The only problem here is the lack of communication & rude people touching the kid . The kid is really amazing , someone in his age speaking his thoughts clearly & he knows what he wants to do .

The baby is really an angel!! he said that his friends did not grow their hair to help people in need and made that it made him upset! ?! A true angel!!. Humanity still exists in this world people!

MC: “How do you feel when you see friends with short hair?” Hayul: “Upset.” MC: “Why?” Hayul: “Because they cant help those in need.” Hes too precious!🥺💞

Their major issue is definitely the lack of communication.

this is my favorite episode, the boy is so eloquent, the mother is actually wise and so loving, and the father really is loving in his own way and you can see he really wants to communicate more with her. I really hope they were able to come to a balance in the way they choose to raise their son and their future child.

There’s nothing wrong with boys having long hair, all the men in my family have super long hair (native Americans lol)

I loved that ending when they both started crying cus they both realised that they both just want the best for their son because they love him so much and that they forgot to love each other too and realised how pointless all the arguing was and they were obviously both sorry and awww my heart 💀💀💜💜

Youngja: ''Let's make her cry more. Tell her you love her!'' Bahahaha she is the best

I'm Korean and my brother's hair is super long. He's younger than me and it hurts to see people call him a girl and not let him go into men's bathroom. He's only 7 now 😢 He has big eyes, a beautiful face shape and is very thin which is why he's accused. I wish people wouldn't judge based on the looks

That child is a true angel, he's so intelligent and well mannered. We need more people like him in this world.

Have you seen little Gun Hoo he's so cute with long hair😶

I remember in TROS that Haru had short hair and everyone thought she was a boy . it's 2019 come on anyone can have short hair ,long hair , medium

i almost cried when he said “im upset because other friends can’t help those in need.” HE IS SO PRECIOUS PLEASE LEMME PROTECT HIM AT ALL COST

13:52 A boy growing long hair won't make him confused about his identity lol. It doesn't work that way sir

FINALLY! AN ORDINARY COUPLE ON THIS SHOW! LMAO

Wow, Coyote's greeting to the public is so badass compared to today's idols lol I was shook. And SinJi look absolutely beautiful and youthful still after all those years.....gorgeous.

"We should leave him alone. He's just a little kiddo. Everyone shouldn't be pointing finger at him just because his hair is long. Look how adorable he is. Let's just let him keep his long hair" What a beautiful scenery, where everyone minds their own business. Now before you all point fingers at me, I have nothing against this child. It's only right that people leave him and his long hair alone. No matter his hair is long or short or curly, it's nobody's business. Also, it's great and impressive of him to grow his hair to help others. He's been raised well. Now hear me out, a long time ago, I once watched a concern on this program, a mother was worried about her adult son's long hair, saying he should have it cut and everyone in the studio agreed. "His long hair doesn't look pretty on him. He looks like a f---ing gangster. Why doesn't he have it cut?" ^ This is not what they actually said. I just interpret their reaction and conclude the situation. Double standard much? Since when did you lose your right to grow your hair if you become a grown ass adult? Why couldn't you just leave this man alone? Or were you being hard on him because he's a rough-looking adult compared to a cute little kiddo? Apparently, the man isn't growing his hair to help people, so he lost the right to do whatever he wants with his hair I swear... typical South Korea, you really can't get away with anything if you aren't "beautiful"

They’re such a soft-hearted family. The father is timid and I think because of the trauma that his wife experienced during her pregnancy, he doesn’t want to push her or argue with her so he just lets her do as she wishes. She’s raising her child much in the same way I want to raise my future child/children but she must communicate with her husband. Communication is the problem here not Hayul’s long hair. Like the hosts said “if you raise a child with happy parents, they’ll grow up happy”. Hayul is just the cutest! He’s so adorable and well spoken, I doubt he’ll have any issues with speaking up for himself when he’s older so the dad doesn’t have to worry. What he needs to do is start checking people who look at his son weird or want to touch his privates...this is an aspect of Korean culture I completely do not understand.

the mum wishes the best for the child, I’m glad that she’s doing that. For the mum, doing things unconventionally will help hayul be happy. However, the dad also clearly wishes the best for the child, but for him, doing things ordinarily is a better option for hayul to be happy. They parents seem like good people, just tired by the lack of communication. You can tell that the mum also got embarrassed that she didn’t tell her Husband about many things. Communication is really the number one thing in a relationship, I hope both of them, not just the dad, open up to each other and are able to negotiate with other another, and let hayul truly explores a variety of things to see what really makes him happy. Wishing them well

Am i the only one that tears up every time this precious kid says something😅💜

My thoughts on this: 1. The mother needs to stop raising the son on her own and stop avoiding fights with her husbands. He's the father all, they're married (I assume) and it's his son, he deserves having a say when it comes to his son too. I'm not just talking about the hair, but the way the son is being raised. 2. Having long hair isn't a problem, the main problem here is how the son is raised completely on her beliefs. I still think she's a great mom, but she needs to learn to face consequences more. 3. Koreans seem to have a problem with old perverts and little boys genitals... disgusting and very outdated.

