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@fairy97492 жыл бұрын
When I don't listen to Tony even for a week, I fall back to my old ways easily. That is why I need a dose of Tony at least once a day, to keep me on track and also hold another accountable! Stay blessed Tony!
@NAJErEa912 жыл бұрын
Real talk. I felt myself going astray and im like woah woah WWTGSTD (what would Tony Gaskins say to do) it gets hard sometimes, but its comforting to know that I'm not the only one who feels this way. Need a refresher every now and then💯
@dr.anubhakaul12752 жыл бұрын
Me too
@helenaxxxx50152 жыл бұрын
No, you need God
@topazgraham26432 жыл бұрын
Amen Sista!!!!!!!👍🏿
@rosannareyes4722 жыл бұрын
Facts
@momtomysonshine2 жыл бұрын
The way a man treats you truly is how he feels about you. What Tony said about a man who loves you will not keep bringing you pain is true. A man cheating once could be a is a mistake. Anything beyond that is a choice and he doesn't love you. He can't if he's willingly putting his relationship at risk physically and emotionally. This was a very hard lesson I had to learn.
@tootiesmith24822 жыл бұрын
Hey there (Laketarenal ) I really like the way you replied back on (Tony) post he is so tru about want he is speaking on an yours is tru indeed also.. we sista out here n America needs bro's like you guys to be honest and loyal 👏🏾 🙌🏽 💯 as you speak this...keep up the good work (Tony) love all the Positive Uplifting Words.. ❤⚘GOD IS GOOD⚘❤
@momoberry39302 жыл бұрын
A man cheating once or twice is a mistake? *facepalm
@8lack8erry12 жыл бұрын
@@tootiesmith2482 I’m sure she is a woman 🥴
@MiaCarter72 жыл бұрын
It’s never a mistake. It’s always a choice.
@momoberry39302 жыл бұрын
@@MiaCarter7 Amen.
@Dr.Elaine12 жыл бұрын
“If a man loves you, like in love with you, he’s not going to be bringing you pain.” TG
@sylviasalcedo85692 жыл бұрын
Real love doesn't create doubt. Thank you Tony for your wisdom now, past and for the future.
@raquelcalifornia78412 жыл бұрын
If you have to ask if he loves you, he probably doesn’t 🤷🏽♀️ us women know the answer but want to hear a comforting lie and call it “hope” / “another perspective”. We don’t know how to move on
@Salma_1432 жыл бұрын
Tony, your “he don’t want you” video is my ALL time favorite. I think I’ve watched it a million times now cause it’s so good & SOOO funny. 😊😂🙌
@deet29082 жыл бұрын
That first "he don't want u!" Makes me laugh every time but it's soo real.
@topnotch09122 жыл бұрын
It makes dating extremely easily. I can read a man so easily now..
@Mindsetolympics2 жыл бұрын
Same here!!! Broke me down 🥲😔
@Salma_1432 жыл бұрын
@Dee T LOL i agree 100%… I wish we all sat together & listened to Tony together. We’d have so many laughs & valuable lessons. 😊
@Salma_1432 жыл бұрын
@noella 😂🤣🙌
@catherinem85582 жыл бұрын
Even if it’s at the “getting to know each other stage” and they lie, manipulate, or deceive you be DONE.
@be_you_tiful2 жыл бұрын
A man can love you; love the way you treat him/love the way how you act or other but if he is not IN love with you, he will lack in his behaviour and you will have questions.
@AKR8922 жыл бұрын
Period!
@anastasiabeaverhousen8282 жыл бұрын
Point blank periodt!
@kaoshi_kutie2 жыл бұрын
Actions over words every time! ❤️
@christyfallinger87162 жыл бұрын
He showed me beer and gaming is more important than me. I chose to leave to heal and do better on my own
@xxkissmeketutxx2 жыл бұрын
Same here, he left me 2 months after I gave birth to his 4th child, the child he asked me to have with him because I asked him to stop his 8hour long gaming session to help me. 3 years later he keeps begging me to let his no-good behind back through my door. Fortunately my memory is longer than his.
