I originally saw your idea to empty your purse each time you come home on this video some time ago, but only recently implemented it. I'm a terrible minimalist in that I have a zillion bags in all shapes, sizes and colors. But because I like to switch them out a lot, it's nice to simply empty it. I have a drawer in my living room with little trays to put the purse contents in. Helps keep from things getting lost in my purse or extra junk piling up. Keeps me organized. I also keep my coupons and things I need to take to errands in there (library book to return, a loaned tupperware container for when I see my friend next, etc.) So far so good.
@knittingdoula8 жыл бұрын
After reading more about minimalism, and watching a number of videos, I switched over to this purse (it's by Fossil). The leather color is unavailable on the Fossil website, but you can find it on other sites if you search (and search and search ...) with the sort of obsession reserved for the Holy Grail and the New World! :) I downsized from a large purse to the Fossil bag and have been very pleased. I also downsized my previously large wallet to a small Fossil wallet that's very compact (2 debit cards, 1 credit card, my DL, and a single check from my checkbook register). In my bag, I have my small wallet, my phone, my keys, our medical cards, and some tinted lip balm. That's it - which is pretty impressive for a mother of five. It feels really good to let go of so much extraneous STUFF. Very freeing.
@ashleyelainedavis8 жыл бұрын
Love this!! I've had my eye on this bag for several months now. The bag i've been using the past 2 years is starting to wear out, so I think it may be time to upgrade! I'm so glad I found your channel! I love finding other minimalist youtubers. Looking forward to more vids from you!
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Live Intentionally You will love this bag! It's so versatile, and there are so many colors to choose from.
@pixalu7 жыл бұрын
Love the idea of removing things from the bag and putting in the tray! Brilliant!
@SaraiTalksBooks6 жыл бұрын
I’ve been binge-watching so many of your videos I have learned so much! Been giving a like to every one to help you out, I just wanted to say thank you for sharing all of your tips!
@LawdyGawd8 жыл бұрын
I recently purchased a very large bag that can serve as both an everyday purse and a book-bag for college (and it fits my laptop if I decide to bring that too). That way I don't have to carry multiple bags to school. Right now I have in it: wallet, keys, book, 2 pocket planners/journals, dog treats, tissues, pens, tactical knife, lotion, lip balm, tampons. And then sometimes I bring my travel-sized makeup bag and my lunch, if necessary.
@valeriagarcia21328 жыл бұрын
what bag was that if you don't mind sharing? I'm on the hunt for an everyday/college/laptop bag
@LawdyGawd8 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I don't remember the brand and I can't find it printed anywhere on the bag. I bought it at DSW for about $40. They have a pretty good collection of totes there.
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+LawdyGawd I used to use a tote bag in college as well! Needed space for my notebook :)
@julie-laurebernard32787 жыл бұрын
I love your bag! This is an interesting video, I have a lot more in my bagn though it's not that big : glasses, sunglasses, a pen, an agenda, a hand sanitizer, a handkerchief, office keys...
@belindaallen167 жыл бұрын
Hi, Melody! I love your videos, I'm not a minimalist completely but you're definately swaying me lol. I have a family of five and I have dreams of a life less cluttered and choatic. I love you videos because I'm always learning something new or something I know but you apply it in a different way. So thank you for making my days a little brighter , a lot less heavy and most of all... more informed. I wanted to share a tip with you because I to have long hair. I suffer from headaches/migraines. I did notice when I took some weight off by cutting my hair it started to reduce the number of headaches that I have greatly. I have really thick hair so I also have it thinned out as well from time to time if I don't want length cut off. It makes a big difference, I hope this tip helps. Although, I know most woman like us who have long hair are partial to keeping it that way lol.
@marycassidy16953 жыл бұрын
this is one of my favorite melody videos.
@vanessabayardo97886 жыл бұрын
Starts showing "what's in my purse" at 3:39
@NiklasForsman18 жыл бұрын
wow, you keep your cat in the bag?
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Niklas Forsman haha
@MartinaPreston7 жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking ! lol
@asyayordanova23767 жыл бұрын
Niklas Forsman Z
@ameliyajayawarna30946 жыл бұрын
That fluffy guy is sooooo cute.❤️❤️❤️😍😍
@kathyhurrle29668 жыл бұрын
Love your simplicity. I need a little larger bag. Do you carry the same bag year around? That is a goal of mine but I doubt if I ever get down to just one 😊
@samanthatheminimalist8 жыл бұрын
I keep a small card holder, a coin purse for coins and cash, a mirror, a miniature container of tums, a flash drive, keys, phone, lip balm and usually a lip color or two! Geez now it sounds like a lot but I use it all regularly and I keep it all in a tiny bag from h & m. The thing I like about my tiny purse is if I need to carry a big bag for work, travel, etc, I can just tuck my tiny purse in there. I'm so glad I ditched my big zip wallet, I just ended up carrying excess cards I didn't need, my receipts would pile up, change would pile up... I had piles of expired coupons. Way too much stuff!
