I don't understand why people are obsessed with everyone needing to have babies. Some can't have them and some don't want to. Can we just chill? Live our lives the way we want?
@hfs97006 жыл бұрын
I agree - why do people always ask when others are going to have a baby / babies. Some want them, some do not, some cannot and others adopt. Each to their own.
@Blurggg7 жыл бұрын
Omg with the whole external pressures of getting married and having kids. You're living an amazing life! I'm glad you're taking your time and enjoying the moment without constantly thinking about what's next. You're doing life so right. 👍
@alexandramei19757 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I haven't seen Louis in forever! I'm behind lol. I remember the old days with him and the Harries twins.
@alexandramei19757 жыл бұрын
irena vasileva lol I miss their channel
@rihana21x7 жыл бұрын
Omg same!
@AbiMe077 жыл бұрын
You two will be such great parents one day! But take your time.. as much as you need and enjoy life :)
@mauhuff7 жыл бұрын
Hey Raya! I used to watch Louis' vlogs EVERYDAY back in 2013-2015 and I can tell he is so happy with you. You both are such free spirits and God bless you both with happiness, freedom, and love no matter where you go.
@chelsea56087 жыл бұрын
LOL love the zoom on Louis' face when asked about marriage and kids
@andlilla7 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for taking time to talk about relationships and for being open about yours because your relationship is one that should be an example for many. I think it is very important that you tell the world how you work on some issues and how much you have talked about certain potential or real problems. Because you are what people describe as “couple goals”. That’s why I appreciate that you tell the world that good relationships don’t appear out of the blue. It’s not magic! It’s not “the one”. Great relationships are created through lots of work and compromise. I think many young people don’t know that and they give up their relationships at the first obstacle. That’s why I’m happy that you let those people know that even if you have a great basis, that is not enough for a long-lasting relationship. It requires constant work! Just because you have great soil, you won’t be able to grow a beautiful flower from it, unless you work on it each and every day. Raya, I think even though this seems like a light, fun little video to watch, you educate people without them noticing it. I think these videos are more important than you think. Thank you for making them! You are a person deserving to be a role model for many!
@RayaWasHere7 жыл бұрын
+Lilla András thank you so much!! I honestly hadn't thought about it like that so thank you. That's the thing with relationships - they take work and compromise every day and they're never as easy as movies make them look. But so so worth it ❤
@andlilla7 жыл бұрын
I was a naive little girl, thinking that some people are just a perfect match and that's it. I was lucky enough to have lots of conversations with someone wiser than me about relationships and that person opened my eyes and now I'm 26 and in a great relationship but I don't think that with my old naive approach I could be in a long-lasting relationship. So for many people you can be that wise person who open their eyes about the true nature of becoming "couple goals" :) Looking forward to your long distance and other relationship videos!
@harveythepooka7 жыл бұрын
This is especially true because people look at youtubers and think they have no problems just because we don't see their problems. KZfaqrs idealize their life and we buy into it and for many young people they think that what they see is reality. I'm sure Raya and Louis disagree and fight from time to time but we don't see it and we shouldn't because that's obviously private. It's just it gives people this fake feeling that it's "easy" when it's not.
@TheRainydayvideo7 жыл бұрын
That look that Louis gives to Raya at the end says it all. What a beautiful couple.
@kiliya897 жыл бұрын
Loved it! Looking forward to the Long Distance themed video. I (Canadian) met my BF (Spaniard) while on my sabbatical year backpacking trip so we go through a lot of the same things. I am still travelling a year later (and now working on the road) while he lives and works in his home town in Spain.
@amberobrien96317 жыл бұрын
I love these!!!! Please do a part 2
@naturesweety7 жыл бұрын
The way, Louis is looking at you with so much love ❤❤
@evadohalova23967 жыл бұрын
I really agree what you said about that there are more than one person who might be right for you! I mean how lucky would you have to be to find exactly the one out of 7 billion people? Love the video xx
@mariannechevrier79087 жыл бұрын
And as soon as you have a baby, people won't stop asking about other babies! The pressure never ends!
@Dr.Vinnie7 жыл бұрын
i wanna find a louis for myself some day
@elisemadelinemusic7 жыл бұрын
yo that convo ab the love languages is SO beautifully communicated, love that you included that because it applies to all kinds of love
@shanap89707 жыл бұрын
Amazing and positive couple!
@GomesTalks7 жыл бұрын
Raya and Louis, you need to go to Madeira Island, it is a portuguese island, near morocco. many people call the pearl of the atlantic and it's so beautiful.
