What Is Sex Like For Straight Women? | Sex Ed

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@ivieaiwuyo784
@ivieaiwuyo784 3 жыл бұрын
Period for a year sounds like literal hell...
@SeriouslySeriousGrim
@SeriouslySeriousGrim 3 жыл бұрын
@Mr Sir Not really
@ohemmaAna
@ohemmaAna 3 жыл бұрын
I had mine for like 3montjs straight and I thought that was bad, but a yearrrr? Damn
@myoung4720
@myoung4720 3 жыл бұрын
I can't even survive a week 😭
@ivieaiwuyo784
@ivieaiwuyo784 3 жыл бұрын
@@myoung4720 LITERALLYYYYY mine is like 3-4 days but I have really intense cramps and Im always in a bad mood feeling miserable so its like literally the worst even for that short time
@myoung4720
@myoung4720 3 жыл бұрын
@Mr Sir i know im a girl, and all im saying is i can't even handle my monthly business !
@acerolalu
@acerolalu 3 жыл бұрын
oh my god i feel so bad for the girl that had her period for a year straight
@zero-rj8sb
@zero-rj8sb 3 жыл бұрын
I scrolled down and saw this now I'm scared-
@MunchMaila
@MunchMaila 3 жыл бұрын
I had mine to but for half a year.
@hoeforjoy1566
@hoeforjoy1566 3 жыл бұрын
@@MunchMaila same what an experience
@demitraschmidt3459
@demitraschmidt3459 3 жыл бұрын
Literally the same thing happened to me, currently I'm on the Pill and have had zero problems but when I had the Nexplanon implant I bled for 7 months straight before I had it taken out
@amych4393
@amych4393 3 жыл бұрын
@@demitraschmidt3459 OMG WHAT. But was it everyday heavy or it was a light flow? my worst nightmare dear gosh
@GeLLee
@GeLLee 3 жыл бұрын
them: "it's painful" me: "I'm out"
@roboku9863
@roboku9863 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@PROVOCATEURSK
@PROVOCATEURSK 2 жыл бұрын
Going to a dentist is painful. Paying taxes is painful. Attending funerals is painful. Have fun.
@cottoncandyff8799
@cottoncandyff8799 2 жыл бұрын
Thats why lubricant is waiting
@docmmee9435
@docmmee9435 2 жыл бұрын
My sister in Christ, you have self made lubricant
@realitycheck7176
@realitycheck7176 Жыл бұрын
I cam feel the you:)
@addy8216
@addy8216 3 жыл бұрын
Period for a year straight. A year straight. A YEAR STRAIGHT. This woman is godly, that takes so much effort.
@Pineapple-sj6ht
@Pineapple-sj6ht 9 ай бұрын
😩
@Alleksxx
@Alleksxx 7 ай бұрын
As a guy, I don't even know it could even last that long.
@Dontrolling
@Dontrolling 7 ай бұрын
I had mine for 3 months and was in and out of the hospital because they couldn’t figure out what was wrong with me. My iron DROPPED dramatically. Finally saw an OBGYN and was diagnosed with PCOS. Never in my life do I want to go through that again.
@vogeline_
@vogeline_ 7 ай бұрын
@@Alleksxx i heard someone who had her period for like 6 months and it was because of a tumor(not cancerous) in her uterus and her body was trying to get rid of it by basically flushing it out
@madelinedovi5617
@madelinedovi5617 Ай бұрын
I had mine for 2 on the arm implant, and I have PCOS as well. Definitely no fun
@sanachan1996
@sanachan1996 3 жыл бұрын
If there's no consent then it's considered rape and it applies for both girls and boys.
@alphoacastle9849
@alphoacastle9849 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Sana yes ( hope she sees it she will be proud of Onces )
@kannonlong9767
@kannonlong9767 3 жыл бұрын
The sad part is that the girls can throw rape accusations but guys WILL go to jail for innocence just because a girl is butt hurt about a break up and everyone will be on the girl side
@andreib2202
@andreib2202 3 жыл бұрын
@@kannonlong9767 Thats true. Glad to see there is red pill warriors here
@RawrieAddicted
@RawrieAddicted 3 жыл бұрын
@@kannonlong9767 The amount of false rape accusations is far less common than you seem to think.
@RawrieAddicted
@RawrieAddicted 3 жыл бұрын
@@kannonlong9767 Also, the fact of the matter is that most rapists walk free. So no, you're just talking out of your ass.
@mateobanda6808
@mateobanda6808 3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to watch the video with Straight Men answering instead.
@LH-zz1pg
@LH-zz1pg 3 жыл бұрын
Ohh that would be great 😂😂 Edit: it would probably have the same energy to the one where they try and find the gay dude in odd man out
@jaydon232
@jaydon232 3 жыл бұрын
@@justgettingby7725 haha?
@nodwaa9227
@nodwaa9227 3 жыл бұрын
What you mean the 10 second wonder ?
@daddydell
@daddydell 3 жыл бұрын
@@nodwaa9227 ok ok no need to throw shots
@diegovilla3879
@diegovilla3879 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@liddieluvskitty
@liddieluvskitty 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not just saying this to be nice but that bald girl ROCKS her bald head and it looks so good with hoop earrings and its a perfect ✨vibe✨
@rashi8824
@rashi8824 3 жыл бұрын
IKR
@shibtuff
@shibtuff 3 жыл бұрын
Shes soo cool
@kavitha.s1933
@kavitha.s1933 3 жыл бұрын
Okay
@AadeshKarira
@AadeshKarira 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah she looks mature! I am balding so, if i have a partner who is also bald, it will be so cool😎
@jaxofspades9571
@jaxofspades9571 3 жыл бұрын
y e s
@bruh-nc9cl
@bruh-nc9cl 3 жыл бұрын
Schools teach us the biology and more like the sciency part of sex but we're never really taught about a lot of stuff like consent, morals and the more emotional side of sex. Thank you, for making this
@deathmetalbandblack2392
@deathmetalbandblack2392 2 жыл бұрын
i don't know that females or girls that have difference
@deathmetalbandblack2392
@deathmetalbandblack2392 2 жыл бұрын
No
@deathmetalbandblack2392
@deathmetalbandblack2392 2 жыл бұрын
i'm so sorry about those female things
@collinthegamer510
@collinthegamer510 Жыл бұрын
@@deathmetalbandblack2392 bro what 💀
@luhgyzz9547
@luhgyzz9547 Ай бұрын
Yes we are taught that
@d0gtree14
@d0gtree14 3 жыл бұрын
If she says no its no don't ask again its not that hard.
@aldanatpwk9358
@aldanatpwk9358 3 жыл бұрын
i agree, but its not only that, if you notice that your partner is unsure about doing it, dont pressure, let them think about it.
@SS-gr2wx
@SS-gr2wx 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, anything but no means don’t keep pressuring us to do something we don’t want to do.
@sruthysk3962
@sruthysk3962 3 жыл бұрын
And the same goes for men. They should be taught that it's okay to say no.
@nadiryoung9925
@nadiryoung9925 3 жыл бұрын
Can we apply this same concept to food? If you say you’re not hungry, don’t get upset or eat my food.
@d0gtree14
@d0gtree14 3 жыл бұрын
@@nadiryoung9925 you’re fighting a different battle here chief
@juliariera4000
@juliariera4000 3 жыл бұрын
jubilee teaching younger generations more than school does
@AxxLAfriku
@AxxLAfriku 3 жыл бұрын
You dislike my v*deos? Are you just a h8er boi? I say see you l8er boi. Don't watch my stuff anymore. Your dislikes are damaging my good reputation. I am a superstar, dear julia
@youssefhachicha49
@youssefhachicha49 3 жыл бұрын
Stfu
@juliandip7958
@juliandip7958 3 жыл бұрын
@@AxxLAfriku wtf
@snehathapa584
@snehathapa584 3 жыл бұрын
@@AxxLAfriku 😃
@jdwmyt
@jdwmyt 3 жыл бұрын
Q: What has one head, one foot and four legs? A: A Bed
@mi_sheep
@mi_sheep Жыл бұрын
I agree that say "I wish I was taught more about sex not being such a shameful thing for women." I wish everyone is not ashamed of sex and has confidence in it.
