Part 2 of Fr. Bill's discussion on how to go to Confession in which he addresses: How should you confess your sins? What should you NOT Confess? What is the Purpose of the Penance? ABSOLUTION
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@mocabe014 жыл бұрын
Perhaps the best advice I recall that given to me was that " Don't let your shame prevent you from coming back to Jesus. That shame is proof that your heart still belongs with Jesus and He wants you back very much."
@ThanksIhateyoutoo2 жыл бұрын
Well shit... my shamelessness speaks volumes then. I don't even know how i got here from a video of a guy criticizing mlms. Autoplay is weird.
@Airship273 жыл бұрын
Went to confession yesterday after 16 yrs of being away. First thing the priest said was, "Welcome back." Thank you for this video, Father. It helped me a great deal. God bless you.
@JessSJ2DC2 жыл бұрын
Just went to confession for the first time in 6 years. Wish I saw this video first! I gotta make a commitment to go more often
@freshbrewedasmr33783 жыл бұрын
I’m going to confession tomorrow after two years. This has helped me so much to know what to confess and what not to confess.
@a.r.40933 жыл бұрын
I too got back into the church this year, it's been transformational through the grace of God to say the least. There's a ton of good resources online regarding sins (especially those that list out mortal sins, which we must confess!) if you still need some guidance. God bless and I'm happy you are back at confession!
@youngstarz44393 жыл бұрын
I’m confessing after 12 Years
@WandaDejong-ji8kh10 ай бұрын
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@WandaDejong-ji8kh10 ай бұрын
This helps
@bluebear70614 жыл бұрын
Confession takes a load of your soul. Don’t go to a therapist go to confession. It will save you money and it’s free. Just go. Your find a priest as a gentle lamb. And the joy Of being back in God good graces. Just go.
@ianlilley25773 жыл бұрын
Better yet use both. They serve different purposes both of which are very good for you.
@learnbibleversethroughpict60273 жыл бұрын
Karen Stempkoski Totally agree with you 👍👍
@dasan91783 жыл бұрын
I disagree on one point. Psychotherapy is not always the best (or only) solution for problems. The focus is exactly the opposite of where faith would take you. God urges us to look towards him, ignore self, and let his will rule our lives. Psychotherapy puts the focus entirely on self. People become obsessed with themselves as the most important thing in the universe. There is no thought whatsoever of God or the beneficial role God has in fixing life’s problems. I’ve heard that Catholics who regularly go to confession tend to be psychologically healthier than most people. I think it’s because so much of what people struggle with is directly related to sin. Ultimately, sin is something that causes a lot of damage (both personal and throughout society). So, while I’m not trying to say that people should avoid psychotherapy, I do think there’s an over reliance on it as the best solution to big problems. It’s not wrong to seek psychological help, but it should at least be balanced with reliance on God.
@michellevukelich27033 жыл бұрын
Agreed! Literally, I feel so full of joy and light and at peace, words don't describe it. I use to never go now I go anywhere from every two weeks to twice a year. it would appear the world has created band-aides for not going to church. Therapists Iv gotten the best advice from priests Ill sneak my question in at the end of confession. The best therapist I saw said what a priest said is take control of your thoughts and think and speak of what you want in your life. I see people do these accountability coaches or weight watchers. The church was the accountability coach having to face your congregation makes it harder to sin. Kinda like now that smoking is illegal in most places and not accepted makes it much harder to smoke. If you smoke the fear of ridicule or backlash make it less desirable to do.
@mayflowerwolves54443 жыл бұрын
What if therapy is free to most of us?
@HopeKing8 ай бұрын
I am doing my first confession this week. These videos have been some of the most helpful thing I have fun across. Thank you!
@doctorcy735 жыл бұрын
How grateful I am for your guidance on what not to confess. I can’t count the number of times I have confessed what I thought is the sin of anger and being judgmental, or critical of others. Thanks so much!
@cathysears67005 жыл бұрын
Amen to that! I’m sitting better than I thought! I didn’t have to pack a lunch after all! Ha! With seriousness, what an amazing gift! So grateful! God is Brilliant! Cathleen
@winnifredforbes87124 жыл бұрын
Cathy Sears "Pack a lunch"! I hear yah!