@justanotherpersonxo7 жыл бұрын
Diogo Gomes Sim!
@JasmineFossett987 жыл бұрын
Aw, this was nice to watch :)
@seuncarter7 жыл бұрын
Yes to a Part 2 and with Louis please, I just enjoy watching you both together. The way Louis smiles and looks at you #Bliss
@alicealonsomartinez16877 жыл бұрын
I loved the answer of "how do you know if someone is the right person". I love your way to see things and your advices are soo inspiring and handful!!
@kelseyathome55497 жыл бұрын
I love your videos, Raya! You are the only person who is honest about how tough relationships can be and it's so refreshing. You're such an awesome and down-to-Earth person! Love & light xx
@MsZepheus7 жыл бұрын
But the video felt so short!
@RayaWasHere7 жыл бұрын
+Christina Kersten ah thank you! I was worried it was too long!
@dogandcrow84797 жыл бұрын
For the subject I agree. Part two is a must :)
@etnacila697 жыл бұрын
Personally your always learning something new from your partner..I've been with my husband for 17 years... 5 of dating and 12 married... I've learned the most of him married good and bad but we've never disrespected each other verbally or shamed each other and I truly believe that in itself is a key to a healthy relationship....love you guys can't wait to meet your beautiful babies😉😙
@Valeriie26927 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo that face of louis when raya read that about getting married or have kids!!! 🤣🤣
@lauras60167 жыл бұрын
Valeria Patiño i
@Logicalx7 жыл бұрын
6:54 - says it all, priceless reaction. Don't worry Louis, some day in the future you'll have some I'm sure! And you'll be great!!!!!!
@lostfox276 жыл бұрын
Loved the widening eyes when the marriage/kids question came up :D
@dennis.35th7 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for your gift of opening peoples eyes and see the world from an other perspective: live intense and spread your love.
@Dutchfruitjar7 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are both Acts of Service with Receiving Gifts and Words of Affirmation being very low. We've been together 9.5 years, married only 1.5 years and absolutely no hurry to have kids. We only had a wedding due to a certain level of guilt of being only children. But it was enjoyable and I got to wear a gorgeous dress :)
@piasalomon70537 жыл бұрын
Make a part 2 😍😍😍
@xoxobianca1927 жыл бұрын
Loved the video and your perspective on things! You and Louis are so cute together 💗💗
@shereebirkhead20037 жыл бұрын
You guys are so great together. I think to be a couple you don't have to be so alike, just best friends who get each other. As a couple if you can always say sorry, forgive and have respect for each other you will be okay :)
@ib57997 жыл бұрын
I love those two and their relationship. Sooooo cute.❤
@GabrielTravelerVideos7 жыл бұрын
Nice talk, great points. I'm in Albania right now and can see Corfu from here. Going there next. Glad you guys had a nice time and managed to get some time out.
@Moira13095 жыл бұрын
I just watched this today, and when you talked about marriage and children, so true why do you want to rush. I married my husband after we where 5.5 years together. We decided after that to go travelling so we did from 2007 until 2010. We moved to New Zealand as we are Dutch. Lived there until 2018 and left again for another world travel. We are together for 18.5 years and are so happy together so he is the one for me. No babies for us as we are happy together.
@mayay27357 жыл бұрын
You're an amazing couple! Raya you're so beautiful! Love the dress. Red looks good on you!
@amethyst22077 жыл бұрын
OMGGGG!! Louis's face when she said the word kids! 😂😂
@AJauntWithJoy7 жыл бұрын
We have so many similar ways of looking at the world and relationships! And uck - I totally know how the long distance feels. My boyfriends a seasonal park ranger and I'm a seasonal wildlife biologist and travel blogger/agent AND work here and there on cruise ships. We do a LOT of long distance and it never gets any easier. He's been on the opposite side of the country now for 4 months but I'll get to see him next month for a week, and that's one of the longest we'll have done long distance. Thinking about also creating a LDR video or blog post with my tips, etc. Wishing you both strength and comfort while he's away!
@lovemecom38327 жыл бұрын
Don't rush things. At the end, if you really destined to each other then you might end up walking in the aisle :)
@robbuglass61997 жыл бұрын
It's really good when people are positive & nice about Rays . There is a bit of nastiness in the comments sometimes on Louis channel .
