What To Look For In A Wife - Shaykh Hamza Yusuf

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Speaker : Shaykh Hamza Yusuf

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@SaintNektarios 6 жыл бұрын

I am a Catholic who deeply admires Hamza Yusuf.

@smilepti 6 жыл бұрын

Traditional Puritan peace and blessing be upon you !

@yasinrahmati7750 5 жыл бұрын

Respect! May Allah guide you and all of us.

@dondandan1687 5 жыл бұрын

May allah guid us all to the goodness of this life and the hereafter inshalla.. :-)

@halfhuman2.0 5 жыл бұрын

Welcome to you

@danh4435 4 жыл бұрын

Accept islam so you attain peace in this world and the next

@briank8697 6 жыл бұрын

I have learned more about islam from KZfaq than actually living in a muslim country

@rizvvan21 4 жыл бұрын

Because on youtube..your intentions was to learn. And intentions define the path.

@ayhamshaheed7740 4 жыл бұрын

worfoz you didn’t even understand his comment lol. I assume you’re right wing?

@ayhamshaheed7740 4 жыл бұрын

worfoz Id say I do. But I don’t think you understood what his comment meant, judging by your little rant up there (which by the way, makes you look arrogant, offensive, massively ignorant, and is obviously offensive)

@sadiqali6116 3 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you with Islam

@anwarbey5428 3 жыл бұрын

in reality there is no muslim country in the world right now

@hayinka7691 7 жыл бұрын

it's really so hard to find someone who is fully oriented to Akhira at this time and age!

@why4818 7 жыл бұрын

some guy I think it may be your perception of what you think orientated to the akhira is, it doesn't have to be someone who wears niqaab and prays all night, as long as they DESIRE to get close to Allah and will work on achieving that, surely that should be enough for you, sometimes you have to look at yourself and realise you have defects too so you may never find what you're looking for until you change your perception, for me anyone who DESIRES to get closer to Allah is enough as long as they're willing to take steps to get closer to Allah that's enough for me because we're all sinners and we can help each other get there it will be easier accepting someone has defects once you look at your sins and defects :)

@hayinka7691 7 жыл бұрын

WHY I completely Agree, but as the shaykh put it, I want some who truly understands the NATURE OF THIS WORLD, and of course no one is perfect we all did somethings we are not proud of, but you should be willing to get better instead stubbornly insisting it. All what i meant was the people who hold such way of thinking are rare bread nowadays

@neosomaliana 7 жыл бұрын

WHY That's quite an introspective point. One that would be lost on most unfortunately because of their lack of self-awareness

@EliteRowmaster 7 жыл бұрын

The outward world is a reflection of that which is within. Work on yourself and you'll become like the great imams who could not find fault in those who tortured them.

@tagourramt5082 5 жыл бұрын

Are you talking about yourself?

@fawziyah4713 7 жыл бұрын

Great video Shukran katheer .Lets not forget to send blessings to our Beloved Rasuulullaah (SAW) as its Friday today . Peace be upon you all

@aosaleh97 7 жыл бұрын

Bamber Banbury you got issues and no life to be trolling this channel. May allah guide you to the right path

@worfoz 6 жыл бұрын

Muslims you got issues and no life to be trolling this internet. And also islam is a sect and muslims worship muhammed and his idea allah. No muslim can prove allah is something else than a thought of muhammed. So stop polluting internet with your offensive idea that a warlord can be a prophet, and that everyone must obey the laws made up by some filthy child rapist. Without any proof that is.

