When does a friendship become an emotional affair?

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Emotional Affairs: Where’s the line? In this clip from the Lust is Boring podcast, Jason Evert and Dr. Bob Schuchts discuss.
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@ThePossumone 2 жыл бұрын

Any time someone HIDES a relationship you need to worry - secrecy causes a lack of connection - and leads to feelings of betrayal and lack of trust

@teenatalk7120 2 жыл бұрын

Wouldn’t you think when it makes your gf feel uncomfortable it’s crossing a line

@miramarial 2 жыл бұрын

Interesting...Fidelity of the heart really needs guarding!

@stevenk-brooks3459 2 жыл бұрын

No one seems to worry about friendship between two women who share deep feeling, including discussing problems in their marriage. But if those same conversations occurred with someone of the opposite gender, it would be considered emotional infidelity. Somehow none of the videos on emotional affairs even discuss this.

@beegee5305 Жыл бұрын

Bc of the undercurrent of sexual and romantic tones.

@QS-si3cq Жыл бұрын

@@beegee5305 Those can happen between women as well 😄

@dennispalmer6007 10 ай бұрын

I think you have completely lost what happens in an Emotional Affair. There is a difference between friendship and affection or love.

@luludiamond1182 8 ай бұрын

What if the Heart was yours first, many years ago??

@JB-pd3ir 6 күн бұрын

You have a good point. Really the spouse should come first above family and friends but at the same time one should not be a couple n isolation either,

@brandonmoskos9149 5 ай бұрын

I am in an emotional affair. Fell right into it.

@Stephen_Jabs Жыл бұрын

Nice discussion, I am in this dire situation, Im trying to get over with a married woman, hopefully I could overcome this

@teenatalk7120 2 жыл бұрын

And hiding communication and even talking about his coworker when I am spending time with my bf

@silverhiver 3 жыл бұрын

This is such an interesting topic. Would love for you to have a chat with Jordan Peterson, would be cool to have him speak to a Catholic about God. Would be incredible if it could happen

@anna_makarchuk 3 жыл бұрын

Interesting insights. Thank you! 🙏

@kristidin1983 3 жыл бұрын

Thank YOU! Effing THANK YOU! 👏👏👏

@MichaGabriRaph19200 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Jason, Praise Jesus 🌿🌸.... This video you put up with Dr. Bob was a very interesting, sensitive and important topic. Unfortunately, the volume was quite low (especially for Dr. Bob) and we are losing the idea of this crucial message. I wish something could be done about the microphones and their volumes for the current video & the ones in future. May God be with you and Bless your Ministry Amen.🌺✝️🌈🕊️🔥

@frostfairyme 2 жыл бұрын

this is one of my principles...

@edwardnjuki2477 Жыл бұрын

Family to the actual senses it's spiritual and must comply in real fellowship.

@courtneyclinch376 Жыл бұрын

Some girls should watch this! Messaging my ex weeks before and after I gave birth Late at night Trying to hang out with him alone So wrong in my eyes

@jacquelinescott4557 Ай бұрын

So that would be an emotional affair.

@atruelovestoryneverendsforever 2 жыл бұрын

Please pray for all families and all the vocations, the grace we all need to be saint 🙏

@Ingrid0410 3 жыл бұрын

Good 👍my husband had an affair with a stripper lasted 5 Years she changed her number thankfully. I was devestated.it hurt my marriage to no end. Hubby was a porn addict I found out Shortly after we were married 35 Years ago

@likalika89 2 жыл бұрын

Much healing to you!

@SaystheTruth3 10 ай бұрын

Ouch....

@icysnow57cold64 11 ай бұрын

I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely to be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.

@sethtamburello5628 7 ай бұрын

You are so lost

@icysnow57cold64 7 ай бұрын

@@sethtamburello5628 There is a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, 1 in 7 women and 1 in 25 men have been injured by an intimate partner. More than 50,000 women a year are killed by their intimate partners - current or former husbands, boyfriends, or lovers. There is no corresponding number of men killed by female abusers. You're most likely to be harmed by a domestic partner. So being single is actually safer for everyone. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships is very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can affect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be happier being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.

@mikegrawvunder6346 Жыл бұрын

I understand what you are saying in this video. But what about when it has been a sexless marriage for over 14 years. And then your spouse has Alzheimer's and can no longer connect with you properly.