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What To Do When Your Parents Don’t Support You
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Күн бұрын#Shorts Disagree with them but be respectful then prove them wrong! Thanks, @noorstars
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@thefitpackllc Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, not all parents love their children. Trust me.
@MB_009 10 ай бұрын
I agree with you , my parents only support my elder brother who have a government job , they don't even think about me until they have some work from me 😢
@urr_hapinness 9 ай бұрын
@@MB_009Truhhh
@dolly4446 9 ай бұрын
😕
@vibrantVJ6688 9 ай бұрын
Legit
@Raccoonboi634 8 ай бұрын
Fr
@azmanfaruqui2861 3 жыл бұрын
This man is direct and thts what I like about him what he wanna say he says it
@1_Lando 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@nukelertoonz8418 3 жыл бұрын
just no
@ZQProductions 3 жыл бұрын
100% it's a big struggle when you have parents that don't support you, due to not understanding what it is you are doing or they just don't like the path you are on. We will all get there in the end thanks for the wise words Gary & team. Keeps me going. 👍🏾 Going to pursue film & photography regardless. All the best everyone.
@TBlock1347 3 жыл бұрын
Go for it. You owe it to yourself
@ZQProductions 3 жыл бұрын
@@TBlock1347 Cheers for the support mate. I'm starting to get more clients whooo hoo.
@OriginalKingRichTv 2 жыл бұрын
How do you begin?
@ZQProductions 2 жыл бұрын
@@OriginalKingRichTv Just have to start each day/project and take it one step at a time. It will take time for the mind to heal but it does heal. 👍🏾
@1.5Koreans0.5American 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful for my supportive parents
@jesuslovesyou7130 3 жыл бұрын
Aw
@noCRAPplz 3 жыл бұрын
Wait until you decide to go against then 😂
@mridhulml9238 3 жыл бұрын
You should be..i wish i had your parents
@ddmddmd 3 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@blendiferizi4477 3 жыл бұрын
Your asian, oc u are grateful, ur 1 on a milion😅
@TheBashful0ne 3 жыл бұрын
Heard a saying earlier today. "When someone tells you it's impossible do everything you can to show them it's not impossible"
@chaotickreg7024 3 жыл бұрын
"Parents love their children" I'm sorry Gary, I gott stop you there.
@Lonewolfalchemist Жыл бұрын
Lmaooo well said!!😂👏🏽 they truly dont cuz theyd want their kids to be happy but the minute they become happy the parent become envious
@dolly4446 9 ай бұрын
Nope. Not all. I practically beg my parents to come visit but yet never show up not even for holidays so I figured TO HELLS WITH THEM.
@pinkiepinkster8395 3 жыл бұрын
My parents were not supportive...when I got my dream job when I had just graduated from college, my parents threw out all the correspondence from the new company and never told me. I finally figured it out years later and they admitted that they wanted me to stay home with them. So they died alone in a nursing home...I never forgave them.
@geemorales3555 3 жыл бұрын
They email you or call you. I still wouldn't have the heart to do what you did. That is, if you're telling the truth.
@prinscilladugba131 10 ай бұрын
Please do forgive them. God can help you start afresh and restore whatever opportunity they stole from you. You can be fruitful even in your old age and be a great blessing to them. Jesus loves you. Bitterness steals joy from you. It makes you sick. They are gone and you deserve to be happy and have that peace of mind. Much love dear
@youngfinance6319 3 жыл бұрын
My parents are not supportive at all but I keep pushing and don't listen
@asoto3057 Жыл бұрын
well listen they're testing if you know something or not
@dawonfields7360 Жыл бұрын
@@asoto3057my parents hardly give us advice on anything they get mad when we complain to them but we need advice right! Why wait until we get to 21. And 30 year old and then tell us to grow up ur a adult now why do that! Ain’t that something! It’s sad right any advice on this
@nivedyagauri394 Жыл бұрын
I'm 21 I am crying now.because of them I am living as a person with no capability
@kio51423 Жыл бұрын
@@nivedyagauri394 I'm 24 and I feel the same...And to make it worse, I have way less opportunities compared to the average american...I'm from and live in a third world country and the price of everything is expensive
@GXGamer47ElectroZero 9 ай бұрын
Yes, this is what a lot of people are talking about, some parents are narcissistics in the world, they never even cared about their children in the first place, all they ever do is think about themselves only. I noticed this last year in 2022. And now I’m learning more information about it in 2023 of this year.