@sexymama19662 жыл бұрын
He showed and told me that he's busy working on himself and taking care of his kids. He is going to be one of my closest friends and who knows what the future holds but in the meantime, I will work on myself and let God send the one that's right for me. I won't be looking nor chasing him.
@millicentstollenwerck52392 жыл бұрын
Some people love things but use people, when it should be vice versa. That relates to intimate or friendships. Love cannot be unsure. If you have to question it, its not love.
@-blessed2 жыл бұрын
One of my exes contacted me the other day because his girlfriend was on her way over to his house and he wanted her to walk in and hear him on the phone with me. No joke, he actually texted this to me. I told him never to contact me again. I feel terrible for his girlfriend that he would try to use me to hurt her. All I can do is pray that she sees what he is showing her and chooses to leave like I did. But who knows, she might be telling herself that he's trying to make her jealous because he loves her or some other such nonsense.
@bellaapple21662 жыл бұрын
He's sick my goodness what was the point of him doing this? And why does he think you would help him do that to his girlfriend? I hope her intuition is strong and she's able to leave him.
@-blessed2 жыл бұрын
@@bellaapple2166 I agree with you. He is sick, and I want no part of that dysfunction. He knew that she would be hurt and he wants her to feel small so he can control her. I have no idea why he thinks I would participate in that. I had already made it clear that I don't want anything to do with him and I haven't spoken to him in over a year and a half. I hope his girlfriend comes to her senses and gets away from him.
@dhonetteallen41452 жыл бұрын
Wow, damn shame.. glad you are no longer with a person like that!!!
@-blessed2 жыл бұрын
@@dhonetteallen4145 Thank you, me too. People who are manipulative to this degree can be dangerous. He treats women like this because it has worked to get him what he wants. If more women looked out for one another and had more self love, men wouldn't get away with this sort of behavior.
@dhonetteallen41452 жыл бұрын
@@-blessed you are absolutely right!!! We definitely gotta look out for one another!!!
@Dr.Elaine12 жыл бұрын
“#1. You don’t want to make excuses for a grown man.” “#2 You don’t want to adapt to the man.” TG
@afropeaninuk2 жыл бұрын
"What IS you doing, Sir" 😂
@Dawnadiditnailz2 жыл бұрын
After a 15yr marriage iv lost all hope. I know he loves me like family like he love his cousin...but he's never been in love with me. Iv listened to you for a week. Everything iv knew in my heart you have verified. I'm a God fearing woman who believes marriage is for life...I also know God won't mess with free will. In my husband's freewill he's not in love with me and he takes my beliefs and hope as weakness. Iv got to respect myself and love myself and chalk as a loss these last 15yrs
@camuyana2 жыл бұрын
In my case, I heard voicemails and read text so there was evidence of cheating with more than one woman. Forgave enough and I am done.
@chevelgordon29232 жыл бұрын
Hey Uncle Tony ! Have a blessed holiday and prosperous LIFE ! Thank you for your service and thank you for being the dad, uncle, brother and friend we all never had but needed 🫂🤟🏾🤎☺️
@realpristine2 жыл бұрын
The “ he don’t want you “ video hit different 😂 that was definitely for the tough love viewers like me🤚🏾🙏🏾
@TheHarmonyPill2 жыл бұрын
The title alone already has me locked in 🔥 I know it’s about to confirm so many things for me
@j-tenn2262 жыл бұрын
Amen. No more clowns disrupting our presence 💕💕
@MissFayeCBL2 жыл бұрын
I Thank God for your wife’s wisdom 💯
@timdand2 жыл бұрын
YES Tony, that's right that comment about the Toxic parent. You need that real talk. Niceness doesn't get the message across. I'm learning in my therapy that type of treatment that kept me with my Toxic ex. He was just like my mother😔
@antoinetteesco15532 жыл бұрын
Im not afraid to say that Im 60 years old and you are giving me advice and it is going great Im at my happiest time of my life now dateing but I have peace nothing but peace..😊😊keep doing What you do Mr.Tony G ❤you like my own Son preach !!
@gugulethunkosi98902 жыл бұрын
You can't be cheap about your life. Word of the day. Thank you TG appreciation from South Africa.