@samanthatheminimalist8 жыл бұрын
Oh reading someone else's comment reminded me I also have a tiny sample tube of hand cream.
@js.90617 жыл бұрын
My husband bought it for my birthday after I told him about it. This colour is out of stock so I got a pink one, super love it! And great video! Fossil should pay u for the ad though.
@thenoise80837 жыл бұрын
Josephine Sim what bag is it?
@js.90617 жыл бұрын
Chelsee Long, this is Fossil Sydney if I didn't rmb wrongly
@love2000amglam7 жыл бұрын
I have a bigger bag. But it often waits in the car for me when I go to the store. Some things: small towel, hand cream, nail clippers, tissue, microfiber cloth for cleaning my glasses, oil blotting paper, anti-histamine lotion (small size), & mp3 player.
@jennyandryanflorida8 жыл бұрын
That's a great idea of keeping your purse by the door! Love the purse by the way!!!
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Jenny Chicago Thanks, Jenny!
@Mina-sr1jt8 жыл бұрын
Love your video, But just one thing, it's cold in Cali in the winter. True, not like the rest of the country, but it does get cold.
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Jermeana Hughes Yeah, it's definitely not like Hawaii, especially up north! :)
@TootieRuth777 жыл бұрын
I have a bag from Jesabelle B. She is on Etsy. Her bag slips over my wrist. I'm a nurse caring for my Mom. When I push the wheelchair while on appointments with Mom, I can meet track of the bag. I keep the cards we use Debit cards, medical, lipstick(L'Oréal Caramel latte) or gloss( Neutrogena Berry), and house key. It measures eight inches at the base and 13 inches for height. Mine is in Denim. Jesabelle makes a bigger bag and she has a variety colors white, light blue, and Denim.
@cozytunes79598 жыл бұрын
Cute bag :) I would never fit all my stuff that I need in small bag... I need my planner, wallet, ipad, water bottle, glasses etc... :)
@angelakneller17557 жыл бұрын
I have,purse with money and cards in, watch( I only ever need it when I'm at work or someplace I have to go where I need to turn off my phone), personal alarm (I walk to work at 3am in the morning), migraleve ( I get migraines), deodorant, small hair brush, keys ( one house key one locker key). I often will also have my phone,earphones, fem products ,name badge and a hankie when in use xx
@amusedal7 жыл бұрын
I do the 5 finger rule: phone, keys, wallet, chapstick, and hand sanitizer OR mints. :)
@LajjaGandhi7 жыл бұрын
I also carry sun glasses coz I live in a sunny city. What would you suggest to carry a water bottle? coz I don't like to buy water bottles when I'm out.
@kayleighlindell45968 жыл бұрын
I have the same handbag as you (that I recently received) and learned how to double up my crossbody strap thanks to your video! Thank you!
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Kayleigh Gilbert Yay! You will love that bag if you don't already. I love that it is so slim so that it stores easily.
@kayleighlindell45968 жыл бұрын
+More Melody yes I do love it, thanks! I have it in brown. Matches my brown Fossil wallet. What's in mine: keys, phone, wallet, earphones, 2 hair ties, lip balm, oil absorbing sheets, coupons. That's it!
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
Wow! So minimal! Brown was my second choice. Very organic looking.
@kayleighlindell45968 жыл бұрын
That's funny because that light blue would be my second choice too. So pretty and pale!
@DansonforJoy7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! :) I just recently did a "What's In My Bag?" video...which ended up as a cross between "minimalist" and "mom bag." LOL I have three small children, and while I like to go fairly minimal, I also like to be prepared. ;) I love how your bag can convert to a clutch - that's such a chic style! :)
@jacquelingracias8 жыл бұрын
I used to have really bad headache, since I m on paleo it's gone. And try do whole30. Just Google it.
