Feel like the 4th is perhaps a bit too neon

The goal of your outfit at a wedding is to look as good as you can WITHOUT DRAWING ATENTION AWAY FROM THE BRIDE!

@@tikimillie it’s neon?? option 4 looks like a pastel purple to me

@@Bumblebee_honeycone what i meant was that it was too strong a color. I wouldn’t call it pastel though, would have to be lighter than that.

True. It shocks me to see so many of these young women who were never taught proper dress etiquette for weddings.

No, because that person would be wearing a full on wedding dress

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Haha so true

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4

2

If you wore that at Indian weddings, people will think you've nothing good to wear/have no fashion sense/are poor

Yes, I wore dresses like that (floral/long/black & white pattern) to at least 5 U.S. Weddings & it was a HIT!!- (Also, I always avoid wearing something too fancy, flirty, lacy, shiny, or anything all-White!!)- Have fun!~💗

That was literally me, my jaw dropped😂

And 1 or 3 is her best pick 🤣

Oh my god! Those are the exact words I used 🤣🤣🤣

The 4

that’s exactly what i said!

I'm Italian and have been to a crazy amount of weddings too! I also thought option 2 and 5 were the best.

she definitely needs to see this comment...

I completely agree!

@@jadynnewsome390 I think she was joking about wearing the big poofy and sequence dress 💀

I fully agree!

thats literally the opposite of what you should do. maybe its white people wedding rule but for desi brown black weddings you need to outdo yourself

@@deli5194 But you can't go fancier than the marring couple can you?

@@Lea-im3wr honestly in desi weddings I've mistaken so many people for the bride at times...overdressing just isn't a thing at some wedding 😅

@@LIROSTRAWBLES I’ve been to a couple of weddings and there are some unwritten rules like the bride wearing a silk saree and the regular people wearing regular cotton but that’s just my opinion

@@mukulhariharan4715 yup some desi weddings do have some sort of arrangements but some don't have a dress code at alll

Yeah I agree

The last one is most appropriate it's bright and classy. Other dress is more party dresses. The second is gorgeous day party or going out on the town.

I say 2

Laughs in Indian 😂😂

I say 4 with a few sewing skills xD

@@kkqq8037 no…you underdress compared to the bride ALWAYS.

@@kkqq8037 its just common sense to not wear something flashy or white out of respect for the bride. also common sense not to wear flip flops or jeans. set rules is where the bride and groom request all guests to be in one specific color.

This is such outdated thinking.

@@t.o903 so being respectful is outdated thinking? damn what kind of life have i been living

@@argentine9731 Thinking only one woman can shine at a time is outdated thinking.

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i agree! i screamed with the first one 🤣 could you imagine?

same,I too think the same second and the last one.

The first one had me 💀

Agreed (as someone who's only been to 2 weddings), tho there's 5 so what would u rate #4?

Yeah in some cultures it seen as rude to dress up fancier or more loud than the bride, so yeah, probably option 2. Option one and three are still pretty but they’re just… A little loud 😅

But it’s black, on weddings you’re not supposed to wear black unless you’re in a suit

But it’s black you are not supposed wear black at the wedding

@@Bl00782 is that actually a thing? I though the no white except for the bride was the only rule(ofc if the bride gives permission)

Yeah, and it's so pretty on her

Yeah that'swhat I think

No 3

Ya

You can’t look sexier than the bride might, gotta ditch the best for the 2nd best, because you’d want someone else to do the same on your day too, lol.

Its black though you're not suppose to wear black or white

-and church*

@@ayaya7002 and funeral*

@@ffreya. *and work

and outside

@@ifrahismael781 😂

Yea

Definitely, unless if given permission from BOTH Bride and Groom, then don't wear anything that stands out.

@⋉Starbebby⋊ Lol but to me wedding is a fashion show. U might even find your future husband lool🖐💀

Meanwhile arabs showing up to weddings like it's a fashion show ✨

@@AsmaHt ikr ...americans are crazy😂😂

why

@@sethuparvathy wym why? its bright pink and furry

@@poohbear6021 to short you would be the turn off attention by how short it is

@@icey5684 ik. i was agreeing with the person who said no

Same

seriously😂😂

Yeah she looks stunning in them but you don’t want to bring more attention to yourself than the bride

yeah, she should keep them for sure but NOT wear them to a wedding unless she gets the OK from the bride. Bride would have to be fun and spunky and have a funky colorful themed wedding.

1 because it looks like she's wearing a towel robe, and 3 because it'd be hella uncomfortable to sit in that dress...

😂😂😂😂

You seem to be an expert, have you been to many weddings ?