4 жыл бұрын

@@worfoz you will be held accountable for your words..please provide all the evidence for your vile statements...you r just a parrot who most likely has ailments such as adhd and probably of prescription medication (anti depressants) i wont even waste my breath praying for you

@worfoz 4 жыл бұрын

@ why do you ask me to tell you about YOUR lies, my friend? why do you ask, can't you read yourself? YOU can not prove anything, because YOU only have your child rapists lies, so back up YOUR claims instead of accusing ME falsely. So you lie about medication, like all muhamedans you make up lies because that's all you bastards can do, so childish. muhamed was a child rapist, we all know that, and your messed up corrupt quran orders you to use terror and leis to defend that child rapist reputation. I asked you to give proof, you answered with lies and insults,and yes,you WILL be held accountable for defending child rape, terror and lies, we WILL come for you, expect us. We know your sect and your books, you worship a child rapist who lied that earth is flat, and you can not proof any of muhameds stupid lies. You even deny and lie about this: sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70 so read the quran and those fake ahadith, my ignorant friend, and stop parroting that child raping bastard muhamed, because he was a pagan fraud

@worfoz 4 жыл бұрын

@ please understand that this proves that your fake prophet was nothing but a child raping bastard terrorist: sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70 sunnah.com/bukhari/67/93 sunnah.com/abudawud/12/76 sunnah.com/nasai/26/60 sunnah.com/bukhari/63/122 sunnah.com/muslim/16/82 sunnah.com/nasai/26/61 sunnah.com/muslim/16/84 sunnah.com/urn/1261940 sunnah.com/muslim/16/81 and alla is NOT the God of Abram, Isaac and Jacob, the God of the true prophets demon alla is the idol of slaves, descendants of unmarried slave Hagar and her bastard son Ismael, who was expelled from Abrams house and lineage and do NOT talk about books you never read check the lies you are forced to believe in, one by one: there is not ONE single truth in your corrupt books but there is a lot of terror, rape and crimes your quran promotes and glorifies you really should try and read it, my most arrogant and ignorant parrot

@faiz8569 2 жыл бұрын

Marry for: 1. Wealth - can be lost 2. Honour - Ancestors 3. Lineage - person might not be nice 4. Beauty - Fades 5. Deen - afterlife oriented - Lasts

@inkofknowledge 7 жыл бұрын

Please don't for get to Like and Share this whole series with family and friends! Jazak'Allah Khair.

@jamaacatulkheyr5567 7 жыл бұрын

inkofknowledge insha allah

@untouchableali 7 жыл бұрын

inkofknowledge Salam, just a kind humble request, please refrain from adding the aaaaahhhh vocals, it really retracts from the lecture. I've seen many people raise this issue on many videos. May Allah reward you. Wassalam

@Amin-bx5ge 7 жыл бұрын

"Like" even before watching the video. Sheikh Hamza Yusuf truly is a jem and inspiration for this Ummah. May Allah give him a long life and reward ink of knowledge for uploading these videos

@rw9325 Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@siyamahmed9907 5 жыл бұрын

I love how is clam and explains in detail for those of us that were not born in to islam family and converted and is seeking islam

@thehumblecompanions2703 4 жыл бұрын

I adore you sheikh.... You speak with intelligence May Allah bless you and grant you the loftiest heights in Jannatul firdaus. Ameen

@syedtahmad3021 3 жыл бұрын

I adore him too!

@ajmalvks 7 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless the people behind this channel and my fav. Shykh Hamza Yousuf.💖

@Mohamedabdi-bb9lh 5 жыл бұрын

Wow Ma Sha Allah first time I heard talk About Somalia. I'm Somalian been Following Him for Years!!!

@mikeandrozy 3 жыл бұрын

Wow Hamza Yousef is a gift to our times

@PeaceGod8904 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for this lessons. They are very éducative.

@issasuwedi8082 7 жыл бұрын

analytical, well articulated~

@maq739 7 жыл бұрын

Ink of Knowledge must have a Telegram channel. May Allah (SWT) preserve Shaykh Hamza Yusuf (Damat Barakatuhum) for the guidance of Ummah. Ameen

@BruvahSulaiman 6 ай бұрын

It seems simple enough, but many ppl don't understand this. If you marry someone for a superficial reason (every reason other than for the sake of Allah) then you may be stuck with liking nothing about them other than that 1 thing, or that one thing (could be wealth or beauty) may go away after 6 months, a year, 6 years, etc, and then you'll be stuck with someone you don't like who no longer has the only thing you liked about them.