@jacquelineharris9532 8 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for all the abuse you suffered.😢 No child should have to endure that trauma. If you are still in the house, please tell a teacher or go to the police and tell them what is going on. They can help you move to a safe environment. Don’t worry about your mom and dad getting in trouble. It’s not your fault that they didn’t take care of you properly and and the court can deal with their issues.
@GXGamer47ElectroZero 4 ай бұрын
Well, my Dad died from a car accident before I was born my Mom is scared of the world, she barley cares about stuff. Having a Absent Father affects the family, because without Fathers your life will be less fun, because The Mothers never even cared about anything from the beginning, because their Toxic Mothers in this world. So many mothers have destroyed their daughters in the past, note sons suffered much too, but worst. They have DMDD, ODD, Antisocial, Borderline, Histrionic, Narcissistic, Psychopathy, Sociopathy, and other mental disorder that are behaving like this. This can cause children to hate them, because children have dealt with child abuse, neglect, abandonment, bullying, trauma, and other traumatic events in the past, that have Autism, ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, C-PTSD, Schizophrenia, RAD, and other disorder that people have diagnosed in the past. Like Paranoia.
@anichols5845 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of parents attempt to live vicariously through their children.. you see this in sports very often. It’s usually the ones who are the biggest jerks.
@mineland66 Жыл бұрын
That's my case, they don't let me workout, they wan't me to only play basketball
@inaminute2312 3 жыл бұрын
You should want your child to grow up to be independent, happy and healthy no matter what that looks like.
@KingofKings021 7 ай бұрын
Do you know a thing about the world. Everyone is going to make independent choices in life when you are around. Life isn’t just let me teach you how to swim methods. When your child makes a mistake, guess who the number one person they’re going to seek out? That person needs to make sure that person feels at home, cuz being uncomfortable and having to change for the better is not a great way for anybody to grow and be better. That’s a sad life that can turn around, but nothing with love. Cuz I got kicked out when I was 13, got beat by my dad all the time. My mom and dad are just drug addicts and alcoholics. I’m 23 now and guess what? I don’t get to call my mom or dad for nothing. It’s nothing to be proud of, if I cry. I cry alone all the time and have to figure it out with the many mistakes my emotions can’t fix. I’m human, not a Superman.
@ayasodaigui9267 7 ай бұрын
@@KingofKings021I pray for you that things will work out for you in a so much better way 🤍
@sukh-e225 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't mean that if our parents feel proud on us only on our success time but they should also support and motivate us in our downtime... It's mandatory and common need ..
@parul5349 3 жыл бұрын
That's true sometimes we have to go against our parents but this is important remember that we are going against for good reason behind that because they are not always wrong.
@alittlebluebird9393 3 жыл бұрын
I dont talk to my mom. But she asked a friend where I was. She said probably working... Oh? Where? She owns an eBay store. Oh . Blah. Rolls her eyes and walks away. She doesn't know how much money I make or the super good car I drive. Or that I make enough my wife only works part time because she wants to Or I help my kids raise their children. Because life is rough when you are young! I know after all these years I shouldn't get upset. Yet wanting her approval is ingrained . And it just bugs me Thanks for the great content!
