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When Are We Getting Married? // Relationship + Love Advice Q&A

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RayaWasHere

RayaWasHere

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@nikitafu
@nikitafu 7 жыл бұрын
The way Louis looks at Raya♡♡ too cute
@johannafrank9789
@johannafrank9789 7 жыл бұрын
Nikoleta Antonak Trueeee
@dogandcrow8479
@dogandcrow8479 7 жыл бұрын
I noticed that as well, well, who would miss it?
@Sandra-fu3in
@Sandra-fu3in 7 жыл бұрын
I was thinking that during the whole video
@StephenSE9
@StephenSE9 6 жыл бұрын
Nikoleta Antonak That's love.
@Pauiej
@Pauiej 7 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people are obsessed with everyone needing to have babies. Some can't have them and some don't want to. Can we just chill? Live our lives the way we want?
@hfs9700
@hfs9700 6 жыл бұрын
I agree - why do people always ask when others are going to have a baby / babies. Some want them, some do not, some cannot and others adopt. Each to their own.
@Blurggg
@Blurggg 7 жыл бұрын
Omg with the whole external pressures of getting married and having kids. You're living an amazing life! I'm glad you're taking your time and enjoying the moment without constantly thinking about what's next. You're doing life so right. 👍
@alexandramei1975
@alexandramei1975 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I haven't seen Louis in forever! I'm behind lol. I remember the old days with him and the Harries twins.
@alexandramei1975
@alexandramei1975 7 жыл бұрын
irena vasileva lol I miss their channel
@rihana21x
@rihana21x 7 жыл бұрын
Omg same!
@AbiMe07
@AbiMe07 7 жыл бұрын
You two will be such great parents one day! But take your time.. as much as you need and enjoy life :)
@mauhuff
@mauhuff 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Raya! I used to watch Louis' vlogs EVERYDAY back in 2013-2015 and I can tell he is so happy with you. You both are such free spirits and God bless you both with happiness, freedom, and love no matter where you go.
@chelsea5608
@chelsea5608 7 жыл бұрын
LOL love the zoom on Louis' face when asked about marriage and kids
@andlilla
@andlilla 7 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for taking time to talk about relationships and for being open about yours because your relationship is one that should be an example for many. I think it is very important that you tell the world how you work on some issues and how much you have talked about certain potential or real problems. Because you are what people describe as “couple goals”. That’s why I appreciate that you tell the world that good relationships don’t appear out of the blue. It’s not magic! It’s not “the one”. Great relationships are created through lots of work and compromise. I think many young people don’t know that and they give up their relationships at the first obstacle. That’s why I’m happy that you let those people know that even if you have a great basis, that is not enough for a long-lasting relationship. It requires constant work! Just because you have great soil, you won’t be able to grow a beautiful flower from it, unless you work on it each and every day. Raya, I think even though this seems like a light, fun little video to watch, you educate people without them noticing it. I think these videos are more important than you think. Thank you for making them! You are a person deserving to be a role model for many!
@RayaWasHere
@RayaWasHere 7 жыл бұрын
+Lilla András thank you so much!! I honestly hadn't thought about it like that so thank you. That's the thing with relationships - they take work and compromise every day and they're never as easy as movies make them look. But so so worth it ❤
@andlilla
@andlilla 7 жыл бұрын
I was a naive little girl, thinking that some people are just a perfect match and that's it. I was lucky enough to have lots of conversations with someone wiser than me about relationships and that person opened my eyes and now I'm 26 and in a great relationship but I don't think that with my old naive approach I could be in a long-lasting relationship. So for many people you can be that wise person who open their eyes about the true nature of becoming "couple goals" :) Looking forward to your long distance and other relationship videos!
@harveythepooka
@harveythepooka 7 жыл бұрын
This is especially true because people look at youtubers and think they have no problems just because we don't see their problems. KZfaqrs idealize their life and we buy into it and for many young people they think that what they see is reality. I'm sure Raya and Louis disagree and fight from time to time but we don't see it and we shouldn't because that's obviously private. It's just it gives people this fake feeling that it's "easy" when it's not.
@TheRainydayvideo
@TheRainydayvideo 7 жыл бұрын
That look that Louis gives to Raya at the end says it all. What a beautiful couple.