@arash9255
@arash9255 10 күн бұрын
Men want to be with virgin women be ashamed or not,
@2819942011
@2819942011 3 жыл бұрын
The "feeling ashamed you're taking too long" is so common among women I feel like.
@rxqueen1618
@rxqueen1618 25 күн бұрын
I think the bigger issue is men NOT being ashamed that they can't last more than 2 min. At least we can actually last longer than it takes for a hot pocket to heat up in the microwave. i'm only talking about weak, loser men btw. not real men.
@paigewright9778
@paigewright9778 3 жыл бұрын
girls remember every woman is different! it’s okay if you don’t relate to any of these girls :)
@sola_a
@sola_a 3 жыл бұрын
Preach :)
@Psychol-Snooper
@Psychol-Snooper 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to all of them... WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?
@rachel-zo2iq
@rachel-zo2iq 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psychol-Snooper nothing's wrong with you :)
@Psychol-Snooper
@Psychol-Snooper 3 жыл бұрын
@@rachel-zo2iq The Caps Lock part was a joke, if that was not clear.
@abinothayyilsanoj4182
@abinothayyilsanoj4182 3 жыл бұрын
Every person is different
@myahdestefans7921
@myahdestefans7921 3 жыл бұрын
the bald woman has such a soothing voice, she gives me the protective aunt vibes and i love it
@user-hf3tc3su1b
@user-hf3tc3su1b 3 жыл бұрын
Literally what I was thinking when I saw her. I felt like we ✨bonded✨ even though we didn't even have an actual conversation 🤣
@gorjessica
@gorjessica 3 жыл бұрын
I thought she sounded like kourtney kardashian but better 👁👄👁✌🏼
@GirlieHailz101
@GirlieHailz101 3 жыл бұрын
Does anybody know her insta? I just wanna know where she got that cute ass top😫😍
@nahimgood4
@nahimgood4 3 жыл бұрын
Right!! She really gave me guiding older best friend/Aunt vibes.
@adreanaheavenholland
@adreanaheavenholland 3 жыл бұрын
She’s so pretty 😍
@tomatoesandradiowire482
@tomatoesandradiowire482 3 жыл бұрын
Lowkey that bald woman’s reverse bathroom analogy was very helpful. It was very off the wall but actually a very interesting analogy that makes the most sense to me.
@evil-resident
@evil-resident 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't understand though 😳
@tomatoesandradiowire482
@tomatoesandradiowire482 2 жыл бұрын
@@evil-resident are you familiar with the sensation of peeing
@evil-resident
@evil-resident 2 жыл бұрын
@@tomatoesandradiowire482 yes ma'am i think i am
@JoeMama-sd2kl
@JoeMama-sd2kl 2 жыл бұрын
@@tomatoesandradiowire482 i can understand the sense of wanting to pee and the relief that comes especially after holding for so long. But what does the word reverse mean on this context?
@collinthegamer510
@collinthegamer510 Жыл бұрын
@@JoeMama-sd2kl you feel the relief but it’s going inside you I think
@milosblagojevic5899
@milosblagojevic5899 3 жыл бұрын
even as a 16 year old male i think i found this video helpful, to understand the other side better...
@rxqueen1618
@rxqueen1618 25 күн бұрын
hey little bro just some more advice - careful who you choose to sleep with. If your body count is higher than 20 by the time you're 25 you're used goods. Choose your partners wisely and save yourself for a woman who's worth it.
@RossPlus
@RossPlus 3 жыл бұрын
that girl is PULLING OFF the bald look
@JerrenAnnah
@JerrenAnnah 3 жыл бұрын
Periodt!!! She's literally so gorgeous omg
@lexdocampbell970
@lexdocampbell970 3 жыл бұрын
@@JerrenAnnah Ikr so pretty
@iwonthesitateebltch3319
@iwonthesitateebltch3319 3 жыл бұрын
IKR
@nobodycares607
@nobodycares607 3 жыл бұрын
Pulling it off terribly
@hyeshu
@hyeshu 3 жыл бұрын
@@nobodycares607 someone’s insecure
@AlexBSFR
@AlexBSFR 3 жыл бұрын
the bald lady is so attractive, idk what it is but she’s beautiful 😭
@bbqsoda
@bbqsoda 3 жыл бұрын
yess and she speaks so eloquently 👏
@crablord7934
@crablord7934 3 жыл бұрын
The way she carries herself just feels cool
@solvhaa6461
@solvhaa6461 3 жыл бұрын
ikr! she’s so pretty🥰🥰 they’re all pretty tho
@Someone-mq8mm
@Someone-mq8mm 3 жыл бұрын
Not really
@gorjessica
@gorjessica 3 жыл бұрын
Je ne sais quoi is a great phrase to describe her
@ashtonphoenyx
@ashtonphoenyx Жыл бұрын
5:29 Wow. Her eyes are beautiful
@gowri4183
@gowri4183 3 жыл бұрын
That lady pulled of the bald look She is gorgeous !!
@mohammadbanafa
@mohammadbanafa 3 жыл бұрын
Love how the black girl rocked her hair like that
@masoncochran1077
@masoncochran1077 3 жыл бұрын
999
@mohammadbanafa
@mohammadbanafa 3 жыл бұрын
@@masoncochran1077 9994L
@jlz3
@jlz3 3 жыл бұрын
I like ya cut G
@davinarobertson47
@davinarobertson47 3 жыл бұрын
bro what is the girl name in the long sleeve top with retainers in she is soooo bad
@SingerNausicaa
@SingerNausicaa 3 жыл бұрын
J wrld 999
@TrackMasterAsh
@TrackMasterAsh 3 жыл бұрын
It’s weird how sex is pretty much a universal feeling for men but for women it’s like taking acid or sum
@chickofmusic001
@chickofmusic001 3 жыл бұрын
It’s pretty messed up how women are shamed, for expressing their sexuality (when it doesn’t please men!)
@litman5584
@litman5584 3 жыл бұрын
@@chickofmusic001 not all men are like that but just because a guy (guy thot)is sleeping around doesn’t make him morally good, sleeping with multiple people is not good in general for both men or women
@amberslahlize7961
@amberslahlize7961 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of guys are ignorant about female sexuality....but who can blame them. They aren't women, and to expect them to think like women is just as asinine as men expecting women to think like men. Once you figure that out, and how much of the brain is actually involved in sex, it becomes easier to figure out what women want.
@amberslahlize7961
@amberslahlize7961 3 жыл бұрын
@cowgirl boots What am I trying to justify??
@nnn-ej3zm
@nnn-ej3zm 3 жыл бұрын
@@supermodelwannabe no, it's mostly because women choose guys who are bad for them because they feel attracted to a "bad guy". If you choose a nice normal guy he would never shame you for that.
@seriousnewsnetwork2707
@seriousnewsnetwork2707 3 жыл бұрын
Love how this video was produced and the subtle mood change as the questions got deeper. good stuff I say. Also informative.
@ny-yu3kz
@ny-yu3kz Жыл бұрын
It was nice to hear their honest experiences.This kinda education seems to be needed a lot..
@BonazaiGirl
@BonazaiGirl 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a virgin woman, so this is pretty educational for me.
