What your clothes say about you

What your clothes say about you | Part 1

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Tony Gaskins

3 жыл бұрын

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@coiledbydesign1270 3 жыл бұрын

1. Dress for the job you want, not the one you have. You want to be a wife? You want to be a boss? Dress like one now. 2. If you are not a loose woman, don't wear her uniform. That advice was provided by my father and still holds true.

@overcomerbtbojesus 3 жыл бұрын

#2 💯

@realtruth3762 3 жыл бұрын

Yess to #2. #1 also depends on the job/field. Like neurosurgeon etc. Most smart ppl in high skill level jobs are dressed in a simple modest way. But I know what you mean. Sagging pants etc would be disqualifier 😉

@denisedean8503 3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! WORDS OF WISDOM! JULY2021

@MsLibra-fo8tw 3 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed!!!

@KrystleLaughter 3 жыл бұрын

People judge a book by its cover. A lot of times it boils down to being confident and having self-love. Many women lack this so they use their dress to attract attention. This is why I make KZfaq videos to help women develop self-love. Great video Tony!

@MR-cr7yc 3 жыл бұрын

Just subscribed.. i will be checking you’re page out 😊

@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! WORDS OF WISDOM! JULY2021

@queenofthesouth4205 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Krystle Laughter.

@Ilovevitaminwater 3 жыл бұрын

You know when he says “Hey hey its Tony Gaskins here” Its gonna be a good one

@coveredbynobantu6082 3 жыл бұрын

This topic right here! Not so long ago I got a conviction to change my wardrobe and that was not long after I accepted another conviction. Definetly feels like I’m being prepared for something next level and it feels so good. 😀

@sheenamincey4740 3 жыл бұрын

Random thought: Who else needs a throw back pic of Tony with the gold teeth. Just for giggles🤣

@annettecabezas6697 3 жыл бұрын

lol😂

@mal1075 3 жыл бұрын

I feel a lot more comfortable when things are NOT revealed. Keeping things covered and professional. I feel like women just look so much more beautiful when they don't feel like they have to reveal their private parts. ❤️

@shakenamcauley7793 3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@roxydee1452 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, we need to understand there is a time and a place! I go to gym and a lot of the male instructors wear tight t-shirts and short shorts, yet I have bumped into them outside on the street and never, ever are they dressed like that! By contrast, I was once having coffee with a (highly religious and conservative) male co-worker when no less than 3 women trotted past our table in high heels and extremely short, tight dresses. My colleague averted his eyes each time but it was full on. And these were older women in a "nice" area! Certainly don't mean to be nasty, I myself am over 40 and fit and proud, yet have to be mindful not to fall into the "over-compensation" trap.

@customfittedinc 3 жыл бұрын

I don't think they feel they have to some do I feel they want too ..I speak for myself I don't like wearing clothes I have great legs I'm gonna show them without being inappropriate I may be wrong but it's my truth

@denisedean8503 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely I totally agree.

@jenniferthompson5146 3 жыл бұрын

It is a balance. I get it; I don’t even think tube tops are risqué but when I try to wear one I feel half naked, lol. On the other hand I usually wear pretty conservative clothing. A man came up to me and told me he really liked my style and how it was conservative. You can be modest and also fashion forward and eye catching.

@777SO 3 жыл бұрын

“You are so feminine and elegant”I got this compliment a lot from men and women and this is how I feel and the image I want people to get when they see me; I’m not about all the over sexy and showing things out there no no.

@peaceful_and_blessed2879 3 жыл бұрын

Tony your videos are so thought provoking! I went on a first date a; few years ago with a police officer. Grown boy through and through! I had on a cute fitted top and fitted jeans. He told me don’t be afraid to show more skin, to dress sexier! He admitted he was very superficial and showed me pictures of him on social media with half naked women.. Got to go! Don’t need a grown boy telling me how to dress! ✌🏽🏃🏻‍♀️

@MR-cr7yc 3 жыл бұрын

A guy once told me I covered myself up too much and men are visual. I can’t wear tights, biker shorts, jean shorts, without some type of cover. I’m slim but I would feel naked without a cover.

