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Thank you Dr. Jacob for the teachings. I believe wives don't have a problem supporting their husbands the challenge is where the man just becomes comfortable and lazy enjoying being taken care of. A man should show he is trying he is making effort.

Not all men deserve this.only few who reciprocate this.a cheating man will always cheat even if he repents.

Respect for a husband must be earned and not demanded. If man complains that his wife does not respect him it means he has not done much to earn her respect. Actions speak louder than words.

I am greatly inspired by your messages. Not only do they edify, but are also well articulated which makes it easy to understand. I find myself taking notes every time I listen to your messages, yet this was not my habit before. I pray that God may continually bless you and grant you the wisdom to continue impacting the lives of men.

What Men want - 8 S’s for Married Women 1. Speak-say it 2.Support- mutual responsibility 3.Safety- when he fails 4.Space-time accountability 5.Sex-when he wants 6.Security-be faithful 7.Service-invest in your marriage 8. Savior-pray together

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No matter how noble you are. A man will always want a new thing.

Thank you Dr. Jacob I'm not married as yet, engaged though but this sermon was an important one...i want to learn to be consistent in praying and even learn how to pray 🙏

I made mistakes in life not intentionally but both FAILED. I am so scared to make another mistake again. Help me Lord let me meet the one you have made for me and If my messing up I lost her it's better than another failed marriage. Have it thy way Lord .have it. Your way. THY WILL BE DONE.

I started listening to your teachings yesterday and it has inspired me alot, I'll never be the same.

Great Lessons. How I wish this could be taught to everyone preparing to get married. Asante sana. This will save very many marriages. God bless you.

Well said Dr...These are priceless things that constitute positive humanism.A man is the weaker gender in a marriage in terms of love compared to a woman. What destroys most relationships is simply EXPECTATIONS....It comes a times , they take a downward curve.For instance, a wife -husband attention sharply falls immediately when a couple becomes parents.Whereas, the wife expects the husband to understand the mother-child bond to be a priority, the husband feels neglected, giving birth to new associations that eventually harm marriages....Maintaining expectations form and kind notwithstanding, is huge task in marriages. Without Prejudice.

Dr. Jacob, Thank you for the sermon on marriage. Truly a blessing . Greetings from Arizona.

Its so unfortunate that after women do all these things, they don't get love in reciprocate. Even with such noble women, men stray and go for worse women than their wives.

If the wife's needs are met by her husband then respect comes naturally.

I am just tired of speakers who just focus on what men want, women are just tired of the burden that marriages are becoming. Please focus on what makes a woman fulfilled and happy in a marriage. Please use your platform to let men know they have a responsibility physically, emotionally and presence . I think a lot of young women are not aspiring marriage because it looks like just demand on women with no reward. A tired woman

Men must respect,love theirs wives un conditionally, so that they should be loved and respected, without that what you said becomes useless. Men should not be narcissistic to prevent toxic relationships in marriage

Am so tired of hearing about what men want. What about what women want. How come nobody talk to men about loving their wives unconditionally.

Yeees man of God......power travels through a relationship but not just words....this is tremendous!!

I have a friend who has mastered those 8s'. And what she has gotten in return, no words can describe. It is hell on earth. I have real fear that he can kill her.... My point is that there is no guarantee that after you deliver on all these you will have a happy marriage.

You are truly helping a generation Sir... Thank you so much pastor, please never stop in doing good

Dr KN Jacob, may you continue to be blessed by God. May His Countenance greatly shine upon you. Thank you so so much for this teaching. I was wonderfully blessed. Much love sir.

Great and inspirational lecture indeed! It would also be nice to do a video on what women want from men in marriage, less attention is paid to it!

I am not married yet but I truly thank you for your good advice Sir. I learn a lot. May the almighty God bless me with a Man who fear God like me in juses Name

Men always want respect but some of them men don't give respect and that cause problem in marriage

God bless you sir for this exposure....I pray God will continually to increase your knowledge and fellowship with Him.. Your faults won't be find the sight of God and God will uphold your marriage too . AMEN

Thank you Pastor. What a great message. I consider the same 8S for my wife. Above all it is all about burying selfishness and being mindful about one another. Once a man sacrifices and forsake what he needs and considers what his wife needs, and the wife does the same, there will be sense in the relationship. Blame game, selfishness and feeling special than the other partner are the key spoilers and destroyers of relationship. Both men and women need equal attention and treatment in a relationship (marriage). To me, the needs of my wife comes first. The same way to my wife, my needs come first to her.