@kiliya89
@kiliya89 7 жыл бұрын
Loved it! Looking forward to the Long Distance themed video. I (Canadian) met my BF (Spaniard) while on my sabbatical year backpacking trip so we go through a lot of the same things. I am still travelling a year later (and now working on the road) while he lives and works in his home town in Spain.
@amberobrien9631
@amberobrien9631 7 жыл бұрын
I love these!!!! Please do a part 2
@naturesweety
@naturesweety 7 жыл бұрын
The way, Louis is looking at you with so much love ❤❤
@evadohalova2396
@evadohalova2396 7 жыл бұрын
I really agree what you said about that there are more than one person who might be right for you! I mean how lucky would you have to be to find exactly the one out of 7 billion people? Love the video xx
@mariannechevrier7908
@mariannechevrier7908 7 жыл бұрын
And as soon as you have a baby, people won't stop asking about other babies! The pressure never ends!
@Dr.Vinnie
@Dr.Vinnie 7 жыл бұрын
i wanna find a louis for myself some day
@elisemadelinemusic
@elisemadelinemusic 7 жыл бұрын
yo that convo ab the love languages is SO beautifully communicated, love that you included that because it applies to all kinds of love
@shanap8970
@shanap8970 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing and positive couple!
@GomesTalks
@GomesTalks 7 жыл бұрын
Raya and Louis, you need to go to Madeira Island, it is a portuguese island, near morocco. many people call the pearl of the atlantic and it's so beautiful.
@justanotherpersonxo
@justanotherpersonxo 7 жыл бұрын
Diogo Gomes Sim!
@JasmineFossett98
@JasmineFossett98 7 жыл бұрын
Aw, this was nice to watch :)
@seuncarter
@seuncarter 7 жыл бұрын
Yes to a Part 2 and with Louis please, I just enjoy watching you both together. The way Louis smiles and looks at you #Bliss
@alicealonsomartinez1687
@alicealonsomartinez1687 7 жыл бұрын
I loved the answer of "how do you know if someone is the right person". I love your way to see things and your advices are soo inspiring and handful!!
@kelseyathome5549
@kelseyathome5549 7 жыл бұрын
I love your videos, Raya! You are the only person who is honest about how tough relationships can be and it's so refreshing. You're such an awesome and down-to-Earth person! Love & light xx
@MsZepheus
@MsZepheus 7 жыл бұрын
But the video felt so short!
@RayaWasHere
@RayaWasHere 7 жыл бұрын
+Christina Kersten ah thank you! I was worried it was too long!
@dogandcrow8479
@dogandcrow8479 7 жыл бұрын
For the subject I agree. Part two is a must :)
@etnacila69
@etnacila69 7 жыл бұрын
Personally your always learning something new from your partner..I've been with my husband for 17 years... 5 of dating and 12 married... I've learned the most of him married good and bad but we've never disrespected each other verbally or shamed each other and I truly believe that in itself is a key to a healthy relationship....love you guys can't wait to meet your beautiful babies😉😙
@Valeriie2692
@Valeriie2692 7 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo that face of louis when raya read that about getting married or have kids!!! 🤣🤣
@lauras6016
@lauras6016 7 жыл бұрын
Valeria Patiño i
@Logicalx
@Logicalx 7 жыл бұрын
6:54 - says it all, priceless reaction. Don't worry Louis, some day in the future you'll have some I'm sure! And you'll be great!!!!!!
@lostfox27
@lostfox27 6 жыл бұрын
Loved the widening eyes when the marriage/kids question came up :D
@dennis.35th
@dennis.35th 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for your gift of opening peoples eyes and see the world from an other perspective: live intense and spread your love.
@Dutchfruitjar
@Dutchfruitjar 7 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are both Acts of Service with Receiving Gifts and Words of Affirmation being very low. We've been together 9.5 years, married only 1.5 years and absolutely no hurry to have kids. We only had a wedding due to a certain level of guilt of being only children. But it was enjoyable and I got to wear a gorgeous dress :)
@piasalomon7053
@piasalomon7053 7 жыл бұрын
Make a part 2 😍😍😍
@xoxobianca192
@xoxobianca192 7 жыл бұрын
Loved the video and your perspective on things! You and Louis are so cute together 💗💗
@shereebirkhead2003
@shereebirkhead2003 7 жыл бұрын
You guys are so great together. I think to be a couple you don't have to be so alike, just best friends who get each other. As a couple if you can always say sorry, forgive and have respect for each other you will be okay :)
@ib5799
@ib5799 7 жыл бұрын
I love those two and their relationship. Sooooo cute.❤
@GabrielTravelerVideos
@GabrielTravelerVideos 7 жыл бұрын
Nice talk, great points. I'm in Albania right now and can see Corfu from here. Going there next. Glad you guys had a nice time and managed to get some time out.