@aaliyahs95942 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this reminder uncle Tony I needed to hear this message ! How a man treats you is truly how he feels about u , it was a guy who showed me he’s so busy with work he does have a demanding job and working on himself so I got it I will not be chasing anything . God will Guide me to the right person. Thank you again uncle tony 🕊
@love7loyalty-MHA2 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched the video ,yet. But.. by the title.. I said "he's showing me a whole Lotta NOTHING. Not keeping his word" so.. I walked away. Ok.. let me listen
@qscott8882 жыл бұрын
🤣🙌🏽
@69Fabulosity2 жыл бұрын
Same here sis..I left him a v.m crying & he called 3days later so I didn't answer. His lack of effort and the fact that it's more than evident that he doesn't give 2fkz Is something I wish I wouldn't have invested in the wrong man.
@love7loyalty-MHA2 жыл бұрын
@@69Fabulosity wow! It will be ok. I'm sorry !
@69Fabulosity2 жыл бұрын
@@love7loyalty-MHA it's all good sometimes we tend to hold on 2someone 4 2long hoping things will go bk 2the beginning. However I don't blame myself bc he has never been transparent in y he changed or took his accountability 4what went wrong. He only brong confusion & drama 2me. It's crazy how 🤔 some men R like a light switch hot then turn cold & can't even honest about their feelings. I'll Never date a Pisces man again 🤦♀️💯❗
@Ashley211382 жыл бұрын
“You is inna a Ford Escape” 😂😂😭
@MissTracy-Ann2 жыл бұрын
🛑 "STOP adapting to the wolvery!" ~TG 👀🚩
@MissTracy-Ann2 жыл бұрын
Based on the title alone, I needed to hear this one RIGHT NOW, RIGHT NOW! Blessings TG 🙏🏿
@jnenewilliams11272 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these teachings. It's wonderful how you speak about your wife. Definitely keep your boundaries in place; there are so many Jezebel women seeking to devour and destroy homes. Blessings to you and your family!!!
@hereisayana82072 жыл бұрын
I agree there are so many jezebels around now
@lekeshiacole90652 жыл бұрын
Happy Saturday Queens and Kings.
@denisegreen68782 жыл бұрын
Same to you Queen thank you
@Kayyynicoleee25 күн бұрын
I needed this today. ❤ 🙌🏾
@fayegarvey40792 жыл бұрын
This came for my soul ! I needed this! Thank you for being so honest and helpful. "Don't adapt to the foolery" 🙌🏽
@deet29082 жыл бұрын
Been binging on old videos last few days until we get a new "hey, tony gaskins here"
@DebtDemolisherTV2 жыл бұрын
“This man is driving a FORD ESCAPE…” - Tony Gaskins 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I just hollered!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@gueenvictoria642 жыл бұрын
Hit Me! Hit Me! Too funny 😆
@gueenvictoria642 жыл бұрын
Yes they will do that...u fell 4 it!
@xodierra2 жыл бұрын
Tony I love when you talk with passion! Those are the messages that give me goose bumps because I know you ain’t playing!!!
@thetruth724802 жыл бұрын
“Hit me, hit me”… Oh you gonna hit a woman!?!? 😂😂😂 Great video, very insightful.
@xmbeauty14792 жыл бұрын
I have been binge watching your videos daily! It is changing my life for the better! You are so wise Tony, thank you and your wife for being excellent role models!
@lizkuhni86582 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest!
@keelycrawford86222 жыл бұрын
Good to see u!!
@melsazaspanishmark79942 жыл бұрын
Thankful for this video brother Tony 🙏 🙌
@hoodstar922 жыл бұрын
Great message. 💯
@brandiejones_2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. 💯
@lizvalenzuela43962 жыл бұрын
I got to say God has chosen you to send his godly message. You have answered my prayer 🙏 thank you holy spirit works in you.
@onehappichic70992 жыл бұрын
Factsssssss!! Thank you! 🙏🏾
@onehappichic70992 жыл бұрын
I’m in the process of strategically planning my exit strategy based on what I’ve been shown… and what you saw as well. Gotta GO!! 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ Please keep using this platform for the world to see. You’re a complete blessing….. Thank God for turning your life around Mr. Gaskins.