@andrewbangs9073 3 жыл бұрын
We have the same situation but im on the opposite outcome, you have succeeded in your life while me on the other hand get stuck and failed many times, now my family laughs at me,they say im stupid to leave my job and try something different that i dont even know in the first place! but they dont know how much im suffering on that job,the only thing they want is the money that im sending in our family,they didnt even ask me if im ok or is everything fine??,im not enjoying it anymore,thats why i tried and find something else,but ended up broke in finances and in life expectations, now i dont know if i can still get out of this situation
@ammarh4125 3 жыл бұрын
@@andrewbangs9073 Of course you can brother. You need to take a step back in your life and really analyse what's important. Why ruin your life just to send money? You can be happy in a job and still be able to send money. You just have to figure it out and find something better suited to you. Never give up
@andrewbangs9073 3 жыл бұрын
@@ammarh4125 thanks brother, right now im trying to find some freelancing jobs online,but i needed some skills to obtain first,so i needed to get enrolled first in an online courses for freelancing, but still can't because i dont have enough money to pay for it, i hope one day heaven will shine its smiles on me🙏😔😥
@deimos9134 11 ай бұрын
For a lot of people, it is not as simply as not listening to parents. They could kick you out of the house or take your stuff if you are financially dependent on them.
@syd3692 3 жыл бұрын
My parents are supportive, but at first they wanted me to follow their same path, which I did, even got the college degree they wanted me to get....but, since I didn't enjoy it, I work on a whole different thing and things have played out well, my parents stop giving me a hard time once they realized I was completely independent.
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@nathanhammond666 3 жыл бұрын
If my kids are happy, I'm happy. Period. They set their own expectations.
@nathanhammond666 Жыл бұрын
@Eternal Atake thanks
@justfelix30 Жыл бұрын
Wish I had a Dad like you man my own dad dosent even support my own goals or dreams cause he's already doing everything for us I just wanted to ease his pain so he dosent have to struggle all the time with money and stuff...
@pamelanoel8948 3 жыл бұрын
My mom supports me as long as it benefits her. ☹
@amanmahto6844 Жыл бұрын
bro all in this world are selfish you also and me also and everyone
@alanburns9466 Жыл бұрын
Parents are often the number one detriment to their children's success and should not be listened to. But definitely learn what mistakes made your parents unsuccessful
@christinedge7627 Жыл бұрын
I get mixed signals from my parents. They are supportive of my academic and career achievements and push me to achieve greatness there; but are absolutely not supportive of my creative achievements.
@prinscilladugba131 10 ай бұрын
God gave you those gifts. Use them dear .. You will account for everything you had. How did you use them to honour God? You have an account to give to God. People need those gifts. 2Corinthians12:7. You are your gifts. That makes you unique. Don't let anyone steal your identity from you. Much love
@Colabush 9 ай бұрын
Same here
@RobROSjr 3 жыл бұрын
I believe the key word was Respectfully. Being good and being supportive are two different things in that if they’re good parents but don’t support you in your dreams or aspirations, just be respectful loving and continue to honor them but definitely follow your dreams. I can say that from the time I turn 18 I did everything opposite of what my parents told me and even though I may have struggled, I enjoyed everything I did. I was a US Marine for 8 years (my dad wanted me to go in the Air Force). I got married young (parents wanted me to wait till my 30’s) After the military I chose to go to barber/hairstylist school (parents wanted me to get a government job). I’m now retired but I enjoyed everything I did and through it all I always honored my parents and always respectfully disagreed with them and did what I thought was best for me.
@isabellasebree3353 3 жыл бұрын
I was doing a sport for 4 years and I absolutely loved it (my grandparents funded the expenses and drove me to and from competitions and practices) my mom decided to take a out of that sport 2 years ago and I still practice when they aren't looking because I know deep down it's what I am meant to do and I'm passionate about it. My parents HATE that I practice still and they have tried everything to try and make me stop but I say this to them everytime bc of this video (I get that you don't support or like that I do this but I am still going to respectfully disagree and not listen to you)
@mineland66 Жыл бұрын
Same happens to me, but with calisthenics
@xxxxx1208 3 жыл бұрын
It's offical. I am no longer listening to my parents.
