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The MashaKata

The MashaKata

Күн бұрын

looks like you forgot how powerful you are AGAIN!!!!
cozy relaxing little chit chat about obsession... #softspoken of course (kinda) :-)

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@Lucas-ox9zo
@Lucas-ox9zo Ай бұрын
I would rather be alone until I find someone who truly fits in my vibe.
@Mat_Dan
@Mat_Dan Ай бұрын
but don't wait for someone who loves you to love yourself bro
@Lucas-ox9zo
@Lucas-ox9zo Ай бұрын
@@Mat_Dan I won't bro.
@Mat_Dan
@Mat_Dan Ай бұрын
@@Lucas-ox9zo and you don't right?
@Artemis-A24
@Artemis-A24 Ай бұрын
@@Mat_DanWhen did they ever imply that lmao
@Mat_Dan
@Mat_Dan Ай бұрын
@@Artemis-A24 _Many_ do everything backwards: they look for love in order to find themselves. You have to look for yourself to find love
@DoodleBobSaysNo
@DoodleBobSaysNo Ай бұрын
Detaching from people’s obsession with you is the beginning to self care
@TheEduardo069
@TheEduardo069 Ай бұрын
i love your vocabulary, your kind words, it's clear to understand and it's flawless to practice my english skills, as a native spanish speaker i highly recommend your channel to relax and study english at the same time.
@robmetalhead6185
@robmetalhead6185 Ай бұрын
Great advice Masha it is better to focus on goals in life and when the right opportunity happens go with flow just becomes overwhelming and stressful when all energy is on one specific individual
@dbern939
@dbern939 Ай бұрын
I love you Masha, going through a breakup, you words are very relevant to me right now and are helping me get through it.
@Artemis-A24
@Artemis-A24 Ай бұрын
As a young man, I remember was always being told that I had to be the one to fall head over heels over a woman because that’d somehow show that I was worth marrying. But now if I don’t receive the same effort I put in back, I stop. Like me, a lot of people are tired of carrying the whole relationship
@invisiblehole8956
@invisiblehole8956 Ай бұрын
Also that abrupt ending felt like a bullet passing through me, I could clearly feel the intensity, but it's real , true love is when both person give up everything for each other and host each other identity that is the Ultimate love hands down there's nothing stronger more than that ending the relationship means ending yourself, I always wanted such a relationship it's my favorite if doesn't go a toxic road, things will be so secure and stable and constant trust my god it's perfection But it's a double edged sword, it's a hit or miss nothing in between , it's too risky but extremely rewarding, I mean today's relationship fail almost all times you will lose anyway why not aim for the big fish
@omenznc
@omenznc Ай бұрын
ur voice is mesmerizing i could listen to you talk all day
@nein-tyfaa4686
@nein-tyfaa4686 Ай бұрын
I never knew I needed this free therapy
@CaliSPICY
@CaliSPICY Ай бұрын
Thank you Masha, this is a message I personally really needed❤ I often worried about what other people think about me and overall just care a bit too much about other people in that way
@CBSMakesMusic
@CBSMakesMusic 18 сағат бұрын
If life was not consciously perceived, then how could it be? Who among the living does life live through? I'm trying to understand what this means. I just thought it.
@ErskineCrumb
@ErskineCrumb Ай бұрын
This was a valuable talk, Masha - thank-you. The advice to first identify and learn to live at/with one's own, innate level of intensity, without shame, and, from there, to become aware of others who show themselves to be a natural match to that level, is well taken.
@hugues2756
@hugues2756 Ай бұрын
I'd say you better not be obsessed with your partner... better focus on yourself and share a healthy relationship with him or her or... whatever...
@SaoirseArfud
@SaoirseArfud Ай бұрын
I'm so happy to see you do a video again I thought you'd left us . Your videos help inspire and motivate.
@GamerBloxYTOfficial
@GamerBloxYTOfficial Ай бұрын
thanks to masha, i changed my life and started doing the right thing, by building a physique and etc. thank you so much Masha for helping me go through my hard tjmes.