@lindahandley52674 жыл бұрын
@Cathy, since listening to Fr. Nicholas' video, it sounds like, 'just the facts, ma'am', but I don't want him to say, 'really? that's all you've got after 35 years?' I would be speechless!
@marcihf217 Жыл бұрын
Me too. So many times I have confessed being impatient, upset, annoyed, etc. Now, I know to only confess if I actually out on it.
@athanasius333 Жыл бұрын
I have found confession to be one of the greatest gifts. Not only can we receive forgiveness for sins committed, we can also receive the grace to avoid sin in the first place.
@gemum421911 ай бұрын
How do you get grace in regards to confession?
@saraa.86723 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how to overcome the fear of confession...it was easy as a child 25 years ago. Fr. thank for posting this video!
@gsearingg Жыл бұрын
40 years and I went back to confession and I felt wonderful afterwards. It helps to write it down
@njeriweru19804 жыл бұрын
Wow. I have learned something new. I usually confess my anger because it is a direct cause for my failure to forgive. Thank you father Nicholas. God bless you as you continue to impart your knowledge.
@mariavan13194 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much FATHER NIICHOLAS...GOD BLESSING YOU and All the WHOLE WORLD..🙏❤
@thomasmore44684 жыл бұрын
Unforgiveness itself is a sin that should be confessed - it leads to anger, anxiety and depression.
@rosannahoskin36344 жыл бұрын
Njeri Weru yes me to.
@yohanesusboko64734 жыл бұрын
Good explanation! Thank you, Fr. Nicholas! Greetings from Dili, Timor-Leste
@guidofaralli93005 жыл бұрын
Father William. Your clarity, alone, is healing. Thank you and Bless you
@WilldJsla2 жыл бұрын
I have confession today for the first time, I’m scared but I know I will feel relieved after and I’m 14
@timfronimos4593 жыл бұрын
Thanks Padre.Pretty straight forward info I wish it was explained like this at catechsim back in the 80s. Confession is my favorite part of being a Catholic just after The Holy Eucharist.
@fishwax63715 жыл бұрын
Wonderful to be reminded of the many meanings of "judgmental" and specifically the one that Jesus meant.
@erickavinatieri5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Fr.William. . Please keep sharing videos like these. God bless you always!
@mrss43282 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thanks for great clarification!!! Excellent points and perspective and insight into a right attitude.
@imzjik2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, Father.
@paulineprice26732 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much Father. I'm sure many more need to read this and learn this as many were not taught how to confess or just forgot. God bless you.
@ranipaul1004 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much profoundly from the core of my Heart dear Father.
@Elizabeth-iw3wd2 жыл бұрын
This has helped so much, as I have difficulty knowing what to and not confess ie what is not a sin. God bless you Father William 🏴
@registerednurseus-malayala86032 жыл бұрын
Got great insight after watching this video ! Thank you very much Fr!! All glory to GOD🤲
@wendyarao87112 жыл бұрын
Glad to know Fr.Bill what to confess and not too ..God bless you more Fr.Bill .Nice seeing you again even in you tube..thanks.
@marcihf217 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Father. This video really clarified things for me.
@petronilamejia32155 жыл бұрын
Thank Fr. for helping us to do a right confection and reconciliation.
@lenimanacap32423 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Father for this.. It could help me a lot tonight,, I will go to the confession few hours from niw..💝🙏
@jackr6896 Жыл бұрын
Thanks be to God! A great, informative guide on confession
@danielcantu11573 жыл бұрын
This was good and helpful... Thank you very much for making this!
@Insane4Twain4 жыл бұрын
Straightfoward and helpful. Thank you, Father!
@Newbruceufication4 жыл бұрын
I love Father Bill's directness. Godspeed, Father! You help us all.
@Paul-qr7hu2 жыл бұрын
Superb two-parter. Clear, concise and to the point. Just what I need as I begin my journey in God. Sub'd
@skylark57894 жыл бұрын
I was on the verge of leaving the Catholic Church because of the cruelty I encountered in the parish priest. I couldn't stand it anymore. He did everything possible to humiliate people, including me. I hated him, and I hated the church because of him ( and I was a convert who clearly decided to become Catholic). This has restored my faith, and my sense of well-being. Thank you, Father William.
