2024 Latest Santi's Video →Santi's Seminar #2 : How to Understand Japanese men and women kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pJx3nt1otde8mXU.html
@gdemented123 жыл бұрын
Ahahah you crazy! Got confused coz i heard you before say you dont drink and just order Coke...and no gfs 😄😄 you got me good there santi!
@amberherr65053 жыл бұрын
what?! haha. how about your description of your ideal girl? do you like intelligent woman working in big corporations, with overseas experience, your "lisa"?
@Hana-vr3us3 жыл бұрын
Lol I thought maybe you decided to drink just that day & was laying about being single before because it's your private life 😆It's possible
@Monijji3 жыл бұрын
@@amberherr6505 HEY! with respect, Lisa, no lisa. xD lol
@julespumachu3 жыл бұрын
@@user-bi5rx1eq3e Well, A, you know, she's at her imaginary job in Switzerland. So, it's complicated!
@kateohara5983 жыл бұрын
Mariam: Santi-san, what's your ideal type of girl? Santi-san: Well, I have a gf... Mariam left the chat.
@mimittas3 ай бұрын
Hahah😂
@user-rh4qw7bp6t3 жыл бұрын
Got it, if he is westernized you can be yourself but if he's "pure Japanese " you too need to be Japanese lol
@riagabriel29943 жыл бұрын
Japanese man loves natural beauty, positive mind, humble and kindness. Just be yourself ❤️ 🤗
@angelpauline16273 жыл бұрын
And the last ideal type of japanese guy is woman can cook delicious food for him.
@lifekunsex-girlfriend43643 жыл бұрын
But if I be myself then I'm not natural beauty, positive minded, humble nor kind lmao
@mimittas3 ай бұрын
@@lifekunsex-girlfriend4364 we*😂
@betsypayne31973 жыл бұрын
Wait!!! So girlfriend Lisa is an April fools joke? You really had me going Santi-san!!!
@TheSilviepie Жыл бұрын
"Let's say you have a boyfriend, his name is Santi." 😂 That transition was so smooth.
@pennyqte3 жыл бұрын
so Santi found himself a Japanese American gf and they are doing long distance, wow! wondering how it works ! but really おめでとう :)
@ganndalf2022 жыл бұрын
That about not pushing Japanese men to spill everything and being considerate is so true. It's something I had to learn myself when I'm with my crush. Santi is right, you can be yourself, don't take me wrong, I couldn't be myself with anyone as much as I can be with my crush, but the cultural difference is a thing that can be worked on if both people are willing to. At the same time it complements my different personality and teaches me to be more empathetic which i always struggled with but I too think is important.
@teresawilliams18653 жыл бұрын
Do japanese men think when a Lady smile at them she like them??? Here in America when you smile at a guy he thinks you like him but me i smile everyday because i was told my smile is like sunshine 😀😀. I love to smile it makes me happy to put a smile on people face.
@kabukiwookie3 жыл бұрын
I'm lucky. As a Japanese man who was born and grew up in a Japanese-American community in the woods in California I can speak spotless English and have in my past done very well for myself in places like the UK when dating. My Japanese? Yeah I don't really get to use it everyday so its tough for me to relearn it. But I am trying. What I think it is for Japanese born boys is that they want to blend in, but don't know how. While Japanese-Americans or wherever celebrate our uniqueness. When I am in Japan, Japanese women simply cannot wrap their heads around my refusal to blend in. I have me own style. And not to mention I have no fear of telling people to F-off when necessary.
@FLH20232 жыл бұрын
Native Japanese men , firstly are engaged with their professional and stiff work demands in view of a competitive sense and career priorities. Likelihood, the conservative and disciplined society profile do not allow establish a single and own profile, affecting the communication with foreign women or other global communities.
@kopilathapapandey358 Жыл бұрын
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@TanteiSa3 жыл бұрын
I think it’s so important to try learn a bit of the culture and to try to meet people halfway when traveling or moving to another country.
@christinecayabyab70223 жыл бұрын
i'm filipino and i have japanese boyfriend now it's very helpful to watch your video and i'm interested to japanese culture i'm happy to hear your advice it helps me a lot 🥰
@mariahappiness91803 жыл бұрын
Yes, being yourself and being flexible are the best things that a foreign woman can do when dating a typical Japanese guy. Language barriers and culture must be considered too in dating Japanese men.