Hayul is legit the smartest 4 year old (American age; he's 6 in Korean age) ever. I think his mother is raising him to be smart AND considerate.

She honestly seems like a great mother. My only concern is her communication skills with her husband (although he seems really stubborn). His hair isn't the problem but the arguing and people touching their son inappropriately is.

6:36 as soon as the mother introduce herself..i think i can see that the father getting flustered by his wife cuteness by looking the way he touch his heart 😊🌈

an angel 😚😚he so calm intelligent considerate baby never seen one like him

I'm just reminded of the episode about that one 30 year old man who had long hair and his mum came because she thought it was a major concern. She literally stopped talking to him just because she felt embarrassed and angry at how long his hair was. And honestly he didn't even look that bad. She was so much more concerned about his long hair than about the fact that he was still unemployed and unmarried. One of the idols that was there gave the shittiest and dumbest reason for him to cut his hair, it made me so mad and confused as to how she could even come up with such a dumb reason like that. In the end the hosts just convinced the guy to cut his hair, despite him trying to tell them that it was a part of who he was and that the reason he started in the first place was to protest against the rules in his old workplace that said men were not allowed to have long hair. That episode made me so mad and this in addition to that just shows how narrow-minded Korea still is, despite it having improved in some aspects,

The problem here isn’t the mother and son, because they’re doing this for a good cause, but rather the people staring in the first place, like mind your own business jesus christ

It is a concern if people are assaulting him! Now I have respect for elders, but that doesn’t mean they should just get away with anything!

This kid is polite and smart, and he knows he's doing this for a good reason, Korean society really needs to change I guess that's a matter of time, here in Perú if your boy has long hair people just don't care or at least they talk about it but not in front of the kid ya know Ps I think the mom is doing a great job raising that child he's so smart

they're so softtt im glad this ended with a nice and good results :') and their son omg i wish soon i can have a child like that too:'))

She's a good mom. She ask her son his opinions and respect it. Yul is one lucky boy to be raise by such amazing mother. You can see he talk politely and doesn't make a fuss during recording. He can decide what he likes or not and why. It means his mom works hard to teach and guide her child to be able to do that in a young age.

This is one of the best families' I have seen on Hello Counsellor. You can see the love in the family and how happy the child is.

He’s the most adorable kid I’ve ever seen lmao I feel like everyone started smiling as soon as he came on the screen

Cried me a river..parents deserve medals for doing their best to raise that bright little boy who is everything

When I was six I was still trying to figure out how a juice box works

i have 4 kids.. 3 of them donate their hair 4 times already(since their hair grow so quickly) that kid dad should be proud.. beside d kid knows it will be for a good cause... so proud fr d mother and kid👏👏👏👏

I have never loved a kid this much before. my heartt

she really is a wonderful mom. she's exactly the kind of mother i would like to be (minus the lack of communication lol)

I am crying watching this video. The kid being considerate in his way touches my heart deeply.

it was so cute that both mom and dad cried at the end! Hayul is powerful! i want a baby like that too!

"Lack of communication" is the main reason. It could not be denied that the mother is doing a really good job in raising her child to be a kind people who is willing to help people in need although many people complain that she brainwashed her child. I agree that it's brainwashing, yet it's how it works for kids to grow up! Children are fast learners and they learn from what they see and hear. If the purpose is to grow a kind kid, I don't see any harms of it. If you said it limits the kid's self-thinking ability, I don't think so because while he grows older, he is going to school and meet many different types of people, at this moment only is the time for this kid to develop more and more his self-thinking ability. Another thing which the mother does well is, she is also bringing her kid to join all of the classes which allow the kid to socialize with other people at his age while she is doing home schooling. This proves that she is making a good effort in balancing the disadvantage of homeschooling. For the father, while he complains about his son was having long hairs before summer and he kept asking his wife to get the son a hair cut. I wonder “you had so many months to bring your son to have a hair cut by yourself, why didn't you do so???” don't say that you work and earn money, so you have no time to bring your kid to have hair cut. How about weekends? Instead of asking your wife for not taking the son to hair cut for months, you could actually bring your son to hair cut by yourself, do you know? It could be seen at the end that both of the parents love their son very much. Yet the father should try to participate more in raising the child (e.g. take the son to hair cut by yourself instead of spending months to ask you wife doing it) and also have more discussions with wife regarding child raising issue then your ideas or your preferred ways to raise your son could be applied in future to. If you don't communicate with your wife, of course your wife would assume that you have no opinion and then she raises the kid in her own way. Communication is the best way to find a balance between father's and mother's ways in raising a child. You should not complain about your wife's way of raising child if it's yourself who doesn't want to put efforts in participating the process.