@Antonin1738
@Antonin1738 Ай бұрын
This is why I ignore everybody
@Alex-gy1em
@Alex-gy1em Ай бұрын
🎉
@Alex-gy1em
@Alex-gy1em Ай бұрын
😂
@chrisloe3
@chrisloe3 Ай бұрын
Yeahh was on the giving end of this kind of long term relationship and job as well as being forced into a few things I didn't fully agree with. Never fully appreciated and overworking for my share. Had to rebuild my own passions and personal identity for sure. But it does get so much better after plenty of new experiences after the fact! Took a few years, but now I'm happier than ever with big and simple things. It's liberating to enjoy your own company. Great timing on this video for my chaotic life rn. And idk if intended, but it was a lil asmr experience that i haven't been able to feel in a while. Maybe the style of speaking in an assertive, but caring tone. Thanks for this internet friend
@KingCharles25
@KingCharles25 Ай бұрын
8:43 “Because truly you’re not broken. You’re just bent.” 😂 you had to get that joke off
@wellingtonfreitascosta6555
@wellingtonfreitascosta6555 Ай бұрын
I have no doubt that you are a Queen, and that you remind me of a Goddess when I hear your magical voice ! 🖤👑
@sahorycielo01
@sahorycielo01 Ай бұрын
I am glad that you post this because I kinda was feeling this way and is good to know and remind that I am doing it good ❤thank you
@ghostc1pher
@ghostc1pher Ай бұрын
I'm not chaotic but I did have a relationship where I felt strongly that I wanted to lose myself in this girl but she was put off by it and that rejection hurt. Made me feel like I was too much. But on the bright side it made me do some reflecting and later understood that I had been vulnerable at that time and for me to want to lose myself in her was a sort of attempt at an escape from where I was in my life. Since then I have managed to make myself whole and be content and satisfied just within myself.
@tyronechurch7626
@tyronechurch7626 Ай бұрын
The beauty of life
@bigdeuce1127
@bigdeuce1127 Ай бұрын
Hi Masha!!! All kinds of your words are amazing, so very glad to hear, hope you keep it up 😁👍❤️
@FlevoRensNL
@FlevoRensNL Ай бұрын
Therapy session : I am a sensative person for people I really like I feel everything their Aura their energy their presence. When they feel down I worry to much and if this go long enough I care really much but some people are not with the same intentions like me and then people see that I am obsessed but its not I just wanna help and be there for that person, its dangerous nowadays cause a lot of people can make that their benefit and use me so when I need to cut of connections I just need time to get over it sometimes I need to ignore this person for 4 weeks or 3 weeks I just figured out that I am really mentally strong guy that can kill something that need to be forgotten or to hide it in a chest in my head. I am so happy that I can do this today I talked to her again and I heard on her voice that she missed me.
@StormCrowFly
@StormCrowFly Ай бұрын
Your oratory is delightful
@anderson_c_oliveira
@anderson_c_oliveira Ай бұрын
I share the ideas of my almost namesake Brett Anderson: "The obsessions in my head don't connect with my intellect! And obsessions are like sex, simple and complex"!
@pahana
@pahana Ай бұрын
There's no way I could live like that.
@Critguards
@Critguards Ай бұрын
I love the way you thing and talk ❤ keep going, and someday hope we all bump into each other in passing. While just maybe a wave or shout to you, may joy find us all and in that moment a reminder that we can suport each other, as we should today.
@forevergreatest3155
@forevergreatest3155 Ай бұрын
True If they were meant to be 🌩️
@user-rd2qb9mr4e
@user-rd2qb9mr4e Ай бұрын
love this vid tysm masha
@FarionHorn
@FarionHorn Ай бұрын
This exactly what happened. Started from scratch, and still doesn't figured it after 11 years. I fully understand that it is not normal, but there is no other way I can imagine relationships without absession. Because there never used to be one like this.
@perlovgren919
@perlovgren919 Ай бұрын
This kinda scares me as someone who relies on a friend for the past 17 years, it doesnt feel logical that you can find that one special person again.