@Moira1309
@Moira1309 5 жыл бұрын
I just watched this today, and when you talked about marriage and children, so true why do you want to rush. I married my husband after we where 5.5 years together. We decided after that to go travelling so we did from 2007 until 2010. We moved to New Zealand as we are Dutch. Lived there until 2018 and left again for another world travel. We are together for 18.5 years and are so happy together so he is the one for me. No babies for us as we are happy together.
@mayay2735
@mayay2735 7 жыл бұрын
You're an amazing couple! Raya you're so beautiful! Love the dress. Red looks good on you!
@amethyst2207
@amethyst2207 7 жыл бұрын
OMGGGG!! Louis's face when she said the word kids! 😂😂
@AJauntWithJoy
@AJauntWithJoy 7 жыл бұрын
We have so many similar ways of looking at the world and relationships! And uck - I totally know how the long distance feels. My boyfriends a seasonal park ranger and I'm a seasonal wildlife biologist and travel blogger/agent AND work here and there on cruise ships. We do a LOT of long distance and it never gets any easier. He's been on the opposite side of the country now for 4 months but I'll get to see him next month for a week, and that's one of the longest we'll have done long distance. Thinking about also creating a LDR video or blog post with my tips, etc. Wishing you both strength and comfort while he's away!
@lovemecom3832
@lovemecom3832 7 жыл бұрын
Don't rush things. At the end, if you really destined to each other then you might end up walking in the aisle :)
@robbuglass6199
@robbuglass6199 7 жыл бұрын
It's really good when people are positive & nice about Rays . There is a bit of nastiness in the comments sometimes on Louis channel .
@emmahancox3640
@emmahancox3640 7 жыл бұрын
Had to rewatch Louis's face at 6:54 hilarious! Lovely video, I LOVE when you two upload a sit down video together xox
@tothenationsworldwidetrave4734
@tothenationsworldwidetrave4734 6 жыл бұрын
great love advice while on the road. We have interviewed dozens of travel couples and they all provide such amazing couple advice when traveling like yours!
@Serkaltravel
@Serkaltravel 6 жыл бұрын
Yaaaasss thank you for mentioning Greece guys 😍😍🇬🇷🇬🇷🇬🇷
@LadyTressa
@LadyTressa 7 жыл бұрын
Great honeymoon destination: Turtle Island!! :) Blue Lagoon was filmed there in the 70's
@nadinevangass1197
@nadinevangass1197 7 жыл бұрын
love your answers about marriage and kids. 💜 . yay people who think like me. too bad ive never met people like this in real life.
@brenlin8866
@brenlin8866 7 жыл бұрын
🤗👍🏼🤗👍🏼🤗 Nice to hear you say you are taking your time. My husband and I have been married almost forty years and we got married when it felt right. We also waited to start a family when we were ready. You love to travel and do so many wonderful things to make this world a better place and that's what you should continue to do until YOUR path changes. Luv ya
@mamaille88
@mamaille88 7 жыл бұрын
Bren lin That is amAzing for you and your husband. I know someday soon that would be the case for me as well. Many blessings on your marriage.
@hghonaker
@hghonaker 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Raya, Don't know if you remember, but we met in South Africa at Coral Divers last year. I just wanted to say, I loved the part of this video where you talked about the pressure of finding "the one", as it's something I stress myself out with a lot. It was really refreshing to think of it as there's multiple "the one's" out there. Thanks for that! Also, in regards to the long distance thing, I did four months apart from my boyfriend earlier this year, and just know that it is very hard, but it's honestly the most amazing experience in the long run as it strengthens your relationship in ways you can't imagine. Anyways- I'm loving following your KZfaq journey and I wish you the best of luck! Cheers x
@RayaWasHere
@RayaWasHere 7 жыл бұрын
+hghonaker thank you so much! And thank you for saying that. It's actually helping me dread the three months a little bit less. Will be so hard but I know we will only come out stronger on the other side ❤
@RexxiPanda89
@RexxiPanda89 7 жыл бұрын
I SUPER FREAKING LOVE what you said about marriage. I feel that pressure a lot and. But I don't feel the need to get married yet. I'm happy and like Louie said I feel like we are still getting to know one another. Love you guys so much. Many blessings and keep up the good work
@phynx2006
@phynx2006 7 жыл бұрын
BTW, 11 years seems like a long time, but I totally agree with Raya's answer, still 11 years, really!!
