the breakdown and summary of each tips in this video. I found it to be very organized and easy to watch. Thanks Vanessa ! Do one for Sigma too :)

@shahab7835 2 жыл бұрын

thanks great video

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@trulyjeannette 2 жыл бұрын

This was such a good episode, love it! I must check out Dax Shepard's show. Never viewed him as an alpha but I will be looking at him closely from now on. Have always thought Tony Robins to be quite alpha and a turn-on to me hahaha. The Rock I find very charming. What about Chris Evans? Is he considered an Alpha Male? I found that depending on who he is talking to is when Chris Evans really flexes the alpha. I've seen interviews with him and Robert Downey Junior and Chris Evans is respectful of RDJ and I notice that he makes himself smaller. Then when Chris Evans is talking about politics regarding his new site called a starting point and he's interviewing with others, the Alpha in him shows.

@IamReallySanta 2 жыл бұрын

Evans is not Alpha. You cannot spew hatred politically the way he does and take an anti American stance and be alpha.

@mz6596 2 жыл бұрын

I *loved* this video! Seeing the examples of exactly what you’re talking about is so helpful- thank you! Question: would the same cues apply to women? If women have different cues, can you do a video on that, too?

@CrestedWarbler 2 жыл бұрын

With the caveat being that women are conditioned to not do these things, crossing legs, hands on legs, being small etc etc 🙄

@Poetry4Peace 2 жыл бұрын

True be interesting!

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Here is an article we have about the Alpha Female =) www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/

@mz6596 2 жыл бұрын

@@ScienceOfPeople Thank you!

@timothykangethe7700 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the Alpha cues. Please Do one on SIGMAS 💪

@LightAtWork 2 жыл бұрын

Would love to see a video on alpha females? I know some of the cues translate, but my suspicion is that alpha females are even more dynamic.

@marcelamunoz7455 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@ligiasommers 2 жыл бұрын

Bought your book ! Love it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻🌹✨

@frederickwilborn2406 Жыл бұрын

Thanks! asi watched this ive learned that i am definitely a alpha male and grateful to hold all the specific traits of an Alpha male

@tiger.9569 Жыл бұрын

please dont TRY to be one, i just did this to see if I could figure out if I was one or not

@highperformer5532 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like I became more of an alpha after watching this. So fun and useful! Excited to practice.)

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you enjoyed it, thank you!

@tiger.9569 Жыл бұрын

thats not how it works bro

@aurilanise 2 жыл бұрын

This was so great! I would love to know what are the difference between alpha males and alpha females? How many of the cues are the same or is it different when a woman exhibits the same gestures?

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/ Here is an article we have about alpha females!

@HeKnowsEverything 2 жыл бұрын

There is no such thing as Alpha Females! Only Alpha Males! Alpha Females are i.e. Feminist aka "Masculine-Energy filled females! Females wanting to put themselves on equal footing with males. Typically females demonstrating these behaviors usually end up old and alone. They can only be in relationships with men they can control i.e. emasculated males (Beta Males). Alpha Males won't put up with supposed Alpha Female's nonsense because there can only be one Alpha in the room and that's truly going to be the male! Only Alpha Males are supposed to exude true Masculine-Energy! Females by nature as supposed to be feminine not masculine! Doth not nature teach you anything? Mankind in it's original state i.e. (Adam and Eve) shows exactly what I'm talking about as proof of when nasculine-energy filled females mess up the order of stuff! Hence everyone suffers, Adam acted like Beta Male only in that moment of time for listening to Eve and GOD punished them both because the gender order was out of whack! The animal kingdom also teaches the difference between males and females in gender roles! All in all no such thing as Alpha Females, submission is a female's true power! When they don't activate that true power they (females) are in chaos with themselves and their own existence!

@travisbartholomay Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Hendrik_JvR Жыл бұрын

Vanessa, I enjoy your work and appreciate your insights. What does the research say about alpha's and aggression? As a man I read the situation between Cruise and the reporter as such: Cruise looked angry, but tamed his aggression. That's why the moment was so intense. Cruise's underlying aggression made it tense. At first he was shocked and gave a smile. Then it dawned on him what had happened. His smile then vanished and he became angrier as the seconds ticked by. By grabbing the reporters hand he was not inviting him into anything: he was dominating him. His line of questioning was rhetorical. he did not really expect an answer. It was another way of asserting himself over the reporter. The fact that the reporter did not pull his hand out of Cruise's grasp was an act of submission. Cruise was signalling "I will control you" and the reporter signalled back "I submit to your control."