@76katster4 жыл бұрын
Skylark Don’t ever hesitate to reach out to the Bishop if a Priest is causing any kind of harm. Also don’t hesitate to go to another parish - the priest are human and far from perfect- I’ve had my fair share of run ins with them. I use to feel “little” next to them- now I feel I do have the right to say something if they are doing something harmful.
@elkeb93445 жыл бұрын
Amen! That was helpful and very clear speech. Fr William, i do appreciate your Holy videos very much!
@lindarosebuchanan16504 жыл бұрын
Thank you Father. I only wish that I was able to see and hear years ago.
@bumblebee59265 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Fr. William.
@Salt_LightOftheEarth4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Fr; this was very helpful especially on the judgemental one. It’s always a thin line between calling someone out for erring and judging them but I like that it’s actually an act of charity when you tell someone they are being Unfair to others
@francishopkins443 жыл бұрын
Bravo, well done, at last Clarity. 🕊🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊
@theresaggiffin95563 жыл бұрын
Thanks Father Nicholas!
@-gina11144 жыл бұрын
👍 Thank you Father Bill!
@brianparent89014 жыл бұрын
Father William, I do appreciate you advice.
@dorygattoc64073 жыл бұрын
Father, thank you for these informations. God bless you. Amen.
@fr.williamnicholas9553 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome
@jesustheking70648 ай бұрын
Thank you father for the video. There are lots of things you said I confess every time. Like anger, impatient. This helped me so much to avoid those areas.
@teresaniumata27424 жыл бұрын
Thanks Fr.Williams for you help and clear this out.May God bless you.
@gitanitosevillano51215 жыл бұрын
Great explanation of the Sacrament of Confession.
@theresa32 жыл бұрын
Thank you Fr Nicholas 💜
@kevinerose3 жыл бұрын
I love that clarification on Judging people. So many people are confused by that as the Bible talks about judging people in some parts and later it talks about not judging people elsewhere. People don't realize languages didn't have so many words to use as we have today in the English language. When the Bible talks about judging, you have to look at the context of the scripture as it could potentially mean several different things as Fr Nicholas mentions.
@ibamuad2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, father Nicholas
@JeremyFrancispiano4 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful! I have been examining my conscience for the past 24 hours and more as I prepare to go to confession after over a decade of not going. This answered a lot of my questions and relieved many of my preconceived "hang-ups".
@LS-ILJVM4 жыл бұрын
WOW!! I’m so glad I found your talk. I know I haven’t been confessing accurately. This will help. God Bless You Fr. Nicholas!
@Ryan_Zell4 жыл бұрын
Fr., be glad you didn't hear my confess after 38 years of not confessing.
@lindahandley52674 жыл бұрын
@Christian, please don't make me laugh. I'm going after 35 years and I'm a nervous wreck!
@meganramsey18214 жыл бұрын
linda handley haha aw. You’ve got this!!! Priests have heard it ALLL :)
@dog907874 жыл бұрын
I didnt confess for 5 years and today i hope i will confess.
@tomelder18034 жыл бұрын
45 years here
@mdtdbe4 жыл бұрын
“...it has been 38 years since my last confession. Father, I hope you brought a lunch...”
@minishadap27844 жыл бұрын
It's really a wonderful explanation, thank you Father for this important information and things that v need to know 👍
@ELKE-4 жыл бұрын
Amen Fr William! Always good to be back after 1 year, and listen to your Holy videos. And this one is from 2016! I wasn't on YT yet. Thank you Fr Bill. 3 Hail Mary's as everyday.
@davidcole3335 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Thank you for this.
@valzdilla1589 Жыл бұрын
Very good Fr Bill
@skyliner73335 жыл бұрын
Thank you Father, very helpful.
@cheraybisaya2 жыл бұрын
So helpful, thanks Father!
@johns1834 Жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Thank you. Just finished RCIA and will be doing first confession soon.
@claudiofernandes23932 жыл бұрын
God bless you father
@Mr.Williams76 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video.