@Lonewolfalchemist Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah!! Lets go do some drugs mane!✊🏽😝
@arianathenova 11 ай бұрын
Are you gonna succeed though? My parents would just send me to an orphanage. Hopefully you do though!
@UprightSpitta Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I don’t even want to speak on my situation. Just thank you.
@herben9255 3 жыл бұрын
Coming from an Asian family, our parents expect us children to be exactly like them, hard working, respectful, honest, etc. and I totally understand why. But that leaves us pretending to be our parents. I once joined basketball at school, I played one game till my parents found out taking me off the team. I was supposed to be going to school to be a doctor not a basketball player. Since then the future plans I made for myself disappeared and ended up rebelling, dropping outta school Togo work at a factory. My experience really messed up my head...my parents only supported me when I was doing what THEY wanted me to do. Since I’m the oldest and first gen here in America, I taught all my siblings not to do what I did instead go out and do what they got planned for their future. My parents are old and retired, they now understand and support our decisions. Just wish they understood earlier, maybe things would turn out better. I still love them till this day tho.
@reshmadaniel8001 11 ай бұрын
Sometimes parents don't understand their kids what exactly they are goin through with
@StonedApe94 3 ай бұрын
I’m dealing with my father not wanting to support my business. At 29 I left my 9-5 to pursue making a retail business, 6 months later we are blessed to be having our own brick and mortar. Once you detach yourself from their opinions you arent held back anymore. It feels like riding a bike the first time, it’s feels sketchy and you might fall a couple times but you’ll get better and better to the at it. Everything we learn comes from the failures we endure.
@stonesfan285 Жыл бұрын
totally 100% agree. consider what they have to say, but at the end of the day you must live your own life.
@diabloakland Жыл бұрын
It’s hard tho when they have the finances and you’re underage. I wish i got to do what i wanted.
@freedomisntfreeamerica7151 3 жыл бұрын
My parents did what they were supposed to do. That's how to function in the adult world on my own. They were both pissed that I didn't go to college, yet 20 yrs later, I'm earning five times what both of them did.combined.
@1_Lando 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you 🔥
@JtsuJ 3 жыл бұрын
good stuff! i can’t wait to make it where I want to be... i wanna see how many will treat me differently than they do now
@bub305 3 жыл бұрын
What do you do?
@justfelix30 Жыл бұрын
Damm bro that's Deep that just tells people that college shoudnt be the only way towards success there are other ways and routes that you can choose or take in order to become successful one day and own your own cars and house one day.
@freedomisntfreeamerica7151 Жыл бұрын
@@bub305 I own & run welding my company. As well as my network cabling & communications company. I average 70 hour weeks. My children will take over when I'm gone. I don't plan on retiring.
@littlemy412 3 жыл бұрын
My parents always told me since i was very young that me (and my siblings) are a reflection of them and that every bad or "stupid" thing we do are a reflection of them and they would say " what would others think ? What would your aunts and uncles and cousins think ? They would think that we raised you to be rude" stuff like that and im favorite "i have no stupid child your mother and I are very smart and responsible how could you NOT be ?!" Like cant i make mistakes and cant i feel sad ? They are not the only people affecting my life and mental health things could be happening to me that they dont know because i choose not to tell them because everything they say and do. Because i already know what they would say and do
@husseinalsalahi8590 3 жыл бұрын
Just a heads up. The time until you become successful will suck and it may take a long time.
@noahalliance 3 жыл бұрын
The only challenge I have faced in life is not only my supportive parents , but also the fact that I end up following what they think and latter regret of loosing opportunities, It reached a time where I told my parents that I would like to start off single life but believe me I am trying and seeing change and they are following But it still hurts that they got negativity about what I do and this is my Dad
@TakeDown2175 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t have to worry about this because one abandoned me and the other died so hooray
@1_Lando 3 жыл бұрын
Keep pushing my guy !
@TakeDown2175 3 жыл бұрын
@@1_Lando why
@justfelix30 Жыл бұрын
Damm bro lucky atleast you don't have people dictating over your lives.