He’s such a angel...I realize I’m making wrong choice for my baby brother who have long hair on back-side. I kept telling my parent to cut my baby brother’s hair because people saying he looking like a cute doll that would taken. My baby brother may be so spoiled by my parent but at someway he’s sweet and comfort us when we cries... All I hope is the little boy can help people and keep his path peace without getting cruel judgement. ❤️

Oh my god this is literally my favorite couple that has ever been on this show. They just have so much love for each other it's so nice and warming.

This little boy is so precious he need to be protected at all costs❤️❤️❤️❤️

she’s a good mom thats why her son is so mature

weird this is such issue in south korea when all of their historic drama usually have long hair to begin with. long hair is common and it's not wrong, whether western or asian what's so weird bout it?

What an amazing child. God bless you for your compassion towards others Hayul.

The mom is so sweet and they've raised such a caring and eloquent son

They want to grow hair for some deed and here parents are fighting among them ,I wish his mother talk with his father and decide what to do!! Madam please change your attitude towards your husband!!wish you luck

So cute and such a strong lil man. I think his parents raise him very well (specifically his mom), hands down!

Omg so precious! I wish there were more kids like him in the world.

This child is so precious I want to cry

he has a beautiful heart and mind uwu i hope he never changes !! he could really do even more amazing things in the future

The kid is such a gem! Even adults are afraid to be different at times, and scramble to the marjority. But look at Hayul, he is not afraid to stand out from the rest and is always ready to stand firm on his ground. In fact, he doesnt feel inferior at all, he feels sad for the others not being able to contribute more to the world instead,

On the moment he said other friends can't help...My eyes just got teary. This angel had truly touch a lot of hearts

The little kid made me cry when he said to grow hair to help sick people🥺 He’s the sweetest and wisest kid I’ve ever seen omg my heart🥺❤️

okay so i think the mom should talk to the dad but like the dad is an average traditional korean man so i get why she hides things from him. it seems both parents have good intentions just different ways to raise a child. they need to find a middle ground. the only thing i'd criticize the dad for would be that he expects his son to cut his hair instead of telling others to stop being perverts (he should be defending his son who is a victim) or thinking that long hair might make him question his gender (or sexuality) bc i dont think theres really a correlation. other than that, i wish the best for them. also a comment id like to add is that the son is compassionate and well-spoken bc of his mother's education:)

The way the little boy speaks and his cute satoori 😭💕💕

Awwww, my heart swells of warmth watching this, it's obvious they love each other so much, but the lack of communication drove them apart, they could only see the difference between how each want to raise their son, and forgot about their love in the process. I am so happy to see they realize how much they love each other through this, I started crying when the wife teared up, and smiling while crying when the husband cried as well. Oh and their son though, such a sweet little angel. I wish them eternal happiness, and may they continue to build their family with love and care. God bless them.

they're gonna be a happy family :) so warm. edit: this by far has to be my favorite HC episode

Aweee .... such a beautiful little one, parents are so nice it’s just that they don’t communicate.... husband seems nice and mom is too, over all they are beautiful little family!

This family is so cute and lovely omg ♥️♥️♥️♥️

This lil boy is a sweetheart 😍 He's so smart and mature 😢💕

How could people being rude to such an cute lil angel? He's too precious

people need to stop with the "men should have short hair, girls should have long hair" tradition- it's already 2019, let people do whatever they want to do. honestly tho, it's really sad to see how constricting it is in south korea where people cannot even act on their own personal freedoms without being judged, despite being a first world country.

Wow korea is so far behind a kid growing his hair is looked at as weird

Despite his young age he wants to help other people so sweet keep it up!

he is so cute! really proud of him to be thinking that way in such a young age!!