I totally agree that it's bad for a wife to abandon her husband when he is facing challenges. But sometimes this happens because, when this man is doing well financially, he abandons the family and spends that money with other women, then comes back to his wife when all the money is gone, and he's lost his job. That other woman doesn't want him anymore because the money that she was milking from him is no longer there.

I am going to renew my marriage. I am blessed with the verses.

Thank you Dr. Jacob for the teaching, I have to agree with some of the comments here, I'm sure we all have our own stories to tell for days lol, if it's any other woman in my shoes I'm sure divorce papers would've been filled already, Im in a marriage of drug abuse, both of us unemployed, 2 boys on school, unemployed daughter with a baby, husband refuses to work, or to support me as a husband should, I'm at home since covid started nd I just can't get back up on my feet anymore like I used to... Many women out there wants to support, love, nd be loved by their husbands, but we just get so tired to carry all the responsibilities, nd the marriage alone we just get so tired... Have u ever heard that a husband says No to his wife? I'm talking about in the bedroom, finances, security, stability,etc. u start to feel like brother and sister lol... There's no more a "we"... I'm a single mom nd woman in a marriage. only thing that keeps me going is prayers, my kids, family I'm sure God has a season and expiring date for everything. May God bless you for all ur hard work

I am a Godly woman. I chose to remain single. A man and a woman need to love & serve one another. Respect is paramount. Marriage commitment is; two people looking after each other, in the full wisdom of God. Be Godly. Princess Holly

Praise the Lord! Thank you Sir.what a wonderful teaching according to the word of God.

Really my mentor am not yet married but yo words are so fruitful , courageous, I pray one day I be a public speaker because it's my dream and I pray one day my marriage to be exemplary to other people 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

I may not have been completely perfect but I think I did almost everything Dr is talking about but my ex husband was still cheating.fot me cheating or infidelity is a choose.period!

Learning as a single so when I meet my Boaz I know what is when

God bless you man of God. But men too should learn what women want....

Great lesson. I wish every woman watch this. Be blessed dear.

Servant of God this is a very powerful message for married women. God bless you and continue extending your territories.

Thanks for this message. Why do men keep cheating even when all these are done?

Thank you ,Dr Jacob, im not even religious, but a good moral conduct is very similar to the same bases. I really enjoy listening to your messages and they help me, be a better man

Thank you Dr. J.N. Jacob. You are the blessed of the Lord. Your teachings are inspired by the holy spirit. God bless you abundantly for making us see life in a different perspective. 🙏🇰🇪

having a healthy .marriage, being compatible, giving , respect, love. and communication. its just like a two way traffic , you give, and get at the same time together equally. bless you.

God bless u sir,well spoken! How I wish men would have same sermon on 8 S's too.

Like your teachings, I'm single with two kids, I was worried at some point, but your teachings are strengthening me

Powerful lecture 🙏🏽

Please women don't live your life to please someone it should be muture. This means in love, respect and royalty

Thank you Dr Jacob. I'm truly blessed 🙌

Wise teaching doctor. Exceeding grace

Thankyou man of GOD. Be blessed 🙏

I thank God to found your videos.it’s so helpful to me.Godbless u more Dr.and more videos for all of us🙏

Thank you Dr for teaching filled with grace. Amen

What about what women want? Is it only a one way relationship to provide for men's wants in marriage?

From what men want to what women want 🕺🕺 and a woman I'm here to understand man!! People perish due to lack of knowledge... Thank you pastor for the powerful knowledge and wisdom. God bless your marriage too forever 🙌 💞💞

Men must learn to forgive also since there is no superiority in Godliness

Some of them promise your parents to take from you and when you live with them is a different thing.

When y have a, loving sweet husband . you give , him respect .

God continually bless you for your teachings. I've been clear about some issues in regard to my marriage. Thanks again Dr.

Good advice Dr.Jacob thx for your teaching 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Thank you very much, Dr Jacob .I'm very blessed with your teaching. I'm going to renew my marriage.