@peaceful_and_blessed2879 3 жыл бұрын

@@MR-cr7yc men have some interesting points of view! We can suggest things too for them lol… they may not like our perceptions of them.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@MR-cr7yc 3 жыл бұрын

@@peaceful_and_blessed2879 lol yes ma’am, then we’re nagging!

@CriolladeNegress 3 жыл бұрын

That’s interesting because if you dressed more provocatively, they still would’ve had something to say about that PLUS try to categorize you as “loose booty”. (A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. - James 1:8)

@mjj5642 3 жыл бұрын

“If you have that hairstyle like his aunt from 1985…” 😩😩😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

@sullivancountydays 3 жыл бұрын

Or pink hair and you haven't combed it since the pandemic began.

@qscott888 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Some people don’t like to hear this, but it’s definitely true.

@zerogravity4008 3 жыл бұрын

My spirit evoked me into embarrassment when I dress too provocatively since I was a child, so I never had this issue. To God be the glory!!

@Memtselfnche 3 жыл бұрын

Yes Tony I’m literally sitting talking to my college daughter about this right now..

@cherylliz99 3 жыл бұрын

Good for you!!! Kudos!

@candidemetay1296 3 жыл бұрын

I dont dress to be sexy, I dress to be Attractive and approachable.

@777SO 3 жыл бұрын

This👏🏽🎯🎯

@realtrapper1683 Жыл бұрын

😍😍

@sheloves3663 3 жыл бұрын

This video is so on time. I’m currently revamping my wardrobe. Just adding a nice belt, hat, etc., elevates a look completely. Also, it’s better to leave things to the imagine. I love a nice pair of jeans and some heels vs a super short bodycon dress.

@significantlyintentional 3 жыл бұрын

My toxic ex literally tried to insult me by telling me I needed to dress more sexy & asked me rudely why I always 'dress like I'm going to church' 😂 It caught me off guard because it was so silly & immature.. I IMMEDIATELY responded with 'no I don't, it's called being classy, I'm so sorry it seems you aren't used to that!' 😉 I've never experienced a guy saying something so ridiculous to me, but I think I handled it pretty well hahaha. Like, thanks for the compliment! That's admiration if you ask me 🤷🏼‍♀️

@socialdistancingon8333 3 жыл бұрын

Ladies, even if you dress conservative and don't hand out the cookies, he may try to groom you to get into bed with you. If he ever says, "I want to stare into your eyes" and you don't want to end up giving up the goodies, then RUN! At that point, he is trying to groom you into bed. This is absolutely coming from experience.

@user-zx5xw4yw2e 3 жыл бұрын

Of course!

@denisemyers733 3 жыл бұрын

Yes he will just don’t fall for the Tom foolery. Keep it moving don’t get caught up in that.

@LadyAngela678 3 жыл бұрын

Less clothing does not make a woman appear more beautiful.

@marysmith6803 3 жыл бұрын

True!

@durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 жыл бұрын

Clothes do not have to be expensive for a woman to look classy and respectable cos you can have expensive clothes on and the whole outfit look cheap just cos it's too revealing. Men will just think you thirsty and treat you accordingly.

@mrsjade30 3 жыл бұрын

It’s all about GODFIDENCE 👑 being a Queen and proper. Not really about appearing sexy but elegant and classy.

@nawakaida7499 3 жыл бұрын

You could also be a celebrity, a artist, a rapper, a certain style clothing store owner, a musician, a hipster.. that look doesn’t only say “drug dealer” just like a man in a suit doesn’t mean a well put together man. He could be a sociopath, narcissist or psychopath since they like to look perfect to the outside world. Never judge a book by it’s cover. You’ll be fooled constantly by the well dressed man.

@Yna-u3g 3 жыл бұрын

That's true, but people absolutely do judge and they, sadly, will continue.. Many have been fooled by "a man in a suit," but sagging pants is just sloppy...It sends a message of being irresponsible, lazy, and careless...Not my personal judgement, but ijs, it's unattractive...