Oh my goodness. He is so precious.🤗

This is what’s wrong about the korean’s society, they tend to disregard diversity and demand people to follow the norms and are way too traditional, I mean I know its a part of them but can’t they just really, at the very least, learn to respect the decision of an individual and stop meddling with their lives? Like why would you even have to touch someone else’s private part just to satisfy your own curiosity and ignorance? And this little kid is really such an angel. Its very rare to see kids like him specially in the current generation. I’m so proud of him. He really is a treasure. Also, I think both of his parents are a really good people, its just that they have been fighting that it ended up hurting one another and decided to just make decisions without asking the other to avoid it, which is nice if its a way for their kid to not see them fighting, but also has a negative effect which separates the mon and dad, they both have a point and they have to come up with a better idea to be able to meet in the middle. I love his mom but maybe she could at least, step down a little and realize that the dad is also a part of their kids lot and his opinion also matters.

My tears dropped when he said he's upset with friends who can't help others. I'm not lying that my tears began to drop :" How is it possible for a kid like him say such a deep words. I hope this kid will keep grow as real gentleman in the future.

Both the parents are good hearted .....I got emotional when they cried together ....I wish I had such parent...rather ...such a father. Ohgod I'm literally sobbing rn !! They held back hurting each other .. Bless you both mom and dad of hayul !!

In my culture, it's actually very common for boys to grow out their hair.

Not only is he more mature than his father, he's more mature than every single person to ever appear on this show. A 6 year old child has compassion and will to help others in need but instead, he gets sexually and verbally abused. Except for his loving mother, entire society should be ashamed of themselves.

This is the most touching story in hello counsilor..the little boy was so matured enough to know what is right....he's an angel...godbless baby..

They are such a loving family 😭❤️

If a stranger wants to touch my kid's private area, i would just punch them That's inapropriate af But i wish the best for this family 👍 He's so pure and mature for his age! 😍

My son had very long hair by his own choice as a child and was often mistaken for a girl. It annoyed him for a bit but he got used to it. He'd just roll his eyes and say "I'm a boy" and walk away lol. I told him that it's nothing to be ashamed of. If he wants his hair long then he will have it long and never mind what all the busybodies have to say about it. At one point it got him bullied at school and he came home and asked for a hair cut. I told him to wait and think about it until the weekend and if he still wanted it we would go to the salon to cut it. He DID get it cut, but he hated it short and ended up growing it back out again lol. He has hair to the middle of his back until recently. He had to cut it because it was damaged at the bottom but he is busily growing it back out again lol. He's in his 20's now so he doesn't get all the looks he used to and is rarely mistaken for a girl any more. In fact the girls seem to follow him around alot...I feel like I should be worried about THAT more lol.

so refreshing to see a dad actually care about his family

Oh my God I always click on Hello Counselor videos expecting to end up frustrated and angry but this made me so happy and soft what the hell. They're so precious.

I’m sorry but if I had been the father I think I would go crazy. She’s not even listening or trying to adapt for what he wants. It’s not just HER child it’s theirs.

honestly i wish i was as cool as hayul

What a beautiful episode... I'm sure things will get better if they talk more from now on, good luck!

this couple truly loves each other

He so cute 😂💜

Why is no one talking about the witty answer of the father?! "I'm sure Hayul will be tired later". Absolutely Hilarious!

That kid can empathize with other conditions and asking what he could do to help. It wasn't happen just like that his mother definitely is a huge influence. Yul Mom you are a great mom! To be able to help preserve and grow your child innocent thinking and his care for others is a hard work.

I think he is so smart and eloque because his parents listening to him, discussing everything to him so he can express what he really want.. I actually adore this couple

I adore Coyote song .. I heard it in Music Bank & I was like : Who's this woman & what group. 💎

Personally, i love boys with long hair. I think its cute!!

This is really heartwarming ❤️ i started crying too when her husband finally respects his wife decision and says his love for her. We can clearly see how much he really loves his family, thats why he just wants to be common and live their lives just like everybody else..

this episode was so wholesome

She needs to have more communication with her husband AND she needs to have respect for him too! Like he just ain't your child, ugh! She's annoying.. Plus the older generation needs to move on with the times and need to stop touching strangers. I get you're curious, but that doesn't give you the right to be touching whoever you want's body. Idk what Korean laws are like, but that's harassment and maybe even sexual harassment >___

wowoowow, the cultural differences are so real compared to NA

Such a loving soft hearted family. Lack of comunication is a problem for sure but there is so much love and good will there. I hope this helped them get closer. When the parents started crying i got very teary eyed too.

The child is really precious. The mother is really wise. The father is really realllyy good looking as well as wise too.

With the sound that the girl is trying to make, I can hear it! It sounds like a little bird! Can anyone hear that too or am I imagining things????

Yeongja: Dongyeob, what can I do? Dongyeob: You can keep eating.

She smiles so brightly but there is so much pain hidden behind it...

Watching this has changed my perspective about boys growing/having long hair. Thank you for sharing this video ❤️