@gdemented123 жыл бұрын
Aha! So she is the famous Lisa! The mystery has been solved! 😄😄😄 On a serious note, i think it'd be better to risk it and ask the person if their ok when you see signs of them probably going through something rather than ignore it, and the situation escalates. But you have to be very careful about it though that you do not come across as badgering. Just from time to time drop a " u ok?". Applies to bf, gf, friends and families, colleagues and boss. Personally, what i do is i surprise them with coffee randomly 😄 there are those kind of people who want to open up but just don't know how to start...give them a mug of coffee and just sit with them (preferrably not facing them)...and they might slowly open up. Or not! But they'd feel less alone in their own heads knowing someone's there who knows the troubles in their heads
@lifewithbellavisitacion46093 жыл бұрын
Exactly! You are right,Japanese men who went abroad are different from those who are just in Japan.I am lucky,my Japanese husband is very well travelled and educated abroad.
@jenjen93133 жыл бұрын
👍I learned something again about this new video. Thank you Mr. Santi, for me you are like an elder brother who always give good advices. My japanese guy friend were surprised when I learned about Tatemae and Honne... I think he's happy because I'm trying to be aware about Japanese culture. We have certain time replying on each other messages everyday, it's like a 'scheduled messages' so I know the time when shall I read his messages or if he already sent messages. (don't worry he's still a bachelor because I confirm it when I called him during Sat and Sun) I guess that's what we do everyday for almost a year now... I hope he won't be able to read this😂. I admire him just like you because aside him being a teacher in Tokyo, He gives me advices especially when I'm confused.He gives me some good Japanese novel books too(translated). Both of you are like mentors. 🙂
@aj.meso26 Жыл бұрын
Only 0:01 in, yet interested in the content. I am into Japanese men as a foreigner and hope there can be a cultural understanding as well (Caribbean descent)
@kenlove72703 жыл бұрын
Thank you santi-san for giving us an ideas🤩
@avinatinaga70402 жыл бұрын
Out from nowhere .your channel was on my first page and when I go through all your videos it was just wow,amazing.keep it up,new viewers,new subscriber here🙋.lots of love and support from north east india nagaland.
@anhq.d47053 жыл бұрын
Vietnamese lives in America, support your channel . Good that now you shift to America market 👌👍!
@user-le3lh2yl8h3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another informative video Santi
@japinayamysvlog34412 жыл бұрын
I love the way you speak your so fluently english how did u study English📖
@jacquimccarthy51633 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! I loved your “Lisa” April fools joke! Although I think you have left all the young ladies (I’m old enough to be your mother), who didn’t understand the joke “broken-hearted”
@serendipity79213 жыл бұрын
Thank you santi-San
@wingedstarz3 жыл бұрын
Santi, just an idea but you should explain about yamato nadeshiko one day. I’m not sure if this is the ideal type of lady but maybe the one you’d take home to meet your mom 😆
@japaneseman3 жыл бұрын
interesting topic :) let me thinks about
@alexcurtpadios1269 Жыл бұрын
Omg i almost watched all of videos..im am a Filipino working here in Japan i really love japan and i want to have a Japanese boyfriend.
@ganndalf2022 жыл бұрын
I was wondering if my Japanese crush likes me and suddenly I found this lol
@MargaretRodriguez9GenY3 жыл бұрын
Earlier me: So Lisa was a real person after all. I'm happy for you Santi! Hope you and Lisa stay strong! Also, appreciate the advice as usual✌️. Present me: Okay, I literally came back to this vid to look up the clothing store Santi was talking about and just read the pinned comment. And so now Lisa isn't real! How did you tell that story without busting out laughing!! I feel so confused now😅😵💫 .
@jenjen93133 жыл бұрын
Uniqlo 😉
@MargaretRodriguez9GenY3 жыл бұрын
@@jenjen9313 -Thanks😊!
@jmeen85942 жыл бұрын
Thank your videos are informative and funny sometimes lol. Uniqlo clothes are plain omg. Lol
@sukritisharma79612 жыл бұрын
Japanese people are workaholic so how to manage that in a relationship with Japanese men because works come first and messages are delayed for almost 14 hours!!
@realisticrealist32673 жыл бұрын
"Dirty massage for ladies in Japan"???? Looking forward to this video 😂
@Hana-vr3us3 жыл бұрын
Best of luck to you both :)
@justrandomvlogs1580 Жыл бұрын
santi-san, can you tell what is the meaning when a japanese man says “you’re more than a friend but less than a girlfriend”
@aliss85593 жыл бұрын
Yay for early upload time! And I hope you find your "Lisa" one day Santi-san 😄 今まで色々な面白いビデオをありがとうございます!
@xiaph25813 жыл бұрын
Guys he is already taken!! So stop dreaming! Anyway, Santi San , good content. Why don’t you talk about best places to visit in Japan. Affordable places to stay, where to experience best onsen and tea.....