@freezingmoon5415 8 ай бұрын
@@justfelix30 Do your parents physically abuse you?? If not then you need to understand the importance of parents
@SauceyNoodle 3 жыл бұрын
Even if I told my parents about my channel they wouldn’t understand or it might make them more scared to see me doing remotely well at something they don’t understand and they’ll call it stupid lmao. Either way I have to keep pursuing this for myself because being some trophy to show off to their friends is not something I’m interested in
@1_Lando 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@alexanderoquendo243 3 жыл бұрын
Omg that profile pic lol
@Juanperezeperese 3 жыл бұрын
I TOLD YOU TO WASH THE DISHES! Me: i guess i will just respectfully not listen
@cosmicreef5858 Жыл бұрын
No. Please live in reality! Being related means NO MORE than being related. That is all! It have NOTHING to do with worth, character and competency. People who LOVES you ACTUALLY loves you. They do not need to be related but can be a parent figure. Because being a parent is about ACTING AS ONE not having a kid.
@aggi3575 Жыл бұрын
I wish my parents were supportive of my acting dream
@proffesorchaos 7 ай бұрын
acting is an amazing skill i believe you can achieve your goal 💪 maybe someday you could be in movies
@science1004 9 ай бұрын
Parents slowly fade away from the opinion and what matters to the child and incline towards making decision for the child. Have one of my parents slowly convert to that and now am in a problematic situation because of him. Pray for me and fam yall my prayers to all 😭
@minuitmidnight8693 3 жыл бұрын
My parents (well i mean my mother ,dad has already killed himself at that time ) just didn't seem to care what i choose as long as i was away, still can't find something to put my passion in 🤷♂️
@1_Lando 3 жыл бұрын
Did your mom lead your dad to killing himself I know it’s personal just curious because that sounds very narcissistic
@Jusher41 3 жыл бұрын
When people say I cant, I work better. When they say I can, it doesn't feel like a challenge and rather not do it anymore then.😂 Haha weird
@jackoneill1745 3 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't this still suggest that your motivation is coming from others? And is not based off of an intrinsic value
@1_Lando 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed💯
@anushree8984 Жыл бұрын
my mom loved me the most pampered me, so i will do like how she wants when i'm older but i don't want to and that's the time everything seem diffrent😔
@zhrah1733 Жыл бұрын
It's not about not listening to them It's about they don't care about me and believe me what I had been is every parents dream child , be thankful to the support
@marencalma13 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, NOT ALL parents love their children.
@ryneagheilim9782 7 ай бұрын
Me and my wife have our two year old daughter and we are raising her with no support from my parents at all. It's super tough, most of our neighbours with kids often have their parents babysitting after their child and if you ever have that, you SHOULD feel like you have all the luck in the world! If youre unsupported but youre still living in your parent's house, that's easy. The hardest part is when you have a child already and they dont support you at all.
@heladds 11 ай бұрын
needed this when i was a young lady...i came to this country when I was a teen from overseas and from a culture where u dont go against ur parents ...i needed this...
@HMD1986- 3 жыл бұрын
If your parents are not rich it’s not big deal . But if they are supportive and not just make you without plan you have great chance to success. If you don’t have both of them you have too fight very hard which needs big sacrifice
@AcubensDesign 3 жыл бұрын
Just work hard and show them the result
@1_Lando 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t do anything to impress anybody who doesn’t believe in you they will always find a fault or a negative in you just pace yourself and live your life !
@anushree8984 Жыл бұрын
@@1_Lando yess💯💯
@agastyajain4129 Жыл бұрын
they still wouldn't care
@arianathenova 11 ай бұрын
Every time I don't listen to my parents they withhold my food and even my rights to do my HOMEWORK, let alone have fun. It's really hard for me to not listen to them, even if I do it respectfully as she thinks that talking back to parents get sent to hell. Honestly it makes me feel like a moneybag for when they retire.