@emmahancox36407 жыл бұрын
Had to rewatch Louis's face at 6:54 hilarious! Lovely video, I LOVE when you two upload a sit down video together xox
@tothenationsworldwidetrave47346 жыл бұрын
great love advice while on the road. We have interviewed dozens of travel couples and they all provide such amazing couple advice when traveling like yours!
@Serkaltravel6 жыл бұрын
Yaaaasss thank you for mentioning Greece guys 😍😍🇬🇷🇬🇷🇬🇷
@LadyTressa7 жыл бұрын
Great honeymoon destination: Turtle Island!! :) Blue Lagoon was filmed there in the 70's
@nadinevangass11977 жыл бұрын
love your answers about marriage and kids. 💜 . yay people who think like me. too bad ive never met people like this in real life.
@brenlin88667 жыл бұрын
🤗👍🏼🤗👍🏼🤗 Nice to hear you say you are taking your time. My husband and I have been married almost forty years and we got married when it felt right. We also waited to start a family when we were ready. You love to travel and do so many wonderful things to make this world a better place and that's what you should continue to do until YOUR path changes. Luv ya
@mamaille887 жыл бұрын
Bren lin That is amAzing for you and your husband. I know someday soon that would be the case for me as well. Many blessings on your marriage.
@hghonaker7 жыл бұрын
Hi Raya, Don't know if you remember, but we met in South Africa at Coral Divers last year. I just wanted to say, I loved the part of this video where you talked about the pressure of finding "the one", as it's something I stress myself out with a lot. It was really refreshing to think of it as there's multiple "the one's" out there. Thanks for that! Also, in regards to the long distance thing, I did four months apart from my boyfriend earlier this year, and just know that it is very hard, but it's honestly the most amazing experience in the long run as it strengthens your relationship in ways you can't imagine. Anyways- I'm loving following your KZfaq journey and I wish you the best of luck! Cheers x
@RayaWasHere7 жыл бұрын
+hghonaker thank you so much! And thank you for saying that. It's actually helping me dread the three months a little bit less. Will be so hard but I know we will only come out stronger on the other side ❤
@RexxiPanda897 жыл бұрын
I SUPER FREAKING LOVE what you said about marriage. I feel that pressure a lot and. But I don't feel the need to get married yet. I'm happy and like Louie said I feel like we are still getting to know one another. Love you guys so much. Many blessings and keep up the good work
@phynx20067 жыл бұрын
BTW, 11 years seems like a long time, but I totally agree with Raya's answer, still 11 years, really!!
@nancyp94047 жыл бұрын
12:13 The way Louis looks at you!! You guys are so cute xx
@RayaWasHere7 жыл бұрын
+Nancy P 😍
@mimiteen157 жыл бұрын
Love these videos!!!😊Louis eyes when u said marriage and kids. 😂Take your time guys theres no rush just enjoy life and youll know when it will feel right. ❤ Love you guys so much!!!
@indylaura997 жыл бұрын
Don't take this wrong (no shade!) but the one thing that you two have in common the most is how much you say the word YEAH. If someone had a drinking game where every time you said YEAH they would probably be extremely drunk lol. It's so cute that you both talk similar. My husband and I both say the word REALLY all the time.
@dinh55327 жыл бұрын
Raya's dropping hints all around for Luois!!! lol
@criskity7 жыл бұрын
When are you going to graduate? When are you going to get a job? When are you going to get a girlfriend/boyfriend? When are you getting married? When are you having kids? When are you going to retire? When are you going to die? You MUST follow the life script and live life as others dictate! >:D
@Apostate_ofmind7 жыл бұрын
Pls make a part two, you two are such a treat!
@katymaloney7 жыл бұрын
Heard about the earthquake off the coast of Greece, hope you guys are all safe and stuff! xxx
@Bea94Spacca7 жыл бұрын
You are so cute together :) Red does look good on you, happy 2 years anniversary and is so cute to see Louis looking at you so much love
@harveythepooka7 жыл бұрын
Once you have kids the only way you can travel full time is in a boat or an RV/bus. Wait until you're ready to spend more time in 1 place before you take that step. It will change your life!
@Lilyb33337 жыл бұрын
Two words Relationship goals
@jamesjames91937 жыл бұрын
i like to see Louis being tactile with you - as in this video - as for the most part in his videos it seemed as though you were not close ... a friend of mine even asked if i thought you both were really a couple. Lol
@mycorvettelife7 жыл бұрын
You guys are so perfect. It makes me so happy.