@darkmary003 жыл бұрын
Japanese 7 a.m is gonna be hard for us Europeans 🥺
@avemaryam59043 жыл бұрын
Hi! Maryam's here. 😀 Thank you Santi-san for your answer. Although the fact that you have a gf is quite heartbreaking 💔💔 but you did exactly read what i've been wondering lately. So i have this Japanese male friend through online and he'll move to my country in the middle of this year to work. He's been living nomaden as a foreigner since his 20s. His english is pretty good. When we meet up I'll make sure that i wear natural make up, no scents, and shop at uniqlo before it. 😎 Anywayyyyy, Regarding the japanese man ideal type of girl in general, besides appearance and personality you've mentioned, i still wondering another aspect. How about intelligence? I saw one of video from Asian boss, telling that japanese male in general prefer a less-smart girl who acts kawai, rather than smart girl who is more opinionated. For example, If a guy found out that the girl goes to more reputable university then him, they most likely turned off and back off as they feel it will risk their pride as a man bcs they don't wanna look empty-headed. Wdyt of this? Is it true? THANK YOU SANTI SAN! Cheers*
@japaneseman3 жыл бұрын
Definitely I will talk about, please wait and thanks :)
@amanac540310 ай бұрын
Tell me more about cologne/fragrance plsss
@abbysumugat73113 жыл бұрын
Santi-san can you talk about “Yaeba”?
@japaneseman3 жыл бұрын
Interesting, let me think
@shiminjiang7282 жыл бұрын
Get the cloth at Uniqlo. 😂
@Bahara.ha113 ай бұрын
I have a small body but my butt is quite large….😬 I am afraid people will look at me weirdly in Japan 😂
@josellegatchalian2533 жыл бұрын
Hi santy you know that I got my Japanese fiance before..we been together for.almost.3years ..
@julespumachu3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another interesting video, Santi! Oh! Before I forget, may I introduce you to my boyfriend, Tanaka? (Ummm -- I guess don't tell my real one, okay? Okay!) 😎💗
@lvgg12372 жыл бұрын
LOL I always get clothes from Uniqlo. Those are just my everyday clothes. But I scared a Japanese guy away. The only time I ever scared a guy away. Still wondering how I did that...maybe cos I'm almost as tall as him. Being tall is not kawaii lol
@sakuranbo41513 жыл бұрын
Tell us about your 告白
@japaneseman3 жыл бұрын
lol
@loplopy94033 жыл бұрын
"Pure Japanese Men Are Uniq" i won't disagree with that! 😂😅 and oh, the "Lisa" ♥️ hello ~👍😁 mystery solved .
@piamortensen6836 Жыл бұрын
What i get from you is... If you want a japanese guy, who isn't westernized, be someone he can relate too. :) am i wrong?
@nezbest931210 ай бұрын
Santi-san, you’re so hot, and that’s you speaking in English. I can’t imagine you speaking in full Nihongo. 😮💨🥵🔥
@janinecristinerama25483 жыл бұрын
Santi-san are Japanese guys easily gets irritated when being flood by messages?
@andreasobuaculla951122 күн бұрын
You're good looking dude have you ever tried guys?
@cornflower-56723 жыл бұрын
🤞
@smc90983 жыл бұрын
Hello Santi san! You mentioned about your language class, I wonder what really goes through a Japanese person’s mind when they say 日本語上手ですね. I personally think it’s just tatemae. At first I was happy but realized that this is just a way of them being polite bec you are trying to speak their languange. Im currently living in Tokyo and honestly this is how I measure that Im definitely not good or near enough rather than as a compliment. It’s sad and disheartening to hear.
@japaneseman3 жыл бұрын
SM C san interesting, let me think if i can talk about it btw, when they say it, they mean it most of times
@smc90983 жыл бұрын
@@japaneseman Sometimes they say it after you stutter or eat your words. it's sad.
@smc90983 жыл бұрын
@@japaneseman thank you!
@janinecristinerama25483 жыл бұрын
Santi-san 😊😊are Japanese guys gets irritated when being flooded by messages?
@japaneseman3 жыл бұрын
sure, check next live :)
@janinecristinerama25483 жыл бұрын
@Japanese man Santi's Radio thank you
@jadore92362 жыл бұрын
There is no "ideal" gf or bf... they dont exist.. well maybe during dating time but after married it's different.
@varadnaik80313 жыл бұрын
Hi santi . Are pure japanese girls are interested in indian guys?
@japaneseman3 жыл бұрын
Pure one? hmm not sure. but westernized one, Yes i think