@Ballu12345
@Ballu12345 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@babarali603
@babarali603 3 жыл бұрын
I am also
@samal776
@samal776 3 жыл бұрын
Me too and I’m 20🌚
@alexanderfam9900
@alexanderfam9900 3 жыл бұрын
@@samal776 same
@charlize6994
@charlize6994 3 жыл бұрын
@@jerichomiranda9955umm anyway... everyone pretend we never read this comment above mine
@ghaydaabuhijleh7484
@ghaydaabuhijleh7484 3 жыл бұрын
✨SHE HAD HER PERIOD FOR A YEAR? AND NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT THIS✨ 😳😳😳😳
@-lemon-lime5282
@-lemon-lime5282 3 жыл бұрын
My sister also had her period for a year. But it’s because she was on birth control. Maybe it wasn’t the right birth control but she also had it for a year.
@averygrace5744
@averygrace5744 3 жыл бұрын
@@-lemon-lime5282 that’s horrible
@mattisencox8176
@mattisencox8176 3 жыл бұрын
I had mine for several months straight and very heavily after starting birth control. It was really scary bleeding through a super plus tampon in an hour and not knowing why it was going kn for so long. It suuuuucked. Prior to that I had always had veryyyy light and irregular periods where I would go a month or two without having one. It's super important to find the right one and to take it correctly. I was bleeding nonstop until I talked to a doctor and switched brands on the mini pill.
@ghaydaabuhijleh7484
@ghaydaabuhijleh7484 3 жыл бұрын
@@mattisencox8176 true, I never knew u had to find the most suitable one for u because we Arabs don’t really use such things 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I’m glad I got educated about this
@ghaydaabuhijleh7484
@ghaydaabuhijleh7484 3 жыл бұрын
@@-lemon-lime5282 damn 😭😣😩
@LilyWhispersASMR
@LilyWhispersASMR 3 жыл бұрын
7:37 💖
@pokemasterx4244
@pokemasterx4244 3 жыл бұрын
@@ExtremeRidersJodhpur 😭😂
@HamoTheUltimate
@HamoTheUltimate 3 жыл бұрын
That you?
@nessaj6359
@nessaj6359 3 жыл бұрын
💞
@juanpedro4083
@juanpedro4083 3 жыл бұрын
I prefer men because a vagina is so ugly.
@stopthecap9987
@stopthecap9987 3 жыл бұрын
@@juanpedro4083 Women can't help that.
@shaym4306
@shaym4306 3 жыл бұрын
This is actually amazing. So much awareness was raised!! Conversations like this are important and should become way more normalized, so glad to see that they are more and more ❤️
@firelass4806
@firelass4806 3 жыл бұрын
This feels like a Buzzfeed video, but back when Buzzfeed was good
@yasminnegash3968
@yasminnegash3968 3 жыл бұрын
hey, im not very familiar with buzzfeed but so many people seem to hate it now? Can you explain why?
@Paranoid.pisces
@Paranoid.pisces 3 жыл бұрын
@@yasminnegash3968 they used to have great and aspiring content, but now they literally became cringe , 3/4 of their original employees left , just look up a cringe compilation of buzzfeed and you would understand
@jimbox5948
@jimbox5948 3 жыл бұрын
It’s all woke, sjw jargon! I totally agree!
@PTEC
@PTEC 3 жыл бұрын
All the buzzfeed cringe comps are from like 3-4 years ago
@reemmasri9274
@reemmasri9274 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@billhop5310
@billhop5310 3 жыл бұрын
As a guy, I think lots of other guys should watch this and help them better understand what women go through.
@weltlos
@weltlos 3 жыл бұрын
Every person is obviously different, so the only thing guys should do is communicating with their partners.
@mrmetsman7693
@mrmetsman7693 3 жыл бұрын
I am in the same boat, its almost impossible to get this perspective otherwise
@Someone-mq8mm
@Someone-mq8mm 3 жыл бұрын
We go through more
@amanda-almeida
@amanda-almeida 3 жыл бұрын
@@Someone-mq8mm umm it’s not a competition
@Someone-mq8mm
@Someone-mq8mm 3 жыл бұрын
@@amanda-almeida ik
@kwangheeko8772
@kwangheeko8772 Жыл бұрын
I wanna say thank you Jubilee for giving us all such a wonderful opportunity to think and talk about this sensitive subject, which is hard to mention even among closest friends. Kudos to all those women also!
@glitch9730
@glitch9730 3 жыл бұрын
Damn good thing you guys made this vid since this is such a taboo in our household and even not talked or learned about in our school. Thank you so much
@kamiirene8503
@kamiirene8503 3 жыл бұрын
the mental block thing during sex is such an important yet overlooked topic to talk about with women!
@jadealex
@jadealex 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously!! I have been with my partner for forever but it took me 1-2 years with him to finally learn ways to overcome my mental block. It’s hard because I know I love the man I’m sleeping with but the mind can make us feel so insecure!
@cmartin7052
@cmartin7052 3 жыл бұрын
As a man, this was very insightful. Women don't talk like this with people who they start dating. Then you're in a relationship caught off guard when there are problems. Partner doesn't know about past self misconceptions about sex and self-pleasure as well as trauma from being assaulted/raped. I think this is why relationships don't work many times. People have so much mental trauma and don't realize that hurts the relationships they form.
@JH-zs3bs
@JH-zs3bs 3 жыл бұрын
It is an issue for men as well. and even less talked about cause mostly we, men, aren't even aware of it.
@kaii2330
@kaii2330 3 жыл бұрын
@Ēlëcłr!c ??
@ariwilliams130
@ariwilliams130 3 жыл бұрын
@Ēlëcłr!c I'm not sure what and who you're talking about
@sihamchtioui3986
@sihamchtioui3986 3 жыл бұрын
that assault question made me so sad, like i dont have a female friend who has not been assaulted its so messed up. a guy pressuring you into saying yes is not consent!!! no matter how close yall are ,and do not feel bad because it is not your fault. if you reading this and struggling to deal with something that happened to you im so sorry
@apocalypse_____
@apocalypse_____ 3 жыл бұрын
Simp
@buniezz1930
@buniezz1930 3 жыл бұрын
@@apocalypse_____ how??
@minabright9894
@minabright9894 3 жыл бұрын
@@apocalypse_____ incel
@zenofblox5286
@zenofblox5286 3 жыл бұрын
Wait what do you mean by pressuring. Is it treating them better and making them more open to the idea or just straight up asking them everytime?
@Psychol-Snooper
@Psychol-Snooper 3 жыл бұрын
@@zenofblox5286 It means that when she says no, it's no. No begging, no bargaining, no anger, no nothing. And definitely don't 80s sex pest songs like "come on Eileen" by Dexys Midnight Runners. XD
@aimecesbron5067
@aimecesbron5067 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for the girl who has been sexually assaulted , she's so strong !
@vitamins4breakfast
@vitamins4breakfast 3 жыл бұрын
Literally just made a video on this topic and now stumbled on this video! So glad we are having conversations like this one! The collective needs it!
@935164122093
@935164122093 3 жыл бұрын
“Got burritos afterwards” 🤣 that’s cute.
@crazyleaf257
@crazyleaf257 3 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁🤣🤣
@Sarah-the-Carin
@Sarah-the-Carin 3 жыл бұрын
that was my favorite response hahaha
@samshetty9023
@samshetty9023 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@dr.hugog.hackenbush9443
@dr.hugog.hackenbush9443 3 жыл бұрын
Well, he allready had a taco...
@darcykvlogs9522
@darcykvlogs9522 3 жыл бұрын
Gosh, I wish I was eating a burrito rn
@flyte3449
@flyte3449 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a guy watching this at 2 am on Christmas wtf is wrong with me
@ce_trav5692
@ce_trav5692 3 жыл бұрын
Wtf same
@schonthesheep8529
@schonthesheep8529 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao.