@sungaze342 3 жыл бұрын

Yup just remind of of the show on nexflix YOU 😏

@CarmenLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын

I think clothing (plus accessories and makeup) is one of the biggest ways to express ourselves and we should always have our own personal style formed from what we feel our best, truest, most comfortable and beautiful selves in, not on what is trending and what the media suggests. You cannot express yourself as individual dressing like someone else dictates but you can always show the world who you are and what your personality is by making your own fashion choices, by presenting your own style and by wearing your self-love, confidence and personality with you wherever you go, that's what makes you special.

@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! WORDS OF WISDOM! JULY2021

@als_dia 3 жыл бұрын

100% agree

@CarmenLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын

@@micheleprice9771 Thank you very much & God Bless you !

@CarmenLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын

@@kaleema1987 Thank you for sharing and i'm glad to hear this, it's very good. I think make up should only enhance our natural beauty, not being used as a heavy mask on the face that ages us and transforms us into someone we're not. I too like to be comfortable and stylish or classy regardless of the occassion. 😊

@CarmenLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын

@@als_dia Thank you very much !

@patriciabennett1819 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Tony you are so right. Clothes are giving signals about the person.Glad you have addressed this subject and enlightened people.A good subject to discuss. Awareness and doing something sensible to address the situation. Helpful to everyone. Thank you so very much.Kindest regards.

@DmvBosslady 3 жыл бұрын

💙how you love on your kids. The biggest impact your message has is how you're a living testimony. I'm a conspiracy theorist and a sales person so i can't be easily convinced....Thanks for being authentic. You are appreciated.😇

@juchebo100 3 жыл бұрын

I’m someone that likes to dress modestly. I just don’t feel comfortable exposing any part of my body because my mom always told me that men are visual so anytime I’m going somewhere, I choose what I wear carefully.

@cindeed4422 3 жыл бұрын

In my 20’s my parents told me I dressed and held myself like a married woman. I dressed up all the time. I thought that was the way to catch a good man. If clothes make the man, I dressed to get the man or at least thought I did. I dressed in Sunday Best. What they was telling me is that made me less approachable. But, when I went to club, I danced the whole night every time I went. And that attention was enough for me.

@ShinySilverBunny 3 жыл бұрын

3 things women need to change. #1 Dress Classy and Modestly but always dress for the occasion #2 STOP WEARING JEANS AND CLOTHES WITH HOLES!!! 🙄 #3 WEAR hosiery and cover your legs in quality or mild compression stockings to support your legs and prevent swelling. This is an investment in preventing varicose veins when you are older A quote from Joan Collins, she is 88 and still killing it at her age because she has taken care of herself. I read a quote of hers that said “I really hope that people will spend more money on clothes, because nobody dresses up anymore," Collins told Vogue. "If you do, then people stare at you, or make cutting remarks… Well, maybe not cutting, but they’ll say something like, ‘Oh, look at you! You're all dressed up.’ I find that very sad, because it will be the end of women buying elegant clothes in stores. Everybody’s going to end up in jeans and T-shirts, which I think is tragic.” “I hate jeans. I hate them. They’re so unflattering. And I hate jeans with holes in the knees, or holes anywhere," Collins said.

@lobae9638 3 жыл бұрын

I Love this video and The fact that you address the influence of fashion trends throughout society and the effects on one's relationships but also the relationship with the self. I've been thinking about it too. When you start to see yourself differently you dress differently and when you love and trust yourself, your style might not appeal to everybody.