@Chiefsfansince-qb1kt4 жыл бұрын
My sincerest thanks to you Father for making these videos. As a long time Catholic, I was neglectful about going to confession because I felt it wasn't as necessary as the Church always encouraged it would be for all of us. I am trying to be a better Catholic and person on a day by day basis and these explanations help me tremendously in that regard. These kinds of calm, well thought out explanations are easy to understand and truly do clear up possible confusions in my mind and I'm sure in the minds of many Catholics over the years. Thank you for your efforts and please keep up the great work. It's very much appreciated by those of us who seek a stronger level of faith and hopefully, for those out there who may have little or no hope in a better way of life, or who may be in search of that path through life. God Bless you for your devoted work.
@LuvvyDuck3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Father!! I'm often confused and even scrupulous about my confessions, and I tend to get "flowery" about them too. I hope confession will be easier for me after this. God bless you.
@priscillareyes51942 жыл бұрын
Much needed thank you 🙏🏼
@serjiovences52055 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much this really helped me because i have sined alot thank you father
@scottyj62264 жыл бұрын
I wish I'd listened to this yesterday lol.
@teresaniumata27424 жыл бұрын
This is great thank you Far.most of the time I get confused .
@mariahendrickson14435 жыл бұрын
Thks father for ur info. God bless!
@KSudbury4 жыл бұрын
A helpful distinction between anger and rage which I haven't heard before.
@5995Jiol11 ай бұрын
Thank you for keeping your videos clear of destructive background music. Keep it up Father
@nyrrrwoods45996 ай бұрын
I am 59 and have been catholic for 6 years but don't know much about confession very useful
@bluewrenreilly1294 жыл бұрын
Undoubtedly a good and sincere Priest an assett to the Catholic Church.Just wonder Father don't Priests get sick of listening to the repeditive often boring sins of the congregation not to mention the halitosis in such an often small and confined place?I would've thought telling them" yes go confess you sins to God"would be a relief after awhile . God has vast breathing space! *smile*.
@joxbrough4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Father for clarity.
@anabelleroque10713 жыл бұрын
Thanks Fr. William for your guidence. I can understand better now and you help me to think out of my sins.
@st.michaelthearchangel77744 жыл бұрын
This is funny, because I am definitely guilty of doing what father mentioned in the video. 😆
@GuadalupePicasso4 жыл бұрын
I sometimes confess my temptations, but not as my main reason for going to confession. If i have to go to confession, and if I’ve also been battling intense temptations, I will mention it as well.
@viper86882 жыл бұрын
Im going to confession in 30 mins and its my first confession this helped
@Coberyaz4 жыл бұрын
How gracious.... no words to describe what Authority God gave to the church
@Hnchmchl854 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful information, Father Nicholas.
@peachpear16672 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@patriciabrower5324 жыл бұрын
This was helpful thank you Father. 🙃🙏💐
@chalice35715 жыл бұрын
Yes, Father Williams is very helpful... I agree that often out of sheer ignorance, I too confessed those "what not to confess"... Thank you for giving to us this gem of the teaching of Christ, now bestowed on us through His Holy Church... pray for priests... they need our prayers....
@floramurage66704 жыл бұрын
Very clear explanation,since I have been confessing anger, judgement, Thanks fr for great enlightenment
@InFriknLoveWitHockey4 жыл бұрын
This guy straight up sounds like Data from Star Trek! Very well spoken 👍🏻
@ambu64784 жыл бұрын
Father Nicholas, thank you so much for your wonderful videos. I was welcomed into the Church in 1998 after four years of searching and study for the Church Jesus began. I felt like I was finally home, and the Eucharist was the most awesome experience in my spiritual life. I'm ashamed to say that after a few years, I stopped attending the Catholic Church. My wife didn't like the Church as we both grew up in a non-denominational church. Her brother had become a minister and pastor in a church similar to the one we used to attend, and our daughter and her family are also going there. I started attending this church for family reasons I guess, and it's a good church.... but, it will never be able to replace what I experienced in the Catholic Church. I've never been as close to God in my life as I was in the Church which has the Body and Blood of Christ, that has the successor of Peter as it's overseer in the office of the Pope. The communion of Saints, the Blessed Mother...etc... I just don't know how to get back without causing a major traumatic rift in my family. I pray God will lead me in the right direction and hopefully He can deal with their hearts ahead of time, before I let them know how I feel. Thank you Father and God bless you.
@annainspain51765 жыл бұрын
Maybe when people confess to "being judgemental", what they mean is a prideful attitude. Setting themselves higher than the other person as if they were superior or "better than you."