@Revengilate
@Revengilate 3 жыл бұрын
What the fuck is wrong with me
@lovelyumiii
@lovelyumiii 3 жыл бұрын
its actually a good thing to learn tho
@Revengilate
@Revengilate 3 жыл бұрын
More for women i guess
@helenquinn6984
@helenquinn6984 3 жыл бұрын
My neighbour (around 70 years old) is a bee keeper and one time I (17 at the time) was there with my father. A bee started to fly around me and I started to freak out. The neighbour said "In your life you're gonna be poked by something else than a bee." And everyone around started laughing including my dad. I told my sister about that and she said that I'm too sensitive. I still don't know why we live in a society that is normalizing verbal sexual assault. That is not okay. If women can control themselves around a person they find attractive why can't men do the same?
@seulllll189
@seulllll189 Жыл бұрын
This is really helpful. Also, I feel so grateful for everyone in the video
@donoduzo6949
@donoduzo6949 3 жыл бұрын
For someone who is too sensitive with topics about sex, I really appreciate how they gave straightforward and honest answers for the sake of sex education. Thanks!
@maryammary5559
@maryammary5559 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@Mia-zn2dr
@Mia-zn2dr 3 жыл бұрын
me a 10 yr old: 😬😃😃😃
@donoduzo6949
@donoduzo6949 3 жыл бұрын
Yooo this is the first time i got a heart from jubilee
@LS-qt9bo
@LS-qt9bo 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mia-zn2dr your a kid gtfo this is for big boy teenagers and adolescents only
@user-ug2eg9fs1v
@user-ug2eg9fs1v 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mia-zn2dr girl why are you here 😃
@vnrdlc
@vnrdlc 3 жыл бұрын
Im scared of growing up.
@rugie_chan7551
@rugie_chan7551 3 жыл бұрын
Me too, _i don't wanna have grey hair or loose skin or worse yk what I mean_
@vampire_6
@vampire_6 3 жыл бұрын
I'm afraid of being alone my whole life, but when i think about marriage I get very anxious and uncomfortable
@anahidugdale9673
@anahidugdale9673 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@lexdocampbell970
@lexdocampbell970 3 жыл бұрын
@@vampire_6 Same I'm scared if the man is a traitor
@ash_ketchumwas_my_first_an6817
@ash_ketchumwas_my_first_an6817 3 жыл бұрын
@stormdraws but but But bUT BUT BUT BTU BUT ITS SCARYYYYYYEEEE
@kaymanning4219
@kaymanning4219 3 жыл бұрын
omg - I'm guessing that this has been said by now countless times, but I really appreciate all of this to be completely honest, because my folks or school never taught me this or explained these things that I can relate to, and I'm in my 20s now, so a big thank you ...
@lilawagner212
@lilawagner212 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate videos like this. It’s definitely a difficult topic for some people but this really can help so many people feel comfortable ❤️
@lunamoon4062
@lunamoon4062 3 жыл бұрын
As a Christian girl homeschooled by an asexual mother, this is immensely helpful
@mocha4745
@mocha4745 3 жыл бұрын
@Isaac Tubirore it was probably a development that occurred after the girl was born
@floatingrat
@floatingrat 3 жыл бұрын
@Isaac Tubirore asexual people can still have kids and whatnot. asexuality has to do with sexual attraction, not actual sex
@beansontoast1759
@beansontoast1759 3 жыл бұрын
@@MixedBeauty01 someone who doesn’t feel sexual attraction but they still have romantic attraction and like affection just not sex x
@crazysmilingdonut804
@crazysmilingdonut804 3 жыл бұрын
@Ashanty Ortega Especially in the older generations they didnt knew what assexuality was and many women believed it was their duty to have have sex with their husband even though they didnt wanted it. Remember rape within a marriage was legal till the 90s or is still legal in some countries. I met many old (80+) women in the Nursing home that didnt knew that they were asexual. Some said they were lesbians but still married for 50- 60 years cause it was expected from them
@siannons1971
@siannons1971 3 жыл бұрын
That’s oddly specific
@imnogood5016
@imnogood5016 3 жыл бұрын
Can we appreciate : 1. The women in this video, who are really open and sympathetic 2. The creative team : the music and the colors are just so prettyyy, wow, it's a beautiful video, regarding aesthetics but also the subject ! Thanks Jubilee !
@spencerhall4953
@spencerhall4953 3 жыл бұрын
Agree!
@forwardobservations8222
@forwardobservations8222 3 жыл бұрын
the background is so beautiful
@melanymancinicorleone4725
@melanymancinicorleone4725 3 жыл бұрын
and the title!!
@eh-lo-el341
@eh-lo-el341 3 жыл бұрын
You're good
@mozebbi888
@mozebbi888 3 жыл бұрын
I have no women in my circle like them luckily i found out there are normal women on the world
@camilivel
@camilivel 3 жыл бұрын
Great idea for a video.... And these people are giving great ideas and directions of what and how should be done
@vanshita4166
@vanshita4166 3 жыл бұрын
The guilt associated with sex, that it's a bad thing when we're young really messes up the experience.
@sophiaa7721
@sophiaa7721 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 14 and not tryna do anything (“it”) yet but my mom tells me not to do it and makes it sound horrible like it’s a bad thing.. I’m a teen who now gets, THOSE feelings but because with what I’ve been taught, I always feel guilty for having those feelings.. What do I do? Sorry if I just ranted but I was looking for a comment like yours.
@vanshita4166
@vanshita4166 2 жыл бұрын
@@sophiaa7721 It's not really my place to tell someone what to do but I guess be smart, try to keep yourself well informed and make your own decisions. Parents are human beings, they're not always right. Use your head and don't get affected by people's opinions.
@JakeRosen635
@JakeRosen635 2 жыл бұрын
As a guy I feel the same way. Sex feels wrong and immoral - and I know it’s natural but I just feel shame for such feelings for some reason.
@luhgyzz9547
@luhgyzz9547 Ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure its because its illegal. Most people think its better to just not do it rather than getting pregnant at 15
@daniellegolden4084
@daniellegolden4084 3 жыл бұрын
Now I need straight men, gay women, and gay men.
@sophieirakleous7895
@sophieirakleous7895 3 жыл бұрын
And trans people
@haleyhaasl8923
@haleyhaasl8923 3 жыл бұрын
@@sophieirakleous7895 trans isn’t a sexuality
@tanktopthief6094
@tanktopthief6094 3 жыл бұрын
@@haleyhaasl8923 preach on em haley
@jl6930
@jl6930 3 жыл бұрын
@@tanktopthief6094 I think the point is to make a space for trans people to discuss their experiences. They no doubt have unique experiences, that’s all.
@sophieirakleous7895
@sophieirakleous7895 3 жыл бұрын
@@jl6930 exactly
@aminm7714
@aminm7714 3 жыл бұрын
Props to these women for speaking about such a sensitive subject .
@addison2945
@addison2945 3 жыл бұрын
One day, I hope these topics shouldn’t be a topic associated with shame and “behind closed doors.” But the work is being done!
@aminm7714
@aminm7714 3 жыл бұрын
@@addison2945 facts
@jacobsn2370
@jacobsn2370 3 жыл бұрын
@@addison2945 Agreed 👍🏾
@TheNaruto1155
@TheNaruto1155 3 жыл бұрын
I hope these topics in the future aren’t so sensitive and people are more open to talk about it .
@jjf77able
@jjf77able 3 жыл бұрын
Sensitive? These discussions are literally discussed daily and can be found any and everywhere.
@arianajade8759
@arianajade8759 3 жыл бұрын
The content y’all have been putting out lately is amazing foreal keep it up 🖤
@heyheyhey5920
@heyheyhey5920 Жыл бұрын
I always enjoy watching it. It's very helpful for studying.
@stephencampbell4730
@stephencampbell4730 3 жыл бұрын
As a boy, I’ve learned a lot from this. Now I will know for the future
@katetyra5759
@katetyra5759 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for trying to be a more understanding person 👏
@stephencampbell4730
@stephencampbell4730 3 жыл бұрын
@@katetyra5759 Of course! I think it’ll give a perspective all guys will need later in life so when they feel the time is right they can be better for their significant other.