@SistahJay27 3 жыл бұрын

I laughed thru this whole video 🤣🤣🤣 Omgosh You’re right big bro perception is everything. Thanks for the tips greatly appreciate

@supermodelatlanta1354 3 жыл бұрын

Bandage dress= it hugs you like a bandaid or a badge wound. Wrapped tight

@iriswilson7387 3 жыл бұрын

Sadly, to say that our clothes do define what PEOPLE THINK about us. I know when I was younger I didn’t think it mattered. But now that I’m older, how my appearance looks to ANYONE DOES MATTER to me❗️ Not so much as to what they think about me, but I WANT YOU TO KNOW, I DID NOT come to play with you and I WANT TO be seen as a Professional Business Woman. And because I dress the way I dress my daughters do the same, except for that younger one🤣🤣 You know you always have that rebellious one🤣. But she knows how to dress when doing business👏🏾

@ProphetessTiesha 3 жыл бұрын

You right i was walking for exercise and it was a girl booty clapping and it was like God was saying this how you look in your tights too and it looked nasty so I felt nasty ... I was like dang man I don't want to be like that... so you right ✅

@officialwatchamber 3 жыл бұрын

My ex was mainly the only man who ever made mention of the way I dressed. He thought it was too revealing/form fitting. I never really consider it having an impression on men/others. Appreciate the perspective!!

@Realness4sho 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely the Raw Truth here.💯💝

@deonnadenae 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with everything you said except for the dreads. What’s wrong with dread locs? I feel that’s so stereotypical to assume something negative about a person based on them having dreads.

@himetilsits1936 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing is wrong with dread locs! but a lot of black men dont like it. I notice that white men like dread locs.

@samonep.7474 3 жыл бұрын

@@himetilsits1936 disagree. I have locs and have attracted tons of great black men.

@shaunabee 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this 🙏🏾❤️

@singlemomtravel 3 жыл бұрын

This video is on point. I definitely had to laugh at the ‘Auntie’s hair’ and ‘booty meat’ references.

@latoyabrown7983 3 жыл бұрын

This is a great topic !

@gasweetestpeach88 3 жыл бұрын

In my opinion, my wardrobe matches my mood at the moment so if I want to put on booty shorts and a nice tank top then that’s okay. The way I see it is it shouldn’t matter how people perceive you as long as you’re comfortable in your outfit and like what you see then that’s all that matters. That’s just my opinion though 🤷🏾‍♀️.

@dashafenty9969 3 жыл бұрын

I agree this is me all this time but we live in different times now.

@nataliehenderson69 3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@Yna-u3g 3 жыл бұрын

I agree that attire can be associated with mood, but I don't think any self-respecting woman who isn't seeking sexual attention should walk around with her butt cheeks hanging out...It sends the wrong message even if you're not a hoochie...That's just my opinion...Therefore, if you're in the "mood" for sexual deviants to approach you with their inappropriate lustful thirst, then by all means walk around showing your a$$....Pun not intended...If you dress with your butt out free, they will think your a$$ is for free!

@blackapples4744 3 жыл бұрын

Sherri Franklin…. What about what God thinks of your b-shorts? Also, are you interested in marriage? If so, dress for the type of man your trying to attract.

@gasweetestpeach88 3 жыл бұрын

@@blackapples4744 God loves me whether I wear booty shorts or fully clothed. Also, it doesn't matter the right man will love me whether I wear booty shorts or not.

@cherylliz99 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I’ve seen P&W teams wear skin tight clothes! Totally unacceptable! How can young women walk out the house and their parents keep silent??????

@faithwalk. 3 жыл бұрын

I started to spin in my chair when I saw the title

@truarnett5519 3 жыл бұрын

Booty meat! Boy STOP! 🤣🤣🤣 You are right though. I love your interaction with your son! Great dad moves. You need two phones! JK! 🙏😂😂😂🙏

@MellowRin1.7. 3 жыл бұрын

I needed this thank you tony!

@Shaunteetalkstv 3 жыл бұрын

I loved your analogy

@socialdistancingon8333 3 жыл бұрын

Lol. This video comes in JUST AS I load a website to shop for shoes!

@NatalieBaucum 3 жыл бұрын

I have tried to instill the importance of dress and hair in my students for 14 years now. Each year, it gets worse and I am told the world doesn't care. Then recruiters ask me why do so many kids show up in casual attire, colored hair, etc. I want them to have the opportunities they desire but they fight me like I'm against them instead of for them.