@kenkc843 жыл бұрын
It's better not to presume, just say what it is. No need for interpretation when clarity is facing you
@grandeurglory50303 ай бұрын
Then, just confess the sin of pride.
@ragnarrthorsen27924 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, nice, simple and direct. I don't want my fist confession being a Stephen King novel.
@danakarloz58454 жыл бұрын
Ragnarr Thorsen 🤓
@JimRosipkoRN2 жыл бұрын
a priest that was temporarily assigned in the parish, gave An interest Penance that was to review the the explanation of either the readings or Gospel of the previous week that was in the Church bulletin (or the up coming readings if the previous week bulletin was not available )
@sm50373 жыл бұрын
Thank you this helped alot
@jamesjc3 жыл бұрын
That helps, thanks Father 🙏🏼
@johnrooney42344 жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining that the priest is bound by the seal of the confessional and he must keep what is said in the confessional in absolute confidentiality and the importance of not confessing the sins of other people. I cannot unspeak the words that I have spoken but I have had to eat them on many occasions. A day at a time..
@johnsitch33634 жыл бұрын
Thank you Father.
@glennso474 жыл бұрын
How about confessing that I spend too much time on this computer and not enough time with my family or reading books.
@gailwedgeworth98214 жыл бұрын
Thanks that was really helpful.
@treesakutty6524 жыл бұрын
Father I love you for teaching me this...everyone says don't commit sin ,and go to confession..but they never gives homilies on how to confess or what is sin except on the occasion before holy communion that happened in the long past
@lindahandley52674 жыл бұрын
@Treesa, that would be an excellent homily!
@sUjU914 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this helped me a lot
@CristianoUniversal5 жыл бұрын
Great video, Father - thank you! I'll try to watch part one and the remainder of part 2 asap. But I have heard that confessing one's temptations (which, sure enough, aren't sins) can lead to growing in humility. (Unfortunately I can't remember the source, but it may have been advice by a saint who practiced that.)
@brigidcannon81304 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Father for these statements of how to express our sins and what not to express. I found this very helpful. I am a woman religious and I wonder if you would have suggestions For a religious sister. Blessings and Peace on your teachings of this sacrament. Sr. Brigid
@loida325 жыл бұрын
Fr. William, I just happened to scroll your videos. I'm thankful seen this. May God forgive me, I never go confession since 2009 After I left the Convent after that last confession I had with our spiritual director. Father, After how many years I'm engaging PMS and pray God for forgiveness in adoration chapels and sometimes I received communion. And as of this time I almost a year never go to Mass because of my job with occasional day off and never received communion too. Yeah I watched live mass online sometimes. I feel myself guilty when I go to mass because of PMS I had with different partners before until this February. Pray For me Father, please include in your prayer.. God Bless.
@fernvalcourrodley44 жыл бұрын
We must continue to pray to the Lord to help with this temptation. The Rosary has helped me from falling into this sinful act. Never forget His Grace is sufficient. Let's us pray 1 our Father And 3 Hail Marys. Good luck. God Bless us.
@gabrielegiuffre4 жыл бұрын
PRICELESS ...... AND GOD BLESS YOU AND ALL OF US
@apolinarioocum679 Жыл бұрын
I have done it many times since the pandemic started
@jimcallahan93463 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice, Fr. Bill. I'm guilty of a couple of these 😄
@samclingan10842 ай бұрын
The more often you go to Confession, the faster you life will improve, dramatically and substantially. Especially if you look at how to change your habits from sinful to virtuous.
@DSkye-n7m2 жыл бұрын
So what’s left? I have to Lol…those are some of the things that I was going to say in my next confession, Im thinking about coming back to the church. I don’t abuse myself except for food maybe, I don’t have impurity, I’m in menopause lol. I try to follow the golden rule. I guess my biggest challenge is tending to believe in an eye for an eye…yeah I’ll go with that in confession.
@user-xu3oj4uj5c8 ай бұрын
Pray That I Will Detest My Bad Habits Sinful Tendencies Flee Evildoers
@josephgallardo81345 жыл бұрын
Pray Always read ur bible in the morning and the evening say ur Catholic or ur Anglican prayers morning daily evening and night