@kieratxx4014
@kieratxx4014 3 жыл бұрын
I wish every guy was like you lol
@catspaghetti4515
@catspaghetti4515 3 жыл бұрын
You are not a boy, but a man. Thanks for having human decency to see both sides of such an emotional topic
@stephencampbell4730
@stephencampbell4730 3 жыл бұрын
@@catspaghetti4515 Why thank you, but actually I’m actually just a boy though😂. I’m not gonna say my age but I’m less that 16. But anyway, thank you.
@harukinakayama3238
@harukinakayama3238 3 жыл бұрын
ok is no one gonna talk about the look on their faces and that silence when the question was about rape?
@Bellyndaakaeme
@Bellyndaakaeme 3 жыл бұрын
It’s honestly sad that in our society this topic is so vital yet it is overlooked and very much so, there’s stigma surrounding it. Given that the person who was a victim of rape is often blamed. Man or woman, boy or girl. No one deserves to go through that and then be unable to get help because of how they’ll be viewed and what people will say. We need to do better. Sex crimes shouldn’t be quieted. Every victim deserves to be heard, not blamed and every culprit deserves to be punished and educated. We need to do better. This is an important topic. When that lady with black hair talked about coercion and having been a victim and not even knowing it back then. I felt for her. They don’t teach us these things. It’s sad to think that many may have normalized it.
@dylanwatt7461
@dylanwatt7461 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bellyndaakaeme Nowadays, the majority of people acknowledge rape and feel we should do something about silenced victims, however the perpetrators of the rape themselves are the ones shaming and blaming. People just need to do a better job raising their children. I'm male, but somewhat a feminist and in all honesty can see myself thinking differently and possibly even being a sexual offender had I not it jammed into my head the dangers of thoughts like those. Sex offenders are results of things, and society.
@amangoyal923
@amangoyal923 3 жыл бұрын
I do. I think they already knew all the coming questions and their acting training was incomplete!!!
@leslindsouza7758
@leslindsouza7758 3 жыл бұрын
I actually felt that. Would have been my exact reaction as well...
@ridec0wgirl
@ridec0wgirl 3 жыл бұрын
i feel like nobody saw it coming-it hard took a dark turn too, but it should be talked ab more
@iAM2AM
@iAM2AM 3 жыл бұрын
As a guy, I genuinely learned a lot from this video. Thanks for making it and thanks to all the young ladies who shared.
@octavia4324
@octavia4324 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for listening!!!!!!
@KittySnicker
@KittySnicker 3 жыл бұрын
:))
@bryannalumhokanae
@bryannalumhokanae 3 жыл бұрын
As a lesbian woman I very much appreciate this whole video. No matter your sexuality people are experiencing a lot of things/these questions within this video. Love this! ❤️
@duckyduke954
@duckyduke954 3 жыл бұрын
Pornography sets a bad idea of sex in young people mind, making them think of sex as a competition rather than a moment of sharing, and the problem is that sex education in school is just plainly bad if not completely unexistent, so most of the people(especially non straight) learn about sex through porn, which is bad
@uniqueperson6900
@uniqueperson6900 3 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for someone to say this thank you!
@marsrigger2641
@marsrigger2641 3 жыл бұрын
a lot of people experience sexual education through porn, and it isn't correct because all they show in porn is the actual actions and orgasm. they don't show the prep, the cleaning that takes place, or the consent for different situations. and it also shows a gross brutalization of women specifically, and the fetishization of different sexual identities as if they aren't actual people and just there for entertainment. thank you for bringing this up! specifically, a lot of LGBT+ youth find their exploration is through porn and they aren't taught any differently.
@uniqueperson6900
@uniqueperson6900 3 жыл бұрын
@@marsrigger2641 True but at the same time those videos are rehearsed and scripted and they pick certain people to do those certain things for a certain reason
@nnn-ej3zm
@nnn-ej3zm 3 жыл бұрын
It's true in some sence but then again it's just a movie.. You don't go around killing people just because you saw a hitman movie.. I think we need to give more credit to people to teens because in the end most of them can distinguish right from wrong.
@akirekory1277
@akirekory1277 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Smorganie
@Smorganie 3 жыл бұрын
I really like the side profile shots that you guys put throughout this conversation. The softer lighting gave light to some of these women's very real facial features.. It just felt more intimate in a way...It gave me this sense of listening to a real person instead of just a talking head on my screen. It expanded this sense of sonder because I was now watching someone recount something about themselves in this vulnerable moment... Bravo to whom-ever planned/got/included that shot for this video.
@Smorganie
@Smorganie 3 жыл бұрын
​@Mr Sir Bruh...whether it was an intentional creative decision or a decision made just to provide variety to the visual experience... I experienced it in a profound way and decided to share that. What do you gain by being dismissive of my human experience because you didn't feel that way so much you can't even imagine that it might have been an intentional creative decision. That when someone literally makes it their profession to capture people in a portrait photography-esque setting that they may choose lighting and angles that help portray the essence of what a real human being looks like.. But yeah sure... they probably just push the capture button and hope it goes well, definitely not that deep, lmao...
@abbyaddink7355
@abbyaddink7355 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that’s really good input. I noticed that too.
@xcx000
@xcx000 3 жыл бұрын
@Mr Sir lmao, video framing and setting up the camera to make the viewer feel a certain way is deep. imagine if they just had a boring white background and harsh lighting, that wouldn’t work so well, hm?
@aliviablue9085
@aliviablue9085 3 жыл бұрын
@Mr Sir it’s not deep to you but it’s deep to other people. Everyone views things different
@neonicecream8950
@neonicecream8950 3 жыл бұрын
Hmm hmm yes, indeed ma'am 🍷
@devikaishoney6456
@devikaishoney6456 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this! I see us breaking taboos. We need to talk about stuff like this more.
@JordynMarion
@JordynMarion 3 жыл бұрын
These women are so mature this is amazing thank you to them for sharing their stories and to jubilee for putting this out there.
@ali8922
@ali8922 3 жыл бұрын
The fact literally 1/3 women REPORTED being sexually assaulted in the u.s is horrible. And that's just those who reported it and aren't blocking it
@TheOtherAnne
@TheOtherAnne 3 жыл бұрын
The study that reported this was pretty flawed though. The term assault was applied very lously (a nasty comment was grouped in the same category as physical assault) and the group was very "biased": not enough participants to equate this to the whole us and not everyone replied which means that there is a possibility that only the women with this experience replied. Ps: not to say that it doesn't happen or their experiences aren't valid, just that you don't have to be scared since the number 1/3 is not valid
@ali8922
@ali8922 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheOtherAnne that's fair. It's hard to find statistics that are actually unbiased at all. I do think they were attempting to be since a similar number of completed r*pe was apparent in men but yeah, it's not going to be 100% accurate by any means. However, since finding real statistics on something like this is hard to come by, another great source is just the people you're surrounded by. And at least for me, most women in my life have been at some point and I've heard the same from other women. Men I'm not at sure about because I don't have many in my life I could ask but they might be the same, too. And as long as we cannot feel safe, there's always a reason to fear. Fear is always justified for any situation, regardless of how outrageous it may seem
@TheOtherAnne
@TheOtherAnne 3 жыл бұрын
@@ali8922 I was shocked as well when I heard the number, thats why I looked into it. But I may be biased as well in finding the number too high: I live in a small country which seems a lot safer, the reported stats say that most assault cases happen with close friends or family friends. I talked about it with the people around me and it is generally not a fear of theirs, we all feel safe in our social bubbles.