@fatikay5735 3 жыл бұрын

Keep going. Your fight is unpopular but much needed! :)

@balletdancernj6894 3 жыл бұрын

Don’t stop! Keep up the good fight. 👍🏿

@JAZZY2REALZ 3 жыл бұрын

Why are people so judgmental?🤣🤣🤣🤷🏾‍♀️

@MonaLisasApple 3 жыл бұрын

This video and the comments have really helped me out.

@Synquette 3 жыл бұрын

This was helpful- I literally just seen someone online & I liked her outfit & said I should try to wear that but then I thought- “do I see most married women dress like that,” and thought against it- & not trying to dress to fit in for that reason only but at my age what do I look like wearing a crop top or have my mid drift showing anyway 😂less forever 21 and more Zara & New York & Company vibes for me

@tiffineyena7001 3 жыл бұрын

I just did a video about this. Thanks Tony.

@ketogrannysway 3 жыл бұрын

Interesting subject And I didn't care about what I was wearing as long as it matched I wasn't frumpy I was clean and that's all I care about people used to always look like they were shocked to me I was admiring people outfits now it looked like people just throw things on and just come out the house unless thier going somewhere special Now that I've been practicing sick love for the last 3 years I dress like I'm going somewhere everyday I dress to flatter my figure address to impress me so If I feel pretty, confident, courageous, proud, unique with my head up and a smile I'm having a great day

@ladyk7317 3 жыл бұрын

TRUTH💪🏾💋good Dad 👍🏾

@queenofthesouth4205 3 жыл бұрын

Dress for the job/position you want Management, Wife, Mother. Stop showing it all Ladies.

@Arizona_lilly 3 жыл бұрын

Very true yes 1980s hair great

@graceandpeace2364 3 жыл бұрын

Ready to hear this 👂

@customfittedinc 3 жыл бұрын

To each thier own long as I'm good with God I could care less honestly it's a time and place for everything true...he right I was a virgin till 25 I was being myself still am so it is what it is ..it's fashion lol

@theythinkidontknow1975 3 жыл бұрын

You’re not too with if you think you can dress however you want

@ladyk7317 3 жыл бұрын

You have ears but refuse to hear the only lol is your heartbreaks soon to come 💪🏾💋

@customfittedinc 3 жыл бұрын

@@ladyk7317 bye Felicia I'm covered in the blood of Jesus I plead the blood of Jesus whatever hex you trying to send my way I rebuke and send the energy back to you ten fold no weapon keep it pushing we can agree to disagree I said what I SAID😳🤷☮️✌️🙃💰👽👽💤💤💤

@customfittedinc 3 жыл бұрын

@@theythinkidontknow1975 next

@customfittedinc 3 жыл бұрын

@@ladyk7317 blood of Jesus next🗣️🗣️🗣️👁️👀😎🌎🌎🌎

@jiliciar.1423 3 жыл бұрын

It's so sad that many women don't understand this. I talked to a old friend recently and she wouldn't even cover up herself if her future boyfriend or husband wanted her to. 😐

@joyyates5397 3 жыл бұрын

I would

@remiem-iw7uk 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Tony

@Arizona_lilly 3 жыл бұрын

I love kay jewerls

@Goforthandbevictorious 3 жыл бұрын

Wow!

@alexanderwilliams1731 3 жыл бұрын

AMAN

@tinajones8050 3 жыл бұрын

Listening.

@kayslay888 3 жыл бұрын

very important points here

@DivinelyBellzTarot 3 жыл бұрын

Whether i dress sexy or not i attract germz they say i have a look 😩

@sullivancountydays 3 жыл бұрын

To each his own. My thing is some folk need not share. A onesie when you're 300lbs and no draws? Too much info. If oil was required to slip into your shorts and your package is flapping .....

@reneesampson6566 3 ай бұрын

😂

@BP-fh8np 3 жыл бұрын

THIS RIGHT HERE....

@dai5angel 3 жыл бұрын

Whatever happened to the mystery and a man having to get to know you. Your attire says I am not looking to lay with you

@johnsmith-rd3zx Жыл бұрын

i wear a hoodie enough said. i like it more than a dress shirt.