Am blessed indeed by your teachings Dr, I liked the way you unpacked the "Me time"

Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen I walk in victory in my marriage in Jesus name Amen Amen

Dr Jacob is this very inspirational message for me because I am having some common conflict with my wife

Im watching from Namibia and inspired by your concrete word DR.

Thank God for your video really helps my marriage life which is nearly torn apart .Thank you lord for a men of God

Thank you for that wisdom. My husband never had my back never my hand and never asked me to marry him. I had to say after 4 years what are your intentions? He cheated on me once on a trip overseas. He had no reason to do that. He was well looked after. I loved him for 22 years then my life fell apart. He had many trips overseas with work. We had a handicapped child I looked after for years. I nursed hubby with cancer twice. He never told me he loved me ever. His mother was j witness. I grew up in a religious school so this really broke my heart. F

8'S men want from their wives First you've to give him the respect he deserves... 1.Speak it.. Say it 2.Support him 3.Safety_ when he fails 4.Space_ time for accountability 5.Sex when he wants 6.Security 7.Service_Invest in your marriage

I love how you present as if a crowd is actually physically present. God Bless you Dr J N

Women are always willing to stay but some men are very protective and jealous so much that he feels u must go too low to show submission,nooooooo way,respect is earned by ones action not commanded

Perfect integration of holy books message with real life for followers to realize the gaps.

Thank you Dr. For the blessings through this message 🙏🙏.

Now who is going to devote time and teach on what women want in marriage,we have had these teachings for a long time but love has to be reciprocal.there has to be a balance because women also need to be treated well. There's need for a shift where men are taught on what women also want

Dr. Jacob...what a blessing..thank you ..you are one of His anointed ones..PRAISING GOD FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE

Yes ,thanks for ur powerful teaching Dr Jacob that what 8s what men look for to women ,but what about also what women want becoz they are all couple .

May God bless you and give you more wisdom 🙏

I love the message but also Men should be taught how to be good husband's to their wives

Look very well, most men who feel they are not being respected by their wives are men who don't show love to their wives. Women want to feel loved. Love and respect is reciprocal.

Very powerful, wish God's grace on you

Sir ur messages are very effective The more I listen the more iblessed.Thank you.

This message is good thank you I pray we put them in practice

I've learnt a lot from this your Teaching may Almighty bless you Dr. K. N. Jacob Amen

Thank you very much for the good message God bless you for the work you are doing

So whoever is when they treat u like dirt, women need respect too

Wow! Jst wow ! Cant wait my Almighty to deliver my husband so that i can work on 8's words what man want🙏

Thank you Dr Jacob for best education on marriage.

I don’t care about what men want, I should I ask my self what I want .

Amazing 👏 thank you now ready waiting for someone's son in jesus name 🙏

Be blessed Dr.

I love your teachings thank you so much

Powerful message i have learned a lot thanks alot .we need our men to know what women want plzzz in the next sermon

Please let me know when you will educate the men on what women needs. That would be very much appreciated by us women! Thank you

Remember God made man the head of the house hold and his wife his helper. They need each other in marriage but the man leads the family.

It's always good to give a balance. Women respect you until you do an act less worthy of her respect that's the growth process for both of them

What a wonderful grace!🙏 Amen

I have been a good one for three decades 💞 oh my God, I longed for purity now I have you baby it's not easy for me ❤️ am so excited you are back in my life ❤️

Thank you pastor.Thank Dr.Thank you Sir

What about posting a video talk on “the 7 mistakes of a husband” or “what women want???”

Ooh my!you just broke my heart when you talk about divorce marriage is until death that's what the scriptures say and a woman can't leave her husband and marry another one she can get separated but stay alone only a man can remarry the same case with church and Christ Jesus the church can't leave Christ but Christ can leave the church, people need more revelation in the word of God otherwise they will misled many soo sad.😢😢😢

I'm JULIANA from Nigeria. Thanks so much. It's really helpful, I learnt a lot, and I need more of this

Dr Jacob you are a true example of what a husband should be like, I love the way how you speak very highly of your wife. God bless your union. Your prayer was so touching, it made me cry. I have been down that road I tried my best but only God knows. It was very stressful so I had to let go.