A true man of God will live as though he has no wife. He will love you, he will lay down his life for you, but he will not allow your flesh or his to dominate the marriage & lead y’all away from the purpose & will of God. Do not expect him to take you to the movies, go on expensive dates, spend a week vacationing in Hawaii. He will be hated & persecuted & despised for the sake of the gospel. He will not take your family or friends feelings into consideration. He will not chase money or worldly comfort. This is a man who is dead to the flesh & only Christ lives in him. You must count the cost before deciding to become one flesh with a man who is dead to himself, because you will then become dead with him, that Christ may live & be glorified through both of you. It sounds miserable to the deceived, but this is real freedom, real peace, real joy, real love. Foolishness to those perishing, but the wisdom of God to us who believe.

Amen❤

I got 274 verses memorized

True word

@@trevrockrock16 James 1:22

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That isn’t the issue. The issue is our government and how women are so eager to just end it all for free money ie child support, alimony and whatever else. Women file 85% of divorces. Look up statistics. Also divorces have risen to 65% percent because marriage has been descending quite rapidly and so have birth rates in the US. Men don’t want contracts anymore where they lose more than half of their estate and pay almost 40% of their income for 18 years or much longer in spousal support (never goes away).

I truly feel sorry for your misled generation. You take the exact same thought patterns as the culture and just put a veneer of different "cultures"to see what it sticks. Like your forefathers you are still shopping but not stuff, just an identity. This is not the Gospel is shameful pride and worldly idolatry with a veneer of religiosity.

Best comment So true 👍🏽 👌🏽

Amen to that ❤

That what I yearn for is a woman like this with the same values as well and truly values the faith and puts Jesus first in her life and has prayer, Scripture, and knows how to speak to my heart a lot of times when I need that extra boost of encouragement and tenderness to get up and protect what I would have with her in my worst moments.

Is she hot like the one in the video?

@@Justyouraverageguy172 there’s women who have values like this and who will talk to you the way you want them to talk to you and encourage you as you say. There’s tons of fat ugly girls who share those values that you’re talking about. Marry one of them and you’ll have exactly what you want. Good luck to you.

Is you’re wife hot like the girl in this video?

Is your wife hot like the woman in this video?

We’re rooting for you!

Keep going! 🙌🏻 pray for God to give you hunger for His word

you can do it! pray that the fire and desire inside you to read the word, never dies and only gets stronger. and when you’ve finished, do it all again!

God bless you well and through Holy Spirit, our father, you will. 🥰

That’s an amazing story God bless.

God is great, thank you for sharing your testimony ❤

AMEN

I’m right here plus no man who fornicates will enter the kingdom of God you know I understand now God has opened my eye I will never be with anyone who dosent love Jesus and live by his commandments and his decrees I used to be very wild God put all of it to a stop I will tell you well I’ll testify to you if you want to talk and you can tell me your story I won’t be with anyone who can’t love me for me and be there no matter what I have taken a vow of celabcy in till marriage wich I don’t k ow will Weber happen again but no real big hurry God will open doors and guide and lead me and whoever I’m with if anyone ever again

I'm sure she's a godly woman and still a virgin. Don't listen to what women say, watch their actions. Plenty women who talk like this have dated nothing but drug dealers and other criminal thugs. You don't know how many std's she got before she started talking like this. Hell, ex-porn stars often talk like this.

Amen brother

Ohh yes you want a servant that you can abuse as in your vile book

He is also blessed to have you as a wife 😁😁😁

He aint too bright huh

These girls are frauds lol the beautiful one tried her hand in Hollywood and failed look it up

Same I’m sick of being single

@@trevrockrock16 it doesn’t matter if it’s not in the Bible. If God gives you a desire to marry, then clearly he would want you to marry.

Lifting you up in prayer. Lord Jesus, you know the desires of their hearts. I lift these Godly men up to you. We ask you Jesus to lead these men in your direction. May they have a heart after you. Send them the women you have chosen for each of them. Thank you for sending them women who are equally yoked. We thank you for the women you have separated just for them. Women who have a heart after you. Women who fulfill their purposes to you. Guide these men and lead them to be the righteous men you've created them to be. Refresh their hearts, thoughts, minds and souls. May they each be focused and centered on Christ Jesus. May they lead and come alongside their spouses to fulfill each others purposes for your glory. We thank you Jesus for your leading. We thank you in advance for sending them their loving wives within your appointment time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen🙏

@@caramela4830 peace and blessings be with you

@@trevrockrock16 God gives us choice. We all understand that. However, praying for direction to be led isn't biblically incorrect. We are to pray about everything as stated in Phillipians. There is nothing wrong with praying and asking God for direction. He is faithful to guide. He can direct to the right one or remove the wrong one out. If we dare to ask, he will lead. God is a sweetheart.