@ShesGottaFastCar 3 жыл бұрын

Catching up!

@lovelyqueen3778 3 жыл бұрын

Ladies are the hidden Secret!!

@lw4294 Жыл бұрын

I agree.. but what if you go to the beach a lot? Ie bikini 😆

@shema3579 3 жыл бұрын

clothes can tell everything plus it’s advertising like your character if the person is owning private or public parts. 😂😂

@hoooyea163 3 жыл бұрын

Lmfaoooooooo 😭😭😭😭 please ladies tell me what to look up on pinterest bc i dress like im in the 80s forreal i got bangs and hair

@profmj7630 3 жыл бұрын

Look up capsule wardrobe...then limit your color choices that look classy or timeless -black, navy, nude/beige, grey. All black outfits makes you look put together without trying...

@hoooyea163 3 жыл бұрын

@@profmj7630 thank u gonna do this

@MyMyTyTy 3 жыл бұрын

I dress like a frump, I won’t even lie. $5 hoodies from Walmart and jeans. I have to do better.

@hoooyea163 3 жыл бұрын

Me too girl !!!!! 😭😫😫 lmaoo

@MyMyTyTy 3 жыл бұрын

@@hoooyea163 We gotta get it together😂💃🏾

@elenaherring4118 3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Especially since the pandemic . I've gotten used to being at home. Casual comfort clothes 🤷🏾‍♀️ I definitely will make a change.

@itz_nathael3977 3 жыл бұрын

I don't have money so buy clothes 😁😀

@profmj7630 3 жыл бұрын

Google or search for capsule wardrobe guides. Then take those ideas to the thrift store. Only buy items that were mention on that capsule wardrobe site. Limit color choices to 4 classic ones - blk, navy, grey, beige. If you want something bright or colorful then pick a shoe or bag that has color.

@Arizona_lilly 3 жыл бұрын

Tony your really good w womans brands styles names thr sales the deals even the deal at Victoria secret panty deals the smells and bath n body n the names WOW u really pay attention to detail

@ShesGottaFastCar 3 жыл бұрын

The miseducation is that people think their perception is the only thing that matters

@Arizona_lilly 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for all

@love7loyalty-MHA 3 жыл бұрын

✍🏾🌠

@nenevirgo82 3 жыл бұрын

Booty meat 🤣 omg where's the lie. I can't find it 💁🏽‍♀️

@deazailhayden2512 3 жыл бұрын

Yes drug dealer. Been Gay lol

@Morgan24_7 3 жыл бұрын

He's right. I will never forget standing next to a female and a guy asked me..."Where do you work" he abruptly asked the woman next to me "When you get out" 😮 DAMN. The LOOK on her face. He looked at me and said "You be getting up early to go to work huh?" he looked at her and asked something like "what streets you be on" then started naming streets. Turns out...ol girl really was a prostitute! Every circle has some trash in it somewhere. Might be a little, might be a lot. I would breeze through a bar-b-q or gathering and be treated with conversation and respect. She was treated like a nobody. Sometimes told she was a whore. Her "man" was standing near me. He looked embarrassed. We looked at each other. I shook my head and said..."You can always smell it on a girl who sell it."

@denisemyers733 3 жыл бұрын

3:46 and up drug dealer for sure .

@kadidraj 3 жыл бұрын

I am so far from fashion....what is a bandage dress????

@cuniqueness 3 жыл бұрын

Modern chic, The main goal is to not dress half your age & present wears that compliment your true self. Look more like a package than baggage.