I feel like 4 is okayish

@@Eden-yl1sk Yeah

The 2nd and fourth ones

even as a bride the second one is a great choice

I feel like 4 Is great for a spring wedding

Agree

Agreed

Agreed wooyoung 😉

Diddo

BYE THATS SO TRUE

I guess if you don't think the bride should be the center of attention and not you, then maybe you wouldn't know lol 😅

@@thickthickly considering it was probably the bride and groom who invited you, that kinda mindset is still confusing 😭

@@fluffypineapple790 I mean that's like getting invited to a birthday and grabbing a slice of cake first. Everyone knows that's a no no haha.

@@thickthickly even still, people don’t dress like that outside in general let alone an event 😂

@@fluffypineapple790 you’re getting invited to celebrate THEIR day because they want you there, not because they want you to be the center of attention

I’m sorry but it’s true 💀

Yeah lol

Righttt LOLLL

You are being very mean!!!!!😡😡😡

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You're definitely not arab 😂 In middle east arab weddings We tend to deal with a wedding as if it's the Oscars of the met gala or something 😂 Every girl picks the most standing out shimmery shinny glittery huge gown and make ultimate make up so she's not even recognizable anymore and the hair they make huge hair styles and even though the bride stands out more than everybody else in her huge white gown no one steals her moment or something.. but yeah I know we tend to really over over our looks in wedding unlike western people Even Asians like Japanese tend to have simple dresses and nice quiet romantic music It's just us in the middle who are really really load in how we look and in our music and dancing are extremely load too

​@@janaeva2307 This is true in Asia too 😅😅 Girls NEVER wear the same dress they wore for one wedding, again to another 😂😂

@@diehard8615 yeah exactly 😂

That’s what I was thinking

Which wedding have u been to?

Not if it's a church wedding.

@@crybebebunny if it’s a stripper wedding, but most strippers don’t get married I’m sure lol

yes wth

I would. She looks gr8 in it.

lmao 💀

Real

And maybe also funerals lol. But yeah

European weddings are like that. For Indian weddings, even if everyone wears their fanciest dress (and they do. It can't be too plain for weddings), it is literally impossible to upstage the bride.

And that’s why western wedding are so boring

@@charliebone8335 cause white women are insecure about themselves

Not in my wedding, y’all can wear whatever you guys feel like it, shine brighter then me Idgaf

@@Clvsterfuck appropriate username

I never really understood that about white weddings. In our culture, there’s no such thing as “outshining the bride” lol sounds the most childish shit ever. The bride and groom themselves would feel very offended if people didn’t try their hardest to stand out and look the best on their wedding day.

@@Khawlii7 rightttttt same here in Sri Lanka 🇱🇰

@@Khawlii7 Oh what's your culture?

Its the closest thing to a funeral before a funeral

What are you guys wearing you funerals?-

last one tbh 🫥

don't they usually tell you what to wear anyway? i always thought they gave you a dress code, a color and theme and all that

@@jasperjazzie i don't think so mabye not that much.

Yess!! I agree!

Agreed it’s also just the nicest one

Agreed!!

​@@Vanilla_Girly_ You shouldn't wear white to a wedding not black.

@@Vanilla_Girly_ you can wear black to a wedding. You’re not supposed to wear white to a wedding

It’s not supposed to scream look at me it’s supposed to be something that highlights the bride in my opinion not that look at me as a bad thing not trying to judge just saying

And the last one

Not the last one. That one is elegant and beautiful.

@@maryalicemeaneymeaney4551 its very 70s too😍

I think the second one is, I mean it is very dark, you don’t usually wear black at weddings...

I hope so..

for real

Y'all chill she's just tryna have her own style 😂

Hello didn’t expect you to be here

@@pointingouttheobvious8130 at a wedding?

Am I the only one who thinks the whole “I don’t want my guests to steal the spotlight” thing is literally so narcissistic?? Like wouldn’t you want your friends and family to look great at your wedding too as they’re there to support you?? Why would you want them to deliberately dress not as nice as they potentially could? Getting mad at guests wearing nice fancy clothes to weddings seems like such a bridezilla thing to me. Like as long as it’s not a long white dress so they don’t get mistaken for the bride, I don’t see any problem. Random rant but yeah, wedding culture in the west is so wierd to me.