@KINGKROSBYSKINGDOM Жыл бұрын

Yes you hit the nail on the head.

@ihavenoson3384 Жыл бұрын

Keep in mind the needless dominance asserting is insecure. Cruise has a lot of money and his time is valuable, so spending it with some reporter that makes 1 % of what he does is stupid and pleasure-seeking. Alphas are best known for not giving a damn about small things. The reporter is a nobody and there is nothing to gain from dealing with him, so his priority should have been to quickly move on from the situation. He could have said something like "touch me again without my permission and my lawyers will have a field day suing your sorry ass to stone age." A desperate need for first-hand control is very low-quality alpha if not beta. Such people waste energy and fail to be charismatic.

@Niaxe111 2 жыл бұрын

Good stuff. Question: What are you when you have the awareness to show characteristics of both alpha and beta traits, depending on mood, situations, or for the fun of showing different vibes? Probably just human. idk Edit: ENTP personality

@simonlameck6359 2 жыл бұрын

I'm an ENTP myself and from a personal view, ENTP range from Sigma to Alpha archetype. An ENTP wouldn't submit or conform easily (which is a beta characteristic) but in some situations, wouldn't be bothered if something doesn't directly concern him.

@letsimprove8991 2 жыл бұрын

I would suggest to learn and apply more of Alpha male behaviors and just do your best to Stop or doing less often the beta ones . We all have flaws but we always try to get better . .

@Niaxe111 2 жыл бұрын

@@letsimprove8991 beta and alpha ques are yin n yang of body communications. Im devolved enough to be aware of them and mosty let my subconscious handle it now. My question was what is someone valled who projects both ques? The question was simply to make ppl think

@NathalieLazo 2 жыл бұрын

The more we work on our own selves, the more our circumstances and overall lives change. The more we grow and invest into ourselves, the more we will see a transformation, especially how we better communicate with others. You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, and your future! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

@thamerooni1 2 жыл бұрын

Great video Vanessa, but isn’t Tom the first one to touch Rebecca in the clip you showed? Right after the clip begins it looks like he’s the first to engage…looks like he couldn’t wait to reassure her 👍🏽

@jauger99 2 жыл бұрын

Ok, I have a question for you Vanessa. Several times throughout history, many people seen by others as wise/smart have said in one way or another "The best people to choose to rule, or those best suited to rule, are often those who are resistant to the idea, if not outright opposed to the opportunity". So, given that you claim that alphas are men who like to be in charge, even NEED to be in charge, how do you explain this sentiment? Would you say that some alphas actually don't wish to be in charge? If so, how and why is there a difference between the two? Or would you say that such men who are resistant to rule are the much rarer type of man called a Sigma? Is that type of man something you ascribe to? Or would you have another response entirely? I'm very curious to hear what you have to say about this. Hopefully you'll see this. Thank you in advance, should you deem this comment worth your time and attention.

@daviedood2503 Жыл бұрын

An alpha male is someone who's self sustaining, doesn't rely on others. Has a PURPOSE in life that he puts above others and especially women. He doesn't go around chasing a$$ like some desperate beta. Has his money right and plenty of options. He doesn't tolerate disrespect and has NO PROBLEM discarding you quickly. Even demoting you. Negativity and complaining all the time is around quick way to get you X out of his life. Always moving forward. Each day he's improved himself even 1% in some way. He will NOT stay with a disrespectful woman out of fear of being alone. You are competing against his solitude and peace of mind. Can u bring him peace, or are you going to annoy him? It's one thing for a woman to describe what she thinks is an alpha, or qualities she may like in alpha guy or wishes to have in a dream guy. But it's another to actually live as one.

@daviedood2503 Жыл бұрын

Fyi just because a guy has A LOT of money does NOT mean he's an alpha. There are plenty of rich guys who are NOT successful with women, nor others. They actually lead very boring and depressive lives, because they thought the money would do it FOR them. Money is an enhancer. It enhances what you already are. It's a magnafying glass. If you're a dork, and u come across money. Now you're a super dork. If you're the man BEFORE money, and you got quite a lot of women before being rich, it enhances what you already are. You'll get BETTER women and better LOOKING women now that you've earned your way to the top 10% most women want. Alpha is what got you there. Being a nice guy is what keeps you broke and down there sadly.

@nolimitationsgee3437 Жыл бұрын

So, do you disagree with her assessment?