@lifelonglearner1863 3 жыл бұрын
I love this, he also mentioned in his book.
@aboosama1664 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man i know i am late but can you tell me his name and his book name??
@lifelonglearner1863 3 жыл бұрын
@@aboosama1664 no worries, i think that book is, Jab Jab and Crush it. both by this guy.
@raman2726 Жыл бұрын
Wow great logic. Instead of answering just say question is not correct.
@JellyGang680 6 ай бұрын
Ty, my dad and mom would 100% support my dream/passionte but i live with grandparents who does not know much about modern music so they dont suppoet my dream on becoming a drill/trap rapper but ima keep pushing my dream regardless, no nigga gon tell me what to do with my dreams ima achieve my dream as a successful drill/trap rapper
@masa4279 10 ай бұрын
An unsupported parent can also not want their child to succeed
@jcenterprisesjc 3 жыл бұрын
Great answer RESPECTFULLY!!!!!!!!!!
@Bigbeats673 Жыл бұрын
My dad always understands and supports me in every descidion but my mom never ever. She thinks that I should that what she likes and believes. She is overprotective to me. She never allows me to leave home to fullfil my dreams. But I Have decided to leave home to prove myself becoming a successful singer.
@jalenrushing811 3 жыл бұрын
That’s very true my parents won’t think I can do something then when I do it they’re so happy. It’s not that they don’t want you to do it they just don’t want you to fail and they don’t want to let go
@elisazouza Жыл бұрын
Idk for me…when I got a job, it’s not about success for them like they just want more than that. Like I’m working towards my success but it still won’t be good enough
@muninnsmith7958 3 жыл бұрын
My parents and I had a very tenuous relationship for a while. I just went for a long walk with my mom.
@cannashiva9719 3 жыл бұрын
true as it gets- if I had listened- I would be way behind in my eyes- let alone eating a super shit if I had listened....best thing anyone who is worried about others suffering can do is worry about themselves- this way they can slowly knock out obstacle after obstacle until one cannot easily be blown over with the slightest wind...by doing this you show others/ and your self another " possible " way to success- in return you will be able to help everyone you choose- listen to your heart- don't do bad on others and little by little your life will start to form in front of your eyes.
@laurabeltt 3 жыл бұрын
I literally just watched a video of him saying “tell your parents to fuck off” and now in this one he’s saying “respectfully” 🤣
@purple9687 Жыл бұрын
Him: Giving meaningful advice Her: "Yuhh"
@Maryann2024 7 ай бұрын
I just wanted to come to this video because I'm so mad at my parents right now cause my mom asked me if I wanted to go to town or not, I needed time to think because I I wanted to go for what I needed but then my lazy little brother doesn't like going out cause he prefers to stay home then going out so I had a tough time thinking, then I slightly said "I'll stay," and then right when I began saying it she walked away. Then she was telling my dad how I didn't answer he and when I told my dad I told my mom wanted to stay, she was then telling him I never said that and they started yelling at me🙄💔😤
@indiahardy3726 11 ай бұрын
Omg I needed to hear this. I clipped this video
@Faith63423 9 ай бұрын
And she says I'm a bad parent, WHAT KIND OF THINGS HAS SHE BEEN WATCHING?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!
@Akanapocalypse 8 ай бұрын
Not all parents love their children and do see their kids as an extension of themselves instead of seeing their children as individuals with their own unique potential. Some parents have kids because they want someone to depend on them, make them feel more superior than they actually are, and push someone around who is younger than them. There's a lot of parents with narcissistic traits or disorders unfortunately.