@nancyp9404
@nancyp9404 7 жыл бұрын
12:13 The way Louis looks at you!! You guys are so cute xx
@RayaWasHere
@RayaWasHere 7 жыл бұрын
+Nancy P 😍
@mimiteen15
@mimiteen15 7 жыл бұрын
Love these videos!!!😊Louis eyes when u said marriage and kids. 😂Take your time guys theres no rush just enjoy life and youll know when it will feel right. ❤ Love you guys so much!!!
@indylaura99
@indylaura99 7 жыл бұрын
Don't take this wrong (no shade!) but the one thing that you two have in common the most is how much you say the word YEAH. If someone had a drinking game where every time you said YEAH they would probably be extremely drunk lol. It's so cute that you both talk similar. My husband and I both say the word REALLY all the time.
@dinh5532
@dinh5532 7 жыл бұрын
Raya's dropping hints all around for Luois!!! lol
@criskity
@criskity 7 жыл бұрын
When are you going to graduate? When are you going to get a job? When are you going to get a girlfriend/boyfriend? When are you getting married? When are you having kids? When are you going to retire? When are you going to die? You MUST follow the life script and live life as others dictate! >:D
@Apostate_ofmind
@Apostate_ofmind 7 жыл бұрын
Pls make a part two, you two are such a treat!
@katymaloney
@katymaloney 7 жыл бұрын
Heard about the earthquake off the coast of Greece, hope you guys are all safe and stuff! xxx
@Bea94Spacca
@Bea94Spacca 7 жыл бұрын
You are so cute together :) Red does look good on you, happy 2 years anniversary and is so cute to see Louis looking at you so much love
@harveythepooka
@harveythepooka 7 жыл бұрын
Once you have kids the only way you can travel full time is in a boat or an RV/bus. Wait until you're ready to spend more time in 1 place before you take that step. It will change your life!
@Lilyb3333
@Lilyb3333 7 жыл бұрын
Two words Relationship goals
@jamesjames9193
@jamesjames9193 7 жыл бұрын
i like to see Louis being tactile with you - as in this video - as for the most part in his videos it seemed as though you were not close ... a friend of mine even asked if i thought you both were really a couple. Lol
@mycorvettelife
@mycorvettelife 7 жыл бұрын
You guys are so perfect. It makes me so happy.
@RayaWasHere
@RayaWasHere 7 жыл бұрын
+Chris Draper thank you! ❤
@marylueck2002
@marylueck2002 6 жыл бұрын
You both are genuinely such amazing souls ♥️
@kelleyreardon
@kelleyreardon 7 жыл бұрын
😍 you guys!!! So cute! Part 2 please!!
@allisonwilson8409
@allisonwilson8409 7 жыл бұрын
Love you guys!
@REDASABIR
@REDASABIR 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing all of this with us and with me as new youtuber
@danae808
@danae808 7 жыл бұрын
Best couple 😢
@chiaramancin3288
@chiaramancin3288 7 жыл бұрын
I loved this video, and the both of you and your fantastic realationship, I sure would love a second one!!
@CVMarius
@CVMarius 7 жыл бұрын
are they working on Louis not being messy or on Raya accepting Louis?
@pamacs06
@pamacs06 7 жыл бұрын
maybe both of them :D
@natalieshuman3247
@natalieshuman3247 7 жыл бұрын
YES!! Finally someone says something about why does everyone expect marriage and kids so fast!! I don't understand why everyone is like HURRY HURRY HURRY! I moved in with my boyfriend nearly 3 months ago and my family just keeps asking "Why don't you just get married?" It's the most annoying question i ever get asked! We love the way our relationship is developing and marriage might be in our future.. Just not for at least 4 more years. We want to travel, we currently trying to buy our own house and still getting to know each other. I agree with Louis, you really do get to know your significant other even after years of knowing each other/being together. 5 years of knowing my bf and i still am learning new things about him everyday!