@WHALEx3 11 ай бұрын

I don’t usually like the term alpha male because it came into the spot light from a unfounded study of wolf relations and is co-opted by people who want a reason to mistreat women and act like jerks…but I liked this video so cool

@Freedom_is_essential1 Жыл бұрын

Tom Cruise is the ultimate alpha male - never seen an alpha male of his magnitude before

@SanctifiedLady 2 жыл бұрын

I’m getting the book! I enjoy analyzing ppl😂

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! and me too 😊

@jasonhanson6563 2 жыл бұрын

I have a terrible time sitting still anywhere I’m not comfortable.

@dadbod2562 2 ай бұрын

I think many of these traits are a great example of masculinity/ alpha. Although with the exception of touching others. Affection is more so a nurture trait not a learned. My parents showed little to no affection. Taking initiative, assertiveness, and setting the tone in different environments are a great way to tell if a person has alpha traits. Another one I think could be mentioned is problem solving. I would imagine they are stubborn, but value loyality. Alpha is a very new concept to me but it does make sense.

@Avicena-tf5uj 2 жыл бұрын

This may be applicable to the office environment, but not real life. I have several friends who are CEO’s, all my friends who I grew up with are more financially successful than I, but it is very clear and apparent that I am the leader and alpha male. I was so since childhood. I don’t “act” like an alpha either or ever claim to be one. But over the years, contemplating on my life, I came to realize nature imbued something in me, something inherent to me which distinguishes me from the rest of my cousins, colleagues, friends and so on. The true alpha is something chosen by by race, biology and archetypes. This is a very large topic. In essence, the alpha can be compared to the most beautiful, strongest and magnetic fruit of a tree, known as the fruit pleroma. Families and communities are like trees. Some are born with more nature in them than others, more ancestral “light” or “mind”, more biological raw power. I was always the most intelligent, charismatic, strongest, social, attractive of my colleges and cousins. As I grew older in life, and learnt the knowledge of ancient sages, my traits and characteristics became even more pronounced. I learnt to meditate and found pleasure in asceticism. I am a mere farmer and meditator, but the women of my community all beg for my attention and desire my companionship, meanwhile my much wealthier cousins and friends must simp and chase for women, and are most often treated like garbage. You can not become an alpha male, you are either chosen by nature or not

@andydietrich3689 Жыл бұрын

LOLLLLL

@soup-nazi6824 2 жыл бұрын

Angelina Jolie was the dominant one in Brad pits marriage so I don't really consider him an Alpha male even with his good looks...

@Joshua-gu5nj 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, I had seen that prank on Tom Cruise before, but I hadn't thought about it like that. The way he handled it kinda came from a place of love. He wanted to understand why the person would do that and wanted to help him be a better person.

@KINGKROSBYSKINGDOM Жыл бұрын

Nah he dominated him that was a rhetorical question he gave him lol.

@michaeldinh6801 2 жыл бұрын

Hi. I really like your video with Lewis howes. I think you should let the other not as educated youtuber talk about the lame celebrities. i will continue supporting you and i will make a purchase of your book because i think you are making a positive differences in the world Michael.

@meagangarcia5231 2 жыл бұрын

Love the video! I would love to see one on alpha FEMALES! 💪🏻

@lauraelizabethbrown 2 жыл бұрын

There already is one. It's also good in that it doesn't use social stereotypes of what an alpha female is (much like this one.) Alpha females take charge but not so much in a controlling sense, more so in the sense of being the social lubricant. She keeps everything running smoothly, has initiative, takes care of people, can lead a conversation well (much as explained for the men here), also incredible listener. Stuff like that.

@meagangarcia5231 2 жыл бұрын

@@lauraelizabethbrown is this the one from 4 years ago?

@markquinn1216 2 жыл бұрын

No such thing. An "alpha female" is just woman taking on traditionally male characteristics.

@vcash1112 2 жыл бұрын

There’s no such thing..

@newterm 2 жыл бұрын

You have a very nice smile, Vanessa

@tanyapeters9831 7 ай бұрын

Would love to see alpha female cues ❤

@ScienceOfPeople 7 ай бұрын

We actually have a whole article on that! ❤ www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/

@michellecohen7992 Жыл бұрын

Hi there, I just wonder if anyone has the link to the Alpha Female episode? I was half way through, had to go do a job, and now I can't find it. Help please! :-)

@daleastiles 10 ай бұрын

That Marlon Brando movie... was epic! I want to see it again.

@sujalomar 2 жыл бұрын

hey vanessa, something on colour psychology, please?