@basitseraj5191 6 жыл бұрын

Guys we should make dua for him in'sha ALLAH

@rtimitarelgha611 6 жыл бұрын

marriage can only work out with love and deen, other than that, no guarantee but uncertainty. no guarantee for wealth, lineages, covetnenouss, and status. may Allah guide us all to the reality

@mdkhan3928 10 ай бұрын

Comparability is essential - then beauty/Deen. Simplz.😎

@quantumo2099 4 жыл бұрын

SubhanaAllah!

@sukainabanu5870 5 жыл бұрын

Yep, V. True Mary a person whch last frever is the deen in the marriages😍😍👌👌👍👍🙏jazakllh

@palebluedot285 6 жыл бұрын

Masha ALLAH

@camelsellam9061 6 жыл бұрын

I wish I had listened to this video before I got married .

@oldschool5707 5 жыл бұрын

Why lol?

@thefriend.353 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

@halfhuman2.0 5 жыл бұрын

Oh no, i want to listen to the story, i love stories

@MyMoshi123 3 жыл бұрын

@@oldschool5707 u

@omarkhan9515 3 жыл бұрын

@soccer90tem80 5 жыл бұрын

Why every islamic video has this background voice its time to stop!

@jsidsid8434 Жыл бұрын

We believe nowadays character good habits healthy life style strong character strong family background is very important

@mohamedchaleh 7 жыл бұрын

i love hamza yusef..but realy hate the background noise..

@NotTooTechnicalPlease 6 жыл бұрын

Mohamed Chaleh i too dislike it when religious videos are edited this way. Having that vocals don’t add anything at all!

@johney3105 4 жыл бұрын

wow mashallah

@zapy422 6 жыл бұрын

Al hamdoulilah Jazzakhala Khairan 1. Wealth 2. Lineage 3. Beauty 4. Deen. aware of the nature of the world. Hayira oriented people. Choose the one with Deen and you will be successful. The first tree are all ephemeral reasons. They are not a guarantee for success. Get them angry and see how they react. May Allah grants us great wives and husbands.

@sareerahmadmir811 4 жыл бұрын

Jaza ka Allah shaykh

@ahmedelgamal5785 2 жыл бұрын

Great content, the background music needs to gooooo

@1234abcd12344 3 жыл бұрын

Great lecture but terrible background music/sound.

@dhulkiflmcknight2275 5 жыл бұрын

Allaah Akbar..

@abubakarsiddiquishaiks2nda653 3 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah.

@jyotivyas9286 5 жыл бұрын

Love from Bharat🇮🇳🕉️🇮🇳🔥🕉️🇮🇳🔥🕉️To Dear Shaikh Hamza Yusuf jee!! Namaskaaram 🙏🏵️

@shoaibislam1573 5 жыл бұрын

Respect from Bangladesh

@redrabbit253 7 жыл бұрын

Alhamduillah.

@jyotivyas9286 5 жыл бұрын

The days are not bad.. people change... Not days,and time. Matter of Energy associating with Time & Space! ! This is The Great Secret I Acknowledged and faced and Encountered. . As Tought By My Great Almighty Master Osho .. ..🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍✌️✌️✌️🙌🙌🙌🌴🌴🌴

@meyranwarfaa4618 6 жыл бұрын

Did he say calamity? Clans marry each other , however its a preference to do within ones clan but never a calamity. Subhanallah

@omarkhan9515 3 жыл бұрын

Please pray for me I'm looking for a wife and it is very confusing, lots of options but then gets even more confusing.

@inkofknowledge 3 жыл бұрын

May Allah make it easy for you, brother!

@lostintranslation286 4 жыл бұрын

Please upload without background!

@96i97 7 жыл бұрын

Assalamu alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh!

@fawziyah4713 7 жыл бұрын

Walaykum As salaam warahmatullaahi Wabarakaatuh

@ibrahimabdul-jalil827 7 жыл бұрын

Foziya Mohamed

@alayafarah1200 3 жыл бұрын

Please I want to see the original video of this lecture .. can anyone please give me the link to this lecture . Thanks in advance.

@X152535 4 жыл бұрын

I wish there was a way to turn off the background noise

@X152535 4 жыл бұрын

@@worfoz This is not your channel, you're only trying to get people to unsubscribe. Clever but petty.