@stephenphilipps Жыл бұрын
Well said thanks Gary don't need this from my folks
@ashtonmaupin3440 3 жыл бұрын
Not my parents I was told at a very young age that I was just a obligation, never supporting at all
@tumweonlycommentary2797 11 ай бұрын
Parents also do not listen to their children too. So the children are using what they were taught through their Parents behavior and actions. Don't hate the player, hate the game lol
@user-qu2hg1mb5z 11 ай бұрын
Exactly some parents are crazy because they haven't achieved anything in life but misery
@arjunbhattarai6572 7 ай бұрын
Parents is that love their child no to hate them like only that girls can relate some parents are their that they love their only sons not their daughter they had been nice to their sons and toxic to their daughter all childrens are same not hate not to be toxic they are equal only some girls can relate. And I'm the part of one girls 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️
@evanratuhtulexd8514 Жыл бұрын
Even though I’m just a kid my parents tell me to live my life like there’s no tomorrow but I do that and have fun but they don’t give me priority to do anything fun they just make me go to school eat home work free time sleep repeat It’s like hell
@neptune0909 3 жыл бұрын
So true!!
@reflex4948 8 ай бұрын
I really wanna join the Air Force but my mother and most of my family all don’t want me to. They did almost everything they could to keep me from it. Everything from talking to me for hours about how “I’m better than that” and even withholding things like my social security card and birth certificate so I couldn’t join. But alas, here I am, 19 years old, and a senior in high school. I’m going to sign the papers tomorrow and I have everything I need to do it.
@alilapi9651 7 ай бұрын
you got great dreams bro keep following your passions dont let people stop and serve your country
@mrheart8219 3 жыл бұрын
Who else watched one video of this guy cause you were bored now watch his shorts?. Now don't get me wrong I like him but not fully. He's okay in my opinion. But tbh he's pretty cool. Keep it up man
@user-hw3ld6dt7e 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true
@manamana7873 7 ай бұрын
Every dream I've ever had, everything I've ever wanted to be from the age of 10 to current day, from being a solder in the military, a mechanic, a dancer, a singer, an animator, a nurse, a midwife, a missionary, a baker, and even a stay at home mom, my dad has shot down every single one of those dreams. I told him, a stay at home dad, i wanted to be a stay at home mom, and he LAUGHED in my FACE. I dont know what to do. I didnt want to tell him about wanting to be a missionary because I knew he might woukd say no, but i figured since it was about God, he might just be proud of me, but no. Nothing i do ever seems to please him. The only thing that would make him happy is me working in corporate america or as an engineer. Ive been shot down so many times that i dont even know what i want to do anymore. I dont know who I am. I dont know. I just dont know anymore.
@moxty2795 Жыл бұрын
Like Wise Men once Said: Some of Them Good and Some of Them Shit
@Dreamer121 3 жыл бұрын
I love this man
@swaggirl4eva231 6 ай бұрын
My parents always telling me to do talking about you life with nobody making me so mad
@technogamerzfc4815 2 жыл бұрын
Because of their money and support we can move forward . It can't happen wt ur saying . If we can't listen to them our life is in problem. Otherwise we listen to them also problem for us only . For that what we want 2 do
@freak10b92 Жыл бұрын
extaclyy your right
@baslielalene4702 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@LolGuy-cq7dg 7 ай бұрын
It was about 5-6 years ago, my parents supported my elder sister in archery and spent literally 600k on her, but now she just a college student...meanwhile me who is still scoring goals in school football , parents yelling me on why do i even play football? Whats the scope in that , they didnt even tried supporting me but supporting my sister who did nothing 💔maybe i was step 😒
@avaranabraham8507 Жыл бұрын
Indian parents should watch this
@wackyfox7398 Жыл бұрын
My mother pretends to be supportive but clearly she is bad at it. She thinks that I don't stand a chance to be successful at all (there are many facts as to why my self esteem sucks) while dad is still buying us milk. Don't let me mention on people who are called "friends" I made this comment for people with same issue to know that there are I believe unfortunately many that goes through same problems (cyber bullying sucks too)🦋☺️
@tobin3327 9 ай бұрын
can someone help me ? my mom and dad Barely let me go outside.. im 15 and im pretty sure i went outside like 5 times this whole year im just depressed now i hate my life so much i genuinely just thinking of ending it and everytime i tell them they never listen i literally just wanna go out and do things im not even asking for anything big
@DONTlookiDoArt Жыл бұрын
I ruined my life by listening to my idiotic mother and she told me to go to school what I don't want to do and not I'm stuck with a bill and i need to complete the school but my dad was stealing from me I couldn't complete my school fully
@cuberguyd9589 8 ай бұрын
I started taking cold showers everyday like 3 months ago. I saw an article at the internet that some people sleep better with cold showers but some people sleep better with warm showers. I tried taking warm showers for 3 days and I slept better. So now I knew that I had too take warm showers from now on before sleep but I didnt want too lose the benefits of cold showers so I wanted too start a new morning routine where I take a cold shower every morning before school and warm shower before sleep but my parents Just simply didnt LET me do it because "its cold in the morning outside and with the shower u will have better chances catching a cold" even tho its not true and now im clueless. Anyone has advice for me?