@lauramarriott87067 жыл бұрын
My bag: Sharpie Pen (doubles as permanent marker) Small spiral notebook or mini moleskin Keychain zippered pouch (as my "wallet") Rescue inhaler Cell Phone Lipstick Hair tie Keys with small flashlight and whistle I find that my bag needs to have a little form to it because while I don't get headaches often, I occasionally have asthma and inhalers are unfortunately rather bulky. I realized that wallets were bulky and made it more likely for me to collect junk and receipts, so I now use a small zippered key ring pouch just a little bigger than a business card. Because it's got a key ring, I can easily hook it to my pant loop or attach keys for a fuss free low key outing. I unzip it and can easily see my id, medical/insurance card, giftcards (which are rare), and credit card. I only carry feminine products around the time I need them, and depending on whether or not I'm going to be in close proximity conversing with others, I will bring a mini Altoids tin.
@dori14256 жыл бұрын
Hi What about a comb, calendar book, and no phone? What would you do in an emergency and you need to call? I respect and admire your opinion on living a mini list life, but dear we live in a different world now where you can’t even find a phone booth if you need to make or receive an important call. However you have given me many great ideas; thank you.
@ciorstaidh_hall7 жыл бұрын
i'd love to own a bag this teeny. i am curious - with a bag this small, how you carry more "seasonal" items for example - an umbrella, gloves, a hat etc? where do you put these kinds of things when you take them off when you reach your destination? for me, a bag definitely has to have a little extra storage capacity.
@vanessabayardo97886 жыл бұрын
Kirsty H that's why I dont like purses to be too small. I don't like them too big either, the more that fits the more u throw in. I have a medium size bag with main area having wallet, whistle, star stickers, hand and face wipes, and sunblock. I work as a substitute teacher and sometimes I have lunch duty, so most of the things I need are for work. Of course I always check the weather forecast to see if it might rain, and then put my umbrella inside my purse too.
@kathyhurrle29666 жыл бұрын
I know it's been a long time since you posted this video. But I was wondering if this one bag is still working for you? Also have you had any issues with color transfer with such a little colored bag? Thank you! 😊
@js.90617 жыл бұрын
How about doing a video on how to care for this bag as I notice it gets dirty easily.
@vane126858 жыл бұрын
I'm always trying to minimize my diaper bag! It's so hard. I've found keeping a bag or caddy in the car with the extra clothes, diapers, toys, or food helps. If we are going somewhere close to home I chance and don't even take it with me. I'm talking 5 mins or so.
@itsHeatherKay8 жыл бұрын
Exact style of your Fossil bag in the video?
@jillpeterson50198 жыл бұрын
I keep hand sanitizer and tissues in my purse too!
@fleurdursanter94526 жыл бұрын
Your cat is adorable. Great video. Thank you for sharing :)
@obscuraxxxx8 жыл бұрын
i'm so bad with bags bc i want to carry my life with me 'just in case' and honestly it's soooo bad for me! i switch between a purse and a backpack, for work and school, and i don't go to both on the same days (six classes does not allow for that lol.) i have been trying to keep my bags light for a looooong time but i always muck it up. i switch a little beauty bag from bag to bag, and it really only has hygeine products, lotion, hand sanitiser, a mirror, and a chapstick. my wallet has too many cards in it but i have been culling it down too, i want to do an extreme cull soon. i had it so clean not that long ago and now it's all blown up again lol. i also carry my passion planner everywhere, and i've been itching to draw more on the go so i started bringing my moleskin along as well. i want to keep another journal for random thoughts with me, but i've barely used it so i think i'll park that at home and write after my day is done. i also carry an overly stuffed pencil case 'just in case' haha. i only tend to use a black pen that sits in my planner and a pencil for class. bah! well, i only started my journey about two months ago; i've culled out so much of my room, all of my closet, and am now tackling the last two drawers (random beauty crap) as i try to get rid of my clothes, and trying to organise my digital stuff. (hi, gamer here with 300+ games. plus photographer, artist, and just in general a person with an interest of pretty pictures. also kinda music and book obsessed, and really just kinda overly interested in too many things.)
@PJHAWL7 жыл бұрын
I love the wallet but I don't see a link to it.