@Josua100
@Josua100 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much Misha, can't wait to listen this before going to sleep this evening 😌🔝🔝
@Karla.L7
@Karla.L7 Ай бұрын
Todo siempre va a depender de lo que cada quien lleve en su mente pero si tu sabes bien quien eres y que puedes y sabes hacer lo que otros piensen, digan o opinen no ha de importar, en este mundo hay mucha gente tratando de confundir, mentir y desviar al resto por eso cada uno debe valorar su criterio para ver las cosas como son, uno se equivoca pero esas equivocaciones enseñan y son lecciones para no volver a cometerlas, sirven para aprender del resto y de uno mismo, las obsesiones del resto son un problema que esa gente debe solucionar.
@casebotk1ll3r
@casebotk1ll3r Ай бұрын
amazing video!
@Jamjamz_
@Jamjamz_ Ай бұрын
People want someone obsessed with them because then they can stop struggling to work on themselves and evolve. The fact is, relationships can end at any time for any reason, but you're stuck with yourself, so you might as well figure out how to love yourself. Anyone you know in decades of marriage or partnership will tell you they have struggles and have to work at things. If you can't even work on yourself now, how are you going to compound your life with a relationship you need to maintain as well?
@dp2905
@dp2905 Ай бұрын
Your hair is fantastic. Gorgeous. ❤
@Kirkxreign
@Kirkxreign Ай бұрын
Thanks! That's just what I needed to hear today 😮
@thomasliangus
@thomasliangus Ай бұрын
Well, I am obsessed with you. XD
@none377
@none377 Ай бұрын
I need to hear this!
@vestpow
@vestpow Ай бұрын
You are seriously so wise beyond your years. So many things you said spoke directly to my soul. Thank you for existing and making content 💞💫✨
@miruurim6053
@miruurim6053 Ай бұрын
Podría escucharte hablar por horas, que voz tan cálida y linda.
@begaxo
@begaxo Ай бұрын
love these vids
@ThisIsBrianMcKnight
@ThisIsBrianMcKnight Ай бұрын
Great point (the title)
@sergioosuna7
@sergioosuna7 Ай бұрын
I think prevention of obsession is a key element in sustaining a healthy relationship. Obsession is similar to being in a continual state of delusion. You have a way of explaining these social dynamics between partners like a professional therapist. Thank you for sharing your insights on this trending topic. Nobody does it better!👌
@prince.c8458
@prince.c8458 Ай бұрын
Thanks for this video 🙏
@anubhavnandi6422
@anubhavnandi6422 Ай бұрын
I just don't understand why do people's desires get fulfilled in the moment when they least deserve it or not even longing for it. Later, when things don't go our way, those same so called materialistic desires are labelled as curse and people are asked to wait further for the right time. If the creator already knows that it was not the right time earlier why did he trap us in the first place? What's wrong with consistency of this universe? If this leads to personal growth it's hollow and worthless when there's no trust and commitment This paradox of life makes me wish I could disappear from the world because people won't be able to get that I don't have anything to talk with you anymore
@henus810
@henus810 Ай бұрын
Off topic. You look stunning in the red dress.
@Atomic_Unicorn13
@Atomic_Unicorn13 Ай бұрын
Lol Masha, you’re exactly like me, cracking a little jokey joke to lighten the mood 🤣 I found myself doing that a lot between late 2023-early 2024 because if I didn’t laugh, I would’ve have been crying all the time 🙃
@davidderidder2667
@davidderidder2667 Ай бұрын
You are an ENFJ personality type👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@whatsgoodearth
@whatsgoodearth Ай бұрын
Not necessarily. with a partner we shouldn't obsess and take care of the other. We should obsess and take care of ourselves for our partner.