@Indiscrazyworld2 жыл бұрын
Great Message well put GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TONY
@realcloutjay59912 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Gaskins for another great video god bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽
@kishoflife2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your service. I truly appreciate you. Happy Holidays, Gaskins Family!
@emmariley55852 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony! Beyond grateful for your information you post. As time progresses it gets more and more leveled up and it’s amazing to see you grow and myself grow at the same time. Thank you for everything you give you’re appreciated
@wandabarr59362 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your advice Tony very helpful I love your videos I don't watch that much but when I do It still allows me to soak in the advice Thank you 😊!!
@Taurusbaby19936 ай бұрын
I be lookn at these videos getn a good laugh and conformation at the same time lol I love these videos 😂❤
@joycesexton24952 жыл бұрын
Brother Tony. Sent by God to help us sisters 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@Bree486462 ай бұрын
Tony looks so good in collard shirts 👕
@tootiesmith24822 жыл бұрын
Thanku Tony we Sista out here need to hear Positive Uplifting Words as you speak love every word of this post...As I say it again Thanku an may God continue to bless you 🙏🏽
@loretoendara3102 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! I was rise by a narcissist parents! This means a lot to me!! Thank you so much!
@Nisse222 жыл бұрын
I enjoy listening to your videos....
@camuyana2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, Tony, do not address questions by saying that it comes from so and so, just make it a general video based on that question without mentioning any names or privately engaging in answering to a female. That's a slippery slope and you don't want to go there. Even pastors put themselves sometimes in a very difficult position of offering Bible studies to women who are alone or even married and then the situation happens and you need to prevent that.
@Realness4sho2 жыл бұрын
Great Messages here. 😃
@taniadjalo97712 жыл бұрын
Tony iam from Portugal i follow you for a while , thank you for making this videos thank you for inspire me . I admire so much the way you think its unique rational and logic sometimes you very funny too . Good bless you and your family.
❤️❤️❤️ The whole thing was good………oh but that last part!!! I’m definitely starting to work on me. Getting myself some help/counsel. I personally believe you have to be able to say you did all you knew to do before ending a relationship! Thanks for keeping it real Tony!!💯
@christineporter99142 жыл бұрын
Bro Tony you are right I agree with you out there on the road will tell rather you a Christian.
@chanelltucker402 жыл бұрын
Goodafternoon!
@Th3lite2 жыл бұрын
The fact that a women is writing a stranger to ask if a person she knows lover her, is a sign that he may not.
@teresaroquemore6702 жыл бұрын
Wow this is. Very honest video
@qscott8882 жыл бұрын
Good afternoon!
@brownsugarglamour2 жыл бұрын
Hey hey!
@christinedozier21542 жыл бұрын
First of all, be blessed. Secondly, imagine tailgating Tony Gaskins on the freeway in a Ford Escape 😂
@dublingirl16912 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@missmaria64232 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽early
@clarkclarke2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony 🙏🏾
@j-tenn2262 жыл бұрын
Uncle I’ve missed you
@gueenvictoria642 жыл бұрын
Nice seats ❤
@blue_moon19862 жыл бұрын
All. Of. This 😍
@kiddykornerchildrens43222 жыл бұрын
The engine sounds like a Mini Cooper cool 😎 bless you
@MyIGNameIsSuperThickVegan2 жыл бұрын
you is in a escape....
@ch-traveladdict32472 жыл бұрын
My man turned cold on me and it really hurt me. I‘m a really warm and caring person. I like giving my man a hug when he had a shit day, like giving him a random kiss or rub his back when he‘s got pain, he don‘t need to ask for it. But often he pushes me away. He says I‘m pushing him to distance himself because its too much. How can I be wrong for being loving? 😌🤷🏻♀️
@jenninemorel76932 жыл бұрын
Give him space. Do your own thing and have fun with friends. Live your life and then see if he comes back around. Sounds like he's going through something.