@Desertgirlinc8 жыл бұрын
I usually carry a medium sized backpack or a tote bag to work. Inside I keep my_ -umbrella -pens & a few Sharpies (to sign out for work) -tablet (occasionally) -a book (I tend to pick ones that are 'pocket' editions) -deodorant -Travelo with perfume (very rarely, I tend to just spritz perfume on before I leave the house) -very small hand lotion (I picked up a charity pot from Lush the other day, it's perfect and small and quite moisturizing) -notebook -phone, but that's usually in my pocket because I listen to music using the Spotify app -bus pass -keys -wallet -recycling bag -lunch box & fork I could probably pair these items down, but there are already the essentials for me. Sometimes, I leave some things out, like my notebook, and that is often the day that I end up needing it. Or I'll leave my umbrella and it'll start to rain haha! I don't think it would be very practical for me to use a small bag like yours for my day-to-day work use, but I could probably pair down during my days off!
@katherinekier8 жыл бұрын
love this, my backpack is very similar to yours as far as the contents. I'm the same with my umbrella, too! lol
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Sahara G Yeah, when I used to work outside my house, I always packed my notebook! I do keep my umbrella in the car, but every once in a while, it'd start raining just as I'd be getting out of work.
@tankhajj7 жыл бұрын
Are you still using this bag? How is it holding up?
@janegomez77548 жыл бұрын
love the bag and color :-)
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+jane gomez Thanks, Jane :)
@samanthalechat7 жыл бұрын
I only carry a phone wallet with my phone, of course, my drivers license, debit card, target card, Walmart discount card and EBT card and lastly I keep a screen cleaner underneath phone. And if I drive I carry my keys but if I go out with my husband I leave my keys at home because he will carry his. The only thing that doesn't fit in my phone wallet that I might occasionally reach for is floss.
@kalafox62718 жыл бұрын
Where do I find the 'over the door' organizer you showed with the trays in it for your bag items when you take them out of your bag? I want one! :) Thanks! (If you don't know where you got it, what would you call it or how do you define it to 'search' for it online?
is that a green screen becuase the lamp is bigger than you
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Mercy Babalola It's a giant lamp haha
@rawlawgirl8 жыл бұрын
constant headached are usually related to diet and dehydration. the pills mask the symptom rather than resolve the issue. With that said, I agree regarding the heavy bags women carry and how this pulls the shoulders. I carry a backpack for this reason. Plus, it frees my hands. I carry a canvas clutch and leave the backpack if I am only carrying my keys and large phone.
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Raw LawGirl Yeah, the pills definitely don't solve the issue. Dehydration and diet, I completely agree.
@pauletteh75786 жыл бұрын
I traveled a lot by car, with my grandchildren. I would keep a plastic covered container in the trunk of my car packed with books, paper, crayons, pencils, games, non perishable snacks, Kleenex, wipes, well, everything a kid might need for a 3 hr drive. I also purchased a portable DVD player (best thing ever). Everything in one place.
@davinaz68858 жыл бұрын
The things we carry are quite similar except that I always, always have a small bottle of water with me. I really love the size of your bag but I think mine would have to be a little bit bigger because of the bottle :)
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Davina Z Yeah, if I started carrying sunglasses too, it might get a little tight haha. My mom carries her bottle with her wherever she goes as well :)
@VeronicaRstewart8 жыл бұрын
I have a very similar bag and keep my wallet, lip balm, keys, a tampon, eye drops, hand sanitizer and my cell phone. how do you get by without your phone in public? curious.
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Veroshima hey, I only need it when I'm out if I'm buying something new; sometimes I want to look up reviews. I live close to my grocery store, so I could walk home if anything happened to my car. My groceries just might not make it lol
@shangsaxon27398 жыл бұрын
how about cellphone ? NICE BAG I LIKE IT !
@veramer28988 жыл бұрын
I have a much bigger bag because i have a kid, in my bag I have bottle of water, snack for my kid- such as dry fruits or cookies, bag of wet ones, tylenol, pad, lipstick, lotion, small perfume bottle, sunglasses since i live in florida, cellphone, wallet, zipper bag of coupons.
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Vera Mer I like the zipper bag of coupons idea!
@thenoise80837 жыл бұрын
What bag is this??
@justtalking56418 жыл бұрын
Or Arizona. 😊
@KETODiamond7 жыл бұрын
I would love to have a minimalist purse.... But where do you put your gun? I just have a .38 derringer so it's very small, but real little purses still don't work.
@lydiamahoney69747 жыл бұрын
Diamond BBW what? A gun? ???!!!!
@KETODiamond7 жыл бұрын
Guess it's a southern thing?
@mothcub8 жыл бұрын
I looooooove this video and your very cute bag! I keep a bigger one because I always take my ereader with me and a camera and they end up taking up a lot of space! But I use them constantly so I never want to leave them behind.
