“Read behavior and accept the message”! Powerful👌🏾

Always put your faith in God,He never leave nor forsake you.love yourself enough to protect your own happiness.Thank you

this is so powerful Benjamin, i bless the day i met you. you have changed my life. Be blessed.

Today this show has been on me 80% Am so happy that I applied most of the ideas he has said of 90%.Am a mu of 5 children and so proud of my children. Thank you for the show

As Africa we need to protect this man of God 🤗 such rich words, such beautiful practical words👏👏👏

Once you start listening to Benjamin you can't stop. So much wisdom ❤

Benjamin is sharp in appearance and intellect! I hope he lives what he teaches. Good Stuff!!

Benjamin, i will never allow my husband to abandon his kids. i encouraged him to bring his kids and we raise together. coz i saw how my mum struggled with me alone. i only met my dad in my senior six vacation and when i joined university even if i could call him for simple money for stationery he would tell me to call the next week and when it reaches and i call he would tell me he had forgotten. that thing really hurt me and he was really shameless when he called me on my graduation date that he was coming with his people.i couldnot allow him enjoy with me when he had not even invested in me. He died after i had started working and married. but now that his people realised that am not struggling, they have started disturbing me calling me to attend functions of people i dont even know. when i refuse they start cursing but i even dont want anything to do with them.

Wisdom wisdom I hope my fellow sisters are gleaning from you Benjamin. Moving on is the solution and only God can bring true healing and restoration of one’s sanity. Yes it is not easy but with God all things are possible. The word says vengeance is Mine do not revenge. True women needs to be financially empowered so that they can in charge when they misjudge the person they marry. Your videos are so powerful. Godly wisdom 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Thank you Benjamin for this insight, indeed we should learn to love ourselves first, if a person leave you, then so be it and start enjoying life again.

In my opinion. Marriage is a partnership. Love grows from the respect that we give each other.

Once someone vanishes on you they are meaning or telling you to be alone. Marriage is not captivity.

insightful....the crying and praying never ends.....they never change

Thank you Benjamin, take home SELF CARE , SELF CARE , SELF CARE

I will never understand how women have time for "useless " men. Tell them! love yourselves enough to see through this snares. Remember your kids deserve the best dad there is. Pick him wisely!!

I cried and prayed for almost 15yrs and finally I left he never changed

That suit is on point!

My wickedness shall carry me along way.Thankyou Benjamin for describing me

Thank you. Powerful indeed

10 minutes into listening, I can admit I chose the wrong person. I accept the responsibility.

Thank u so much my brother,each an every time uhave portions and good advice to us, appreciate u so much,am passing this also for now seven years,thank God for fighting for me ,may God bless more an abundantly always..for such wisdom..to teach the world 🙏🙏

Yes I agree our lives/servival should should not be attached to our spouses/partner.....we are only required to love each other....I think it's preferable to be self fulfilled and satisfied...as individuals.... self love is very important in this life...we can only give /offer what we have....

I Just Love this. Thanks Benjamin for the insight!

I love your truth Benjamin...thank you for putting this out there..a blessing you are

Benjamin this is powerful and true. This is an informative message. I have learnt a lot out of this message

Always learning something new

I got knowledge, thanks Benjamin

Thanks Benjamin...

Amazing topic. Oh my goodness..... I am a victim and have learnt a lot.

🎩 hats off Sir, the mistakes we commit 😢 But, listening to you is encouraging. You shed such light that you build our courage to pick up the pieces, heal and start afresh. I like how you emphasize healing and faith in the Almighty LORD. God Bless you Sir🙏 P.S. loyalty to culture is poisonous

Prayer about the same person, that used to be me but not anymore...

Powerful advice

Very satisfied with these words

He ran away wen his son was 1 yr old, now his son is 10 yrs old we are doing fine. I don't think I'd like to see him in future!

You really help us a lot.

In the union of marriage there are two things love and forgiveness 😎

Is very funny that Kasamba come and put their adverts here with a message that is contrary to Benjamim’s Ideology 😂

God bless your wisdom

I think then I am one of those few with emotional imbalance. Am very difficult to impress.Now what should I do?

Reality Check ✅

The best advice have added in my bank.

Thank you Benjamin. Tell them.

Carrying clothes in a paper bag!!!! I wonder for what? he would as well return with nothing!!!

Nice conva here.benjamin is ever witty in what he says

Love this

Master #Selfcare❤️yes Zulu

Good evening Sir. I'm in Nigeria. I want a meeting with you. Please let me know.

What if you the woman decides to leave but without children

I don't Care with him! He Can just Stay away.

Let him go back to his people. He is not your son. Thank you. 😂😂😂😂👌

I wish I had Benjamin 's contact

Good evening Mr Benjamin, what if now is the prodigal father returning to meet his children, how than do we react as mothers

Eeeeoooh...marriage is not captivity. Move on.Encouraging.Thanks.

This is your truth to own & enjoy an experience of but don't pile it on a brand you don't really represent

Shouldn't you have a disclaimer in this video. Coz you can't denie that conflict resolution is a science that's improving as much as it's degraded amongst humans. You cannot simply imply that you've compiled enough statistics to market this as a new trend of living. It's a disgrace to your name and attaching the name of Jesus just goes along in dragging him in the same mud organized religion does

This is very one sided conversation. It doesn't really address any issues and shouldn't be modeled as a template for an approach of life. It's just going around the problem & you shouldn't employ religious text to fossil this agenda