@lylastephens3836 3 жыл бұрын

Old Fashion, but he's going to cheat, doesn't matter some body's going to cheat

@BlairWaldorf2013 3 жыл бұрын

The sad part about our community (the Blk Community) is both men and women are really ONLY seen for what our bodies represent. For men it’s physicality and for WOMEN it’s sexuality. Just look at EVERY mainstream black (or black adjacent) woman in music. Literally, every damn part of their bodies being displayed. That’s what our young girls see and they see *those* women ‘making it’ so they think that is how a Blk woman should look to be desirable. You don’t see any non-Blk girls in music HAVING to do this to be famous. This is not on accident that only Blk women are *literally* objectified by their bodies at EVERY step of the way to be in popular culture. Society doesn’t want to show young girls respect for their bodies lest we actually expect RESPECT from the society we live in.

@Choclatcotton 3 жыл бұрын

Bright pants on a man?

@mariagrady8425 3 жыл бұрын

A hat on a monkey says sonething.

@kadidraj 3 жыл бұрын

The bible does mention how women should dress and that's modestly!!!!

@t-shindalankston3621 3 жыл бұрын

1st viewer

@elllievv9134 Жыл бұрын

When you dress like a lady, you never have to ask a man to treat you like one.

@latoyahenry5881 3 жыл бұрын

My husband hates when I dress up and put myself together. He gets so upset and act negative and discourage me. If I dress up and go on the road he calls me none stop arguing with me. I am so disgusted with my life with this male...

@MissTracy-Ann 3 жыл бұрын

Take back your power and change your mindset, sis. Never let a man make you hate your life. God bless 🙏🏾

@Belihoney 3 жыл бұрын

Damn you can't let someone who feels so bad about themselves poison your mind. He's trying to drag you down with him

@yoyo-jt6yp 3 жыл бұрын

He is toxic. He is prolly operating from a place of insecurity

@lovebug6388 3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like he might be cheating on you. The argument is a distraction and deflection to keep your mental off what is really going on. Stop arguing with him. Start watching his actions and your finances. Rather it's physically, emotionally, and or financially, infidelity hurts. Have a game plan. Go to the doctor and get checked for STDs and herpes (have to ask for that separate otherwise they won't include it). Open up a p.o. box and a separate account. Start moving money to that account and have the statement sent there. Tell no one b/c they may try to discourage you or tell him. If it turns out he's not cheating in any capacity, great. Find out if he's willing to go to counseling to get to the root of the problem. In the meantime you are stacking your money to file for divorce, move, and pay for your own therapy. It's not easy yet your self esteem and worth are PRICELESS. It's even more imperative to take action if there are children so that they don't see, internalize and repeat these toxic behaviors later in their lives. Best of luck to you.

@nessauk2786 3 жыл бұрын

I go for well groomstyled and sexy during meet ups ...tidy bit raunchy ...could do better advice

@S.Lee8 3 жыл бұрын

I'm offended 😒😅

@PeaceBeStill- 3 жыл бұрын

Lol it's ok sis

@chasidycollins9061 3 жыл бұрын

You’re convicted sis😅 that’s probably what you’re feeling. It’s always a chance to make that change🥲

@davontaeharris6145 3 жыл бұрын

Idc I ain't trying to look good anyway

@user-ud8mt6fj1m 3 жыл бұрын

My bf gets so insecure if I got out wearing a top that shows cleavage. And says all your boobs are out which is not true. I don’t get it. What’s the big deal?

@cassycookie9558 3 жыл бұрын

A bad man will treat you bad (rape, violent) no mattee how you dress conservativw or not. Lets stop blaming women clothing for the bad behavior of men.

@marysmith6803 3 жыл бұрын

Not true, there’s all ways excuse makers God tells women to adorn themselves meaning cover your body🤷‍♀️

@nataliehenderson69 3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@lovebug6388 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! These predators are good at putting on facades to lure in their victims. Whether fully dressed or half naked, if they want to do harm they will find someone.

@Ang_Nicole 3 жыл бұрын

As a survivor myself, I can confirm that this is 100% true. I was dressed modestly when it happened. Still, I remain modestly dressed to further protect myself and make sure I’m not sending the wrong message, but you just can’t control who comes your way. Dress how you want to be addressed, but don’t think you’re automatically safe because you look respectable. It’s sad but just the truth.

@cassycookie9558 3 жыл бұрын

@@Ang_Nicole I hope you are okay!