@ali8922
@ali8922 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheOtherAnne that makes sense! Yeah, im not sure what country you're from but in places like europe where there is a lot of real sex ed, it seems to be way less of an issue. In america, its just another thing to add onto the list of things we have wrong with our country LMAO. thanks for talking with me btw! I loved hearing your input! :)
@detectivea9213
@detectivea9213 3 жыл бұрын
But most of those sexually "assaulted women" who report lie just for some cash 😭😭😭😭😭 which is even more horrible
@Rachelroberts87
@Rachelroberts87 3 жыл бұрын
i was surprised by how many of them said sex didn’t hurt the first time cuz i felt like i was sitting on a knife😅
@YN-ld3mh
@YN-ld3mh 3 жыл бұрын
Gurlll that happens 😭 if you're not wet enough, it's PAINFUL! That happened to me and I stopped midway because it was not getting better.
@Rachelroberts87
@Rachelroberts87 3 жыл бұрын
@@YN-ld3mh yes! i stopped him too and had to try again another time and it was fine so i guess the damage had been done😂i still feel a slight tinge of pain when i think about it tho yikes
@basicslime104
@basicslime104 3 жыл бұрын
Okay but this is making me really scared as a young girl 😭
@victoryabibang4720
@victoryabibang4720 3 жыл бұрын
U cracked me up
@sage243.
@sage243. 3 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for laughing but this is just terrible😭
@amyfraser8427
@amyfraser8427 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the honesty and vulnerability in this video. Props to these women for being so honest!!
@user-ed2ww9dn4o
@user-ed2ww9dn4o 3 жыл бұрын
I am a bisexual virgin woman, and this video was honestly made me rlly sad but also comforting, Im very scared abt having my first time with someone who might leave me, seriously,,, I really want to be with someone who loves me and will stay with me,,,
@Vitaflickan
@Vitaflickan 3 жыл бұрын
Hello! I am also a bi woman. Not a virgin anymore but the person I "lost"(don't like saying lose cuz you don't lose anything if anything you GAIN experience) it to was my first relationship. They ended up leaving me but oh my that was honestly the best that could happen. Don't misunderstand that relationship was the most amazing experience of my life at that point. I think you shouldn't fear losing things in life because even if you'd lose someone you love you gain so much more! Even if you don't end up with your first person they teach you so much about what you want in a partner and yourself! However if it's still a big fear of yours to end up in a relationship that doesn't last then my biggest tip is be friends with them first and reaaally get to know them well and BE YOURSELF. Nothing holds better than a solid friendship before a relationship, just be sure that you aren't overlooking something about them because of love. That happens a lot! Remember you deserve to be treated well and the person you're with should deserve that too! If you have any questions I am open to try and help :)
@e.k.d6181
@e.k.d6181 3 жыл бұрын
@@Vitaflickan thank you
@somerandompeep6099
@somerandompeep6099 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for the girl who had her period for a year... I can’t bare it for a week and she had to go through it for A WHOLE YEAR
@mitoito7291
@mitoito7291 3 жыл бұрын
wait isn’t that a serious problem?
@bloodfilledchalice6662
@bloodfilledchalice6662 3 жыл бұрын
Depo shots man!
@ellenajae
@ellenajae 3 жыл бұрын
Your PFP is adorable😭😭 And I had mine for a year and a half-😅 I thought it was normal-😂
@kaelynsmith1242
@kaelynsmith1242 2 жыл бұрын
I had mine for almost two years so definitely understand her
@kaelynsmith1242
@kaelynsmith1242 2 жыл бұрын
@@mitoito7291 yes I had that issue but I was bleeding for two years. My doctors couldn’t find out why, and it was super heavy so I ended up being severely anemic
@dylanengo7152
@dylanengo7152 3 жыл бұрын
Rape is something I just can’t take. Like I’ve heard women I’ve talked with talk about their experiences with it and it’s just honestly seems worse than murder for some reason in my head. To think that happens in the world makes me want to do anything I possibly can to prevent it in the future. I think I’d sell my soul to stop it Edit: I was really venting and didn’t think this comment would blow up. Of course I know that murder is horrible and I really understand it’s something that is unbelievably prevalent that needs changed also. It also happens to be something that I feel equally in regard to anyone. I didn’t mean that rape is worse but to act like rape and prevention pales in importance nowadays is wrong and some people just don’t know. The world just plain needs changed for the better. Also know I can’t cover my entire thought process and what I said in passion of the moment completely but I definitely welcome the discussion. It’s something that like murder, I think could be changed and prevented if there was more of a realistic proactive effort to promote that change. And not just for this context. Let’s just agree that rape and murder are incredibly horrible. In my opinion, it doesn’t fully need to be compared because they’re both things that affect people in unchangeable horrible ways
@justmadds196
@justmadds196 3 жыл бұрын
You sound like an amazing person and I’m so glad that you think this way! This really shows that there are lots of good men in this world.
@jojoandsuri1
@jojoandsuri1 3 жыл бұрын
It is. Before I started watching svu I didn't know there was something worse than murder. The show scarred me and kinda made me paranoid. I wish I knew the future so I can rid myself of this paranoia
@nursegrenade
@nursegrenade 3 жыл бұрын
This comment made me cry a little cause lately all I've seen is guys who make fun of rape and joke about it, it's just really nice to actually see a guy who cares
@michelle2791
@michelle2791 3 жыл бұрын
This comment is so incredibly sweet and I’m really glad you have such a strong belief about it. I remember seeing this one talk where this guy said that rape is the one violent crime you can never ever justify. Like you can justify murder in self defense or if they’re going to harm someone else, but rape in any context is a crime and is never justifiable.
@grizz7714
@grizz7714 3 жыл бұрын
God dude You people are cringe, HAHAHAHAHA.
@applebee39
@applebee39 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this series.
@nana-kd3bd
@nana-kd3bd Жыл бұрын
I studied English through an episode this week as well. This episode is also amazing.
@spooky_lights
@spooky_lights 3 жыл бұрын
Assault is another thing that can be easily missed and disregarded as one’s fault. Not only for women, but for men too. In fact, a better name for sex is intimacy. You should never feel like it’s your “duty” to please him/her, both should always have their voice heard. It can be an amazing tool to bond with your significant other. It’s a precious thing that shouldn’t be thrown around, especially without your consent.
@minabright9894
@minabright9894 3 жыл бұрын
Very wise words .
@amandaalva3205
@amandaalva3205 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@notky848
@notky848 3 жыл бұрын
What I plan on telling my children, is always assume the answer is no before their partner say yes. Meaning that their partner shouldn’t have to say no. If their partner wants to be intimate, they clearly should say yes. And this goes for both men and women. That way there should be no accidents.
@jackfalcon4991
@jackfalcon4991 3 жыл бұрын
To have a voice heard tho both ppl have to speak up
@anti.bctards7376
@anti.bctards7376 3 жыл бұрын
no one cares
@manu-iman
@manu-iman 3 жыл бұрын
sad truth but pornos sets high standards in women, it tells us that body should be like this and vaginas should look like this and if you don't possess this characteristics you'll feel that you're not normal which is wrong.
@racecartv8677
@racecartv8677 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget about men aswell. Men have strict standards too when it comes to height and penis size. I think it’s worst for men because there’s literally no fix to any of those
@hankadams203
@hankadams203 3 жыл бұрын
@@racecartv8677 lets agree that both are bad news
@yume5441
@yume5441 3 жыл бұрын
@Tree House i don't think men watch it more lol, women are just less spoken about it
@kingkai2800
@kingkai2800 3 жыл бұрын
@@yume5441 nope men do look up the stats
@yume5441
@yume5441 3 жыл бұрын
@@kingkai2800 stats can't be accurate if not everyone is reporting lol
@3uPics
@3uPics 3 жыл бұрын
This was very educational, I learned a lot. Here I thought I knew enough.