@redlove22662 жыл бұрын
MY MAN IS GOING THRU SOMETHING HIS CLOTHES ARE HERE HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME I KNOW WHERE HE IS I GIVE HIM HIS SPACE & I GET MINE BUT I KNOW HE WILL BE BACK SOON
@ch-traveladdict32472 жыл бұрын
@@jenninemorel7693 i give him loads of space. Our relationship was long distance before so... it‘s a pattern. When I wasn‘t around he sent me all these beautiful messages and showed me all this appreciation. As soon as we seen eachother a few days he started pushing me away and be very cold..And I noticed the more space I give him the less he comes towards me. Am starting to think he‘s emotionally unavailable.. I moved from Switzerland to England 3 months ago to be together because I didn‘t want him having to give up his business and leave his kids of the previous relationship behind. I don’t have a car or friends here yet. So yeah my options of doing something else and going out with friends are pretty limited too.
@jenninemorel76932 жыл бұрын
@@ch-traveladdict3247 I understand exactly what you are experiencing...it is best for you to focus on what brings you joy in your day to day and let him be. If he is struggling to communicate what he is going through; you can suggest that he get into come counseling or coaching on his own; but for you right now it's best for you to just focus on your overall well being and let him come to terms with what he is going through. Men usually have a very hard time expressing themselves and articulating their feeling.
@lerleathasmith81862 жыл бұрын
@@redlove2266 I usually don't respond to messages but I felt compelled. Some men will leave things that women think are valuable at a woman's place. It can be their way of keeping an option open as they explore. I told this to a friend in a similar situation and she rejected this information, 6 months later he told her he was getting married. She wanted him to come get his things. He said he didn't care about the things and she can drop them off or throw in the trash, he didn't care either way. I'm not saying this is the case for you but that I wouldn't take comfort in the fact that he has things at your place.
@rosannareyes4722 жыл бұрын
I keep telling myself love yourself over and over again before you start to love other’s, but How can you love your neighbor if you don’t even love yourself. Thank you tony God bless and your family in Jesus name ❤️
@ladyddatruthseeker2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom
@janetday54312 жыл бұрын
My sweetie hugged his coworker with such passion my nerves got the best of me.i am out ! I have done so much for him, he's given me nothing of value.its been a year.he says I love you, but does not show it .we drive up to the Nike store,he has the nerve to ask me to buy him some shoes.last straw, an he said he needed gas money.i felt like his personal atm machine.does he just wants to be taken care of? Help!
@mellin39202 жыл бұрын
Guuurlllll runnnn
@Fay11062 жыл бұрын
As Kanye would sing "Run away as fast as you cannn"
@cherh2 жыл бұрын
You answered your own question. "Hugs coworker with passion" "He's giving me nothing of value" "says he love me but does not show it" "buy me some shoes" "He needs gas money" and if you listened to this video TG telling you what you need to hear. Love yourself they way you're willing to love him.
@staciadavis-5p1cac932 жыл бұрын
RUNNNNNN
@velvet1232 жыл бұрын
Please RUNNNNN!!!
@love7loyalty-MHA2 жыл бұрын
YESSSSSSSSS
@donnachoice32862 жыл бұрын
Okay Tony, there's nothing wrong with being clean...I've seen people's houses, cars, clothes that were filthy and they will invite you in their car or house or get in your car with dirty clothes on and they have soap and water...I have a 10year old car I wash it.. I'm a Horder so I've been told but a organized one😁....it the attention you give material things too much or to little....even God is clean....😁
@shaylanewlife2 жыл бұрын
Hello Tony
@kristyfernandez75102 жыл бұрын
Tony you appeared in my dream last night. I guess that’s gods way of saying I must listen to your videos. Or this one at least. Stay out my dreams boy!!!🤦♀️
@lindalovehearts2 жыл бұрын
🙄
@redlove22662 жыл бұрын
😳🙄 TF
@lindalovehearts2 жыл бұрын
@@redlove2266 the last part was🙄 he is not a boy, nor should be addressed as one, and the last part made the entire paragraph like 🤨
@redlove22662 жыл бұрын
@@lindalovehearts I KNOW AND STAY OUT HER DREAMS LIKE WHAT HE DONT KNOW U & AINT THINKIN BOUT U LOL
@lindalovehearts2 жыл бұрын
@@redlove2266 right. and she may be offended, but think about what is said as if ur in his face and his wife is standing right there...💯💯💯💯 how do you think her reaction would be? 🧐🤨 Exactly
@shannonmonaallathat2 жыл бұрын
13:20 🤣
@Iamsimplyfree2 жыл бұрын
26:57 😂😂😂
@WomanforGOD2 жыл бұрын
These people cannot drive it's ridiculously pitiful keep our eyes on the prize GOD is FAITHFUL
@tbeezy77032 жыл бұрын
NAW not the ford ESCAPE lol!