Amen to that sis!! 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️

These girls are frauds

Why not ask God for healing? God bless.

Ignore the Christian aspect. Waiting for marriage is the SINGLE best thing a woman can do to give her value, and the single best thing she can use to lock down a high quality man for life. Furthermore, studies show that for every man a woman has been with before marriage SUBSTANTIALLY decreases the chances she will be happy in her marriage and/or not cheat. It goes from 80% to 20% after just five guys. Ignore society where being a living f'doll is considered empowered. NO MAN of value wants a woman like that for a wife. Stay strong, do not waiver. Have REALISTIC standards for the man you are looking for. If you think you are a ten, re-evaluate yourself.

They're not real😅 they're reading off notes

Keep praying for a godly woman brother. 🙏🏾

Most women are pretenders....those who are actually dedicated to God has their Strong role playing Fathers

Become who u ought to be, u will soon after find ur help meet. Never depend on a woman to make u who u ought to be. She only comes to help u fulfill ur God given vision

Stop watching teenagers giving you advice and look for Scripture and prayer first, then other men who have walked the path. Think Paul Washer. None of this stuff on KZfaq is real by itself. Check heart cry missionary society and their series on biblical men. That one has a real world side. What they're doing is literally no different than what advanced pickup artists like Tyler Durden teach after they were at it for a while, since he started using his name, Owen. It's Christ consciousness and is missing something of the real gospel. Sounds like self help to me. There's something off with this channel and the message in it. Sounds authentic on the surface but it's missing the true Gospel of salvation. I get it now, God is like a subservient genie on their framework. If you fill a check list and hit a few 'key' concepts you'll be blessed. This is almost like a prosperity Gospel. It's a Mirage of the real Gospel. I was you on the secular world 15 years ago. Through my marriage and the suffering in it, God saved me and my wife for eternal life. That's what really matters. Ask yourself this question, would you still be faithful to a Holy God if he didn't gave you what you want? What is the Gospel about? Think about Jeremiah and the book of lamentations, would these so called women of God who wear as much make up, have Botox lips and super symmetric faces still truly believe in God based on their trust on His Character if they didn't get the results they want? Or would they curse God and turn their back on Him. Most importantly what would you do if you never get a girlfriend because you never met these women's so called standards? Who are they judge if they themselves are such sinners as they claim to have been but are now so sanctified and spiritually superior. Is that truly the fruit of the spirit or something else?

There are plenty, brother. Make sure you’re looking in the right places (even in church - not everybody in church is a true Christian).

@girlylynn12 He turns up when you work together. He leads you in what you're already great at.

Done riding the carousel ay lynn?

If you spent the first 25+ years of your life being ran thru like a train, Jesus will forgive all of it, but no REAL MAN, Christian included, will ever view you as wife material. Just being honest.

@@2GunRock What an angry and sad person you are. Your “honesty” was not warranted nor anything a “Christian man” would say. I hope you get closer to God and try to work on yourself as well. Not sure what compelled you to say that to a complete stranger other than hurt people hurt people.

What does it cost a man to forgive her past ? It cost Jesus his life to forgive ours !

You can.....god bles you

for real

Shes a failed Hollywood actress wake up

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@@jordanwilliams8040 I seen she's going to be in a demonic movie ( actually about demons) this after she said no one should celebrate Halloween - its demonic, and promotes witchcraft? Then they talked about modesty but yet they post pictures' on internet of themselves in bikini and less then christian modest clothing. They're christian until it comes to the almighty dollar. I call BS.

What does this Proverb have to do with the values of a godly man for marriage? I agree with the Proverb though.

They're hot girls that went to Hollywood to find fame and then found a niche wake up are you not hearing their fake voices ?

Money, height, status, job, and the other 500 things they use to exclude genuinely decent men.