@ayshazaheen3402
@ayshazaheen3402 3 жыл бұрын
This is so important. So, so important. Thank you so much!
@milkbuns.vanilla
@milkbuns.vanilla 3 жыл бұрын
As a straight virgin woman, I really need this. Thank you Jubilee, people don't really talk about sex experience around me, even the people who I close too
@GandivaGamingFM
@GandivaGamingFM 3 жыл бұрын
264 likes and no replies.....noice
@RedMisfit
@RedMisfit 3 жыл бұрын
Are you sure straight though and don’t like women even an ounce??
@milkbuns.vanilla
@milkbuns.vanilla 3 жыл бұрын
@Reddy Reddy as I straight women, I do
@milkbuns.vanilla
@milkbuns.vanilla 3 жыл бұрын
@@RedMisfit I mean I can appreciate a beautiful or talented or smart women when I see one but never more than that. I live in a place where I don't have any influence to be a part of lgbtq and I don't even have any desire towards women no matter how bad men are so yeah 😂
@RedMisfit
@RedMisfit 3 жыл бұрын
@@milkbuns.vanilla cool. Very awesome! Ha 👍🏾
@gracewatters8950
@gracewatters8950 3 жыл бұрын
No means no. You are allowed to say “no” even after consenting. If you want it to stop and it doesn’t, then you are no longer consenting.
@jalo7289
@jalo7289 3 жыл бұрын
i never knew that
@C-SD
@C-SD 3 жыл бұрын
@@jalo7289 which is part of the problem. People are not taught about consent, its an awkward and complicated thing. I think it needs to be explained more. People sometimes learn that they were coercive, but wouldn't have been if they'd understood. We also need to be taught how to set boundaries. And to pay attention to what you like and don't like so you can tell your partner.
@jalo7289
@jalo7289 3 жыл бұрын
@@C-SD we really need this in schools. would of saved me so much of my energy and slot of things could of gone down differently.
@chickofmusic001
@chickofmusic001 3 жыл бұрын
@@jalo7289 you have the right to change your mind, whenever you don’t feel comfortable about it (anymore.)
@onepunch2310
@onepunch2310 3 жыл бұрын
But why say yes and then you’re nearly finished and decide to say no. I get saying yes before and then no before the act even starts but saying no in the middle of it makes no logical sense. Like regretting having sex the next morning doesn’t make it assault. If you know that you don’t want to have sex say NO before you even start. It’s like a rollercoaster once you get on you can’t just get back off half way through a loop. And no I’m not a man before you guys accuse me of being one.
@zshllebbcgyj5215
@zshllebbcgyj5215 7 ай бұрын
I needed to watch this actually since i Was confused about so many things
@teresalmeida
@teresalmeida 3 жыл бұрын
this is SO IMPORTANT!!! loved this
@blackrse1935
@blackrse1935 3 жыл бұрын
“i do it probably everyday” every guy to exist: *same*
@zenofblox5286
@zenofblox5286 3 жыл бұрын
True but sometimes I wait like 3 days so I can get a really nice feeling.
@dominikweber4305
@dominikweber4305 3 жыл бұрын
@@zenofblox5286 or a month like nnn
@jdwmyt
@jdwmyt 3 жыл бұрын
Q: Where did the computer go to dance? A: To a disc-o.
@sades2915
@sades2915 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if this is just me but I find this disrespectful to guys-
@_us.m.an_
@_us.m.an_ 3 жыл бұрын
Twice a weak
@TheKorcik
@TheKorcik 3 жыл бұрын
She had her period for a whole year?!! oh my...bless her soul.
@theresat1776
@theresat1776 3 жыл бұрын
@UCCDhXLHLwtauu5PxnS-3peQ i feel like i can assume you don't know what it's like
@apocalypse_____
@apocalypse_____ 3 жыл бұрын
Don't be dramatic
@rontheron4807
@rontheron4807 3 жыл бұрын
@@apocalypse_____ The pain level varies from one person to another, it's normal that we worry when we're not certain how bad it could've gotten, most of us have had some pretty awful experiences.. Personally before I started taking the pill I had to miss days of school everytime, there was fainting, vomiting, cramps so bad I couldn't move, it was horrible, so of course hearing about someone who's had them for a year would horrify me, and I assume it's the same for the person who commented this. Don't be mean
@yarahowell5646
@yarahowell5646 3 жыл бұрын
@@apocalypse_____ don't be a dumbass. Everyone has different levels of period pains but I'm sure even you can atleast imagine how horrible it would be if you bleeded every single day for an entire year
@whatupyall3476
@whatupyall3476 3 жыл бұрын
I have a friend who had a period for 42 days and I’m on mine right now omg the pain
@cheriein5061
@cheriein5061 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this! ❤
@user-sj5dh7jl4u
@user-sj5dh7jl4u Жыл бұрын
It was a very necessary video. It's so useful.
@gapless1001
@gapless1001 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even put a tampon on in, imma just stick to pads lmfaoooo Edit: Jesus lord I’m famous by me not knowing how to put a tampon in lmao 🤣 great way for people to know me 😂😂😂 Ps. Im just joking ik im not famous don’t take it seriously hahaha 😆 💅🏽
@Purplemoonpleasures
@Purplemoonpleasures 3 жыл бұрын
I'm to scared I tried 💀
@chrissyosozzy6465
@chrissyosozzy6465 3 жыл бұрын
Same!! I felt like im the only one that couldnt do it, i felt so weird.
@user-yk7kd4cb2z
@user-yk7kd4cb2z 3 жыл бұрын
me too
@elodie199
@elodie199 3 жыл бұрын
Same!! I keep wondering if something is wrong with my body.😅😅 I've tried to put on a tampon at least 7 times and it never works!
@chrissyosozzy6465
@chrissyosozzy6465 3 жыл бұрын
@@elodie199 i swear like its working against you
@thememeestfilmbuff
@thememeestfilmbuff 3 жыл бұрын
I would guess that it’s pretty *straightforward.* Edit: _It’s not as straightforward as I assumed._
@lucifersatan4611
@lucifersatan4611 3 жыл бұрын
That pun.
@user-ue6lv9in8s
@user-ue6lv9in8s 3 жыл бұрын
Don't hit yourself on the way out 👋
@thememeestfilmbuff
@thememeestfilmbuff 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-ue6lv9in8s you hate it?
@jdwmyt
@jdwmyt 3 жыл бұрын
Q: Where did the computer go to dance? A: To a disc-o.
@kkoshii2457
@kkoshii2457 3 жыл бұрын
@blv lmao thanks 😂😂😂
@tejaspathak6196
@tejaspathak6196 3 жыл бұрын
This video was soo good like idk a comment doesnt mean much but i would say that most videos usuallybjust trigger our insecurities nowadays especially about topics like these but it was so educational and had so much to learn from it.
@jaycole2294
@jaycole2294 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jubilee and the women that participated in this video🖤 We need more of these types of videos🔥
@tracie1892
@tracie1892 3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy open conversations like this, for someone with no experience it gives me some idea. Thanks Jubilee!
@slippymass
@slippymass 3 жыл бұрын
Wait till Marriage
@annie.hi.
@annie.hi. 3 жыл бұрын
@Gavin Reed only certain opinions? I’m curious to know what option they are leaving out? There are so many opinions in the world. They can’t have everyone on here.
@mamoru1836
@mamoru1836 3 жыл бұрын
wait your pfp just made me feel so nostalgic :((
@muscle2500
@muscle2500 3 жыл бұрын
@@slippymass that’s a personal and religious belief. Don’t push that on others
@levihunter7179
@levihunter7179 3 жыл бұрын
No experience here either, but I felt like this video helped me too.