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

www.scienceofpeople.com/color-psychology/ (:

@stephanieromano7357 2 жыл бұрын

I know an alpha make, however he lives life on his terms. Not society terms. He cares very little about making a lot of money . Instead he values spiritual life. Not religious. One of a kind person I’ve ever met.

@FadedCobe Жыл бұрын

So I honestly never thought of myself as an Alpha especially since I know I am an introvert. The more I look at these examples the more I feel like I actually might be an Alpha. I guess if I am an Alpha, I wonder what that means at the end of the day. This video was awesome to watch regardless. I always love learning about cues from people, so thank you.

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

That's great! Glad you enjoyed it!

@ihavenoson3384 Жыл бұрын

If you use expressions like "I guess" outside guessing something, you demonstrate beta energy of lack of self-confidence, feminine validation seeking tendencies and fail to assert what you think is right. Betas such as nice guys conform, alphas such as assholes push for the results. If you were alpha, your comment would simply state the fact. E.g. "I am an alpha male, fight me about it." While on the topic: the female equivalent is being submissive. Generally, no one likes alpha females because they lack the male-tier willpower, strength and rationality to get results ALONE. Also, such b'tchy / bossy females are less happy than submissive ones. Do not take the fem-masculine propaganda.

@aimhigh8445 Жыл бұрын

Me gusta trabajo!

@1artistsexpression 2 жыл бұрын

How about Alpha females? I would like to identify those kinds of traits... I mean I assume that there is such thing as an alpha female... And do alpha males end up with Alpha females? I would assume yes... but maybe not...

@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/

@AndrewNation13 2 жыл бұрын

I can't pass up a chance to see a detailed breakdown 'Vanessa Style' #TYSM high value content, ect. for sure.

@LukeNguyen174 4 ай бұрын

Cristiano Ronaldo, Andrew Tate, Tony Robbins, Tom Cruise, Arnold... These guys are the epitome of alpha males.

@familyo8261 Жыл бұрын

Does this go for women as well? I swear every cue and action described myself. Especially the eye contact portion. I can be very animated when I talk so Iook here and there but always end up looking at the person in the end for what they may think or what they want to add to it, etc. This was just so freaky how on point it was.

@ihavenoson3384 Жыл бұрын

No. For some reason, females think moving their hands nervously and touching things is a good thing. When men get to army, the first thing they stop doing is unnecessary gestures. Flailing movements are a sign of an unorganized mind and body. The female role is simple: be supportive, find your place, socialize in a befriending fashion, ask the authority figures what is needed to be done unless you know already. The female role is much simpler than being an alpha male. Still, a lot of modern women fail to do it. They cannot support. All they think is the marriage payday and other lazy shortcut options. Most women find purpose in being supportive and submissive.

@Jellyfiishvlog Жыл бұрын

Leo was looking at monitor so he had to look that direction Ellen was looking away also

@64devil 2 жыл бұрын

Tom was just passive aggressive 😂

@beApex Жыл бұрын

so I thought as well lol.

@prashantchavan2673 2 жыл бұрын

3:45 hey, but they both nodded at the same time, so that female is also alpha?

@sloebone7399 Жыл бұрын

So look for the dude in charge, seems pretty straightforward.

@SeeBillyRun 2 жыл бұрын

Vanessa mimicking Leo's gaze, as Leo gazes at Ellen ☺️😂🍻

@nightshade9977 Жыл бұрын

The lady at 3.45 was using her hands well as she talking.

@migiericta 2 жыл бұрын

@Vanessa, very timely. Esp on my birth date. More of this, please. Thanks.

@migiericta 2 жыл бұрын

Can you do break downs on Oliver Queen, Harvey Specter, Don Draper and James Bond [esp Sean Connery]?

@audreykragenbrink1275 Жыл бұрын

Nice video, I never knew what an alpha male was and just assumed it was a bad thing 😆

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

😂Glad I could clear that one up!

@sharonbolmentbolment8951 10 ай бұрын

Thanks so much, Vanessa, can these alpha cues be applied for females as well? I think it is not really charming for females to spread too much? Tks.

@ScienceOfPeople 10 ай бұрын

You're welcome! I have a whole article on alpha females if you want to check it out :) www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/

@beniditolevu1074 2 жыл бұрын

I'm not an alpha but a sigma.. and that's what I always do.. I feel more comfortable with more than enough space for myself.. even if there's so much space and people try to get to it I kick them off 😅 ..