*Oh my. ....depends on the ppl on both sides! Some ppl are mature enough to get in relationships based off having a friendship and respect first off and my theory would be that if there's ever a single doubt or intuition that they aren't being faithful or honest then you should care about yourself enough to let go asap! I know myself well enough to not dive into that bc there's a reason I left you, but sure I will always care, but I'll also respect my man enough to never make him feel uncomfortable about it! And if your with someone that can't trust you and there's no reason what so ever and you even do whatever you can to try proving it, then they have their own insecurities, and I GUARANTEE they'd be the one to be sneaky as hell! Notice it's the younger girls saying no to the friendship.....they haven't learned yet and they will! I'm 36 and I'm glad I've finally learned my lesson giving many chances as well as knowing what i want and deserve bc if you can't be close and communicate enough to have a friendship first before you have a relationship, then you can't be truly happy and most the time it'll end anyways! And with saying that....past relationships ended for a reason no matter what...even if you where friends, but you've gotta be the one to make sure the person your with is all you want and put that trust into yourself to never do anything to mess it up! If there's any thought to cheat or any doubt, be better and let your other half know and break it off!!*

The ex that still has the feelings is the one that gets really upset and crazy and freaks out when their ex has found someone else

_Sorry for this late response. __Nazmus Sakib Siraji__, I got my ex back and we are_ _happy together. And because of those intimacy text, my boyfriend_ _was really ignite to our relationship back. Really highly recommend_ _this to all.:p_

Chuck was speaking the truth though.. Only insecure and jealous people get so opinionated over ex's.