@Itz_Nxanity
@Itz_Nxanity Ай бұрын
The trauma you been through miss masha I would really love to know. Because to know this knowledge is from pain an experience 😅😂❤❤❤
@elpablosky6300
@elpablosky6300 Ай бұрын
❤The best Therapist and gorgeous too this sound relax me a lot. 10:47 11:34
@CygnusX-11
@CygnusX-11 Ай бұрын
I didn't know Ana De Armas was this wise
@peoduction6068
@peoduction6068 Ай бұрын
You are stunning my god
@muhammadtalhatariqrashid1946
@muhammadtalhatariqrashid1946 Ай бұрын
so lovey amazing stunning adorable love u 😘
@Joh76J
@Joh76J Ай бұрын
You are the best girl ever !
@eight8766
@eight8766 Ай бұрын
Comeback to Australia Masha!
@quiinstar3382
@quiinstar3382 Ай бұрын
I’m so earlyyyy and I love it here
@liamwilson12345
@liamwilson12345 Ай бұрын
I’m just big spoon
@santiagogonzalezortiz3735
@santiagogonzalezortiz3735 Ай бұрын
Could you describe what you understand by saying "chaotic"? Because I can see myself as the people you're describing, but I don't consider myself "chaotic". I've never been in a relationship, but I see me giving all of me to my friends, and to the people I love. I need to know how they feel, I need to be there if they need me and I need them to know. But at the same time I think I have a very strategic mind, I have to phrase things in my head five times before saying it out loud because I take in count all the ways something can be interpretated (this might be obsessive more than strategic, but the thing is that I think I have a pretty logic mind xd)
@jonnathanjimenez3867
@jonnathanjimenez3867 Ай бұрын
you look great
@ripxdoc
@ripxdoc Ай бұрын
Masha Monday 🎉❤
@themashakata
@themashakata Ай бұрын
💅💅
@indigosnow_
@indigosnow_ Ай бұрын
Preach 🙌🏻
@Viroh
@Viroh Ай бұрын
Mom I am listening
@greeencrack6049
@greeencrack6049 Ай бұрын
you got jokes huh 😁
@DemontrulGaming
@DemontrulGaming Ай бұрын
Call it ASMR, it's still relaxing
@twitchytitchy5472
@twitchytitchy5472 Ай бұрын
Obsessed...? How do you even become liked in a relationship....
@chrisllanos5421
@chrisllanos5421 Ай бұрын
Gorgeous masha 🥰🥰
@victorpalace1466
@victorpalace1466 Ай бұрын
Te tqm Masha, tu siempre me entendiste xd
@nittani.
@nittani. Ай бұрын
Could you explain to me how you sell your art so confidently I struggle with that.
@viscabarca9902
@viscabarca9902 Ай бұрын
True
@B.R.I.A.N..
@B.R.I.A.N.. Ай бұрын
deep
@Nomorezoa
@Nomorezoa Ай бұрын
forever single :P
@briansabino653
@briansabino653 Ай бұрын
🥰😍Masha💕🌹 lovely😘💘
@slcooIj
@slcooIj Ай бұрын
Welcome to anothet session with 'Dr. Masha' ;)
@edgartorres7891
@edgartorres7891 Ай бұрын
Hermosa preciosa beautiful 🇲🇽🇲🇽🙌🏻✨💫
@WaterFlow489
@WaterFlow489 Ай бұрын
I drew you. Where should I send it?
@foxeh123
@foxeh123 Ай бұрын
You kinda remind me of Emilia Clarke
@nittani.