@keysherhendrix62322 жыл бұрын
Tony can u please make a video about the black nurse that killed his girl friend and ex wife on live I think women would benefit from your knowledge
@mbrook49832 жыл бұрын
Yea I noticed that people asked and asks the same repeated question on your questions and answers… like all the answers are in your videos and on your post. I be wondering do they be paying attention or just want to to be noticed- that’s not my issue but I know I’ve watched enough of Tony’s videos that is like it’s already embedded in me
@DebtDemolisherTV2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@teshaparx48022 жыл бұрын
Whr can I find Saturday Q and A?
@stephanie16112 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, I I’m new to your channel and I’m not sure if you have talked about dating as a Christian. It’s so hard bc it seems like there are a lack of Christian men with the same values and beliefs. Could you give some tips on dating as a Christian?
@michelleafrancis2 жыл бұрын
pray and ask God for everything and pray for your spouse even if you don’t them yet
@michelleafrancis2 жыл бұрын
know
@kyttenhinson39632 жыл бұрын
That is my question
@kyttenhinson39632 жыл бұрын
Isn't it true once a man hits you he always hits you
@starseedstarseed3112 жыл бұрын
Sir I really enjoyed this video. But it triggered some questions in me. And since you mentioned God I got divinely ordained to. What can we suggest to women with daddy issues? But want a Godly man. I want a biblical relationship. A divine counterpart . A Godly man, but this world s addvice are never biblical. I see this all the time even through me. Other addvice the earthly world provides. But what God advices in the heart is different. 🤔 And I mean in the pursuit before finding the mate. How do we find a balance between this?
@katiecsoka37682 жыл бұрын
Tony, someone is using your name and profile picture to comment under other youtubers' posts.
@christineporter99142 жыл бұрын
I've noticed that also
@ashleymiddleton1472 жыл бұрын
I'm laughing buddy way is u driving like that and he is on that drink, he is not on the regular.. Lol
@teresaroquemore6702 жыл бұрын
Oh ok that’s why I get little response ok well um cuter in person LOL Lil bro u have a tough job too funny
@Somethingcatchier2 жыл бұрын
I disagree Tony. I don’t believe that someone can cause someone to cheat or abuse the other person. The other person always has the free will to react how they want. The mentality that you are talking about only perpetuates victims feeling like it was their fault. Shame on you
@kyttenhinson39632 жыл бұрын
Talk to me
@mizzcrazygal2 жыл бұрын
i need help my boyfriend of three years is getting married next month, hes 100% sure he doesnt want to marry me but he still wants to talk to me even after he married. but why????? EDIT : he told me we weren’t together lmao
@yoyo-jt6yp2 жыл бұрын
He just wants to keep you stuck. Leave him. You deserve much better.
@Bree486462 жыл бұрын
To waste your time. Run! Focus on you only
@missadug2 жыл бұрын
He wants to talk to you because you allow it. Some men are attracted to the "scandal" or the "secret" of having someone on the side. It's not about you or his desire for you. It is most likely related to childhood trauma.
@cesamempowers2 жыл бұрын
First hello as I was reading comments as I'm doing research to better understand customer language I came across your post and it made me stop and re-read 3 times to make sure I understood your post correctly. Why? Well, clearly he feels this is an option for him. He wants to have his wife and you too. He feels you will allow and accept this as I'm sure he didn't tell his wife about you. Please know any man that tells you this is not thinking about you. He's focused on himself. He's keeping you stuck and stringing you along to be his option while he carries on with his wife without you. That's why. And I hope and pray you don't allow him to disrespect you this way. As he clearly doesn't want you.