@abdulhakeembinmoosa 4 жыл бұрын

May Allah Almighty bless me to marry and make me a good husband.🤗

@taylorahmed3356 3 жыл бұрын

How can I judge if a person is pious in an arranged marriage

@princessfizzarizvi 3 жыл бұрын

What does deen really means. What to look for

@SuperSK73 7 жыл бұрын

Asalam o Alikum, As Shaykh said we have to look for Deen but what about personality match isn't it Important that both should have complementing nature?

@haye702 7 жыл бұрын

SK Niazi brother if anyone got deen it means they're in the best personality ever and they do their rights of husbands..look at up

@rizvvan21 4 жыл бұрын

I think when you are with someone who has same personality like yours. Rather than affection ... competitive nature of human overtakes. May be I am wrong but that was my observation.

@muhammadalijauhar3553 3 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️

@TruthfulAndHumble 7 жыл бұрын

I am Somali that is not true cuz it's okay for Somalis to marry other Somalis from different clans but usually the Somalis don't favor it .

@haye702 7 жыл бұрын

Nasrudin Ahmed I'm somali too and the sheikh speaks the truth..whenever someone's about to marry the first question is always what clan or tribe is she from..stop being so defensive akhi..there are in some rare cases where ppl abroad don't do but it's there..caadi iska dhig sxb

@TruthfulAndHumble 7 жыл бұрын

haye ma Yeah brother but usually people ask this question to know more about your background not if you're gonna marry them or not . For example my father and mother are from different clans but they married due to the family relationship that my father had with her family. I don't why you think that way but I am sure that how people marry in somalia but sometimes people are crazy man. You maybe right according to your experience. Have nice day brother !

@MB-tb6jy 6 жыл бұрын

in my culture it's considered bad to marry within ones clan

@arsalanmirza3411 2 жыл бұрын

👍👏

@MuhammadKamranAzeem 3 жыл бұрын

Please remove the annoying crying in the background. It takes away focus from what the sheikh is saying.

@FarsanaNijas-yw2ey 3 жыл бұрын

Iam looking for a wife...pls pray for me...

@fahziahameed3612 Ай бұрын

What do women do and men it’s fashionable to be separated or challenging each other’s gender which one is wearing the trousers but there are modest women who suffer sacrifice and piously get on with it when my partner left my eldest son has always been there and we made a pact that he would always take care of her as long as I don’t bring another man in the house because people don’t care like a real father would and I know it’s terrible to think like that but it’s definitely done me no harm and anyway I have everything my children there health and my independence not to be independent on any one I am happy I just wish that things would not be so black and white but in this world it is ❤

@neowolfe1244 7 жыл бұрын

do a video the reason to marry in islam beside a partner that help you to please Allah

@rizvvan21 4 жыл бұрын

Sexual need !!!! Islam balances everything thing. And yes ...like hunger sexual desires are also one of the basic need of human. So instead of doing Zina ...Islam tells us to satisfy you urge in halal way

@toobad9295 4 жыл бұрын

what if you don’t care for sex? then marrying isn’t necessary?

@rizvvan21 4 жыл бұрын

@@toobad9295 yes. Marriage is not compulsory in Islam..but it's sunnat deed. Means if you do then you have more rewards. But sex without marriage and mastrubation is prohibited strictly.

@h3941 5 жыл бұрын

This depressed me, the first one being wealth. Its harder for a woman to be wealthier than a man or a Muslim woman. I dont have any of the things in this hadith to a really high degree. All is either average or belowike wealth lineage or looks nome of those for me are mega mega amazing.. Guess ill just continue to stay single then.