@jayathome8488 жыл бұрын
hi great video! if you get a lot of "female" headaches you should try the herb Don Quoi (not sure on the spelling) I used it a lot in my 30's and it's great. The other very common cause is grinding your teeth at night, and your dentist can make you something called a bite splint to wear at night. Also works great. Since my kids are grown I keep minimal things in my purse, which is also a cross body bag, but my purse is fabric (vera bradley) so it's washable and best of all it has a built in wallet. If I'm just running a quick errand I take my cell phone and drivers license, maybe cash or one credit card. I do have a small cardholder only wallet that fits 4 cards if I want to just put stuff in my pocket, like going to a busy outdoor fair or market, where I maight be carrying a grocery tote etc. is enjkying your videos very much :)
@shiyunwong14878 жыл бұрын
Hi melody, in your opinion, is a minimalist born or made? I'm having such a hard time decluttering and in just wondering how I can help myself,other than reading books and watching videos like yours. did you grow into minimalism or were you always pared down? thanks
@adrioglz8 жыл бұрын
I was the kind of person who kept everything, after traveling a lot and finding the real meaning of life I changed completely. Travel and you will be impress to see in how many things you really need.
@shiyunwong14878 жыл бұрын
+Adri Jochens would love to but a new born and tight finances prevents me from just taking off
@hanahang75298 жыл бұрын
I also changed a lot after traveling to many countries and moving around few times. I realized that i can survive and worst scenario I can buy anything if needed.
@shiyunwong14878 жыл бұрын
+hanane hanguir yes it's true, actually been to a 3rd world country a long time ago and afterwards you just kinda feel guilty for having so much.
@cozytunes79598 жыл бұрын
Oh, and Your cat is reallllllllyyyy cute :D
@nzyall8 жыл бұрын
I love this! :)
@tanyamejia258 жыл бұрын
Love the bag's size and ability to detach but it's leather :(
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Tanya Mejia My last bag I liked even more, and it was just fabric but it only lasted four years because it was fabric! It was a tiny Lacoste blue bag (about half the size of this). It was perfect!
@marymoon90154 жыл бұрын
Miss you on KZfaq 😔
@butterflyqueen92608 жыл бұрын
a car tour!
@lisaamaro7 жыл бұрын
That's too many keys. I only have my car keys and some store cards. :) great vid.
@maratorres99347 жыл бұрын
Hand sanitizer is so important
@laurenrincon6438 жыл бұрын
I have my phone, a Japanese coin purse, my m&ms wallet, a hand sanitizer, my rubber bands for braces, a lip stick and my house key
@laurenrincon6438 жыл бұрын
I also forgot to add a pack of gum
@JohannaHertzman8 жыл бұрын
I always have my phone, wallet and a water bottle with me and depending on where I'm going, with who and which house I'm at, I have my keys with me.
@kyleighb43127 жыл бұрын
I have my wallet(men's because it saves more space), lotion, gum, lip balm, nail file, keys, phone charger, and a pocket knife.
@halakitty7 жыл бұрын
planet earth is in my bag 😑
@dadadapna8 жыл бұрын
I keep my keys, phone, and wallet in my bag!
@melissy817 жыл бұрын
i keep my wallet, lotion, hand sanitizer, mint, travel perfume, &
@mirisoji84067 жыл бұрын
I wear shorts under my dresses so I don't have to carry a bag and it's not noticeable. I carry my wallet, keys, phone, and some tissues, one item in each pocket.
@morayheather7 жыл бұрын
How do you access those items in public?
@Sexiimariie7 жыл бұрын
wallett, keys, aspirin, hand sanitizer, mints, carmex and if its a big bag im carrying..smartwater or fiji
@mauijill14 жыл бұрын
a m plastic bottle👎🏼 If you must single use, use Acqua Panna glass bottle
@Maklixa8 жыл бұрын
talks too much.
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+Wendy K Hey Wendy, I started a Mini Series for people that like shorter videos like me. Those are videos that just cover one product or idea. I think you will like those.
@Maklixa8 жыл бұрын
+More Melody thanks
@kelly1310xx8 жыл бұрын
Darlin your anxiety is clearly through the roof. You do not need to dive into a lifestyle choice because it simply gives you control. So does anorexia. You clearly have compulsion issues. I wish you luck but you need to talk to someone
@MoreMelody8 жыл бұрын
+kelly hughes That's originally why I got into minimalism - for ultimate focus and mobility to finish college, but I stayed for the freedom and peace. I'm a little well-rounded if you catch my drift rather than anorexic haha