You know, I 1000000% agree with these girls. I want all of that, but I also want someone who has a good paying job. I want a lot of kids, I want to take care of my kids at home, I want the luxury of staying home for my husband and being the best wife that God is making me into. For that, unfortunately, a man does need to be well off. It’s just reality. This does not mean he has to make 6 figures, but he sure does need to be working his butt off. All of this to say that it’s possible to want a man like this and a man with money. It isn’t a bad thing. Just like men go for women who are youthful. At least status could be achieved but youthfulness could not.

@@Santanaaaxx What you are seeking is very reasonable and understandable. However, that’s NOT what ladies these days look for.. they want a guy who has the looks, the status, gobs of money (not just six figure salary) and can be manipulated. What they forget is with that glamour comes a lot of players and charlatans with no character. So the marriage lasts shorter period than their dating life :)

I'm sorry you got hurt so much. Women, like men, are fallen. Just as the Isrealites kept chasing after idols when they had the Glory of God dwelling among them, all of us have that tendency. But some people choose to be right with God and themselves. Of course, that choice of theirs would be their judge at the end but being pessimistic about it won't help either. Don't expect too much of people (not even yourself) but don't lose hope in the Good either. ❤

@@lounaannajung4454 That really helped me. Thank you so much. I have most of my life together in a better way than most people, but yet I struggle with finding a godly woman. Most women view the church like a glorified social club. I do not wish to waste my marriage on anything or anyone who will not glorify God better with us being together than either of us can individually. I want to give a lovely daughter of God the best life spiritually, financially, relationally, and emotionally. I want to die for her in a sacrificial way.

these woman might not go for some badboy,but dont even think for second that they will choose some short guy who is not good looking but loves God and reads Bible every day....how many times you saw comments from christian girls who say that is difficult to find a real man who loves God....that is BS....i saw a lot of christian man who love Jesus but guess what they dont have wife and children and then you ask woman why dont they go for those guys and they tell that they dont feel that "spark" lol even the bible says that people look at the outside of a person

my husband is white, muscular, tattoos, heck, he did 17 years in prison and WAS the complete opposite of what she’s describing. but he has turned his life around in unbelievable ways and is a godly man now with the most beauty soul and gracious heart. stereotypes and outward appearances are not everything. edit: oh and i’m 5’2” and he’s 5’5”. met him when he was living with his sister fresh out of prison. our first conversation was about how people eat poop sandwiches in prison.

@@monkaZETTA Glory to God if anything I uttered helped you find hope again! When I first met my fiancé, I wasn't even Christian (I was raised Muslim and live in a Muslim country) and would've never thought I'd ever become one. I arrogantly thought I'd be the one introducing him to the One True God. But despite him not being overtly Christian and not going to Church that often he still had that spark in him. He didn't even evangelize to me and had his own struggle with agnosticism and doubt. Yet, he taught me how Christ loves. I met Christ only a couple of years ago in mid December 2021. I'll pray for you brother! Maybe your lady won't be what you're expecting at first. But I have faith, if someone as arrogant as me, could see Christ in the love of my life and risk everything, even my life, to follow Him ; you have very high chances of finding the Godly woman you're looking for. May you be as Godly and ready for her when she's there. And if not, may God help you get everything ready asap to marry her.

Why wouldn't she?

@@salex3766 a Christian woman should honor and praise her man, not the other way around

@@TrumpStagedShooting the same why men are meant to be protectors and providers but where are they?

6 ft 6 figures 6 inches. Then hopefully hes a godly man

If women have God why do they need to respect/listen to her husband so the word is not blasphemed? Why did Sarah call Abraham Lord? Why does a husband need to present his wife holy and blameless before God? When did God breath into Eve? He that knoweth love knoweth God. Jesus had no female disciples. Not one book in the bible was written by a woman because God did not allow women in the ministry. I study with humility because I made God my God.

​@@markwillhite9200 bruh in early years of Christianity women spread gospels.

A guy I work with is only like 5’6” 5’7” and only makes a little more than me and he does pretty well with the ladies. He does work out and takes care of himself, and he’s pretty tough too, former high school wrestler. It does suck when you feel like genetics aren’t on your side: I’m going bald, but when you let things like that make you insecure then women will notice that insecurity. I mean, when a girl like these two take good care of their bodies then it would make sense if he also takes good care of his body, right?

Your worldly.