@nittani. Ай бұрын
Can i create a logo for you
@Hanz_Moleman
@Hanz_Moleman Ай бұрын
I would love to invest stocks and shares into you
@themashakata
@themashakata 19 күн бұрын
thanks for your support of the channel right joining the platforms is so much appreciated
@FUS-R0-DAH
@FUS-R0-DAH Ай бұрын
Bonjour Masha, j'ai une demande particulière à te faire. J'espère que tu pourras au moins la lire, même si tu ne peux pas l'accorder. Le sujet m'a fait penser à une mère qui donne tout son temps, toute son énergie et toute son âme à sa famille, au point où cela la vide ; au point où elle "n'existe plus", quasiment. Elle est entourée de gens qui ne l'aident pas, et c'est son fils qui l'écoute, l'assiste et la guide au lieu de son mari. Son mari n'a pas conscience du travail colossale qu'elle abat chaque jour, et bien qu'il aime ses enfants et sa femme, il ne connaîtrait même pas la couleur préférée de l'un d'eux. Il montre plus de sentiments envers sa voiture qu'envers eux. Je crains qu'elle ne reste avec lui pour éviter aux enfants de souffrir. Cette mère a toujours tout fait pour les autres et a souvent été gravement déçue. J'imagine que les gens prennent sa bonté pour de la faiblesse ; j'en suis convaincu bien que sans preuve. En tout cas, elle la donne toujours malgré tout. Pourrais-tu faire une vidéo similaire pour potentiellement l'aider à changer ? Je ne sais pas expliquer pourquoi, mais je t'en sens capable. Encore une fois, cest normal si tu ne peux pas le faire, puisque je suis assez spécifique, et donc je devrais payer pour une telle demande normalement
@LorenzoLaQuette
@LorenzoLaQuette Ай бұрын
I love you
@siummulgatamulgata1794
@siummulgatamulgata1794 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Halfpastlife
@Halfpastlife Ай бұрын
hi whatsup masha
@bobbwc7011
@bobbwc7011 Ай бұрын
I do not understand what she's talking about. What are these other people she's referring to? What is a partner?
@jiggidyjackson3909
@jiggidyjackson3909 Ай бұрын
Fax 🤣
@bakirylan3195
@bakirylan3195 Ай бұрын
Please Turkish cc
@1BadSavage
@1BadSavage Ай бұрын
You're one of these people probably that you made this Nobody stays in love forever. True love endures and isn't looking for somebody to make them happy. they make themselves happy. The whole purpose of having a partner is to have kids and the kids become the connection and the glue of the relationship If you are obsessed and just met you clearly have a physical relationship. The physical relationship is a drug and just like any drug it destroys
@joseagrinsoni
@joseagrinsoni Ай бұрын
Love you Masha🫶
@LorenzoLaQuette
@LorenzoLaQuette Ай бұрын
Yooo
@auggieboyy
@auggieboyy Ай бұрын
⬆☯⬆☯
@ManofGodASMR
@ManofGodASMR Ай бұрын
I'm obsessed/in love with God & I want to be with someone who is obsessed/in love with God. That's the only way a relationship would work for me. I live by the spirit, not by the flesh. If I have no peace about someone, then they're not for me. I seek the Lord first and discern the people who come into my life.
@shivy-akl2293
@shivy-akl2293 Ай бұрын
Wait are you Christian??
@SmallGuyonTop
@SmallGuyonTop Ай бұрын
You are describing the Christian marriage according to the Bible.
@bhvernaitrioa
@bhvernaitrioa 2 күн бұрын
you know honestly I only started watching these videos because she’s attractive but really this is some top tier therapy, something that only people with meaningful experience can provide
@LukeLuteran
@LukeLuteran 6 күн бұрын
i like controlled chaos, if that makes sense. Stable home, but not 10pm bedtime every night, i like a little fun and mystery. If every day is the same, boredom is inevitable. besides, I have way too much to do to be even home every night.
@AsadKhan-nz9rq
@AsadKhan-nz9rq 11 күн бұрын
Yes dear i oo persint
@AsadKhan-nz9rq
@AsadKhan-nz9rq 11 күн бұрын
Pawar dear God give me
@AsadKhan-nz9rq
@AsadKhan-nz9rq 11 күн бұрын
U r eyes is Nice ons me Nolige is nolige dear friend 🌹
@AsadKhan-nz9rq
@AsadKhan-nz9rq 11 күн бұрын
Every time Liv possible in the world 24 over dear one thinks u feel better . bring pean is a nolige dear friend 🌹
@AsadKhan-nz9rq
@AsadKhan-nz9rq 11 күн бұрын
End is celiar not proxci ❤❤❤❤❤ why dear nolige dear friend 🌹
Don't forget who you are
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