@adnanmehmood.constantprogr5019 4 жыл бұрын

What stops you to top in deen ,i mean find real meaning of your being, find your God. Get closer to Allah genuinely ( obviously He knows your intentions) you will get answered

@worfoz 4 жыл бұрын

@@adnanmehmood.constantprogr5019 in islam the meaning of a childs life is being a sex toy to your fake prophet sunnah.com/bukhari/67/70 sunnah.com/bukhari/67/93 sunnah.com/abudawud/12/76 sunnah.com/nasai/26/60 sunnah.com/bukhari/63/122 sunnah.com/muslim/16/82 sunnah.com/nasai/26/61 sunnah.com/muslim/16/84 sunnah.com/urn/1261940 sunnah.com/muslim/16/81 and alla is NOT the God of Abram, Isaac and Jacob, the God of the true prophets demon alla is the idol of slaves, descendants of unmarried slave Hagar and her bastard son Ismael, who was expelled from Abrams house and lineage did alla understand the intentions of fraud bastard muhamed? or did muhamed simply create demon alla as his associate? muhamed clearly hated women, and according to muhamed himself, alla never disagreed with your rapist: sunnah.com/bukhari/6/9 muflihun.com/bukhari/6/301 So he abused many women as if they were cattle, "deficient in intelligence and religion", abused like they are beasts. That's why Aisha, why became a widow at 18, never married another man ever again, never got children: she was never allowed to be a woman. Muhamed destroyed her life and body.

@ghafranhaque7161 4 жыл бұрын

Life is a test, is about to better ourselves up...we don't do this for the sake of getting married but for the sake of coming closer to Allah. Just focus in that relationship, and the rest leave it to Allah.

@Bettereveryday003 7 жыл бұрын

Lol I love how accurately our sheik pronounced Somali. You would think he is Somali

@MB-tb6jy 6 жыл бұрын

Bamber Banbury astaghfirullah! who are you to spread racism and talk Ill of other Muslims on an Islamic channel? these are among the things that are recorded.

@mehmedi9406 6 жыл бұрын

Martin Hemligt Lol! Read again until you get the message

@yasminenazarine1629 4 жыл бұрын

White beauty white western eccent 😘

@majidhussain1166 7 жыл бұрын

But can't a person lose their deen too?

@MrSuperman957 6 жыл бұрын

yes, but that's why you have to be sure that deen is engrained in her. and besides, there's a reason why divorce is not haram. you do get exceptions

@latifsharifi3551 7 жыл бұрын

the last portion is about religion please remember Muslims men can marry Christians girls and Jewish girls so Muslim women are better to marry

@ramlami1767 4 жыл бұрын

No,today christianity and judaism deviated from ISLAMic views,they are not obeying bible or Torra.So man can't marry them.This is not my view.A christian who accepted ISLAM and said his view on marrying christian.

@cathyb2967 4 жыл бұрын

Ramla Mi Im a Christian and l was with a Muslim Man .he didnt mind my teligion .he was very satisfied with me .l took care of all his needs ..he loved the way l look ..blonde and white and l gave myself to him whenever he had needs .Even things that are harem for Muslims .

@ramlami1767 4 жыл бұрын

@@cathyb2967 There Is No Compulsion In Religion;Truly The Right Way Has Become Clearly Distinct From Error *Quran **2:25**6* Its his choice to be with the girl he wants.What he wants to do(anything). Everything is btw him and his creator *ALLAH* and he will return to *ALLAH.* Can I give you a good advice? Pls don't live your life for satisfaction of people around you more than the satisfaction of your *creator.* We are believing the same *GOD* who created us and loved us more than anything else.But we *MUSLIMS* don't believe that *JESUS pbuh* is the son of *GOD.* He is a *great PROPHET.*

@cathyb2967 4 жыл бұрын

Ramla Mi I dont believe we follow the same God . I think muhommed was a false prophet .

@taabostore 4 жыл бұрын

that was an old idea! Somalis can marry from any clan and no one will consider it as a calamity! that was very old!!

@user-oq2ov9xc9o 7 жыл бұрын

Aslamoalkum sheikh u said "4 reasons " but u only said .wealth beauty and deen

@inkofknowledge 7 жыл бұрын

Wa alaikum salam, 'status' is also one of the 4 reasons

@mohammadadilkhan4194 6 жыл бұрын

محمود حvhfuonسن i

@ghafranhaque7161 4 жыл бұрын

He also mentione manners at the end, well carachter. Sorry i don't know how to spell the arabic but he said that in Arabic

@JaleelBeig 3 жыл бұрын

Can you not use that annoying background choir

@0engima0 7 жыл бұрын

The real question is how to find her

@tagourramt5082 5 жыл бұрын

The real question should be are you worthy

@Connect_with_Yourself 5 жыл бұрын

+Ashad Saleem yes the best advice is be and have characteristics u want in wife and vise versa

@yasminmont.6067 5 жыл бұрын

Pray Allah to help you find her...