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy well i don't think it's about being narcissistic.. even if the bride herself doesn't get mad at someone, i think it is basic manners to not to try outshine the bride herself.. it is their wedding,the most special day for them,they should be the main focus.. so going to a wedding wearing something "too much" just seems very ill mannered to me. And i don't think it's a western only thing either. I'm Asian myself, and I would never wear something that would outshine the bride.. that feels super weird and rude to me

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy It’s definitely not just a western thing, it’s basic respect in my culture to wear something that doesn’t resemble a bride’s dress or something flashy that will outshine the bride. Just common sense and respect, like how you wouldn’t wear a wedding dress to a wedding

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy it’s more narcissistic to think that it’s ok to take the spotlight away from someone else’s day, seeing as they’ve invited you from a free party and free food

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy dude it is their special day…it is nice to be selfless once in a while you know? It is just being considerate of other’s feelings

idk if that was meant negatively but ok

@@RiTzCrAcKeR584 probably is but I think she did good

LOL

Underrated comment lol

@@KristianaCembre oh yeah 😂 sorry forgot to right that down

It totally depends on the bride and tyoe of wedding.

It totally depends on the bride and the theme wedding. I wouldn't mind at all if she showed up wearing the 1 or 3, in fact those wear my favorite.

​@@karly.asshhh well that's great for you but don't be mad if someone in your guest party comes up to someone next to you and tells them "you look great I love that dress where did you get it??" and then walk off

Why ?

@@check2653 is beautifull but does not take to much attention.

Although it’s a bit old school, you’re technically not supposed to wear black to a wedding either. So that leaves the last two! I would vote for the last one because it’s less showy but still cute. I would wear that with some little heels and some delicate jewelry and you’re good to go!!

yes! dont wear something that brings more attention to you than the bride so number 2

Haha. It's funny to hear that so many brides are insecure of themselves that they'd be intimidated by the guests. In india we appreciate all the overdressed guests 🥰

@@payalswamimap it's not insecurity but just being courteous, it's her big day afterall.

@@payalswamimap that's really cool 😁

I was going to say the same thing

Yeah 2 is most appropriate and elegant

I think same

Yes, option two. Appropriate and beautiful. I agree that the bride should shine on her day. Option one was a hard no for most weddings,I think🥳

Bro why do u sound so personally offended 💀

BRO THE 2ND ONE LOOKS LIKE A FUNERAL DRESS

Definitely the 2nd or last one

@@rosegoldensun3818 I agree

@@emzxop1eppy772 and also an appropriate dress for a wedding.

Yeah, the rest were for themed parties

Fr

Same

Same

Fr

Sameee like miss girl abt to steal the show

she wouldn't upstage her lol everyone would get distracted by how tacky she looks 🤣

Not all brides care about that and would hate that

Option two I agree!

No option 2 is so ugly it makes her look like my great grandmother

Nooooo i love 3 it’s so cuteeeeeee

@@reiinU yes, exactly. The other dresses were flamboyant and would take attention away from the bride. That to me seems like a more appropriate dress to wear

@@reiinU I’ve been to a ton of weddings where people wear black people don’t think of funeral attire or get offended by that unless they’re crazy

@@reiinU it’s flowery. Not the funeral type of black dress. I think it’d be fine for a wedding, coming from someone getting married soon

people to telling you you're wrong is a war? damn some ppl 😭😭

@@reiinU lmao it’s not like that, just sharing my opinion too 😂

I think it depends on if you know the person or not, or if it's a celebrity/someone with a lot of money

no. Tip like you comment is like, not to wear white clothes like a bride

Lol sure if youre going to a white wedding. Its the brides job to come looking good. If the guest outshines them its not the guests fault. 😂💀

Lmao honestly I feel like desi weddings are the total opposite. My mom is always like, “oh my god a wedding, time to look my best!” And I’m pretty sure the other guests are like that too 💀

At indian weddings, everyone in the fam be sparkling top to bottom. The bride and groom still get plently attention. Although yes, one should always dress according to the wedding's general dress code

Yeah 2!!!

Right!

Also 4! It was simple and not flashy, but still pretty. I have one similar in a different color and it’s so nice!

I think option 5 is saying 'i had to wear something horrible to not look prettier than the bride.'

​@@taylorgayhart9497 I would agree, but with the front cutouts, it's just a bit too revealing. Of course, that kind of depends on the crowd, but you don't want to be flaunting too much when it's someone else's special day.

Do weddings have themes ?

@@check2653 Some do. Not most. But I have heard of weddings with a disco or hippo themes. Those would be the only times I could see the 1 and 3 dresses not being ridiculous choices.

What do you mean by safe?

@@Goth__Siren Least likely to someone having a problem with.

@@Goth__SirenWell, it’s definitely the most understated. You don’t show up to a wedding and out dress the people getting married.