@educostanzo
@educostanzo 3 жыл бұрын
As a straight man, it's so important to listen to women about these subjects! And congrats to the team who filmed it, everything from the lighting to the soundtrack, just perfect
@amangoyal923
@amangoyal923 3 жыл бұрын
Everything but the acting, lol
@sharkpawsu
@sharkpawsu 3 жыл бұрын
@@amangoyal923 wdym
@checkmattee222
@checkmattee222 3 жыл бұрын
Omg a good straight man who's willing to listen. Wow.
@KittySnicker
@KittySnicker 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being you :)
@nehankaranch2149
@nehankaranch2149 2 жыл бұрын
@@checkmattee222 sexist much
@antoniodennis8811
@antoniodennis8811 3 жыл бұрын
This was a much needed conversation
@soywil
@soywil 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to anyone that has suffered sexual abuse, please know that your pain is valid and can be work on, don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it.
@fatpikachu1953
@fatpikachu1953 3 жыл бұрын
The girl with the shaved head is so beautiful.. I’m shaving my head in a couple days and I’m scared
@apple3948t
@apple3948t 3 жыл бұрын
Omg you’re gonna look amazing!! Don’t stress, everyone who shaves their head looks so ethereal and bougie, and if you choose to grow your hair back it’ll be so healthy💜💜
@pxrxy
@pxrxy 3 жыл бұрын
So did you shave your head?
@paramitaraha8914
@paramitaraha8914 3 жыл бұрын
@@apple3948t Exactly, my sister had her head shaved every year till 6TH GRADE and now she has amazing hair.
@ivyvanderwall
@ivyvanderwall 3 жыл бұрын
Please don’t
@ana-bn3qx
@ana-bn3qx 3 жыл бұрын
@@ivyvanderwall why not?
@pedroca2913
@pedroca2913 3 жыл бұрын
The woman with the large earrings had such a confident aura
@twostrudelsplease2511
@twostrudelsplease2511 3 жыл бұрын
Baldness is her defining feature, dont be awkward about it sis
@laylamcclendon9910
@laylamcclendon9910 3 жыл бұрын
She was super cute!
@yungdeeds9388
@yungdeeds9388 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks jubilee , tyvm. This video is so educational and opened. Thanks to women in this vid for being upfront and honest about things.
@polinakhavtan4859
@polinakhavtan4859 Жыл бұрын
You’re doing a great job!
@thine.
@thine. 3 жыл бұрын
as a 13 year old girl this is very helpful and i think schools should talk more about it, for girls AND boys
@nareshthakur3858
@nareshthakur3858 3 жыл бұрын
Well they know it already but in a teasing way
@perple9534
@perple9534 3 жыл бұрын
Yea, I agree, but boys would be super immature for this,
@puthypicasso640
@puthypicasso640 3 жыл бұрын
@@perple9534 and that's why they need to learn. You can't except someone to act mature about a subject when they don't even have enough knowledge about it.
@iwonthesitateebltch3319
@iwonthesitateebltch3319 3 жыл бұрын
Same in 13
@pebblegrindelwald6593
@pebblegrindelwald6593 3 жыл бұрын
Totally
@roguemystique7
@roguemystique7 3 жыл бұрын
Man the assault question hit home. I could see/feel the emotion on their faces. Also the girl who mentioned coercion I totally feel for. I had something happen to me when I was 14. I was dating a guy and I was hanging out with him, my friend Emily, and her bf who were in another room. We had all drank a little which I didn't want to do but my mom was an alcoholic so I was used to seeing it around which made me more willing to try it. I got way too drunk barely even drinking anything and I was halfway passed out. He basically took my pants off and had sex with me. I told Emily about it and was scared to tell anyone else. I didn't want to be called a whore or I didn't want anyone to know I drank. I thought people would say it was my fault for drinking so young and that I somehow asked for it. I don't drink now as an adult but I wish I would've had someone I could've told that was an adult. I'm thankful I didn't get pregnant by him though and I really feel for any women who do get pregnant by someone who assaults you. I'm so sorry to any of you that went/are going through that. Nowadays (15 years later) that guy who did that to me is hooked on heroin, in and out of jail, has a kid who he isn't around, and who got in trouble for stealing things from his "friends". It's interesting to look back on who he was at 14 and where he is now. By the way anyone that reads this that needs to talk, I'd be more than willing/happy too listen or help in anyway that I can!
@aditishetty9828
@aditishetty9828 3 жыл бұрын
That is so brave of you to share that, all power to you ❤️
@kaylapootz7698
@kaylapootz7698 3 жыл бұрын
thats disgusting. your so strong and powerful!! I hope he really gets all the karma. its disgusting how society makes us not want to speak up about these things. I hope your doing good now! im a 14 year old myself and I couldn't even imagine, im so sorry.
@amberslahlize7961
@amberslahlize7961 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds more like you were curious about drinking, rather than not really wanting to drink. What he did was still inexcusable, and any man you date should respect you enough to wait until marriage.
@sk11less15
@sk11less15 3 жыл бұрын
Wow drinking at 14 what can other expects more to happen with you
@roguemystique7
@roguemystique7 3 жыл бұрын
@@amberslahlize7961 I didn't want to drink but I def let peer pressure from everyone else get to me. I wasn't strong like I am now.
@TOP10Sport563
@TOP10Sport563 6 ай бұрын
great voyage collab!!
@justsomeone4498
@justsomeone4498 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly it's refreshing to see people giving their honest opinions on these matters based on their real experiences. Really helps me get a more clear idea of it
@jewelspivey8507
@jewelspivey8507 3 жыл бұрын
Rape and assault: a lack of consent. If there isn’t consent or if they are trying to convince or coerce you into sex then that is assault/rape.
@ashiesty7140
@ashiesty7140 3 жыл бұрын
really wouldn't say lack of consent cause that means ur still giving consent so it shouldn't be involved with rape or assault
@jewelspivey8507
@jewelspivey8507 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashiesty7140 lack of consent as in there’s no consent. The occurrence lacks consent therefore it is rape/assault. You can also “give consent” and it still be rape or assault. If they convincing or threatening or manipulating you to say yes then even though you might have technically said okay it’s still rape/assault. If you give consent and take it back or if you give consent for one thing but they do something else that your not okay with and they don’t stop, then that is again rape/assault. Consent has to be freely and honestly given in order for it to be valid.
@sharkpawsu
@sharkpawsu 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashiesty7140 lack of consent is no consent.
@BeansGarden-ff9ox
@BeansGarden-ff9ox 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashiesty7140 I don't think you know what "lack of" means
@MrKrushgutz
@MrKrushgutz 3 жыл бұрын
@@sharkpawsu So men get raped by women all the time because they never ask us for consent
@choi.sunhee6389
@choi.sunhee6389 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 21 and a virgin and honestly the thought of actually have sex scares me.
@emmettcarter9209
@emmettcarter9209 3 жыл бұрын
Same and I’m a guy idk why but it just does
@khanyisilebotshelo8362
@khanyisilebotshelo8362 3 жыл бұрын
If it is with the right person, it is one of the most beautiful experiences
@vic827
@vic827 3 жыл бұрын
Bro same
@HarekaTysiri
@HarekaTysiri 3 жыл бұрын
Many of my friends are like you, then i become the mom friend who explore it first then share my experiences in hope that they'd be less scared as time goes by.
@the61stbookworm78
@the61stbookworm78 3 жыл бұрын
Those of you who feel this way, have you considered you might be somewhere on the asexual spectrum? Totally fine if not and I'm not expecting an answer, I just thought this might be something worth pointing out in case people haven't thought about it. Some people just don't ever want to have sex and that is v much OK.
@user-xr6ud9hc8x
@user-xr6ud9hc8x Жыл бұрын
Such an amazing and informative video. we should be able to be opened up and talk about this more often!
@user-zy6gj5sn4q
@user-zy6gj5sn4q Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate these videos. Obviously it's a difficult topic for some people, but it can help so many people feel comfortable ❤ I love this video.
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