@MsBellaSky
@MsBellaSky 7 жыл бұрын
beautiful couple we watch both your channels ....Love your dress beautiful ❤😊
@457azazazaz
@457azazazaz 6 жыл бұрын
Lol at 6:55 . And that everyone, is how a meme is born. 😂
@natashkanatasha
@natashkanatasha 6 жыл бұрын
I ship you two so hard! You’re so cute together!
@keekeesdaily
@keekeesdaily 7 жыл бұрын
Woah! Wow! Already three years! Time has passed by so quickly
@betusinkaa1
@betusinkaa1 7 жыл бұрын
Very positive video full of kind love. :)
@MeganHollyy
@MeganHollyy 7 жыл бұрын
You answered my question!! Thanks guys ❤❤ great video xxxx
@chellykins
@chellykins 7 жыл бұрын
More of these please :)
@judyprice7842
@judyprice7842 7 жыл бұрын
Always enjoy you and Louis Q and A's.
@zoelinchen
@zoelinchen 7 жыл бұрын
I love you both, but the Maldives are getting destroyed by tourism, both the nature and the indigenous culture. Nobody should go there unless it's to help out. This is a part of travelling that is not talked about enough.
@salsamite
@salsamite 5 жыл бұрын
Zoë Blue I think nobody should go there because they flog and jail teenage girls who are raped by their family members... it’s a fundamentalist islamic state that practices barbaric patriarchy.
@jirijuas95
@jirijuas95 7 жыл бұрын
Couple goals!
@vikasva7146
@vikasva7146 4 жыл бұрын
You're such a cute mindful couple🙏love you
@fatima-alv
@fatima-alv 7 жыл бұрын
You look so radiant omg 😍
@annemiekvdbos
@annemiekvdbos 7 жыл бұрын
What a cute Q&A! Loved it! Part 2 please😄
@CandyToyTwins
@CandyToyTwins 7 жыл бұрын
Super cute couple!!!
@funjoy2998
@funjoy2998 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome Lovely couple, nice video, keep it up
@soulmobileofficial2940
@soulmobileofficial2940 7 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful Raya! Thank you
@linneaboren3762
@linneaboren3762 7 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful video! Thanks a lot! :)
@javaromaa
@javaromaa 7 жыл бұрын
Hey can u guys name your first child Shinaya
@CherryyBombs
@CherryyBombs 7 жыл бұрын
when are you getting married? *zooms in on face* ahaha
@fatima-zr4tw
@fatima-zr4tw 7 жыл бұрын
Make the second part longer, please♡
@VeronicaLeroyEnglish
@VeronicaLeroyEnglish 7 жыл бұрын
You guys are so sweet ❤️ I hope you will make more videos together!
@Canyoudigityesyoucan
@Canyoudigityesyoucan 7 жыл бұрын
Agreed take your time and build a life together. Lovely people congrats
@nevraelisaveta7009
@nevraelisaveta7009 7 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely video! You suit each other so well, you inspire the best in each other. When is your anniversary btw?💖💖😚😚
@nikolapincova343
@nikolapincova343 7 жыл бұрын
Cuteness overload!
@superfancyschmancy
@superfancyschmancy 7 жыл бұрын
What a cute Q&A :)
@laurenmorris.5578
@laurenmorris.5578 7 жыл бұрын
You guys are cute.I love you Raya💖💖💖💖
@ODIATechnical
@ODIATechnical 7 жыл бұрын
Ahh I am yet to find my girl
@megangottschalk8962
@megangottschalk8962 7 жыл бұрын
Love this video!! :)
@VanillaTwilight2017
@VanillaTwilight2017 7 жыл бұрын
Aww you two make my heart warm❤
@KA7IIV
@KA7IIV 6 жыл бұрын
I would like to offer my services, if you two ever do decide to make the big plunge into marriage. I am an ordained minister in the Seattle area and will be more that happy to do the deed. You both have the best videos on the KZfaq system, by the way. Cheers.
@tmj5girl
@tmj5girl 7 жыл бұрын
you met your mirror soul which is called twin flame
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