3 was the worst lol😂😂

Ikr...and before we know it all the spotlight of the bride is snatched 🤣🤣 Moreover she's a model already super attractive 😂😂

@@growinghigher420 uhm I would choose 3.......ive only been to 1 wedding anyway

@@YinYu_.7 uh yeah exactly that makes sense, you obvi don't know wedding appropriate dresses since you've been to '1 wedding' throughout your entire life.

@@YinYu_.7 I've never been to a wedding, but the only appropriate wedding dress was #2 and *maybe* #4, emphasis on maybe, because you never want to outshine the bride at the wedding, it's disrespectful and can draw the attention to yourself, unless there's a theme including white then it can also be seen as disrespectful to wear white at a wedding

I agree. Unless the married couple tells you otherwise always go for the more subtle option. Now if they tell you go ham, wear whatever you’d like, take that as you wish.

The bride would Be pissed with 1 or 3

The 5th one is ok too.

@@iwanttosleep6414 5th looks too serious. It would probably work if the y were in a english garden wedding

@@myyou7335 It’s at least not offensive for a wedding like the 1st and 3rd. I doubt she would step on anyone’s toes wearing it even if it looks a little out of place.

Depends on the wedding

@@Straw_berry_671 No, it does not depend on the wedding. It is #1 rule for all weddings - DO NOT try to outshine the bride. Don't do that - it is very rude. It is not your day to shine. It is the wedding couple's day to shine. So, dial it back about 10, and don't do that - Be respectful to the wedding couple. If they wear a burlap sack - you better be showing up in a Hefty bag dress.

@@valkyre420 I don't think you get but not every wedding has this rule especially if it's the brides choice and all cultures are different and we shouldn't disrespect it.

@@Straw_berry_671 You don't know what you're talking about. Don't be lead astray by this person, she's looking to create bridezilla content.

@@valkyre420 I have no idea what your talking about all I'm trying to say is that not every wedding has this "rule" and can make up other rules to follow maybe you have to wear all black or wear a really pretty dress it's all up the bride. Also in different cultures around the world you can even look/dress up prettier to the bride but it's all up to the brides choice once again

But it's black that's bad luck

I think It would be the best also

​@@arkadiakowalczyk4768 My sister wore black on her wedding. Buncha hokus pokus, just like that black cat shit.

You can’t wear black to a wedding that’s just mean

​@@katie_842 idk its not fully black, if the bride has no problem with it than I don't think it's a problem

@Hi, I'm Mirage I think that is a very healthy mindset to have, I was just telling her that it is considered polite to dress humble at a wedding.

@Hi, I'm Mirage Exactly, but I don't know who the bride is so I just told her the basic wedding "rule." Thanks for your take on that though!

Since when do weddings have themes ?

@@check2653 if the bride and groom want one they do, it isn’t that common

@@jamiemorgan175 Maybe I haven't been invited to the right weddings then

Yes, that's true.

ok? you didn’t answer the question though

We don't know what the bride is wearing, she probably is wearing something bigger

Nice but in India it's quite the opposite 😂

It's not hard to wear something that both looks good and won't outshine the bride, also i was just stating the truth. It's the bride and groom's day after all. Ngl, you've got me interested in indian weddings-

Have you been to many weddings ?

No

Yesss totally agree 👍

Black is bad luck for certain cultures to wear to a wedding

Idk if 4 really is, though…. It’s a little bit revealing.

@@aSPOONFULofSAMMYohh no lol not the lilac one.. that one cute but not for a wedding in my opinion either... plus an adjustment on the back would have been needed.. it looked one size to big.. I had to watch the video a few times cause number weren't mentioned on all lol.. so the 2nd that's mostly black I thought was stunning and the spring dress with the full puff sleeves that went up to the neck was realllly cute.. I couldn't pull it off and the material I thought was perfect for the colors and cut.

Ikr

Ikr

ur the only person i’ve seen who said this respectfully

Omg thank you I have no idea why the top comment is saying the opposite, I think the first one and the third one are WAYY more eye-catching (especially the first one), the second one looked the least eye-catching but still really pretty and perfectly suitable for a wedding

But it's black, a bit of a no go for a wedding

That’s very true.Their lovely options but not for a wedding,tbh not loving the “tea party” dress either for a wedding but that’s at least more appropriate.Two and four are my favorite for a wedding,unless there’s some interesting wedding theme….?

SAME BHAHA

@@summer5198 I actually think it depends on the couple some people might want their quest to look extra

@@Jessica.Shawnte That’s true for sure.

1&3 are not appropriate for anywhereee they look so bad ugh