@barbarossiangamebred1287 4 жыл бұрын

Be worthy and Allah will give you without asking.

@abuyusufsherakhmatov 2 жыл бұрын

Assalomu alaykum! Conclusion: Inshaalloh i will marry Saliha who is great at deen and character and minimum+ level attraction towards her!

@BAFREMAUXSOORMALLY 3 жыл бұрын

the sane background shit again!

@JaanKashmiri 6 жыл бұрын

What if her deen is on point but you just dont find her attractive even a little bit ?

@utubeho24 5 жыл бұрын

JaanKashmiri looks will fade with time, someone’s deen and outlook on life will remain. Essentially, you want to also marry someone who will be your best friend InshAllah.

@muhammadbinyusof9415 7 жыл бұрын

I'll nvr find my other half :'(

@inkofknowledge 7 жыл бұрын

Yes, you will. Have hope in Allah, and Allah will grant you your wish :)

@Xcoming2 4 жыл бұрын

A wife that won't steal your wallet

@trevorpanno5371 5 жыл бұрын

What I want in a wife - has blue eyes, great legs, sense of humor, likes massages, romantic walks on the beach, skinny dipping, slow dancing, bubble baths, can sleep naked, clean the house, cook dinner, go out to dinner, shower together, plan vacations/trips in advance, cuddling, watching movies, play CDs in the car, bowling, bingo and going to baseball games.

@khadijafulan8308 5 жыл бұрын

Good luck, in return this woman will also be superficial. Don’t be mad if she’s A gold digger..

@ghafranhaque7161 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a woman who will run from you as soon as you face any difficulties in life. A good wife will be one who is patient and intelligent and hard work in case you lose your job or your health. You didn't even mention anything about her suitability to be a mum...boy you are set to disaster.

@4th_Disciple Жыл бұрын

@@ghafranhaque7161 too many muslim women and men seem to do this now, no concern for what kind of parent the other person will be. sallam alaikum

@crismartinus 6 жыл бұрын

With all due respect, if we all were to marry someone for the deen, that is, the accumulation of good actions, we'd probably be extinct as a race by now.

@camelsellam9061 6 жыл бұрын

cristian martinus if we were all to marry for Deen it shouldn't be a problem because there so few of us "good muslim" that follow to the letter the teaching of our beloved prophet pbuh . That really it is not going to change much and it will make you happy . So don't worry about extinction .

@marktwain380 6 жыл бұрын

Well you are not recommending anything to me that I haven't already learned through Christianity and I may add through my own observations! Love, respect, understanding and forgiveness for your fellow human being, particularly your spouse = deen.It is lack of love and understanding of our own selves that motivate us to make bad choices about who we marry, and even after a period of marriage bad decisions can be made. Relationships take on their own dynamic and are vulnerable to internal and external factors; nature of both man and wife, family, culture, past history, health, interests, finance, and and and so what can start out heavenly can become hell, what is sour in the beginning can be sweetened; when the euphoria of first love is over then the real relationship begins to evolve and we need to take an honest look at ourselves before we blame the spouse or make him or her responsible for unpleasant togetherness. Love is and always will be of free will, one should never expect to find the perfect partner, how utterly futile this would be. No one is alike. He who has a famous successful relative should not rely on that to win admiration, that is false achievement...we are here in our mortal guise once only and we should strive to make use of our own lives in a worthy, humane and creative way. Yes and beauty is skin deep, but oh so wonderful, seize the day and look after you mind and body! Women be honest with yourselves and you will choose the right man. Men be honest with yourselves and love the woman that is right for you!

@MWisknight 5 жыл бұрын

Tracy Hettler you missed the whole point .