@RayaWasHere7 жыл бұрын
+Chris Draper thank you! ❤
@marylueck20026 жыл бұрын
You both are genuinely such amazing souls ♥️
@kelleyreardon7 жыл бұрын
😍 you guys!!! So cute! Part 2 please!!
@allisonwilson84097 жыл бұрын
Love you guys!
@REDASABIR7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing all of this with us and with me as new youtuber
@danae8087 жыл бұрын
Best couple 😢
@chiaramancin32887 жыл бұрын
I loved this video, and the both of you and your fantastic realationship, I sure would love a second one!!
@CVMarius7 жыл бұрын
are they working on Louis not being messy or on Raya accepting Louis?
@pamacs067 жыл бұрын
maybe both of them :D
@natalieshuman32477 жыл бұрын
YES!! Finally someone says something about why does everyone expect marriage and kids so fast!! I don't understand why everyone is like HURRY HURRY HURRY! I moved in with my boyfriend nearly 3 months ago and my family just keeps asking "Why don't you just get married?" It's the most annoying question i ever get asked! We love the way our relationship is developing and marriage might be in our future.. Just not for at least 4 more years. We want to travel, we currently trying to buy our own house and still getting to know each other. I agree with Louis, you really do get to know your significant other even after years of knowing each other/being together. 5 years of knowing my bf and i still am learning new things about him everyday!
@MsBellaSky7 жыл бұрын
beautiful couple we watch both your channels ....Love your dress beautiful ❤😊
@457azazazaz6 жыл бұрын
Lol at 6:55 . And that everyone, is how a meme is born. 😂
@natashkanatasha6 жыл бұрын
I ship you two so hard! You’re so cute together!
@keekeesdaily7 жыл бұрын
Woah! Wow! Already three years! Time has passed by so quickly
@betusinkaa17 жыл бұрын
Very positive video full of kind love. :)
@MeganHollyy7 жыл бұрын
You answered my question!! Thanks guys ❤❤ great video xxxx
@chellykins7 жыл бұрын
More of these please :)
@judyprice78427 жыл бұрын
Always enjoy you and Louis Q and A's.
@zoelinchen7 жыл бұрын
I love you both, but the Maldives are getting destroyed by tourism, both the nature and the indigenous culture. Nobody should go there unless it's to help out. This is a part of travelling that is not talked about enough.
@salsamite5 жыл бұрын
Zoë Blue I think nobody should go there because they flog and jail teenage girls who are raped by their family members... it’s a fundamentalist islamic state that practices barbaric patriarchy.
@jirijuas957 жыл бұрын
Couple goals!
@vikasva71464 жыл бұрын
You're such a cute mindful couple🙏love you
@fatima-alv7 жыл бұрын
You look so radiant omg 😍
@annemiekvdbos7 жыл бұрын
What a cute Q&A! Loved it! Part 2 please😄
@CandyToyTwins7 жыл бұрын
Super cute couple!!!
@funjoy29987 жыл бұрын
Awesome Lovely couple, nice video, keep it up
@soulmobileofficial29407 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful Raya! Thank you
@linneaboren37627 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful video! Thanks a lot! :)
@javaromaa7 жыл бұрын
Hey can u guys name your first child Shinaya
@CherryyBombs7 жыл бұрын
when are you getting married? *zooms in on face* ahaha
@fatima-zr4tw7 жыл бұрын
Make the second part longer, please♡
@VeronicaLeroyEnglish7 жыл бұрын
You guys are so sweet ❤️ I hope you will make more videos together!
@Canyoudigityesyoucan7 жыл бұрын
Agreed take your time and build a life together. Lovely people congrats
@nevraelisaveta70097 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely video! You suit each other so well, you inspire the best in each other. When is your anniversary btw?💖💖😚😚
@nikolapincova3437 жыл бұрын
Cuteness overload!
@superfancyschmancy7 жыл бұрын
What a cute Q&A :)
@laurenmorris.55787 жыл бұрын
You guys are cute.I love you Raya💖💖💖💖
@ODIATechnical7 жыл бұрын
Ahh I am yet to find my girl
@megangottschalk89627 жыл бұрын
Love this video!! :)
@VanillaTwilight20177 жыл бұрын
Aww you two make my heart warm❤
@KA7IIV6 жыл бұрын
I would like to offer my services, if you two ever do decide to make the big plunge into marriage. I am an ordained minister in the Seattle area and will be more that happy to do the deed. You both have the best videos on the KZfaq system, by the way. Cheers.
@tmj5girl7 жыл бұрын
you met your mirror soul which is called twin flame