@ms.Waldorf 9 ай бұрын
My mum wants me to get a job as a cashier but when I tell her I want to volunteer in a hospital instead because it aligns with my goal, she did not seem pleased 🤔 is the love with us in the room?
@Aa11_2sjsj Жыл бұрын
My family doesnt support me at all, I try my Best to study as hard as I can but it Just doesnt go. They only want me to be the reflection of my succesfull sister. I am really tired of them saying that ill never be able to become a pro footballer
@MEOVVYZ Жыл бұрын
I have an unsupportive parents they blame everything on me even if its not my fault if i did good things or get the highest grade its still not enought from them i don't know how long ive been smiling now in my place only in school my classmates make ne laugh
@Faith63423 9 ай бұрын
I'm trying not to cry, but my whole family is treating me like I've done something like the Americas mist wanted ppl do. my cat got into the wax warmer and burned her paw, and they blame me, they say I "put her hand in it" I mean how stupid! cats do things like that! yes I'm responsible, but being mean to me is crazy! my mom says I play on my phone every night, no I don't! be quiet! I love momma but I want her to be nice to me! 😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😭😭😭
@FootballFreak-h7s 11 күн бұрын
Long story ahead 😊 Hello there , I am already 16 , people say me it's too late and India doesnt have that infrastructure but these things don't affect me. I want to become a footballer and i had been convincing my parents since a very long time . Yesterday , it was the last time i talked about football with my parents and i won't talk about it anymore to them about it because my mum said that if i pursue football as a career she would either k₹ll herself or she would k₹ll me . She says you could do suicide . I don't know why this happened yesterday . Literally , nobody is supporting . I was nevercaffected by somebody's opinions about me but they are my parents . Today , i took the decision that i would never play football in my life and i smashed away football out of my house 😢😢 I Quit ..... I wanted to play for India...... If somebody has a solution please let me know ❤😢
@dericmedley8800 3 жыл бұрын
What microphone is that, I see it everywhere and cannot find it
@Zaprixa 3 жыл бұрын
Real.
@allnighterist 3 жыл бұрын
parents: go to college pick any course u want well support you, but if you dont, then we wont give u free food and money. daughter: fine ill be just tiktoker, or ill make an onlyfans acc, its easier to make money there anyway.
@xelio9050 3 жыл бұрын
Well its logical that they want their kids to go in a path that guarantees their dignity by providing stable income, rather than being a tiktoker which is very unstable and un-guaranteed to provide good income... some people after finishing highschool (if they even do) end up being lazy and living off of their parents so its important that parents show that there is a line and limit to that so that they force their kid to start seriously thinking about their future.
@kopalsharma5728 Жыл бұрын
wanna prove them wrong so badly
@Quietguy00 Жыл бұрын
I have a dream for creating video games but my parents wants me to go to school witch waste my whole life only experience from school was troublemaker that all
@soniakumari5226 3 жыл бұрын
They still listen and copy them
@mattyjackson1285 Жыл бұрын
When you have unsupportive parents, rip them off in their garage sail-Gary Vee
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